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I Am A Leader Not A Follower

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    But Only With Work And Money

    My wife is the leader when it comes to sex and any thing about the house or kids. She took charge the evening after our first date. She chose the position and what we did as my reward , I was still wondering how far she would go and found I was there. She has never changed...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    through me to the wolfs

    and ill come back leading the pack
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2014

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    I Was The Founder Of This Group

    Hmm i'm an ex E.P member! I joined again...Sadly all my stories are lost and all my groups are founder-less!  oh well that doesn't change the fact that I'm still a leader and not a follower!
    echo101 echo101 13-15, F Jun 24, 2010

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    In Charge

    I am in charge of myself. I have never been a follower, I have tried but failed miserably at it. I was always a different kind of individual. I always took charge and became the leader. I was much better at it and it was more me. I am more of an analytical and logical person. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 19, 2011

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    S E L F More Or L E S S

    Never follow in suit of someone else ,always leading throughout your journey is definetaly ideal for ones personal identification ! In other words you will run out of road eventually and you will have never of learned how to leave your mark and create your own PATH...Yes! You...
    THBK THBK 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I personally believe

    that an introvert who leads through guidance is a greater leader than an extrovert leading through dictation.
    Lucienn Lucienn 22-25, T 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    My Drummer Beats For Me

    When peers say let's go do this it will be fun, I'll be the one to ask why. When everyone is picking on the new/small/etc. kid, I'm the one who asks why and befriends the kid. When society tells me who I should date, how old they should be, what color they are, etc.; I...
    PrairieDog71 PrairieDog71 41-45, M Jun 11, 2012

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    I have always been a leader

    and never a follower since my younger days as a child. I started off with assisting my brother with his paper route, was a teenage female model, and was an LPN and RN. If something needs to be done then I will usually volunteer in doing what is needed, if possible and if I...
    floridamomtobeach floridamomtobeach 31-35, F Dec 28, 2013

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    Be A Strong Person

    A leader is not necessary someone that leads other people, but a person that is strong leading their own life. . A leader believes that life is full of choices and accepts the good and bad from their choices. Advise to being strong: 1. Life is not easy. – Hard work...
    Jones47 Jones47 61-65, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    i am the captain/leader

    when playung for my school or club
    AnthonyR914 AnthonyR914 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Follow My Lead

    I am a leader not a follower, now everyone follow my lead and i'll lead you to the promise land, Iran here we come. Hahahahahaha.......Just kidding.And that was my amazing story
    LongLiveRockAndRoll LongLiveRockAndRoll 26-30, M Oct 7, 2012

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    Trying to become a section leader in my schools

    marching band, and I've been reading and studying the idea of leadership , what good leadership looks like, and examples of great leaders. I lack 100% confidence in myself that I am capable in taking this roll, and helping my group achieve excellence. Any advice, thoughts, etc?
    NldlDrummer2835 NldlDrummer2835 16-17, M Jan 20

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    FerrarixD FerrarixD 13-15, M Mar 5

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    I have always been different.

    This is a quality trait of a Leader. Whats more is a Leader is original in about all their thoughts. Their thoughts will be an example bad or good that will have others take to. A leader is strong, bold and ambitious. Not as in a show but more for progress in plans and goals to...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Jan 22, 2014

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    ***respect For The Life Of Joan Of Arc Among Other Profound Chosen Of God Women***

      A NEW ERA ARRIVES... FINALLY 100% = WOMEN ... WE DEMAND INTEGRITY  
    Demigiozia Demigiozia 66-70 Mar 31, 2010

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    The Alpha

    I love to be involved in things that I can control. I'm not controlling or bossy or anything like that, I just am better suited in a position where I can govern something. I hate being told HOW to do something, or being told that I CAN'T do something. I enjoy finding ways that...
    Lilysilver13 Lilysilver13 18-21, F May 30, 2012

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    I'd Rather Lead Than Follow

    to follow someone that is like being a copy cat or a puppet.  I do things my way on my own terms in my own time frame.  I don't want to be someones puppet.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Feb 10, 2012

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    Even though my friends are older

    than me they treat me like I'm older than them!
    Jacobwalker Jacobwalker 22-25, M Jun 2, 2014

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    But I'm Not In Charge

    We are all a unit, a single entity comprised of many smaller entities functioning as individual beings in a scheme so grand, we are simply unable to understand or fully grasp the complexity of it all.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3, 2011

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    I fell in love few months back

    and two months ago,we told each other and now we've been blissfully in love. But I had a dream. To become big and successful and the best in the world in my craft. After he happened to me,I feel like I have let go of it. I dont know how to revive it. And Im distracted a lot...
    JuniperLeeGirl JuniperLeeGirl 18-21 May 3, 2014

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    My Education While He Is A Marine

    So my fiannce is a marine and we are getting married in the summer. i will have to finish high school and he will be on deployment for this time. But at his next duty station. At this time ill be out of high school and ready for college if not already in it. Now i dont care...
    kayrodriguez kayrodriguez 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2011

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    Even though my friends are older

    than me they treat me like I'm older than them!
    Jacobwalker Jacobwalker 22-25, M Jun 2, 2014

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    I am the person that takes the path less traveled every time and I can normally talk lots of people into walking it with me lol.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    You shall never beat me to it.

    I will be all over that **** in 10 seconds flat. Before you even turn around I will be hugging the task you desire and I will have befriended it and we will be eating cookies together and it will never leave me for you, that is how fast I am.
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 18-21, F Jul 21, 2014

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    Related Experiences

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    AceWarbringer AceWarbringer 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    Remade my tumblr, looking for people to follow and followers. Mine is ourwtfdaysi :)
    wtfdaysi wtfdaysi 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    my husband is a leader in a mlm company, having been successful in every mlm venture hes done, the company recently made some drastic changes to the compensation plan and now his...
    Francakes Francakes 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    So I changed my URL and still looking for followers and blogs I can follow back. Check me out : astrxll.tumblr.com
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

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    When I was 19, I met someone on here who I was attracted to spiritually. Wanting to prove myself and to be acknowledged (I think he saw this and used this weakness against me) I...
    Crownite Crownite 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    She has done nothing but try and cause **** for me since i started. For instance before io started the job i explained to the actual boss that i am dependant onbuses to and from...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My intent when I came here got a little bit lost over the last few months. I just got off the phone with a man who is a leader of an organization that I have great respect for...
    drooniedat drooniedat 36-40, M 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    In my dream last night I lived in this town that was surrounded by forest. Most of the dream was just me flying around interacting with the different people who lived in the town...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Hi, i have never liked to go to school, in the 0, 1st and 2nd grader i did alot of werid things because, it was boring. my teachers wanted to send me into a special school, for...
    NothingToLose1998 NothingToLose1998 16-17, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Check me out @_philomuse ! By check me out I meant like look me up not check me out check me out were you check me out and rate me.
    PhillipBibat PhillipBibat 16-17, M 14 hrs ago

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    THE DAZZLERS; my very own dance team...its my biggest desire....i can't explain how much i love dance...i adore it...i want to build up my own dance team in school...our school is...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    You think about how much money cult leaders have made/make out of cults. So why cant richard? Rent boy richard should patent his power fantasy. Imagine it..... The tough guy...
    UltimateDemiGoddessSam UltimateDemiGoddessSam 31-35, F 17 hrs ago

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    So psychopaths. It's makes me wonder that maybe the 1% are all clinical psychopaths. That its a reality that we can't and maybe should not change. What would the setup up of power...
    Issima Issima 31-35, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am trying to join the American olympic track team @runlikedeering
    LonelyIncubus LonelyIncubus 16-17, M 19 hrs ago

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    Follow me @ the_chapters_of_me Hope you enjoy my page.. Going through a point in life of learning to love and express myself. This is only the beginning.
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I love indie music lana del rey and taking photos would really appreciate if you check out my account it's @ruby.jacquest will spam or follow back x
    bubblegumelectraheartt bubblegumelectraheartt 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    @uhh_lexisnicole I'll follow all new followers back :)
    goawayyouregross goawayyouregross 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My Instagram name is @ruby.jacquest will follow anyone back would be great to connect with some new people on there :) X
    bubblegumelectraheartt bubblegumelectraheartt 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    FAJCAKE its my second account please follow
    Madebyaspell Madebyaspell 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Mushka24601 just Like on Here. visit my adventure and I'll see yours
    Mushka24601 Mushka24601 18-21, F 1 day ago

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