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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    I'm so frustrated with everything.... I'm frustrated about how I feel; about how I act; about how I treat myself; about how no matter what I do, I can't seem to get even a tiny bit...
    gybe gybe 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm writing here to vent. I'm very frustrated. I met my wife back in November of last year. We dated and I proposed in Feb of this year. We moved in together in May and got...
    AVeryNiceguy34 AVeryNiceguy34 36-40, M Nov 20

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    I don't believe that my wife is telling the truth. I've asked her if my pen1s size is a problem for her, but she always says that it doesn't matter. I don't believe her though...
    TinyPecker5 TinyPecker5 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well, first of all having a job that doesn't involve me have ownership makes me frustrated. "Job" in general is something I don't exactly want....more on the need. Anyway, one of...
    Lovleyes Lovleyes 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I get frustrated yes, but not at the person who doesn't understand me. I always get frustrated with myself. I pride myself on being able to put things in words and when I fail to...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I don't think I can last another year! This man ****** me off beyond belief! Who thinks it's okay to tell his wife,"who gives a ****..." Ever time she tries talking to him about...
    WarriorPrincess862 WarriorPrincess862 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    My Gorgeous Fiance is Currently on his way back from his first deployment of 2/3 months! yes we are truly excited as its just before christmas and he's got a months leave, but at...
    BuffaloGirlUK BuffaloGirlUK 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    My man is healing so slow and we don't know if he would be healed before the baby comes and the baby might come early and I'm so frustrated of all this waiting for him because it's...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Nov 27

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    Recently I am being frustrated by one douche bag..I know this guy bcoz he is my friends school buddy. I never met him..I just saw his face in their school photograph.He knows me...
    MaddyBale MaddyBale 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    There's a cold virus going around and it sounds like my mother has it. She makes everything ten times worse than it is, so went to A&E. They couldn't find anything wrong as it...
    knottyknitty knottyknitty 31-35, F Dec 8

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    I am frustrated that I am intentionally trying to help with no intention of gaining anything in return but somewhere along the lines, I am vaguely told something that leads me down...
    city87 city87 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    So frustrated. Though I get what I want and need from that special person. I don't get to see them like I want. So. I can't get it when I want exactly. And I was his first so. He's...
    PandaHavenWTH PandaHavenWTH 18-21, F Dec 10

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    You may mess up, but you are not a mess up. You may make a mistake, but you are not a mistake. You may screw up, but you are not a screw up. You may fail, but you...
    torr62 torr62 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    it's been one of those days. maybe I'm just pmsing. idfk. I just keep getting more and more frustrated, agitated, and it makes me reclusive. it makes me think...**** it. **** it...
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband has a child with a woman who still has deep feelings for him. It's been over two years and she knew about me when they had this child. ( which is a long story in itself...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    30 RULES FOR MEN 1. Don’t ever beat your wife for any reason.Prov. 19:11, Prov. 20:3 2. Don’t ever forget that your wife is your greatest asset. Prov. 12:4, Prov. 18:22 3. Don...
    Joseharde Joseharde 31-35, M a week ago

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    Being a maid for your wife doesn't always mean you will be dressed like a sissy. In fact, my wife recently asked me to look for a proper maid uniform online, in the event that her...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Nov 27

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    My wife is considering having her sister stay with us for awhile since she's going through a hard time right now. That made me a little nervous at first, so I asked her if I would...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Nov 24

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    Before we get married, we have had chances to meet each other thrice or four time between engagement and wedding. She shared so many things about her and her life and her family...
    esskayindian4u esskayindian4u 36-40 19 hrs ago

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    One evening my wife and i were sitting in the living room with an old neighbor that happened to come and visit. I had already mentioned to my wife that i would like watching her be...
    Strms Strms 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 2

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    A long story spread over about 10 years so i'll keep it short. My wife is divorcing me on the grounds of abuse. I've never physically hurt her btw. For those years she and my...
    johnpbatchelor johnpbatchelor 41-45, M Dec 8

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    Hi, Sorry I'm not a cheating wife but thought you guys could help, A few weeks ago I was on my wife's iPad, when I looked at her Facebook I noticed she'd been searching the...
    confusedhubby123 confusedhubby123 31-35, M 6 Responses Dec 8

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    Yesterday my wife came home around 9:30 PM. I was already in my maid uniform, a short French Maid Dress matched with a pair of black high heels and silk pantyhose. When she came in...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Dec 10

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    We have a fantasy about shopping. The idea is to chose a man who will go shopping with my wife for a couple of hours. During that time they will go to the shops he chose and he...
    nenalola nenalola 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My wife is at most 5 ft tall...she's a little more curvy now (expected after giving birth to two kids) than she was a few years ago. She's the perfect "size" for me, so much...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    Our last child was born a couple years ago and since then my wife has been consistently hitting the gym working out, doing cardio, lifting, Zumba, etc. She's quite proud of...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M Nov 22

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    We have been married for 13yrs but one thing I have concluded is that in every thing I do my wife is always looking for something that is not right and she forgets the effort...
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    Hi, I'm 66 years old man who has recently lost my wife of a 22 year marriage to cancer after she had a 10 month battle with this rotten disease, so now there's a big hole in my...
    WilliamTell100 WilliamTell100 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 24

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    About a month ago, my beautiful girlfriend and I got married. It was the best day of my life. I am 29 and Sophie is 26. My new wife, Sophie has always disliked the way she looks...
    nigelhemfield nigelhemfield 26-30, M Nov 30

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    My wife hates her body. I understand why. She has more than one autoimmune disease. The end result is that she can gain weight (up to 30 lbs or so) in a few weeks. She also is...
    jd5659 jd5659 51-55, M Dec 5

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    I need to get this off my chest. My fiend and his wife have been married for 10 years. The have been together a lot longer. They got along great till they had there daughter...
    jf11mm jf11mm 46-50 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I am 29 years old and been married for almost two years. I married my wife when she was in college so didn't manage to live together (she lived in college hostel) since marriage...
    Rirchu Rirchu 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 8

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    My wife cheated on me with my best friend. I found out this morning when my friend admitted to sleeping with her, and showed me the pictures he took of her naked. When I confronted...
    gabe1982 gabe1982 31-35, M Dec 11

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    Another few pounds of pleasure!My wife now is a bit over of 100 kg, and we measured my wife today. Bosom is 121 cm (47.63 inches), waist is 117 cm (46 inches) and hips are 130 cm...
    yetanotherfeeder yetanotherfeeder 31-35, M a week ago

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    I am willing to share pics of my wife's hot body on Yahoo Instant Messenger with guys who will comment on her hard body. You can be nice to her or mean. My username is workout.wife...
    Leaslut Leaslut 18-21 4 days ago

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    My cross dressing started, as I think many do, with the purchase of one or two garments at a time, and now my wardrobe is full of feminine cloths. My wife is in full support but...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    My wife likes me dressed in collar and tie, suited and booted, shirt tucked in, and socks properly suspended. I love my wife laced up real tight in corsetry, a nice vintage...
    ledertal ledertal 51-55, M 1 Response 1 day ago