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I Am a Good Listener

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    Sometimes we don't realise how powerful

    listening to someone can be.. It could have such a big impact on that person without you knowing it. P.s. I'm always here to listen :)
    lon12 lon12 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I'm a fairly caring person.

    I like to lend my ears to those that need to have someone to talk to or are looking for advice. My emotions never get in the way of my answer so some advice might seem a bit ... rude or harsh. I don't mind when people say personal things or ask personal things but some things...
    Ichki Ichki 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    I hate people that lie

    and fake and cheat
    Misssanta Misssanta 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I work behind the bar on a slow night,

    it's the most wonderful thing to be able to listen to my customers intently. After a drink or two, people will talk about anything and everything: work, relationships, politics, music... Then after 3 drinks, the men talk to my breasts and the conversation goes down hill...
    artofpleasure artofpleasure 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    I always focuse on what people have to say,

    and try to understand the other side of life, i have talked to all kinds of people, like people that served hard time, people that are rich and live in mansions, and just everyday people, they al have their own story setting them apart and it is so fascinating.
    seikofontay seikofontay 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Why is it that I love listening to others

    and helping others but when I'm looking for it in return noting gets returned?
    moeco moeco 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    That's why I want to become a social worker.

    I love listening and helping others with their problems. I've gone thru a lot in my life so I would be able to relate to ppl by experience not just going by the book.
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    Its Funny How I always listen to people,

    But when I want just want One person to listen to me there's no one there for me :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    I hate this part of me.

    . Everyone only wants to talk, no one ever wants to listen to me.. I am a very good listener but I hate that about me.. I wish someone would listen to me too!
    Christine2907 Christine2907 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    I don't know if any of you have felt this way

    but there are times I've been around people but felt alone. I have trust issues so most of my thoughts and issues have been held inside me. Gossip should never exist. I have found through the short time that I've been on here that I can open up better to those that don't know me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    KrisEC KrisEC 31-35, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seriously I love helping others

    and lending an ear and I like get others to talk
    amadchic amadchic 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I Consider Myself A Good Listener!

    Why ? Since No One Really Listens To Me I realized It Doesn't Feel Good' When Someone Is Talking To You And You're Doing Something Else ' Sometimes It Hurts Them. Always Imagine Yourself In That Position Of Needing Someone To Listen To You But They're not. How Would You Feel...
    Slowlytuya Slowlytuya 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    People have come to tell me their problems

    for years. I am usually able to figure out the situation and provide good advice. So why is my life such a cluster? Why can't I fix myself?
    Gwall1234 Gwall1234 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 15

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    I lost someone I loved very much today.

    I can't seem to find the words to express how my heart just stopped beating hours ago.
    MyGuardianAngel MyGuardianAngel 22-25, F 19 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    Sometimes I prefer to just listen to people

    than talk to them. I feel like sometimes that's all people need.
    Itsjustlauren Itsjustlauren 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    Sometimes it feels nice to have someone listen

    and pretend they care . Not a therapist , but someone who you can unload on and they won't give you that look . A confidant .
    JoshRobin JoshRobin 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    When someone told you something a long time ago

    and you bring it up and they just "how omg you remember"
    Sw33love Sw33love 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    And also a better friend.

    ..too bad I can't say the same about the people I know.
    nikkiluv87 nikkiluv87 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    Im a good listener, but nowhere near

    as good of a talker >.<
    AnAnonymousPanda AnAnonymousPanda 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I will be with a hairdressing client

    until 11:30am so I will get back to your messages when I'm done, anyone who wants advice drop me a message, :)
    AlexaJayne AlexaJayne 31-35, F Mar 21

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    Sometimes you just want someone to talk to.

    You need someone to understand you and support you. I love to be there for people simply b'cuz I have known how it feels like to have no one. So if anyone ever needs a shoulder, please don't hesitate to message me. <3 =) Xx (Oh and I'm also a motivational speaker!)
    Kitty9000 Kitty9000 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    So I help people with advice on their

    relationships and my advice works, i like to help and I expect nothing in return, i am sorry as I don't feel comfortable talking to guys who just want to say hi, advice yes but not random talk....
    AlexaJayne AlexaJayne 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    vince808 vince808 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    i don't have friends

    who is a good listener for me. i'm always the one who is listener for them..lately.. so sad..i wish i had friends who is interested in and caring me more than just questions. gosh...i'm so frustrated...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I find myself always wanting to listen instead

    of talking. I learned I can find out so much more when I just sit back n listen.
    nikkiroxx nikkiroxx 18-21, F Jul 5, 2014

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    If you need someone to talk to,

    you can always send me a direct message here: https://twitter.com/ChirenSelin I will then try to give the best advice I can.
    Henric20 Henric20 18-21, M Apr 11

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    you know what can be really annoying?

    when you listen to a person all the time, but when u have something to say that person doesn't listen
    zeinahalawa zeinahalawa 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    JDeeL266 JDeeL266 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I'm such a good listen.

    when people come to me with their problems I try to put my self in their shoes and feel every emotion their feeling.
    oliviatt oliviatt 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2014

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    almeidajoes almeidajoes 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 8, 2014

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    I truly am a good listener.

    I don't interrupt people when they divulge their problems, secrets, or heartaches on me. I don't judge. I just sit there, look into their eyes after they talk, and say "feeling Better?" A hug works too. :)
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    Being a teacher and listening to what people

    have to say is very interesting. I always love to help.
    coachaxel coachaxel 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I tend to be a good listener particularly

    when i am calm. its easier for me to listen to people since i quiet and shy. however i really wanna work on being less quiet and shy.
    db174 db174 31-35, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    i really love to give advice

    and help my friends whenever theyre with problems. but, unhappily, when i need, they are never able to hear me. thats sad. i help them and receive nothing back :/
    annie1803 annie1803 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm new here because sometimes it's just to

    hard to trust the people around me wen i need to talk to someone. 🌺
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    I never let down on this role,

    so if you need me, I'll be right here
    McBiscuit McBiscuit 16-17, M Mar 13

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    Just remember that youre not the only one

    feeling sad or down. Remember that there is people around you feeling the exact same thing. Remember that You, as a person, are worth so much more than the pain youre feeling. Remember that you are perfect as You are.
    mccgandy mccgandy 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    I've been catching up with my 2 closest friends

    recently. One of them I have been good friends with for last 13 years and we've seen many highs and lows together. The other I've known for the last 7 years and we text every other day. We're all always busy with school, work and other commitments so our schedules are always...
    Viviq66 Viviq66 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I wish we can find people

    who listen to us in real life , I wish we don't need such app to talk to each others
    Reemabdlhalm Reemabdlhalm 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 28, 2014

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    whoever you are, girl / guy

    and going through something or just need someone to listen, I'm here and I promise I do not judge.
    ClassicLady ClassicLady 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I'm in the mood for a chat,

    about almost anything :) let's stick to happy/positive topics though. What are you currently working on? What was the last fun thing you did? What's your favourite food? ;)
    Viviq66 Viviq66 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 21

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    What about listening to me?

    I want someone who can be my friend. At this point, friends are limited. No one wants to meet in person. They rather just chat online. A true friendship makes the effort to see them in good and bad situations. This is when I miss the old days. People use to hangout more, and now...
    87athleteunknown 87athleteunknown 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    ana78683 ana78683 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    It doesn't take much to listen to someone,

    just good manners. Oh, yes sometimes you have to absorb a diatribe but some people are incredibly nervous talking and they say all kinds of things in a kind of flood! You learn much.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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