I Am A Leader Not A Follower

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    The Alpha

    I love to be involved in things that I can control. I'm not controlling or bossy or anything like that, I just am better suited in a position where I can govern something. I hate being told HOW to do something, or being told that I CAN'T do something. I enjoy finding ways that...
    Lilysilver13 Lilysilver13
    18-21, F
    May 30, 2012

    through me to the wolfs

    and ill come back leading the pack
    Differentisgood Differentisgood
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2014

    ...

    I am the person that takes the path less traveled every time and I can normally talk lots of people into walking it with me lol.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

    I make my own path ..

    I don't look for any advice but I love to hear what people have to say ..I listen to everyone but follow my heart ..I don't look for acceptance from others that doesn't mean that I disrespect others it simply means I respect my decisions & if any one has problem with that to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 30, 2015

    But I'm Not In Charge

    We are all a unit, a single entity comprised of many smaller entities functioning as individual beings in a scheme so grand, we are simply unable to understand or fully grasp the complexity of it all.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 3, 2011

    My Education While He Is A Marine

    So my fiannce is a marine and we are getting married in the summer. i will have to finish high school and he will be on deployment for this time. But at his next duty station. At this time ill be out of high school and ready for college if not already in it. Now i dont care...
    kayrodriguez kayrodriguez
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2011

    I Was The Founder Of This Group

    Hmm i'm an ex E.P member! I joined again...Sadly all my stories are lost and all my groups are founder-less!  oh well that doesn't change the fact that I'm still a leader and not a follower!
    echo101 echo101
    13-15, F
    Jun 24, 2010

    The other day , like usual I arrived early at

    my office today. I went through emails and called clients back. Then I was approached by a representative. He was new and wanted some pointers on this certain campaign we are working on. After hearing him talk for about 15 min, I realized that he had a different learning style...
    Darthpikachu Darthpikachu
    26-30, M
    Sep 17, 2015

    Even though my friends are older

    than me they treat me like I'm older than them!
    Jacobwalker Jacobwalker
    22-25, M
    Jun 2, 2014

    You shall never beat me to it.

    I will be all over that **** in 10 seconds flat. Before you even turn around I will be hugging the task you desire and I will have befriended it and we will be eating cookies together and it will never leave me for you, that is how fast I am.
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2014

    I have always been a leader

    and never a follower since my younger days as a child. I started off with assisting my brother with his paper route, was a teenage female model, and was an LPN and RN. If something needs to be done then I will usually volunteer in doing what is needed, if possible and if I...
    floridamomtobeach floridamomtobeach
    31-35, F
    Dec 28, 2013

    I fell in love few months back

    and two months ago,we told each other and now we've been blissfully in love. But I had a dream. To become big and successful and the best in the world in my craft. After he happened to me,I feel like I have let go of it. I dont know how to revive it. And Im distracted a lot...
    JuniperLeeGirl JuniperLeeGirl
    18-21
    May 3, 2014

    i am the captain/leader

    when playung for my school or club
    HellishAnime914 HellishAnime914
    13-15, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    ***respect For The Life Of Joan Of Arc Among Other Profound Chosen Of God Women***

      A NEW ERA ARRIVES... FINALLY 100% = WOMEN ... WE DEMAND INTEGRITY  
    Demigiozia Demigiozia
    70+
    Mar 31, 2010

    I personally believe

    that an introvert who leads through guidance is a greater leader than an extrovert leading through dictation.
    Lucienn Lucienn
    22-25, T
    Jul 20, 2014

    S E L F More Or L E S S

    Never follow in suit of someone else ,always leading throughout your journey is definetaly ideal for ones personal identification ! In other words you will run out of road eventually and you will have never of learned how to leave your mark and create your own PATH...Yes! You...
    THBK THBK
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2012

    But Only With Work And Money

    My wife is the leader when it comes to sex and any thing about the house or kids. She took charge the evening after our first date. She chose the position and what we did as my reward , I was still wondering how far she would go and found I was there. She has never changed...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 26, 2011
    NOETHEDOLL NOETHEDOLL
    13-15, M
    Mar 5, 2015

    One good thing about being a leader is

    that you are your own decision maker ..Whatever way your decision goes right or wrong you are responsible for your own acts & I love taking responsibility for myself ...Cheers to all leaders
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 5

    In Charge

    I am in charge of myself. I have never been a follower, I have tried but failed miserably at it. I was always a different kind of individual. I always took charge and became the leader. I was much better at it and it was more me. I am more of an analytical and logical person. I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 19, 2011

    Be A Strong Person

    A leader is not necessary someone that leads other people, but a person that is strong leading their own life. . A leader believes that life is full of choices and accepts the good and bad from their choices. Advise to being strong: 1. Life is not easy. – Hard work...
    Jones47 Jones47
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2011

    I have always been different.

    This is a quality trait of a Leader. Whats more is a Leader is original in about all their thoughts. Their thoughts will be an example bad or good that will have others take to. A leader is strong, bold and ambitious. Not as in a show but more for progress in plans and goals to...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    Trying to become a section leader in my schools

    marching band, and I've been reading and studying the idea of leadership , what good leadership looks like, and examples of great leaders. I lack 100% confidence in myself that I am capable in taking this roll, and helping my group achieve excellence. Any advice, thoughts, etc?
    NldlDrummer2835 NldlDrummer2835
    18-21, M
    Jan 20, 2015

    It doesn?t matter if others believe you

    can succeed, or that you will succeed. No one can give you the resolution to succeed except yourself. It?s important to stoke those fires regularly, even daily so that you don?t get into the mentality that you can?t succeed or that failure is an option. Remember that we measure...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 20

    I'd Rather Lead Than Follow

    to follow someone that is like being a copy cat or a puppet.  I do things my way on my own terms in my own time frame.  I don't want to be someones puppet.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Feb 10, 2012

    Im the guy that sets the pace,

    not the guy who catches up.
    hollow567 hollow567
    18-21, M
    Sep 15, 2015

    Even though my friends are older

    than me they treat me like I'm older than them!
    Jacobwalker Jacobwalker
    22-25, M
    Jun 2, 2014

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