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I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 203 People

    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    2 boys, one 30, one 26 - love them both,

    both straight - but grew up very accepting of alternative viewpoints and lifestyles - both pretty liberal in their views, like me - both stable, hard workers, one married with 3 kids (older one), other finishing extended college program and working at the same time - both no...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 4 Responses Mar 21

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    So like I really need a gay sugar daddy . I'm younger then it says I am 15 . Preferably online chatting and payments via PayPal
    youngduff youngduff 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I am 17 male in USA and I am gay. I came out long ago to my mum and grand parents, my step-dad found out from facebook and my biological dad isn't around. He is in and out of...
    sagebeat7 sagebeat7 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I finally finished coming out to my family! I had been out to my mom and my sister for a while, but still had to come out to my dad and my other sister. It takes me a while to work...
    parabolas parabolas 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So my uncle's a preacher, dad's a deacon, sister's youth coordinator, and I'm in choir/help manage various events. They're all conservative, and I am FLAMING gay. *Sigh*
    shiranai97 shiranai97 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I don't know where to write this, so I'll write it here. So I was at my grandma's to give Sandy (my dog) her dogfood. I played with her. Minutes later, my dad and my sister came...
    supernerd22 supernerd22 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I think my mom kinda suspected that I am gay because she never ask me things like "do you have a girlfriend", like she never use the world "girl" But with my dad is different I'm...
    alek42 alek42 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 19

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    any young gays in North Houston looking for a fun daddy to trade with.
    txcowby8 txcowby8 41-45, M Apr 19

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    I'm gay. I have my ups and downs with being gay. For example today I was quite happy being gay. I know that one day I'll be happy with my boyfriend or maybe husband, if it's...
    hellotheremister hellotheremister 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Any daddy's wanna video chat
    rider56 rider56 13-15, M Apr 15

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    I'm frustrated. I'm frustrated the gay community has labels. I'm frustrated that so often being spiritual isn't something gay people talk about. I'm frustrated most gay people I've...
    VilhoDog13 VilhoDog13 22-25, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I am always hiding the truth from others that i am gay. The reason why i am hiding that i am gay = There are a lot of things, problems, goodthings etc. But when the times come and...
    injizzy injizzy 18-21, M Apr 8

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    Here is my stance on homosexuality and gay marriage. I believe it is a sin based on these scriptures. (I have more to say though) "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman...
    Ahumblefollower Ahumblefollower 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    This question for me is rather ironic, considering the fact that I myself am gay. But even so, I would really love to have a gay best friend. Honestly, I would rather it be a be a...
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    So, I just need to affirm my existence a little tonight. I only joined Experience Project a few days ago after searching for some stuff on the internet and liking what I read...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I can only imagine how hard it can be for gay people to be accepted by the society. I'm not gay myself, but I absolutely support gay rights. It must be awful to be gay and to know...
    HereIam2000 HereIam2000 13-15, M 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I thinks it's important for everybody of any sexual orientation, gender identity, race or religion to have equal rights, I believe that all people are equal. I don't get it when...
    CrimsonShadow CrimsonShadow 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Does anyone know Polari for "Homophobes are soooooo gay"? Sigmund Freud, had a theory that people often express the strongest negative feelings through their attitude towards...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    well Where to start.... I'm a 18 year old boy never had sex with a man or woman.. but I'm gay, still dreaming of having a traditional family (wife,kids etc) but I'm lost. I'm a...
    lookinginandout lookinginandout 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    I don't really see myself being able to have a family and life with another guy but maybe in some parts of the USA but that also changes a lot more depending on race of the guy...
    stelion stelion 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I'm not gay yet. But all the talk about gay marriage, and open gay activities has gotten me interested. I looked at gay **** online, it appears to be fun, nothing objectionable...
    nothingon nothingon 61-65, M 16 hrs ago

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    For all the daddies out there, love me like a son and f^ck me like a slave
    gayboythings gayboythings 16-17, M Mar 30

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    I have been going through a lot lately, and I feel so alone. I sit and observe other people in school and online I cannot help but feel that many of my problems would go away...
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 30

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    So I came out to my parent my mum I already knew my dad are you the butch or the ***** 😅
    jorgoth jorgoth 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    So this is my last post before I die and I just want to say Isaac I am very thankful for you and your kindness I love you deeply and it kill me in the side so much that I cry...
    loveintothelight loveintothelight 18-21, M 13 Responses Apr 4

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    i believe there is nothing more natural then a young boy pleasing a daddy
    addme99gay addme99gay 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I've been going back and forth on whether or not to post this but I think it's good for me to get it off my chest. But in the wake of all that's going on in Indiana I felt I needed...
    lesbianjen lesbianjen 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Throughout all of history no society ever accepted marriage to be between two people of the same gender. There were plenty of societies that practiced polygamy and polyandry or a...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 10

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    okay so i am gay and this is perhaps the first time that i am mentioning it out loud....in my country the word "gay" is treated like a swear word....gay people are mistreated and...
    pin97 pin97 18-21, M 11 Responses Apr 15

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    I'm having trouble what should I do I'm gay and in the closet I feel like there is a huge weight on my chest and I can't get it off I knew I was gay when I was nine I really...
    AJANDERSON AJANDERSON 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 16