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I Am a Gay Man Married to a Straight Woman

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    I am a gay man that has been married

    now to my wife for 40 years. Yes she knew long before we married 6 years to be exact. We met in High School at the age of 16 and were introduced buy a mutual friend (she had a major crush on me and I was not interested at all). We met in the library in the small Midwest town...
    marinbear marinbear 61-65 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    First off, let me say

    that I am not gay. I define gay as someone that is happy with their sexuality, lifestyle...what ever you want to call it. I am not. I have been married to my wife for 30 years. I love her and do not want to hurt her in any way. But that is just what I have done by lying to...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2013

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    Gay And Married..

    As the title describes, I'm a closeted gay and married to a woman!! It's an interesting journey that I'm going through, but I can't blame anyone, because that was my choice & choose this path being completely aware of the consequences. I was just wondering if there are other...
    manomamk manomamk 31-35, M 13 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Trying To Come Out

    I have been trying to come out for a while now, the big thing is that i am married to a woman for eight years and have 3 kids, i did come out, i even got a tattoo to show that i am proud, but dont know what to do, i do wonder what my life would be like to go ahead and be me, any...
    gayvet gayvet 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Wish I Could Be Me!

    I don't know which experience too start with my life is full of them, so this is my current I'm 50 years old I have been married for 33 years I have known that I was gay for why lie? all of my life. I have a wife who is 53 and a boy friend of two years who is 23; I love them...
    Ty1963 Ty1963 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    A New Societal Trend Observed- Gay Men Married To Straight Women

    During the course of the past year a number of gay men have consulted with me about obtaining a divorce. These are not gay men married to other gay men. These are gay men married to women. I’ve practiced family law and been a divorce consultant for over twenty-five years...
    massdivorcelaw massdivorcelaw 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Not My Fault

    my wife wont do what a man can do for me like getting bone in the butt and she barely suck my **** shes not freaky
    smithwillie34 smithwillie34 41-45 1 Response Aug 5, 2012

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    Learner

    When I say gay and married I would love to have full sex with another man to feel his  **** in my hand and lick his **** and take all the *** he can give me so anyone wants to take off my L plates and make a man happy get in touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Traditional Marraige

    i'm 21 years old and married. which was something i never planned on doing, i always imagined myself putting that off till my late thirties. i wouldnt mind being engaged for 10 years if it meant we were built to last, marrying young can obviously cause problems.but i also put off...
    MadameAdam MadameAdam 18-21, M Jan 29, 2013

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    Married Gay Man

    I am in my mid forties and have been married for over twenty years. I suppose I have always been turned on by the thoughts of having sex with a man. Lately this has become a obsession and is taking over my life what should I do
    Peter1935 Peter1935 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Yeah. So. I've been married

    for about 11 years now. I've always known I was gay but hid it. I couldn't come to terms with it and the negative repercussions of exposing my secret. Now I have even more at stake with a wife and daughter. My depression is getting much worse and I can't help but think that it's...
    maelstrom32 maelstrom32 31-35, M 9 Responses Feb 16

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    I'm a gay man living in DC. I struggled for years but am finally out to most everyone in my life. Happy to share my experiences.
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    I experience a lot of discrimination since I black as well as because I am not as masculine as the gays of the community want you to be. I get tired of the hyper masculinity and...
    simplycomplex82 simplycomplex82 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I told him i need space to get over him I was in a emotionally destructive place and just looking at him made me fall in love all over again. He understood but kept messaging me, I...
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    (Part 4) And so we continued to text each other throughout the night semi joking about hugging together as it was cold. Then what happened next was sad but expected. He was told by...
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    Been there! What's missing is that the male best friend is a straight guy! All the good ones are straight! Lol
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    I am a 24 year old lesbian African girl. I am well educated. I have a Masters degree and a full time career. I am also independent and support myself full time. My family is...
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    I am looking to share my life with a decent family oriented lady.. Am decent smart and successful... My gay life was pretty tough and inactive. Am in a place where i want and need...
    Ocean009 Ocean009 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Someone I was chatting with just told me that I had failed to indicate my gender in my profile. Though I had not intended to leave this blank, I think it might be my subconscious...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 4 Responses Jun 26

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    Does any one need a sub I am looking for a master I've never done anything gay but my mistress says I need to be trained by a guy
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    Hi! I would really like to have a relationship leading to marriage and 2.4 kids with a closet Lesbian. Not everyone is comfortable about coming out and that is perfectly fine. I...
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    Hi! I'm 23 Asian closeted gay guy who studying in San Francisco. Due to the pressure from family, I gotta marry with a girl in the future, so I'm here for looking for MOC. Plz feel...
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    workvyou2 workvyou2 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    (Part 1) Well it all started last summer in Beijing - I'm from london and he is from leon in France, we met in Chinese class and it was actually because he was flirting with some...
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    (Part 3) Our heads were so close while we watched the laptop and I felt the urge to just lean into him and kiss him on his cut cheek but I didn't know if he actually liked me in...
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    Hey I'm new here and i hope someone here reads this and understands. I'm 17 and I'm still in the closet about my sexuality. I'm really into girls but I can't fin another girl...
    moonjava454 moonjava454 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Its a real challenge sometimes! Not sure why we try so hard I love him! I believe he loves me.
    Felarry Felarry 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    It seems my boyfriend may have symptoms of depression, and it is making it really hard to love him, and stay in the relationship.
    stephens1989 stephens1989 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    been looking for a serious partner who could understand me and with the same interest.
    gexbly gexbly 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    He has taken up a significant boyfriend role throughout some times in my life. I have always held something for him, consciously or unconsciously? But it can never seem to be. He...
    OreoWellington OreoWellington 22-25, F Jul 3

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    I just found out yesterday, 7/18/14 that I am HIV positive. I was tested in November of 2013 and it was negative. I was recently and infected and I now know who infected me...
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    "I have a dream That one day When someone asks me who I like That I can proudly point to that woman And not face prejudice Because I am also a woman I have a dream That one...
    lmyrical lmyrical 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I was raised in a very religious household and although my parents never directly mentioned it we were brought up, mainly through church believing homosexuality to be a sin. That...
    spankedmatilda spankedmatilda 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    rogrey rogrey 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Marriage should only be between a woman and a woman, or a man and a man, or a man and a woman!!!!!
    tealstreak2222 tealstreak2222 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    It is something I have known since I was very young but I never accepted the fact that I was gay. When I was young it was easy to hide but through out high school I developed a...
    imagayguy imagayguy 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Marriage Is For Everybody. Instead of saying "marriage should be only between a man and a woman" which has really weak arguments supporting that view, just let everybody have a...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F Jun 24

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    Is it normal? This marriage leaves me so confused, I don't know which direction is up anymore. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. Everything was fine until I got...
    pc223 pc223 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 22

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    Oh yeah...I am still looking....Waiting for that lucky charm....someone who's just like me..in the same situation....Angels...Do something. I am so looking forward to connect with...
    platonix platonix 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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