I Am A Good Guy, But I Have Limits

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    I will listen to whatever you have going on,

    I enjoy sharing what I have learned in life. Maybe I can help someone along. That's a pretty nice thing to do I think.
    voxalexander voxalexander
    36-40, M
    Feb 11, 2016

    I'm not sure what this title exactly means,

    but the way I pictured it, is that someone is telling the general public that they are in general, a good person, but break or snap sometimes. So that's what I'm venting about. A few months ago, I felt dangerously close to killing myself. I've never felt quite so close to it...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat
    16-17, T
    1 Response Apr 22, 2015

    I like to think of that nice guy

    that your mom always tells you you should find, but I'm not gonna let someone take advantage of my kindness for weakness.
    hawaiinpunch hawaiinpunch
    18-21, M
    Jan 30, 2016

    frustrated...... it's funny how

    when you are being manipulated, if you recognize it ,call them on their **** and say no I'm not going to allow it , you're mean and judgemental. yep you're right! I am sooo mean and judgemental for not bending over and taking it. all I care about is myself when I don't let you...
    redbay1991 redbay1991
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    My relationship just got complicated

    and she wants me to be with her all the time. I love her but I can't spend all day with her . People will start talking ****. This is what happens when you get in a relationship with Netflix
    SymphonySoldier SymphonySoldier
    16-17, M
    Feb 14, 2016
    irispres irispres
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    I won't judge a fellow A short man.

    . Skin of yellow A black dude or he with his cross Who am I .....am not the boss Woman who breaks the scale The gay all white and pale The dancer who takes it all off The fat cat playing his golf I won't Jude a fellow
    1chuck2 1chuck2
    31-35, M
    Jul 15, 2015

    I am a guy that want to test something new .

    I would like to try and date a guy. So if any of you want to test with me just message me.
    bryanj12345 bryanj12345
    16-17, M
    Oct 11, 2015

    I can read people's fortune.

    I don't use cards, tea leaves, or read your palm. I use a completely innovative techniques specifically for online application.
    1chuck2 1chuck2
    31-35, M
    Jun 29, 2015

    I feeling like I'm being push to my limits in

    this relationship. I'm trying not to dwell on the things we could've done to have prevented all this before hand but sometimes it's not so easy. I even imagined you with another guy I but know it's not true, my mind just play tricks on me well at least I hope it is. I wish to...
    martinez1993 martinez1993
    22-25, M
    Jan 31, 2016

    Unfortunately, today,

    doing good is played down more often than glorified rudeness. When I see someone do something truly selfless, it restores my faith in humanity a little. I believe there is good in everyone, but for some reason I see more people exercising their right to be rude than I see random...
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    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015
    IntellectPeanut IntellectPeanut
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2014

    I like to think that I am nice.

    I don't judge people, and I am respectful. like everybody else I do have a limit.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 31, 2016
    FwwKyouBatman FwwKyouBatman
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 30, 2015

    Yeah. This group makes no sense.

    Either the guy is an ******* or it's obvious that he--just like everyone else--has limits so this shouldn't be stated really. I see a lot of ******** on here in my opinion. It seems like the "limits" are immature or what annoys them is something that I deem is small or asinine...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    Might be time to play the bad guy

    because that guy gives no *****. Being good can have its benefits but when people try to get over on you it can be infuriating. I guess some people don't appreciate it. But I'm really not here to give people what I want only who I am. I feel like because of things that has...
    theblacksuggestionbox theblacksuggestionbox
    26-30, M
    Nov 24, 2015

    Decent guys get shoved aside most of the time

    now , girls want a bad *** and they stay with guys who don't treat them right and make them cry . A guy should only make his girl cry happy tears.
    JamieAshton227 JamieAshton227
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 24, 2015

    My wife and I have been friends with another

    couple for over 25 yrs, boy how friends change when they OWE YOU MONEY. About 10 yrs ago we went in on a time share together in Aruba, every thing was great until they got into a financial bind after having a baby. We all know how that happens, unfortunately they have not been...
    hippo7053 hippo7053
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    I have two modes. My main mode is my generous

    and helpful mode where i am me. I may be nice but i am brutally honest. Then there is my psycho mode. I dont get angry but one my interpret this mode as angry. Its more of how i get when i feel something is wrong.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    Some people actually think its okay to pick on

    the good guy for no reason at all. Like if they're in a bad mood, they'll just insult you and blame you for messing up their day when clearly, you did nothing to upset the guy. I hope there aren't many of these idiots here, coz I'd lose all hope in humanity.
    siranonimous siranonimous
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    I am normally an easy going sort,

    able to take things in stride. I believe in treating others as I want to be treated. I won't cheat you, or purposefully harm you. I am polite, a gentleman, and open doors for everyone, men and women. I'm just generally a good guy... but don't push it too far, and don't harm...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 27, 2015

    I'm a great guy, I handle all of my

    responsibilities. I am full of integrity, honesty, and take care of business. It seems to be a trend where people take my kindness for weakness, or think that because I'm respectful that I am weak or needy. I've been delt a ****** hand in the past, which has made me the man I...
    JB789 JB789
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Good guys always finish last.

    and I'm still wondering why?. maybe it's because we know our worth so we are very picky. Idk but I'm here alone, and I miss her like crazy but I'm not getting with someone who is in love with someone else. I refuse to be used for anything even if it's sex. Damm, how much I want...
    NewLifenNewSoul NewLifenNewSoul
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2015

    I can't stand my wife,

    and we've only been married for a month. She doesn't recognize when she takes arguments too far and I have to hold my tongue in order to protect her feelings. Love is making me die a slow and painful death. For her everything I do is wrong and she sees no wrong in her logic and...
    manx91 manx91
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 16, 2015

    I try to be the best guy

    as far as all my relationships go, I work hard to be good. but that doesn't always work. I have my limits, and they are pretty clear. if you pass my limits and anger or upset me too far you will be abused physically and/or verbally. plain and simple
    deleted deleted
    Aug 27, 2015

    Hi guys. Just wondering is anyone here has had

    a similar experience as mine..here goes.. Well basically, i cant seem to accept my gfs past. She has had 5 exs, and some other affairs which didnt involve intercourse. Well, honestly put, her past hurts me. I cant seem to get it out of my system or accept her past. Well, with...
    etodajoseph etodajoseph
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I've faked the bad boy role

    yet the good guy always comes out.
    FetFriendly FetFriendly
    31-35, M
    Aug 30, 2015

    like really I'm genuinely a good guy.

    ..but please don't **** with me...I'm not sure what I'm capable of
    OGeee OGeee
    22-25, M
    Jul 21, 2015
    iFortiTude iFortiTude
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015
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    2 Responses May 25, 2015

    this probably has to be the hardest thing to

    explain... does anyone really know what I am talking about when I say your world is. created by your mind? how awkward is it when spending time with people who live in a "different" world? for whatever reason I am intrigued by this notion this morning. perhaps it was because...
    redbay1991 redbay1991
    26-30, M
    Jun 14, 2015

    I am really nice and I love helping people.

    Yet if you offend my friends or you annoy me waaay to much. ***** MODE
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    I am married 32 ' have one daughter she is 3' I

    fancy my sister in law ' she is 29 very attractive ' great figure and nice to be around ' i never met her before not even talk to her in my 7 years of marriage. But last month she came over to visit us for one year visitor visa and (lucky me) or my bad luck she is staying with...
    davin007 davin007
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2015
    nikkond80 nikkond80
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 2, 2016

    Can some girls, preferably 16 to 18 message me,

    I need some advice on something's and it would be appreciated
    HewanMcC HewanMcC
    18-21, M
    Jun 21, 2015

    I'm kind I'm honest and I'm a good listener

    but push me to the edge and that's wan the good guy goes away and I turn into something more tuff and cold hearted it's something I learn to do cause of pass experiences
    Pizogoon Pizogoon
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 27, 2014

    I can entirely control people by saying the

    right or wrong things. I could offer you a free puppy, or i could ruin your life.
    jarpadalecki jarpadalecki
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    There's a difference between being appreciative

    and taking my kindness for a weakness.
    Captain94 Captain94
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    Confessions of a perv!

    !!! It's time for me to come out of the closet... I've been in denial for so long! I release my sexual frustrations here.... I get a kick outta sexual innuendos and puns. I live out my fantasies here with consenting Women......role playing and hot discussions ....are my pass...
    1chuck2 1chuck2
    31-35, M
    Jul 15, 2015
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    when i saw a very beautiful girl its my mission

    to go talk to her you know the banging body has a good head on her shoulders. her booty is nice along with her golden brown legs lol and that curly hair reminded me how playful she is at sometimes. we have been talking for a few days and she tells i have to wait a month lol i...
    sharichi sharichi
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015
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