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I Am a Lesbian and a Christian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 564 People

    "God, there are so many churches

    that believe being gay is alright. I really hope it is.. There are so many of us..."
    Andallthat Andallthat 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    I am not sure if I am put in this place

    so that I am less likely to end up with a woman partner for life, or if this is just a small obstacle and I should keep on searching?
    Andallthat Andallthat 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Science, God, And Me

    I am a homosexual. I am also a Christian. Here's why I think that it is possible for a person to be both: God made us in his image. God made human beings with brains and complex nervous systems. The brain is responsible for the production of hormones, which are responsible for...
    DarkAmI DarkAmI 16-17 3 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    I'm a lesbian who's on my church's worship team.

    I play guitar for the church and I had to quit for a while because I know that I'm lying to my church about who I am, but it's not safe for me to come out. My pastor has a very strict no gay policy within my church, and my mom is the same way. I stopped playing for two months...
    EnmaM EnmaM 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26

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    His Family

    As anyone in life, I had to resolve myself to the fact that there was a God and he had to have a good sense of humor, because here I am. Until my mother died 33 years ago, I did not believe there was anything like a God. Never occurred to me how or why I got here beside my mother...
    GILEY GILEY 56-60, T 8 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    A Little Girl's Hero

    There is a little girl, who sits alone in her roomstaring out the window, knowing she will be home soon.She misses the way she kisses her and squeezes her goodnightsinging to her sweetly, tucking her in tight.Crawling into bed, she can't wait to see her Mama againbecause she is...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 27, 2012

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    Well my fathers side of the family they are

    very religious, my grandad is a pastor so he makes sure I'm always reading thee bible and attending church every Sunday, I'm not sure if he knows I'm a lesbian
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    God Loves Homosexuals

    God loves homosexuals that is why He wants to set them free from homosexuality through Jesus Christ. God showed His love for me, an ex-lesbian, by setting me free from lesbianism. I am not a lesbian anymore. Luke 4 18"The Spirit of the LORD is upon me (Jesus Christ), for he...
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    my mum thinks its wrong

    and i've pratically been disowned and i don't know what to do
    bonniekady bonniekady 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 27

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    I grew up in South Carolina in a little farm

    town, the entire town is christian and of course, so am I. I am a lesbian and proud of it, even though it is a sin. i pray that god forgive me every day, but i am not sorry. I know my lord still accepts me regardless of what gender I date. I love my girlfriend too much to ever...
    Cyborgbear Cyborgbear 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Homosexuality: Genetic Or Not?

    Ex-Gay: please watch the video below. http://youtu.be/gamxNTs2Nro
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F Aug 14, 2013

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    Ex-Gay

    CBN.com – Is homosexuality a genetic predisposition or some reaction to a bad home life that can be easily excused? Phillip Tucker originally thought so and eventually opted for the gay lifestyle. But even in his committed homosexual civil union, Phillip didn't find the love he...
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F Aug 14, 2013

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    Help Please...

    when i was younger, i am pretty sure that even if i'm a tomboy, i don't like girls. maybe because i know it's wrong to love someone of the same gender. i grew up from a catholic family, but we are not very religious. we only go to church on christmas eve and some special days. i...
    Neko22 Neko22 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    what do i do ? i have been struggling

    for 4 years now, but today i feel a little bit better because for the first time i opened my heart and talked to someone he listed to me that is why i just want it to say thank you :)
    Suzan27 Suzan27 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    God Is The Only Way To Win, Not You; Not Your Own Strength; Nobody Can Help But God

    I am here to preach the wonderful powerful message that god has been teaching me and has been working with great strength in the way i live. i want to share to all the LGBT people, that there IS a way to concur this battle, and the only answer that will ever help you get...
    TemptaionWontShakeMe TemptaionWontShakeMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    So here we go... I am a Christian.

    I am also in a beautiful relationship with a girl and have been for the past year and 3 months. This is the story of my journey and struggles. I have been raised in a Christian family, attending church every Sunday (morning and evening), and every Tuesday evening. I went to big...
    tshirthappy tshirthappy 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm not comfortable with labeling myself one way

    or another, but I recognize that I'm struggling with something---with these feelings. I am firm in my faith and have found no greater comfort than God, but I don't know how to get past this struggle of if I should or ever will. I'm sort of a "golden child" in my family and I...
    boniverfan boniverfan 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    Janet - A Lesbian And A Christian

    Please watch the link below. http://www.cbn.com/tv/1435142466001
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Can Anyone Relate?

    I want to serve God, but this is such a struggle... I have struggled with it for a while, and I still don't know what the right thing to do is. Maybe this is part of being a Christian. Maybe struggling, if it's for good, is not such a bad thing. It may hurt & be hard, but I know...
    livebyphil4thirteen livebyphil4thirteen 18-21 3 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    Jesus Loves Me, This I Know!

    For the first 33 years of my life I was into guys.Then I met a woman that I was friends with for a few years and fell in love with her and her with me. We were both married to guys, but both marriages were not good. Because of our faith we both struggled and tried to stay away...
    Randiemama Randiemama 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    A Childhood Of Whispers

    (Note: the names have been changed to protect the judgment.) There is a photograph of me with my sister that is very old. I cannot be more than three years old and I'd wager I am still two. My sister and I are dressed well for the photograph. She stands there, doll faced and...
    8119CA 8119CA 31-35 1 Response Feb 22, 2013

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    If I say I am gay If I say I am a lesbian What

    do u see in me Did you see another human soul Or it is just another hate story unfold I am perfectly fine Ain't commit any crime Yet unending judgement is passed In this big world in d universe I question my God Cuz in his name the world judge me They try to split my self...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 20

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    So. A couple of years ago I told my parents I

    like women. I was having a really hard time dealing with it all myself so I was actually in a psychiatric hospital. When I told them my parents told me I was a disappointment, was a shame to them, and stopped all contact with me until the day I got out. Since that day we haven't...
    bifft91 bifft91 22-25, F 2 Responses May 31

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    Coming Out To My Church And Friends/Family?...

    So I'm very very big into my church, and let's just say my church is kinda "old fashioned" when I say that, they arnt supportive of gays or lesbians...I have been gay pretty much my whole life...when I was little I was the biggest tomboy and is flirt with girls thinking that it...
    emmyj97 emmyj97 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2013

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    I want to share about Gods love

    for us, and what it truly means when he loves us. Now, we all know that when we Love something, then be gotta hate what contradicts what we love, am i right? An example would be if your a person who truly loves children, then you would be against abortion because abortion kills...
    TemptaionWontShakeMe TemptaionWontShakeMe 13-15, F Jan 21

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    I've been Lutheran for

    as long as I can remember, and a lesbian as well. After coming out to my parents and being verbally abused, I questioned why I would even follow religion if it caused so much hate. Most of my other LGBTQ friends are not religious, so I claimed to be an atheist in attempt to...
    eloquentshadow eloquentshadow 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Its quite confusing. Its hard to explain

    and I loose a lot of friends because of both things. My christian friends tend to turn their noses up at me when they find out I'm a lesbian and my LBGTQ friends get upset when they find out I am part of a religion that often does not support their efforts. Meanwhile I am just...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 6

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    My Story & What I Believe...

    When I was 13, I fell in love for the first time, and it has been the only time that I've ever been in love. We hung out all the time and we were practically sisters - but I realized that I loved her as more than that. Well, I wasn't able to admit this to myself up until about...
    livebyphil4thirteen livebyphil4thirteen 18-21 May 24, 2012

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    Living A Lie

    I came out to myself about three years ago and have been in a committed relationship with a woman for two and a half years now. She is everything to me and I can't imagine life without her. We are even going through a long-distance relationship now, and she still feels just as...
    zailiza zailiza 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Being Kicked Out Of My Church.

    Im a 16 year old teenager and if thats not hard enough, im a lesbian as well. I as raised my entire life to love and respect the Lord. I was a faithful member of my church, i served and helped im almost everything. But recently i was asked about my sexuality. At first i denied it...
    simplyoutrageous simplyoutrageous 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    The Short Version Of My Story

    I've questioned my sexuality since middle school, but when you live in the bible belt, you do your best to squash those feelings down deep inside of you, mostly so you won't go to hell. That's what I'd ALWAYS been taught. Gay = SIN. So, in my desire to be pleasing to God and...
    mamadoula mamadoula 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2011

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    I'm A Lesbian, I Love My Lord And Saviour, And Mankind Will Not Take That Away From Me

    If you grow up Christian, and you grow up lesbian, it's almost a given that you will grow up cut in half. You will be a "good girl", a rule follower. You will go to Sunday school, and you will listen to the teachings there. You will learn about God's unconditional love which...
    Breezeann Breezeann 36-40, F 37 Responses Jul 9, 2010

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    No One Was Created A Lesbian By God.

    A child of God should not choose to be both a Christian and a lesbian at the same time. I would like to share my testimony. I was brought up in a family where my parents provided me all my material needs. As I was growing up, I noticed that I had an attraction towards the same...
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    Ex-Gay Activist Became A Christian

    Please watch the video below. http://youtu.be/yionQDpwTlM
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F Aug 14, 2013

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    And i am a theologian

    and active in Church.. So it is possible!
    Petra1963 Petra1963 51-55 3 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I have been a Christian

    for a song as I can remember and I have been a Lesbian for as long as I can remember. The two don't conflict in my mind. There is no scripture that says same-sex attraction is a sin. scripture does tell us that homosexual acts are sin but actions and sexualities are two...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Just across on this site to find a new friend.

    .i am not friendly or like to talk or txt..but just try ...
    mayadevera mayadevera 31-35, F Feb 5

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    When I Say... "i Am A Christian"...

    It means I am sinful. I am doubtful. My spirit gets weak. I am stubborn. I get lazy. I question His plans. I insist what I want. I get mad, super mad that I sometimes make curses in my head. There are also times that I find it hard to concentrate when I'm on the church. My list...
    jazzME jazzME 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    A Test From God?

    I’m a heterosexual female, I plan to stay a virgin until I marry and I strongly believe in being like “Christ”. I wish I could say that was completely true because I wouldn’t feel as if the worst child of God ever. I grew up in a Christian family and God is a huge part...
    no2morrow no2morrow 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    It's Not The Love That Is Wrong, It's The Sex!

    It is not the love that is wrong, it’s the Sex! This is what the pastor and first lady said to us as I was sitting beside the woman I've loved since I was 16. We had spent four of the most pleasing months helping them establish a church, hosting events to raise money for said...
    BLOWingTides BLOWingTides 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Glory To The King

    ***This is actually a gospel song or even perhaps a hymn that I wrote. It has a great melody but I think the words really make it stand out. Let me know what you think!***We stood together, trying to hold onand we swore forever, we knew it all along.We felt the rains come and we...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2012

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    A Choice?

    A careful reading of 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 reveals that certain Christians in the ancient city of Corinth (infamous for its debauchery) were able to abandon their homosexual lifestyles. How was that possible?
    maxximiliann maxximiliann 36-40, M 23 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    Change

    When I moved to Texas from a very liberal suburb of Washington D.C. I thought my life was over. I was coming into my sexuality. I was confused and hurt by what the people around me were saying. They said gay people were disgusting and that they would go to hell. I met my first...
    MistressDiamonette MistressDiamonette 18-21, F 14 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Accepting Homosexuality As A Christian

    If being a lesbian is wrong, then does that mean love is wrong? If being born as gay is wrong, then forcing yourself to be straight is right? If being gay is a sin, then hating on gays is a good thing? If not accepting yourself as God made you is right, then I don't want to be...
    AbysmalSoul AbysmalSoul 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2013

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    Ex-Lesbian

    Please watch the story of an ex-lesbian on the link below. http://www.cbn.com/tv/1435142466001
    DaisyChris DaisyChris 31-35, F Aug 14, 2013

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    I Am A Lesbian Christian

    I grew up in church all I heard was the story about how they tried for 6 years to have a baby.They went to see a preacher one night and out of the blue he asked her to stand up.He said " God told me he was gonna give you what you had been praying for and the baby was going to be...
    mistykilgore18 mistykilgore18 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I love my fiancé more

    than words can describe. There is no one that I can picture my life with that would fill my heart with love and joy. However, I know that I have a lot of growing to do when it comes to her. Often to often I feel like I match her temper,ugliness, and flat out meanness to one...
    SOulFree22 SOulFree22 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    Finally Found Where I Belong

    I've always known that I was lesbian from a very young age because all the crushes I had were on women.  However, for years I felt ashamed and sickened with myself.  I thought I would die with embarrassment if anybody found out my secret.  I had my first girlfriend when I...
    padlock padlock 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    Bible..

    Everyone says that homosexuals will go to hell. but the same rules apple to them as to heterosexuals. ten commandments, i mean as long as they believe in the LORD and respect him as any REAL christian would they are just as likely going to heaven as start people. everyone knows...
    cassiehottot cassiehottot 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 13, 2010

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    Why is it that Christians always get so affected when an atheist says something against their religion. And yes I know they will say that atheists are the angry ones. Well if...
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    Hello friends .. Me 29 f lesbian from Mumbai .. Looking for lesbian friends or if lucky to find a partner ... So please text if u Waan know me more .. Cheers
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    Looking back on this past year, I considered myself a Christian when I was far from it. I but everything before God and I never talked to Him or worshiped Him as much as I should...
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Im just about one week on this site and im confused and afraid to express such personal things here but as i explore and read some profiles and stories it gives courage to put mine...
    fitty22 fitty22 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11