I Am a High Maintenance Girl

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    Okay like I admit I am annoying

    and can be dramatic. I like expensive things and it drove my ex boyfriends crazy. I got dumped for this reason. I dont care and I love it when men spoil me. Men are SUPPOSE to spoil their girlfriends/wives. Men dont care and can't handel me then BACK OFF!
    misshighmaintenance misshighmaintenance
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Sorry.....

    After a very bad relation, I changed my life completely...for the last 1,5 years I made potential boyfriends run for me, in order to please me. I made them wait whenn we went on a date, they had to buy me drinks and food, take me to wherever I wanted, please me with gifts etc...
    linda linda
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2006

    Luxury

    It was my wish... Restaurant: Arby’s Shooping: Dollar Tree Dancing: At home   And believe me, it was a wonderful and fun evening…A luxury to spend time with a special person!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 27, 2010

    I'm A Keeper

    I like the finer things, nice dresses. pretty jewelry and lots of nice shoes. I love sexy lingerrie. I love perfume, the good stuff. I love my makeup and love to go to the salon to get my hair and nails done. I'm a keeper, but I'm high maintenance. (giggle) Yes I'm a high...
    Raeka Raeka
    36-40, T
    Sep 27, 2010

    I Don't Think I Am, Perhap...

    I don't think I am, perhaps I am thou. . . I want and need a lot of things some times. I need to know that I am loved, I need to know that I am importent to my SO. I sometimes need to be told over and over that I am pretty.
    rescueangel rescueangel
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2007

    Haha I really am!! When I go on a trip I pack

    like I'm going to live in Tibet for five months. I can't help it. I'm a girl who is high maintenance. Deal with it.
    JenMarie97 JenMarie97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014

    And I enjoy it I work out five days a week,

    I get waxed monthly, nails done every two weeks, massage, I love shopping.
    Sofia1179 Sofia1179
    36-40, F
    Feb 29

    What's Wrong?

    I found this list of "Top Ten Warning Signs that You're Dating  a High Maintenance Girl" in the group "I'm dating a high maintenance girl. And want to correct some things.... Number 10: She wears hats (not baseball caps), especially of the wide-brimmed...
    linda linda
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2006

    I have no shame admitting

    that I'm pretty high maintenance. I was raised that way, "sorry". :p
    Zacarabear Zacarabear
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I Am a Somewhat High Maintenan...

    I am a somewhat high maintenance girl.  I don't know for sure.  I do like to wear nice clothes and do my hair and make-up.  However, there are many days that I just lay around in sweats with no make-up on and my hair just pulled up in a pony tail.
    behindthemask behindthemask
    26-30, F
    Feb 7, 2007

    Can't help it!! Always been interested in how I

    appear and feel. If I look good I feel good. If that means high end makeup and hygiene products, nail salon visits every two weeks, groomed long hair, eyelash extensions, lip fillers, massage and facials often, nice clothing, designer bags, frequent gym visits, & delicious food...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I mean I love getting dressed up nails hair

    done every month I don't anyone to buy me things. But I do like to maintain my appearance. I love going to salons. I don't go for plastic surgery or anything like at least not yet if anything if I was starting to sag but I have a while for that. I got Fiat not most expensive car...
    Aphrodite1195 Aphrodite1195
    18-21, F
    Dec 26, 2015

    I Have to Have Things Just So

    or else I freak out. I'm getting better I guess, but it makes it hard to get out of the house sometimes, or get people to understand, I have to have things like advil, lip gloss, tic tacs, all the time, have to take a shower at least once a day, have to be very...
    LonelySoul LonelySoul
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2007

    I think it's safe to say,

    that I'm quite a high maintenance girl ever since I left high school. I like getting things done, and wherever I go, people have to follow through. All my past relationship, my exes would say I'm very demanding & spoiled. Why do I not see a problem with this ?
    gingerbunni gingerbunni
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 7, 2014

    i have to admit i must be the most annoying

    girlfriend in the world. i get mad if he takes too long to reply. if his replies are too short. if he doesn't notice a difference in my appearance. the list can go on. i sometimes feel guilty for being so hard on him. but i really do love him. i think i'm harshest the the people...
    ChocChipCookiez ChocChipCookiez
    18-21, F
    Dec 22, 2014

    I admit it, I am high maintenance.

    I just love glamorous expensive stuff but not too expensive. I bought a purse that was $150. it was worth it anyways. Also I bought a make up kit for $30.00. Hey a girl's gotta look good right? It's MY choice and if no man is willing enough to spoil me or love me, then dont...
    ILoveToShopAllDayBeauty ILoveToShopAllDayBeauty
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2015

    Yup!! That's Me!!

    I have come to the conclusion that I am a very high maintenance girl. For years, I tried to deny that part of myself...giving of myself freely and to the point of exhaustion, never getting the same level of generosity in return.  I'm still the same caring, giving person, but...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    10 Responses Jul 23, 2009

    It's okay to be high maintenance!

    Really- after all, since when did the makeup I put on or clothes I wear affect anyone else except me?! It's not anyone else's concern but my own as to what I do- be that going completely natural or wearing a lot of makeup: it's MY decision, and if it makes me feel happy then no...
    Shinybinary Shinybinary
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014
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