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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Caitlinpoo126 Caitlinpoo126 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    HannahlovesHH HannahlovesHH 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Yes I am a lesbian And I like to play with my

    self a lot 😉😘😏 Any other ladies on here wanna chat or share pics. I'll share back Only girl NO GUYS
    angielopez angielopez 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    I am such a lesbian,

    that it even baffles me how much a lesbian I am.
    artsywallflower artsywallflower 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always have been. In those pre-teen years,

    I knew I loved girls and never thought anything about it...some girls liked guys, I liked girls and that's just way it was. I loved everything about women. When I was 13, there was a female lifeguard at our pool named Sunny. I had a huge crush on her and my attraction to her...
    SunnyJohansen3 SunnyJohansen3 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Dazednconfussed Dazednconfussed 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am a lesbian. I am single

    and I want to be in a relationship any guys that message me will be blocked. I am naughty sometimes and really nice other times. I will do everything I can to pls a girl. I am really religious
    sofiapilar sofiapilar 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    I am a lesbian and a bi

    and a confused a lil. I have a boyfriend best in the world and I never want life with out him! But I love sleeping with girls... Don't think I could do a relationship but sex don't want to give that up. My boy is mostly okay with me doing this. But most of the time he wants to...
    whoisoutthere whoisoutthere 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Any Girls Out There?

    I'm looking for a girl to call mine <3 and to make her smile, and very happy. I don't care about dating long distance, just as long as I know that ill be able to hold you in my arms one day <3    I am respectful person towards myself and others, I have high self-esteem...
    Girlgamer66 Girlgamer66 16-17, F 14 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I am a lesbian. I do not mind talking with guys

    on here, but you need to know that I have no romantic interest in men. Please keep that in mind when you send me a message.
    KittyBlue3 KittyBlue3 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    I miss being with a woman.

    ..not just physically....I want the late night calls just to tell her I miss her...texting through the day so she knows im thinking of her...I guess its the romance I miss the most...the thrill of making her mine the reward in the end of her happiness...I want to get to know...
    misslead misslead 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    So I like other girls

    but where I'm from no one is actually out or making it easy to tell if they are or not and I just want someone special someone to call mine but most websites I have seen or been on are **** and I really just want to meet someone but I have no idea how. Help? Advice?
    dragonflyjay dragonflyjay 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 10 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Sarabell00 Sarabell00 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I’ve been really stressed lately,

    and I could really use some good advice. I’ve been dating my girlfriend, Valerie, now for nearly a year and half now. She’s in college and I’m a senior in high school. We love each other dearly and would do anything for each other. But, you see, the problem doesn’t lie...
    stellersjay stellersjay 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate how when guys says they can turn

    lesbians, straight. Look we don't turn into lesbians we are born this way and we are not interested in what's between your legs.
    nickynickynoo nickynickynoo 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I have been thinking a lot,

    what's God's purpose of giving me my ex-girlfriend if eventually He will just take it and give it to others. It hit me if it wasn't for her, I would have not concluded and known that I am a lesbian. My childhood was just full of girl crushes, secretly have loved some girls. She...
    pinkroom0 pinkroom0 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    - "Mommy, does Barbie come with Ken?

    - "No, sweetie. She comes with Stacey. She just fakes it with Ken" #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I am 35, seasoned lesbian lover,

    looking for some classy lady friend to hang out wid in Chennai. It cud be anything, just hanging out or making mad passionate love..
    wettlips69 wettlips69 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I am desperately in love with a girl I met

    online. We clicked instantly and dated for 4 months until she said she got tired of my impulsive attitude and my paranoia. We tried getting back 3 weeks ago but again, I ruined it and again she is becoming distant with me. It hurts so much because we had lots of plans and I've...
    WarriorLEHP WarriorLEHP 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    If you ask me what my sexuality is,

    you aren't going to get a straight answer. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I need to start recognizing the difference

    between my gaydar and my "oh dear god I hope she's gay"-dar. #struggles #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Those moments when straight people assume

    you're one of them and you feel like a secret GAYGENT. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People think I'm quiet

    because I'm shy, but it's really because I'm thinking about lesbian sex all day.
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    blondebellybabe blondebellybabe 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Guys please stop messaging me.

    I only like girls. I'll talk to guys who i've talked for for a while but no one else! Girls hmu ;)
    LxbianBabyy LxbianBabyy 18-21, F Feb 19

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    I want to fine someone

    that will love me for me. A girl of my dreams. I'm so cheesy!
    Sakura57 Sakura57 18-21 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 30

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    lesbrianna lesbrianna 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Hey! So this is my story.

    I grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I am a Christian myself, a very strong one actually. I grew up hearing all about how bad gay is. My family is 100% against it, which sucks because I love my family so so very much. So I know I could never come out of the closet...
    heartforonlyher heartforonlyher 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8, 2014

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    I'm not. But I know that

    if I was, I would prefer an Asian or Latin girl. They're very pretty. I realized a few years ago that the reason why I didn't really like to be around Asian girls...was because they are so PRETTY to me. I guess it was a disturbing thought for a straight girl to have. But I...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 83 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    I can't come out of the closet

    for a few more years because my parents are paying for my college and I don't know if they would cut me off. I think they would have a bad reaction. My girlfriend and I are living in secret. Any encouragement to hold on to for this next year?
    bebraveeveryday bebraveeveryday 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    HeterosexualTransexual HeterosexualTransexual 18-21, T 14 hrs ago