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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 4 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 3 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I am frustrated right now. I met this amazing guy yesterday and we exchanged last names so we could find each other on Facebook but unfortunately my charm addled brain didn't think...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I am a divorce attorney who has represented women and men in countless cases. based on my observations, there are certain truths about marriage and divorce. 1. Marriage is a...
    divorceatty divorceatty 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

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    My wife and I are hardly talking because of her relationship with a boyfriend she used to have 20 years ago. This boyfriend was her very first in all regards and I know is very...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    My wife has told me about her past experiences with other men. She started doing this when we were dating. She has told me about being with two men at once and also being watched...
    Wifeswatcher Wifeswatcher 41-45, M 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I would like my wife to have an online affair with another man. This would really turn me on
    sportyboy sportyboy 46-50, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I would love my wife to have an online affair with another man and show him pics of herself
    sportyboy sportyboy 46-50, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Send me an email if you live in a frat house wifeshowheroff at yahoo dot com
    wifeshowheroff wifeshowheroff 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I've been married for 22 years! I have always been the bread winner. I feel my wife just takes me for granted. I work hard to make sure her and the kids( both adults now) have what...
    Friendly2470 Friendly2470 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Single and very sexually frustrated. Gets very annoying to be this frustrated and needing release but self release isn't cutting it
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    No. Frustrated is where you can't achieve your goal. What do you call it when anything you try and do is met with constant reflections on your performance? Constant dead ends to...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I get frustrated all the time because I can't get alone time and everyone I know jumps to conclusions about my life.
    augustblue augustblue 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Okay, I'm normally a really easy going person but over the past couple of months I've been extremely stressed out. I recently went on this vacation and I was hoping to come back...
    Susumu999 Susumu999 22-25, F Jul 9

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    I am frustrated! I hate being where i really am. It's just..this place can't accept homosexuals. It's hard for me to find girlfriends as long as i still live here. It's frustrating...
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F Jul 10

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    UGHHHH IM SO FRUSTRATED!!! I WISH I WERE AT FREAKING DISNEYLAND NOW!!!!! WHY ARENT I AT DISNEYLAND NOW!!! I FEEL LIKE THAT WOULD MAKE MY LIFE SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!
    st3ph3rzz st3ph3rzz 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm so frustrated right now, i can't even explain. Story cut short, someone promised me a ride this morning. we talked about it THIS MORNING. A few hours later i'm already late for...
    lizamorrie lizamorrie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Why am I so frustrated?!? All I want is for my friends to feel like they can talk to me. I don't even care about me anymore! I just want them to feel safe around me. What am I...
    ThatOneShipper ThatOneShipper 13-15, F Jul 13

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      Lmao Frustrateds one word. Amused never. 19 hours a day. Minus ninety minutes of rescued. Or five more hours of sleep a week.
    AlmostDiscarded AlmostDiscarded 46-50, M Jul 16

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    It sucks when you see people around you get a better job offer than you which you might thought why am I doing something that I was not really interested. We always have choices...
    Steve2186 Steve2186 26-30, M Jul 20

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    I did not know where to put this so I put it here.I am too strong to be frustrated but sometimes when people close to us do not understand that there is more to life than our small...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I love my husband but we are having problems right now. I'm working full time and going to school. He's having some time off to try to figure out what he wants to do with his life...
    britannagis britannagis 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I distilled something about myself last night whilst playing chess with my fiance in a team together, against the computer. When I've made up my mind that something is the right...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    This happened a while ago... I have been having this fantasy of seeing her with another man.. could never get it done... Have always used those visualizations during our love...
    stimulatingcouple stimulatingcouple 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
    mbb50 mbb50 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I finally got to watch my wife get a cut at the barbers It was awesome watching her sitting there getting a short boys cut by a barber and he really gave her a much shorter cut...
    blackcape blackcape 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    My ex wife and I have 3 kids. We share custody where we have alternating weeks with the kids. I pay child support and alimony. In addition to that i also pay for my two oldest...
    RichardHertz RichardHertz 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    We are married for 1.5 years. My wife a bengali sexy lady who loves sex very much. After a long nagging i hav managed my wife to get her shared with another man. I wanna try. If u...
    smazumder1984 smazumder1984 26-30, M 11 Responses Jul 14

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    I love my wife very much. I can do everything for my goddess wife. She always treat me like her slave and humilate me infront of others but I love her style and attitude. My...
    wifeslaveritesh wifeslaveritesh 26-30, M Jul 17

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    It is so hard being in your 40s. Everyone has so much past baggage with divorce, kids, and financial obligations. I have been trying to move forward with a man who is getting a...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    My wife is an actress - I usually love it! Sometimes I've watched her do a sex scene and thought to myself, "Holy cow, another man is kissing my wife's boobs!" Other times I've...
    theothercuck theothercuck 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    my friends and well wishers& all kind hearted people of ep i need all or wises,blessings for my princess& angel wife&son....they are having a lovely time on this weekend....my love...
    sherrymunna sherrymunna 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    dropping my kids off at my separated wife's place....returning back to my rented lonely house...I am sad beyond words.I dont want to live here anymore.I am clickng my red ruby...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    This doesn't really have to be a serious thing, but I just want an online wife. A kind and innocent girl who I can just talk with as if we are a close friends. I don't really want...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I have suspected my wife of having an emotional affair around 5 months. In that time she reassured me countless times that he is not her type, he is not as sexy as me and there...
    tuxiflet tuxiflet 36-40, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I lost my wife to breast cancer Mothers Day weekend 2013. She had been battling for 5 years ..she was 43 when she passed away leaving me with a 7 year old daughter who only knows...
    bigbryman bigbryman 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    At the pool I asked my wife to pull her straps down so she wouldn't get strap marks. She did and the rest fell into place nicely. After a while she forgot all about her straps not...
    pxl1050 pxl1050 56-60 1 Response 3 days ago

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    it was about 3 years ago.i was away on different country and we were communicating via messenger,skype pretty often.she knew my fantasies and i literally was begging her to find...
    becks1981 becks1981 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    A friend of mine just got off on my wife's pic, what an awesome felling it was when he told me that he was getting off on her **** . And to top it up he sent me the pic of his...
    flex0712 flex0712 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago