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I Am a Genderqueer

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    Watch Mode - I'm not here to share my story because I'm not GENDERQUEER. In fact, I know myself that I'm a closet bisexual and its my label. I'm just here to read some stories...
    riffraffmonster riffraffmonster 22-25, F Dec 3, 2012

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    Letters For My Brothers: Transitional Wisdom In Retrospect - Edited By Megan Rohrer & Zander Keig In today's fast paced world, the internet can provide quick  answers to...
    zanderkeig zanderkeig 41-45, M Feb 21, 2012

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    I Am Post Op Transsexual Translesbian Transwomen And So On. - Hi My Name is leece i live in  south australia. i am post op transsexual who has trouble fitting in the lesbian...
    leecej leecej 51-55 4 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    My Story. - In my later toddler years I would crossdress in secret not knowing exactly what I was doing or why. I knew I liked it and it became my secret. years passed and I would...
    MichelleMax MichelleMax 18-21, T 4 Responses Jan 3, 2010

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    When I was a kid (between age 2 until I was 10) I was best friends with my neighbour Jay. We played together a lot and it mainly consisted of a combination of power rangers, X-Men...
    JustKai JustKai 16-17, T 1 Response Feb 1

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    It's Fricken Unnecessary - ...that I should have to go through this. I'd SO much rather be transsexual. For a while I held onto my masculine side in hopes that I could just...
    HunterFae HunterFae 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    Deconstructing Gender, Sex, and Sexuality. and Then Recognizing the Conflict of Interest With Those Who Find Them Convenient. - Hey, I guess I'd probably say I'm androgyne and ask...
    BrighterTheyFall BrighterTheyFall 18-21 2 Responses Oct 31, 2008

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    Red Sweater Blues - When I was 5, I had a red sweater. In retrospect, it was a very pretty sweater, in a dark ruby color with little sparkly flecks all over it. But it was itchy...
    quackle quackle 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    Alone - Ever since I was little, I have been alone, unable to relate. There's your typical stuff. I loved snakes and bugs and dinosaurs more than anything. I liked getting down and...
    hurricaneflutterdash hurricaneflutterdash 16-17 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    I have a hard time making friends with girls nowadays. In the past girls who I thought were my friends were always trying to get me to "have fun" by dressing up and going to dances...
    julsrules julsrules 18-21, F Feb 25

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    Proud to be genderqueer! Used to think I was FTM but realizing I'm GQ has made me feel great. Like a little more stable. (done)
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T Apr 6

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    Genderqueer and Currently Struggling - Recently, my male side of my genderqueerness has been hitting me quite hard. Such episodes usually happen every-so-often...
    Kei879 Kei879 22-25, T 5 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Transgendered Genderqueer - I am genderqueer and transgendered, being biologically female, but with a much more masculine gender. Even when I was really young I preferred to be...
    AnomalousResult AnomalousResult 18-21, T 4 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    What Am I And Why? - This is not a problem and I'm not looking for a solution. I'm just simply sharing my story. I was born a female, yes, but in the last few years, I've found...
    PresumptuousLittleAngel PresumptuousLittleAngel 18-21 1 Response Nov 11, 2011

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    Not A Real Person - I never really though about my sexuality or any of that growing up. It just never really crossed my mind that i was supposed to be either a male or female, or...
    Chagrins Chagrins 18-21, T 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    I''ve told one of my friends who is the same way and my boyfriend at the same time. They're both pretty cool about who I am but I don't want other people to get the wrong idea if...
    julsrules julsrules 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I am genderqueer regardless of what others say... -  I remember being extremely young and knowing I was different. I constantly thought that when I was growing up that I was...
    goddessorie goddessorie 22-25 2 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    I Only Recently Came To Use The Term - but I've been gender queer as long as I've been thinking about gender. I use the term agender to specify my type of queer. I really came to...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T Nov 2, 2013

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    My Greatest Lie Is My Truth - Now....when I first started using the computer a lot, mainly it was to play online games. I was a little bit of a game nerd, so I would go...hack some...
    GoldLikeAutumn GoldLikeAutumn 13-15 2 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    "female" Is A Relative Term... - ever since i was little, i've always been a bit unsure where i stood in society. growing up, i was always "one of the guys"...
    Yoshino Yoshino 22-25, T 11 Responses Dec 7, 2009

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    Coming to this conclusion with certainty, from being confused about being FTM then realizing I'm genderqueer has been amazing. I feel at such a relief.
    GQftw GQftw 22-25, T Apr 3

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    Any Other Boi's, Butches' Transguys Whatever??? - Hey ya'll.  Just wanted to say hi and ask about your experiences coming out. how was it? soming out to yourself, your parents...
    Christian74 Christian74 36-40, T 3 Responses Jan 21, 2011

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    I am a genderqueer male. more accurately, I am a bi gender, gender fluid person in a male body. I like what I have, im not complaining, its awesome, but its hard to express...
    ThrillOfTheHunt ThrillOfTheHunt 22-25 1 Response Mar 23

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    I Don't Even Know/faking A Profile. - So, this past summer I made an account on IMVU; this website where you can make an avatar and talk to people etc. It wasn't the first time I...
    Disasterology Disasterology 13-15, F Jan 4, 2013

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    I realised that I was different from my friends recently. I always liked boys-- many of my crushed in school were actually guys. But at the same time, from when I was young, I...
    CHiVE44 CHiVE44 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I Am Trans But Gonna Stay Genderqueer - My name is Christian,I figured out about 2 to 3 years ago that I am trans, altough due to the finacial constraints and also that I don't...
    Christian74 Christian74 36-40, T Jan 18, 2011

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    Label Me Not - I guess the worst part about living my life right now is that I don't even know WHAT I am, let alone what to do about it. I'm a girl, who loves the idea of masculine...
    quackle quackle 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2012

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    I Know That I Love Her So Much... - yeah.....She is so beautiful...she is my friend and she is straight...I have told her about my feelings,now she knows everything..but she still...
    4bidden 4bidden 16-17, F 4 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Broken Confusion - Dating a lesbian, but wishing to be male. Is this any way to live? My parents don't believe me. They think I'm being dramatic. I want to be a male. I can deal...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 16, 2012

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    Overwheming Lonliness And Seeking Needed Comfort - For the last several months I have been unable to attend my local Trans support group due to a change of my work schedule, my...
    Kei879 Kei879 22-25, T 2 Responses Apr 1, 2010

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    Proud if this because for many years I thought I was M2F TS however I am TG or Genderqueer. Now that I have this figured out I need to make sure that I am seeking a Pansexual Man...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Genderqueer. That's me. I used to consider transitioning to male, but after careful consideration I found that I would only be going from one cage to another. It is far easier...
    liekinvarsi liekinvarsi 22-25 Feb 28

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    I'm not sure what I am honestly. But I'm defiantly don't fit in just the female category. I'm uncomfortable the female pronouns and even being called by my birth name. It's...
    lovelyalchemy lovelyalchemy 16-17 1 Response Mar 25

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    Country Queer, City Queer. - I don't want to be a boy, but i've never felt quite like a girl.I had been doing a lot of thinking about gender in the last few years. I spent this...
    bluejaye bluejaye 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    God, When I Wake, Please Let Me Be a Boy. - That's what I would pray when I was younger. I used to hope to God that when we moved here to Colorado, that I would wake...
    HypeArt HypeArt 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 22, 2009

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    I identify as male, but have traits of both a boy and a girl, partially due to my being raised as female. I like dressing up, but not in dresses or skirts. I own some makeup, but...
    mattmercury mattmercury 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    I Don'T Know Anyone Like Me - I have never been like my friends or other girls. Never into makeup or dresses. Actually I was into make-up for like an hour one day when I was...
    Sandman9 Sandman9 18-21 2 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    I'm Not Indecisive! - This is by no means a new phase, but I can't deny that it was only recently since I have accepted it. It is not clear to me whether my case is biological or...
    jaquelin1 jaquelin1 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    A Not-so-brief, But Yet Very Brief History Of My Gender Identity - I started the infamous Boys vs. Girls Kindergarten Civil War of 2002. I think I may have committed treason...
    whatshouldmyusernamebe whatshouldmyusernamebe 16-17 1 Response Sep 19, 2013

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    Coming To Terms With My Pansexual/genderfluid Identity - I have been struggling with my sexual and gender identity my entire life. At a very young age I wanted to ware my older...
    IamJgurlyboi IamJgurlyboi 26-30 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Now What? - I've always had this sort of feeling that something wasn't quite right. It seems like there is almost always something stressful going on in my life, and I know I'm not...
    polemy polemy 18-21 Oct 25, 2012

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    I am a feminine sissy boy bottom who just wants to get married to a masculine top who will treat me like a princess and wears the pants! I am Genderqueer or Pansexual or...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    For me, I've always felt different, like I didn't fit or belong. I was my parents first born daughter, and they loved their beautiful baby Bethany. My mom in particular has always...
    Shawn71090 Shawn71090 22-25 Apr 5

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    Need a real man to pamper me and make me his princess!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 6 hrs ago

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    Growing up I was an EFFEMINATE GAY or TG(TRANSGENDER) Boi who got bullied a lot and could not just simply HIDE the fact that I was GAY! Most of my friends were girls or other...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    I think I wanna be genderqueer, like to not have a gender, but I want the male body, face and voice. I dont feel like a girl and I dont wanna grow up to be a woman, I can't see...
    BlackNekoIIIX BlackNekoIIIX 16-17 1 Response Mar 23

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender. I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I am biologically female, but have worn mens clothes since 1997. I had psychotherapy in 2001/2 decided I just did not want the whole surgery thing . . I am only about 65...
    dispossessed dispossessed 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I need help, I am very naturally effeminate gay sissy boi/TG who loves being a bottom and wants to be treated like a woman by a Masculine Top who will let me be the wife and take...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    Growing up I was an EFFEMINATE GAY or TG (Transgender) Boi who was mostly friends with girls or other gay men who were out. Being an ADORABLE SUBMISSIVE BOTTOM/TG who really needs...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    Effeminate TG Genderqueer would like to meet a Masculine Man to build a life and home under one condition, I am and will always be the wife and I want a husband who will treat me...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 5 days ago