I Am a Girl Who Can't Relate to Other Girls

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    It Seems That Guy Know How to Have Fun

    Shopping, manicures, txting, no... not me! I do care about what I look like, and I do wear makeup, but, my bathroom counter isn't covered with varios beauty supplies and such like my sister's or her friends, or the few female friends I have. I do dress girly-ish. But if all you...
    lymore lymore
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    Here's Why I Don't Have Any Women Friends

    I had a roommate whom I thought i could trust. We used to do dumb stuff together, pulling pranks on people, etc. Then we moved in to another house and got another female roomate ( Drama Queen ). Drama Queen apparently made some enemies @her previous apartment. I've seen them go...
    mo1978 mo1978
    6 Responses Jul 17, 2009

    For the Most Part...

    All my life, the thirty some years, most of the women I have met have been controlling, obsessed with image and self serving. Lately though, I've discovered a few precious gems with open hearts and I hope we'll be friends forever. Why though, are some women so worried about what...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2008

    I'm not girly and I'm like a boy in the inside.

    I hate talking about what typical teenage girls talk about. I never kissed anyone and ever ever had a boyfriend. I still think I'm too young. So can't really relate to my friends. I love to do boyish things like doing outdoor activities and other boyish things.
    manotham manotham
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2014

    Some Girls Are Just Way Too Complicated!

    I am a ninth grader girl. I used to have a few nice girl best friends, but after all, I couldn't understand them at all. They keep talking about my personality change, problems in the past, etc. Why can't we just chill and have fun? I can't relate to other girls because they're...
    michellemint michellemint
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2012


    Never understood gossiping, or endless talks about boys and shopping and makeup and other nonsense like that. Badmouthing girls behind their backs... or discussing my boyfriends in detail with my female friends... o.O no way... Maybe that is why I have hard time in finding good...
    SunnySmile SunnySmile
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 29, 2012

    Starving For Female Friends.

    In both elementary school and middle school I had all female friends, in high school it was about half and half now I have like none. I don't know why I feel so weird talking to other girls now. I really miss having at least one 'best friend' who is a girl.
    Mothmilk Mothmilk
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2010

    So True

    I guess I just don't adhere to the same life as everyone else. I'm very into things such as make-up and clothing, but I also adore old horror flicks and bizarre culture. I see the ability to love both, while I feel like some women just don't get it. Oh well, to each its own...
    Parafaecri Parafaecri
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2008

    Girls And Women Have Always Felt Like An Alien Species To Me.

    I've never been interested in conversation that revolved around clothes and hair and gossip about other girls. I've never understood why these things are important enough to talk about for hours on end. It just seems kind of trivial.. Am I the only one who thinks like this?
    beyondthesenses beyondthesenses
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2012

    I Don't Understand

    The obsession with make-up, boys, shopping, and sex. I will admit that as I've gotten older, I don't mind going shopping as much but truthfully I'd rather shop for books and video games than for clothes. And as for boys, I've just never really understood a girls need to...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180
    18-21, F
    Feb 2, 2012

    It's really hard for me to try

    and relate to other girls because I'm just different. While they're looking at which lipstick looks best on them and talking about guys and make up, I'm listening to/writing music or reading a book. That's mostly the reason why I get bullied because girls don't like that I'm not...
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    Girls Can Be Difficult

    Let's face it; guys are easy. They tend to say exactly what they are thinking and when they lie they are so bad at it that you know immediately. They make for easy friends because they are straight up and they are never competition. Girls on the other hand are more complicated. I...
    MondernDayMaya MondernDayMaya
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jun 1, 2010

    I feel so different from girls of my age.

    They're all girly and feminine and I'm like **** at little talks or being flirty. I have girl friends, of course, but it's so difficult to make friends
    mariangelav mariangelav
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2016

    I think I intimidate girls.

    .. when I talk to girls they're all super energetic with smiling faces. They seem so excited for some reason...And I'm super calm, super reserved, kinda quiet....not grinning ear to ear like them...talking casually. Thinking why are they so excited? And then I don't think I'm...
    ASadCatNamedNadia ASadCatNamedNadia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    Ugh, Girls.

    I relate very little, if at all to most other girls. I have always enjoyed the company of males over females. At school I always hung out with more guys than girls because I didn't understand or agree with most girls. Most were snotty, judgmental, cliquey and had zero substance...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2012

    Ofcourse!!!! I'm soooo bored,

    talking to people in here is bleh... Does anyone skype or snapchat or watever?!?!
    dashuria dashuria
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2014

    I Long For a Group of ( Female ) Friends..

    All my life I've had nothing but trouble with women. If it wasn't my harsh expressions or humor, it probably was that I wasn't able to communicate properly with them. I hope I will not offend more girls/women by stating this, but they're quite unforgiving, and vicious. They seem...
    PinkBunnyProject PinkBunnyProject
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 29, 2008

    Actually i motstly cant,

    altho i have one who i can relate so Much to, My inspiration. Annelie Pompe, she is an "adventurer" a mountainerer, climber and freediver. She is the first Woman from Sweden to be on top of mount Everest and she has set the world record in freediving. A really cool Woman.
    darkspiritwolf darkspiritwolf
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    It's like we just don't mix .

    I only have a few female friends and they don't even understand where I'm comin from most times . That's kind of people in general
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Dec 24, 2014

    I don't wear makeup or keep up with the latest

    trends. I don't collect shoes. I dress practically & smartly & I guess that's why I don't have any female friends (or friends period). I never met a woman who is like me & I don't think I ever will.
    selina1986 selina1986
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2016

    I'm sure I could :P maybe.

    I just haven't. I literally talk to no girls on here and I've only rarely have in the past. I don't know why, it just doesn't work I guess.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2014

    At the ages of 5 through 14 i have no clue

    as to why but I was always targeted by molesters and rapers growing up. Im 17 now and have trust issues with men, I didn't always have trust issues with guys tho, I was finally beginning to heal until a trusted family friend did it to me. Thanks to all the men that did that I...
    josiebecerra josiebecerra
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    I don't know what it is about talking to girls,

    but they're just so confusing. A lot of the time they're extremely negative towards life in general. And I find I can't be myself. Guys are just much more interesting to me and I can communicate with them on an intellectual level
    Oceanseeker Oceanseeker
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014

    Actually, I can relate to other females much

    more now than I used to be able to. Not in all ways, but I have some female friends now and I can talk to them about some things that guys just don't understand or that I can't talk to them about.
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    Jul 7, 2014

    I Just Don't

    It's hard for me to relate to people in general, esp women in my age group. I have one good female friend, and that's it. It would be nice if I had more women friends, but I find that we don't have a lot in common. It's frustrating. And it doesn't help that I don't really act my...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 31, 2010

    Can any other girl relate.

    ..? There is a huge difference between loving n liking someone!! I like this boy who made me fall in love with him because the way he sweet talked me n wht I heard from others like he would never cheat on u!! But, there's this guy, who I've known since 6th grade!! We talk this n...
    Giselle1023 Giselle1023
    18-21, F
    Nov 13, 2014

    I went to one of those spa parties

    and they decided to play this purse game where you grab items out of your purse as they call them out....yea..totally lost that game as I don't even have a purse.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 24, 2014

    Same Here

    So, I related so much to this forum that I decided to join.  I actually googled "girl who cant make friends."  lol... Well heres my story.. I have been with my man for 7 years and we met when I was 17...I had 3 close friends in high school and a...
    Inlovewithaboy Inlovewithaboy
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2009

    Never Really Could

    I get some things but then some things are a universal girl thing. But I have never been into peer pressure, I don't care about the latest trends, I'm not obsessed with what I look like, I am not a feminist, I am not obsessed with boys, I am not shallow (no I dont think all girls...
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08
    1 Response Sep 28, 2008

    I Thought It Was Just Me!

    I thought i was the only girl who could not relate to other girls.  I have always had one female best friend all my life. And if they don't last or we drift apart I always have a new best friend to take their spot. But i always want more than one good friend because I...
    purplelips purplelips
    18-21, F
    Sep 4, 2009
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