I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 238 People

    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    hiya there as titled I am a gay dad

    and have been for the last 16 years . I'm not out as gay cos it would be the end . I think my missus has no idea that I'm into guys but I can come across a little camp at some time . but I always put that to my upbringing with all the girls around . anyway the older I get the...
    downlow247 downlow247
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

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    entasy entasy
    36-40
    May 21, 2013

    I wish I knew more parents like me.

    I have 2 children who are amazing.
    jacobnix jacobnix
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01
    51-55, M
    Apr 26, 2012

    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2007

    im gay...............

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    kitsutou kitsutou
    18-21, M
    Sep 2, 2015

    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

    I am a gay dad, I'm 27

    and have a daughter who is 8yrs old... I was with a girl for a long time and found out it was too late. But she's my only one and I'm happy with just that... But I'm a DILF.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 16

    Hey daddies! I need some advice on sex.

    I'm gay, but my parents don't know I am, so please need some help.
    bogzwong bogzwong
    18-21, M
    Oct 25, 2015

    2 boys, one 30, one 26 - love them both,

    both straight - but grew up very accepting of alternative viewpoints and lifestyles - both pretty liberal in their views, like me - both stable, hard workers, one married with 3 kids (older one), other finishing extended college program and working at the same time - both no...
    billytex1 billytex1
    61-65, M
    7 Responses Mar 21, 2015

    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2011
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