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I Am a Girl Just Trying to Find Her Way

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    I’ve found that the more friends I make the

    more I forget myself. I get so caught up in gaining their trust and keeping their friendship that I lose myself along the way. I’ve become this stranger to myself and I’m not even sure who I am anymore. Or what I’ve become. It’s not something I do purposefully. It just...
    sincerelymetes sincerelymetes 16-17, F Jan 27

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    Where To Go?

    im just tryin to fit in sometimes...do some times i don't i cant get it out of my head way am i tryin to be like them...i just want to be my self....
    alex35 alex35 16-17, F May 8, 2010

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    Where's My Path?

    I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I- I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. ~The Road Not Taken ~Robert Frost I wish I had the courage to take the road less travelled by. I wish I...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2011

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    I Certainly Am.

    I am just a girl trying to find my way. I'm trying to find my way through life & it's not easy. In fact, it's very difficult, especially since most things are very difficult for me. It's hard to find my way through life when life is nothing more than an elusive dream. I have no...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    I want a future. I want to learn things, be respected, have a job that pays the bills and allows me to save some money. I want my parents to be proud and I want the people in my life to know that I can do the same things everyone else can do. Even though I seem weird and...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Aug 4, 2011

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    I’m A Girl

    I’m a girl,Trying to find her way,Somehow,I’m lost,Believe it or not,In the body of a male,It’s only when I cross-dress,The girl in me comes out.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 6, 2011

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    Thats Me

    But its like everytime I figure something out some new issue arrises. I hate that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 18, 2009

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    Think Less, Do More

    Lately I've had way too much free time and I haven't been spending it very well. My mind will just wander into unknown territory and I can't seem to stay foused. I need something I can focus on, something to get my mind off of things. I've had way too much time to think and...
    sincerelymetes sincerelymetes 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26, 2013

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    Where Do I Belong?

    I know who I am, most of the time. I know my virtues and flaws, but I also know the parts of me that I can't figure if they are a virtue or a flaw. Sometimes they are both, but I never know which is better. I navigate my path daily, consciously searching for each step that...
    Lucidblue Lucidblue 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    The Beginning Of Crystal... Meth

    My first time using Methamphetamine. It all began with Steven James, also known as Bam. This guy was like nothing I've ever seen before. He's... addicted to methamphetamine. The first night I met Bam, was the first time I tried meth. It was unexplainable. It was like no other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    Want to Go With Me?

    After several crashes, some wrong exits, and a few detours I am back on this road called life and trying to find my way.  I have an upgraded navigator and I am ready to reach my destination.  Does anyone want to go with me?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Turn Left!

    You saw that direction pole in the public park near the side walkwith loads of arrows on it, well I'm the girl it just confused cos it seemed to have so many different directions each going off at a tangent. And that's how my life's kinda been from early childhood seeing the...
    CarolineBelinda CarolineBelinda 36-40, F Mar 4, 2010

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    Always!

    I'm always trying to find my way, in life. I am walking close to finding all of me, which I know may take a lifetime to do. Not to mention, I'm always changing and morphing as a person. My experiences and quest for knowledge (obsessively so), doesn't allow me to stay in one place...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2009

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    Ginger Foutly Said It Best

    She chose to walk alone Though others wondered why Refused to look before her, Kept eyes cast upwards, Towards the sky. She didn't have companions No need for earthly things. Only wanted freedom, From what she felt were Puppet strings. She longed to be a bird. That she might fly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3, 2011

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    Well I'm trying to.. Was in an abusive relationship for years, started therapy a few years ago and am finally getting out. I have my days that I think I won't ever find my way but...
    ro01 ro01 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Aug. 1. Gratitude. "We learn the magical lesson that making the most of what we have turns it into more." —Codependent No More Say thank you, until we mean it. Thank God...
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    Aug. 1. Gratitude. "We learn the magical lesson that making the most of what we have turns it into more." —Codependent No More Say thank you, until we mean it. Thank God...
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    July 27. Letting Go. Stop trying so hard to control things. It is not our job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, and life. Maybe in the past we couldn't trust and let...
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    July 27. Letting Go. Stop trying so hard to control things. It is not our job to control people, outcomes, circumstances, and life. Maybe in the past we couldn't trust and let...
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    July 23. Making It Happen. Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Stop doing so much, if doing so much is wearing you out or not achieving the desired results. Stop thinking so...
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    July 23. Making It Happen. Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Stop doing so much, if doing so much is wearing you out or not achieving the desired results. Stop thinking so...
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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
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    July 19. Proving It to Ourselves. "I spent a year trying to prove to my husband how much his drinking was hurting me. When I began to recover, I realized I was the one who needed...
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    July 15. Self-care with Family Members. "I was thirty- five years old the first time I spoke up to my mother and refused to buy into her games and manipulation. I was terribly...
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    July 15. Self-care with Family Members. "I was thirty- five years old the first time I spoke up to my mother and refused to buy into her games and manipulation. I was terribly...
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    July 30. Accepting Powerlessness. Since I've been a child, I've been in an antagonistic relationship with an important emotional part of myself: my feelings. I have consistently...
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    July 30. Accepting Powerlessness. Since I've been a child, I've been in an antagonistic relationship with an important emotional part of myself: my feelings. I have consistently...
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    Trying to be resilient ..... Today is one of those days Domestic violence is NOT just physical Sometimes I have thought if I had a black eye ,people may then empathise and...
    fivefoottall fivefoottall 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    July 31. Letting Go of What We Want. "For those of us who have survived by controlling and surrendering, letting go may not come easily." —Beyond Codependency In recovery, we...
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    July 31. Letting Go of What We Want. "For those of us who have survived by controlling and surrendering, letting go may not come easily." —Beyond Codependency In recovery, we...
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    After being in hell for the last 2yrs, things are solely starting to get better. I am finding the path that I am suppose to be on and trying to make everything all right!
    sunnysmiles1234 sunnysmiles1234 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    July 8. Going with the Flow. Go with the flow. Let go of fear and your need to control. Relinquish anxiety. Let it slip away, as you dive into the river of the present moment...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    July 8. Going with the Flow. Go with the flow. Let go of fear and your need to control. Relinquish anxiety. Let it slip away, as you dive into the river of the present moment...
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    July 13. God as We Understand God. "God is subtle, but he is not malicious." —Albert Einstein Recovery is an intensely spiritual process that asks us to grow in our...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 13

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    July 13. God as We Understand God. "God is subtle, but he is not malicious." —Albert Einstein Recovery is an intensely spiritual process that asks us to grow in our...
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    July 17. Love, in Words and Actions. Many of us have confused notions about what it means to be loved and cared about. Many of us were loved and cared for by people who had...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 17

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    July 17. Love, in Words and Actions. Many of us have confused notions about what it means to be loved and cared about. Many of us were loved and cared for by people who had...
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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    July 25. Keep at It. Keep practicing your recovery behaviors, even when they feel awkward, even when they haven't quite taken yet, even if you don't get it yet. Sometimes it...
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    I would love to find a girl that would support my cross dressing! Please message me!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Jul 16

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    years ago i found her, she is perfect we clicked we where perfect. but life gives you hurdles that change the game on many levels wich made me loose her. but not before falling...
    vince89 vince89 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    July 12. Letting Go of Fear of Abandonment. "Where are you, God? Where did you go?" So many people have gone away. We may have felt so alone so much. In the midst of our...
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    July 12. Letting Go of Fear of Abandonment. "Where are you, God? Where did you go?" So many people have gone away. We may have felt so alone so much. In the midst of our...
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    July 14. We Are Lovable. "Even if the most important person in your world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay." —Codependent No More Do you ever find...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 14

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    July 14. We Are Lovable. "Even if the most important person in your world rejects you, you are still real, and you are still okay." —Codependent No More Do you ever find...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 14

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    July 1. Receiving. Here is an exercise. Today let someone give to you. Let someone do something nice for you. Let someone give you a compliment or tell you something good about...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 1

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    July 1. Receiving. Here is an exercise. Today let someone give to you. Let someone do something nice for you. Let someone give you a compliment or tell you something good about...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    July 2. Who Knows Best? Others do not know what's best for us. We do not know what's best for others. It is our job to determine what's best for ourselves. "I know what you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 2

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