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I Am a Frustrated 2nd Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22 People

    What About the Kids??

    I knew he had kids before I married him.. At the time I wasn't sure that I even wanted any of my own..until I saw him with his kids.  Now I find myself wanting that with him SOOO bad and at the same time feel overwhelmingly jealous at the fact that he already has...
    Kleez Kleez 26-30 7 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    Daja Vu ???

    I've been married to mu husband for 8yrs now, My husband and I married when i was 21 he was 24 he had a daughter from his first marriage i had a son (never married). We both child wise had experienced a lot of firsts without each other, but we tried to look past that aspect and...
    crystalclearwater crystalclearwater 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

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    I Feel Like 2nd Choice.

    I'm not his wife, yet. We're getting married in October, 2010. He proposed last June, and we were both so excited. I never wanted a wedding, so I immediately began researching the perfect spot to elope to - but my wonderful fiance wanted the big fairy tale wedding. And so the...
    Meg380S Meg380S 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2010

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    Frustrated

    I am a 2nd wife and I am beyond frustrated with the fact that all of the life milestones that my husband and I share he has already experienced.  I feel thta nothing we do is special.
    cj31784 cj31784 22-25 5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

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    I started dating my husband 10 years ago this

    week. We will be celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary this summer. I have been friends with his sister for 20 years. Ive known his family most of my life. I was asked by my mother -in-law to pass along a card for his ex-wife to the kids he has from his previous marriage...
    jess85MN jess85MN 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2015

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    Frustrated And Sad

    I love my husband and I love both of my step kids too. My frustration lies in the fact my husband's ex feels like she's entitled to every cent that we have. And I'm sorry, but, although I love my step kids, they never call, see us, or ANYTHING unless they want money or it's...
    PurpleTulip27 PurpleTulip27 26-30 2 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Hidden Marrige

    I have a long story that I am going to try and make short. I need advice beacuse the self pitty and suffering is putting a strain on my relationship. My new husband ( a month) was recently divorced. We got married a month after his divorce came thru. We met while he was...
    Paulanyc Paulanyc 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    What To Do...

    He has 3 kids (all school aged) from his first marriage, so I understand that communication w/ his ex-wife, is a big necessity right now. What bugs me is, the fact that she calls and texts him w/ random things that have nothing to do w/ the kids. Which wouldn't bug me as much, if...
    Butterflyylove Butterflyylove 31-35 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    Actually A 3rd Wife.

    My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He is 15 years my senior and was married twice before me. He is my first husband, and I had hoped my only. I guess I should have realized that being his third marriage and my first everything that was new to me would be old hat...
    Elizaabeth Elizaabeth 41-45 3 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Unhappy 2nd Wife

    I am a very unhappy 2nd wife and I really don't know what to do.  My in laws treat me like nothing and they treat my hubby's 1st wife better than they would treat the most important person in the world.  They treated her badly when she was still married to him, but now...
    lynette2006 lynette2006 26-30 2 Responses Feb 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Ive been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman but for a couple of years ive been having an affair and now i want to be with my lover all the time.I love my wife but more like...
    hikk01 hikk01 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    You know that moment when you want to do something but people are in and it would be too loud so you now get frustrated cause you can't do it.. Pfft :(
    Kimmyextreme Kimmyextreme 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Frustrated. Moody. Indecisive. Exhausted. All of the above. Lol. I've just recently found out I'm going to be a grandma. My daughter is in Ontario. I am in Alberta. She has...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I will love to see your wife. If you share your wife's hot and sexy pics here .. Please add me. If you love to show your wife's photo you can send me in my inbox too. I am waiting...
    PrinceMH PrinceMH 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Within two years of graduating from high school back in the early 80's, I married and had three children. A few years after that marriage ended, I remarried and was in a miserable...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I could have never imagined the nightmare that my husbands first wife and grown adult children have become. I have been married to him for just over 2 years and everything seems to...
    heavyheart1 heavyheart1 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Once when me and my wife were out my wife was tipsy at back of the bar there was 1 guy who had been looking at her legs in her black tights he was sat down I got her to stand up...
    knickersstain knickersstain 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    My situation is much different then most others in this situation. Let me clarify, I am the wife of a widower and let me start from the beginning. When we were dating it was told...
    ss2002 ss2002 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I will tribute your wife's pics sent your photos to dallasheart1970@yahoo.com and tell me where to send the results we are active on flick and have a tribute page there If you...
    dallasheart1970 dallasheart1970 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Incredibly frustrated at the moment. That's it, that's all I wanted to say.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Feb 2

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    I'm excited to soon be the wife of a widower. I have been with my widower for 4 long joyous years. Don't get me wrong it has had its trying and hurtful times. How am I to feel when...
    lettiebaby79 lettiebaby79 36-40, F Feb 1

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    Coming few weeks will be in Goa. Looking forward for a fun-fill vacation with like minded couple / single. It's always a pleasure to see my wife take an advantage of her freedom of...
    thesnob thesnob 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 29

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    Just posted a new wifey album. Add me to see and comment. EP Link
    Teenmad Teenmad 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I admit it. When she first told me she had been a flasher in college, I thought I would react like any other man and be jealous. But the years have gone on, and she has been the...
    sloheart sloheart 61-65 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I am a 50 year old white male married to a 39 year old Indian women a few years a go we were on holiday india , staying at a hotel my wife said she going to bed early I stayed in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 28

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    Wife texted me some pics this morning and said come home as soon as you can. What a surprise I got.My
    dave1jonson dave1jonson 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 28

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    If a man loves his wife should he allow her request to be with other men?
    Mgjohn Mgjohn 61-65, M 22 Responses Jan 28

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    A few weeks ago i was dropping off some stuff to my wife at work. She wrks late often. It was after hours. When I got to her office she was on her desk. Skirt pushed up with a...
    Jacksoncarter1 Jacksoncarter1 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    That is how it was at the start of me sharing her but then it got ouit of my control . she was phoned by Jack who she knew as Jills husband. his wife had kicked him out and he was...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M Jan 27

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    She is everything to me, I really can't imagine life without her. Every morning I patiently wait for her to wake up. Before she does I always leave her a good morning message...
    HerTrueKing HerTrueKing 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    my wife cheats also...and i love it.
    cucksterme cucksterme 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 24

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    I am so fed up and hurt. More hurt, but I'm frustrated and therefore fed up. My boyfriend, wish I could say husband after 8 years, goes out of his way to let me down, hurt my...
    ihopetoseeclearly ihopetoseeclearly 22-25 1 Response Jan 23

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    I have only been with her eleven years and as each day goes by, my love for her goes straight up. We are the same age, 66 and I hope we will be together for the rest of our lives...
    leslove69 leslove69 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I post videos and pic's on my Tumblr page of my wife. Love to see the likes and comments.
    lonestallion153 lonestallion153 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    This is one of the best experiences I have had. Watching my wife and her boyfriend enjoy each other and having him leave her a juicy mess for me to then enter and add my own. I can...
    zdietz53 zdietz53 31-35, M 9 Responses Jan 23

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    I encourage my wife to take a steady lover all the time.I want her to fall in love with him and love him as much as she loves me.
    lqqin4it941 lqqin4it941 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    My wife was putting away my clothes one day and she found my thong and g string - she thought that they were some other woman's and that I was cheating on her thank God I was...
    jj8171966 jj8171966 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    My wife and I went out for a night out with another couple we were friendly with. She was feeling extra naughty and decided to go out with no bra on. She wore a tight top that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 21

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    Wife is interested in comments on her clothes pics - should she keep posting?
    GUNTSCOCK GUNTSCOCK 51-55, M 7 Responses Jan 20

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    Right up to the end. My wife died on January 17th 2016. She had been dying for years now thanks to cigarettes. She used to joke with me asking what she would die of first...
    40yrSmoker 40yrSmoker 41-45, M Jan 20

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    My wife is about to meet a coworker at a hotel room
    htnrn14 htnrn14 36-40, M 14 Responses Jan 18

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