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I Am a Gay Dad

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    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Was watching tv with my dad when a commercial came on that showed two dudes getting married. My dad made it a point to rewind the commercial and mock the two "faggots" cx talk...
    isuckatthisstuff isuckatthisstuff 16-17, M 30 mins ago

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    As i sit here and type this post I am in disbelief. I recently found out that the person I was once married to and been with for 5 years is gay or bi. I am now starting to realize...
    Distraught89 Distraught89 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    The love of my life, been through so much. He moved into my dad's with me after only 1 months of dating due to his parents not accepting us. I got lost along our path together and...
    Cosmomax Cosmomax 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    One thing about being gay is that you really do not have to announce it to the world. I mean, telling them that you are gay is like telling them that he is a boy or a girl. You see...
    Baloyloy Baloyloy 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    I've know I was gay since I was 13 or 14 but I hid it from everyone for more than 15 years. This has resulted in me being alone. I was terrified of how my parents would react. I...
    Blah5000 Blah5000 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Dad.. You can be so stubborn sometimes and I wish you would slow down and start letting us take care of you and help you out more. I know you don't want to be a burden on anyone...
    maktub1 maktub1 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    I don't know what kind of a relationship I have with my Dad. He's been working very hard all his life, being a Virgo. We have a home of our own and I'm very concerned about his...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Hi there, i hate my dad all my whole life. He is a completely misogyny and i am afraid too every day. The point is i cant hear his rude words he said me you are a **** you cant do...
    Latifa253 Latifa253 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes my dad yells at me. Sometimes he tells me I'm not good enough. He says I'm stupid, fat, weird, or that I'm a freak. Sometimes he raises his voice at me and other times...
    alicefloe alicefloe 16-17, F 49 mins ago

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    Hi :) I want friends arab gay !!!!!!!!!!!
    Czcz763 Czcz763 18-21, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Well we are one more step closer to the hole UAS where gay people can get marred. The six circuit passed and the Supreme Court denied any appeals so all that's left is the Ninth...
    Diaperdragon Diaperdragon 36-40, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm 13 and gay I want a bf my age
    CHARTRUESE CHARTRUESE 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    I had a sorta eye opening experience just now where I was in a group of people and in that group were the guys I had found attractive or thought I was attractive. I had all these...
    Shade96 Shade96 18-21, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Hello...im new here looking for other gays to talk and share about experiences they had...message me
    iloveuall iloveuall 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    im 14 looking for a gay teen boy im lonly im in Tennessee i dont cary if its long or not
    jacobnipper jacobnipper 13-15 7 hrs ago

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    I'm so upset with the U.S. government. U.S. Marine kills a transgender person in the Philipines. Tell me why the story changes in the states to sound like its ok to murder somebody...
    Jedimindtrick39 Jedimindtrick39 36-40 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm gay comment your kiks I'm a 14 year old struggling to find new friends any age is amazing I love older people.
    Awesomer13 Awesomer13 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Today my parents caught me in bed with Kyler. My dad was pissed and was worried that having a gay son would destroy his"image". He shouted at me until his throat hurt then left. He...
    ChucktheLegend ChucktheLegend 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 26

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    There is just a teeny tiny little problem...I have no idea who my biological father is and nobody will tell me the truth. It is one of those things that a father will never talk to...
    SgtsLittleGirl SgtsLittleGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My dad's a raging alcoholic. He's been an alcoholic since the day I was born and my mom always makes me feel like it was my fault in the end. All he does is trash talk and spew...
    NerdRock87 NerdRock87 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Dad, I wish you would have listened to me and quit smoking. I wish you would have taken your medication to keep you sane and calm. Just imagine what your life would be like if...
    euphorian euphorian 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Dad.. You are so verbally abusing. It hurts so much and that's why mom left, now that she's gone you throw your words at me, you try to control me in the worst possible ways, I'm...
    NoemiG NoemiG 18-21, F 47 mins ago

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    So yesterday I was going to meet a group of friends at the football game and my grandma was in town and she kept asking me if I had a girl friend I kept telling her no and then my...
    bloodofcour bloodofcour 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I'm out to my friends and everyone I know. If anyone asks my sexuality, I'd say I'm gay. But I'm not sure about telling my dad. He's very homophobic, and I don't want to be kicked...
    PFowler PFowler 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 24

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    I pretty much think I'm never going to come out to my parents. I could probably come out to my brother whenever I'd like and i know he wouldn't judge. Though I don't think my dad...
    Joshuadd07 Joshuadd07 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    ​when i was younger my dad was abusive sexually and emotionally. i told he went to jail. mom still loves him. once he was out she would go down to Vancouver, were he lives every...
    missy420 missy420 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    I am lucky to have a caring father like my Dad. He has always been there for me. I have made some mistakes in my life that I have deeply regret but he and my mom got me through it...
    edward73e edward73e 36-40, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I miss the dad I always wanted but never had. I wish I had a caring father but he does not care about me enough to act like one. He is too much of a hypocrite to be a normal human...
    Aepeth Aepeth 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I do love you because you are my dad after all but there are times when I have been scared of you and I never really believed you loved me since you haven't seemed interested in me...
    lokiirs lokiirs 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Anyone need a daddy dom message if I retested girls only
    wesman97 wesman97 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    My dad would have been 53 on the 12th. Lost him when I was 12. It's been pretty hard.
    Woods93 Woods93 18-21, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Dad- You've ****** me up mentally and physically. Because of you I feel uncomfortable being around older men. After 6 years you've yet to tell me you are sorry for what you did to...
    catnipplesdoe catnipplesdoe 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    As a child I used to think that you where the most amazing and awesome dad anyone could ask for. But in the few years I learned that's it all was a lie. I could never forgive you...
    itsjojo itsjojo 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm in a relationship with a married man that likes to pretend to be my daddy, I love being his special little girl and getting all his dirty love and attention, I get to be his...
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Dad, I wish you never went behind the back of your whole family. I wish that you could take back every thing you did, and every scum bag women you cheated on my mother with. I wish...
    anndreewww anndreewww 16-17, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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