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I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 226 People

    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I wish I knew more parents like me.

    I have 2 children who are amazing.
    jacobnix jacobnix 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    2 boys, one 30, one 26 - love them both,

    both straight - but grew up very accepting of alternative viewpoints and lifestyles - both pretty liberal in their views, like me - both stable, hard workers, one married with 3 kids (older one), other finishing extended college program and working at the same time - both no...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 7 Responses Mar 21

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    In the closet gay. Have a crush on a few of my friends but I'm fairly positive they're all straight. On here to meet people but not looking for anything serious right now. Still I...
    SeanDR SeanDR 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    It's so hard to find some one:( All my friends Are in relationships and I'm gay and can't find any one! If anyone wants to chat then message me or snapchat me- cornishboy13
    Olly2700 Olly2700 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    The guys at my schools are always telling somebody "dude that's so gay" and one even scoots away like its a disease. I'm straight but I find it just as annoying as the next person...
    MyMindHurts01 MyMindHurts01 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    my name is Robbie, I am 15 years old and gay. I live in Massachusetts. hmu if you need someone to talk to or whatever. ??????
    c0sm1cdirtybl0nde c0sm1cdirtybl0nde 13-15, M 3 hrs ago

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    I am gay and in the closet. I have three best friends, two are straight and one is pan (I am the only person she has told). I like everyone no matter what their sexual orientation...
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    I love you dad, you love us unconditionally and I thank you for everything for taking care of us and for providing everything we need even though you're all alone by yourself...
    SleepyHeadSnorelax SleepyHeadSnorelax 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    20 years old, good looking, gay college guy from Serbia looking to get married in the USA. I need a chance to start my new life somewhere else. I'm a good, simple guy. I'm a loyal...
    Dima95 Dima95 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    20 years old, good looking, gay college guy from Serbia looking to get married in the USA. I need a chance to start my new life somewhere else. I'm a good, simple guy. I'm a loyal...
    Dima95 Dima95 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    20 years old, good looking, gay college guy from Serbia looking to get married in the USA. I need a chance to start my new life somewhere else. I'm a good, simple guy. I'm a loyal...
    Dima95 Dima95 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    20 years old, good looking, gay college guy from Serbia looking to get married in the USA. I need a chance to start my new life somewhere else. I'm a good, simple guy. I'm a loyal...
    Dima95 Dima95 18-21, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So my best friend and I are gay. Recently, we both admitted we have feelings for each other, but we decided not to act on them because we go to school 4.5 hours apart, but where we...
    dexter06 dexter06 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I miss you, daddy!!!! RIP I love, you!
    craigslist504 craigslist504 36-40 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I like this guy but not sure whther he is gay or straight. Do anyone have any ways to find out like a small test or something?
    jxmon jxmon 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    I found out late that allmost everybody at school knew i was gay....all my friends...little kids...people i did't even know....even old men use to shout"gay!" eveytime they see me...
    jrcervin jrcervin 16-17, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I hope that we could bond together more. i don't know what i'm supposed to do if my mom and dad divorce. i love you.
    TheGirlThatNobodyNoticed TheGirlThatNobodyNoticed 13-15 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm 25 years old and have come to the realization that I long to be with a man in the future. I'm Gay and proud of it.
    Pikachu2008 Pikachu2008 22-25, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I have known I am gay since I was about 12 years old and when I was about 13 I realised that I kinda like this guy, the only problem is that he is my bestfriend and that he is...
    casio747 casio747 13-15, M 16 hrs ago

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    Hey I'm male 1 7 and I'm horn and looking for a daddy
    saeyer65 saeyer65 16-17, M 20 hrs ago

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    Why I do not communicate with my father nor brother. Last summer when I as at camp ( sleep over) where my brother as a councillor I met a gay boy, after my brother left because...
    cablebox23 cablebox23 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am gay and I feel like I don't fit with gay guys. I realized I don't have many gay friends because they end up liking me or they want to get with me in some way or I end up...
    PlurDan PlurDan 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    You probably know that the absolute majority of Russians hate gays, so coming out is out of the question if you still live in a relatively small city with muslim parents. It's not...
    UchuuStranger UchuuStranger 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    *Part 3* Chris's birthday came up in July, so I bought him a basketball which he needed since he's a player. And I made him a beach party with his close friends including Joyce...
    M1k3L3vitZ M1k3L3vitZ 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Gay pride is in the air; the celebrations took place in my town on August 8th. There is still some remnants, and apparently straight people everywhere are appalled at such a thing...
    itscake itscake 22-25, F a week ago

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    I am celibate and gay man.i am disabled. I feel I am the only gay man who has not had sex.are thete other gay men who are celibate? I feel so different from everyone else. I don't...
    Quinky99 Quinky99 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I just found out most of my dad's side of the family is homophobic, which is definitely going to make my coming out difficult. But atleast my mom has hinted me her support.
    ThatRandomShortGuy ThatRandomShortGuy 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    I wanted to understand the gay world more so I watch gay ****. Is there like a g-spot in the butt. Idk. I think gays are awesome, especially if they are openly gay. I just want...
    Smelyalata97 Smelyalata97 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    any older Daddy's out there looking a sissy boy?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 17

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