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I Am a Gay Dad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 170 People

    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    For my Birthday and Christmas last year Dad had given me $50 for each, and I had left that money in the cards that he had given to me, I just didn’t know what to get with it...
    Shamrock40 Shamrock40 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

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    That awkward moment you are sad you don't have a lot of gay friends then you realize oh ya that's cuz your not outa the closet rrrrrright....... Sadface :(((
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    That awkward moment you are sad you don't have a lot of gay friends then you realize oh ya that's cuz your not outa the closet rrrrrrighhttttt....... Sadface :(((
    Adamisbamfin Adamisbamfin 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    The step out of the closet seems to be an insurmountable one. At least for me. The level of courage it takes is incredible. As I've just finished my first degree, I've been doing a...
    rcnb10 rcnb10 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    This has to be one of the worst and unchallenged stereotypes ever. Just because a boy is feminine, it has nothing to do with his sexuality. It's been my privilege to know many...
    MrsJoanieBNH MrsJoanieBNH 56-60, T 5 Responses Aug 25

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    The phone convocation that has just changed my life! I decided I couldn't put up with hiding anymore so I called my parents from my boarding house. *ring ring* Housekeeper...
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 12 Responses Sep 10

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    My Dad keeps on trying to convince me that It's "Just a phase" & all that jazz. My Mum doesn't mind that I'm gay, she's suspected It from the start. He's always been obsessed with...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F Aug 26

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    Soo i told my family (mom, dad, and brother) that i was gay. My mom and dad were ok with it.. but my older brother didnt seem too happy. He barely even talks to me now. & He even...
    kylebuist kylebuist 13-15, M 8 Responses Sep 7

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    Looking for a younger gay son for a real time relationship.
    travis43 travis43 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    So I'm not actually gay (I'm pan but whatever) but I'm scared to actually come out to my family. I mean, it's easier to tell friends or tell people online but when it comes to...
    Barakaflacka Barakaflacka 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    ok im kevin im gay and got out from a bad relationship. my exbf left me alone cheating on me with my best friend and classmate. i got kinda depressed tried to cut and cried over...
    puppySmexyBoy puppySmexyBoy 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My dad is hot. I like it when he touches me.
    gayandproud13 gayandproud13 13-15, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm 15 And I need a daddy Hmu for my snapchat
    rrrlll rrrlll 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I need a daddy right mewww
    Mews4you Mews4you 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    My dad is an arrogant, racist, sexist, homophobic ******* that believes beating up his daughter (me) will change my opinion on how I feel about black people or gays. Just a heads...
    jazsag19 jazsag19 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love my dad more than anything and wish I could have sex with him.
    JeremyCooper JeremyCooper 16-17, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm going home today from college to spend time with my dad. Hopefully something will happen. Will update.
    teentwink teentwink 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm not a bear but a boy looking for a daddy to skype with. 29/ gwm in good shape. Into Titplay and nice big daddy bears. Message me.
    Yo2946 Yo2946 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    So I am gay. Currently in college. You guys are probably all familiar with LGBT stories, but it is not until you are LGBT would you know how hard it is. I know I am different from...
    tnhmt tnhmt 18-21, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I dislike how "gay" has become an adjective. "Gay marriage, gay rights, gay couple".Soon I'll be driving my gay car, with my gay friends going to watch a gay movie with a gay cast...
    brokenfixed brokenfixed 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 1

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    There are different people in the world, but I especially like gay people. I'll explain why. Gay people are versatile, masculine or feminine. Some look so good that we would never...
    DaQueenB92 DaQueenB92 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I am gay myself but I hate a lot of the gay people around me Gay people have the positive stereotype of being really nice people......NOT ALWAYS! Most gay people in my area are...
    Vaughn37 Vaughn37 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Me and one of my good friends were talking about kids and she was like "Would you make your kids gay" and I said I wouldn't care if they were gay or straight but my child being...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I don't know how people can be so ignorant. I really don't get it. If its because of religion, what is the point of calling it a sin? I told my friend who called homosexuality an...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I've known my now-boyfriend for a year and a half, and we've been seriously dating for five months now. He is a wonderful, super talented guy who is crazy in love with me and...
    ccapron ccapron 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    people. gay is not an adjective, it's the definition of a man who is attracted to the same gender. okay, it used to be an adjective, but surely people aren't saying "this is so...
    hans13 hans13 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    My urges to have sex with men are so strong now. I love my wife but it has become clear to me that I am gay. When I admit my homosexuality to myself I feel so free. When I tell...
    walkingcast1 walkingcast1 41-45, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    The more gay men I have met in my life, the more I realize that once you get to know a gay man, you realize most are non-traditional. I do think "non-traditional" is code for...
    shygrant shygrant 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm a gay 13 year old gay Still in the closet Need advice about coming out I'm also looking for a gay 13-20 year old gay who loves me for who I am No matter what Loves my...
    jgarcia75 jgarcia75 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    I just need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for 3 years. It's been a crazy *** ride. A lot of hurdles to overcome, between abuse on my part...
    kavlynn99 kavlynn99 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    Ok iv had a friend who thought was gay for about a year now. So recently he told me he had a gay friend and i got all excited and tryed to find this gay friend when I finally do...
    stricker1997 stricker1997 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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