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I Am a Gay Man Married to a Straight Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 188 People

    Not My Fault

    my wife wont do what a man can do for me like getting bone in the butt and she barely suck my **** shes not freaky
    smithwillie34 smithwillie34 41-45 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Yeah. So. I've been married

    for about 11 years now. I've always known I was gay but hid it. I couldn't come to terms with it and the negative repercussions of exposing my secret. Now I have even more at stake with a wife and daughter. My depression is getting much worse and I can't help but think that it's...
    maelstrom32 maelstrom32 31-35, M 10 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    I am a gay man that has been married

    now to my wife for 40 years. Yes she knew long before we married 6 years to be exact. We met in High School at the age of 16 and were introduced buy a mutual friend (she had a major crush on me and I was not interested at all). We met in the library in the small Midwest town...
    marinbear marinbear 61-65 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Wish I Could Be Me!

    I don't know which experience too start with my life is full of them, so this is my current I'm 50 years old I have been married for 33 years I have known that I was gay for why lie? all of my life. I have a wife who is 53 and a boy friend of two years who is 23; I love them...
    Ty1963 Ty1963 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Gay And Married..

    As the title describes, I'm a closeted gay and married to a woman!! It's an interesting journey that I'm going through, but I can't blame anyone, because that was my choice & choose this path being completely aware of the consequences. I was just wondering if there are other...
    manomamk manomamk 31-35, M 14 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I'm a married man with a straight wife.

    I love her very much but I love to have sex with men. I find it much more of what I wont and love to be the salve. I just can't tell her as I know she will be so very up set and may even leave me. I don't wont that but would like to find a good man friend to have good sex with...
    phd1956 phd1956 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    A New Societal Trend Observed- Gay Men Married To Straight Women

    During the course of the past year a number of gay men have consulted with me about obtaining a divorce. These are not gay men married to other gay men. These are gay men married to women. I’ve practiced family law and been a divorce consultant for over twenty-five years...
    massdivorcelaw massdivorcelaw 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Sometimes I want to just get it over with

    and tell everyone else in my life who I really am. But the consequences are too frightening.
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    So I have been really working through being

    honest with my wife. I have been married 6 years and though I have always been attracted to men, I have never told her. 2 months ago I did and it was SUCH a relief! So needless to say we have had numerous chats about it and trying to find our "new normal". It's been good but...
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Married Gay Man

    I am in my mid forties and have been married for over twenty years. I suppose I have always been turned on by the thoughts of having sex with a man. Lately this has become a obsession and is taking over my life what should I do
    Peter1935 Peter1935 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Trying To Come Out

    I have been trying to come out for a while now, the big thing is that i am married to a woman for eight years and have 3 kids, i did come out, i even got a tattoo to show that i am proud, but dont know what to do, i do wonder what my life would be like to go ahead and be me, any...
    gayvet gayvet 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    First off, let me say

    that I am not gay. I define gay as someone that is happy with their sexuality, lifestyle...what ever you want to call it. I am not. I have been married to my wife for 30 years. I love her and do not want to hurt her in any way. But that is just what I have done by lying to...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Do you ever look at a family walking by,

    a mom, a dad and kids, and think "I wish I could be that person".
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 1 Response Mar 15

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    Traditional Marraige

    i'm 21 years old and married. which was something i never planned on doing, i always imagined myself putting that off till my late thirties. i wouldnt mind being engaged for 10 years if it meant we were built to last, marrying young can obviously cause problems.but i also put off...
    MadameAdam MadameAdam 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Learner

    When I say gay and married I would love to have full sex with another man to feel his  **** in my hand and lick his **** and take all the *** he can give me so anyone wants to take off my L plates and make a man happy get in touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Heeey... Long story short,

    7 years ago I felt that maybe my family was right, that I wasn't gay and that I was just brought into that lifestyle from being bullied in school and growing up without a close relationship with my father. And that somehow with faith and time things could change. I was...
    NIX1980 NIX1980 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I have gone back and forth (women

    and men). But now, as I have gotten older, and thinking about the past, having sex with men is far more satisfying and passionate. I have been married for 26 years and have no desire to have sex with my wife. However, when I am by myself, a craving for men totally occurs...
    chaiguy18 chaiguy18 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    jonathon3 jonathon3 26-30, T Nov 5, 2014

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    I am thinking of telling my wife

    that I am gay. Does anyone have experience doing this? I am terrified.
    man4man1975 man4man1975 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I came out to my wife a month ago,

    it crushed her. She is an amazing woman I truly do love her, I just can't love her the way that she needs a man to love her. I have two beautiful children a 3yr old and a 4 month old. I don't regret my marriage or my children. I know this will be better for everyone in the...
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm only 14 and I really do feel as is I'm a gay man inside a women's body?? I so glad I'm not the only one though, being fourteen I thought I was the stupidest person for thinking...
    liv0123 liv0123 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Would love to meet a young gay man who likes drag queens such as I. He must be clean, cut, sweet, soft, gentle and kind. No rough stuff or dominating of any kind, I'm too old for...
    FrauleinKarla FrauleinKarla 61-65, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Iamaboytoo Iamaboytoo 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 13

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    I'm a bisexual and I'm afraid my sexuality is going to be used as a reason for my family to reject me. It's already started in many ways. Both my parents and brother know I have a...
    WeMermaid WeMermaid 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Lets chat if your a gay bottom curious want gay a
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Mar 3

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    I have always had crushes on other women - always older women. It's never sexual it's like I want to be their friend and I want them to be affectionate towards me, eg. hug me. This...
    Cat7654 Cat7654 36-40, F Mar 14

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    Want a gay a to sx chat with
    Dloveski Dloveski 36-40, M Mar 3

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    I'm not sure if I'm the sexual type of gay, but I like being flamboyant and just be fashion and stuff, I've experimented and stuff but I don't know. Kind of annoyed at how normal...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    In 6th grade I asked this kid out and he said yes and he just told me he's gay (were both in 9th grade now)then he blocked me on everything so I can't contact him what an...
    alissabug alissabug 13-15, F Mar 14

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    My husband and I of 9 years want a three way with another man who is in shape but doesn't have to be a god. We both are in shape and chill not really into the scene anymore. Love...
    Socal73 Socal73 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    What about a woman makes men crave for her?
    plinko20 plinko20 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I believe that everyone is the way they are, noone should be treated differently because of their sexual orientation or whatever. If you've got a problem with it, that's your...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so what's your pins. You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I could...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Any lesbians or bisexual girls thats got blackberry messenger? If so then what's your pins? You could message me here if you like:) just looking for a relationship a girl that I...
    lilyyyyyyyxxx lilyyyyyyyxxx 18-21, F Mar 21

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    I'm 18. Message me if you want to talk.
    darkdimension darkdimension 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    I have truly met some awesome people on this site. I've never been to a site where u could truly be ur self. Thank u everyone.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    Why is it so hard to find true love?
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I finally thought I found someone I could like, had sex and now cancelled later plans. I feel so stupid and used. Do tired of being disappointed and alone. It does hurt to be used...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I am so tired of being hurt and disappointed by guys. They tell u whatever just to get what they want. It hurts so bad.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 14

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    theootc theootc 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I love rough nipple play and ************ in my car and letting someone watch.
    jbj634 jbj634 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I turn 22 tomorrow and I'm going to come out to my best friend that I grew up with. Any ideas where I should do it or how?
    TheNewAndImproved TheNewAndImproved 22-25, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Life's ups and downs u gotta love it.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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