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I Am a Gay Dad

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    I wish I knew more parents like me.

    I have 2 children who are amazing.
    jacobnix jacobnix 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    Say for instance a new born baby boy has to gay

    fathers. He grows up. Do you think he'll have interest in boys because his parents are gay or will that not have an effect on him. I feel in some cases a child can be brought up gay if that makes sense or can be persuaded to be gay. I don't think every child who is (LGB) are...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    2 boys, one 30, one 26 - love them both,

    both straight - but grew up very accepting of alternative viewpoints and lifestyles - both pretty liberal in their views, like me - both stable, hard workers, one married with 3 kids (older one), other finishing extended college program and working at the same time - both no...
    billytex1 billytex1 61-65, M 7 Responses Mar 21

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M Apr 26, 2012

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    I really wish it was easier to tell if a guy is gay
    soxman97 soxman97 18-21, M 1 Response 55 mins ago

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    Even if you may never get in contact with a gay person, chances are, as an American, you will live a happier and longer life because that is what equality does, it raises everyone...
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Now!!! -stomps feet- I want a daddy now!!!!!!!!!
    Babygirl12296 Babygirl12296 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I love to cross dress and wear sexy under wear I fantasy about having sex the same way women's have it having a **** in my mouth and *** so am I gay
    dresscross dresscross 51-55, M 5 hrs ago

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    Bi gay guys message me ;))
    jonathaneh jonathaneh 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    Seeking a precious baby girl for some Daddy play. Deep, enriching fantasies, erotic adventures . . .
    truzak truzak 51-55, M 6 hrs ago

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    K-I-k Anyone? Join #gayxbone I just made it xD don't expect anything special
    EpicBrotato EpicBrotato 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    I love Daddy daughter role playing. Especially when it's detailed & you're taking advantage of your little girl while no one is home(;
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31 18-21, F 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    M14 any daddy want to chat? ;) +30
    younggay123 younggay123 22-25, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am stumped. I've been reading reactions to the Supreme Court decision to expand the right to marry to same sex couples and found a theme of dissent that confuses me. I am seeing...
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I miss my dad today he would have been 84. I miss him so much. I remember all the fun things we did together he lived a good life can't wait to see him again.
    bigbill75 bigbill75 36-40, M 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I really do !!!!!! I would do my best to obey daddy !
    DouceFolie DouceFolie 18-21, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I think it would be nice to have a daddies little girl, a sexy little girl to love and protect and worship and teach her things, Watch her grow up, turning into a sexy young lady...
    HardnThick4U HardnThick4U 41-45, M 15 hrs ago

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    Hey I'm Steven, I'm 16 and so totally gay! I came out about a year ago and I just love having sex with men, especially older men ;)
    GaySteven16 GaySteven16 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    my dad told my mom he wanted a divorce 5 days ago and basically blamed her for everything. he said he wasn´t happy. today i found out that he has been cheating on her. i don´t...
    10055p 10055p 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    It took me a long time and lots of heartache before I was able to admit to myself that I was gay, but looking back the signs were there from the start, I just didn't see or refused...
    Sarah2910 Sarah2910 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    M14 i need a daddy ;) (24-45)
    younggay123 younggay123 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's so judgmental and just rude. He has absolutely no respect for people. He constantly looks at men and says "wow, he looks like a homo." Or "ew, they were gay, I wanted to...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Surprisingly I've dated so many gay guys and I'm a girl. Like they would date me and then once we broke up or stopped "talking" they would come out of the closet and be like "I'm...
    purplepumpkin17 purplepumpkin17 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm honestly scared as hell to tell anybody. I'm not scared of losing friends, because the don't have any, but I'm scared to tell my family. I'm almost positive I know how the jack...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not necessarily too open about being gay. My step-siblings just say I'm curious. My step-douche, which is what I call my step-dad, says I don't know what I'm talking about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm tired of people saying they were born gay or straight. The very concept of being gay or straight is completely societal. If anybody has pets like cats, they all do stuff to...
    EllaBella9999 EllaBella9999 18-21, F a week ago

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    enough of it! i'm so sick of over hearing my parents saying stuff like "gays are gross" and "gays aren't people" if they simply knew i supported gays, they would make me live with...
    wolfsparadise wolfsparadise 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I am 15 and gay, I've only told one friend about my orientation. I know if I told my mother she would be fine with it, but my dad, (The two are devorced) I dont really know. I plan...
    DiggyDug777 DiggyDug777 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    you know i really do not know how to look at this Gay Marriage and Transgender stuff, I was talking to my room mate about this myself & my room mate are not gay but i told him my...
    Jerseygal72 Jerseygal72 41-45, F Jul 21

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    Over three years since my dad passed away now, I really wish I came out to him before he died. I felt the most comfortable person to talk to about anything, was him. I haven't come...
    Venables98 Venables98 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I support gay people. A lot of people I know are gay and I don't have anything against gays. Gay people should be treated like anybody else, if you think about they really are not...
    kelseypalmer08 kelseypalmer08 13-15, F Jul 19

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    My date last night was a real dud. Hot or Not.......NOT. The topic of conversation kept coming back to his mom who has dementia and his brother who, during heart surgery, ended...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 9 Responses Jul 18

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