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I Am a Gay Man

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Gay sexual frustration.

    i am disabled and haven't had sex for seventeen years.i keep staring at guys' bottoms and am so frustrated. I want to smell their undies so badly.i feel I am suffocating.
    littlewyre littlewyre 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 10, 2015

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    Can i ask for your advices on how you have

    accepted yourselves as gays. I'm gay but because of the stigma and church beliefs, i'm having a hard time accepting myself... Any help from you guys how to handle my situation. Thanks alot.
    andey14 andey14 31-35, M 10 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I'm a good looking gay man

    and when I go out to a club, I never have any problem picking up someone if I want to. However, just out of curiosity, and to scratch it off my bucket list, I found a really hot, super hot, guy ("escort") the other night and hired him. It was pretty effing awesome! We did...
    alexintexas alexintexas 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 12, 2015

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    Keepyourcool Keepyourcool 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 27, 2015

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    I've been talking to this guy online

    for years. We FaceTime, text, snapchat etc but we've gotten to the point where we want a relationship but we're taking it slow. We don't even have a title all we really are are guys who "talk" he doesn't want me "talking" to other guys and I can't tell him a lot of things...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 13, 2015

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    I have been posting about me

    and my ex, the way he had been treating me, he has gotten better. Finally!!! But now he trying to date my BFF heather. A little jealous I guess but nothing I can't control.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 24, 2015

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    21, white, very fit. send me a message

    if u wanna chat. that's me in my pic.
    chas201222 chas201222 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    Found a great guy fell on love now,

    I just don't know no one cheated or lied it just happened
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    I lied to myself for 40 years.

    Had two marriages, 3 kids and eventually found out I was gay. I am so shy as to never fully express myself in public. I express my lie instead. No one knows this and it probably reads really badly because it is so hard to write about
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 26, 2015

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 66 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    gingerbear81 gingerbear81 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    sissymatthew sissymatthew 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 20, 2015

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    i remember when i came out i came out to my

    bestfriend first and she was like "i knew it" and i was soo embarrassed idk why i was though
    aaron4455 aaron4455 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy 26-30, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    How long do I wait to find out

    if he's really serious? I met him 3 months ago. Neither one of us is perfect, but we see perfection in each other. And there is no doubt in my mind we'd make a great couple. He was reserved, and has started to slowly open up... he has let me come over more... and even let me...
    SinemaSavior SinemaSavior 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

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    Another night laying on the couch,

    getting over my ex has gotten easier. But, still some nights r harder than others. We manage to stay friends, but still in love with him. There is another guy that really likes me but I can't seem to be comfortable with him. I can't get Chris out of my mind.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2015

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    I am 47 looking for a younger lover

    who wants to be treated as a sissy sub. I will look after you and spoil you
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 24, 2015

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    luixa luixa 46-50, T Jul 7, 2015

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 12 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    It's strange, I have a freeing feeling

    even typing out the words, "I'm Gay". :) I want to be myself, tell my friends, tell my family... I want to be free from feeling like I am not ok. I know that it won't all be peachy, but I have to be true to myself no matter what.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex

    attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M 7 Responses Feb 22, 2015

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    i'm 20. going 21 in two months.

    i would really love to have new friends here. message me? or k*k if you're curious, just ask for my photo or k*k
    MrOverthinker MrOverthinker 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

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    My BF is out of town.

    I'm bored and drinking vodka..... Who knows where the night will lead 😜!!!
    alexintexas alexintexas 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 12

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    sissymatthew sissymatthew 22-25, M Aug 12, 2015

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    Looking back, I guess I always liked Guys.

    I remember wanting to be Best Friends with the most Beautiful Boys in class. I went to an All Boys Boarding School 4 years instead of High School, so started playing Sports & Showering with all Boys. What a Revelation! Opportunity to play naked never came til college & I dated...
    BostonArtist69 BostonArtist69 41-45, M 6 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    I'm 19 and I'm looking

    for some older guys! someone message me!
    lindjosh lindjosh 18-21, M 8 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    i am a traveller or gypsy

    as were sometimes called im gay aldoe i wish sometimes i wasnt but seems the older i get the more its eating at me if i say im gay i lose my family as being gay in the gypsy community is a big no no last year i split up with my boyfriend of 6 years he was a (gorga) non gypsy...
    travellerboy26 travellerboy26 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 6, 2015

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    Molested Straight.

    I was mollested by my brother from age six and up until I was sixteen. That was ten years of hell, brought on by sodomy. Once the Stockholm effect wore off, I learned to hate gays. I had countless journal entries in which I'd written entire essays about the evils of...
    HighYouCantSustain HighYouCantSustain 22-25, M 27 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    Julianblack Julianblack 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    I'm proud to be Gay and I can't help

    who I love. Some many people talk about Gay men more than crime rates.
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M Oct 11, 2014

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    sissymatthew sissymatthew 22-25, M Oct 21, 2015

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    hello looking for some gay friends to chat with

    and to share thoughts with. just someone who is willing to like me as a person not just all about sex.
    zade95 zade95 22-25, M 8 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 5 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    The sad truth is that there are some people

    who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. It sucks!!!!
    cjg1289 cjg1289 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I came out as bisexual in my sophomore year of

    high school, but as junior year was approaching, I was starting to realize that I was truly a homosexual teenager. After I came out of the closet, my friends, family members, teachers, etc. had accepted me. I am now living a good life and feeling proud of being part of the LGBT...
    KoalaClawsKill KoalaClawsKill 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I'm so tired of having a friend

    who only call or txtes me when the want somthing.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 5 Responses Aug 15, 2015

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    Love doesn't have gender

    nor boundaries. 👬
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    I can't tolerate sexual frustration at the

    momen t.i am disabled and celibate. I can't watch soaps as I get to aroused.a man knocked at the door yesterday to collect dry cleaning. I wanted to smell his clothes and snog him so badly.i wanted to snog him.god I fancied him.am so isolated.life is so lonely. yes I have asked...
    littlewyre littlewyre 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 12, 2015

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    iminky iminky 13-15, M Sep 19, 2015

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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