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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this

    week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known his family most of my life. I was asked by my mother -in-law to pass along a card for his ex-wife to the kids he has from his previous marriage...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Arrrrrrgh can't take this anymore.. my sex life with the wife is now basically zero ....flirted with the Mrs all day paid her compliments told her what I wanted to do to her...
    pmax2000 pmax2000 31-35, M Mar 29

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    Today my wife get mad about me wanting to buy a gift for my sons friend birthday party since I was going to go and get my son some shoes I was just going to buy the girl a gift. My...
    justcantgetitright justcantgetitright 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'd love to see dachs333 wife playing with herself
    watchmesuck watchmesuck 51-55, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My wife Bonnie passed away from a very rapid form of cancer 7 months ago, Sept.23rd 2014, after being diagnosed only 52 days earlier. As devastating as her death was at the time...
    ronzbee ronzbee 61-65, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I knew a friend for a very long time and he's a male. We have known for almost seven years. We were in the same primary and secondary school. He wasn't quite adapted to the...
    colourflame colourflame 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I'm brand new. I live in western Mass. I'm on tonight because I'm trying to deal with a wife, who cheated odn me. The pain I feel is intesne. 21 year marriage and were young, She...
    theworstfeeling theworstfeeling 51-55, M Apr 4

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    My Marine is 0311 Infantry and he just graduated from ITB in March. We went to high school together in Southern California, and we were both set on the idea that he would be...
    thatgirldro thatgirldro 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Dear Loved One, You quit your job and I supported it, I was tired of feeling the pressure of being in control of your money and having to hear about it after work; criticized. You...
    TwoGypsies TwoGypsies 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I've been grouchy and mad all day since after school, I keep on getting in trouble for it from my stepdad, I don't know, they keep saying I'm having an attitude and I agree but I...
    SleepIsLife321 SleepIsLife321 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    So I was just at school, all my teachers are annoying. The bipolar one, menopausal one, pregnant one, and just plain annoying one with no excuses. Then I had practice, that was...
    rayneboez rayneboez 13-15, F Apr 7

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    OUTRAGE IS NOT AN OPTION FOR MOOD, BUT THAT IS EXACTLY THE WAY I FEEL AT THIS MOMENT. I have almost always tried to do the right thing. Most of the time my conscience won't let...
    BrokeBandit BrokeBandit 36-40, F Apr 10

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    I'd probably get out more, if I didn't allow the inconsiderate and idiotic things that people do frustrate me so much. I was sitting on the train listening to some good music when...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been on here for seven and a half years now, hard to believe I have been here that long! but I am not a big fan of the changes I have seen in the last while to EP....I was...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I. Mutual duties of husband and wife. 1. The husband and wife owe each other love, since marriage is principally a union of heart and affection. The qualities of this love are: (a...
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I am a married man, who has been having an affair with a married woman for 3 years. I am not leaving my wife, and nor is she leaving her husband. Neither one of us are IN love with...
    ChurchKei ChurchKei 31-35 5 days ago

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    When I first met my wife, she wore the dresses and occasionally pantyhose. Over the years though, it became clear that she was the more dominant spouse. Her career combined with...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Lost. Sad. Heartbroken. Confused. Angry. I'm not really sure what the future holds. I love my wife with everything that I have, every part of my spirit. We both have made...
    UndisputedTruth UndisputedTruth 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Hmm not sure if I love it but it's a lot better than sharing a house with a cold woman. For the first few years of our marriage I just used my wife for sex and she let me thinking...
    mike541 mike541 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    As you know, I found some pics of my wife in her cell... they were sent by his coworkers. I finally talk to her and she told me she was fuc**d several time that night before I...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know how it went so wrong so fast but I feel like im the only one that actually gets it .My wife and I have been together for 16 years high school sweet hearts. We have two...
    outofit420 outofit420 26-30, M Mar 22

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    Recently I started feeling more and more like moving forward with the things that make me happy and excites me such as piercing my ears or buying some new stilettos. But The truth...
    Danairis Danairis 46-50, T 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Want to talk women into seducing my wife. want to talk to women behind my wife's back to ask them to sleep with my wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M Mar 24

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    i love my wife..coz..my wife always support for me..and..am proud to my wife
    manomona manomona 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I actually find it kind of distasteful. No offense to anyone who does it. But, I'd hate it if I found out man was sending his friends pictures of me, or swapping pictures of me...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    Yesterday I got told at my job, that I really love, that probably I'll have to quit soon, because of my impulsive emotional behaviour, which doesn't come in handy when you're a...
    NHKK NHKK 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yesterday my wife and I went to the coffee shop where the girl I like frequents. She was disappointed we didn't see her. So I've won my wife around to me having something with this...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My wife dresses me in her clothes sometimes. How many other wifes do this?
    crazyluke crazyluke 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I want a lesbian to marry my wife. please join us and make love only to my wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M Mar 23

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    I was over joyed when my wife came out as lesbian. she dates women but stays with me. or did before she left me for her lesbian wife.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I found this pic of my wife in her cellphone.I remember that day I arrived late from work (around 11pm) and she had dinner with her friends of work.She bought food and they ate...
    Merovingiox Merovingiox 26-30, M 16 Responses Mar 24

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    So, yesterday I took the day off for a Dr appointment. My wife asked me to clean some leaves around our airconditioner and pool pump. No problem. I didn't do it because it rained...
    shadowplt shadowplt 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I met my man 30 yrs ago. Lost touch with my friends from back then until my divorce. I started dating him 6 months after his wife died. His wife took her own life. We have been...
    2findmyfit 2findmyfit 41-45, F Mar 31