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I Am a Gay Man

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    Good-bye: A Word We Never Get Used To

    Todd is the mildly retarded senior citizen about whom I've written and how it came to be that I became his sole caregiver after he was diagnosed with terminal congestive heart failure. I've also written my "fantasy" first encounter with Josh, not his real name but a real person...
    cmmacneil cmmacneil 51-55, M 9 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    ScruffyGuy ScruffyGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    The Black Gay Way

    I'm a black gay male in my mid 20's living in New York City. I came out at the age of 21. The life I must admit was very tempting and alluring. Half naked men, drugs, clubs, parties, sex, etc. I always knew I liked dudes but like most men I was afraid. The rough closed minded...
    SupHomeboi SupHomeboi 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    2013

    It has been a long time since the last time a shared a “story”, Yet, so many things have happened in my life (mostly good), that I have decided to once more sit down and share. Truly 2012 was a blessed year for me. I had my social “coming-out” as a gay man…and to be...
    Ralphsnt69 Ralphsnt69 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    blackattack05 blackattack05 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Parents

    I had a long distance relationship with a guy I met online and my mom found out when she came out of the room she was so mad, I knew something was wrong, she told me "I can't believe you are a pervert, I won’t let that happen, Don't tell anyone or I’d be so embarrassed. What...
    josean03 josean03 18-21, M 13 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I Am A Gay Father

    I am gay getting more comfortable saying it I want to tell my kids but I am so nervous my daughters friend knows im gay I ran into him at a gay bar here in town he was shocked at first now we are good friends he wont tell her he says its my responsibility
    jat1963 jat1963 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Is it true that directly

    after high school everybody comes out? I was told this but I'm not sure what to think. :/
    EmbryosandSkulls EmbryosandSkulls 13-15, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    jaymeach13 jaymeach13 41-45, M Dec 19, 2013

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    I Am a Gay Man and I Love It!

    I grew up in a life pretty much filled with physical and emotional abuse from my step father, who also constantly called me derogatory 'gay' names.  Damn he hated me.  I'm sure you all would know and have heard the nasty names in your own lives so I don't have to repeat...
    Morfius Morfius 26-30, M 9 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    Award Moment!!

    So in my dream the is what happened! So I went in the tent with my "friend" ( now not) and he grabbed me by the hair and made me suck his d*** and I could some how taste it when I'm sleep and then it went for like 3 minutes then he started to f*** me in the a** and it was...
    Nik20954 Nik20954 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 28, 2013

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    I Never Really Knew Until It Hit Me

    Growing up I would look at pictures of men in clothing catalogs and always thought they were cute and devoloped an interest in them. I used to hide the catalogs in my room so I could sneak up there and stare at the men's underwear section. In school I used to watch guys walk down...
    FilipX FilipX 31-35, M 5 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    New Here And Not Sure How This Works.

    I'm just turned 58. I live in the straight world though I am sure most people suspect that I am gay. I am not rich but comfortable, and feel that my life is f*&ing worthless. I can truly say that I have one gay friend that I talk to regularly but not deeply. We have never had sex...
    Brickssss Brickssss 56-60, M 4 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Manny7 Manny7 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    I find military guys hot,

    I believe it's just the uniform that drives me crazy. Is it weird?
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 24

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    Yes I Am!

    I don't know why I have hidden from it for so long. I am a homosexual 19 year old man, this is a fact. I am not out publicly to my family, only a few close friends. This is why I use what I think is a very interesting photo as my profile picture instead of myself, not because I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2012

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    Ok. I am glad that I could find somewhere to

    talk. Actually no one could tell I'm gay. I look as straight as a straight line. But i have a very complicated story and I would like to share it anonymously on here. I was born in a very conservative Asian family. My parents are both great persons and they are very open...
    MartialArtsGuy MartialArtsGuy 22-25, M 10 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Young m willing to do anything to help his

    family. Have anything to ask www.gofundme.com/7b4p5c
    Boredathomeboy Boredathomeboy 16-17, M Mar 9

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    I grew up in the northwest.

    I grew up in a small suburban area. My parents were very spiritual, but not religious. The whole idea of "God or Messiah" was a term not very much used in the household. As young as I can remember, I remember being very interested in boys. I never knew society labeled it as...
    TONNSoffun TONNSoffun 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Nature Or Nurture? Don't Know, Don't Care!

    I don't know if I was born this way or if it happened after I was born. And you know what? I don't care. Really. I know that I'm gay, and I know that i'm not gonna change, but I don't know if it's biological or psychological. And that's ok with me. Frankly, the science I've...
    timotito timotito 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    Hey guys! I'm new here

    and have no idea what I'm doing... But I'm gay? Say hi? Haha
    BriBry91 BriBry91 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Omg like why can't I just find someone

    for me!!!! All I want is love, I mean sure I'm 16 for 17 more days but shooo I deserve to feel wanted!!!! I just want one guy to say "hello how are you how was your day" that's all I want is that really to much to ask for
    PowerHour4 PowerHour4 16-17, M Mar 2

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    Why is it that most guys

    that I like just want to have sex I promised to myself that i plan to be a virgin until the right I find the right one why can't other people respect that is a relationship only about sex. Where is the love where is the fun in that. Well keeping hope strong and hopefully someone...
    andrew1512 andrew1512 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    16-year-old kid who wants to get bumped up

    as fast as possible so hor-ny my hole is waiting. looking for a cute hot guy with a big coc-k Ready to do any thing
    aymanbreek aymanbreek 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Hey, just looking for a texting buddy,

    I'm bored a lot of the time so just message me.
    DavidHartRyan DavidHartRyan 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 25

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    Disgusting

    I come from a fundamentalist Christian family. A few years I came out through a turbulent series of events and for a while my family tried to get used to the idea. I was trying to get used to the idea and trying to find out what God wanted from me. A few monthes ago my mother and...
    MoonlightPriest MoonlightPriest 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    i am a gay guy from well off

    and well educated family. i study in uk and i am looking for a marriage of convenience(moc) and it does'nt matter if the girl is lesbian or straight or bisexual. i am ready and able to support the girl financially after marriage and give her respect and love and we could be best...
    studgr8 studgr8 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I Sure Am.

    I'm a young gay guy. Been out for about eight months now. If anyone wants to talk about anything I'd be happy to help. Peace & love to all my gay brothers.
    HazelMustang2012 HazelMustang2012 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Still Just Me

    Having finally accepted that I am gay and am truly only attracted to other men it hasn't changed a damn thing about me except who I am with. Society has labeled gay men as a specific way that makes people think we're less of a man than one who is straight and have to act a...
    Dex4real Dex4real 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Hi friends! I'm new here

    and have no idea what this app is for. But I'm always up for new friends! Message me?!
    BriBry91 BriBry91 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 12

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    Mjj101 Mjj101 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    Top m 16 usa Kick me rearpics (not hole)

    and i'll reply with wang pics username : Unonx dont speak just send and i'll reply back asap
    Aome Aome 16-17, M 21 hrs ago

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    16 I'm almost 17 one more month thank you Jesus

    but um I hope you enjoy my words Locked away hidden from the stroke and gleam of the day I sit in my closet Locked away hidden from the joy of the tunes that fill the air I sit in my closet Locked away hidden from the touch of love that warms the skin I sit in my closet Locked...
    PowerHour4 PowerHour4 16-17, M Feb 2

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    I'm looking for other gay men to add

    so feel free to add me :)
    CodyR18 CodyR18 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Nice Gay Poem

    My father asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Get out of my house. I guess it mattered. ... My friend asked if I am gay. I said, Does it matter? He said, No not really. I said, Yes. He said, Don't call me your friend. I...
    LoveisKillingMe LoveisKillingMe 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Not sure if I'm a 'man' yet,

    but I am a gay male.
    idkimchanz idkimchanz 16-17, M Feb 6

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    Gay Guy Looking For Moc i am a gay guy from

    well off and well educated family. i study in uk and i am looking for a marriage of convenience(moc) and it does'nt matter if the girl is lesbian or straight or bisexual. i am ready and able to support the girl financially after marriage and give her respect and love and we...
    studgr8 studgr8 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    Proud to say "I do" to a male.

    I am a "Gay" man engaged and awaiting for Illinois laws to approve of what I consider natural born civil right. I am glad to say that one day our children will ask. "Why where gays hatted?" Then I can reply "because love wasn't excepted back when I was younger that's why today I...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Gay guy here from Nyc,

    single. Really want a boyfriend.
    Manny7 Manny7 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Raine2323 Raine2323 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Love Being With A Man

    What can I say? there isn't anything else like it... I usually go for older guys (30-45) and I usually let them take the lead. Maybe i've got daddy issues :) but nothing gets me more excited than giving up a little bit of control.
    Johnashford Johnashford 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    alenikhat alenikhat 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Hmm I'm not really sure what to e write here.

    For now I'll keep it small . I am tired of living in a college town where there are no gay scenes. I personally would imagine this as a chill bar who host drag shows. This kind of environment would lead us to knowing more of each other. Because right now I'm in a sea I...
    smrt0n3 smrt0n3 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Heavy heavy You say it's cool to be a freak

    but in my eyes I'm not a freak I'm simply just me Heavy heavy You claim it's okay to be unusual but in my eyes I'm not unusual I'm simply just unique Heavy heavy You testify that it's alright to pretend to be what I want to become but in my eyes I don't have to pretend because...
    PowerHour4 PowerHour4 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 2

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    So a guy at work said "you should be ashamed to

    be gay"... After a small altercation where he jumped me first, a decent knowledge of anatomy and pressure points on my part, I got an apology out if him (quite a loud one too, actually). Teenage hot head takes on someone in their 30's - a betting man would think the kid would...
    EthanHuntIMF33 EthanHuntIMF33 31-35, M 8 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Keep It Happy Keep It Snappy Keep It Gay

    I've been out for 11 years now.   Before coming out I tried to live my life being a straight guy and it just wasn't working for me.. I had the greatest girlfriend in the world and still wasn't happy, I knew the feeling wasn't going away.   Since I decided to...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 7, 2009

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    Text Me :)

    hi i really want to talk to gay guys in england i'm 16 but i'm not bothered by a little age difference. i thought i might try this and see how it works.... heres my phone number 07534277877 just text me if you want a chat pics would be nice lol :)
    jack9585 jack9585 16-17, M 25 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    Wish I Hadnt Asked

    I met him my senior year at college. He was on the basketball team, so tall, slender, fit, and black. He was also bi. He could, and did, have any girl on campus, but he occasionally enjoyed cute, effemiate white boys, too. I was getting heavily into gay sex, and I went down on...
    luvhimm luvhimm 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I Am Gay and I Am Human

    I am a gay 42 y/o man. I am not proud to be gay or ashamed of it either. To me saying one is proud to be gay is like saying I am proud to have blue eyes. Being gay is only one trait I have inherited and there is more to me than my sexuality. My peeve is when people find out I...
    waterloo waterloo 41-45, M 18 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    It's taken me a long time to come terms with my

    sexuality. I do enjoy the friendship and sometimes companionship of a woman but I am ultimately sexually attracted to men. When I look back I can I always have been but I have denied it to myself for such a long time. I'm still afraid of how to present myself to people. I do...
    AnonymousPet AnonymousPet 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Molested Straight.

    I was mollested by my brother from age six and up until I was sixteen. That was ten years of hell, brought on by sodomy. Once the Stockholm effect wore off, I learned to hate gays. I had countless journal entries in which I'd written entire essays about the evils of...
    HighYouCantSustain HighYouCantSustain 22-25, M 24 Responses Oct 27, 2009

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    iamchuck iamchuck 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 28

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    Hate Being Categorised

    I am male, who happens to prefer men to women. I dislike being pigeon-holed into a stereotype, as i am neither camp or straight acting. I am just me, with an ear for all, a wicked and mischievous sense of humour, a love of sports and the great outdoors. if you passed me in the...
    shortsy shortsy 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 12, 2012

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    I'M A Gay Man That Hates Being Stereotyped

    I am, by definition, a gay man but so much is assumed with using that word to describe me as a person. I hate the stereotypical effeminate gay man, I hate that gay culture is foolishly so self absorbed and narcissistic that they can't see how absurd they look in comparison to...
    Yoshyohnson Yoshyohnson 22-25, M 9 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    One of a kind closeted gay man looking for his soul mate, a closeted lesbian. 100% discreet and 100% masculine. I am handsome, physically fit, athletic, genuine, outgoing, career...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Why it is so hard to find out HIV poz gay friend or more in pennsylvania ?
    ramchhetri763 ramchhetri763 26-30, M Mar 25

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    I'm not gay but guys are better ticklers so if u wanna tickle me hit me up I live in New York
    BobbyAlesi BobbyAlesi 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4