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I Am a Lesbian

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    Zoexxxx321 Zoexxxx321 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    It's annoying that girls assume

    that I'm flirting with them when I'm just helping them. There's a difference between help and flirt.
    nickynickynoo nickynickynoo 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    People think I'm quiet

    because I'm shy, but it's really because I'm thinking about lesbian sex all day.
    Bythelight0fthemoon Bythelight0fthemoon 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    can we be serious for a moment!

    !!! this girl ropes me in leads me on then tells me she likes someone else. Then she comes out tonight for my best friends birthday! is all over my guy mate infront of me! then is trying to be all over me. is this girl serious. leads me on. tells me she likes someone else...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Let a woman in your life,

    and you invite eternal strive. Let them buy their wedding bands, for those anxious little hands.. I'd be equally as willing for a dentist to be drilling than to ever let a woman in my life. Alright so I'm not totally hostile but this thought occasionally creeps into my mind. I...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I'm a girl, she's a girl.

    We've been friends for quite 3 years but the vibe has changed, I would say on both parts because even though we are very close its becoming to the point where it's getting weird because it's all new. Like new feelings evolved out of no where. She hasn't told me yet, because she...
    ceemayne ceemayne 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    One thing I hate is when I tell someone I'm a

    lesbian and they asked if I've dated a girl before. When I say no they tell me that I'm not a lesbian cause I've never dated a girl before. I'm pretty I know my own sexuality.
    nickynickynoo nickynickynoo 16-17, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 84 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    This femme lesbian at my school always

    complains about how she rarely gets approached by butch/stud lesbians, and I've noticed this is something a lot of femmes go through, so I just want to say my two cents on the topic. The reason some of you femmes might not get approached by a butch/stud (or even another femme...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    i know my best friend like me,

    and really want me , although am not a shy person, when we r alone, i cannot do something, just stay there n watch tv. :), i shy to touch, although she give hints, but i donno how to start! because it is her 1st relation and it would be her 1st kiss. thats why! any help? how to...
    missuniversal missuniversal 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Changes....

    I had my first experience with a woman when I was seventeen. It was a total sursprise to me that I would enjoy it so much. I had always looked at myself as straight and I had no obvious physical indicators to tell me that I might be a lesbian. I was seveteen when she and I met. I...
    jroth jroth 36-40, F 22 Responses Oct 9, 2006

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    This is a public service announcement: do not

    waste your time falling for a straight girl. You're just going to get hurt. I think sexuality is fluid and every girl is curious, but take it from me...straight girls want to be with men and they won't give you a chance for more than a couple months and then break your heart...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 9 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Hey! So this is my story.

    I grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I am a Christian myself, a very strong one actually. I grew up hearing all about how bad gay is. My family is 100% against it, which sucks because I love my family so so very much. So I know I could never come out of the closet...
    heartforonlyher heartforonlyher 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8, 2014

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I am a lesbian. I do not mind talking with guys

    on here, but you need to know that I have no romantic interest in men. Please keep that in mind when you send me a message.
    KittyBlue3 KittyBlue3 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    Being a lesbian sucks

    because your almost always in the friend zone..
    hayleecharms hayleecharms 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother realized this far earlier

    than I, when at the tender age of five, I did nothing but talk about my freckle faced classmate with the golden braids... I realized it later than I should have, at 17 years of age if my memory serves me correctly. I don't recall having much sexual interest in anyone growing...
    Sohryuden Sohryuden 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    It's sunday. I got up from bed a little

    after 10. It was raining; seems like it's not gonna stop anytime soon. I checked my phone; 4 chats from my friend, Daisy. She and her girlfriend already made up. They had a fight a few days ago because Daisy hung out with her highschool gang and her ex is one of them. Good for...
    ellen023 ellen023 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    why can't I have anything good

    and happy? my ex girlfriend trampled all over me. Broke my heart and left me in bits Then I finally take a risk and start seeing someone new and stupidly let myself like her!!!! and now she tells me that she has feelings for someone else. No I just feel crushed and sad. I...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Message me ladies :) looking

    for chat and fun!
    chantalbae chantalbae 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    YEP! Thats me(: I am very open about my sex life

    and all that lesbian stuff. I made a tumblr account devoted to my lesbian life so follow me on there please(: Im SirenofScarlet
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm frustrated. I am lonely.

    And I am pessimistic. And it really gets to me when I see movies... For example, when they show people (straight of gay) going to a party, being akward or feeling out of place, and suddenly someone comes along, says something and they are like "You wanna get out of here?" And...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 46 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    alexuslovespandas alexuslovespandas 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Straight girls are so confusing

    once they like you, stay far away from me. I don't need you to explore my route lol I'm pissed. Go flirt with a bisexual, run along lol
    ceemayne ceemayne 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    so again my third friend got married to her

    girlfriend, I attended but seriously I was very jealous and kept thinking when will I get to bend on one knee and propose? when will I have that partnership of true love? don't mean to be selfish but Damn am turning 27 own my own business n home yet success doesn't give me the...
    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    Please tell me that you all fell really hard

    for the first girl you dated after you came out to people and that I'm not going mad!
    djps djps 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well today is my birthday

    and I got exactly what I wanted....some crazy hot and passionate birthday sex from my girlfriend. We have been dating for a month (officially) and after she took me out to dinner and a walk in the park we went back to my hotel and had AMAZING sex! Usually your first time with...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    Don't you get really excited

    when you see another gay person in a normal place?. Today I saw at my college campus this cute lesbian and I’m just like running back and forth from where she was like HEY LOOK AT ME I’M GAY TOO. LETS BE FRIENDS. Too bad my social anxiety stopped me from talking to her.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I guess but I still get crushes on guys

    but girls are way better in a way you don't understand.
    lovecakes101 lovecakes101 18-21, F 29 mins ago

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Mmmm.... Anyone wanna chat ?

    ? So bored n so stressful :(
    Choteaz Choteaz 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Date night with my girlfriend.

    We went to friends house (mainly people she knows) for a party. We were welcoming the first parade of the Mardi Gras year. Party isn't the greatest atmosphere for romance but still had a fun night out. Though I didn't know most of the people, they made me feel welcomed. Best...
    karinawheels karinawheels 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm going to up the ante here.

    I'm a lesbian with a cat :)
    Lana102 Lana102 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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