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I Am a Gay Christian

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    Hey everyone out there.

    Throughout the past I've been both afraid to come out of the closet as a gay and show full love and devotion to God. Honestly I can't fight the feeling of loving guys, and I want to love God because he's gotten me through a lot of rough times. I'm going to make this work because...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 23

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    I am a positive Gay Christian (living

    testimony) with strength to prove! I have lived it and I would love to help you. If you need advice or help, I'm here for you! "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
    Joonyer23 Joonyer23 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm a Christian, and I don't

    even like a lot of Christians. I will give it to atheists/agnostics/others that the VAST majority of proclaimed "Christians" are horrible examples of Christ. As a Christian, I'm not called to judge other people, or hate other people. God simply called me to love. Love one...
    jameshottie jameshottie 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 26

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    Is It Wrong?

    At my church this isn't a huge deal.   I know it's apparently wrong and God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. But I truely feel that if you love someone, it shouldn't matter the sex.   I want children when i'm older, but for right now, I feel...
    chateone chateone 19-21, F 12 Responses Mar 19, 2007

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    The secrets consume me.

    I don't know the boundaries. Do they accept it? Do the accept us? The us is my everything. She is my everything. It's the tension of church and gay. I want both. I love her. I love God. But people don't see it that way. They have created these boundaries. I want to...
    hopefulher15 hopefulher15 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    You know what's hard?

    Trying be a good Christian but you know you're gay. What's harder? Devolving a crush on your Christian friend. Haha life sucks :)
    kp4w kp4w 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Gay Christian Pastor In St. Louis Are You Looking For a Church?

    Hey everyone! My name is Pastor Lenny and My Husband and I pastor a church in St. Louis Missouri. It is our goal to let those interested that there are ministries that are out there all over that are open and loving and believe that your salvation has nothing to do with your...
    ryanandlenny ryanandlenny 26-30, M 12 Responses Sep 15, 2009

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    I don't know what to say,

    I've felt this for a few months now I'm 13 and I know I'm young but I also know that I'm not supposed to feel this way. I've grown up in the church, around the church,the word, there's not much else .I have even my friends that are all Christian and of course my family who all...
    splashyfish splashyfish 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 2

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    Sooooooo I like this guy

    who goes to my church.... Help
    kp4w kp4w 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Honestly joining ep was annoying kus I came on

    here to find a boyfriend but realized this isn't a dating site But what I did get was new friends that made me feel more confident in myself I love helping them and it was nice for someone else to help me with whatever I was going through And it made me realize that I'm a...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Why not apply christian morality to any sexual

    relationship ? 1. You don't cheat on the person your in love with. 2. You don't engage sexually unless your sure that your in love and want to be with this person for the rest of your life . 3. You can kiss , cuddle and lark about but save the serous stuff for a committed...
    Homejames Homejames 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Hello fellow readers,

    My name is Fajar and I am a male in his twenties :) Currently I am a student Creative Technology (I just love technology!). For a really long time I have been struggling about my sexuality. I knew that I was different when I was 12 years old. I always dismissed it as...
    IndoDutch IndoDutch 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 20

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    notsohappyman notsohappyman 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 6

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    It's strange I thought everyone was supposed to

    have an equal chance to get to heaven but it seems like it's not the case for everyone. All of these religious people say it's a sin to be myself but it's hard to believe that god would make me a sin. I know it's wrong but I feel like god set me up to fail because I didn't...
    Eco1211 Eco1211 13-15, M 5 Responses Oct 11

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    Christian, Gay, and Very Confused

    It's strange that I'm coming out to people on the internet before anyone I even know, but that seems to make it easier. I've been a christian all my life, and I have always loved God, when I was around the age of 11 I found that I would do anything for God's cause. I've know all...
    huegold huegold 22-25, M 58 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Maybe this is wrong maybe this is right.

    But if you believe in the trinity and that the Holy Spirit is in you then wouldn't you have a tug on your heart by the holy spirit if liking someone of the same sex was wrong?? That's just my stance on being a gay Christian
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 23

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    Christian Struggling With Homesexuality

    I'm 21. Ever since I can remember, really I can remember being 3 and liking boys. Growing up my dad was present till I was about 11, but sure that not the reason I struggled with being gay, of course cause he was there even when I had this problem. Now, before I go on, let me...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX 22-25, M 11 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Learned that god wants us to understand it's

    okay to not be okay! Were all wounded and should continue to be ourselves/ who we are..take off that mask and frozen smile! Let's receive gods healing confident in who we are in Christ! Who's with him?
    Joonyer23 Joonyer23 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    Want To Be Straight

    i want to be straight so that for once my parents can say they're proud of me and not think of me as stupid as they already think i am,but no matter how much i try to convince myself im straight and that im just confused theirs always something in the back of my head saying you...
    Shayalex Shayalex 18-21 10 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Growing up for me was hard.

    I was in denial about my sexuality. It wasn't just the fact that I grew up Christian,but my dad was a pastor. My whole life I lived with being told being gay was wrong. At I graduated school and went to college. I have a boyfriend... our relationship is a Dom/sub one. We are...
    UkeKyle UkeKyle 18-21, M 7 Responses Jun 8

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    I'm mike 14 and in my class I had some problems

    so I have to leave some of my friends in my class so I have to go in a new class with some new friends I know some of them and there are boys and 2 girls and 8 kids in the class so on Monday we are going on a field trip and I think some of the kids are bi and some are gay and...
    mike12322xx mike12322xx 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 14

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    if you don't feel loved.

    .You all are loved :) God loves you very much. he loves the sinner but hates sin.
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I Know I'm Gay And I Used To Think I Was Christian, But I'm Not So Sure Any More.

    When and where I grew up it was quite impossible to ever acknowledge being a homo - dreaded word -and if one was ever labelled so, life would not be worth living. I use homo as that was the buzz word that was intended to denigrate entirely anyone who had attraction for the same...
    jaro4jesus jaro4jesus 61-65, M 14 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Hello! I am not actually a gay Christian.

    I am a loving follower of Christ who is looking for truth in love. I have been raised in a very conservative church. I have been taught my whole like that certain things are sinful, that I just can't understand, such as women as leaders and homosexuality. As I have become an...
    amff2014 amff2014 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I Don't Want to Be a Gay Christian!

    Here is what I want: (I know that the best way to get GOD to laugh is by telling him what you want and what you are going to do but...) I want to love GOD without doubting him, I want a family with a loving wife and children, I don't want to be gay! If it were that easy. ...
    Blaznazian Blaznazian 26-30 31 Responses Jul 16, 2009

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    I Realize Dogma Does Not Allow This.

    But I have no other choice at this point in my life but to say this. Pansexual actually and married to a "straight" woman,and liking it. I am also a trained baptist minister. There was a question about marriage .  Which I was going to answer but thought, is my marriage really a...
    xxorama xxorama 46-50, M 4 Responses May 6, 2012

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    I am proud to be a gay Christian.

    God is the only one who has never left my side. I truly believe God is accepting of homosexuality.
    libocrat libocrat 31-35, M 9 Responses Jun 13

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    These two Bible verses have given my faith a

    boost: Ruth 1:16-17 and 1 Samuel 18:1-4.
    AStern AStern 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    JNye8798 JNye8798 16-17, M 10 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm gay (lesbian) and I'm a follower of Christ.

    It's difficult and I can feel others pain and happiness. Hope all of you are doing great and don't let them discourage you.
    templetes templetes 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    Okay guys, message me

    if you just happen to be gay and Christian (: Haha
    Spazz238 Spazz238 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I can't wait until the ZOOPHILES come out!

    You fools had better SHUT THE HELL UP! Because YOU are to blame! REMEMBER TO KEEP YOUR SELF-RIGHTEOUS OPINIONS TO YOURSELF! Remember, you set the bar for your future hell. You called God a liar, now He is going to make you see who the liar and fool is! Remember they were born...
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Feeling Bad?

    Even when you feel ugly or depressed or guilty or ashamed, there is an inner spark in you which is light. This light is your beauty. This light is your reflection of God. You are a child of God, thus you are beautiful.
    lenovah lenovah 31-35, M 8 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I Think My Christian Husband Might Be Gay

    I seriously think my husband is gay, but afraid to tell me. We were both brought up extremely conservative. There have been several things in the past 13 years where I have stopped and thought, "Hmmm?" I just brushed them off for whatever reason and enjoyed the routine and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    What Did Jesus Say About Homosexuality?

    This is a post from my blog, where you can read the hyperlinked version: http://elishebaruth.blogspot.com/2013/11/what-did-jesus-say-about-homosexuality.html As a transsexual lesbian I self identify as a homosexual. I am accepted in society as a woman and so will be identified...
    ElishebaRuth ElishebaRuth 51-55, T 5 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    God Loves Me

    Yes I'm gay and yes I am a Christian. I don't care if you think that's not posssible. Everone has a right to their own opinion but I don't care about it. I believe in God and Jesus died for all of us so that we would have a chance to go to heaven; that includes me. I am going to...
    Jesse75 Jesse75 31-35, M 11 Responses Jul 14, 2010

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    Yes I Am Gay, and Yes I Am Saved

    I wanted to compose my thoughts before rushing out and posting here, because claiming to be a gay Christian is a very touchy subject for some people. I'll try to keep it as short as I can. I know what the Bible says about homosexuality. I know it's wrong, so does my fiance. It's...
    Konrad Konrad 22-25, M 92 Responses May 6, 2009

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    My Testimony As A Loving And Accepting Gay Christian :)

    Hello this is John again. This is another long one so I am sorry for the length of my story again but this needs to be said thanks. I remember a few short days ago I wrote a separate story about my issues with being gay and Christian and how I had trouble accepting myself because...
    johnnyr860 johnnyr860 22-25, M 18 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    I kinda hate being in tn too many close minded

    hypocrite Christian I am a Christian myself but I don't hate anyone regardless
    rukateria rukateria 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    andrew19952 andrew19952 22-25, M 1 Response May 10

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    I Am A Gay, Black, Christian Man!

    I am a 36 year old , african american, gay Christian man.  I was just "outed" by a close relative.   He came to my home 10 years ago and went snooping on my computer and found things he didnt want to on it.  I asked him to stop snooping around my computer and...
    adamhungman adamhungman 36-40 8 Responses May 22, 2010

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    I am gay, and I believe in god.

    I was raised like that and I'm proud. I love god and I don't think he's going to send me to hell for being gay... 💕
    AustinLol69 AustinLol69 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I really am not found of bible thumpers

    and Christian who judge others. How can you show ppl Chirst by being rude and by talking down to them acting like your better. Last time I check we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God?? Jesus didn't hang with the judges and Pharisees.
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Good day to you all! It's been quite some time

    since I've made a post but I did want to say this, the past few days have been substantially hard on me. Tbh I was losing myself. My friend brought me to a meeting she was have with her "sisters", I found myself missing Jesus in me. A lot of people will say negative things about...
    ajl04 ajl04 18-21, M 7 Responses Oct 17

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    Sooo, I'm struggling with my identity,

    and I don't know what to do. For years I've had this side to me, I'm attracted to guys and it's been difficult to live my life. For years I had let everyone convince me that being gay was a sin and then I told myself that I shouldn't have thoughts like that, but no matter how...
    Drifter15 Drifter15 16-17, M 6 Responses Oct 23

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    I'm bisexual and I lean more towards females.

    I often feel bad about it, though because I'm taught that it's a sin. I don't want God to hate me, but I really can't help the way I am. I didn't choose to be attracted to females. Nobody at my church knows that I like females and I'm afraid that if I met a girl that I liked...
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 3 Responses May 29

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    I'm gay and catholic

    and I want a boyfriend but I can't find one. Please help.
    gayrainbowchild gayrainbowchild 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 10

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    RealAnthony2014 RealAnthony2014 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I Dislike Homophobic Christians Greatly!

    I am Catholic, and i am also gay. My blood boils whenever i see homophobes on the news who use the word of God to preach hate. I don't know how these people cannot see that what they are doing is sin. They are spreading hatred. The two most important commandments is to worship...
    judeau9 judeau9 26-30, M 13 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    tlamb17 tlamb17 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 22

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