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I Am a Gay Man Trapped In a Womans Body

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    Jac The Lad - I've never felt female, and I mean EVER! I cut my hair to a boyish crop at 12 years old, ALWAYS used to stand in as a male partner in dance class (the class was...
    punkylemon punkylemon 22-25, T Feb 24, 2013

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    Accepting The Truth - Last year I finally joined facebook and started looking for old friends. As I wandered cyberspace I discovered a very strange truth, 98% of the guys I had...
    hairyontheinside hairyontheinside 41-45 6 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    I Am So Lost - When I was growing up I was a tomboy. I loved to play sports with the other guys. When my mom would buy me dolls or barbies I would blow them up with firecrackers...
    lonewolftiger lonewolftiger 22-25, F 9 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    Eight Categories Of Relationships - This is my theory about the categories of human "pair-bonding" relationships.  I rather not use the term "sexual", since the term...
    jjjyyy jjjyyy 41-45 5 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    I Am Both! - I've always known there was a hormone imbalance that ran in the family on my mom's side. And growing up, I used to wonder if I was also effected by that imbalance...
    Shunasazzi Shunasazzi 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I'm New To This... - I really don't know where to begin. Firstly this /realization/ of having a gay male identity is very new to me (within the past year), but it has definitely...
    sushibabyx sushibabyx 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Strange.. - I thought I was the only one with the idea of this.. Then again, there are over six billion people on the planet, so I couldn't have been. But it felt like it because...
    threethirtyam threethirtyam 18-21 Mar 29, 2013

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    Becomming "me" For The First Time.... - I have always known I was "different" from other girls/women. When I was young I wanted to be with the boys, play with the boys...
    fallingleaves59 fallingleaves59 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 11, 2009

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    I Am A Feminine Male In A Female Body - Firstly, I just want to say a huge thank you to those of you who have contributed to this group so far - it's brought me a great deal of...
    Jacks21 Jacks21 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15, 2010

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    Lose-lose Situation? - It's been only a recent discovery of mine that I'm only attracted to gay men. Mentally and physically. I feel like it is a hopeless situation. No gay man...
    raeczar raeczar 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    I Found A Guy That Likes It - This is the first relationship I have been in where I was totally honest about me being a gay guy in a woman's body! There was some blushing involved...
    TheNiceChemist TheNiceChemist 36-40 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Realizing The Truth Has Made Me Free - It certainly is strange to be perceived as a female by everyone else when inside your head you are a guy. In the culture we live in, while...
    michaelmraz michaelmraz 22-25 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Struggling to Be Me - ever since i was little like 4 or 5 i knew i was a boy in a girls body, around age 8 i knew i was a gay man. I have struggled with depression from this for...
    childcalledit childcalledit 18-21, T 19 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    What A Life - OK. I just turned 18 and already my life seems to already have a pattern that it's falling into. Just recently I found out about a term for girl's who feel like they...
    MsNewSesshomaru MsNewSesshomaru 18-21, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Married And Attracted To Gay Men - I am married and i love my husband heĀ is amazing but i still am just in love and attracted to gay men. i perticularly am attraqcted to a gay...
    ajhop22 ajhop22 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Discovering Jake. - I've always been different to all the girls I grew up around. I never felt comfortable in my body and I never had a great deal of interest in shopping for girly...
    jakeystar jakeystar 22-25, T 4 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I Feel Like A Gay Boy In A Womans Body... - ... but when I was a kid, I thought I could be both, male and female when I grow up. I still love trucks, soccer a.s.o. as well as...
    Nikiintodarkness Nikiintodarkness 31-35 May 28, 2013

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    Who Am I, Where Am I, And How Did I Get Here? - Growing up I was a major tomboy. I played with action figures, not dolls. I was running around playing touch football with the boys...
    wansu wansu 22-25, T 5 Responses Nov 5, 2009

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    Im Very Confused...i Know Im A Gay Man...but Im A Girl Biologically - Ive always been attracted to gay men, but recently Ive realized I dont want to be a woman. Ive fantasized for...
    lostinLAtaylor lostinLAtaylor 22-25 1 Response Jul 20, 2010

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    I'm A Flamboyant Feminine Man In A Woman's Body - Most people look at me as though I were joking, and once they figure out I'm serious they still laugh but they don't understand. I...
    ArtsyReese ArtsyReese 22-25, T 2 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Gets Scared - He doesn't know what to do with me, but I try to dominate the relationship, buy all the gifts, make all the plans, etc. I am much more agressive in bed...
    isthisrlyme isthisrlyme 26-30 1 Response May 22, 2012

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    I Cannot Believe I'm Not The Only One - i am a 72 year old woman, still slim and some say attractive....i have always been attracted to gay men..but not to other women......this...
    pinkertonlee pinkertonlee 70+ Dec 31, 2012

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    Living Confused And Depressed For 30 Years - I was living for more than 30 years confused and wondering what was wrong with me, so did others around me.People made fun of me a lot...
    Dani2011 Dani2011 31-35, T 5 Responses Mar 1, 2011

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    My Family Rocks! - OK, I HAD to share this with you, guys. I came out to my family about being a gay transguy the other day, starting with my brother and this is honestly what...
    punkylemon punkylemon 22-25, T 2 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    I Don'T Know Anymore - i'm not sure if it's because of my lack of hormones. i'm physically a woman, and i don't get my period anymore. i just don't have enough hormones. I know i'm...
    childcalledit childcalledit 18-21, T 1 Response Jun 26, 2013

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    Im A Top In A Woman's Body How Screwed Is That - I think I've always known but was always told by my family how it was gross and wrong. my first sex dream i was male and i can feel...
    teramage2002 teramage2002 31-35 4 Responses Jan 5, 2012

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    Why I Believe I Am A Gay Man Trapped In A Woman's Body - I believe this because, I attract females as well as males. I have a lot of gay friends.I enjoy being around all kinds of...
    laditea laditea 46-50, F Nov 7, 2013

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    Most Heterosexual Men Turn Me Off. - Not so much 'trapped' in a woman's body (I love my body - but wouldn't it be nice to change it at will? I would love to feel what its like to...
    clareak clareak 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Confused,helpless - Hi I'm turning 16 in 4 months and I am really confused when I was in grade Six I was raped and I have been afraid of guys ever since my mom sais I don't think I...
    Cassandra909 Cassandra909 16-17 3 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    Working Thing Out... - I have always been attracted to gay men. I like being with them and talking with them. Most of my good friends are gay men. I sexually enjoy watching two men...
    ecolling ecolling 22-25, F Apr 29, 2012

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    I Have No Idea What I Am - When I was little, I was the normal little girl who played with dolls and barbies and liked to get dressed up when it was something special. I dreamed of...
    SomethingInBetween SomethingInBetween 22-25, T 5 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    Long Road To Understanding (myself) - I still don't have it all figure out but several years ago I came out as transgender. I had always felt like my biological sex (female) didn't...
    PhoenixFire690 PhoenixFire690 22-25 1 Response Oct 21, 2011

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    Frustrating About Being In A Relationship - Just so you guys know that English isn't my first language, so if you can't really understand what I am talking about, I apologize. And...
    yonamiryo yonamiryo 26-30 1 Response Dec 24, 2011

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    Confused? - Ok so, im only 16. But i always knew something was different about me. Growing up, i always dressed like a boy until around 7th grade, then in 8th grade i just changed...
    vampyperson102 vampyperson102 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2010

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    Looking Into Myself. - Hello all I am so glad to have found this place. I am 32 years old with two kids. I know that I am having a very hard time. My father just passed away and I...
    BwanaSheba BwanaSheba 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    Learning To Love Myself - I have known I was a gay man in a female body since I began to understand what “gay” meant—maybe when I was 10 or so. I play-acted in...
    RomanticRunner RomanticRunner 46-50, T 10 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I Thought I Was The Only One! - I often say I am a gay man trapped in a womans body. People chuckle at this usually and think i am joking. Im not. I am biologically female.. with...
    dacaskja dacaskja 31-35 10 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Being A Gay Inside Me. - Hello! I am a girl, I am 13 (I want to share this so I put my age older), but I won't take my teacher's word that in puberty an identity crisis occurs. It...
    iamindxcv iamindxcv 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Who I Am Naturally - For about a year now I've been trying to decide if I should actually start to transition. Hormones were the main thing I was concerned about, I thought the...
    wansu wansu 22-25, T 3 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    I am 23 years old and I started to be telling myself that I am a gay man in a womans body 2 years ago when I started hanging out with gay friends and after a few drinks we always...
    wendulina wendulina 22-25, F Mar 20

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    Life Struggles.... - So, my life in a nutshell. I was so much like a boy when I was little that my mom used to joke about me being born one. I had short hair, refused to wear...
    BrokenIdentity BrokenIdentity 26-30 Mar 7, 2013

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    Everyone Thinks I Am Kidding - To me getting dressed up and putting on makeup is like drag. I don't hate makeup or having boobs but I feel like its a persona. I never admired...
    lastkissgdknight lastkissgdknight 31-35 4 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    Only Just Figured It Out -  I'm a feminine, slight, curvaceous woman who played with dolls as a kid and likes to dress pretty. Another reason to know why I am female, or have...
    oystersx oystersx 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    Not Who I Should Be... - So I am biologically a girl. I was born that way and my parent's are crazy pastors and think that's how god made me and that's how I am and If I change...
    CaliburHowl CaliburHowl 18-21 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Who Do I Talk To? - So my story is pretty much the same as the other ones I am reading here. I still am not sure if I am just confused or actually transgender. I want to talk to...
    whydowefalldown whydowefalldown 22-25 Sep 28, 2013

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    I've always been into feminine gay guys. Always. I have never found myself attracted to 'manly men'.. Its all very confusing, I wouldn't describe myself as gay, because I am a girl...
    tliefdey tliefdey 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    I Used To Say This Jokingly, But Meant It Every Time - Not a day goes by where I wonder if my life would have been better had I just been born a man. One thing that kept me from...
    CaptainPeachFuzz CaptainPeachFuzz 31-35, T 3 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Would Life Have Been Better As A Man? - Every single night I cant sleep because of the pain of being alone. Did you know that your brain processes the emotional pain of heartache...
    instantquack instantquack 18-21, F Jan 24, 2013

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