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I Am a Gay Dad

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    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    So I decided that I won't tell my family I'm gay unless I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a least a month because they will ask why I think I'm gay and saying I have a...
    bloodofcour bloodofcour 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've know I was gay since I was 13 or 14 but I hid it from everyone for more than 15 years. This has resulted in me being alone. I was terrified of how my parents would react. I...
    Blah5000 Blah5000 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Would love to meet another gay man that lives in Indiana.
    jmmoosey jmmoosey 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    The thought of coming out turns my stomach. The idea of even hinting to other people that I might like boys makes me feel sick. I haven't even told my LGBT friends about it. It...
    GayCharlie GayCharlie 18-21, M 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Anyone gay near Niagara Falls Canada? I'm looking for a relationship, hmu!
    CreativeBi CreativeBi 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    Anyone gay near Niagara Falls Canada? I'm looking for a relationship, hmu!
    CreativeBi CreativeBi 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    Anyone gay near Niagara Falls Canada? I'm looking for a relationship, hmu!
    CreativeBi CreativeBi 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I want a daddy redneck cowboy farmer wanting a dad!
    SexuBio SexuBio 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Today my parents caught me in bed with Kyler. My dad was pissed and was worried that having a gay son would destroy his"image". He shouted at me until his throat hurt then left. He...
    ChucktheLegend ChucktheLegend 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The phone convocation that has just changed my life! I decided I couldn't put up with hiding anymore so I called my parents from my boarding house. *ring ring* Housekeeper...
    HRHHeronMaxwell HRHHeronMaxwell 16-17, M 12 Responses Sep 10

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    Soo i told my family (mom, dad, and brother) that i was gay. My mom and dad were ok with it.. but my older brother didnt seem too happy. He barely even talks to me now. & He even...
    kylebuist kylebuist 13-15, M 8 Responses Sep 7

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    So yesterday I was going to meet a group of friends at the football game and my grandma was in town and she kept asking me if I had a girl friend I kept telling her no and then my...
    bloodofcour bloodofcour 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Any sugar daddy to spoil me message me if your interested
    Teeteesky Teeteesky 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I need and want a daddy. Please message me if you're serious, and I'd prefer to live with you. By moving to you I'll give myself to you.
    halfpace halfpace 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Well step dad I was raped for 7-12 and in 16 and it's still with me now I can never get over it i have know one to talk to as I am a lad and this is embarrassing but it started...
    tommiebourne22 tommiebourne22 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So I'm not actually gay (I'm pan but whatever) but I'm scared to actually come out to my family. I mean, it's easier to tell friends or tell people online but when it comes to...
    Barakaflacka Barakaflacka 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    ok im kevin im gay and got out from a bad relationship. my exbf left me alone cheating on me with my best friend and classmate. i got kinda depressed tried to cut and cried over...
    puppySmexyBoy puppySmexyBoy 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I'm out to my friends and everyone I know. If anyone asks my sexuality, I'd say I'm gay. But I'm not sure about telling my dad. He's very homophobic, and I don't want to be kicked...
    PFowler PFowler 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My dad is hot. I like it when he touches me.
    gayandproud13 gayandproud13 13-15, M 8 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm 15 And I need a daddy Hmu for my snapchat
    rrrlll rrrlll 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I need a daddy right mewww
    Mews4you Mews4you 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    My dad is an arrogant, racist, sexist, homophobic ******* that believes beating up his daughter (me) will change my opinion on how I feel about black people or gays. Just a heads...
    jazsag19 jazsag19 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I'm going home today from college to spend time with my dad. Hopefully something will happen. Will update.
    teentwink teentwink 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 20

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    I'm not a bear but a boy looking for a daddy to skype with. 29/ gwm in good shape. Into Titplay and nice big daddy bears. Message me.
    Yo2946 Yo2946 26-30, M Sep 21

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    Single, black, 37yr old Daddy, looking for a cute boy (18+)
    DDBruno DDBruno 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm looking for an older daddy (40+) who's into a young boy ;). Hmu
    Guitar1994 Guitar1994 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    So I am gay. Currently in college. You guys are probably all familiar with LGBT stories, but it is not until you are LGBT would you know how hard it is. I know I am different from...
    tnhmt tnhmt 18-21, M 5 Responses Sep 21

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    I dislike how "gay" has become an adjective. "Gay marriage, gay rights, gay couple".Soon I'll be driving my gay car, with my gay friends going to watch a gay movie with a gay cast...
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I am gay myself but I hate a lot of the gay people around me Gay people have the positive stereotype of being really nice people......NOT ALWAYS! Most gay people in my area are...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M Sep 21

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M Sep 21

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M Sep 21

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    I don't know how people can be so ignorant. I really don't get it. If its because of religion, what is the point of calling it a sin? I told my friend who called homosexuality an...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I've known my now-boyfriend for a year and a half, and we've been seriously dating for five months now. He is a wonderful, super talented guy who is crazy in love with me and...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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