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I Am a Lesbian Mom

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    I Know Now That I Can Be Both

    I am a  lesbian mom. I love my kids more than any other aspect of my existence. I am so proud of what they are becoming. If my children have a clue I'm a lesbian they have never let it show. At this time in their lives I am choosing not to come out to them. That is just my...
    lotusqueen1967 lotusqueen1967 36-40 3 Responses Feb 7, 2008

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    Everything Is New

    We met in Bible college. My partner and I. I remember when I met her there was something about her. As I left to my new dorm I said to my sister, "She will be my best friend, I can tell." And oddly enough we became best pals! We were in an intense program/internship that...
    Nettie25 Nettie25 26-30 1 Response Oct 19, 2010

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    Yes I am a person with many hats to wear.

    .. I am a daughter, single mother, and I am a lesbian. I always knew I was attracted to girls and had a few relationships with women. Then I met my husband to be and fell in love with him, married and had children. I thought I was just Bi curious. Years passed and we separated I...
    femmeme femmeme 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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    I Am a Lesbian...

    I am a lesbian mom it isnt a phase! I want to come out and tell everone, my husband included but I dont know how to yet... I am happy with me and I am finally comfortable with who I am. So I thought that I would come on here as a first step and tell you guys.   Thanks for...
    fancysocks fancysocks 21-25, F 8 Responses Feb 4, 2008

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    I Love Being A Mom!

    I am currently a stay at home mom and love taking care of my girls...my partner of 5 years and our 12 year old daughter. Recently we have talked about expanding our little family. My partner being over 40 years old and an RN, knows the complications that could be involved if she...
    raynebeau2 raynebeau2 36-40, F Sep 4, 2012

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    You're missing out...

    . You must Go now to this Facebook page address below...Even look at the older post...Share it, like it or love it..But I must admit she is loved. https://www.facebook.com/MalishaMarable?ref=hl
    LoveDawn LoveDawn 36-40, F Feb 27

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    2 Teenage Kids + 1 Grndbaby !

    I have 2 biological kids through my 2nd marriage. My partner has been my bf since before I married my 1st husband. She has been there every step of the way with me and my kids. The kids always did look up to her, so when we finally did get togather and became a couple(1yr after...
    americanwoman americanwoman 41-45, F Dec 21, 2008

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    Baby Wyatt

    i am almost 9 months pregnant with my first child. its a boy and i cant be any more excited to get him out of my belly my girlfriend and i have been together for 7 1/2 months now and its going really well! she has been there more then the real father of our son Wyatt. she has...
    skyerose18 skyerose18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    The Non-biological Mom!

    My partner and I have been trying to get pregnant for a while now. We have two inseminations tomorrow and Friday. The doctor seems to think this time is going to work because all of the issues before are resolved. She told us to be prepared to come back for a positive blood test...
    snt1004 snt1004 22-25 2 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    I Love My Little Family But I Want Us To Grow!

    I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 22. We've known each other for 7 years. We have a little boy who is nearly 16 months old who I carried. But now we both have the itch to have another child and feel ready. This time around my girlfriend would carry, I can't wait to see her with a bump...
    Zachsmoma Zachsmoma 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    My Soon Loves His Two Mommas!

    i ended up being 22 & a single mom until i met my wife. since meeting her, she's taken my son as her own. we've built a strong family out of love. sometimes he looks and acts more like her than he does me! he is so proud of his mommas & calls us both his best friends!! in...
    mimimoninelijah mimimoninelijah 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    I Am A Mom...

    I have three children who are 6, 13 and 15.I am 34 and have been "out of the closet" for about four years but knew since I was 18 that I was strongly attracted to women and not men.I just went along with what I thought was "right".When I split up with my ex husband, I was honest...
    EsteemChallengedBlogger EsteemChallengedBlogger 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    Woke Up

    I walked a long path, the kind that wears you out and breaks you down, most of my life. I had empty meaningless affairs with men, who couldn't fathom my mind or strike a flame in my heart. I spent years wondering what was wrong with me, or what was the issue at heart, that was...
    jadedchick16 jadedchick16 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    Don't Kick Me Out

    I am not a mom, I have a mom who is bi and is not ashamed of being so with me. I know how wonderful it is to be lesbian and I hope to be a mom one day myself. I enjoy the female body right now and hope to continue doing so.
    lascuevas lascuevas 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Young Lesbian Mom

    My gf and I are expecting our first child in july. There is not alot of advice that I see out there on lesbian couples and parenting. My gf is carrying our child and sometimes I feel a little left out on things. We became pregnant after using a ***** donor and it took the first...
    rcppatricia rcppatricia 22-25 1 Response Apr 28, 2011

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    I Need Help Please Respond

    I am 26 years old and my partner is 25. We have been on and off for a few years now and lately things were doing very well. I have two children of my own from when I was not with her and she has one child from a previous relationship. We decided to have a baby of our own a few...
    msuzannelewis msuzannelewis 26-30 5 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    We're Trying To Get Pregnant

    My partner and I are trying to get pregnant. It's been 2 years and we finally found out our donor was infertile. We have seance chased to use a cryobank and share this experience by ourselves. Although the journey has been long we are very hopeful that this time around we will...
    Lesbianmom Lesbianmom 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 4, 2012

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    Fell In Love With A Women

    I met a women and fell in love with her. When I met her she was pregnant no job no car. That didn't matter to me. She was and is everything I've ever wanted. I stuck by her through out the entire pregnancy. I went to every appointment missed work for her and our daughter. Even...
    jtallm333 jtallm333 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 24, 2013

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    I Need Your Help

    Hello everyone.I am writing a story about two young girls who grow up and fall in love with each other. They move to a new city together but come across some homophobic people.What I'm asking is if people can send me a message or something with your own homophobic experiences so...
    CarmellaDWinter CarmellaDWinter 18-21, F Aug 1, 2012

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    True Rapture

    my partner and i have been together for 35 years.  25 years ago we decided to have children.  we pickeddonors from a ***** bank AND had female sex preselection. back then ***** banks wouldn't sell ***** to lesbianswe had to travel to san francisco for insemination  soooooo...
    canyonbuz canyonbuz 66-70 2 Responses May 21, 2011

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    Mom Of Two Boys

    I am a lesbian mom of two boys, who are ages 8 and 9.  I was married before, and had my kids in that marriage.  Now, I live with my girlfriend of 4 years, and my sons live with us.  It doesn't seem to impose any complications on my sons' lives, but I worry about it. 
    onlytenminutes onlytenminutes 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2011

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    Broaden My Horizons :)

    I am a lesbian mom of a 3 year old daughter & a baby boy on the way in April. As well as a 12 year old step-daughter. Im just looking to connect with others in the same situation.. I am from London, Ontario area (Canada)
    CountryKids CountryKids 31-35 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    I Love Being A Lesbian Mom!!

    I am currently a stay at home lesbian mom, and I love it.  I have a young son and another child on the way.  I never would have had a child with any of the men I use to date or the one I was married to.  This relationship is the one that I knew would last and be productive...
    twokidstwomommies twokidstwomommies 31-35 4 Responses May 6, 2011

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    I'm A Lesbian Mom

    I've known for a very long time now, what I am, and I let myself go along with the "normal" flow, I was married for nine years in a bad relationship but I stayed for my kids, and fought my way through and finally ended the marriage in 2010, for the past two years I've been in a...
    SpeckShin33 SpeckShin33 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2012

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    I Am A Lesbian Mom To My Wifes Daughter.

    I have never thought that I would be a mother simply because I am a lesbian. I started dating a lesbian women that had a child. We dating and finally it was time for me to meet her daughter. The moment I gazed upon this child I fell in love with her. As our relationship...
    Kristy614 Kristy614 12750 5 Responses Jun 15, 2010

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    Lesbian Mom~yes, You Can Be Both.

    After a divorce when my children were 2 and 4, I came to terms with my sexuality and met my wife about a year later.  She has been with us since our boys were 6 and 8 (6 years now), and I love her and our boys more than ANYTHING in the world.
    sumrgrl sumrgrl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 18, 2008

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    Did I Just Say That???

    Yeah, I did. I'm a lesbian mom. I am not out yet, well, just to you all! I've lived in a bad, bad marriage for a long time. My husband and I are in the divorce process now. Yeah, I've known for a long time I've had these 'feelings,' I've just done everything I could to fight...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    hi i am 19, a single mom of 1,

    and while i wouldn't say i'm fully lesbian, sure i've developed a strong preference for ladies i would love to make friends
    rositag rositag 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I Found Happiness Being Me And By Becoming A Mom!!

    I am a 27 year old single mother of 2. I am truly the happiest I have ever been my whole life. Being a young lesbian was a challenge and I struggled with the concept that children would not come easy! I had to let go of a very special woman in my life to pursue my dream of having...
    sohappynow sohappynow 26-30 5 Responses Sep 11, 2011

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    Just a Cheer...

    I am not lesbian, nor am I a mother, but I saw this group and I couldn't help but take a look and write a quick note.  I just want to say, I think you all are awesome!  Society as a whole, especially in some parts of the world, is so Homophobic that it seems like many...
    Avice Avice 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    Hi!

    Hi! I'm 32, married and have 4 children :) All my life I dreamed of getting married, having children and living happily ever after. I have achieved my dream! With a surprising twist :) I spent my whole youth and the first part of my adulthood reaching for this goal. As a result...
    Kyrari Kyrari 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Being True To Myself

    I have always loved women and I have always appreciated a woman's body. But I have denied my true self for over 30 years. For various reasons, I ignored my true thoughts and feelings. I dated only men and I was even married for 8 years because that is what I was suppose to do. I...
    Dyamonde Dyamonde 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    OK Im Not a Lesbian Mom But a Mom to Lesbians

    I am the daughter of a gay man. And Have always had many gay/lesbian friends. Now that I am Older  I had one daughter who questioned her sexuality. And several of her friends who truly are lesbians, call me mom. I also am around young women and have on many occasions found...
    boedacia boedacia 46-50, F 10 Responses Jan 27, 2008

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    How Can You Be A Mom, And A Lesbian?

    That's what people are always asking me. Wheu. I used to explain it without hesitation. I'd say: "Well, you see, I knew I was missing something... I didn't really understand myself when I was young and popping out a baby. I always fantasized about women, I knew I liked them. I...
    thehonorablesushi thehonorablesushi 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    Peace At Last

    Hey! I'm Jessica, and my story could take days to explain everything. So I'll just give a brief summary and some stuff about me :)I'm 21, a brand new mom (my son's birthday is May 24, 2011), and live in South Texas with my girlfriend. I've always known I was at least bi curious...
    Jbogg1989 Jbogg1989 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    I Just Don't Know What To Say.....

    I am a 35Year old mother of 4 my oldest is 19 & my youngest is 7. I really have always know I was but tried covering up my feelings. I have only had the nerve to be in one lesbian Relationship but, I got scared Runed it I loved her so freakn much but I moved 200 miles away from...
    imjustfine imjustfine 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 16, 2011

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    Twice Married Mom of Four

    I am a lesbian mom.  I have always been attracted to women and knew this from the age of 12.  But as it would go back in the 80's, being gay was not what was accepted in my peer group.  So society ruled and I ended up married and having my first baby at 19...
    yogagrl320 yogagrl320 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Journey to Motherhood

    My partner and I are expecting our son the first of November - it is her 3rd and my first.  We have been together 3 years and are thrilled about his arrival. We planned him, found a donor (email me for the website), flew across the country and got pregnant on our own...
    WindingPath WindingPath 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2008

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    Starting Over.....

    I raised both of my biokids w/my x partner. My kids are now adults, my daughter has a child of her own now. I have currently began a new relationship with my partner of 1 1/2 yrs and she has a 12 yr old son. I find it hard to deal with being a new step-parent because it's not...
    ginaf333 ginaf333 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    "Mummy, Are You Gay ?"

    Son  "Mummy, are you gay?" Me  "If I am Gay, would that be okay with you sweety?" Son  "Yes Mum, I just want you to be inlove. Thats okay Mummy."   Asked me this when he was 5-6 years old.   What a beautiful little...
    Free2BeMe Free2BeMe 36-40, F 12 Responses Mar 7, 2008

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    I Have Found My Soulmate But Will It Ever Have A Happy Ending?

    I never expected to fall in love with her, our meeting was so unexpected. What started as a close friendship has turned into the love of my life. It didn't take long for me to realize that she is everything I had ever wanted, but never realized. Why? I am married with two...
    Renee0715 Renee0715 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Should We Stay Together?

    I have been with my gf for 4 years but we are not happy and it feeels like we need to call it a day. However, my 10 year old daughter really likes my gf so I don't know if we should carry on fighting to stay together. We really are unhappy! What would you do?
    claire1001 claire1001 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    My Wife Wants To Have A Child With Me

    Hi my girl and i are thinking about having a baby together, we are lesbians and i have one child already. I just noticed that there is not really a group for that and was wondering if there was any other lesbian couples on here that have been through this or have advice, i just...
    Soulmoon Soulmoon 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2013

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    I Once Was Married And Now I'm Just A Mother With Two Children I Love And A Girlfriend.

    I was married for almost 10 years. I have always found women attractive, but I never acted on those attractions. Towards the end of my marriage I developed a friendship with my lesbian friend. Nothing more and nothing less than friends. When I hit the breaking point in my...
    rainbowmeforme rainbowmeforme 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    Now What

    Now I have gotten my oun place & getting a divorce . I have been in the closet for a long time but now I am ready to come out to my kids. So the question is how do I tell them I am a lesbian. Their ages are 22,14& 13?
    1331jean 1331jean 36-40, F 10 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    i love being a lesbian!! i am closeted though which isnt great. i want more lesbian friends, im sick of straight people. message me!!
    trashqueen trashqueen 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I have never been fully "out". My husband knew on our first date that I was bi. That's how I labeled myself because the truth was so much more complicated. Before my husband, I...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Welp so it looks like I'm the first post here. *takes a deep breath* okay, so my mom who is now 37 years old is a drug addict, more specifically meth, speed, heroine and whatever...
    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm finally off groundation it was a long couple weeks but I lived I will never under estamate my mom again love u mom
    18tiff1996 18tiff1996 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I honestly am...... i am sick of all the drama that comes with women, all their oversensitiveness to the 'truth' all the up and down with their moods all their different signals...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    To be honest I don't know if I'm lesbian, straight, or bi. I've never had a girlfriend or anything but I have had a few boyfriends in the past none of the relationships lasted very...
    MJtheatregirl MJtheatregirl 16-17, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I met my husband when I was 18. I married when I was 20. Now I'm 28 and going crazy. I cannot date any women because they don't take me serious, because of my husband. I feel...
    maribabi86 maribabi86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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