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I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 179 People

    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    im differant and i finally accept it and i hope dad does too
    jacob7777777 jacob7777777 13-15, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    im coming out but one person at a time wounder what dad is going to say
    jacob7777777 jacob7777777 13-15, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am a gay Transgender female i would love to have a gay friend to talk to and maybe lives in my area we could hang out together
    AliciaSissy AliciaSissy 51-55, T 1 hr ago

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    My dad was my hero and I loved him so much. when my parents divorced when I was 12 I chose to live with him. We were in a caravan at my brothers house for a bit but it wasn't right...
    heather81 heather81 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I've know I was gay since I was 13 or 14 but I hid it from everyone for more than 15 years. This has resulted in me being alone. I was terrified of how my parents would react. I...
    Blah5000 Blah5000 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    This is to my step dad- "Dad you need to give me more freedom I can't even get out of our yard My friends have fun when I'm stuck at home! You hate when I date! If I mess up your a...
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Today my parents caught me in bed with Kyler. My dad was pissed and was worried that having a gay son would destroy his"image". He shouted at me until his throat hurt then left. He...
    ChucktheLegend ChucktheLegend 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Looking for an older financially stable guy to be my daddy;) nothing physically sexual just a great relationship with a touch of fun
    lexi0909 lexi0909 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    "If you're absent during my struggle, don't expect to be present during my success" - Will Smith Whether you're with me or not dad, I will succeed. It's your choice - are you man...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So yesterday I was going to meet a group of friends at the football game and my grandma was in town and she kept asking me if I had a girl friend I kept telling her no and then my...
    bloodofcour bloodofcour 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I'm out to my friends and everyone I know. If anyone asks my sexuality, I'd say I'm gay. But I'm not sure about telling my dad. He's very homophobic, and I don't want to be kicked...
    PFowler PFowler 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 24

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    I pretty much think I'm never going to come out to my parents. I could probably come out to my brother whenever I'd like and i know he wouldn't judge. Though I don't think my dad...
    Joshuadd07 Joshuadd07 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    I'm looking for an older daddy (40+) who's into a young boy ;). Hmu
    Guitar1994 Guitar1994 16-17, M Sep 29

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    Back in high school I baby sat for this couple, they were in their early thirties with a seven and four year old. Now let's talk about the sexiest man I've ever met. This dad had...
    SteelNettt SteelNettt 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 3

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    I am a dominant Daddy looking for a girly
    Masterlicks Masterlicks 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Was watching tv with my dad when a commercial came on that showed two dudes getting married. My dad made it a point to rewind the commercial and mock the two "faggots" cx talk...
    isuckatthisstuff isuckatthisstuff 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Being gay is difficult. Being an Asian gay is more difficult. Being an Asian gay with an average income family is even more difficult. Being a well-educated Asian gay adds more to...
    leo1510 leo1510 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    I have a hella gaydar. There are a lot of guys that I will suspect are gay that no one else would agree with, but I can just tell. I'm not straight. A lot of people think they have...
    extention extention 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I'm bisexual so of course I support gay rights. I just don't see why homosexuals are judged just because they like someone that is the same gender/sex as them. There is nothing...
    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok I've had it goodbye gay, bi life I'm done being gay I would rather be more attracted to girls than guys cause they would I treat me right I have seen the real gay guys are and...
    DubDancer24 DubDancer24 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Part 2 : So I spoke to a friend about how I feel about my gay friend. He was like you so want to sleep with him I was like no I don't his reply was I so know youuuu haha so yeah he...
    lela201465 lela201465 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    As i sit here and type this post I am in disbelief. I recently found out that the person I was once married to and been with for 5 years is gay or bi. I am now starting to realize...
    Distraught89 Distraught89 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    This is a followup-story to my last story. It's about my coming-out experience and how i feel about it all, it might not be what u were all looking for but it's the truth anyway...
    ChrisXyris ChrisXyris 16-17, M Sep 23

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    Note: This is pretty long, but interesting, and this is not about me. Please do reply to my question below. A classmate-acquaintance or nearly can be called a friend has been...
    Wrathes Wrathes 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I don't really care. Being bi, straight or gay is not really a big deal for me. I have a lot of bi and gay friends and they're all kind and awesome. People should really stop...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29

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    Ok so I guess I found out I'm gay. Like I've been taking some private therapy at school and the therapist gets the conclusion that I'm gay. I mean what the hell am I saying I mean...
    Jr2299 Jr2299 13-15, M 4 Responses Sep 29

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    I know all my life it has been very difficult for me to get women intrested in me. I done everything to my power to make it happen. I realized just a while back, If i was...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    God isn't against gays God is against being gay you being gay is me drinking God is against both of them but he isn't against the people that do it in God's being gay killing...
    maridoneka maridoneka 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Is it sarcasm when I see people say "We shouldn't let gay people get married because if kids see them they'll turn gay."? Because people make it sound like they aren't homophobic...
    CaptainTundercakes CaptainTundercakes 13-15, M 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Kay so I'm bi but what I don't understand is how some people hate or don't like gays, lesbians, etc. It's so normal to see a straight person be like "Ew he's gay, what a f*ggot...
    Theo1999 Theo1999 13-15, M 5 Responses Oct 12

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    So there is this new group in my school called "Gay/Straight Alliance" yea hearing about that shocked the crap out of me sense i live in the south, i was walking up the stairs to...
    whiteboy1996 whiteboy1996 18-21, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm out to my friends but not to my family. It's hard because I can't openly date guys because I'd have to hide it from my homophobic dad. I couldn't even get a boyfriend anyways...
    PFowler PFowler 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    Any one want a dominant daddy add me with your Skype
    Masterlicks Masterlicks 31-35, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Looking for a daddy or a man to be in my life
    Mews4you Mews4you 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The love of my life, been through so much. He moved into my dad's with me after only 1 months of dating due to his parents not accepting us. I got lost along our path together and...
    Cosmomax Cosmomax 26-30, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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