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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this

    week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known his family most of my life. I was asked by my mother -in-law to pass along a card for his ex-wife to the kids he has from his previous marriage...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 3 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Now I've started dressing as a woman about 90% of the time at home and my wife just looks at me as her wife. She told me she's equally attracted to her wife and her husband! She...
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    Like today has been a Rollercoaster of emotions. I'm so frustrated with everything about my life and I need to fix it ASAP!!! I feel so unappreciated from my relationship to being...
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    It is legal in my country to get two wives. But I have to give each wife in an independent house. There are many women who accept to be a second wife. My first wife won't mind . I...
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    Brian944 Brian944 31-35, M Jun 20

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    I fantasize about my wife falling in love with another man and letting him take my role as the husband. It gives me a euphoric feeling thinking about the other man laying on my...
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    lorenarich lorenarich 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I grown to hate my wife. Before meeting my wife, I was in a four year relationship with a great woman. The only thing was she had issues from time to time and we would take...
    ujj9810 ujj9810 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    Now don't get me wrong here, the title of my post is a bit overdramatic. I do love my wife very much. But having said that, the title does state the facts. I am a chef at an...
    BDos BDos 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    Whenever I start to try and write I feel frustrated, heated bored/anxious and pissed off and angry at everyone and don't want to do anything just want to give up and run and run...
    newanswer newanswer 70+, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    I had a sexy topless pic of wife printed on large canvas and it hangs in master bedroom. IAS it was a torso only pic, I thought no knew it was my wife, apparently her sister...
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    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 12

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    It's been a long day... Long story short: My mother was on me about my long-distance boyfriend being black - thus, she has all of these preconceived notions (she's almost 60...
    emeraldangel523 emeraldangel523 18-21, F Jun 10

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    I fantasize all the time ifcmy wife with another man. From them just flirting with her to taking her... So hot
    Vecci4u2 Vecci4u2 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 10

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    Alibimyself Alibimyself 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    My wife is a femdom Mistress....... And she is lesbian.....
    nicofrance nicofrance 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 9

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