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I Am a Gay Man

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    I've been talking to this guy online

    for years. We FaceTime, text, snapchat etc but we've gotten to the point where we want a relationship but we're taking it slow. We don't even have a title all we really are are guys who "talk" he doesn't want me "talking" to other guys and I can't tell him a lot of things...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I have been posting about me

    and my ex, the way he had been treating me, he has gotten better. Finally!!! But now he trying to date my BFF heather. A little jealous I guess but nothing I can't control.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Can i ask for your advices on how you have

    accepted yourselves as gays. I'm gay but because of the stigma and church beliefs, i'm having a hard time accepting myself... Any help from you guys how to handle my situation. Thanks alot.
    andey14 andey14 31-35, M 10 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I denied being gay in my 20s

    because I grew up during not only the AIDS paranoia and hearing stories about what happened to Matthew Shepard. But around 2009 I ended up coming out to a gay cousin. In 2011 my best friend found out and told me he was okay with it and asked me when I was going to come out to...
    KJ1215 KJ1215 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 9

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    My bf is 21 and confused I remember

    that age. He told me tonight he still wanted to date girls too. I'm not sure how that's going to work out. I told him that was fine but we agree not be with other guys. Seems one sided but I'm so in love with him I don't even want to date other guys. I'm trying to understand...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses May 19

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    Love doesn't have gender

    nor boundaries. 👬
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    I'm 19 and looking for new people to text

    and talk to daily. Doesn't matter who you are, text me anytime, (239)-443-8938
    Milesdavisrocks17 Milesdavisrocks17 22-25, M Jun 17

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    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex

    attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M 7 Responses Feb 22

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    Gay sexual frustration.

    i am disabled and haven't had sex for seventeen years.i keep staring at guys' bottoms and am so frustrated. I want to smell their undies so badly.i feel I am suffocating.
    Quinky99 Quinky99 36-40, M Aug 10

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    It's strange, I have a freeing feeling

    even typing out the words, "I'm Gay". :) I want to be myself, tell my friends, tell my family... I want to be free from feeling like I am not ok. I know that it won't all be peachy, but I have to be true to myself no matter what.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    K|k me for some fun 16 n older K|k-

    suck_it_baby_ Snapchat- darkboy001
    suckitdaddy suckitdaddy 18-21, M Aug 15

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    I lied to myself for 40 years.

    Had two marriages, 3 kids and eventually found out I was gay. I am so shy as to never fully express myself in public. I express my lie instead. No one knows this and it probably reads really badly because it is so hard to write about
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 26

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    21, white, very fit. send me a message

    if u wanna chat. that's me in my pic.
    chas201222 chas201222 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 50 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    gingerbear81 gingerbear81 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    Looking back, I guess I always liked Guys.

    I remember wanting to be Best Friends with the most Beautiful Boys in class. I went to an All Boys Boarding School 4 years instead of High School, so started playing Sports & Showering with all Boys. What a Revelation! Opportunity to play naked never came til college & I dated...
    BostonArtist69 BostonArtist69 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    any guys want a spanking

    or try age regression
    learning109 learning109 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33 31-35, M 10 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    i'm 20. going 21 in two months.

    i would really love to have new friends here. message me? or k*k if you're curious, just ask for my photo or k*k
    MrOverthinker MrOverthinker 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Found a great guy fell on love now,

    I just don't know no one cheated or lied it just happened
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Hey guys K|k me - suck_it_baby_ Or snapchat me

    - darkboy001 For some fun 16+
    suckitdaddy suckitdaddy 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Molested Straight.

    I was mollested by my brother from age six and up until I was sixteen. That was ten years of hell, brought on by sodomy. Once the Stockholm effect wore off, I learned to hate gays. I had countless journal entries in which I'd written entire essays about the evils of...
    HighYouCantSustain HighYouCantSustain 22-25, M 27 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    I came out as bisexual in my sophomore year of

    high school, but as junior year was approaching, I was starting to realize that I was truly a homosexual teenager. After I came out of the closet, my friends, family members, teachers, etc. had accepted me. I am now living a good life and feeling proud of being part of the LGBT...
    KoalaClawsKill KoalaClawsKill 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    snowmantr snowmantr 31-35, M Oct 16, 2014

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    Keepyourcool Keepyourcool 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Im612 Im612 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I'm proud to be Gay and I can't help

    who I love. Some many people talk about Gay men more than crime rates.
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M Oct 11, 2014

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    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I am 47 looking for a younger lover

    who wants to be treated as a sissy sub. I will look after you and spoil you
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 24

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    You Are Who You Are

    I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of closeted people on here and I wanted to say something that may change the way you think or it may not; but I think you should read this and realise that if it’s who you are then be proud of that fact. There are so many people out...
    DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    hello looking for some gay friends to chat with

    and to share thoughts with. just someone who is willing to like me as a person not just all about sex.
    zade95 zade95 18-21, M 8 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I Am Gay and I Am Human

    I am a gay 42 y/o man. I am not proud to be gay or ashamed of it either. To me saying one is proud to be gay is like saying I am proud to have blue eyes. Being gay is only one trait I have inherited and there is more to me than my sexuality. My peeve is when people find out I...
    waterloo waterloo 41-45, M 19 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    I had sex with a 16 year old teen guy

    and it was the best sex everything
    alaskandale alaskandale 36-40, M 2 Responses May 30

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    I can't tolerate sexual frustration at the

    momen t.i am disabled and celibate. I can't watch soaps as I get to aroused.a man knocked at the door yesterday to collect dry cleaning. I wanted to smell his clothes and snog him so badly.i wanted to snog him.god I fancied him.am so isolated.life is so lonely. yes I have asked...
    Quinky99 Quinky99 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 13 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    sissymatthew sissymatthew 18-21, M Aug 12

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    luixa luixa 46-50, T Jul 7

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    I'm 25 years old and have come to the

    realization that I long to be with a man in the future. I'm Gay and proud of it.
    Pikachu2008 Pikachu2008 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 27

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    musicalgreekgod musicalgreekgod 16-17, M May 19

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    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 22

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    How long do I wait to find out

    if he's really serious? I met him 3 months ago. Neither one of us is perfect, but we see perfection in each other. And there is no doubt in my mind we'd make a great couple. He was reserved, and has started to slowly open up... he has let me come over more... and even let me...
    SinemaSavior SinemaSavior 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 8

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