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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    As above my wife has Multiple Sclerosis that is in a progressive stage, she is totally disabled now, requires feeding etc, we no longer have a sexual relationship due to her...
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    My wife died on Oct 2nd 2014. She had been in the hospital some June 14 after delivering our stillborn child. She suddenly became very sick and went into a coma for 2 weeks. After...
    Swright0525 Swright0525 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    My husband's son from first wife is interfering our marriage. He keeps saying i don't do anything, treated like a princess. I don't help with my income. What is his stupid problem...
    frustratedlady frustratedlady 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I feel frustrated because I honestly told this guy after looking at his photo that I didn't find him attractive but how people always look different in their photos. First he said...
    whoateyourheart whoateyourheart 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    My husband wants to go see a Realtor to see houses which I know we cannot afford right now but that doesn't stop him, but so wants to go do this, so I go downstairs to exercise...
    Tiffany772 Tiffany772 31-35 1 Response Oct 1

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    I'm feeling frustrated and I don't know why. I feel missplaced, weird, sad, exhausted, embarrassed....
    cheekyhannah cheekyhannah 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 4

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    I'm feeling frustrated and I don't know why. I feel missplaced, weird, sad, exhausted, embarrassed....
    cheekyhannah cheekyhannah 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    Am so frustrated and fed up. I want to write Desktop GUI Application in Java but I don't know how to implement my knowledge in it. I am 43, in business and can't go to training...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M Oct 7

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    So I having another one of my "research binges". I'll spend hours just looking up different things, trying to find out what, if anything, is wrong with me. I usually start with one...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Very, very, very frustrated.
    Matthews14 Matthews14 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate being misunderstood and I always get frustrated because of it. I will try and explain and get angry if the other person won't listen to me.
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Okay, so today was supposed to be the first day of an 8 week math class I am taking. It started at 10:00, and I totally knew that, but for some reason, this morning I as thinking...
    CassidyyyNicoleee9 CassidyyyNicoleee9 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just want to use this platform to vent out my inner thoughts.  I lived an excellent life with my wife and kids.  I was the only person in my family who was well settled...
    smarty75 smarty75 31-35, M Oct 7

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    The Dog The other day my wife was off work for a change and later that day my 20 year old step son (her natural son) was coming back from China where he spent his summer vacation...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 4 Responses Sep 26

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    Texting the wife about sex. She gets so hot when I come up with stories that she's laying on her back with blindfold on and I have sexy lady sneak in and help me rub her down. she...
    fun546blue fun546blue 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Me and my wife have considered another man for some time now last week she met some one at her school She seams to get a long with him vary well so one nite she tolled me he...
    Ny147 Ny147 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    As I sit here right now while my wife has gone grocery shopping for the family I think about how blessed I am to have the best wife in the world. We met under somewhat strange...
    handytim59 handytim59 51-55, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Since I was about 12, I have dreamed about being a wife, things I would do for my husband, and things he would do for me, wearing sexy lingerie for him, and doing other things...
    ashliemarie01 ashliemarie01 31-35, T Oct 5

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    Letter To My Wife Nazim Hikmat.. 11-11-1933 Bursa Prison My one and only! Your last letter says: "My head is throbbing, my heart is stunned!" You say: "If they hang you, if I...
    Pheroswife Pheroswife 41-45, F Sep 25

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    I'm 24, and yes I wanted to be a wife. Not only a wife but the best and the most understanding wife for him. I have so much love, passion, care and kindness to offer for my future...
    IAMPINAY IAMPINAY 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I have been in a domestic partnership with my love for years. We have two children together. Just for clarification we are a straight couple and unmarried. His brother's wife is...
    alora236 alora236 22-25, F Sep 28

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    I like to watch my wife spread her legs. Sometimes she does it at home while it is just the two of us and at other times while we are in public. She likes to do it in front of our...
    drlesmoore drlesmoore 56-60, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    Just some advice, there are guys out there who might try and steal your wife from you. Sometime in early July we were walking through the hospital, we are there a lot for...
    Garraway Garraway 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 4

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    Being a second (or third) wife to a man that already has a family is like being a mistress. You never feel like a wife. He already has or had one. She's family. You are replaceable...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want to stay at home, clean, cook, and make it a welcoming place for my man to come home to. I am in College so I feel like it would be a waste to be a house wife but it is...
    wiccanwoman1994 wiccanwoman1994 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 24

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    My wife cheated on me and lied about it for years. I used to ask her all the time and she denied it. I found out by calling her bluff years later she did do it (she admitted it...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 24

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    Me, my wife, her best friend and her boyfriend went on a weekend trip together to a secluded house with a pond. We all went swimming and before you know it all...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I have over 100 internet friends (usually husbands) and we like share wifes pics - could resend Your wife to my over 100's friends :)
    annjashusband annjashusband 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 30

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    Well....I am a soon to be truckers wife, my husband of 8 years woke up and decided that he no longer wanted to be an electrician, but wanted to become a truck driver. He talked...
    sadrich1 sadrich1 26-30, F Sep 30

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    They had only dated for a few months before getting married. They were married for a year and a half before she left him for a woman. She moved her new girlfriend into their house...
    SoapBoxKid SoapBoxKid 26-30 1 Response Oct 8

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    My wife and I have a great sex life but recently invited another male into are bed it's very exciting but scary am I wrong to let another man enjoy my wife
    raiderfan51 raiderfan51 46-50, M 12 Responses Oct 9

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    Ive never met anyone i could tell EVERYTHING, and i mean ANYTHING, ive never met anyone who told me EVERYTHING, ive never met anyone whos idea of a good time, was making sure "I...
    AntonioV AntonioV 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I do have a girlfriend but not a wife. Even tho we are not married I still call her my wife. If anyone wants any pictures of her then please feel free to message me as I'm more...
    10KalHill 10KalHill 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 11

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    I love my wife 2 much... No one can imagine it.. Though v fight some time but most of the the time v hv fun even in fighting... I think your wife should be your best friend..
    dukedom4ever dukedom4ever 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 11

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    We were in a shoestore and I lifted her socked foot to my lap and began tickling. She was cracking up as a lady walked around the corner and commented how cute it was. I held my...
    Miked43 Miked43 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    I spend most of my days dressed as a maid now. My day usually consists of taking care of the house and seeing to my wife's needs. She is a career woman and the breadwinner in our...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i love allto see my wife pics..amalone for working in barcelona anyone can help her for ************
    hottarab hottarab 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    So after I caught my wife and confronted her, I continued to monitor her, and found that she was continuing her relationship with her lover. I confronted her and she wanted to...
    scootter01 scootter01 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 21