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I Am a Lesbian

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    I'm gaaaay :P Ugh but all I have is pizza.

    .. I still need someone to cuddle with 🙊 Haha
    XDisputeTheHorizonx XDisputeTheHorizonx 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    AllieLe AllieLe 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm going on my first date with a girl tomorrow

    and I'm really nervous. I used to work with her but we didn't really talk that much. I don't know if I'm supposed to offer to pay or whatever and I'm worried incase it's just gonna be awkward? We're going to the cinema and then for food which I think will be fun but I'm just so...
    sikipon sikipon 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 23

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Someone come chat me up,

    pass my time. Don't bother if you have a disgusting personality.
    InexplicablyWrong InexplicablyWrong 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    She was my best friend

    and we were so close but i cant continue like that because she tell every thing about her boyfriends and it´s killing me Every time i decide to forget about her all my feelings come back with the first msg by her or the first photo posted by her Ive been in love with her for...
    sikipon sikipon 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    I enjoy being lesbian- I'm free

    and don't feel trapped anymore
    tcholoe1488 tcholoe1488 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Plzzzzzz i need help i'm the girl

    that i send you a question about the girl that ive been in love with her for this 5 years can you help me
    sikipon sikipon 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Changes....

    I had my first experience with a woman when I was seventeen. It was a total sursprise to me that I would enjoy it so much. I had always looked at myself as straight and I had no obvious physical indicators to tell me that I might be a lesbian. I was seveteen when she and I met. I...
    jroth jroth 36-40, F 21 Responses Oct 9, 2006

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    My parents are way too catholic,

    and they think being homo is such and abomination, in my opinion we're who we are, and it's quite sad that they see as a monster someone they raised...
    AllieLe AllieLe 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    To anyone who's looking

    for a friend or anything I'm here anyone that can keep a convo just txt me c: loves ~
    alexuslovespandas alexuslovespandas 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    To get out of it or not to get out of it?

    Been hanging out with Ze crush (who has a bf) numerous times now. And the question I ask myself is, should I get out of it now before it's too late? It's never right doing all these things. And I know I'll always be at the losing end no matter how much good I see in this.
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Any Girls Out There?

    I'm looking for a girl to call mine <3 and to make her smile, and very happy. I don't care about dating long distance, just as long as I know that ill be able to hold you in my arms one day <3    I am respectful person towards myself and others, I have high self-esteem...
    Girlgamer66 Girlgamer66 16-17, F 15 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    Any lesbians wanna chat?

    My k-ik is a.clh
    adeechloe adeechloe 13-15, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    So me and my girlfriend would make 1 year in a

    month and a half however, we're on a break right now. People have been feeding her lies about me and she doesn't believe I'm mentally stable enough for a relationship. I'm in love with her. What do I do?
    sikipon sikipon 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    What Type of Lesbian Are You?

    STUDS   I. "touch me not" Butch/Stud   This is usually the type of dyke that has gender identity disorder (she thinks and wants to be a man).She takes on the very dominant role in relationships, the male role to be exact. She dresses like a man and acts...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 85 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Well today is my birthday

    and I got exactly what I wanted....some crazy hot and passionate birthday sex from my girlfriend. We have been dating for a month (officially) and after she took me out to dinner and a walk in the park we went back to my hotel and had AMAZING sex! Usually your first time with...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 27

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    I'm proud of it I'm not going to hide in the

    closet to make homophobic people feel good about their heterosexuality I'm Free and this is my life and no other's worry about your own damn lifestyles and stay out of ours
    UniversalVisions UniversalVisions 26-30, F Oct 23

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    My dad is finally coming around

    after three years, and I couldn't be happier. He's spending time with my girlfriend and I. He's laughing at jokes I make about it. I'm so happy he's trying to move past his misunderstandings about the lgbt community.
    nichollrb nichollrb 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    i really like girls who dont wear make up i

    find them really pretty ^^
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So that happened. I

    when to see my ex to get stuff yesterday. And yes I did eyeball ****. And then she ends up coming back to mine and well. You know how it goes. So I wake up today with hickys and scratches feeling blissfully happy but not really sure what to do from here.
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    if you like anime, kpop,

    and you are extremely weird and hates mayo i'll probably end up marrying you O_o
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    katiet98 katiet98 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a gay woman looking

    for chat in the uk x
    sarah36brit sarah36brit 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I'm starting 2015 with some straight up pride

    yo!!!!!!!! I'm so glad I chose to be honest with myself the summer of 2014 ! life could not be any better at this moment, I'm so grateful I have an amazing family who still loves me for who I am and has been supportive of me :)
    Gabsters05 Gabsters05 16-17, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I had enough guts to try

    and get to know this girl from a store I work at. It was a working relationship really. we would see each other and smile every day. I remembered I had a class with her in Highschool and thought she was an odd one for wearing these shoes that outline your foot. I thought it was...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Any lesbians up for a dirty chat

    and maybe we can trade pics :)
    lucylicks124 lucylicks124 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    I'm just feeling crappy right now.

    I guess it's one of those moments. Makes me think about everything I've been doing and how I want to move into 2015. Sucky feelings suck.
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    This femme lesbian at my school always

    complains about how she rarely gets approached by butch/stud lesbians, and I've noticed this is something a lot of femmes go through, so I just want to say my two cents on the topic. The reason some of you femmes might not get approached by a butch/stud (or even another femme...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 25

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    So I've been talking to my ex (a little) I've

    not seen her at all. Tomorrow I will see her for the first time in ages. I need to go get some stuff from her house it can't be avoided. The thing is she may have broken my heart but she is still sexy as hell. I don't want to be eyeball ******* her when I see her because she...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Since as long as I've known what homosexuality

    is, I have known that that is what I am. Growing up I always had crushes on girls and women, just as my friends would have for boys. As an adolescent I came to understand my sexuality better, and as recently as a couple of years ago experiment sexually with men, I know that my...
    Kittymewmew93 Kittymewmew93 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    cute things to call your girlfriend: 1.

    sugar 2. honey 3. flour 4. egg 5. 1/2lb butter 6. stir 7. pour into pan 8. preheat to 375°
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    it was really great to have a Online Le*bo

    session with MOM.. 1st She dressed me up for her play thing... thn the game started between Mom n her lil Daughter.... it was so hot online play... which made both Mom n Daughter to play with their things so passionately, to grind ovr eachother n play with a Double-ended Di...
    preetizintababe1 preetizintababe1 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I feel bad. I think it kinda affected my

    brother's relationship too. I was only 10 when I crushed on my brother's girlfriend, I would always interrupt their time together just to get her attention. She told me I was cute but not cute as in a attractive way, cute as in kiddy way. I was happy to hear those words. But...
    ConstantHope ConstantHope 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Don't you get really excited

    when you see another gay person in a normal place?. Today I saw at my college campus this cute lesbian and I’m just like running back and forth from where she was like HEY LOOK AT ME I’M GAY TOO. LETS BE FRIENDS. Too bad my social anxiety stopped me from talking to her.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 9 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    lux2288 lux2288 26-30, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 5 Responses