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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

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    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 3 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this

    week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known his family most of my life. I was asked by my mother -in-law to pass along a card for his ex-wife to the kids he has from his previous marriage...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    MarchasFun MarchasFun 41-45, M 1 Response May 6

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    If things don't get better, I'm moving to another state just to get away from my boyfriend and start a new life. We have been living together 3 years and he has put no effort into...
    arbosslady arbosslady 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    last week we took a trip. we were gone for a week and while we were gone we had a guy house sit for us to take care of the pets. this guy used to be married to a friend of ours...
    Goinpublic Goinpublic 31-35, M 1 Response May 22

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    So at the end of our 2nd leg of our motorcycle ride, we go to our hotel room. Slide the card in the reader, open the door and am instantly assaulted by the fumes. Housekeeping...
    MrFoolery MrFoolery 41-45, M May 10

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    I don't know why exactly but I am. I can feel it in my chest. Like I'm on the verge of tears. Frustrated by life and what i know I cannot control. By people and their choices...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 3 Responses May 7

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    So frustrated!!!! Can't seem to reach my goal!! Working harder and harder!! The frustration builds in my throat choking me! Sucking the life out of me! Keep going I tell myself...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F May 20

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    I get frustrated because I have a son that I don't want knowing I'm a gay guy who wears diapers. so I play liking girls when I really don't. I'm a guy who loves to have **** in me...
    diaperedbottomboy diaperedbottomboy 26-30, M May 22

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    I Am So Frustrated With Him. Like He Puts Up This Wall To Just Block Me Out. I Don't Know About Him. Maybe I Need To Quit While I'm Ahead . Maybe He Doesn't Want A Relationship...
    DeeplyLoved43 DeeplyLoved43 16-17, F a week ago

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    I say stupid things when im frustrated or upset ive lost so many friends cause of it. I wish i didnt. Its just impulse. So many good friends lost :'(.
    Kourtneycota Kourtneycota 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi everybody, hope all you agree with me how difficult to hide feminism being male. This is a real incident how I was caught unaware by my wife with my anklets on. After my...
    gm2707 gm2707 22-25, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    this is my dream which is going to come true . my wife's best friend is very sweet and sexy. the day i saw her on our wedding i have been dreaming bout her. my wife knows about...
    Youngheartman Youngheartman 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So my wife's weight seems to be slowly creeping up still but she seems to be somewhat in denial. She will often just say she is "really healthy" meaning she is not a stick or that...
    nankdatank nankdatank 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Five years ago I married the love of my life. I can still recall the exact moment I first saw her as if it were yesterday. As I entered the doors of our on campus coffee shop my...
    WorkingOnIt WorkingOnIt 18-21, M 1 Response May 17

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    Sad but true. After 30+ years my secret is out. I left my personal gmail account open on the computer. Before bed last night she looked at the computer, glanced at my email and...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have no idea who I am more upset at. My husband (soon to be ex-husband) or his ex wife from 10 years. They both have a son, he is 15 years old. I understand that they have to...
    ru31 ru31 70+, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Spent 2 straight days painting the rooms of the house with the wife. No fights, just painting, music and food with my best friend....my wife.
    ncfootguy ncfootguy 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I'm a pastor's wife. Just recently a woman came to our church, who just recently received her ministers lic. She is very sweet, loves the Lord, and has a burning passion to help...
    DAJ1 DAJ1 56-60, F 1 Response May 5

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    The first thing I did when I joined experienceproject was look at the stories of people leaving their wives and kids, because that's what I did. Most of the stories were about some...
    anoniMitty anoniMitty 22-25, M 1 Response May 7

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    my wife just love's sissifing me I am normally forced to wear a pink training bra pink Barbie doll dress a pink size 4 little girls panties pink ballerina shoes and made to hold my...
    subsissy1989 subsissy1989 26-30, M 2 Responses May 8

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    This morning I woke up to my step son yelling at my wife. When I told him to stop the attitude and be more respectful to his mother, he runs to her and says I'm mean to him. Then...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    I actually have both a wife and a husband my wife is actually my adoptive black sister my husband is also black and they are going to help me become a black woman because I begged...
    sexkittenmax sexkittenmax 18-21, T 1 Response May 11

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    On Monday I've booked an appointment where that nice young lady who flirted with me works. I've told my wife she is coming with me and must dress up. I can't wait for my wife to...
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    Fellas! The wife tells me theres a book on amazon called Vanessa's Confessions. It's about husband who likes to hear about his wife's sexual past during sex. She recently...
    hardbernard hardbernard 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    I lost my wife to cancer, today making it 2years, i just can't wait to be with her again, my whole world crushed with her, now I'm let with pieces. My whole life became a shadow...
    Kisonas Kisonas 41-45, M 1 Response May 19

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    I'm planning another trip to Cancun with my wife in July. I'm buying my wife a couple of sheer bikinis. Like I said in my other post, she only does things like that when she is...
    Guyvaca Guyvaca 41-45, M 2 Responses May 19

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    Pse comment on my pictures. Maybe I can convince the wife to pose for some more. Do not be shy to say what you would like to do to my wife. Do not be vulgar or degrading. She is a...
    booblover52 booblover52 61-65, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 17 hrs ago

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    On Saturday night I ****** my wife in front of a crowd of men and I hardly noticed them as I was so enjoying my wife's body and seeing her let go.
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    My wife gets excited after reading stories from others (guys, gals, couples) about how they enjoy her pictures and what they would do with her, but she really gets wet after...
    HotWife3000 HotWife3000 41-45, M May 2

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    I touched another lady down there at the swingers club and I can honestly say I LOVE my wife's fat cake! It's so beautiful soft and moist and delectable!
    Katakuna Katakuna 46-50, M May 3

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    I bought a big ***** for my wife
    frenchguy32 frenchguy32 31-35, M 2 Responses May 3

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    My wife is a hot milf. Is she sexy ?
    frenchguy32 frenchguy32 31-35, M 4 Responses May 3

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