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I Am a Gay Man

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    It's taken me a long time to come terms with my

    sexuality. I do enjoy the friendship and sometimes companionship of a woman but I am ultimately sexually attracted to men. When I look back I can I always have been but I have denied it to myself for such a long time. I'm still afraid of how to present myself to people. I do...
    AnonymousPet AnonymousPet 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    I wanna meet someone

    who is my age or slightly younger and into some of my interests. I know there aren't that many "legal" guys who are younger than me and I'm not looking to prey on kids so I'm willing to wait for a good guy. If you are interested in me, message me. Please don't message me if you...
    Rocker1188 Rocker1188 22-25, M Jun 11

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    You Are Who You Are

    I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of closeted people on here and I wanted to say something that may change the way you think or it may not; but I think you should read this and realise that if it’s who you are then be proud of that fact. There are so many people out...
    DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Top m 16 usa Kick me rearpics (not hole)

    and i'll reply with wang pics username : Unonx dont speak just send and i'll reply back asap
    Aome Aome 16-17, M Apr 23

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    Good-bye: A Word We Never Get Used To

    Todd is the mildly retarded senior citizen about whom I've written and how it came to be that I became his sole caregiver after he was diagnosed with terminal congestive heart failure. I've also written my "fantasy" first encounter with Josh, not his real name but a real person...
    cmmacneil cmmacneil 51-55, M 9 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33 31-35, M 11 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I experience a lot of discrimination

    since I black as well as because I am not as masculine as the gays of the community want you to be. I get tired of the hyper masculinity and the turn downs. You can have a really nice chat with a guy and then when you send a pic or tell them you are black or not white in...
    simplycomplex82 simplycomplex82 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 20

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    justinnnnc justinnnnc 13-15, M Aug 20

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    I'M A Gay Man That Hates Being Stereotyped

    I am, by definition, a gay man but so much is assumed with using that word to describe me as a person. I hate the stereotypical effeminate gay man, I hate that gay culture is foolishly so self absorbed and narcissistic that they can't see how absurd they look in comparison to...
    Yoshyohnson Yoshyohnson 22-25, M 10 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I Am Gay and I Am Human

    I am a gay 42 y/o man. I am not proud to be gay or ashamed of it either. To me saying one is proud to be gay is like saying I am proud to have blue eyes. Being gay is only one trait I have inherited and there is more to me than my sexuality. My peeve is when people find out I...
    waterloo waterloo 41-45, M 18 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    iamchuck iamchuck 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    been looking for a serious partner

    who could understand me and with the same interest.
    gexbly gexbly 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Molested Straight.

    I was mollested by my brother from age six and up until I was sixteen. That was ten years of hell, brought on by sodomy. Once the Stockholm effect wore off, I learned to hate gays. I had countless journal entries in which I'd written entire essays about the evils of...
    HighYouCantSustain HighYouCantSustain 22-25, M 25 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    Would love to have a gay man/teen in my life,

    message me if your from Kansas!
    rchris96 rchris96 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I'm out of the closet

    and accepted by my mom at last! Oh yeah, and my little brother. LOL. Well a few nights ago, the 30th of July, I got a phone call from the cousin I talked to a few months ago about me being gay. Just small talk at first, and then I ended up talking to her a bit about this...
    DaysEJole DaysEJole 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 2

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    Married Man

    I am 46 and married for 16years, with a 13 year old son. I have know I was gay for years. I get depressed about my life somethings. I just needed to say that, just to put it out there.
    7 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Proud to say "I do" to a male.

    I am a "Gay" man engaged and awaiting for Illinois laws to approve of what I consider natural born civil right. I am glad to say that one day our children will ask. "Why where gays hatted?" Then I can reply "because love wasn't excepted back when I was younger that's why today I...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 20

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    I Am a Gay Man and I Love It!

    I grew up in a life pretty much filled with physical and emotional abuse from my step father, who also constantly called me derogatory 'gay' names.  Damn he hated me.  I'm sure you all would know and have heard the nasty names in your own lives so I don't have to repeat...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 10 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    alenikhat alenikhat 36-40, M 5 Responses Feb 15

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    Disgusting

    I come from a fundamentalist Christian family. A few years I came out through a turbulent series of events and for a while my family tried to get used to the idea. I was trying to get used to the idea and trying to find out what God wanted from me. A few monthes ago my mother and...
    MoonlightPriest MoonlightPriest 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    Award Moment!!

    So in my dream the is what happened! So I went in the tent with my "friend" ( now not) and he grabbed me by the hair and made me suck his d*** and I could some how taste it when I'm sleep and then it went for like 3 minutes then he started to f*** me in the a** and it was...
    Nik20954 Nik20954 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    16-year-old kid who wants to get bumped up

    as fast as possible so hor-ny my hole is waiting. looking for a cute hot guy with a big coc-k Ready to do any thing
    aymanbreek aymanbreek 16-17, M Feb 12

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    Looking back, I guess I always liked Guys.

    I remember wanting to be Best Friends with the most Beautiful Boys in class. I went to an All Boys Boarding School 4 years instead of High School, so started playing Sports & Showering with all Boys. What a Revelation! Opportunity to play naked never came til college & I dated...
    BostonArtist69 BostonArtist69 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28

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    It's been just over a year

    since my life finally got to the point where if i didn't finally allow myself to be happy nothing but disaster was gonna happen. I spent so long trying to be anyone except who i am that i literally was destroying my life and the ones i loved lives. I never thought id actually...
    dex10 dex10 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Young m willing to do anything to help his

    family. Have anything to ask www.gofundme.com/7b4p5c
    Boredathomeboy Boredathomeboy 18-21, M Mar 9

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    The First Date Witha Boy

    well i know this boy called patrick for 4 years and he had a;ways like me but i never know so i was looking for a gay boy and then he said hi sexy hows u and i said wat are u gay and he said yes and i said wanna go out beause your hot ( which he is) he said yes so we went it to...
    hereforhelp1 hereforhelp1 18-21, M 4 Responses May 22, 2011

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    It seems my boyfriend may have symptoms of

    depression, and it is making it really hard to love him, and stay in the relationship.
    stephens1989 stephens1989 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    Hate Being Categorised

    I am male, who happens to prefer men to women. I dislike being pigeon-holed into a stereotype, as i am neither camp or straight acting. I am just me, with an ear for all, a wicked and mischievous sense of humour, a love of sports and the great outdoors. if you passed me in the...
    shortsy shortsy 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    Finger me on a Saturday evening

    while I watch re-runs of Golden Girls.
    miumiuganda miumiuganda 18-21, M Aug 11

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 33 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Hey, I'm 17 but I'm really into older guys!

    So message me if u wanna talk :)
    mikecons mikecons 16-17, M 2 Responses May 9

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    I'm a gay man living in DC.

    I struggled for years but am finally out to most everyone in my life. Happy to share my experiences.
    shortadonis shortadonis 31-35, M Jul 7

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    I have been out for almost 5 years

    now in a community that I thought wouldn't be so accepting of me. Surprisingly a lot of people don't mind or it's just a don't ask, don't tell situation. Anyway it was difficult being the 2nd gay kid to come out in high school but I am one of those people who don't care if...
    krashh17 krashh17 18-21 2 Responses Jun 17

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    I'm looking for love,

    but is not easy to find someone who makes me crazy in love...
    AxelTarraco AxelTarraco 41-45, M 1 Response May 17

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    andrew1512 andrew1512 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    SteelNettt SteelNettt 18-21, M a week ago

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    Living in Barrow, Alaska My older bro said how

    can u b gay there? I can and so.....!!!!!
    alaskandale alaskandale 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    blackattack05 blackattack05 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I Sure Am.

    I'm a young gay guy. Been out for about eight months now. If anyone wants to talk about anything I'd be happy to help. Peace & love to all my gay brothers.
    HazelMustang2012 HazelMustang2012 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy 22-25, M 10 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Love Being With A Man

    What can I say? there isn't anything else like it... I usually go for older guys (30-45) and I usually let them take the lead. Maybe i've got daddy issues :) but nothing gets me more excited than giving up a little bit of control.
    Johnashford Johnashford 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Yes I Am!

    I don't know why I have hidden from it for so long. I am a homosexual 19 year old man, this is a fact. I am not out publicly to my family, only a few close friends. This is why I use what I think is a very interesting photo as my profile picture instead of myself, not because I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 14 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I Never Really Knew Until It Hit Me

    Growing up I would look at pictures of men in clothing catalogs and always thought they were cute and devoloped an interest in them. I used to hide the catalogs in my room so I could sneak up there and stare at the men's underwear section. In school I used to watch guys walk down...
    FilipX FilipX 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Hey, just looking for a texting buddy,

    I'm bored a lot of the time so just message me.
    DavidHartRyan DavidHartRyan 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    Does any one need a sub I am looking

    for a master I've never done anything gay but my mistress says I need to be trained by a guy
    yourstouseandabuse yourstouseandabuse 18-21, M Jul 3

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    Guys, recently came out.

    .. To me :) its kinda liberating to finally accept :D- came out to close close friends gladly accepted me and some even said "so, ur still the awesome dude were friends with!" That was encouraging, but the problem now is coming out to my parents- quite religious and although...
    MarGre97 MarGre97 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I found out I was hiv poz last November.

    I was very shocked. My doc started me on atripla I was scared but so far I've hadn't had any complications. My numbers been good and my doc says I'm going to be ok. I just think how fortunate we are to have these meds nowadays. I continue to live my life and remain happy.
    Dmdmz Dmdmz 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Any English guys here?

    ! Let's chat!
    alexs30 alexs30 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 16

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