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I Am a Lesbian

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I always end up falling

    for girls who are unavailable.... ughh what's wrong with me. I just want to find someone to settle with. Someone that feels for me the same way I feel for her..
    M060110M M060110M 18-21, F a week ago

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    I really really like this friend of mine,

    but she's extremely straight and I'm extremely not. I would really like some feedback/advice on what to do, and how to go about this.
    kodyhoneybadger kodyhoneybadger 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just want a girlfriend

    who loves an cares for me is that so much to ask 😔
    123harry33 123harry33 13-15, T 1 Response a week ago

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    LesbiAngella LesbiAngella 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So bored .. Alone at hotel

    and nothing to do ...
    Pussicats Pussicats 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    15, I like art, poetry,

    music and biology I want to make new friends and maybe someone who I can call mine I'll love you with all my heart, Because if you make me fall for you I'd do anything just to keep you happy :]
    xLittleVampirex xLittleVampirex 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    justine98xxx justine98xxx 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    If you ask me what my sexuality is,

    you aren't going to get a straight answer. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 14

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    Hey so... Yeah it's pretty obvious what I want

    to talk about. I think I like girls. So I have this crush on my close friend. It's been going on about 3 years now and she doesn't even know it. It all started when we were both 13 when I started to have a crush on her... "Lesbi crush haha". We would talk and tell each other's...
    Mindmyfoulmouth Mindmyfoulmouth 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know there are many people out there that's

    probably really stuck at crossroads between the religion and your true self. After years of going through it, my best advice to you is to trust yourself. Trust whatever that you're feeling. And do not let religion compromise what you really feel inside. Yes, religion is...
    redgreenB redgreenB 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not on board with the trend of "no labels"

    the reality is labels define a person. I'm a lesbian. Never been with a man. If I start with "I don't label myself " then men, and people have every right to believe I may be interested in both sexes. So for me.... I'm a lesbian 😊
    Lana102 Lana102 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 32 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    SuumCuique SuumCuique 31-35, F 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 33 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    I am a lesbian. I do not mind talking with guys

    on here, but you need to know that I have no romantic interest in men. Please keep that in mind when you send me a message.
    KittyBlue3 KittyBlue3 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    I've been a lesbian my whole life

    and I wanna meet more girls like me :) whether your or bi or les don't be shy send me a message! I would love to here all your stories :)
    EmilyLikesGirls EmilyLikesGirls 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    iam nadiya from indian.

    i dont want to chat with any guys.because i hate the men.they are selfish.they treat girl as their instrument.after that they will not mind them.i need a girl.i like lesbo girl vvery much.
    nadiyasherin6 nadiyasherin6 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    JulzDaveta JulzDaveta 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I just wanted to take a moment

    and say a huge thank you to everyone that has shared their story with me over the past couple of days. Some are truly heart breaking but others give me hope, hope that through my play and future writing I want to pass on. This means so much to me and the support I get through...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F a week ago

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    So I'm more a bisexual,

    and I have a crush on this cute french girl who turns out to be straight (she has a boyfriend). at first I didn't know it and I sent some signals showing that I like her, and I think she gets it. After I learned that she's dating the guy in our class, I stop contacted her. one...
    greylem greylem 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 83 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Lepotica Lepotica 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 6 Responses May 5, 2013

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    stephanie678 stephanie678 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    justine98xxx justine98xxx 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    Pussicats Pussicats 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I recently got out of a long term relationship.

    I was with her for 4 years and found out that she was cheating on me. I always tell people that it gets better but this is going to take some time. I've been in love before but it wasn't like this.
    Femalebully Femalebully 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 14 Responses Jan 30

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Larissa101496 Larissa101496 18-21, F 1 Response 57 mins ago

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I like my men how I like my coffee.

    ........I don't like coffee
    yasmin09 yasmin09 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm single and ready to mingle!

    lol live in a very small hick town so dating is super hard!
    OklahomaBBW OklahomaBBW 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    I need a lesbian partner.

    anyone who is here in the Pacific. I'm from fiji. so please message if you willing to try. lesbians only
    JulzDaveta JulzDaveta 18-21, F 2 Responses