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I Am a Heterosexual Crossdresser

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    Most of the CDs who post here feel girly

    and feminine when they dress. Not me. I wear only slips and nightgowns, and I feel comfortable, frequently aroused and a little bit naughty when I am wearing them.
    gown1000 gown1000 66-70, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Well At Least For Now

    For now I am still a heterosexual crossdresser. What I mean is I love having sex with women but that is no longer an option in our marriage. My wife can no longer have sex. The women that are around me in my life have no interest in me other than friendship. With that said the...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    In Most Ways

    i would love to find a woman that could except me as i am. my biggest problem is i very shy and just do not think with the endowment i was given that i have a lot to work with
    spaz1177 spaz1177 46-50, T 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    I Am A Heterosexual Crossdresser

    Hi Wow we have some of the same issues. My wife was my friend for years before we got married, she knows I cross dress and she did my first make over. It was fun for both of us at first but when we got married things changed. She did not want to make love to a women but to her...
    Babylon55552000 Babylon55552000 51-55 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    My First Cross Dressing Experience

    Well, it looks to me like I am going to put together a series of stories, like so many others have done here, as sort of a dynamic biography. My first time was really not anything I DID, nor anything anyone ELSE did with me. I can remember being about 7 years old, and going to...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23 56-60 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    Two Distinct Varieties...

    For me, it's about my male-ness enveloped within the sexy female-ness. It's the contrasting elements that create the appeal. In my experience, there are two distinct varieties of CD's: Those who lean more toward being gay, and aspire to be as female as possible, and those...
    deliciacd deliciacd 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 7, 2009

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    My Crossdressing Puzzle.. Why Do I Do It?

    I am a happy 21 year old man who is attracted to women however I have a secret. I crossdress. I have a thing for womens heels and I have bought roughtly 20 pairs. Out of guilt I throw them away after a little because i feel ashammed and its taboo. I dont want my family or friends...
    walkingdead92 walkingdead92 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Have You Ever

    When my lady friends from here get dressed up and go out driving have you ever been caught pulled over by a cop? What do you do? Most of my friends on EP look very passable as a women were in my case I would never make it. But what do ladys do?
    lookiinforluv lookiinforluv 56-60, M 7 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    My First Time Out

    For years I had a fantasy or crossdressing in public. A few years ago after spending the after an afternoon with a new crossdressing friend I had met online we talked about my chances of blending if I tried to dress in public. She said that with some makeup I could get by. I had...
    carlystraith carlystraith 56-60, T 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    A Night Out

    I was going to go to a meeting of other cd's in one of the outer boroughs of the city one day. We were going to meet in the late afternoon when it was still daylight. I put on my panties and pantyhose before leaving the house. Everything else was in my travel bag. I couldn't put...
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T 3 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    Straight Cross-dresser

    As I look through the internet, trying to find others with stories similar to mine, I come across many sites. Most are dedicated to sissies, cuckolds, or other interests. Most of these involve stories about cross-dressers being forced or punished into situations usually...
    Leann1961 Leann1961 61-65, M 4 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    My Story

    I have been partially and secretly cross dressing since the age of 10. During puberty I developed breasts, these caused me no end of hardship whilst at school and I suffered a lot of name calling, plus strange and sometimes inquisitive stares from teachers too. My parents gave me...
    doestag doestag 46-50 2 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I Am A Crossdresser

    I am a crossdresser. There I said it! I am a man that enjoys wearing women’s clothing mainly lingerie. I do so for the pure enjoyment of it and not for any kind of sexual thrill. I love the way nylon tricot rubs against my skin, the way pantyhose hugs my legs and the sound...
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T Feb 26, 2013

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    Thank You

    I have had many good friends over the years. Some I still have and others went their separate ways. But none have ever known the true me. It's hard to trust people especially with your secrets. My wife is my best friend indeed. She knows everything about me and keeps my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2013

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    Shopping I found out today

    that my favorite lingerie clerk is leaving Dillard's. However, she hinted that she may be doing something after she leaves that I might be interested in. I am very curious and excited. Shopping at Sears. Today I bought a pair of light pink PJs (Vanity Fair) at Sears (mostly I...
    gown1000 gown1000 66-70, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    I Love To Crossdress

    I love to crossdress and do so whenever possible. I began at about 11 or 12 wearing my mom's underwear and the feelings  were amazing.  I just kept doing it.After college I began to dress much more often and would purchase women's clothes and lingerie and  bras and panties to...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2012

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    Why

    Is it that most people assume your gay if you love to crossdress? I love the look and feel of women's clothes. The style and fit is so much nicer then men's clothes. I love the way it makes me feel fem and sexy. But why is it tha so many people just assume we're gay?
    colokid colokid 56-60, M 7 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    My wife and I both took our marriage vows

    serious, till death do us part. To my knowledge we have been true to each other. I have been dressing with her encouragement for 40+ years.we are still in love.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 61-65, M 4 Responses Aug 5

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    My First Full Day Dressed As A Woman

    As a youngster and into adulthood I dabbled with my Mothers clothes, then my wife's clothes and it ended up being a sexual fetish. My desires grew as I aged and I needed to find out what it was like to get completely dressed and be seen in public.My wife had a trip planned out...
    shirleyconnors shirleyconnors 56-60, T 2 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    My Most Exciting And Memorable Day Of My Life So Far

    I DID IT Since yesterday was a holiday and kids are spending their Dashera vacation with grand parents, I had put on anklets, toe ring, clip on ear studs, nose ring, bindi and the mangalasutra(a necklace with black beads and traditional pendant worn by married Hindu women...
    urmila11 urmila11 36-40 Oct 11, 2012

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    Too Old To Change (except Into Lingerie)

    I can relate to the stories of starting crossdressing as a small child because that's when I too started, although I had no idea why and for quite a few years there was nothing really sexual about it. My memory is vague but I think I was about 7 when I started. Some friends and...
    RealQuiche RealQuiche 51-55, M Oct 21, 2012

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    Male Lesbian?

    I have always joked about being a male lesbian, but after research, I truly think there is 1. such a thing and 2. that I am one.I started crossdressing when I was 13, after seeing my first Playboy and saw a woman in the centerfold in a garter belt. I thought it looked sexy and...
    garterbeltgirl19 garterbeltgirl19 36-40, M 13 Responses May 25, 2011

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    What Made Me A Crossdresser?

    I remember my first crossdressing event.  I was about four and we were at my parents friends house, who had four daughters.  They had a life sized doll with a satin dress with puffy sleeves and petticoats.  I admired it so they put it on me, along with stockings and patent...
    Plainguy2 Plainguy2 51-55 3 Responses May 7, 2012

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    Since I Was 5

    I remember back when I was 5 I felt a pair of my mother's stockings. That was all it took. Next came the panties. A couple years later I found pantyhose in her drawer. Didn't much wear the stockings since then but sometimes I do enjoy a pair of black thigh highs. Now a days...
    deniseclev deniseclev 51-55 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Jennifer Evolving

    I am a hetrosexual crossdresser My crossdresing started at about 11 or 12 but I knew I was different even earlier in life. I hated sports and most activities  boys love. I had much rather play house, pretend or even play with my sister's dolls. One night, I was 11 or so, I...
    jennifergurl jennifergurl 51-55 4 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    My First Make Over

    Having been cross-dressing for a few months, I wanted to branch out. So far I’d visited two shops catering for trannies a total of four times. I had a modest wardrobe, and rang the changes – a single dress, a couple of skirts (plus a mini-skirt), some tops. And lingerie...
    Stephanie1952 Stephanie1952 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2012

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    Yes I Am A Crossdresser.

    Since I was a child, I enjoy wearing womens clothes like panty hose, skirts and high heels. I never told about this to anyone except for my girlfriend now. I told her slowly and fortunately she understands. Much to my surprise she is supporting me to the point that she is the one...
    CandiceEverdeen CandiceEverdeen 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Crossdresser But No Guilt Feelings Anymore.

    Where to begin my story? The reason I cross dress perhaps or when it started? My current situation is that I am locked in a sexless marriage, my wife has become my sister! We just live together. My sole escape is to dress fully in female clothes when I am alone, take a glass of...
    deltabravo48 deltabravo48 66-70, M 3 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    A Plus For Pantyhose

    I used to have a very active life style. Doing manual labor and in my off times bicycle racing. I was in decent shape. When I was not racing I had my nose in a book studying computers for the chance to make better money. Of course when my wife was not around I would be dressed to...
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Married Crossdresser

    i am a happily married crossdresser and just told my wife of 1 year that i am a crossdresser as i am deployed she hasnt seen bree or bree's side come out yet please we are looking for information from anyone crossdressers, their wives, girlfriends or just girls who like...
    Breegirlygirl Breegirlygirl 22-25, T 3 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    Being Dressed In A Wedding Gown

    Like all women one dreams or fantasizes about being dress in a wedding gown. Well I have always had that dream that one day I will have my wish come true. I have always wished that I would be dressed in a white frilly sexy wedding dress wearing heels, corset, nylons, sexy white...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Rude Sales Clerk

    I ordered an open bottom girdle a week ago and it came on Friday. A Rago 1294 to be exact. I opened the package and much to my surprise it was two sizes too small. I sent he company an email of complaint but since it was late, I don't expect a reply until Monday. I really...
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T 3 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    I'm Straight,but Am I A Crossdresser

    I am a straight,married male who dresses in womens clothing.I know i am not gay or Bi.I don't act or try to be like a girl when i dress.Someone said a crossdresser doesn't get violent,except to protect loved ones or theirself.I have had a violent temper at times,in the past.I...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    Yes - I Am A Heterosexual Crossdesser

    I think it took a long, long time to come to grips with the fact that I am a crossdresser and not simply a guy with a panty fetish. Like most of us, my dressing started out with panties and over the course of time, one garment lead to another. I am very straight acting and...
    vfln08 vfln08 36-40 3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    Underdressing Reemergence Of An Old Phenomena

    I delved into researching the subject of cross dressing have read all material I could find on cross dressing, high heels and lingerie fetishes as well as on the internet. Being anonymous with just a screen name men have openly confessed that they do or have the desire to cross...
    wellheeled2 wellheeled2 51-55, M 9 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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    Just My Story

    I posted this in another group but thought I'd share it here I told her about it before we got married because I knew I wasn't going to stop and it was only fair to her to opt out ahead of time. To my surprise and relief she was okay with it. Actually we went out the next day and...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 Feb 12, 2013

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    Getting Excited

    Hi to everyone. I just wanted to share this with some like minded people. I'm on my own for a (too short) few days, the perfect opportunity to DRESS! I'm sat here just deciding what to wear from my ever expanding clothing collection. Think I'm going to wear my nice lace white...
    Stef16 Stef16 41-45, M 3 Responses May 1, 2013

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    Why Is It So Difficult?

    Why is it so difficult to believe that a cross dresser isn't gay or bi?? I suppose it is natural to assume that a guy that wears womens clothing is as gay as they come. Why? It doesn't make sense to me. A person that is gay generally prefers having same gender sex and bi-sexuals...
    DonnaSt DonnaSt 66-70, M 29 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Dresses For Men On Sale At Versace

    Did you know or did you see the press this last week showing the new Versace fashions for men. They are a range of dresses but are not meant to be worn by women. Versace are working towards educating society that a man can crossdress just like a woman does. Have you seen the...
    nnatalie nnatalie 51-55 5 Responses May 24, 2013

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    Where Are They?

    I stumbled across this website looking for information about straight crossdressers. I have read enough articles that state anywhere from 90 to 95% of crossdressers are straight.I knew when I joined EP I would run across several types of crossdressers. From those that wear just...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 25 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    2 Minds In One Body

    For me it's like to personalities I'm a guy by day a girl by night. I love things that every normal guy likes including girls. However I also love girls clothing and other things that girls normaly like.(excluding boys)
    HeroBuggirl HeroBuggirl 18-21, T 11 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    My Thoughts On Dresses Made For Men

    After reading nnatalie's story, entitled: Dresses For Men On Sale At XYZ's, I felt compelled to express some mixed feelings about it. I am juxtaposed with the idea of dresses designed for men. On the one hand, it's great. It means we are being recognized as a group (with...
    joseygurl23 joseygurl23 56-60 5 Responses Sep 9, 2013

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    It's Not Wrong!

    There is nothing absolutely wrong with men wearing women's clothes. It should be OK for us to wear anything we want. After all, women wear men's style cloting day in and day out and NOT A WORD is said about it. In fact, most guys think it's hot for them to do so. Now tell me...
    db37863 db37863 56-60 6 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Straight Crossdresser Play-Date - I'm Scared

    I have a proposition from another straight crossdresser to have a play-date - atleast they say they're straight but I'm not comfortable "playing" with another man, even if he is in a dress. I would like to go dress up and stuff but he expects handjobs and petting to be involved...
    kinksnicks kinksnicks 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Work in Progress Hello, I'm new to the Experience Project so please do forgive me if I do something wrong or break a rule, it is not my intention. I'm a recent college graduate...
    CupcakeVenom CupcakeVenom 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    i adore crossdressers so much!!! you all look so good. i have no idea why but im just so attracted to crossdressers. a bunch of cuties.
    sutsuki sutsuki 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    Do I think crossdressers are gay, you ask me? Are they honest, is my counter question. I know is not exactly legimate to answer a question with another question but. But this...
    gypa gypa 26-30, M 6 Responses Aug 5

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    (Not a Crossdresser) Hmu on kick : 735218 i'm down to talk or maybe more ;) no kids please , Crossdressers only
    14674RF 14674RF 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi! Not one myself, but I was wondering if any drag queens/crossdressers would want to discuss makeup?! <3 I need more tips and I'm willing to give some as well!
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    Hi! Not one myself, but I was wondering if any drag queens/crossdressers would want to discuss makeup?! <3 I need more tips and I'm willing to give some as well!
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Hi! Not one myself, but I was wondering if any drag queens/crossdressers would want to discuss makeup?! <3 I need more tips and I'm willing to give some as well!
    JustCammy JustCammy 16-17, F 9 Responses Jul 24

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    Are there any crossdresser boys in Illinois I can meet? I like to dress up too and have fun ;)
    noLimits5252 noLimits5252 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 27

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