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I Am a Good Listener

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    I'm not one to really like drama

    but people insist on coming to me for advice, don't know why, maybe it's bcos they've noticed how I can get myself out of awkward situations with such ease, or that they know il just tell it to'em straight. There have been times when I've been too honest and that person who...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M Feb 15

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    Being a listener is actually pretty cool,

    when I don't like to talk much. Also I get to know the person so much more. A lot of intellectual conversation come out of those random secrets, which I enjoy a lot. But sometimes I get tired of listening and the turn of conversation gets really awkward when I start talking...
    atirasisactuallybackwards atirasisactuallybackwards 16-17, F Mar 7

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    I do not judge people.

    ..you are who you are...my ears are open if you need to vent..or just need a friend.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I'm actually a very good listener

    and even though I might not agree with you, I will support you...so if you need someone to listen to you or support you I'm here.
    gabii354 gabii354 13-15, F Mar 10

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    Since I was young I have always been everyone

    friend because I listen. That included friends and family too. In most cases I had no clue what they were talking about or at least don't have the answers but they always come out satisfied and find a solution for their problem or come with a good idea. I concluded from that...
    spankdad00 spankdad00 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 8

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    You can talk to me and I'll be here

    for you to listen and let you vent all about what you need to get off your beautiful chest!
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 5

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    rainyday10 rainyday10 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    almeidajoes almeidajoes 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I am a good listener

    because I am a mother. I need to listen for my young kids calling me as I am upstairs in the bedrooms, doing laundry in the basement, or using my private bathroom for cleaning, showering, or shaving my legs and vagina. Also, when I am in my backyard gardening, grilling foods...
    blondefemaleinbackyard blondefemaleinbackyard 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    Hey if anyone needs to talk,

    I'll listen :) Xx
    sarahemily13 sarahemily13 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Being a teacher and listening to what people

    have to say is very interesting. I always love to help.
    coachaxel coachaxel 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you disagree with them you may be tempted to

    interrupt. But don't. It is dangerous. They won't pay attention to you while they still have a lot of ideas of their own crying for expression. So listen patiently and with an open mind.
    anshu0312 anshu0312 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 7

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    I lost someone I loved very much today.

    I can't seem to find the words to express how my heart just stopped beating hours ago.
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I hate people that lie

    and fake and cheat
    Misssanta Misssanta 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    It doesn't take much to listen to someone,

    just good manners. Oh, yes sometimes you have to absorb a diatribe but some people are incredibly nervous talking and they say all kinds of things in a kind of flood! You learn much.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    Always here for a chat

    if anyone needs to talk.....
    AlexaJayne AlexaJayne 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I always focuse on what people have to say,

    and try to understand the other side of life, i have talked to all kinds of people, like people that served hard time, people that are rich and live in mansions, and just everyday people, they al have their own story setting them apart and it is so fascinating.
    seikofontay seikofontay 18-21, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    If you ever need to talk,

    'I'm always here :)
    mystory15 mystory15 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I've always try to be a good listener to other

    people and what they have to say. I really enjoy listening anyways because you learn so much more when you listen then talk. I've learned that you have to find a balance of talking and listening, but for the most part I enjoy understanding people and making people feel...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Anyone wants to talk?

    Share any problems,secrets? Who wants to come out? Come on shoot me, I wont bite. :)
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    i really love to give advice

    and help my friends whenever theyre with problems. but, unhappily, when i need, they are never able to hear me. thats sad. i help them and receive nothing back :/
    annie1803 annie1803 18-21, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seriously I love helping others

    and lending an ear and I like get others to talk
    amadchic amadchic 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    People have come to tell me their problems

    for years. I am usually able to figure out the situation and provide good advice. So why is my life such a cluster? Why can't I fix myself?
    Gwall1234 Gwall1234 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 15

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    Do you have those days were just at first

    everyhing goes your way and you're happy and then just one stupid thing happens and it just makes you so sad and you realize that you aren't that happy you thought you were. That's my week.
    kindofmagic kindofmagic 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 4

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    That's why I want to become a social worker.

    I love listening and helping others with their problems. I've gone thru a lot in my life so I would be able to relate to ppl by experience not just going by the book.
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    I'm in the mood for a chat,

    about almost anything :) let's stick to happy/positive topics though. What are you currently working on? What was the last fun thing you did? What's your favourite food? ;)
    Viviq66 Viviq66 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Does anyone ever feel like they're the one all

    their friends come to when they have issues but find it hard to share your problems with them?
    LindyAx LindyAx 16-17, F 11 Responses Aug 19, 2014

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    ESMatricX ESMatricX 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I am. I am always ready to listen.

    Sometimes I just have to listen. And I don't know the answer. Sometimes I will know the answer but it takes time!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16

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    I know I'm guilty of not listening sometimes,

    if the telly is on it's easy to tune someone out who is trying to talk to you, but if I'm having dinner out or just a coffee with someone I'd rathe concentrate on who I'm with than be someone who is obsessed with their phone because texting and looking at twitter is more...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I am, message me anytime

    if your havin a bad day. :)
    maddie91101 maddie91101 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I don't care if you have to call me on the phone

    and scream at me because you have built up anger inside you i wanna help because i care I don't care if i am up all night talking to you because your sad i wanna help and i don't care what you done in the past, the past is the past i still wanna be your best friend
    jadelynthompson jadelynthompson 13-15, F 8 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I may not look like a good listener on the

    surface but I enjoy listening to those who need an ear to hear what they need to say. I keep everything confidential unless there is a very good reason not to but that rarely happens. I always try to deal with the situation myself before calling for professional help.
    Niran3 Niran3 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    I'm such a good listen.

    when people come to me with their problems I try to put my self in their shoes and feel every emotion their feeling.
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    whoever you are, girl / guy

    and going through something or just need someone to listen, I'm here and I promise I do not judge.
    ClassicLady ClassicLady 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Sometimes you just want someone to talk to.

    You need someone to understand you and support you. I love to be there for people simply b'cuz I have known how it feels like to have no one. So if anyone ever needs a shoulder, please don't hesitate to message me. <3 =) Xx (Oh and I'm also a motivational speaker!)
    Kitty9000 Kitty9000 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I work behind the bar on a slow night,

    it's the most wonderful thing to be able to listen to my customers intently. After a drink or two, people will talk about anything and everything: work, relationships, politics, music... Then after 3 drinks, the men talk to my breasts and the conversation goes down hill...
    artofpleasure artofpleasure 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    Its Funny How I always listen to people,

    But when I want just want One person to listen to me there's no one there for me :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I will be with a hairdressing client

    until 11:30am so I will get back to your messages when I'm done, anyone who wants advice drop me a message, :)
    AlexaJayne AlexaJayne 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes I prefer to just listen to people

    than talk to them. I feel like sometimes that's all people need.
    Itsjustlauren Itsjustlauren 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I Consider Myself A Good Listener!

    Why ? Since No One Really Listens To Me I realized It Doesn't Feel Good' When Someone Is Talking To You And You're Doing Something Else ' Sometimes It Hurts Them. Always Imagine Yourself In That Position Of Needing Someone To Listen To You But They're not. How Would You Feel...
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I hate this part of me.

    . Everyone only wants to talk, no one ever wants to listen to me.. I am a very good listener but I hate that about me.. I wish someone would listen to me too!
    Christine2907 Christine2907 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    vince808 vince808 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Why is it that I love listening to others

    and helping others but when I'm looking for it in return noting gets returned?
    moeco moeco 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I'm new here because sometimes it's just to

    hard to trust the people around me wen i need to talk to someone. 🌺
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    If anyone needs to talk I'm a good listener (:

    I don't judge. I know everyone goes through things. No problem is stupid. If it makes you upset it matters. Smile your all beautiful (:
    crimsonrosebud crimsonrosebud 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 21

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