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I Am a Gay Man Married to a Straight Woman

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    I am a gay man that has been married

    now to my wife for 40 years. Yes she knew long before we married 6 years to be exact. We met in High School at the age of 16 and were introduced buy a mutual friend (she had a major crush on me and I was not interested at all). We met in the library in the small Midwest town...
    marinbear marinbear 61-65 6 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Yeah. So. I've been married

    for about 11 years now. I've always known I was gay but hid it. I couldn't come to terms with it and the negative repercussions of exposing my secret. Now I have even more at stake with a wife and daughter. My depression is getting much worse and I can't help but think that it's...
    maelstrom32 maelstrom32 31-35, M 11 Responses Feb 16

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    I am thinking of telling my wife

    that I am gay. Does anyone have experience doing this? I am terrified.
    man4man1975 man4man1975 36-40, M 9 Responses Aug 29

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    A New Societal Trend Observed- Gay Men Married To Straight Women

    During the course of the past year a number of gay men have consulted with me about obtaining a divorce. These are not gay men married to other gay men. These are gay men married to women. I’ve practiced family law and been a divorce consultant for over twenty-five years...
    massdivorcelaw massdivorcelaw 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Learner

    When I say gay and married I would love to have full sex with another man to feel his  **** in my hand and lick his **** and take all the *** he can give me so anyone wants to take off my L plates and make a man happy get in touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Sometimes I want to just get it over with

    and tell everyone else in my life who I really am. But the consequences are too frightening.
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    jonathon3 jonathon3 26-30, T Nov 5

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    Trying To Come Out

    I have been trying to come out for a while now, the big thing is that i am married to a woman for eight years and have 3 kids, i did come out, i even got a tattoo to show that i am proud, but dont know what to do, i do wonder what my life would be like to go ahead and be me, any...
    gayvet gayvet 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Wish I Could Be Me!

    I don't know which experience too start with my life is full of them, so this is my current I'm 50 years old I have been married for 33 years I have known that I was gay for why lie? all of my life. I have a wife who is 53 and a boy friend of two years who is 23; I love them...
    Ty1963 Ty1963 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Not My Fault

    my wife wont do what a man can do for me like getting bone in the butt and she barely suck my **** shes not freaky
    smithwillie34 smithwillie34 41-45 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Married Gay Man

    I am in my mid forties and have been married for over twenty years. I suppose I have always been turned on by the thoughts of having sex with a man. Lately this has become a obsession and is taking over my life what should I do
    Peter1935 Peter1935 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Gay And Married..

    As the title describes, I'm a closeted gay and married to a woman!! It's an interesting journey that I'm going through, but I can't blame anyone, because that was my choice & choose this path being completely aware of the consequences. I was just wondering if there are other...
    manomamk manomamk 31-35, M 15 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    So I have been really working through being

    honest with my wife. I have been married 6 years and though I have always been attracted to men, I have never told her. 2 months ago I did and it was SUCH a relief! So needless to say we have had numerous chats about it and trying to find our "new normal". It's been good but...
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 15

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    I'm a married man with a straight wife.

    I love her very much but I love to have sex with men. I find it much more of what I wont and love to be the salve. I just can't tell her as I know she will be so very up set and may even leave me. I don't wont that but would like to find a good man friend to have good sex with...
    phd1956 phd1956 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Traditional Marraige

    i'm 21 years old and married. which was something i never planned on doing, i always imagined myself putting that off till my late thirties. i wouldnt mind being engaged for 10 years if it meant we were built to last, marrying young can obviously cause problems.but i also put off...
    MadameAdam MadameAdam 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I have gone back and forth (women

    and men). But now, as I have gotten older, and thinking about the past, having sex with men is far more satisfying and passionate. I have been married for 26 years and have no desire to have sex with my wife. However, when I am by myself, a craving for men totally occurs...
    chaiguy18 chaiguy18 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 19

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    First off, let me say

    that I am not gay. I define gay as someone that is happy with their sexuality, lifestyle...what ever you want to call it. I am not. I have been married to my wife for 30 years. I love her and do not want to hurt her in any way. But that is just what I have done by lying to...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I married before I accepted that I was gay. I do not regret getting married but I will not come out of my closet and announce that I am gay.
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    I'm a young gay boy and want an older man to make me his slave and **** me hard
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    I don't mind if anyone's gay, I fully support their decision, BUT I feel weird cause idk but I like to look at c0*cks and gives me a bo*ner. But when I see the body of a guy it's...
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    Yes I am but I cannot say as I will be censored again.
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    Firstly I would like to say that I arrived at these most important principles after what I could term a whirlwind of experiences, mostly negative, that helped to shape these...
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