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I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 211 People

    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I wish I knew more parents like me.

    I have 2 children who are amazing.
    jacobnix jacobnix 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    2 boys, one 30, one 26 - love them both,

    both straight - but grew up very accepting of alternative viewpoints and lifestyles - both pretty liberal in their views, like me - both stable, hard workers, one married with 3 kids (older one), other finishing extended college program and working at the same time - both no...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 6 Responses Mar 21

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    Love my naughty daddies ;)
    CuriousKatie19 CuriousKatie19 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I'd like anyone who doesn't support gay rights to give me an actual GOOD example that gay marriage is wrong. Not "The bible say so" or "God hates gays" crap. I want a legit example...
    GreenDayIsBae GreenDayIsBae 16-17, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Well I have a girlfriend we have been friends for 10 years and dating last year. She knows I'm bi. Today I went boating with my dad and my friend and his dad came up. We have been...
    mike12322xx mike12322xx 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Well I have a girlfriend we have been friends for 10 years and dating last year. She knows I'm bi. Today I went boating with my dad and my friend and his dad came up. We have been...
    mike12322xx mike12322xx 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Well I have a girlfriend we have been friends for 10 years and dating last year. She knows I'm bi. Today I went boating with my dad and my friend and his dad came up. We have been...
    mike12322xx mike12322xx 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    When I was 11, on a long car ride to my Grandmothers house I came out to my stepdad. I was totally afraid that he wouldn't accepted me. He was my dad for as long as I could...
    Eli5 Eli5 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Coming out to my family was hard. My grandma is very religious. My grandma, uncles and aunts from my dad's side were all unhappy. My family doesn't really go to church. I haven't...
    TheRunAndGo TheRunAndGo 13-15, M 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi everyone I was refused entry to a gay bar recently for not being gay and it got me thinking If a gay person was denied entry to a bar I normally go to it would probably be in...
    Mrunderstood Mrunderstood 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm not sure why anyone is still debating the issue of gay marriage. Marriage is a legal committment between a couple which allows them to operate as a unit...financially and...
    1SoCalKat 1SoCalKat 56-60, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    If being against gay marriage is homophobic, then that means a substantial number of gays themselves are homophobes. Here, Jonathan Soroff explains why some gays, including him...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not doing very well.. My mom and I just had breakfast and she was randomly just started talking about how all states legalized gay marriage. (We are Christian by the way) So I...
    PjGarcia72 PjGarcia72 13-15, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I am 13 years old in year 9. And I am gay when I was born. Don't know why but I am gay. My parents don't know that I am gay but I am looking for someone to f***. I am addicted...
    MuscleSlaved MuscleSlaved 36-40, T 4 days ago

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    Ok I am 13 years old in year 9. And I am gay when I was born. Don't know why but I am gay. My parents don't know that I am gay but I am looking for someone to f***. I am addicted...
    MuscleSlaved MuscleSlaved 36-40, T 4 days ago

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    Homosexuality is not a choice. So how can someone "not give in to sin" if that person was naturally born that way? I have none many homosexuals and they have all told me that, they...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm gay but i'm hoping that someday someone will call me dad on my own gene but then i still respect gay marriage and i will always be.. i just want to have a family and i will be...
    ritztwain ritztwain 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    My dad just told the entire family about the ' Rainbow Profil Pic ' thing about the gay rights thing and stuff like that. I almost laughed when he said ' Oh, they are coming out of...
    SugarDoughnut SugarDoughnut 13-15, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Woww, Being gay is wonderful and I Love so much to be gay..... Yesterday I watch a cute gay movie between 2 teenagers from England and I Love it.... I Want more gay friends!!!!! ^
    000Thallensjaan 000Thallensjaan 16-17, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    I've only told my family I'm gay. I haven't told anyone else besides them. My little brother said it is cool having a gay older brother which I found funny. I want to tell other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses a week ago

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    Let me put it this way, if you're gay don't except to be in my life. I do NOT make friends with gay people. I know a gay couple that got married, they both got blocked from FB and...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I really don't. I'd go out with a men if he was bi and liked me but I knew many people who wouldn't. I'd be friends with any orientation as long as their personality is amazing...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Supreme Court rules in favor of same-sex marriagePosted: Jun 26, 2015 7:05 AM PDTBy Magdalena KrajewskiCONNECTWASHINGTON (AP) — The Supreme Court declared Friday that same...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I'm 15 years old I live in Michigan in looking for a daddy to have sex with and trade pics with message me;)
    robertring robertring 22-25, M Jun 24

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    Hi! I'm 13. Any daddy interested?
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    No I'm Not, I have a question. Can one of you anti gay Christians who claims that the Bible states gay marriage is wrong (even though it doesn't) explain to me what is so natural...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24

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    ‘Dad, will you go to jail?’ – The cost of reporting truth Mon Jun 22, 2015 - 2:44 pm EST I spent an entire day trying to figure out how to break it to my wife that my name...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Selling Homosexuality To America Paul E. Rondeau “[I]nstitutional sites from which discourse proceeds must be identified ... [D]iscourse is power itself, and the power to...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M Jun 23

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    I am proud to be a gay man and I even though my life is very upside down because of my homophobic family I've emerged flawed but with an extra shield to ward off the homophobes...
    sirianstarsoul sirianstarsoul 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 22

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    I have come out to my wife and we have separated to think. My wife wants me to move home and try to live a "straight" lifestyle. I'm not happy living that lifestyle. I'm attracted...
    wesbrownbear87 wesbrownbear87 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 21

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