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I Am A Good Friend, But Freaks Need Not Apply

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    Well, That Was Fast!

      I took a quiz "just for fun" and I can see it's time to put up my WARNING: I WILL look at your profile page and deduce from your activity, friends, and experiences whether I wish to add on a new friend.  I am a pretty good judge of character and can...
    Brooklynchick Brooklynchick 51-55, F 20 Responses Dec 9, 2009

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    Post #4 In The Book Of "no! I Will Not Add You."

    This is the fourth post in the past year and yet, it appears some still refuse to read and pay attention.  I thought about just continuing to ignore the "you have a new fan" mail, but it seems to come in waves lately and I'm tired of wasting most of my time filtering through...
    giggles4488 giggles4488 56-60, F 19 Responses Jan 23, 2011

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    Leave Me Alone Weirdo's

    This one is for me and Giggles (happy now Mother?). I don't want to watch you and you lover **** (been asked that once on here, who asks that?), I don't want to have an affair with you (been asked that twice on here), I do not want to cheat on my love(lots count now of how many...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    Something I Need To Say!!!!!!!

     IF I AM YOUR FRIEND, I WILL BE A BEST FRIEND. ONE YOU KNOW YOU CAN COUNT ON FOR A WILLING EAR TO HEAR WHATEVER IS ON YOUR MIND. ONE WHO WILL COMMISERATE AND CONSOLE THE ACHING HEART AND THE SCARRED SOUL. I WILL LAUGH WITH YOU AND CRY WITH YOU AND PROBABLY SMART OFF A FEW...
    giggles4488 giggles4488 56-60, F 15 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    I'm Not Trying To Be Mean But...

    READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU CIRCLE ME!!! I am very open minded, but some things I CANNOT wrap my head around, nor will I even try. I DON'T WEAR DIAPERS. I DON'T PEE MY PANTS I DON'T WANT SPANKED, NOR DO I WANT TO SPANK ANYONE. FOOD DOES NOT BELONG IN THE BEDROOM! SAVE THE...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    Not Interested

    I HAVE NOT HAD THE PROBLEMS THAT SOME HAVE ENCOUNTERED BUT THEN AGAIN, I AM FAIRLY NEW TO THIS SITE. HOWEVER, I HAVE RUN INTO A FEW I WOULD LIKE TO ADDRESS. SO LET'S JUST CLEAR THIS UP NOW AND I WON'T HAVE TO GRIPE ABOUT IT LATER! I AM REALLY NOT INTERESTED IN A 3-SOME. PLEASE...
    TrprBadass TrprBadass 41-45, M 8 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    i've been told many times i'm a good friend . i'm sincere and genuine ,i look out for my friends. their enemies r my enemies. i constantly check up on them 2 c how they r doing...
    AndeleAndele AndeleAndele 18-21, M Jan 18

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    You know that highly cliched saying "Be careful what you wish for" well I've fallen victim to it. During middle school I had a really good friend who was sweet, generous, fun...
    Casualdeviant Casualdeviant 13-15 4 days ago

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    Many years ago when when I was in college, there was this guy who was a guidance counselor. Basically, it was his job to help students who wanted to transfer out of the two year...
    Nijima Nijima 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I don't like cats (they freak me out) but i have a friend who loves cats, so just because she's a good friend and i love her- i send her pictures of cats under the title: Dear Cat...
    TinkerFae TinkerFae 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    She was a good friend for about a year often talking, we talked almost everyday had many laughs. Then we tried for more, a long distance relationship which started great and just...
    damnitsover damnitsover 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    Anyone want to chat? I am really depressed and in need of a good conversation to keep my mind off of it.
    NicholeCarter1995 NicholeCarter1995 18-21, F Jan 18

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    if you guys ever need someone to talk to about anything at all be it from your day to just wanting to talk to someone than i'm here. i am great at listening and understanding. i...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    A friend recently passed away, on December 31st. I found out on January 4th while at church. She was 77, recently had hip replacement surgery. I know she wouldn't be considered...
    sherrianna sherrianna 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    it's kind of mind blowing to be aware that I've only been alive for 18 years but it feels like forever I'm am a philosopher a thinker a geek but proud of it how's that for my...
    AlexanderGarcia AlexanderGarcia 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    my bestfriend wants to have sex with my older brother and I'm pretty sure this is what brought us to be bestfriends in the first place & it just kinda started out as her using me...
    pgtg13 pgtg13 13-15, F Jan 3

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    Hey guys I'm a 25 year old male and I would love to hear your opinions. So my mom is 56 years old and she's a beautiful single lady. She has been divorced for 12 years. She has no...
    justin62 justin62 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Rant session Lately, I've been noticing things about myself that I didn't really fully know about myself... I'm actually mean to people.. Like I try to be a good person but there...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Okay so my story might be a complicated one, or maybe someone has been through the same exact thing. I really don't know, but I need some form of explanation and answers. Okay so...
    LadyDi95 LadyDi95 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I haven't been on this site in over 6 years and I'm back because my confidence and self worth are faltering and I can't control my thoughts. I'm 29 years old and I don't know what...
    andyx181x andyx181x 26-30, M Dec 28, 2014

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    HEY! So I have come to my realization that I need a friend. I don't have ANY friends where I live and I would really like someone I could call or text if I ever have problems...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 57 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I need a friend A friend who is true. A friend who doesn't need to change . A friend who is not fake. I'm tired , tired of being that good friend to all ,when they need. But when...
    CometHeart CometHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Simply put.. I too am a victim of loving my best friend. For almost 6 years now.. I feel I'm too old for this but love has no boundaries.. he used to tell me about all..but...
    DrGeorgie DrGeorgie 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I was very close to one of my friends. She and I used to do everything together and I thought we had a good friendship. But another girl came into the picture. Suddenly, she didn't...
    Soccerkickin Soccerkickin 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I have a fear of being alone, not necessarily having a fear of being by myself in a room or anything, but more in a sense of being single, having no friends etc. I'm going to...
    maishiranui maishiranui 16-17, F Jan 16

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    I dont understand why this so called friend of mine can never be there when I need her. Everytime I pick up the phone to call her she only thinks about herself when she answers. I...
    Mzcubandiva Mzcubandiva 31-35 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I try not to vent so much. It's depressing. It's not good for other people to hear about it ALL the time. I will tell my best friend things, but mostly I tuck it all away. However...
    Stormeye1996 Stormeye1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    In 7th grade their was a boy that liked me. He called his mom off of my phone to get my number (lol) he would be a good friend and would always be their for me when I needed him...
    t3rriv t3rriv 16-17, F Dec 28, 2014

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    Anyone wanna talk on the phone??? Girl please around my age?? I just really need a good friend that won't leave me alone or forget about me in a day. A true friend💕 anyone...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    i am looking real good friend !
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 7 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I'm 16 and this is gonna sound strange but I need a best friend that has imaginary friends like I do, because I am going insane not having a best friend who will tell me about...
    ImaginaryBFF ImaginaryBFF 16-17, F Jan 11

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    But not just a therapy, but a new friend, and hopefully a real good friend. I know it hard to find someone that will listen to you or just wish all the problem to go away, but i...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M Jan 13

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    Are there any asian girls that would like to have a online friend? Are you married but wanting/needing more? Are you inexperienced and would like to explore and experiment? Are...
    justaguy907 justaguy907 61-65, M Jan 16

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    today was my school re-opening and i was hope fully to have such a good moment with my friend but what they did to me....was they didn't want to hang out with me and that time I...
    meghan108 meghan108 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    For some reason I dont have a best friend,i dont know what it is about me but im always stabbed in the back by so called "best friends" right now i dont have anyone to talk to no...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F Jan 18

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    I wont be the guy who will ask girls to talk to me because I'm in need of social life .I will be the guy who will respect every one and who will listen to everybody. And if you can...
    Nasamaru Nasamaru 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Well my best friend has epilepsy and she told me some things she'd been doing to herself she'd been cutting herself, and making herself puke, and she's being abused by her father...
    create1908 create1908 13-15, F Jan 9

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    Your body needs vitamin and vitamins. Carbohydrates are your body's fuel, but it gets its nourishment from vitamins and minerals in order to keep itself running well. Make sure...
    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    Well my best friend has epilepsy and she told me some things she'd been doing to herself she'd been cutting herself, and making herself puke, and she's being abused by her father...
    create1908 create1908 13-15, F Jan 10

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    I wish you would understand how much it's hurt me these past few years....as I see you forgetting me more each day, never making an effort to even say hello....I watch as I see you...
    AlyShine AlyShine 18-21, F Jan 11

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    It's been a while since I have been on here. For those of you who don't know who I am i will give you so information about me. I am 19 years old and I am a Sous chef. I've gone...
    soxs45 soxs45 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    not from any specific person, but in general. well actually, basically just time away from my family. But my friends also put a tole on me every so often. I need to have my alone...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really have very good friends but I only find them when I'm extremely drunk , I wonder why ! # everyone have good friends but the saddest part is you are not being a good friend...
    pranavstalur1300135 pranavstalur1300135 18-21, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I can still remember how we met..when I saw your message popped up we just clicked like we knew each other for a long time..I wish I met you in real you lived close to me and I...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think most guys equate "friend zone" with the most vile of curses, but that was always me in high school. The interesting part for me was that it made me a really good listener...
    LOMD LOMD 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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