I Am a Gay Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2,979 People

    My BF is out of town.

    I'm bored and drinking vodka..... Who knows where the night will lead 😜!!!
    alexintexas alexintexas
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jan 12

    You Are Who You Are

    I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of closeted people on here and I wanted to say something that may change the way you think or it may not; but I think you should read this and realise that if it’s who you are then be proud of that fact. There are so many people out...
    DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

    Looking back, I guess I always liked Guys.

    I remember wanting to be Best Friends with the most Beautiful Boys in class. I went to an All Boys Boarding School 4 years instead of High School, so started playing Sports & Showering with all Boys. What a Revelation! Opportunity to play naked never came til college & I dated...
    BostonArtist69 BostonArtist69
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Jan 28, 2014

    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    I'm 19 and looking for new people to text

    and talk to daily. Doesn't matter who you are, text me anytime, (239)-443-8938
    Milesdavisrocks17 Milesdavisrocks17
    22-25, M
    Jun 17, 2015
    sissymatthew sissymatthew
    22-25, M
    Aug 12, 2015

    hello looking for some gay friends to chat with

    and to share thoughts with. just someone who is willing to like me as a person not just all about sex.
    zade95 zade95
    22-25, M
    8 Responses Nov 18, 2014

    I'm a good looking gay man

    and when I go out to a club, I never have any problem picking up someone if I want to. However, just out of curiosity, and to scratch it off my bucket list, I found a really hot, super hot, guy ("escort") the other night and hired him. It was pretty effing awesome! We did...
    alexintexas alexintexas
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2015

    I still remember when i first accepted the fact

    that i am a gay man. My whole life i knew i was attracted to men but i would always be ashamed and hide it even from myself. I refused to accept it. I would pretend to like girls in my school to try and keep people from seeing it. This is how it was until my freshman year of...
    loco8912 loco8912
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 4

    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex

    attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Feb 22, 2015
    Im612 Im612
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    I am 47 looking for a younger lover

    who wants to be treated as a sissy sub. I will look after you and spoil you
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015
    iminky iminky
    13-15, M
    Sep 19, 2015

    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2013


    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 19, 2013

    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Aug 1, 2011

    i'm 20. going 21 in two months.

    i would really love to have new friends here. message me? or k*k if you're curious, just ask for my photo or k*k
    MrOverthinker MrOverthinker
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2015
    Scott1954 Scott1954
    61-65, M
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    I've been talking to this guy online

    for years. We FaceTime, text, snapchat etc but we've gotten to the point where we want a relationship but we're taking it slow. We don't even have a title all we really are are guys who "talk" he doesn't want me "talking" to other guys and I can't tell him a lot of things...
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2015


    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Sep 25, 2013

    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33
    36-40, M
    10 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Another night laying on the couch,

    getting over my ex has gotten easier. But, still some nights r harder than others. We manage to stay friends, but still in love with him. There is another guy that really likes me but I can't seem to be comfortable with him. I can't get Chris out of my mind.
    caspercolen caspercolen
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    I have been posting about me

    and my ex, the way he had been treating me, he has gotten better. Finally!!! But now he trying to date my BFF heather. A little jealous I guess but nothing I can't control.
    caspercolen caspercolen
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I came out as bisexual in my sophomore year of

    high school, but as junior year was approaching, I was starting to realize that I was truly a homosexual teenager. After I came out of the closet, my friends, family members, teachers, etc. had accepted me. I am now living a good life and feeling proud of being part of the LGBT...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2014
    Julianblack Julianblack
    22-25, M
    Jan 3
    gingerbear81 gingerbear81
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    i am a traveller or gypsy

    as were sometimes called im gay aldoe i wish sometimes i wasnt but seems the older i get the more its eating at me if i say im gay i lose my family as being gay in the gypsy community is a big no no last year i split up with my boyfriend of 6 years he was a (gorga) non gypsy...
    travellerboy26 travellerboy26
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 30, 2013
    sissymatthew sissymatthew
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    It's strange, I have a freeing feeling

    even typing out the words, "I'm Gay". :) I want to be myself, tell my friends, tell my family... I want to be free from feeling like I am not ok. I know that it won't all be peachy, but I have to be true to myself no matter what.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Oct 2, 2014
    sissymatthew sissymatthew
    22-25, M
    Oct 21, 2015
    Keepyourcool Keepyourcool
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

    i remember when i came out i came out to my

    bestfriend first and she was like "i knew it" and i was soo embarrassed idk why i was though
    aaron4455 aaron4455
    18-21, M
    Feb 5

    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Dec 24, 2013

    Hello everyone am a black gay guy looking

    forward to meet and chat with gay men.just watsup me on or add me on hangout +256785802663
    davisug davisug
    26-30, M
    Dec 3, 2015

    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585
    16-17, M
    86 Responses Mar 15, 2011
    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Oct 6, 2014
    luixa luixa
    46-50, T
    Jul 7, 2015

    I'm so tired of having a friend

    who only call or txtes me when the want somthing.
    caspercolen caspercolen
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    I Am Gay and I Am Human

    I am a gay 42 y/o man. I am not proud to be gay or ashamed of it either. To me saying one is proud to be gay is like saying I am proud to have blue eyes. Being gay is only one trait I have inherited and there is more to me than my sexuality. My peeve is when people find out I...
    waterloo waterloo
    41-45, M
    19 Responses Mar 11, 2008

    I'm finally ready to come out publicly.

    feels good :) ps-I'm single ;)
    SteveP20 SteveP20
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 28

    How long do I wait to find out

    if he's really serious? I met him 3 months ago. Neither one of us is perfect, but we see perfection in each other. And there is no doubt in my mind we'd make a great couple. He was reserved, and has started to slowly open up... he has let me come over more... and even let me...
    SinemaSavior SinemaSavior
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    Love doesn't have gender

    nor boundaries. 👬
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 11, 2014

    58 years old came out at age 57.

    Have two grown boys. Divorce finalized in 8 days. Living with my partner and being married this summer. Always knew I was gay but back in the day it was not an option to come out.
    steverick steverick
    56-60, M
    6 Responses Jan 21

    I'm 19 and I'm looking

    for some older guys! someone message me!
    lindjosh lindjosh
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    21, white, very fit. send me a message

    if u wanna chat. that's me in my pic.
    chas201222 chas201222
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I lied to myself for 40 years.

    Had two marriages, 3 kids and eventually found out I was gay. I am so shy as to never fully express myself in public. I express my lie instead. No one knows this and it probably reads really badly because it is so hard to write about
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    Can i ask for your advices on how you have

    accepted yourselves as gays. I'm gay but because of the stigma and church beliefs, i'm having a hard time accepting myself... Any help from you guys how to handle my situation. Thanks alot.
    andey14 andey14
    31-35, M
    10 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    I'm 25 years old and have come to the

    realization that I long to be with a man in the future. I'm Gay and proud of it.
    Pikachu2008 Pikachu2008
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    Found a great guy fell on love now,

    I just don't know no one cheated or lied it just happened
    caspercolen caspercolen
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I'm gay, and due to lack of gay individuals

    around me, I thought it would be nice to meet some here. Hmu :)
    astralcompound astralcompound
    16-17, M
    Nov 1, 2015

    I'm proud to be Gay and I can't help

    who I love. Some many people talk about Gay men more than crime rates.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 11, 2014

    What can you do when someone breaks your heart

    or crushes your spirit in ways that make it difficult to find a way to forgive and forget?
    Genuinegayman4love Genuinegayman4love
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Mar 8
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