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I Am a Lesbian

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 19 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Love going to the ocean

    as much as possible, where I meet another lady. We climb in the back of my vehicle, cover the Windows, crawl in between flannel sheets. Thick blankets and explore each other for days. Love that skin to skin contact. Sometimes we walk the beach at night naked, make love under the...
    1babydoll 1babydoll 36-40, F 9 Responses Oct 28, 2015

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    Any lesbian/bisexual girl?

    ? from Mumbai, India around age 13-18 text me :)
    Ananya982 Ananya982 16-17, F Jan 29

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    Him: Hey, baby, you single?

    Me: Yes, do you have a hot sister? 😂😂
    PierceTheSirensFalling PierceTheSirensFalling 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    There is only one lesbian place in my area (im

    talking miles and miles around), it is a pretty bad club/bar thing. No one really goes there anymore.. They closed and re-opened, and im afraid they will be closing again soon. I have a girlfriend but i love going to such places to meet new friends and just feel like a part of...
    TwigOfLife TwigOfLife 22-25, F Jan 26

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I have been bisexual

    for many years and it has been a nice experience, but I have realised that 99.9% of all guys I have ever met are either gross, offensive, rude or hurtful. And a lot of them are all four. However, 99.9% of the girls are brilliant, friendly and kind. Because of this, I have...
    funteengirl funteengirl 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 25, 2015

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    have been into girls

    since i was young at school . I had 2 sexuak uncounters with girls in my teens. Now im in my early 20s iv had 7 serious girlfriends. I love girls .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 29

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    I wonder if you know,

    I wonder if you can tell. The more you get close, the more i crawl back into my shell. I try to resist the temptations, to avoid any complications I don't know if you like me, or if you're only looking for a he. I wish things would be easier, if only i could tell this...
    Sexxii123 Sexxii123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    Hi everyone c: I'm interested in making some

    new friends so please feel free to message me!
    punkandpizza420 punkandpizza420 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 82 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    I fell for a Muslim girl,

    she's a sister of a friend. But I know I definitely have no chance with her because of her religion or maybe her sexuality. But she makes me so confused. When I visited my friend house, she's always around us and she gave me that vibe that she's interested. For example she...
    ch3bby ch3bby 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Day 2 of my time on EP.

    .. and I have met 9 pervs who don't understand the statement "I don't find guys attractive"
    AskingEmilia AskingEmilia 16-17, F 21 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    Happy valentine's week dears.

    . One way, I am glad I am single.. I don't need distractions right now. Besides, dating takes away energy. But again, I feel, in the long term, I will need partner. Life is too long, to live alone. It's going to be tough eventually.. Well... It's only good to wait for...
    carrydawg carrydawg 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I have two kids in their 20s

    and I'm 3 years divorced because I decided I have more of a life to live. I am bi sexual now and enjoying it greatly
    finewineandyoga finewineandyoga 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jan 30, 2015

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    Realized i was gay when i had my 1st gf &

    that was 16-17 yrs ago! Yay!
    hawksnravens hawksnravens 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    NO I have not been hurt by a guy.

    I am not confused. It's not just a phase. I don't hate guys. I simply want a girl.
    krimzzen krimzzen 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    I love being blonde .

    . im very glamorous. .I love my fake nails & my eyelashes. .im a Lip$tick LeZZ xx
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 32 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I am a genuine, educated,

    athletic, handsome, physically fit DISCREET gay man looking for a discreet lesbian to enjoy life with. I am looking to experience all the little things in life with someone special, a best friend, a companion, my partner in crime. I enjoy the beach, dining out, health and...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc 41-45, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 22-25, F 6 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    CovertInk CovertInk 31-35, F 12 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    When you tell a straight girl

    that you're gay and their first response is "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm not gay". And you're just like "b!tch stop flattering yourself. I don't like every bloody girl I set my eyes on"
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Apr 9, 2015

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    I probably have the worst gaydar in the history

    of humanity. What about you, girls? I'd like to hear about your stories for correct/incorrect assumptions.
    auxo auxo 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have to admit, almost every girl I meet on

    here just want to talk about sex xD are there any girls out there who just want clean conversation?
    AskingEmilia2 AskingEmilia2 16-17, F 12 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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    Looking for a woman for fun.

    ....so in the mood..... ; ) Anybody!!!!
    preciouscargo1 preciouscargo1 41-45, F Jan 29

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    justtttt justtttt 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I wish it wasn't so hard to find someone to be

    with. Having to guess if someone you're into likes girls, getting mixed signals, getting played with, getting led on because they're "curious", when the horrible inevitable moment where I constantly fall for a straight girl comes into play and I have to deal/get over that. I...
    doublecornflakes doublecornflakes 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I am a genuine, educated,

    athletic, handsome, physically fit DISCREET gay man looking for a discreet lesbian to enjoy life with. I am looking to experience all the little things in life with someone special, a best friend, a companion, my partner in crime. I enjoy the beach, dining out, health and...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc 41-45, M Jan 29

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    Hi, I am Bean. Les Bean :D (I am

    so sorry) anyyyyway, i am interested in friendships because I feel kinda isolated from the community. (I mean, I only know one other lesbian and she's my gf?) So I would be very much interested to chat and hang out and share thoughts and experiences and such <3
    TwigOfLife TwigOfLife 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Can creepy thirsty, hOrñŷ men like.

    ..FÛÇK OFF??!! I mean seriously, you can't say to a lesbian "you probably had a bad experience" or "that guy was crap" or anything around those terms of trying to "change" a lesbian. We like girls because you men weren't for us OKAY?! jeez
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 20, 2015

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2015

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    I think the act of finding a girl friend us

    so exhausting that you actually do want to give up the task.. Some friend of mine told me, that I need to put what I want out there, and kind of leave it to the universe, and the universe one day will get me a partner.. I pretty much followed it and installed the dating apps...
    carrydawg carrydawg 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    "Cut the ending. Revise the script.

    The man of her dreams is a girl." — Julie Anne Peters
    SapphicHeart SapphicHeart 41-45, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Valley13 Valley13 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    If you ask me what my sexuality is,

    you aren't going to get a straight answer. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 12, 2015

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 22-25, F 56 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    i see so much fetishization of lesbians.

    . it's terribly unpleasant and mildly terrifying :/
    TwigOfLife TwigOfLife 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 1