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I Am a Gay Christian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 859 People

    The stigma is when you are a gay,

    they will equate you to HIV.... :(
    andey14 andey14
    31-35, M
    Jan 11, 2015

    Yes I Am Gay, and Yes I Am Saved

    I wanted to compose my thoughts before rushing out and posting here, because claiming to be a gay Christian is a very touchy subject for some people. I'll try to keep it as short as I can. I know what the Bible says about homosexuality. I know it's wrong, so does my fiance. It's...
    Konrad Konrad
    22-25, M
    90 Responses May 6, 2009

    I been a Christian for a almost two years.

    .. I've gotten to know God in so many levels, bad try following his commandments. God talks to me in so many ways... I have stopped me self from so many sins.... But being gay and Christian is so hard.... Everyone talks to me like "stop lying" or "stop cursing" is the same as...
    lumaximuz lumaximuz
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2015
    tlamb17 tlamb17
    18-21, F
    Sep 22, 2014

    I don't know what God wants me to do.

    Does he want me to be straight and never act on my same sex attractions with another guy? Or am I perfect the way I am? Would I still go to hell for having a sex free relationship with a guy and not marrying the guy? Are my same sex attractions a spiritual test of faith? What...
    GCassr22 GCassr22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2016

    I really am not found of bible thumpers

    and Christian who judge others. How can you show ppl Chirst by being rude and by talking down to them acting like your better. Last time I check we have all sinned and come short of the glory of God?? Jesus didn't hang with the judges and Pharisees.
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    I Dislike Homophobic Christians Greatly!

    I am Catholic, and i am also gay. My blood boils whenever i see homophobes on the news who use the word of God to preach hate. I don't know how these people cannot see that what they are doing is sin. They are spreading hatred. The two most important commandments is to worship...
    judeau9 judeau9
    26-30, M
    9 Responses Mar 30, 2013

    I Know I'm Gay And I Used To Think I Was Christian, But I'm Not So Sure Any More.

    When and where I grew up it was quite impossible to ever acknowledge being a homo - dreaded word -and if one was ever labelled so, life would not be worth living. I use homo as that was the buzz word that was intended to denigrate entirely anyone who had attraction for the same...
    jaro4jesus jaro4jesus
    66-70, M
    17 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    I Think My Christian Husband Might Be Gay

    I seriously think my husband is gay, but afraid to tell me. We were both brought up extremely conservative. There have been several things in the past 13 years where I have stopped and thought, "Hmmm?" I just brushed them off for whatever reason and enjoyed the routine and...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 21, 2013

    They say there is a God.

    A God hu. Which means there is a heaven or hell!! From what people say ,"This God is a God who is pure, who is holy, and all Loving". The list can go on and on. But from what people tell me is ," you can love god and he to you, but you cannot be gay, and be with god in heaven...
    Andrewsandoval Andrewsandoval
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    Crossdressing Choir Boy

    hi im christian and have been since i was born my father is a big time pastor and vice president of our church council many people look up to him my mother helps him with the church and is also supervisor of all the churches in the council im a one of the choir leaders and i also...
    ltltlt ltltlt
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2013
    deleted deleted
    Nov 6, 2014

    I am honestly a homosexual

    but I follow God's words and commands: 'Do not lie with a man as a man lies with a woman.'
    dragde dragde
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    What Did Jesus Say About Homosexuality?

    This is a post from my blog, where you can read the hyperlinked version: As a transsexual lesbian I self identify as a homosexual. I am accepted in society as a woman and so will be identified...
    ElishebaRuth ElishebaRuth
    56-60, T
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

    It hurts me not knowing what to do.

    Somehow I know that loving the same sex isn't wrong but the bible and other believers are telling me it is.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    I don't know what God wants me to do.

    Does he want me to be straight and never act on my same sex attractions with another guy? Or am I perfect the way I am? Would I still go to hell for having a sex free relationship with a guy and not marrying the guy? Are my same sex attractions a spiritual test of faith? What...
    GCassr22 GCassr22
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2016

    Good day to you all! It's been quite some time

    since I've made a post but I did want to say this, the past few days have been substantially hard on me. Tbh I was losing myself. My friend brought me to a meeting she was have with her "sisters", I found myself missing Jesus in me. A lot of people will say negative things about...
    ajl04 ajl04
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    I kinda hate being in tn too many close minded

    hypocrite Christian I am a Christian myself but I don't hate anyone regardless
    rukateria rukateria
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 16, 2014

    I Realize Dogma Does Not Allow This.

    But I have no other choice at this point in my life but to say this. Pansexual actually and married to a "straight" woman,and liking it. I am also a trained baptist minister. There was a question about marriage .  Which I was going to answer but thought, is my marriage really a...
    xxorama xxorama
    46-50, M
    3 Responses May 6, 2012

    Hi everyone:) Please stop being

    so depressed, please! Some of the stories on here are so depressing, and I want you to know that God loves you and he always will:)! I know how you are feeling right now, I used to think I was going to hell, and I was a sinner, when I first realized I was starting to like girls...
    Cassandrae1 Cassandrae1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    Hello fellow readers,

    My name is Fajar and I am a male in his twenties :) Currently I am a student Creative Technology (I just love technology!). For a really long time I have been struggling about my sexuality. I knew that I was different when I was 12 years old. I always dismissed it as...
    IndoDutch IndoDutch
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2014

    I've been a God fearing Bible believing

    Christian since I can remember. I grew up that way. I was raised in a religious family and up until puberty was totally straight. Then the hormones hit and at first all was well, but then I started to look at dudes. Eventually they were really all I was looking at. I tried to...
    SeanDR SeanDR
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    I've never come out to anyone I know,

    but now I am on the Internet. I'm gay. I'm bi. I'm straight. I really don't know. Once the hormones finally hit, I found myself looking at women and then moved over to men. It's not that I don't find women beautiful and attractive, I've just felt more attracted to guys on a...
    dexter06 dexter06
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 12, 2015

    Christian, Gay, and Very Confused

    It's strange that I'm coming out to people on the internet before anyone I even know, but that seems to make it easier. I've been a christian all my life, and I have always loved God, when I was around the age of 11 I found that I would do anything for God's cause. I've know all...
    huegold huegold
    22-25, M
    59 Responses Jul 11, 2009

    Growing up for me was hard.

    I was in denial about my sexuality. It wasn't just the fact that I grew up Christian,but my dad was a pastor. My whole life I lived with being told being gay was wrong. At I graduated school and went to college. I have a boyfriend... our relationship is a Dom/sub one. We are...
    UkeKyle UkeKyle
    22-25, M
    8 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    I dont want yo type everuthing here again,

    but my personal story can be searched as "A River of One Gay Life...". Sorry, could not post the referrence link here..
    Markotrade Markotrade
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    I don't know what to say,

    I've felt this for a few months now I'm 13 and I know I'm young but I also know that I'm not supposed to feel this way. I've grown up in the church, around the church,the word, there's not much else .I have even my friends that are all Christian and of course my family who all...
    splashyfish splashyfish
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Mar 2, 2014

    I Don't Want to Be a Gay Christian!

    Here is what I want: (I know that the best way to get GOD to laugh is by telling him what you want and what you are going to do but...) I want to love GOD without doubting him, I want a family with a loving wife and children, I don't want to be gay! If it were that easy. ...
    Blaznazian Blaznazian
    34 Responses Jul 16, 2009

    My Testimony As A Loving And Accepting Gay Christian :)

    Hello this is John again. This is another long one so I am sorry for the length of my story again but this needs to be said thanks. I remember a few short days ago I wrote a separate story about my issues with being gay and Christian and how I had trouble accepting myself because...
    johnnyr860 johnnyr860
    22-25, M
    23 Responses Jun 29, 2012

    I'm a lesbian...and I'm a Christian,

    as weird as that sounds it's my life...I don't believe I made a choice, I know I didn't make a choice, if I could be straight, I would, but I believe God made me this way for a reason, I don't think he'll send me to hell for the way he made me. It's scary being Lesbian and...
    Ghostofmetalpast Ghostofmetalpast
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    Honestly joining ep was annoying kus I came on

    here to find a boyfriend but realized this isn't a dating site But what I did get was new friends that made me feel more confident in myself I love helping them and it was nice for someone else to help me with whatever I was going through And it made me realize that I'm a...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    Not Gay, But Hate Christian Homophobia

    This is a major problem I have with the church and i'm not even gay! The truth is there is no Biblical reason many Christians are against same sex relations that I can see. To explain this you need to look at what reasons some Christians are against same sex relations-firstly...
    cotterj95 cotterj95
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    Maybe this is wrong maybe this is right.

    But if you believe in the trinity and that the Holy Spirit is in you then wouldn't you have a tug on your heart by the holy spirit if liking someone of the same sex was wrong?? That's just my stance on being a gay Christian
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2014

    I have come from a christian background

    and always tried my best to remain faithful to it. When I was around the age of twelve, I began to be both bullied and realize that I was generally more attracted to men than women (although there have been exceptions). Thus, began years of repentance for the sin of...
    jezekial jezekial
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    Sooooooo I like this guy

    who goes to my church.... Help
    kp4w kp4w
    22-25, M
    Aug 18, 2014

    Learned that god wants us to understand it's

    okay to not be okay! Were all wounded and should continue to be ourselves/ who we are..take off that mask and frozen smile! Let's receive gods healing confident in who we are in Christ! Who's with him?
    Joonyer23 Joonyer23
    31-35, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    Hey everyone out there.

    Throughout the past I've been both afraid to come out of the closet as a gay and show full love and devotion to God. Honestly I can't fight the feeling of loving guys, and I want to love God because he's gotten me through a lot of rough times. I'm going to make this work because...
    ajl04 ajl04
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    Yup!! I was only attracted to women during

    elementary and middle school, but when I entered Junior, I felt something for boys, in high school, that feeling become a lot stronger, and now that I am in college, I like boys a lot now. Been going to Church and such for my entire life. And I still do. Every morning and night...
    Tranquil5 Tranquil5
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 30, 2015

    Hi.. I really need your help.

    I am more atttacted towards men. I am also bit attracted towards girl. I have read some posts here where gay married and have kids etc. Even I am gonna marry. Due to my culture I can never come open. Now I need experienced men to help me. How to maintain or keep er action when...
    acoolstud99 acoolstud99
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    The secrets consume me.

    I don't know the boundaries. Do they accept it? Do the accept us? The us is my everything. She is my everything. It's the tension of church and gay. I want both. I love her. I love God. But people don't see it that way. They have created these boundaries. I want to...
    hopefulher15 hopefulher15
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    Feeling Bad?

    Even when you feel ugly or depressed or guilty or ashamed, there is an inner spark in you which is light. This light is your beauty. This light is your reflection of God. You are a child of God, thus you are beautiful.
    lenovah lenovah
    36-40, M
    6 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I Am A Gay, Black, Christian Man!

    I am a 36 year old , african american, gay Christian man.  I was just "outed" by a close relative.   He came to my home 10 years ago and went snooping on my computer and found things he didnt want to on it.  I asked him to stop snooping around my computer and...
    adamhungman adamhungman
    8 Responses May 22, 2010

    I am proud to be a gay Christian.

    God is the only one who has never left my side. I truly believe God is accepting of homosexuality.
    devairenc devairenc
    36-40, M
    10 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    Christian Struggling With Homesexuality

    I'm 21. Ever since I can remember, really I can remember being 3 and liking boys. Growing up my dad was present till I was about 11, but sure that not the reason I struggled with being gay, of course cause he was there even when I had this problem. Now, before I go on, let me...
    AlexanderX AlexanderX
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Sep 4, 2013
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    You know what's hard?

    Trying be a good Christian but you know you're gay. What's harder? Devolving a crush on your Christian friend. Haha life sucks :)
    kp4w kp4w
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    I am a positive Gay Christian (living

    testimony) with strength to prove! I have lived it and I would love to help you. If you need advice or help, I'm here for you! "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
    Joonyer23 Joonyer23
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 2, 2014

    Gay Christian Pastor In St. Louis Are You Looking For a Church?

    Hey everyone! My name is Pastor Lenny and My Husband and I pastor a church in St. Louis Missouri. It is our goal to let those interested that there are ministries that are out there all over that are open and loving and believe that your salvation has nothing to do with your...
    ryanandlenny ryanandlenny
    26-30, M
    12 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    how the hell can you be a gay christian?

    That's a huge contradiction, you ****. The bible is laced with passages that show homosexuality is ******* disgusting. And your answer? Make a ****** bible to support your stupid ideals. "Queen James Bible"? You disgusting ***** make me throw up. I feel sorry for the poor...
    LewdLes LewdLes
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2014

    God Loves Me

    Yes I'm gay and yes I am a Christian. I don't care if you think that's not posssible. Everone has a right to their own opinion but I don't care about it. I believe in God and Jesus died for all of us so that we would have a chance to go to heaven; that includes me. I am going to...
    Jesse75 Jesse75
    31-35, M
    10 Responses Jul 14, 2010
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