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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this

    week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known his family most of my life. I was asked by my mother -in-law to pass along a card for his ex-wife to the kids he has from his previous marriage...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    I just don't get it. I have tried my entire life to be someone my adoptive mother will like. Everything I did up until a couple years ago was for her. For her benefit. Not for...
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    I hate my situation. I hate everything about what is going on lately. I'm stressed out, burnt out, just so bored with the same old complaints, the same old problems. Another...
    cbnfvr cbnfvr 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Wtf!! So one if my younger brothers was still in bed at like 1 something and so he didn't come down when my mom called for lunch, so she was like "Well it's ok he's been so busy he...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    When no one gets me, or what I'm trying to say, I get really frustrated. I usually get mad, and walk off to blow off steam.
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F Jan 5

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    This is a lengthy post I am about to write and am doing so mainly out of desperation just to vent how I am feeling at this moment because I am drowning in a sea of unhealthy...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 26-30, F Jan 6

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    Frustrated is a euphemism. I am fed up. No one listens to me. Ever. I have been through some ****. And I learned a lot from it, and I try to help people, try to tell them or warn...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Im so frustrated with people right now. Why is it that people always doubt me. i may not be smartest, or the fastest, or the strongest, or the richest, or the best looking, but...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Jan 12

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    I'M a Pisces woman deeply n love,with an Aquarius man. we've been friends and friends with benefits for a lil over 5 years. and I'M completely frustrated with him. one minute I...
    smittenkitten2015 smittenkitten2015 26-30, F Jan 14

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    No matter how much I do is never enough... Feeling demotivated and frustrated :((
    ShanaiyaGrey ShanaiyaGrey 22-25, F Jan 20

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    frustrated with my ex..I just don't understand what the hell u are thinking. how do things make sense in ur head???? I just dont get it.
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    They say try not to suppress or ignore frustration will only make it worse, often causing us to magnify whatever complaint we have against who ever or what ever frustrated us. In...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi. This won't be an easy one. I'm 37 years old, and have been married for over 16 years. My wife and I have three girls, 16, 12 and 10. I have not been a loyal husband, but up...
    Betruetoyourpath Betruetoyourpath 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Sometimes I hate being a second wife. I know for a fact that his mother likes his first wife better, she has told me that his first wife is beautiful and I'm ugly. She even...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    roxdemon roxdemon 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I like my wife cheating on me in the beginning and later I feel jealous. I also find myself insecure and started to love my wife more and more.
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    Back when we first met, my wife took a job as a waitress in a Mexican restaurant. Her uniform was sexy as hell, short red skirt and black tights. One of her co workers wore...
    Garraway Garraway 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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