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I Am a Gay Man

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    Proud to say "I do" to a male.

    I am a "Gay" man engaged and awaiting for Illinois laws to approve of what I consider natural born civil right. I am glad to say that one day our children will ask. "Why where gays hatted?" Then I can reply "because love wasn't excepted back when I was younger that's why today I...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    rileyolsen44 rileyolsen44 13-15, M Jan 31

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    gingerbear81 gingerbear81 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    I m a gay man wishing to find someone

    who is real and not fake. Someone who is honest and caring and don't cheat. I'm finding out it's really hard to find someone like that.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    hey guys im 18 from the us looking

    for friends or a boyfriend message if you like.
    shuffl322 shuffl322 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    The Greater Gay men names in

    History: "1 Epaminondas DIED AT 48 (409 BC-361 BC) › 2 Alexander the Great DIED AT 33 (355 BC-322 BC) › 3 Hadrian DIED AT 62 (76-138) › 4 Antinous DIED AT 19 (111-130) › 5 Leonardo da Vinci DIED AT 67 (1452-1519) › 6 Michelangelo DIED AT 89 (1475-1564) › 7 Pietro...
    Iamaboytoo Iamaboytoo 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    andrew1512 andrew1512 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    phamthaithanhvii phamthaithanhvii 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's strange, I have a freeing feeling

    even typing out the words, "I'm Gay". :) I want to be myself, tell my friends, tell my family... I want to be free from feeling like I am not ok. I know that it won't all be peachy, but I have to be true to myself no matter what.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I am so tired of being hurt

    and disappointed by guys. They tell u whatever just to get what they want. It hurts so bad.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 14

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    hey guys i want some fun in my life im 15

    and i dont care what age u r just give me some real fun ;p
    kinky5000 kinky5000 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm proud to be Gay and I can't help

    who I love. Some many people talk about Gay men more than crime rates.
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M Oct 11, 2014

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    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex

    attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 22

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    darkdimension darkdimension 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    I have truly met some awesome people on this

    site. I've never been to a site where u could truly be ur self. Thank u everyone.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I came out as bisexual in my sophomore year of

    high school, but as junior year was approaching, I was starting to realize that I was truly a homosexual teenager. After I came out of the closet, my friends, family members, teachers, etc. had accepted me. I am now living a good life and feeling proud of being part of the LGBT...
    KoalaClawsKill KoalaClawsKill 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    Ericaloves Ericaloves 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I'm not sure if I'm the sexual type of gay,

    but I like being flamboyant and just be fashion and stuff, I've experimented and stuff but I don't know. Kind of annoyed at how normal guys have to be so modest and unrelaxed.
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy 22-25, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I finally thought I found someone I could like,

    had sex and now cancelled later plans. I feel so stupid and used. Do tired of being disappointed and alone. It does hurt to be used.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Found a great guy fell on love now,

    I just don't know no one cheated or lied it just happened
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'M A Gay Man That Hates Being Stereotyped

    I am, by definition, a gay man but so much is assumed with using that word to describe me as a person. I hate the stereotypical effeminate gay man, I hate that gay culture is foolishly so self absorbed and narcissistic that they can't see how absurd they look in comparison to...
    Yoshyohnson Yoshyohnson 22-25, M 11 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33 31-35, M 11 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Love doesn't have gender

    nor boundaries. 👬
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Not much of a man /. lol I'm 17 hitting 18 soon.

    .. My boyfriends 14 and I Dnt knw if it's really that big of a deal... We've been talking since I was 15 nd he was 12... He's really sweet and regret the age, he's my love... I Dnt knw how it's gonna be when I turn 18 nd ppl start talking :/ it doesn't help that me nd him are...
    delunaconor delunaconor 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    jimmyward909 jimmyward909 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 44 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    You Are Who You Are

    I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of closeted people on here and I wanted to say something that may change the way you think or it may not; but I think you should read this and realise that if it’s who you are then be proud of that fact. There are so many people out...
    DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 13 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    bcamo bcamo 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Yes that's right I am a gay man,

    a gay man on the verge of a breakdown. U might be thinking oh what a drama queen, and yes in some cases u might be right. My partner is driving me insane everything he says and does is the opposite to me. We have been together over a year. Moved in with each other and since then...
    sss1124 sss1124 31-35, M 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    darkboy001 15+ Looking for some fun ;)
    Deleted101 Deleted101 16-17, M Jan 31

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    Love Being With A Man

    What can I say? there isn't anything else like it... I usually go for older guys (30-45) and I usually let them take the lead. Maybe i've got daddy issues :) but nothing gets me more excited than giving up a little bit of control.
    Johnashford Johnashford 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    amatlock2778 amatlock2778 36-40, M Feb 27

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    hello looking for some gay friends to chat with

    and to share thoughts with. just someone who is willing to like me as a person not just all about sex.
    zanityone zanityone 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I Am Gay and I Am Human

    I am a gay 42 y/o man. I am not proud to be gay or ashamed of it either. To me saying one is proud to be gay is like saying I am proud to have blue eyes. Being gay is only one trait I have inherited and there is more to me than my sexuality. My peeve is when people find out I...
    waterloo waterloo 41-45, M 18 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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