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I Am a Lesbian and Im Lonely

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    How difficult is to find someone

    who shares something common with you in such an LGBT friendly place like Upstate NY? I am a graduate student, and one would guess that being on a University campus would make it easier to meet other women. I would definitely challenge that thought. There is an entire lack of...
    anwesharry anwesharry 18-21 Jan 23

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    Lost My Love

    I am married to a man and have been for almost 15 years. I just turned 36. I have a 13 year old daughter. For years, I was looking for a woman for sexual experiences. Once I found that, I wanted a woman to love. But I wasn't actively seeking. It was difficult enough just...
    beellbee beellbee 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Another Sunset... Means Another Day Passed Without Someone

    Where to start. Yes, I've never been in a serious relationship before, it's just hard to find the right ones for me. I know it takes time but I'm feeling very empty now. People have asked me 'Have you ever been in love', my answers to them 'Yes, I've been in love and No, I haven...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    I'm A Lesbian And Single

    I'm Kim, I'm 23 and I live in manchester, UK. I've been single for 7 months and I really want a girlfriend, I was looking for a local girl but no luck, I'm at the stage where I wouldn't mind settling for a long distance relationship but the only thing is that I want someone who...
    LittleMissGiggles LittleMissGiggles 22-25, F Nov 3, 2013

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    I have known since a young age

    that i would only ever think of boy's as friends ever. Around me there arw no other girls like me and I just want someone to love
    a3320b a3320b 13-15, F Apr 3

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    I'm lesbian and lonely

    and I have kik if any1 interested
    konvict09 konvict09 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Love? What Is It?

    Here it is..... I am a 21 yr old college student and I have never really been in love or a real relationship...high school relationships aren't real due to the fact that, I had to sneak and see people or I only saw and talked to my "girlfriend" at school. When I got to college I...
    Hufflepuff394 Hufflepuff394 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Is It Me?

    Alright, I don't like complaining or sharing, but there comes a time when you need to just get out there right, well this ones been single for oh... going on 4 years now, I've gottem self conscious about my colour, its not like I'm ashamed to be black, I LOVE being black, but...
    soul2angel soul2angel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    I just want a girl to talk

    and get close to! Hp please.
    lilhelp lilhelp 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Just A Short Note...

    Hi! On those cold winter nights, it seems like you find yourself longing for someone special even more than usual. I know how hard and hurtful it can be trying to find Miss Right, but I refuse to believe there are only cruel or sex-crazed lesbians left in the world. There must...
    romanticatheart37 romanticatheart37 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    It's Friday Night...

    Two weeks after my trip home to Indiana. I'm still very restless, but mostly lost. Yes, seems destined to live out the life of a lost soul searching for other lost souls to connect with. That would be the "emo" way to put it. My bizarre strain of humor keeps me fairly intact...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    Iam So Lonley Lesbian

    I wish I can find my other part  Iam from QATAR > I prefer Arabs Girls. ..:(   :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 24, 2010

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    Single :D

    My girlfriend had just broke up with me about a week ago and I'm havin trouble finding a girlfriend every one at my school Is straight and my old girlfriend Is the only lesbian I know in person I need someone to talk to I'd love it :D
    MadisonFox143 MadisonFox143 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 11, 2013

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    More Than Friends

    I need more than just friendship.I need to love another girl and have her love me.I know I'm not perfect but I'm lonesome... :(
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    Where To Start?

    So I'm 22 and I have realized I'm a lesbian. I'm not out to friends or family yet but I plan to tell them soon. All of my friends are straight and I don't know where to look to find girls to date. I wouldn't even mind a long distance girlfriend really. I just don't know where to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Starting To Give Up On Love .

    (What’s this love thing ? Show me ! let me feel, what all those singers sing about, show me love that my body cant handle , cut my hart limp by limp , let me feel something, that I never feel before let me opened my door. Let me feel , am not looking for love, love is what I...
    ktaly4u ktaly4u 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    I'M So Lonesome I Could Cry.

    I think that's a country & western song title. It's really tough out here in the World let me tell you. I spend a lot of time alone. And its not by choice. Lost most of my friends to: Aids Suicide Drug overdose And let me tell you its hard making new ones. I'm trying to find...
    Kungfucaine Kungfucaine 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    Lonely, Stuck, And Lost

    Gosh,Where to start. Well I have been with a woman since July 2007. We dated and moved in together. All was great. My father figure passed away and I became mad and was just rude and mean to everyone. The man was the only one who accepted me for being gay when everyobe else I...
    coola5151 coola5151 26-30 2 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    Sick Of Being Single And Solitery

    First off let me state this: I am not a lesbian. Though I wish I where. No I'm Bisexual but I'm only interested in girls. So I hope you won't boot me or anything for it. Anyway a few months from now It will be four years exactly since my last relationship. For the longest time...
    InvisibleHarliequinn InvisibleHarliequinn 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    SamxdeXD SamxdeXD 18-21, F Mar 16

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    I'm Very Lonely

    I don't know anyone who has the slightest chance to be gender-queer yet here I am hoping to discover that my crushes might confess their love to me one day. I've tried to tell people how I feel in the past, they didn't find it sincere at all. They usually kept telling me that...
    nonamedfreak nonamedfreak 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    Together And Still Alone

    Today was our third anniversary. We have actually been together for almost five years now. We did the usual dinner and a movie date and ended with us going home to our three year old son and going to bed. Not what I was hoping for though. There was no excitement to be together or...
    RiddledHeart RiddledHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I just want to feel the touch of another girls

    breasts on mine.. Feeling the dampness between her legs.. Begging for her to touch me. I love experimenting with older women, but it's always been my fantasy to be with a virgin. Does anyone want to chat?
    soakingwetpussy soakingwetpussy 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 12

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    Sincerely By J. Quinn

    I never used to know what lonely felt like. I never knew the ache you feel going to sleep in a bed you'd never known was so big until it was just you in it again. I never knew what it was like to cry yourself to sleep at night because that ache echoes through your whole body.A...
    QuinnQuinn QuinnQuinn 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2013

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    Lesbian And Lonley

    i have been single for so long and just really want to find a girl who will love me any tips please?!
    lover171 lover171 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    Little Girl Lost

    Hello, It started when I was 17 years old. I was with a girl my age saying goodbye after a football game when I hugged her inappropriately. I knew she knew...her sister was a big-mouth cheerleader, and I knew my reputation/life was over. I had already graduated that year...but...
    ME00001 ME00001 51-55 3 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    I am tired of feeling

    so lonely. I just want someone to talk to about anything... The topic doesn't matter... Just knowing that someone is willing to talk would be great. i will be always availbale in gmail chat m id. priyachowdary1089@gamil.com.
    priyachoudary priyachoudary 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I Just Need You ... My Angel Girl

    I Just Need You ... My Angel Girl I just need... one more time to see you, one more time to kiss you, one more time to touch you. I just need to tell you... how I don't hate you, how I still love you, how I much I miss you. I just want... one more glance, one more...
    shiningbeauty shiningbeauty 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    Any Hindu Bi/gay From Andhrapradesh (india) For Moc?

    I am a 24-year-old lesbian from andhrapradesh, India . I am a very social person with lot of friends and I am very close to my family. I am living a life which I dont want to but I am living it for my family to make them happy. I am a decent looking girl and fun to be with. I am...
    priyachoudary priyachoudary 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Lonely

    I am a single lesbian and lonely. All my friends are straight and I feel like I am being misunderstood by everyone around me.
    lsgy92 lsgy92 18-21 6 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Confused, Angry And Misguided

    Hey, I'm 17 years old girl. I am a lesbian, I'm lonely. And just need to get this story off my chest. Have you ever felt like nobody understands you?Like there is a secret that keep you in constant stress?Sounds familiar?Yeah, for me too. I live in Ukraine, where you can't...
    theyanab theyanab 16-17 4 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    I would love to talk to a lesbian

    or bi girl right now. Btw I'm bi and also a girl <3
    bluerosaline bluerosaline 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2013

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    Single N' Lonely

    I've been single now for about 8 months. I can't deny that I'm much better off than I was when we were together. However in that time I've regressed in my progress of coping with anxiety and agoraphobia. This unfortunately makes for a rather lonely existence. I feel...
    lotusdrop lotusdrop 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    I Miss The Female Touch

    After the first touch your hooked...at least that's what happened to me.I feel so alone.Craving the touch of another girl a kiss or a hug just any sign of love I can get.I miss it the kiss,the touch,the love,the romance i feel so alone and cold I just want to be loved.
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F Oct 30, 2013

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    At The Crossroads

    I love her, more than anything I love her. Even though she wont tell me what it is about me that doesn't click with her, because she says it's integral to me. Even though she left me for my ex-bestfriend who told me that i should go kill myself shortly before they got together...
    lostwithoutaname lostwithoutaname 22-25 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    Another Lonely Lesbian

    My partner of seven years left me the day before Thanksgiving. She said she was going to the post office and never returned. She calls sometimes to say she loves me, but I don't know what that means. I would like to meet new women for friendship and see what happens. It's...
    TerraIberian TerraIberian 51-55, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Tired Of Putting Myself Out There...

    Open Rant* I have decided today that I am no longer putting myself or my feelings out there. NO matter how lonely I am or may get in the future, its not worh it. I meet people, we talk for a little while and then the same thing happens. I end up being the one doing EVERYTHING. If...
    rhetoricaluv rhetoricaluv 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    I really wanna meet someone.

    I'm a little bit damaged and recovering from a mental illness but I'm putting all of that behind me now and looking to move on :) I'll be 19 on Saturday. If you'd like to get to know me better don't be shy, message me on here or kik me - rubymaygaughan
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Related Experiences

    I'm gay (lesbian) and married into the military. I got married to get away from a bad situation and I am in a *better situation but I'm still gay on a straight/christian-y military...
    KLynnMarie KLynnMarie 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I'm gay (lesbian) and married into the military. I got married to get away from a bad situation and I am in a *better situation but I'm still gay on a straight/christian-y military...
    KLynnMarie KLynnMarie 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    And I know that my other half are out there. You, who are so strong through all that you've been through or all that you haven't. You, with your beautiful smile that is rare or...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello, people. ^^ I would like to share something that bothers me a lot. I used to have a lot of friends, but after a while, the people I used to hang with, just left me. Yes, I...
    Werdona Werdona 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My girlfriend is only months away from graduating and I'm so sad.. I'll be so lonely without her in school😔
    MyrkaEspinoza MyrkaEspinoza 16-17, F Mar 22

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    I was sitting near the river side, perfectly evening breeze touched my naked skin on my face. It was a peaceful evening. In a moment I lost myself in a world of romance with nature...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I'm 100% lesbian. Sorry guys looking for ONLY lesbians friendship, lesbian advice, or just plain lesbian whatever else comes to mind. I wa
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Anyone near or in Birmingham,I'm feeling very lonely...
    Babyk31 Babyk31 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Anyone in or near Birmingham,I'm feeling very lonely and want a girls warm hugs and attention
    Babyk31 Babyk31 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    This happened about 5 months ago. I was sitting in the cafeteria together with my 6 officemate then one of us start a conversation. She's bragging how lesbian relationship is so...
    HoneyClover HoneyClover 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am tired of feeling so lonely. I just want someone to talk to about anything... The topic doesn't matter... Just knowing that someone is willing to talk would be great. i will be...
    priyachoudary priyachoudary 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I am tired of feeling so lonely. I just want someone to talk to about anything... The topic doesn't matter... Just knowing that someone is willing to talk would be great. i will be...
    priyachoudary priyachoudary 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    although i am a pre op t/s i have much more in common with lesbians and relate myself to them more i guess after the op i will be a bit of a butch lesbian although i try to be as...
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I feel so alone cause my parents don't like lesbian and gay they said to me it's a sin to be a lesbian and I think I will never tell to my parents that I'm lesbian
    mary8001 mary8001 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 29

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    I recently discovered that I am a lesbian I am always up for meeting others out there like me as if I told anyone at my school I was a lesbian then everyone would know. I would...
    gurlygurls gurlygurls 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I think I knew all my life that I was a lesbian but actually didn't notice it until I was about 15-16 years old. Even before then, I knew something was off about me. All...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    What is a lesbian , I've been reading posts and stories about lesbians and they love women , the look , feel , touch , taste and smell of the female body , they love how a woman's...
    Nunlover Nunlover 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago