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I Am a Gay Dad

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    My Kids

    I was married for 13 years and have a daughter (now 21) and a son (17 y.o.). They have been very supportive to me since my divorce and as I came out to them 7 years ago. My daughter has even tried to fix me with someone up a few times. Even though my kids have 2 different...
    LoneBlogger LoneBlogger 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 29, 2011

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    TV Documentary

    An award winning production company seeks same sex couples who are raising a family for an inspiring new documentary. Message me for more details Thanks! -Tony
    entasy entasy 31-35 May 21, 2013

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    Im Bi And So Is My Son

    My son came out to me about one year and a half ago. he was worried that I wouldn't like him for it but I was totally ok and he was shocked. When I told him I was bi in college he was surprised and I think it made our relationship a lot stronger. He came out of the closet when he...
    hotcookie69 hotcookie69 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My Story...from Jw to Happy Gay Dad

    I was raised as a Jehovah's Witness, as my grandparents were and so on.  Everyone I knew was a JW - we only associated with other JWs.  I eventually got married...had a child (now 14).  My wife cheated on me, oddly enough when I had reached a lot of my goals of...
    eladdel eladdel 36-40, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2007

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    My Story.........

    I was married for 14years and have 4 beautiful children.They range in ages from 30yrs down to 20.........3 Daughters and 1 Son.My second Daughter is 25 this November and is due to get married this December.I am very worried about her as i think she is depressed and dont know what...
    crowbar12 crowbar12 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Yep I Am A Gay And A Dad/daddy

    I grew up as a sheltered kid in the 70's & 80's and didnt know what "gay" was. I did some things as a young kid with no "words" for it. When I was mid/early teens I had a chance to work for a gay step uncle and his partner. I was terrified to be around them in fear of ? I then at...
    jimalee2000 jimalee2000 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 9, 2010

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    I am a dad that has sexual attractions to men.

    Well... actually I am a grandfather now. I don't call myself gay because that implies that I am happy or content to be what I am. I am not. But this is about being a "gay" dad. My kids, son, 29 and daughter, 23 have known about my being attracted to men at almost the same time...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    Anxious

    I am a gay dad. I have 2 teen kids(one girl/1 boy). My wife knows I'm gay and I want to tell my kids.She is worried that they will hate me and want nothing to do with me.Anyone else have these concerns?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Living For The Day

    I too am a gay dad. My wife knows,as does yours. She has also told me that my kids will hate me. I feel that I will always be in the closet until I am able to tell them. I hate living my life like this. Are you still with your wife or divorced?
    Camper01 Camper01 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Didn't Know We Were Pregnant

    My lover and I were together for about 4 months  when we took custody of my kids. Seriously we had a couch that sat on phone books because we were just starting out. My oldest was 11 when she called me and said "It's your turn" and that she wanted time so she could party and...
    LetNatureHpn LetNatureHpn 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    Well, I might as well say it. My name is Cody I'm 13, 14 in December, I live just outside Huston in Texas and I'm gay, not bi, trans, demisexual or anything like that I'm just...
    xcodyxx xcodyxx 13-15, M 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I don't know if it's a daddy complex, since all the complex' I've heard of is people lacking a father figure growing up. I've always known my dad, and we have always been really...
    leejoonnieoppa leejoonnieoppa 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    It's been two months. This pain is killing me. Right now one of my concerns is not to forget the sound of his voice or his smell. It sucks. I think movies can never capture and...
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Christromp Christromp 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    All i did was download the app BoyAhoy and I found local gay teens and gay teens around the world and it only took me 5 months to find this solution to my problem.
    KoolBoy55 KoolBoy55 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    It's the first time that I talk about it 'out loud'. I only talk about this by message but well I need to do it some day so...here I am! :D I'm 17 and I know it since I had around...
    Bral05 Bral05 16-17, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I'm out of the closet and accepted by my mom at last! Oh yeah, and my little brother. LOL. Well a few nights ago, the 30th of July, I got a phone call from the cousin I talked to a...
    DaysEJole DaysEJole 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I can't tell my dad I am gay because he will never forgive me, as if it's a very big deal and a sin to him. When my uncle told his family he's gay, my dad was the one most...
    AlfieMark AlfieMark 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    There is simply no one in this world that does not have any complication in their life. Everyone has their own problem and they are handling as much they can. Although there are so...
    Akashamarnam Akashamarnam 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I'm proud to be gay !!!!!!!!!!!!!
    rob7819 rob7819 36-40, M 14 hrs ago

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    I'm looking for a gay guy in Texas or new York I live in both places
    jonnyboy325685 jonnyboy325685 13-15, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I am not homosexual, however I have a strong belief that everyone has the right to be who they are; I am a straight man who has had many gay friends over the years and I hold each...
    Syonide Syonide 26-30, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am a South-Asian-origin Canadian, well-settled gay guy, 37, in Canada. I'm looking for a lesbian or asexual woman for permanent marriage and kids. If you're looking for the same...
    goodguyhere goodguyhere 36-40, M 46 mins ago

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    I am a South-Asian-origin Canadian, well-settled gay guy, 37, in Canada. I'm looking for a lesbian or asexual woman for permanent marriage and kids. If you're looking for the same...
    goodguyhere goodguyhere 36-40, M 44 mins ago

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    I am 17 years old and gay since I came out to my parents, they are blaming theirself they think I am gay because of them. My parents are not homophobic but they are trying to make...
    Jaqiem Jaqiem 16-17, T 1 Response Aug 10

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M Jul 26

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    I worked our I was gay at a later age, how anyone could believe that this life is a choice is beyond me, I hate the fact I'm gay, that my dreams of being a dad and having a family...
    pyroguy80 pyroguy80 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 29

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M Aug 2

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M Aug 2

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    Sister says she doesn't like when gay people flaunt being gay (ie holding hands), brother thinks we shouldn't be able to get married and try to get "more rights than they already...
    Zaquash Zaquash 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I found out that I was gay in the middle of my teen years and feel comfortable with it, but it's been hard being myself because I haven't come out to my dad yet or my family...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't have any recollection of loving my dad when I was young, though the photos show me with a huge grin on my face. Through all my teenage years, I have had to suffer with...
    nobodyhastoknow nobodyhastoknow 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I miss my dad, and he's asleep in his bed down the hall.
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T 15 hrs ago

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    My dad used to do drugs and was abusive to my mom and my little brother and I. We used to run away from him growing up. Never been stable. Have mental issues. When he drinks...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm 23, turning 24 in a matter of weeks and i'm bi, but borderline gay. My mom first knew when she saw my Myspace page was full of guys on it and then she questioned me. I told her...
    superkidchris90 superkidchris90 22-25, M Jul 24

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    My dad thinks gays should be burned on a stake. Little does he know I am gay
    mrdookieboo mrdookieboo 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 26

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    Hi, I'm Aaron. I am gay. I want a bf, so here I have inluded a description of me. hair: brown height: four ft. eleven face: glasses, brown eyes, and no piercings likes: sports and...
    Lemmebe Lemmebe 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    Is being gay bad?! My dad orders these religious tracts and just wanted to know
    IAmReallyGay IAmReallyGay 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Hey I'm 13 gay and that's about it
    biguy6996 biguy6996 13-15, M Aug 9

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    My dad is a very straight acting man. VERY. He always walks around the house in his boxers and I can always see he has a bulge poking
    jdragon1704 jdragon1704 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I wish, honestly! I do. I am a good sweet nice person inside but because I've never been emotionally corrected by my dad I've built up defense mechanisms and walls with him I can't...
    Ganglish Ganglish 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Dad/granddad looking for son/grandson for real time relationship in NW USA
    travis43 travis43 56-60, M 17 hrs ago

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    HIV Positive does not mean “Dirty” All over hook-up websites, gay men portraying themselves as HIV Negative refer to themselves as “being clean”. This is also true on TV...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M Jul 21

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    (This is a post of mine from a previous profile. I decided I'd post it on my new profile) Gay Marriage I am fully in support of gay, lesbian and transgender couples' right to get...
    ForeverInDarkness22 ForeverInDarkness22 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    Yesterday, I was in Cleveland, Ohio. To my disgust, there were gay flags everywhere and gay pride crap that made me want to vomit. (Lecture time) People just don't get it, do...
    PopcornLadder PopcornLadder 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't give a damn about gay political correctness, what's gay and what isn't gay. How I should be gay by some retarded limp wrist fool from NYC. I do a lot stuff that most gay...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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