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I Am a Gay Man Married to a Straight Woman

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    Anyone in the Atlanta area looking

    for some nsa play with a secret bi guy? Your wife will never find out, cause I'll never come out of the closet.
    Others2468 Others2468 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I am a 65 year old retired UK guy

    who has been married for almost 40 years and with two great sons. I only realised that I was attracted to men when I was in my 40s but I should have perhaps realised that earlier in my life - but for various reasons did not. I am not proud of this but I had a couple of one-night...
    Ruffekim1 Ruffekim1 61-65, M 22 hrs ago

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    okay.... I'm a married women to a man

    who I think is gay.... help me figure this out
    pookie143 pookie143 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    Traditional Marraige

    i'm 21 years old and married. which was something i never planned on doing, i always imagined myself putting that off till my late thirties. i wouldnt mind being engaged for 10 years if it meant we were built to last, marrying young can obviously cause problems.but i also put off...
    MadameAdam MadameAdam 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    Yeah. So. I've been married

    for about 11 years now. I've always known I was gay but hid it. I couldn't come to terms with it and the negative repercussions of exposing my secret. Now I have even more at stake with a wife and daughter. My depression is getting much worse and I can't help but think that it's...
    maelstrom32 maelstrom32 31-35, M 12 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    So I have been really working through being

    honest with my wife. I have been married 6 years and though I have always been attracted to men, I have never told her. 2 months ago I did and it was SUCH a relief! So needless to say we have had numerous chats about it and trying to find our "new normal". It's been good but...
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    A New Societal Trend Observed- Gay Men Married To Straight Women

    During the course of the past year a number of gay men have consulted with me about obtaining a divorce. These are not gay men married to other gay men. These are gay men married to women. I’ve practiced family law and been a divorce consultant for over twenty-five years...
    massdivorcelaw massdivorcelaw 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Heeey... Long story short,

    7 years ago I felt that maybe my family was right, that I wasn't gay and that I was just brought into that lifestyle from being bullied in school and growing up without a close relationship with my father. And that somehow with faith and time things could change. I was...
    NIX1980 NIX1980 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Learner

    When I say gay and married I would love to have full sex with another man to feel his Β **** in my hand and lick his **** and take all the *** he can give me so anyone wants to take off my L plates and make a man happy get in touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Not My Fault

    my wife wont do what a man can do for me like getting bone in the butt and she barely suck my **** shes not freaky
    smithwillie34 smithwillie34 41-45 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Just came out as gay to my wife at 60 years old.

    We're struggling. She's so hurt. I'm lost. In therapy, I think she now will seek help too. Anyone in or experienced this?
    latetothegame latetothegame 56-60, M 3 Responses May 3

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    I am thinking of telling my wife

    that I am gay. Does anyone have experience doing this? I am terrified.
    man4man1975 man4man1975 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Wish I Could Be Me!

    I don't know which experience too start with my life is full of them, so this is my current I'm 50 years old I have been married for 33 years I have known that I was gay for why lie? all of my life. I have a wife who is 53 and a boy friend of two years who is 23; I love them...
    Ty1963 Ty1963 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    I am a gay married man to a wonderful woman.

    I came out to her a few years ago, I thought that our marriage was over because of it but it has made us closer. My wife is my best friend and I am glad that we are still together after almost 20 years now
    dnd95 dnd95 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 14

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    Married Gay Man

    I am in my mid forties and have been married for over twenty years. I suppose I have always been turned on by the thoughts of having sex with a man. Lately this has become a obsession and is taking over my life what should I do
    Peter1935 Peter1935 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Beat this story! Am now 57 married

    for 22. yrs 2 kids 18 and 15. In high profile military career..... Been gay forever. She found emails 15 years ago and I said I'm bi. She Is ok with it.... We have not talked about it for 15 years but it's clear I look at and hav interest in guys. We just don't discuss and we...
    Scottnla888 Scottnla888 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I came out to my wife a month ago,

    it crushed her. She is an amazing woman I truly do love her, I just can't love her the way that she needs a man to love her. I have two beautiful children a 3yr old and a 4 month old. I don't regret my marriage or my children. I know this will be better for everyone in the...
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 4 Responses Mar 4

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    I'm nearly 40, married to a lovely woman

    for over a decade. We have two wonderful kids. I love my wife and haven't cheated her and no plans for that either. Never been with men bar a few silly wanks in gay saunas. We hardly ever have sex - 4 times a year tops. She's not into sex either. I don't feel comfortable with...
    Nutgrover Nutgrover 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I have gone back and forth (women

    and men). But now, as I have gotten older, and thinking about the past, having sex with men is far more satisfying and passionate. I have been married for 26 years and have no desire to have sex with my wife. However, when I am by myself, a craving for men totally occurs...
    chaiguy18 chaiguy18 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    Gay And Married..

    As the title describes, I'm a closeted gay and married to a woman!! It's an interesting journey that I'm going through, but I can't blame anyone, because that was my choice & choose this path being completely aware of the consequences. I was just wondering if there are other...
    manomamk manomamk 31-35, M 15 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Do you ever look at a family walking by,

    a mom, a dad and kids, and think "I wish I could be that person".
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I am a gay man that has been married

    now to my wife for 40 years. Yes she knew long before we married 6 years to be exact. We met in High School at the age of 16 and were introduced buy a mutual friend (she had a major crush on me and I was not interested at all). We met in the library in the small Midwest town...
    marinbear marinbear 61-65 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    First off, let me say

    that I am not gay. I define gay as someone that is happy with their sexuality, lifestyle...what ever you want to call it. I am not. I have been married to my wife for 30 years. I love her and do not want to hurt her in any way. But that is just what I have done by lying to...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    She knows now and the last few days have been

    incredibly awkward. I felt like I was in limbo before and now it feels like there is a spotlight on me.
    ChristianCrowne ChristianCrowne 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 16

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    How long have you been married post disclosure?

    How old are you and your wife? How long have you been married? Do you have children? We were married 6 years post disclosure before she left a year ago. 3 children. Just curious about others in this scenario and how yall have made it work. To make it work, does it always have...
    newlyout newlyout 31-35 1 Response Jul 18

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    I'm a married man with a straight wife.

    I love her very much but I love to have sex with men. I find it much more of what I wont and love to be the salve. I just can't tell her as I know she will be so very up set and may even leave me. I don't wont that but would like to find a good man friend to have good sex with...
    phd1956 phd1956 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    I have come out to my wife

    and we have separated to think. My wife wants me to move home and try to live a "straight" lifestyle. I'm not happy living that lifestyle. I'm attracted to men but don't want to be. I'm very religious and being gay is very unacceptable in my religion and my family. At the point...
    wesbrownbear87 wesbrownbear87 26-30, M 6 Responses Jun 21

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    jonathon3 jonathon3 26-30, T Nov 5, 2014

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    Trying To Come Out

    I have been trying to come out for a while now, the big thing is that i am married to a woman for eight years and have 3 kids, i did come out, i even got a tattoo to show that i am proud, but dont know what to do, i do wonder what my life would be like to go ahead and be me, any...
    gayvet gayvet 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Sometimes I want to just get it over with

    and tell everyone else in my life who I really am. But the consequences are too frightening.
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    I Love my husband, we have sex, I'm attracted to him, the sex isn't always fantastic but I enjoy it.. we have a child, (but we're currently having fertility treatments).. I've...
    Xocharlee Xocharlee 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I need to be with another man, right now. I need to be the gay man that i am.
    Chris3185 Chris3185 26-30, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I've been single since 2005. I haven't been on a date that long either. I don't need a man or a woman to tell me what to do. I am happy on my own.
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response a week ago

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    looking for a lesbian woman for friendship and marriage. Please msg if interested.
    maxisingle21 maxisingle21 26-30, M Jul 19

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    21, white, very fit. send me a message if u wanna chat. that's me in my pic.
    chas201222 chas201222 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 19

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