I Am A Frustrated Unhappy Stepmom

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    Its not easy being the stepmom.

    Especially of a teen. Its difficult enough but when they play the your not my real mom card all the time and dont respect you what can you really do. Seems like I am giving up but its very stressful.
    LisaC760 LisaC760
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 19

    I really need to vent,

    especially because I don't have any friends to vent to. They all spread rumors about me and stabbed me in the back 2 years ago. Recently I got married in December, ever since seems like nothing has gone right. I have Fibromyalgia and so i'm constantly in pain. Also my husband...
    Aquamarine221 Aquamarine221
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 13

    My stepdaughter is 13

    and I hate her. All I see when i look at her is her mom, and his old life. She is also a brat and very ungrateful for all we do for her. I love my husband and my real daughter but its so hard, i wish i could just kick her out of the house and move on. We don't need this reminder...
    StepmomLife StepmomLife
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    it makes me sad and feel

    so depressed and hopeless...for 6years me and my daughter (to my previous relationship) and these 2 teens never like us and acceptd us.the saddest part?everytime when the dad is not around they show us unrespectfully.they bang the door,they throw our clothes and they dont like...
    ma1ricar ma1ricar
    18-21, F
    Apr 11, 2015

    I just need a place to vent.

    I can't share with my husband. My stepdaughter reacts to everything I say or do. I'm walking on egg shells around her. They never include me in their discussions. It's always papa papa papa, even when I'm right there. She is on the aspergers spectrum. She doesn't know...
    frecks6 frecks6
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    My husband has a child with a woman

    who still has deep feelings for him. It's been over two years and she knew about me when they had this child. ( which is a long story in itself ) basically I've only seen this child twice because she is "uncomfortable" around me and keeps making excuses. Today was the first day...
    WhiskeyT WhiskeyT
    22-25, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    Eight years ago, I met my husband.

    I already had two children from a previous marriage and we had one more together. He has three children from a previous marriage. Up until August of last year, we had joint custody of his children with her having primary custody. Over the years, we have dealt with her...
    mmcpherson mmcpherson
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2014

    My step daughter refuses to sleep!

    Has anyone ever gave their child Melatonin? If I spend one more sleepless night up with this brat, I'm going to lose my mind! Help!!
    Ashes86d Ashes86d
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    Great! I just got word

    that the step brat is coming for 4 weeks! I don't even get my weekends off now. Someone help me. I cant put with her for 4 weeks with out the weekend breaks!
    StepmomLife StepmomLife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015
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