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I Am a Gay Man

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    Iamaboytoo Iamaboytoo 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 13

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    snowmantr snowmantr 31-35, M Oct 16, 2014

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    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    aeronwalt aeronwalt 22-25, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I love my bf, he definitely like no one I ever

    met. I just want to be there for him. He has such a kind heart. He makes me laugh his ways most people wouldn't understand but I know the real person. I love u Chris.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 4 Responses May 12

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    I came out as bisexual in my sophomore year of

    high school, but as junior year was approaching, I was starting to realize that I was truly a homosexual teenager. After I came out of the closet, my friends, family members, teachers, etc. had accepted me. I am now living a good life and feeling proud of being part of the LGBT...
    KoalaClawsKill KoalaClawsKill 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I love my bf he gets out the truck to walk thru

    drive thru at McD's than he stands there for 5 min expecting to place an order. Than walks in and says I have been standing in drive thru for 5 min nobody would take my order.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M May 13

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    jimmyward909 jimmyward909 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I regret that I didn't accept my same-sex

    attraction earlier in life.
    jacobnc jacobnc 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 22

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    iminky iminky 13-15, M May 12

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    if there anyone out there

    that would like 2 get 2 know me im a caring man and have got lots of love 2 give i want 2 find a nice man settle down and enjoy life im from England yorkshire so if ur from that way pleas get intouch im waiting but no time wasters im 54year but i dont think age matters has long...
    12monty 12monty 51-55, M May 12

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 13 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    hey guys i want some fun in my life im 15

    and i dont care what age u r just give me some real fun ;p
    kinky5000 kinky5000 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Found a great guy fell on love now,

    I just don't know no one cheated or lied it just happened
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm proud to be Gay and I can't help

    who I love. Some many people talk about Gay men more than crime rates.
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M Oct 11, 2014

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    I'm not sure if I'm the sexual type of gay,

    but I like being flamboyant and just be fashion and stuff, I've experimented and stuff but I don't know. Kind of annoyed at how normal guys have to be so modest and unrelaxed.
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Yes that's right I am a gay man,

    a gay man on the verge of a breakdown. U might be thinking oh what a drama queen, and yes in some cases u might be right. My partner is driving me insane everything he says and does is the opposite to me. We have been together over a year. Moved in with each other and since then...
    sss1124 sss1124 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 24

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    I am 39 and my bf is 21.

    I normally don't date that young but he was different. Last few days he has been short with me and seem I'll. we use to talk for hrs at night. Now he seems I don't l don't know really. I know he's not cheating but he in the closet. I wonder if he freaking out his parents might...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses May 10

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    Love doesn't have gender

    nor boundaries. 👬
    PozlifeD PozlifeD 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Molested Straight.

    I was mollested by my brother from age six and up until I was sixteen. That was ten years of hell, brought on by sodomy. Once the Stockholm effect wore off, I learned to hate gays. I had countless journal entries in which I'd written entire essays about the evils of...
    HighYouCantSustain HighYouCantSustain 22-25, M 27 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    My bf is 21 and confused I remember

    that age. He told me tonight he still wanted to date girls too. I'm not sure how that's going to work out. I told him that was fine but we agree not be with other guys. Seems one sided but I'm so in love with him I don't even want to date other guys. I'm trying to understand...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I turn 22 tomorrow and I'm going to come out to

    my best friend that I grew up with. Any ideas where I should do it or how?
    TheNewAndImproved TheNewAndImproved 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 24

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    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy 22-25, M 8 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    musicalgreekgod musicalgreekgod 16-17, M May 19

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    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 5 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    Hey guys follow us at twitter.

    com/theootc for upcoming podcast and equality ministry news or message me to find out more I love chatting with anyone about just about anything :) .
    theootc theootc 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 44 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 11

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    You Are Who You Are

    I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of closeted people on here and I wanted to say something that may change the way you think or it may not; but I think you should read this and realise that if it’s who you are then be proud of that fact. There are so many people out...
    DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve DreamsCanComeTrueJustBelieve 31-35, M 7 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    I'm so in love with my bf,

    I hope he feels the same about me. He never txt me back. I can send I love u but nothing never comes back. I feel he loves me. But so confused sometimes. The high light of my day is when he calls. He is so different, I think it's just his way but I really don't know. I try not...
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 2 Responses May 11

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    phamthaithanhvii phamthaithanhvii 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 22

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    Laying here on the coach watching American Idol.

    I wish my bf was beside me, but he's home. Waiting on his call. I'm bored.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 1 Response May 13

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    It's strange, I have a freeing feeling

    even typing out the words, "I'm Gay". :) I want to be myself, tell my friends, tell my family... I want to be free from feeling like I am not ok. I know that it won't all be peachy, but I have to be true to myself no matter what.
    Parkerluv1 Parkerluv1 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    hey guys im 18 from the us looking

    for friends or a boyfriend message if you like.
    shuffl322 shuffl322 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I'm out of the closet

    and accepted by my mom at last! Oh yeah, and my little brother. LOL. Well a few nights ago, the 30th of July, I got a phone call from the cousin I talked to a few months ago about me being gay. Just small talk at first, and then I ended up talking to her a bit about this...
    DaysEJole DaysEJole 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    I finally thought I found someone I could like,

    had sex and now cancelled later plans. I feel so stupid and used. Do tired of being disappointed and alone. It does hurt to be used.
    caspercolen caspercolen 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 14

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    Can i ask for your advices on how you have

    accepted yourselves as gays. I'm gay but because of the stigma and church beliefs, i'm having a hard time accepting myself... Any help from you guys how to handle my situation. Thanks alot.
    andey14 andey14 26-30, M 10 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33 31-35, M 11 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    Reader1512 Reader1512 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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