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I Am a Gay Man Married to a Straight Woman

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    I'm a married man with a straight wife.

    I love her very much but I love to have sex with men. I find it much more of what I wont and love to be the salve. I just can't tell her as I know she will be so very up set and may even leave me. I don't wont that but would like to find a good man friend to have good sex with...
    phd1956 phd1956 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    I have gone back and forth (women

    and men). But now, as I have gotten older, and thinking about the past, having sex with men is far more satisfying and passionate. I have been married for 26 years and have no desire to have sex with my wife. However, when I am by myself, a craving for men totally occurs...
    chaiguy18 chaiguy18 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    I am thinking of telling my wife

    that I am gay. Does anyone have experience doing this? I am terrified.
    man4man1975 man4man1975 36-40, M 10 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Gay And Married..

    As the title describes, I'm a closeted gay and married to a woman!! It's an interesting journey that I'm going through, but I can't blame anyone, because that was my choice & choose this path being completely aware of the consequences. I was just wondering if there are other...
    manomamk manomamk 31-35, M 14 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    First off, let me say

    that I am not gay. I define gay as someone that is happy with their sexuality, lifestyle...what ever you want to call it. I am not. I have been married to my wife for 30 years. I love her and do not want to hurt her in any way. But that is just what I have done by lying to...
    MarkS441 MarkS441 51-55, M 4 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Sometimes I want to just get it over with

    and tell everyone else in my life who I really am. But the consequences are too frightening.
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Yeah. So. I've been married

    for about 11 years now. I've always known I was gay but hid it. I couldn't come to terms with it and the negative repercussions of exposing my secret. Now I have even more at stake with a wife and daughter. My depression is getting much worse and I can't help but think that it's...
    maelstrom32 maelstrom32 31-35, M 10 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    A New Societal Trend Observed- Gay Men Married To Straight Women

    During the course of the past year a number of gay men have consulted with me about obtaining a divorce. These are not gay men married to other gay men. These are gay men married to women. I’ve practiced family law and been a divorce consultant for over twenty-five years...
    massdivorcelaw massdivorcelaw 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    Learner

    When I say gay and married I would love to have full sex with another man to feel his  **** in my hand and lick his **** and take all the *** he can give me so anyone wants to take off my L plates and make a man happy get in touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Married Gay Man

    I am in my mid forties and have been married for over twenty years. I suppose I have always been turned on by the thoughts of having sex with a man. Lately this has become a obsession and is taking over my life what should I do
    Peter1935 Peter1935 41-45, M 9 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Trying To Come Out

    I have been trying to come out for a while now, the big thing is that i am married to a woman for eight years and have 3 kids, i did come out, i even got a tattoo to show that i am proud, but dont know what to do, i do wonder what my life would be like to go ahead and be me, any...
    gayvet gayvet 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Wish I Could Be Me!

    I don't know which experience too start with my life is full of them, so this is my current I'm 50 years old I have been married for 33 years I have known that I was gay for why lie? all of my life. I have a wife who is 53 and a boy friend of two years who is 23; I love them...
    Ty1963 Ty1963 51-55, M Sep 9, 2013

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    jonathon3 jonathon3 26-30, T Nov 5, 2014

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    Not My Fault

    my wife wont do what a man can do for me like getting bone in the butt and she barely suck my **** shes not freaky
    smithwillie34 smithwillie34 41-45 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I am a gay man that has been married

    now to my wife for 40 years. Yes she knew long before we married 6 years to be exact. We met in High School at the age of 16 and were introduced buy a mutual friend (she had a major crush on me and I was not interested at all). We met in the library in the small Midwest town...
    marinbear marinbear 61-65 5 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Heeey... Long story short,

    7 years ago I felt that maybe my family was right, that I wasn't gay and that I was just brought into that lifestyle from being bullied in school and growing up without a close relationship with my father. And that somehow with faith and time things could change. I was...
    NIX1980 NIX1980 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    So I have been really working through being

    honest with my wife. I have been married 6 years and though I have always been attracted to men, I have never told her. 2 months ago I did and it was SUCH a relief! So needless to say we have had numerous chats about it and trying to find our "new normal". It's been good but...
    MrNurseGuy MrNurseGuy 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Traditional Marraige

    i'm 21 years old and married. which was something i never planned on doing, i always imagined myself putting that off till my late thirties. i wouldnt mind being engaged for 10 years if it meant we were built to last, marrying young can obviously cause problems.but i also put off...
    MadameAdam MadameAdam 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29, 2013

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    I am 31y oriental guy with a good career living in Asia. I would like to know a nice girl who has intention to find a friend and eventually see if there can be a click for MOC...
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    I've always known I was gay. Never really bothered me that I was different. When I told my mom, she exploited me. "I have a gay son. Everyone should have one!"
    roughryder roughryder 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Other gay men here are welcome to talk for friendship only
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    Not much of a man /. lol I'm 17 hitting 18 soon... My boyfriends 14 and I Dnt knw if it's really that big of a deal... We've been talking since I was 15 nd he was 12... He's really...
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    Ericaloves Ericaloves 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Hi. I am 27 , well-settled and well traveled Indian living in PUNJAB. My family is living in abroad. I am Self Employed. I am looking for a DECENT , good-looking, closet girl who's...
    decentlife decentlife 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    anyone want to chat? i want to make friends and maybe more. i live in NJ.
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    Today, I got the biggest shock of my life My 50 year old dad came into my room, and told me that since him and my mum broke up about 10 years ago, he's been to counselling, spoken...
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