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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    My relationship with my wife has frustrated me more than any other relationship ever has, especially since I am expected to pay for everything she wants. I am so over the big ego...
    frustratedaussiehusband frustratedaussiehusband 36-40, M Aug 3

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    Well we were living separately in two different cities for the whole of 2009 and after being apart for so long I guess and being frustrated with me for not giving her enough...
    kicks2014 kicks2014 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    Single and very sexually frustrated. Gets very annoying to be this frustrated and needing release but self release isn't cutting it
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    So frustrated that i am shocked. Most kill when this frustrated. That explains my broken flyswatter.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I am extremely frustrated. After I post this story, I can provide a more detailed back story if this gets feedback at all.. Anyway, I've been kind of friends with this person for...
    lowellwolf lowellwolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Very frustrated. Something has been bugging me since last night and I decided to tell someone about it, just minutes ago (or about an hour, depending on how long I take to finish...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I distilled something about myself last night whilst playing chess with my fiance in a team together, against the computer. When I've made up my mind that something is the right...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M Jul 31

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    I am frustrated right now. I met this amazing guy yesterday and we exchanged last names so we could find each other on Facebook but unfortunately my charm addled brain didn't think...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am so frustrated that I am the person who does everything she can for family and friends, but I'm last on everyone's list. I know I should expect anything back, but someone...
    curlyjaz curlyjaz 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Im so fed up with my job. So frustrated that for now i Cant do anything about it. Ive been stuck in a place that i hate for so long that im so close to losing it.. Inconsiderate...
    eyeris2195 eyeris2195 18-21, F Aug 19

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    ...when am I not frustrated? Its probably wrong for me to say, but its annoying. I spend my sisters money. I asked. She could have said no. I know she had a problem with me...
    boredandreading boredandreading 18-21 Aug 20

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    The past week, has been the most draining week of my life. I've put so much of my time and energy into a relationship, that wasn't even worth it. And I'm so frustrated and hurt...
    match4me match4me 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I have been feeling so confused and lost. In high school I was involved in everything and was the valediction. Now I feel completely stuck. Due to money I had to leave the...
    MysticallyForbidden MysticallyForbidden 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was an Army Wife for 8 years, and I hated it. It's total sacrilege to say that and current Army Wives will totally rip you for saying it. You're supposed to be super proud to be...
    HouseholdSix HouseholdSix 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    The necklace My wife my 6 yr. old son and I went on vacation to Miami as we are leaving the beach one day we see a street vendor selling necklaces of sharks tooth. My six year old...
    alexedad alexedad 46-50 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I have fond memories of previous years with my wife, but in the last few months she doesn't want to help me with the simplest thing and we don't go have fun together either. We...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 17

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 18

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    "If in the dark we loose sight of love hold my hand and have no fear I will be here...as sure as seasons are made for change our lifetimes are made for years...I will be true to...
    rockypoly rockypoly 31-35, M Aug 13

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    Yes it all started five years ago when doing some shopings, i entered into a shoe shop and i saw a pair of red ballet flats in number 12! Of course i looked for an empty people...
    Bisbix Bisbix 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I don't really hate my wife. It's just that I don't love her like a wife any longer. She's just a roommate and we have a great division of labor. In our relationship, there's me...
    RoniHo RoniHo 51-55, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A friend of mine just got off on my wife's pic, what an awesome felling it was when he told me that he was getting off on her **** . And to top it up he sent me the pic of his...
    flex0712 flex0712 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    My wife has been on Prozac for (8) years. It is really bad when she decides not to take them anymore. The early years of marriage were good and we raised (3) great children whom...
    RIDJEMAN RIDJEMAN 56-60, M Aug 6

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    I've been married 13 years. Both my wife and I work. I work long hours 12 -16 a day and am gone a lot. Oil fields. My wife has started with the I'm tired excuse and lately it's...
    goodguy4455 goodguy4455 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Not True. I am ex- wife of a Navy man. Now, I am no one WIFE.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I recently bought my wife a QOS necklace. She has temp. tats and anklet but wanted something more visible when she needed it. We went to a local department store one evening to...
    dshby dshby 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    It took a while for my conservative wife, but i finally got her to be naughty, she is doing nice things......check her out in sexy wife!!!!!!
    ray2000 ray2000 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I've been married for 15 years now. My wife has endometriosis and I can't penetrate her because it hurts like hell. I make her ****** several times by rubbing my tool against her...
    Captain06 Captain06 41-45, M Aug 17

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    I hate the fact that I'm a second wife, seems like my husband has done everything that I want to do when he was married to his first wife. He reaction to most things are, " Been...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I want to move on from my wife of 15 years, GF of 2 years and other GF of 6 months. I just need the time to pursue my passion, sex, So I find nothing in common anymore except...
    liveitover liveitover 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Looking for someone to print out my wife's pictures and put them in places like truck stops, adult peep show booths, college campuses, bars, etc with my email address on them...
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Wife and I want to trade pics message me. We are 23. Wife is 5'2",135lbs, brunette.
    dnk1210 dnk1210 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 21

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    This is crazy, but a couple girlfriends and I pretty much started this group like 6 years ago!!! It's crazy to see how far the group has come. Too bad it wasn't a stock, because...
    NatATTACK NatATTACK 22-25 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really wish my wife would take charge in the bedroom and bring and introduce think I'm over always being the one to iniate it and try new things etc how can I get my wife to take...
    toadau toadau 26-30, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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