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I Am a Flirt

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    NikkiCope NikkiCope 13-15, F 20 Responses Apr 16

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    I kind of am a flirt I guess?

    Idk. I don't think I flirt a lot but like, I do try to talk to everyone and be attentive with the people I talk to. XD so i guess I am a flirt?
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    I am a happily married man (I feel I need to

    say that for some strange reason). However, I suspect I'll never lose the desire to flirt. There is a certain buzz associated with a conversation that involves an acknowledgement on both sides that an attraction exists. As a happily married man (back there again!), I'm not...
    sowerbys sowerbys 46-50, M 6 Responses May 17

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    I just tend to flirt with a lot of people.

    Any age or gender (With the exception of children, of course). I flirt without realizing it. I smile a lot, do a ton of flattery, etc. Best thing about being single; I can flirt without caring.
    ReykjaviktoZurich ReykjaviktoZurich 18-21, F 9 Responses May 25

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    Countrygirlxoxoxoxo Countrygirlxoxoxoxo 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 5

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    I am guilty of this..

    .I am a flirt and I love it/NOT ASHAMED. The playfulness is fun as long as you know when it's appropriate =P
    Lea109 Lea109 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 8

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    I love to flirt. I do it most of the time.

    I would like to take the flirting one step further.
    indibull69 indibull69 46-50, M Jun 30

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    sweetlanie sweetlanie 22-25, F 14 Responses Jun 11

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    I looooove to flirt when I'm like with my girls

    at the mall, and I see like a cute guy. I know I'll probably never see them again so it's like why not? I just do a little hair flip, put on a cute smile, and go at it. Its fun so I don't see why not.
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    Gothicemogirl Gothicemogirl 18-21, F 7 Responses May 6

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    I think I flirt all the time

    even when I'm trying to just be nice to someone
    litzz litzz 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    Now that I'm single again,

    my flirtatious side is slowly reemerging. So watch out! 😁😁😁
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Behindmyhazeleyes13 Behindmyhazeleyes13 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Much more so with girls

    than guys. I'll leave them alone if they're straight or taken, but if they're non-hetero, hoo boy ....
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Not a cheater though.

    .. i've learnt my lesson. i flirt quite a lot and although its completely harmless and normal at my age i feel like its not such a great thing. My question is, what constitutes cheating, because if harmless flirting does then i have some serious fixing that needs to be done...
    Dimples411 Dimples411 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    whatyathinkaboutthat whatyathinkaboutthat 36-40, F 16 Responses 4 days ago

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    onionheart16 onionheart16 26-30, F 23 Responses a week ago

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    I kind of like to flirt with people closer to

    my age. don't like it when people under 30-35 try to flirt. seems to happen on EP a lot.
    BBWabby BBWabby 56-60, F 22 Responses Apr 25

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    I like to flirt, for me,

    it's usually just harmless fun. Sometimes I don't even realise I am doing it. It's not always in a romantic way either, or because I want to be romantically involved with someone. Sometimes I flirt to make friends.
    TheAmber TheAmber 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    CESARR7 CESARR7 16-17, M Jun 19

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    Or so I'm told. I recently found out(via my gf)

    that I flirt with almost all my female friends. I guess that's a bad thing. I try not to flirt with anyone but her. It's fun when I do it right. :p
    FallenPride FallenPride 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    Im a natural flirt, i flirt with everyone,

    i dont even do it on purpose. I flirted with my bestfriends boyfriend unintentionally....they broke up. I flirt with every boy i talk to.
    adorablegamer adorablegamer 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 26

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    I've always had a very flirty personality.

    By lately people keep mistaking it and end up asking me out/thinking I like them and they like me. Obviously I say no because I don't feel that way and then they get upset :s I hate it and need to change, but I can't help it! It's who I am!/: should I change?!
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 16-17, F 13 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Um... in my dreams. I really am hopeless at it.

    I find that I am accidentally flirting with the wrong people... I just flash a smile and cleavage at the WRONG person. I do it by accident and it gets me int trouble. I never know when someone is interested. They have to spell it out for me, and look at me like I am mildly...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 27

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    Im A Flirt

    i flirt with guys my own age, but i have to admit its much more fun with older men..may sound crazy, but married men seem to be the best at flirting!
    oRACHELo oRACHELo 18-21, F 18 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Idk but for some reason I love it

    when girls who have boyfriends still flirt with me I find it so hot , I'm 16 n British check my pic n pop up
    azzalewis azzalewis 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    I wish I knew how to flirt,

    I'm just so bad at it lol. Any advice?
    justalittlegirl21 justalittlegirl21 18-21, F 11 Responses May 4

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    If She Knew Me

    If she knew me, She'd know the world, Could literally Be seen by her heart Heard by her senses, Seen by her mind. I'd love to let her know, How much I could be, Without showing off, How much I can, And believe. Even when we seem darkest, We awaken to the loneliness Finding...
    PureGoodSoul PureGoodSoul 26-30, M Nov 25, 2012

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    farahparkin farahparkin 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I'm just Lying here, trying to find myself.

    . I get behind myself, I need to rewind myself, a couple of lyrics from one of kid rocks song.. That's me right now just wondering when I will find my one and only.. But hey I'm still a flirt though!!!
    mckddy mckddy 36-40, M Jun 23

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    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 70+, F 5 Responses May 25

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    I'm a flirt its true.

    I can't help it. It just comes natural. It just happens with out me even knowing. Flirting is fine as long as your not cheating.
    Hugsandkisses2621 Hugsandkisses2621 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 24

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    I love to flirt even

    though I'm not interest in that person particularly . It's kinda fun not gonna lie.
    LittleMissUnknown LittleMissUnknown 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 24

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    Flirting For Fun Only

    I wasn't sure what I could write about this, it's just a fact about me. I flirt with everyone, men, women, although the latter not in a sexual way of course. I like people to feel good about themselves and a bit of harmless flirting is usually a good way to achieve that. I will...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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    Anyone wanna send me a massage

    so we can have some fun???
    starglaze124 starglaze124 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    elle2122 elle2122 36-40, F 18 Responses Jan 27

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    Me: 😏 girl are you a banana cause I find you

    appealing 🍌 Girl: OMG! Omg I love you marry me! 😂 Me: 😏 exactly as planned
    Tyler8432 Tyler8432 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I am a major flirt but im a heartless one.

    I don't like the people i flirt with and sometimes that gets me in trouble. I get negative comments about it to but i ignore them cause i really dont care what people think about me :).
    verox3 verox3 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Got to admit, I love to flirt,

    message me if you want
    ThatGuyMTL ThatGuyMTL 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    httpKelly httpKelly 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 7

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    I have to admit it's fun haha

    but the girls ag it on haha but there's nothing wrong with having a good time!!! :)
    Bigdog1982 Bigdog1982 22-25, M May 11

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    Not going to lie, I flirt with anyone (male

    or female) if I feel comfortable with them. I'm straight but I do it without knowing it :D
    AnonymousAdviser AnonymousAdviser 16-17, F 11 Responses Jun 18

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    i already know that am a flirt,

    but just with my partner :D em a bi by the way. she once told me the time we cuddled that i'm so provocative and i always tend to seduce her :D she's also a flirt one, but just with words :D the way she flirts physically is that she just hug me tight and kissed me to the cheeks...
    whatthehellE whatthehellE 18-21, F May 9

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    Flirting is awesome especially with them white

    boys. YUM. The more hardcore they look the more flirtatious i get. So if they have frick loads of piercings, tattoos, and look all dark and mysterious and stuff. HA. prepare to be flirted up! ^_^ I get naturally flirtatious around white dudes i can't help it, i think i should...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    When I start talking to a man I complement

    and talk nicely to him with a smile as my voice become higher-pitched and softer than usual while I stare at him for a long time. I don't do that on purpose or to get something from them, I do that because it's my nature, therefore I can't control the way I talk to men.I'm...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    apparently being friendly

    and polite is now equivalent to being a flirt, seriously people? come one, just cause I'm polite doesn't mean I'm flirting with you
    JustBelle JustBelle 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 27

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    Did the just sun come out

    or did you just smile at me? :)
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    When someone looks at me they'd never guess I was a flirt.. Probably because I'm shy as hell, and tend to stay away from people.. But in reality, when I start talking, I just...
    SwimmingDarkness SwimmingDarkness 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am just terrified that I will hurt my partner somehow. We have been together for two years and I have an awful flirting curse. I flirted with my cousin and I knew (I KNEW) it was...
    AmarieSkyFlower AmarieSkyFlower 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't even want to come across as a flirting type. And sometimes if maybe when I said something, I wonder if,to others, it could've been considered flirting. But just in case, I...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a flirt even when I try not to flirt I flirt it just comes natural
    Haybaylove Haybaylove 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I think I do it so much that I don't even realize it anymore. When I was in middle school and into my Sophomore year, I was aware of my body and my pretty face. I learned early...
    HotBoxDatRocks HotBoxDatRocks 22-25, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Teasing and flirting to me, can be better than actual sex. With that in mind, on here, you can only share pictures or stories... same with texting or any of the messaging services...
    dcisme dcisme 41-45, M Jun 29

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