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I Am a Kind Person

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    But Not A Fool

    Recently I was told I was "thoughtful and generous". I find the answer for me is that I listen and hear what is being said and sometimes what is not being said. I want to do the right thing always and sometimes, until the emotion clears, it is not considered kindness.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2011

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    Remember To Pay Kindness Forward

    The world would be a better place if people performed one act of random kindness a week. I have paid it forward by helping an elderly man clean up the coffee that he accidentally spilled on his table and floor of a crowded restaurant (the waitress was busy). By buying a cup of...
    KarenPearl KarenPearl 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    Maybe

    Oh wait... am I? I think I am. *giggles* Okay this should be "I strive to be a kind person". It's my goal and I will do my best to keep it up.
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F May 31, 2008

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    I like being nice to people.

    I'm still nice to people that I don't even like! But for once, just once can someone return the kindness favor back to me? I just want someone to cut me some slack. I'm getting really sick of giving and giving and reviving absolutely nothing in return.
    redvelvet19 redvelvet19 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Yes

    Ask around in here.  
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 6 Responses May 31, 2008

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    I Am Kind! Just Ask Me

    Then I will tell you, and it will hurt like hell. Thats the only kind of kindness!
    Redstrings Redstrings 18-21, F Sep 13, 2012

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    I Always Try

    When I'm kind to someone who is being nasty to me or others, I know they don't think at that moment"well she was kind" but somewhere in their day they will think back and say it. I always try to be kind and understanding, but I will stand up for myself...
    lilyofthenile lilyofthenile 46-50, F Jun 26, 2008

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    Big Brother Big Sisters Work

    For the summer i recently joined a program called big brothers and big sisters of America what this is, is a organization which helps foster kids find someone they can look up to and i found a foster kid that is really connected to me he actually calls me brother. thats how close...
    reesethebeast reesethebeast 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 23, 2009

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    Overall, I Am Very Kind -- ...

    Overall, I am very kind -- maybe too kind. I get taken for granted and taken advantage of at times because of it. On the other hand, I can easily be the opposite of kind when I realize I've been screwed over. I literally feel the pain of others and get sucked in really easy. I...
    FeelingCrazy FeelingCrazy 46-50 1 Response May 30, 2008

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    staki staki 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    This Is Me....

    I have always been a kind person and used to be proud of this but now, not so much so. It only works for me in the fact that the kids in my daycare love me and their mums value me as they know I will look after their kids well. Other then that, I feel my kindness has been taken...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2011

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    More kind then most. But most slap my saddle.

    That they put burs in. So me gets mad. And they say me aint kind. What a world.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 18

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    I Enjoy Being Kind

    The reason I say that I am a kind person is because I am a thoughtful person. I think of others. I show respect. I'm not perfect, and I have flaws, but I try to be as best as I can be.
    woollyjacket woollyjacket 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2011

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    I Always Try to Go Out of M...

    I always try to go out of my way to be kind and nice to people.  That's not to say that I don't have my bad days or lose my temper from time to time.  Over all though I believe in treating people the way I would like to be treated.
    warden9999 warden9999 51-55, F May 31, 2008

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    I noramly I very kind person

    but if something happens that is unresonable and/or pressured upon me I will come off as rude and bitchy. Don't confuse my personality with my attitude. My personality is who I am, my attitude depends on you.
    Attilane Attilane 13-15, F Jun 14

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    To Kind For My Own Good.

    People have told me that I am to kind of a person. That me being to kind means that people can walk all over me. I hate being mean to people. If someone says something hurtful to me I don't say anything to them. I keep my mouth shut because I don't want to hurt their feelings...
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Oct 6, 2008

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    Thats Me!

    I am a kind and caring person and I try to be considerate of other peoples feelings when I possibly can. There are times when I must be stern in my opinions but those times are when I need to tell a friend or a loved one how it really is. There is no harder task than  to...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F Oct 12, 2008

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    I Kinda Wish I Wasnt Tho

    I mean, im always trying to do for others and putting myself last. im kinda too nice for my own good. Anywho, I have done my good deed for the year. I was driving around angry because i dont have as much money as other people and thinking of how i was going to stop being so...
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 8, 2010

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    Too kind they say. Foolish they say.

    But look at what society became. Selfish. Uncaring. Cruel. Dishonest. So. Me likes me despite pain found.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I'm Kinda Nervous :-)

    I just put in an application for the BigBrotherBigSister Program, and I don't know what to expect... But I'm pretty excited to get the call sometime soon, and go from there.
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F May 17, 2012

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    Yes, a kind person is so sexy to me. Someone who wants to help others and genuinely cares wins me over quickly. Looks are nice.....but true kindness is irresistible...;)
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    I am such a bad person. I have done so many bad things in my life and I am still doing some of them till now and I'm afraid that it is only a matter of time before I go back to my...
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    Be the change you wish to see in the world. Be kind, for every person you meet is going through their own difficult battle.
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    I enjoy helping people. I've been told that I'm an inspiring person and am good with advice. I've been doing it for two years on the internet, and you'd think I'd feel good about...
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    It probably comes down to me being a family person - I try to be as useful as I can to my mother and siblings. Probably because of all the hardship they have endured in the past...
    Hidenow Hidenow 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I just realized this about myself... Such a revelation this is. Lol. I just realized that I am not a seductive person. I can't even pretend to be seductive even when I take a...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F Aug 5

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    We’ll simply to should verify you don't have any excellent financial debt or financial loan defaults during the last five years and we both imagine you are able to afford to...
    Madonnadz Madonnadz 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I admit I'm a kinky sexual person, BUT I only am that way around other people that way, when I'm with strangers I be my nice usual self, I don't typically share my kinkiness unless...
    natessecret natessecret 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    Yes i believe so. But not as a disorder, just the different way i think and act in different situations and around different people. I think we all have them, but usually we don't...
    MayaMoonShadow MayaMoonShadow 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    licoriceandlace licoriceandlace 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    My personality is something of one of the kind...I'm a little bit of everything. So what's your personality type...
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