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I Am a Lesbian

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    ****, I think I'm falling

    for this girl who already has a bf. We slept together for a couple of times and we've been hanging out more frequently than before (we've known each other for 4 years). This is crazy. I know I need to get out of this fast before things start to get out of hand. We both did...
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    PLEASE TO ALLLLL MEN I am a lesbian.

    .. means I love women, you can not change me, you can not turn me on the other side, I don't have a switch on and off to change from lesbian to straight... as you don't have one to turn you from Straight to gay whenever you want too... what ever stuff you got in your pants... I...
    chanjen chanjen 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Any Girls Out There?

    I'm looking for a girl to call mine <3 and to make her smile, and very happy. I don't care about dating long distance, just as long as I know that ill be able to hold you in my arms one day <3    I am respectful person towards myself and others, I have high self-esteem...
    Girlgamer66 Girlgamer66 16-17, F 15 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    It's weird. I went back

    and made a profile on this social gay dating site, It's the same place where I got that message from her almost a year ago. I can't believe time has gone by so fast. That night I told her I loved her and she said she didn't feel the same. I've written about that experience here...
    vranaD vranaD 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 46 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 23

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    Miss2015 Miss2015 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I liked girls every since I was little I felt

    more comfy with them and free I didn't have to figure them out like boys I always loved women I always watched lesbian **** kissed my friends touched feel etc I decided in 7th grade I was lesbian. Such a young age isn't it? I was/am full of knowledge my childhood ended early at...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a lesbian. I do not mind talking with guys

    on here, but you need to know that I have no romantic interest in men. Please keep that in mind when you send me a message.
    KittyBlue3 KittyBlue3 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 27

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    I'm proud of it I'm not going to hide in the

    closet to make homophobic people feel good about their heterosexuality I'm Free and this is my life and no other's worry about your own damn lifestyles and stay out of ours
    UniversalVisions UniversalVisions 26-30, F Oct 23

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 2

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    Miss2015 Miss2015 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 9 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    notatrustfundbaby notatrustfundbaby 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    Coming out was the best thing I have ever done

    for myself. I have always been the one that worries about everyone else first then I deal with my problems later. Since I was younger I knew I was never really into men but at the time being a lesbian was really not acceptable and super abnormal. As I grew up I dated a handful...
    foreverbeautifultoni foreverbeautifultoni 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Miss2015 Miss2015 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Don't you get really excited

    when you see another gay person in a normal place?. Today I saw at my college campus this cute lesbian and I’m just like running back and forth from where she was like HEY LOOK AT ME I’M GAY TOO. LETS BE FRIENDS. Too bad my social anxiety stopped me from talking to her.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    I have been attracted to girls

    for as long as i can remember. a girl was my first crush, first kiss and first time i had sex and orgasmed. For me there is nothing better than the scent, touch taste and sight of an aroused woman
    drachenReiter drachenReiter 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Just because I find a guy attractive

    that doesn't make me any less then lesbian. People don't know the definition.
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 1 Response 22 mins ago

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    sydlittle sydlittle 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 35 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 85 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    What Type of Lesbian Are You?

    STUDS   I. "touch me not" Butch/Stud   This is usually the type of dyke that has gender identity disorder (she thinks and wants to be a man).She takes on the very dominant role in relationships, the male role to be exact. She dresses like a man and acts...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 85 Responses May 27, 2009

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    Hey guys somebody talk to me please ?

    Im having a horrible day today. But I can never have a girlfriend that will let me tell her my feelings it's so awful knowing I have nobody. But im kissing the haters bye 😘
    jaymieetaylor jaymieetaylor 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Any body else stuck studying

    for college finals like I am tonight... Hit me up!!!
    Justanotherlez Justanotherlez 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Looking for friends/casual dating.

    Please be 16 or older for casual dating. friends can be any age
    DuskWinters DuskWinters 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Katie4321 Katie4321 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i want a gay bestfriend.

    by gay i mean lesbian, and by bestfriend i mean girlfriend 😂
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Miss2015 Miss2015 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I can't talk to women,

    I can't even approach them or look at them for to long. I'm not actually interested in dating or a relationship. I've just gone through a break up and want to be alone. but I want to prove to myself that I can approach a woman, for when I'm ready to move on in the very very...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Men are so dumb, they only like external traits

    on women... Yes, men's stupid habitual ways have led me into becoming who I am today... I AM A BEAUTIFUL MAN LIVING IN A WOMAN'S BODY... I CAN BE STRONGER THAN ANY MAN... SOME WOMEN ARE SUCH PETALS THEY HAVE THE MEN AT THEIR FEET, BUT I'VE GOTTEN A CLEAR MESSAGE WHICH LED ME...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    i cant wait to find that special someone.

    i would do anything for her!even swim the oceans if i have to!lol joke there are sharks in there :p
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Changes....

    I had my first experience with a woman when I was seventeen. It was a total sursprise to me that I would enjoy it so much. I had always looked at myself as straight and I had no obvious physical indicators to tell me that I might be a lesbian. I was seveteen when she and I met. I...
    jroth jroth 36-40, F 21 Responses Oct 9, 2006

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    Hey! So this is my story.

    I grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I am a Christian myself, a very strong one actually. I grew up hearing all about how bad gay is. My family is 100% against it, which sucks because I love my family so so very much. So I know I could never come out of the closet...
    heartforonlyher heartforonlyher 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    anyone wanna chat and get to know each other?

    I'm 22, femme, tattooed, and into fitness :) looking for lesbian friends or possibly a girlfriend :)
    sydlittle sydlittle 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    My dad is finally coming around

    after three years, and I couldn't be happier. He's spending time with my girlfriend and I. He's laughing at jokes I make about it. I'm so happy he's trying to move past his misunderstandings about the lgbt community.
    nichollrb nichollrb 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    This femme lesbian at my school always

    complains about how she rarely gets approached by butch/stud lesbians, and I've noticed this is something a lot of femmes go through, so I just want to say my two cents on the topic. The reason some of you femmes might not get approached by a butch/stud (or even another femme...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 25

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    taylorbaby0117 taylorbaby0117 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Hi. I am bored. Message me

    if anyone wants to talk. I am okay to talk about anything.
    Lyann1234 Lyann1234 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    angelc4321 angelc4321 18-21, F 1 day ago

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