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I Am a Lesbian Stepmom

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 23 People

    Seeking Attachment With My Stepdaughter

    Hi, I'm 31 years old and my partner and her daughter came into my life two years ago. Actually, it was my partner and her son, at the time. Not even a year into my relationships with them, this child, just turned 7 year old, announces they feel more like a girl than a boy. She...
    fsonj fsonj 31-35 1 Response Aug 17, 2011

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    Lesbian Stepmom Support!

    MISSION: The Enlightened Stepmothers' Group is here to help alleviate pain, reduce stress, and help you better relate and understand your situation and role as a Stepmother. We work towards having a healthy, well-functioning stepfamily! :) We are The Sisterhood of Stepmothers...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    Me

    I'm in a relationship with a woman who has 4 children and we are going through a horrible custody battle with the kids dad who is very against us and our lifestyle and who does not support the kids relationship with their mom.
    nadinee nadinee 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2010

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    Well...

    I am not really a Step mom I am 19 years old i am datting a 23 year old who has a 3 year old almost four year old daughter i am having a hard time trying to do anything as in punish ment my girlfriend works night so I am here alone with her daughter 3 nights outta the week. I am...
    cthomas09 cthomas09 18-21 6 Responses Jun 25, 2010

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    Man...what An Experience!

    Within the past two years I've become a Lesbian...and...a stepmom. I suppose I'm not legally a stepmom, but in every other aspect my partner's 8 year old son is my step son. I groom him, give him rules, make him food, watch him when he's out of school, deal with the crazy X...
    DizzyDani DizzyDani 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2008

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    Help!!!!

    I have a 8 year old stepdaughter that hates me I have never given her a reason to hate me she doesn't want to live with me she hides an throws my stuff away makes ways for me an her mom to fight very disrespectful to me an her mom and it is destroying me an her moms relationship...
    Laura501 Laura501 26-30 Jun 9, 2012

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    Lesbian Stepmom Support!

    Hello! We are a Stepmom Support Group and we specifically advertise for Lesbian Stepmoms! We have a thread and support links just for Lesbian Stepmoms, so you'll fit right in. We're here for YOU! <3 Join us on Facebook here at this link: http://www.facebook.com...
    EnlightenedStepmoms EnlightenedStepmoms 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2009

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    It's hard enough being a part time stepmom, but it's absolutely frustrating and at times unbearable being a full time stepmom to two teens. And when husband doesn't follow through...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone I'm new here. I have no children of my own, but I am engaged to someone with three daughters. We have been together for more than 6 years. He has three daughters who...
    stepmom2be1990 stepmom2be1990 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like my stepmom hates me, her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never...
    harliedanielle417 harliedanielle417 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hello I'm new but I really do need advice. I never thought I'd be a stepmom and I hate being one. I dated a guy and already knew he had a daughter from a previous relationship. He...
    AsianBlonde AsianBlonde 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    At 31, I must be so old to this. But for some reason all I have ever had are relationships with people either afraid of committment, or they just want sex. I cry sometimes hearing...
    MirabellMay MirabellMay 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate being a stepmom! I am tired of wasting my life and time raising someone else's child. I sit in the house all day bc I had to be available to babysit when his daughter got...
    amlesa amlesa 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Mashery Mashery 31-35, F Jul 17

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    I have been a stepmom to two boys, who are now 6 and 10 for nearly four years now. I have my own biodaughter who is 12 and awesome. Neither my husband nor I look forward to our...
    whydopeoplelie whydopeoplelie 31-35 1 Response Jul 16

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    I am an 18 year old who has just come to the terms with the fact I am a lesbian, I would like to make friends with other lesbians and I do not know any. Talk to me and maybe we can...
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    I don't expect a woman to fall all over me, but compared to men and women. I literally get hounded from guys and then when I'm around lesbians. I'm like.. "Hmm do I have today's...
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    Just going to be honest here that's what the sites about right? Well my family think being gay or lesbian is an outright sin my cousin moved halfway across the country after coming...
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