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I Am a Good Listener

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    i'm always here to listen.

    i might call bullsh.. if i think it exist but for the most part i think we are all here because we lack something in life we are hoping to find. i hope to always be respectful of someone else's search. sometimes we want advice and sometimes we just need a sounding board and i...
    trailsonrails trailsonrails 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I found this on tumblr a long time ago

    and I found it in my many drafts that I save on my email lol It made me tear up when I first found it. 1. When you cut yourself, clean and bandage it. 2. Do not start smoking cigarettes because the boy who broke your heart does. 3. When you want to kill yourself, don’t. 4...
    Brody1530 Brody1530 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Life is tough. We all make mistakes,

    and we all learn one way or another. But that doesnt mean you have to go through life alone. If you feel a need to just talk, vent or anything, feel free to message me. Ill be more than happy to listen!
    FaithfullyFaithfully FaithfullyFaithfully 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 26

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    Since I was in high school

    and started helping my friends with random issues, I loved the fact of actually 'helping' someone. Since then I started helping whoever needed help and always listened to them no matter what the issue is. My only three conditions were: 1- be completely honest 2- I will not sugar...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    If there's anything you need to let out.

    I am here to listen and help you out.
    JoseHernandez17 JoseHernandez17 16-17, M 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    xlxyelliexlx xlxyelliexlx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Does anyone ever feel like they're the one all

    their friends come to when they have issues but find it hard to share your problems with them?
    LindyAx LindyAx 16-17, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I do not judge people.

    ..you are who you are...my ears are open if you need to vent..or just need a friend.
    thegoodthebadthebest thegoodthebadthebest 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    If any has an secrets

    or anything else you can talk to me I am a great listener
    kristi9852 kristi9852 13-15, T 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm not a psychologist I don't have a degree

    yet that's just what I'm majoring in but I do like to help people where I can.
    jenadvice jenadvice 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    imshy1234 imshy1234 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I find myself always wanting to listen instead

    of talking. I learned I can find out so much more when I just sit back n listen.
    nikkiroxx nikkiroxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Between Austria and Italy there is a section of

    the alps where it is impossibly steep, very high part of the mountains. They built the train track over these alps to connect Vienna and Venice. They built these tracks ever before there was a train in existence that could make the trip. They built it because they knew that...
    ijapa ijapa 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a complete a**hole,

    sarcastic, weenie. . . .But, I will sit down with you and listen to all your problems. Even if it takes 23904829580 hours.
    Lovely1Bones Lovely1Bones 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I've always try to be a good listener to other

    people and what they have to say. I really enjoy listening anyways because you learn so much more when you listen then talk. I've learned that you have to find a balance of talking and listening, but for the most part I enjoy understanding people and making people feel...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I have always been the one people come to.

    Friends that have been in combat needing to vent. Friends kids afraid to talk to their parents because of judgement. Advice on things that they can't explain to others. Friends that think something they do is weird and wrong and need to say it to someone. Strangers even seem to...
    CaliforniaSam CaliforniaSam 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    I hate this part of me.

    . Everyone only wants to talk, no one ever wants to listen to me.. I am a very good listener but I hate that about me.. I wish someone would listen to me too!
    Christine2907 Christine2907 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 17

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    There is an art to listening to someone else.

    It takes honesty. But first you must be able to listen to yourself. That demands a lot of honesty.
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I always thought that I was a good listener,

    especially since I was, and still am, the go to person for my friends when they have problems. However i really learned the value of listening properly, attentively and appropriately when i took a counselling course.... Listening is sometimes a skill we take for granted, but in...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    If anyone needs advice.

    I'm here. Okay? Just message me.
    SpecialKind SpecialKind 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't stand living like this anymore I make

    myself sick with what I do to myself and I make other people sick for what I do
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    whoever you are, girl / guy

    and going through something or just need someone to listen, I'm here and I promise I do not judge.
    ClassicLady ClassicLady 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I am a psychology major!

    Iove to listen and help people!
    jenadvice jenadvice 18-21, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Kae79 Kae79 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm one damn good listener,

    and I think it's turning into a problem! It's turning my relationship with my friends into confession sessions, or I don't know, shrink sessions maybe. They just call me or drop by to talk talk talk, and they pour their hearts out. But when it's me who needs someone to talk to...
    Nedakor Nedakor 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    Sometimes I prefer to just listen to people

    than talk to them. I feel like sometimes that's all people need.
    Laurenphoenix Laurenphoenix 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 11

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    aj32792 aj32792 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I wanna really talk to someone right

    now 👌 people just seem so fake these days 💁
    2me4u 2me4u 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I truly am a good listener.

    I don't interrupt people when they divulge their problems, secrets, or heartaches on me. I don't judge. I just sit there, look into their eyes after they talk, and say "feeling Better?" A hug works too. :)
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    valeriielove34 valeriielove34 22-25, F 4 Responses May 6

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    What was the feeling

    when you rejected with the one you like or you just realize in a long time that he's dating with someone? Please share your experience 😊 I'm a good listener tho.
    AgentYsa AgentYsa 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Do you know this feeling you get

    when someone you really care about is troubled and complains to you but you stay so helpless that the greatest thing you can do is to stay silent feeling his pain but having nothing to say that can at least make him feel better ... it's awful ! :/
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 5 Responses a week ago

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    Its funny how I listen to my friend's problem

    and give them advices, yet even I cant do those advices for my self. haha..
    redfoxylady18 redfoxylady18 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Have any of you felt like your friends just

    don't listen to you when it's important and doesn't necessarily involve them like they just don't care if you aren't happy anymore
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey I am bored most of the time

    so I want to talk(txt) to a girl that's 13-15
    benverdin13 benverdin13 13-15, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm here for anyone😊 IM NO THERAPIST!

    ......but😑 I'll listen and care☺️😉
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    "Sometimes, all people need is a good listener.

    " For some reason, this quote has really stuck with me. If you need to vent, I'll be here to listen.
    shenlong977 shenlong977 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    tell me whatever you want guys.

    .. + i'm studying to be psychologists and i need some good practice
    riapel riapel 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 5

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    Iv always been the good listener friend

    and always kept in my emotions because usually someone else needed my ears and shoulder to cry on more then I did. I became really good at being a good friend and just listening!
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm here for you. At the time I don't have any

    problems, but once I had and now I just want to help you, listen and talk to you. So write to med if there is anything. I'll be there for you
    Rikkeadelsboll Rikkeadelsboll 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    That's why I want to become a social worker.

    I love listening and helping others with their problems. I've gone thru a lot in my life so I would be able to relate to ppl by experience not just going by the book.
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    Best Conversation Ever

    Well, everybody deserves to be listened to... but the ability to be able to understand somebody, even though you might not be able to connect on a deeper level. But those who you can truly connect with and/or really help  can bring so much value into your life. Your...
    roseshideinthemind roseshideinthemind 16-17, F Aug 1, 2013

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    And I always receive people with open arms.

    I won't judge you because your this or that: I usually take my time to see what I can do and how I can help.
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to listen to you,

    hear your voice, feel your emotions, not be judgemental. Have a lovely fun discussion with you about absolutely anything. I am open minded and discreet which means what ever we talk about is only between the 2 of us. I am not a fan of gossiping...............
    ItsOnlyAPaperMoon ItsOnlyAPaperMoon 46-50, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    hiyake hiyake 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I try to give my best advice to people,

    If I can't help I try to listen and help the best way I can, not a lot of people are there for me, so not really having somebody hurts and I want to help people not be in my position.
    luisvstheuniverse luisvstheuniverse 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    pxybella pxybella 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    If any of you people need advice message me

    and we can talk through it ^^ i love helping others no matter what!
    KatoKangaroo KatoKangaroo 18-21, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want to talk to someone right

    now I'm bored but I am a good listener .
    teengirl018 teengirl018 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    If anyone needs a friend

    or someone to vent to I'm always here :)!
    ktidk07 ktidk07 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 17

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    As part of my nature,

    being sensitive and empathic requires being a good listener too, so if anybody needs any new friend, I am here for you no matter who you are, what you did and what you say c:
    actuelly actuelly 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i always like to listen other people and i am sure i am good listener. i listen them without judging them.
    berealistic81 berealistic81 26-30, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am a very good listener to women. If you girls want to share with me go ahead and I will give you my honest opinion on what you have shared with me.
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7

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