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I Am A Grateful And Obedient Wife

A group for submissive and or surrender wives that find fulfillment in obedience and are grateful for their husband’s leadership. 702 People

    Does He Love Me?

    Ok, so I know I have this 4 day cycle. I've been tracking it for a while.  I'm up up up for 3 days and on the 4th I come crashing down.  I was out to prove my cycle wrong, but it won today.  With the advice of my friend, I wrote him an email stating everything I was thinking...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2013

    My husband is great! If I am a good girl he

    will reward me with a violent anal pounding!
    maddytheMILF maddytheMILF
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Oct 24, 2014

    Laughing Pet

    You call me YOUR DOG and i started bubbling over with joy... I was burning and glowing with a permanent smile. You wonder why i laugh like this.. No it is okay i want to tell you: BECAUSE I AM JUST SO HAPPY TO HAVE A WONDERFUL MASTER LIKE YOU..TO BE SOMEONE'S TREASURED BABY PET...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2013

    Wes (my husband) and I have always been in a

    domestic discipline relationship. At the start, he explained what it was, and we had a trial month. Now, we have been married for years and have two children. I am a housewife, and yes, I obey him always. There is a!ways that threat of a spanking hanging over me if I don't! My...
    Kaley105west Kaley105west
    36-40, F
    5 Responses May 26, 2014

    I want to live this obedient life style

    and it is very pleasing to my husband but sometimes it’s hard for me to comply with not speaking out of turn or back talking I have been very independent before marring my husband. Can someone please give advice?
    dotsonn dotsonn
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Dec 11, 2013

    When former Full House star Candace Cameron

    Bure released a book explaining her decision to be a submissive wife, she was slammed. What a pre-historic notion, to be subservient to your husband. However we here at iVillage are happy to explore any and every lifestyle choice. Who knows, there might just be something to this...
    DaddyThomas6 DaddyThomas6
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    Couldn'T Be Anything Else.

    I get a lot of crap from some of my female friends for being properly submissive towards my DH. But I couldn't be any other way. Why is it so hard for women (and increasing numbers of men, as far as I can tell) to accept that men and women who are certainly be created equal still...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 15, 2013

    Thank You To My Husband

    Just wanted to say it here now - I love my husband and I'm grateful to him for the life we make together and the love he gives me. He was out early this morning to work, I was barely up when he left the house. He just called to say he will have to be late back tonight. I was...
    lianew lianew
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 3, 2012

    Is Spanking A Necessity?

    The more I read on EP about experiences of other obedient or taken in hand wives, the more I get intrigued by the subject of spanking. As obedience came to me quite naturally when I met my husband, we never discussed the topic. I spoiled and served him as much as I could and...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun
    56-60, F
    12 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    I Want To Be More Obedient And I Want To Be Submissive

    I want to be more obedient to my husband, and I want to surrender to be submissive. But I always end up dominating him instead, by creating fights and arguments. In my opinion it would be good if he spanked me sometimes, because then I would feel his strength and be reminded...
    Woman1976 Woman1976
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2013

    I knew from the moment I met my husband

    that he was going to be my Master. I had previously been in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship with a domineering man, and my relationship with my husband is not either of those. I know that he cares about me, and wants what is best for me. I know that he will...
    Bluebutterflywings Bluebutterflywings
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2014

    It was right after class

    and i knew i was in trouble. I was supposed to have done my homework the night before, and because I didn't I was not going to get an "C" in the class. My dom/ boyfriend was already waiting for me. "Hi sweetie.." I said as I walked in the door to my dorm. My dom is one year...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 23, 2014

    True Love

    True love can be the scariest feeling in the world or the most beautiful gift in the world. You feel weak, powerless, and vulnerable and you fear being taken advantage of. You feel that letting your guard down will open you to pain and open you to disaster. But you don’t...
    HisSweetSubmissive HisSweetSubmissive
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2012

    I am losing this battle

    and I feel like I'm at a lost either way. My husband is a Maine and he runs his household as an extension of his career. On the outside looking in, our son and I are pretty much the most "spilled/taken care/well off" of our friends. (We have a continuously fully stocked kitchen...
    CuriosityAK CuriosityAK
    26-30, F
    Jan 18, 2014

    Engaged And Fully Ready For Obedience

    Submission helps me. Not that I am not a feminist. I don't feel that by accepting and taking pride in my marital submission I am taking a step backward in society. Rather, my submission helps to nurture our relationship and his orders provide me with daily structure. We are still...
    kitt7 kitt7
    10 Responses Sep 10, 2013

    I am grateful for my husband's love

    and all the hard work he puts in, in providing for his family and I believe that as his wife I should obey him.
    MrsSThomas MrsSThomas
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 9, 2015

    How can I tell my boyfriend

    that I would like to be submissive and obedient in all aspects of our relationship? (no bdsm) Thanks
    SweetMary87 SweetMary87
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 1, 2014

    Sex With Virgo
    trilo2 trilo2
    18-21, M
    Oct 1, 2013

    Welcoming My Husband Home

    Since the day I got married, I intended to be submissive to my husband, follow his leadership and rules, accept his discipline, and serve him as a grateful and obedient wife. However, there is no question that I have grown in my understanding as to what this means and gotten...
    floridasubwife floridasubwife
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Jul 26, 2013

    Haha I need such a girl !

    It's very cute if girls have feminine traits like being a bit submissive
    roadsterusa roadsterusa
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014

    Saving My Marriage

    It's not as simple as "I'll kick yo A** if you don't line up" especially when you know you can do it. I'm trying to save my Marriage knowing full will that being obedient and being humble are not as simple as that. Yes I am the wife but I'm not a punching bag, I do not have to...
    Curiousgal2 Curiousgal2
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

    Next . . .

    I just wrote a story about how I was punished for raising my voice, stomping on the floor, and missing a homework assignment. The next day I had butterflies in my stomach thinking about how he told me he was going to redden my butt again when he got home. I don't know exactly why...
    sweetie77 sweetie77
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    My Text Message To My Husband This Morning.....

    Husband dear....I have decided to tell you in black and white how I feel and what I desire. I have been trying to tell you in a more subtle way but you and me are more forthright and open our relationship so I have decided to be really brave and just get it all out! As I have...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    I have gotten engaged to my master,

    since then he hasn't wanted to do D/S. I want to be he doesn't. He says he doesn't want to hurt me but he was my master way before we got engaged. don't know what to do
    natalie449 natalie449
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2014

    Just One Of Those Days I Guess

    I guess I have been doing so well lately that I had forgotten how bad being punished can be. Things have been going really smooth with no major problems. Then in a blink of an eye, I can get really bratty. I started acting like a spoiled child. I even had several warnings. I am...
    4 Responses Nov 15, 2013

    New Journey

    Hello everyone. My name is Ashley Smith. I have been married about a year and a half. I have decided to live this lifestyle because fighting every day over who gets power has not worked for us. I love my husband and he loves me and I am really trying to change my heart and become...
    Smithygirl12 Smithygirl12
    22-25, F
    Oct 22, 2012

    Thank You God For My Husband!

    I just wanted to write a short letter about how grateful I am to have such a wonderful, strong, sexy and dominant man. He is an Alpha in every sense of the word and without him I would be nothing. After years of fighting and trying to compete with him I have finally accepted...
    Tigercouple Tigercouple
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2012

    I Should Have Known Better...

    Most of you know, that I have recently surrendered to my husband 'again' after more than 25 years or marriage. I have found back into this beautiful existence, enjoying the respectful and harmonious life together. Things in our house have changed so much to the better, that I...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun
    56-60, F
    7 Responses Aug 3, 2012

    I Am So Proud Of My Husband

    Yes, I am feeling very proud of my husband lately because of the way that he has been voicing his opinions on feminism out load . Since I became a submissive wife to him and explained to him how I feel and also my thoughts on how we women have been systematically beating men...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2013

    Naturally Submissive,- The Way It Should Be

      I am writing this after reading many accounts of woman who detail how thier men spank or punish them so they will be submissive. This has me worried, if you are one of those woman, or a man who believes he needs to spank his woman for her to behave submissively- please...
    sweetie77 sweetie77
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2012

    The Best Thing For Me

    Up until about a year ago, my life was basically one screw-up after another. I wouldn't take orders, or even suggestions from anyone, because I was so sure I knew it all. But my own judgement never lead me anywhere other than downwards--into deep depression, self-loathing, and...
    HereForHisUse HereForHisUse
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 21, 2012

    My First Day Of Husband Led Chores And Rules !

    Over the weekend my HOH drew up a planner for me which lists all the chores and jobs I should be doing each day throughout the week. It also lists my RULES to help keep me reminded. He has even stated what time he would like me to get up in the mornings and also my bed time. I...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2013

    Not in any kind of weird way

    but I love my hubby and respect his opinion and we share trust and honesty. I will admit to times when he demand certain things of me and I am glad to obey him ;)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    Our Code Word

    My HoH and I have always had a code word. When he speaks this particular word I know that I am to totally focus on what he says next and follow his instructions EXACTLY. Now this code word is not for sex, not for being in trouble or any of that, its because we are in what he...
    4 Responses Sep 9, 2013

    okay.. So I'm very confused on how to know the

    difference between punishment and taking it too far.. My boyfriend has spanked me for a while now, maybe 3 or 4 months, and its getting to the point where i have a very high pain tolerance again. He's been getting upset about that and it has resulted to him being even more...
    ControlledLife ControlledLife
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2014

    I Am Grateful, And I Try To Be Obedient.

    I absolutely adore my husband.  Serving him is an honor and a pleasure.  I do it for myself as much as I do it for him.  I have never been this content, or at ease in my own skin.  I know I owe that,  to becoming the submissive wife, that GOD intended me to be.  There is...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul
    3 Responses Jun 20, 2011

    Looking For Friends Who Are Also Obedient/submissive Wives!

    Hi! i'm so happy to have found a group of ladies who share my beliefs about marriage and relationships. i will write my story soon but just wanted to introduce myself in hope of making some friends living the lifestyle. i don't have any friends that do, and they always give me...
    subwife21 subwife21
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Feb 15, 2012

    I love my husband more

    than anything in this world. His demands are mine and I make sure he gets whatever he wants. Be it in the bedroom, outside and even when we are out. I don't give a **** about anyone else's opinion. I am here to serve him and only him. Giving into his every command. I love...
    Marijuanasfirstwife Marijuanasfirstwife
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 7, 2014

    Thoughts Of A Dom

    * I am also a Gentleman Dom. There is such a thing. I respect the woman. Desire the **** and cherish the little girl. Ask what it means. it may surprise you...
    indigowitch indigowitch
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2013


    We all need to make choices somewhere along the way in our life. Recently I chose to change my life. I chose to change my ways in order to find more happiness. I embarked on a journey through uncharted waters, it started out as a hit and miss affair, until I found advice in...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Sep 4, 2012

    Oooooh My First Spanking!!!!

    Ooh oh has happened at long last....although not ideally as I may have liked. My hubby had just unexpectedly popped back home for something. I was upstairs getting dressed. He came up to say goodbye, and I asked him if he was going to give me my spanking. As I expected...
    Hav1 Hav1
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    What Do You Tell Them?

    The more I progress on the way to obedience, and reap the rewards in my marriage and family life, the more I seem to struggle with the reaction of onlooking friends and outsiders, especially the female ones. The other day we had our best friends visiting and while our husbands...
    IQplusfun IQplusfun
    56-60, F
    8 Responses May 10, 2012

    Good Day! I hope the weekend was good

    for everyone. My wife and I are just starting CDD, and so far we are seeing very positive results, and we have barely begun. We are jumping in with both feet this weekend with our modified "boot camp". I love, adore, and cherish my wife. However, see both want to glorify God by...
    Captkirkk Captkirkk
    31-35, M
    Aug 10, 2015

    My Story...

    I am not weak. I choose to obey and serve from a place of strength,both mine and his...I partake of his strength. I am not foolish. I freely give my service and obedience that I might integrate his wisdom into my own experience. I am not missing some key part of my own essential...
    LdsGirl LdsGirl
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2012
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