I Am A Lesbian And I Do Not Hate Men

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    Why Is That So Hard To Believe?

    I don't understand why some people think that if you're a lesbian then you obviously have some sort of problem with men. When people ask me if I hate men I'm a little offended and hurt that someone would just assume that about me just because of my sexuality. Then people ask me...
    explainit2me explainit2me
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2010

    It Has Nothing To Do With Men.

    Whenever my sexual orientation is brought up with or in front of a male I always get the same string of questions thrown at me, though the most popular one is "Did you have a bad experience with a man?". I'm always a bit taken aback when someone asks me this. I...
    talktolabomb talktolabomb
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2009

    No Thanks

    The question seems to come up to often---:Why do you hate men??"Many years go, I was rapped by 4 guys. but that did not influence my decision to be they way I am today. The truth was, that I had looked up to men in a lot of ways. they were steadfast, got what they wanted most of...
    56-60, T
    5 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    I Heart Guys

    Why on earth would I hate men? I don't sleep wiff em... lol!Severiously tho, I love mens.. summa my bestest fwends are dudes and they're great I tell ya.  My RL and EP guy friends rock, they keep me laughing, They aren't scurred to lend an ear or a beer or fart in my direction...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Sep 9, 2011

    Just Don't Get It

    Every time I say that I'm gay, all my friends just assume that I hate men. I don't, I have plenty of guy friends, both gay and straight alike, and I love them dearly, I just don't want a relationship with them, I don't find them attractive. The same reason a straight guy wouldn...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 13, 2010

    I Love Women ~ But I Want Men In My Life Too

    I'm a lesbian that love men too. Just differently. My Best Friend is a man. He's also my Older Brother too. The longest endearing friendship I've had, has been with a man.  20+ yrs. He's one of the wisest souls I know. There are men here on ep I have total...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2010

    I Am & I Don't

    I am a lesbian & I do not hate men. I don't understand how people can still, in this day & age, think that lesbians hate men. I love men. That doesn't mean I have romantic feelings toward them, but I do love them, as people. There are many great men & I find myself much more...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2010

    About Being A Lesbian

    I have a few Lesbian friends and I can tell you that, in an honest moment, (one of them) told me that they "like hanging out with me because I'm "non-threatening" to them..They know that I  have no intentions trying to "hit on them" ---- and they're comfortable with me.There is...
    jim3130 jim3130
    6 Responses Apr 3, 2011

    Just because I'm attracted to women doesn't

    mean I hate on guys at all! I just don't wanna see you naked that's all.
    MixedJayy MixedJayy
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    I have some great guy friends,

    so no I don't hate men - I just don't have sex with them. There are SOME guys I dislike but that's because they've been rude, obnoxious jerks. I try to take each person as they come and try not to hate anyone. Just because I like women doesn't mean I have to hate men - I've...
    lesbianjen lesbianjen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2014

    I Just Don't Do Them

    I do find them a little bit annoying when they go on about wanting to be the one to convert me back to being straight.  Or when they say the usual stuff like 'oh, your experience with men must have been bad' or 'What a waste and what a shame for the male kind"  or (and...
    Ozislander Ozislander
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2010

    Dump The Stereotypes, People

    Seriously folks, being a lesbian has nothing to do with hating men at all!  It is all about finding emotional and sexual satisfaction with another woman! The stereotype of lesbians hating men -- it seems to me -- comes from men who have had their sexual advances rejected by...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl
    26-30, F
    38 Responses Oct 7, 2009
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