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I Am a Lesbian Stepmom

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    Man...what An Experience!

    Within the past two years I've become a Lesbian...and...a stepmom. I suppose I'm not legally a stepmom, but in every other aspect my partner's 8 year old son is my step son. I groom him, give him rules, make him food, watch him when he's out of school, deal with the crazy X...
    DizzyDani DizzyDani 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2008

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    Me

    I'm in a relationship with a woman who has 4 children and we are going through a horrible custody battle with the kids dad who is very against us and our lifestyle and who does not support the kids relationship with their mom.
    nadinee nadinee 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Lesbian Stepmom Support!

    Hello! We are a Stepmom Support Group and we specifically advertise for Lesbian Stepmoms! We have a thread and support links just for Lesbian Stepmoms, so you'll fit right in. We're here for YOU! <3 Join us on Facebook here at this link: http://www.facebook.com...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    Lesbian Stepmom Support!

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    Help!!!!

    I have a 8 year old stepdaughter that hates me I have never given her a reason to hate me she doesn't want to live with me she hides an throws my stuff away makes ways for me an her mom to fight very disrespectful to me an her mom and it is destroying me an her moms relationship...
    Laura501 Laura501 26-30 Jun 9, 2012

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    Well...

    I am not really a Step mom I am 19 years old i am datting a 23 year old who has a 3 year old almost four year old daughter i am having a hard time trying to do anything as in punish ment my girlfriend works night so I am here alone with her daughter 3 nights outta the week. I am...
    cthomas09 cthomas09 18-21 6 Responses Jun 25, 2010

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    Seeking Attachment With My Stepdaughter

    Hi, I'm 31 years old and my partner and her daughter came into my life two years ago. Actually, it was my partner and her son, at the time. Not even a year into my relationships with them, this child, just turned 7 year old, announces they feel more like a girl than a boy. She...
    fsonj fsonj 31-35 1 Response Aug 17, 2011

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    I am my parents only child and they divorced when, I was 5 years old. My mother never remarried and until this day has always been single. My father remarried after my mother, and...
    Gray24 Gray24 22-25 Jul 10

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    Childless stepmom to a 9, almost 10, year old boy. My boyfriend and I started dating at 14. We were on/off for 17 years. At 22, he had a fling, and ended up with a child. His mom...
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    I met my partner in 2007 & have since been together. He has 2 children that are now 12 & 13. I at times enjoy being a stepmom, but most recently started to realize it is the...
    Jsauve Jsauve 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I need more control in my life. Being a stepmom and having my husbands children live with us full time and not being able to have my house the way I would like is frustrating...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm a stepmom to 2 teenage girls and a bio mom to a 10 yo, 8 yo boy and an almost 2 yo baby girl. We are a blended family and at first everything was great. Now I'm finding that my...
    gr8csufan gr8csufan 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Sweet Baby Jesus are they boring!!!! My stepmom is neurotic and passive-aggressive and self-absorbed. She has mental breakdowns every day, snaps over the smallest things, and can't...
    SundanceKid3 SundanceKid3 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I honestly am...... i am sick of all the drama that comes with women, all their oversensitiveness to the 'truth' all the up and down with their moods all their different signals...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I know I like girls, so in the least I'm bisexual, but I'm not sure I'm a full lesbian. I don't find guys attractive, even the thought of being with one is just weird for me. But...
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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
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    thesignet thesignet 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    But i have a question.... Im 14 yrs old I am currently defining myself a lesbian, but..... I am a crossdresser (tomboy) I have always wanted to be a male It feels weird that i am a...
    kbforlife kbforlife 13-15, T 4 Responses a week ago

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    I've noticed something on this site. When i meet a lesbian in real life, and not to stereotype anyone and i'm sorry if this comes across as offensive, it's not supposed to, but...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 6 Responses Jun 26

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    Um I don't really know where to start. I've been in the closet since 7th grade that's when I knew.I was afraid to come out because of my family,they are not homophobic to others...
    kenmic153 kenmic153 13-15, F Jun 28

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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
    xiaobaozi xiaobaozi 26-30, F Jun 29

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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
    xiaobaozi xiaobaozi 26-30, F Jun 29

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    I haven't actually had a lesbian sleepover but it would be good to have on to reveal my sexuality a bit. I have experimented with a girl before. Has anyone else wanted to...
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    Lesbians. Lesbians everywhere ;) xx
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