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I Am a Good Listener

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    If you disagree with them you may be tempted to

    interrupt. But don't. It is dangerous. They won't pay attention to you while they still have a lot of ideas of their own crying for expression. So listen patiently and with an open mind.
    anshu0312 anshu0312 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    So if you have any need of telling me your

    story, do not hesitate ;)
    Galantis Galantis 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I don't care if you have to call me on the phone

    and scream at me because you have built up anger inside you i wanna help because i care I don't care if i am up all night talking to you because your sad i wanna help and i don't care what you done in the past, the past is the past i still wanna be your best friend
    jadelynthompson jadelynthompson 13-15, F 8 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    ESMatricX ESMatricX 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    People have come to tell me their problems

    for years. I am usually able to figure out the situation and provide good advice. So why is my life such a cluster? Why can't I fix myself?
    Gwall1234 Gwall1234 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 15

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    I truly am a good listener.

    I don't interrupt people when they divulge their problems, secrets, or heartaches on me. I don't judge. I just sit there, look into their eyes after they talk, and say "feeling Better?" A hug works too. :)
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    calvinsewell calvinsewell 13-15, M Jan 23

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    Do you have those days were just at first

    everyhing goes your way and you're happy and then just one stupid thing happens and it just makes you so sad and you realize that you aren't that happy you thought you were. That's my week.
    kindofmagic kindofmagic 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    so if anybody needs someone to talk

    or just listen then im all ears hmu I won't judge :)
    steffielovesyou steffielovesyou 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Horse10202 Horse10202 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Does anyone ever feel like they're the one all

    their friends come to when they have issues but find it hard to share your problems with them?
    LindyAx LindyAx 16-17, F 11 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    If anyone needs to talk I'm a good listener (:

    I don't judge. I know everyone goes through things. No problem is stupid. If it makes you upset it matters. Smile your all beautiful (:
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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    I often listen to people's problems,

    I'm kind of drawn to them, I'm a good listener and I do psychic readings, I will give advice where is needed 😊
    AlexaJayne AlexaJayne 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 19

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    I love that you guys message me with something

    that is troubling you! and I love making you guys feel better! :)
    alexxvaunlennon101 alexxvaunlennon101 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 1

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    Knowing when to listen

    and how to listen is an art. Many people think they are good listeners because when their friends or partners are chatting about their normal adventures in life they provide the standard head nod or supportive comments. But often people are in pain and having troubles. Sometimes...
    Wilddesires Wilddesires 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 8

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    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    When I work behind the bar on a slow night,

    it's the most wonderful thing to be able to listen to my customers intently. After a drink or two, people will talk about anything and everything: work, relationships, politics, music... Then after 3 drinks, the men talk to my breasts and the conversation goes down hill...
    artofpleasure artofpleasure 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Sometimes I prefer to just listen to people

    than talk to them. I feel like sometimes that's all people need.
    Itsjustlauren Itsjustlauren 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Anyone wants to talk?

    Share any problems,secrets? Who wants to come out? Come on shoot me, I wont bite. :)
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I've struggled though depression

    and anxiety and I know what it feels like to be left out of the group. Over the years of seeing countless case managers and knowing what I want out of a therapist, I have become a great listener and great at giving advice. I know that for the rest of my life, all I want to do...
    whisperedthing whisperedthing 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Just remember that youre not the only one

    feeling sad or down. Remember that there is people around you feeling the exact same thing. Remember that You, as a person, are worth so much more than the pain youre feeling. Remember that you are perfect as You are.
    mccgandy mccgandy 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    Another argument we couldn't get out of.

    It was over books. I asked him about some books he never finished. I listened to the tone of his voice become sterner, his eyes become defensive, my voice decreased to a faintness. I just wanted to get out of there.
    somewriter somewriter 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I hate people that lie

    and fake and cheat
    Misssanta Misssanta 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I wish we can find people

    who listen to us in real life , I wish we don't need such app to talk to each others
    Reemabdlhalm Reemabdlhalm 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    It doesn't take much to listen to someone,

    just good manners. Oh, yes sometimes you have to absorb a diatribe but some people are incredibly nervous talking and they say all kinds of things in a kind of flood! You learn much.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I am. I am always ready to listen.

    Sometimes I just have to listen. And I don't know the answer. Sometimes I will know the answer but it takes time!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    bcvegas4u2 bcvegas4u2 66-70, M Jan 23

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    WeCanWinThisFight WeCanWinThisFight 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    I may not be able to effectively add to the

    conversation or provide useful advice, but I'll listen to what you have to say!
    EvoxNeon EvoxNeon 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Why is it that I love listening to others

    and helping others but when I'm looking for it in return noting gets returned?
    moeco moeco 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I'm such a good listen.

    when people come to me with their problems I try to put my self in their shoes and feel every emotion their feeling.
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    I am a good listener I can always listen to u

    and understand u if u need me just message me
    selena7777 selena7777 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Any1 that wanna message me,

    Im here for you! (:
    goncalomarques goncalomarques 16-17, M Feb 2

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    I hate this part of me.

    . Everyone only wants to talk, no one ever wants to listen to me.. I am a very good listener but I hate that about me.. I wish someone would listen to me too!
    Christine2907 Christine2907 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I Consider Myself A Good Listener!

    Why ? Since No One Really Listens To Me I realized It Doesn't Feel Good' When Someone Is Talking To You And You're Doing Something Else ' Sometimes It Hurts Them. Always Imagine Yourself In That Position Of Needing Someone To Listen To You But They're not. How Would You Feel...
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    whoever you are, girl / guy

    and going through something or just need someone to listen, I'm here and I promise I do not judge.
    ClassicLady ClassicLady 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Sometimes we don't realise how powerful

    listening to someone can be.. It could have such a big impact on that person without you knowing it. P.s. I'm always here to listen :)
    lon12 lon12 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I'm not one to really like drama

    but people insist on coming to me for advice, don't know why, maybe it's bcos they've noticed how I can get myself out of awkward situations with such ease, or that they know il just tell it to'em straight. There have been times when I've been too honest and that person who...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M Feb 15

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    I've always try to be a good listener to other

    people and what they have to say. I really enjoy listening anyways because you learn so much more when you listen then talk. I've learned that you have to find a balance of talking and listening, but for the most part I enjoy understanding people and making people feel...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I'm a person who likes to have a deep

    conversation and really gets to know people for who they are. I don't judge or anything like that and know what it feels like to be truly alone. It's just hard to find other people like that who actually care and that I can relate to through life experiences. A lot of the time I...
    eyesaic eyesaic 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm new here because sometimes it's just to

    hard to trust the people around me wen i need to talk to someone. 🌺
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    Its Funny How I always listen to people,

    But when I want just want One person to listen to me there's no one there for me :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I am a great listener,

    which means I actually listen and will make the person I am talking to my priority, not my phone or the 101 thoughts running through my brain at the moment.
    ScienceExperiment ScienceExperiment 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    You can talk to me and I'll be here

    for you to listen and let you vent all about what you need to get off your beautiful chest!
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    I lost someone I loved very much today.

    I can't seem to find the words to express how my heart just stopped beating hours ago.
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I don't know if any of you have felt this way

    but there are times I've been around people but felt alone. I have trust issues so most of my thoughts and issues have been held inside me. Gossip should never exist. I have found through the short time that I've been on here that I can open up better to those that don't know me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    I listen to everything a person's got to say,

    whether it means anything or not I'll listen and appreciate that person for confiding in me, or hell, just talking to me and being my friend for that matter.
    USCCHRIS USCCHRIS 16-17, M Jan 1

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