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I Am a Lesbian

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jan 30

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    I miss being with a woman.

    ..not just physically....I want the late night calls just to tell her I miss her...texting through the day so she knows im thinking of her...I guess its the romance I miss the most...the thrill of making her mine the reward in the end of her happiness...I want to get to know...
    misslead misslead 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    Any girls my around 18-20 living in Texas?

    Looking for a girlfriend.
    WolfsLullaby WolfsLullaby 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    MaryflockingPoppins MaryflockingPoppins 31-35, F 14 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    "don’t let your kids near gay people,

    they’ll turn gay” oh better not take them to starbucks then or they’ll turn into a f-cking latte. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Hello, I am a lesbian.

    I am looking for someone that will love and cherish me the way I will love and cherish them. I am currently dating a girl who is very abusive. Though, she isn't always bad, when she is, it's very bad. She will push me into walls, call me every name you can think of, and tell me...
    leahdarling leahdarling 18-21 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    The Supreme Court issued in favor of same-sex

    marriage today, I don't think I've ever felt happier in my life... Finally we've won. I'm at a loss of words really I can't even to begin to express how happy I am. Today is a good day!
    CutestDragon CutestDragon 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    I feel like I never get any response from

    lesbians hmm that should change ????
    Misdy Misdy 18-21, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are no lesbians

    where i live i swear.. D:
    ProudGrrMars ProudGrrMars 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I like my men how I like my coffee.

    ........I don't like coffee
    yasmin09 yasmin09 18-21, F 8 Responses May 2

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    Hey! So this is my story.

    I grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I am a Christian myself, a very strong one actually. I grew up hearing all about how bad gay is. My family is 100% against it, which sucks because I love my family so so very much. So I know I could never come out of the closet...
    heartforonlyher heartforonlyher 18-21, F 10 Responses May 8, 2014

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 32 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    I lost my best friend

    because I came out as Gay. What should I do?
    Fridakatie13 Fridakatie13 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    I told my family and they gave me a long list

    of reasons why I am not/shouldn't be a lesbian. Sure it didn't go as bad as I thought it would, but it didn't exactly go well either.
    anonloser anonloser 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Iam getting so tired of lesbian

    who just want sex from me are there any femmes out there who want to talk to me bcuz they find me interesting besides wanting sex. like ik you ladies get sexual frustrated but jezz do you always have to act like rabbits
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 1 Response Jul 23

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 14

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    This is more of a question

    than a story. But I am throwing my girlfriend and my best friend a mini birthday party (they are on the same day). It will be us three and my best friends girl friend. One thing my girl friend loves to do is play truth or dare. Would you if you could suggest some naughty truth...
    SexiKitty42 SexiKitty42 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    It's so weird how femmes expect us to come to

    them instead of them coming to us. we don't know if you like us or not you're just another girl who looks straight
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 1 Response Jul 23

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    Wow!! Just made friends with this beautiful girl

    who is amazing. Too bad she is straight..
    HopelessRomanticNerd HopelessRomanticNerd 16-17, F Jul 20

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    idk why but I feel like a lesbian hippie just

    bc I don't want sex from a femme but just want to talk to one but if things kick off then yeah I'm totally down for it.
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 Jul 23

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 10 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 22-25, F 55 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    like I always wanted to roll over in bed

    and to see the girl that I am in love with and to wake her up by kisses I wouldn't care if she had bad breath bc I will still kiss her. I believe I am making this sound that iam perfect but I'm not, just want to let out how I feel and what my desire
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 Jul 23

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 83 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    I guess I've always known.

    My mom told me that I used to come home from school and talk about the pretty girls in my class. As a result of people in my family always knowing I never had to really come out if was just known.
    CutestDragon CutestDragon 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    I have been bisexual

    for many years and it has been a nice experience, but I have realised that 99.9% of all guys I have ever met are either gross, offensive, rude or hurtful. And a lot of them are all four. However, 99.9% of the girls are brilliant, friendly and kind. Because of this, I have...
    funteengirl funteengirl 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 25

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    im 98.9% sure i am a lesbian

    but i don't know how to tell people. i know most my family is against gay rights and lbgt **** and stuff so i feel uncomfortable telling them but i also feel uncomfortable keeping this secret and if i can't even share this with my family (who's supposed to be most supportive of...
    anonloser anonloser 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    When you tell a straight girl

    that you're gay and their first response is "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm not gay". And you're just like "b!tch stop flattering yourself. I don't like every bloody girl I set my eyes on"
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 9

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    If you ask me what my sexuality is,

    you aren't going to get a straight answer. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I love boobs can u contact me

    so i can see yours
    Thatbeauty18 Thatbeauty18 18-21, F a week ago

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    Im lesbian and love it

    but need a girl to cudfle atm
    lavinder128 lavinder128 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 6 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Ok can someone answer this question

    for me why do shy lesbian stare at another lesbian when they found out the have anger issues ok to but it more bluntly why are some lesbians attracted to anger issued lesbian
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 1 Response Jul 20

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    So, I kinda need advice here- I've been in a

    relationship with my amazing girlfriend for a year now. We're trying hard to get new jobs so we can save up, and get her moved up here permanently. Before that happens though, I have to find a way to tell my parents I've been dating her for a year, she's 25 and I'm 18. Legal...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    Well today is my birthday

    and I got exactly what I wanted....some crazy hot and passionate birthday sex from my girlfriend. We have been dating for a month (officially) and after she took me out to dinner and a walk in the park we went back to my hotel and had AMAZING sex! Usually your first time with...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I can't see you loving someone else

    and asking me to be friends with you. i am done trying, I am done listening to your blames, I am done getting hurt again and again, I am done missing you, I AM DONE LOVING YOU #Goodbye