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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 83 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    When you tell a straight girl

    that you're gay and their first response is "I have a boyfriend" or "I'm not gay". And you're just like "b!tch stop flattering yourself. I don't like every bloody girl I set my eyes on"
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 9

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I am a lesbian looking

    for a girl to talk to
    Misdy Misdy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 14 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    "don’t let your kids near gay people,

    they’ll turn gay” oh better not take them to starbucks then or they’ll turn into a f-cking latte. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    im 98.9% sure i am a lesbian

    but i don't know how to tell people. i know most my family is against gay rights and lbgt **** and stuff so i feel uncomfortable telling them but i also feel uncomfortable keeping this secret and if i can't even share this with my family (who's supposed to be most supportive of...
    anonloser anonloser 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    .... Or at least I think I am.

    It's all confusing! I've been in the 'Bi' category for years, but for a while now I've been wondering.. The first time I realised I was attracted to girls and not just kissing (and more) cause it's fun, was at college. It was intense, the feelings I had for her. Yes, I've...
    marvelchic88 marvelchic88 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Hello, I am a lesbian.

    I am looking for someone that will love and cherish me the way I will love and cherish them. I am currently dating a girl who is very abusive. Though, she isn't always bad, when she is, it's very bad. She will push me into walls, call me every name you can think of, and tell me...
    leahdarling leahdarling 18-21 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Supreme Court issued in favor of same-sex

    marriage today, I don't think I've ever felt happier in my life... Finally we've won. I'm at a loss of words really I can't even to begin to express how happy I am. Today is a good day!
    CutestDragon CutestDragon 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 10 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Im lesbian and love it

    but need a girl to cudfle atm
    lavinder128 lavinder128 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    In late March, I broke up with my girlfriend

    because she's in love with my best friend. He's a guy. I think they're dating now. #FML
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    This is more of a question

    than a story. But I am throwing my girlfriend and my best friend a mini birthday party (they are on the same day). It will be us three and my best friends girl friend. One thing my girl friend loves to do is play truth or dare. Would you if you could suggest some naughty truth...
    SexiKitty42 SexiKitty42 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    MaryflockingPoppins MaryflockingPoppins 31-35, F 14 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    ilovespongebob23 ilovespongebob23 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I told my family and they gave me a long list

    of reasons why I am not/shouldn't be a lesbian. Sure it didn't go as bad as I thought it would, but it didn't exactly go well either.
    anonloser anonloser 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Iam getting so tired of lesbian

    who just want sex from me are there any femmes out there who want to talk to me bcuz they find me interesting besides wanting sex. like ik you ladies get sexual frustrated but jezz do you always have to act like rabbits
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 1 Response Jul 23

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    A little over 6 months ago I went

    for it with a straight girl. I decided to send flowers to her work from a secret admirer and reveal myself as the one who sent them. She works at the bank and a week later called my number. I stepped away from my desk. We were both at work and she told me she was flattered and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jan 30

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 6 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Woman are so beautiful,

    I love the female body 😍 it's so indulging & sexy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23

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    Ok if a girl ever gets on top of you the best

    way is to move your hips and thighs around her you know what and say ride it cowgirl ;) :)
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 Jul 19

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    I'm a hairy, Harry Potter-lovin' lesbian :)

    if you've got hairy legs or pits and love Harry Potter, send me a message! I would love to meet like-minded women!
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F Jul 18

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    So, I kinda need advice here- I've been in a

    relationship with my amazing girlfriend for a year now. We're trying hard to get new jobs so we can save up, and get her moved up here permanently. Before that happens though, I have to find a way to tell my parents I've been dating her for a year, she's 25 and I'm 18. Legal...
    IcySongBird IcySongBird 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Wow!! Just made friends with this beautiful girl

    who is amazing. Too bad she is straight..
    HopelessRomanticNerd HopelessRomanticNerd 16-17, F Jul 20

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    I have been bisexual

    for many years and it has been a nice experience, but I have realised that 99.9% of all guys I have ever met are either gross, offensive, rude or hurtful. And a lot of them are all four. However, 99.9% of the girls are brilliant, friendly and kind. Because of this, I have...
    funteengirl funteengirl 18-21, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    idk why but I feel like a lesbian hippie just

    bc I don't want sex from a femme but just want to talk to one but if things kick off then yeah I'm totally down for it.
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 Jul 23

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    AmyLesbian AmyLesbian 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Ever since I was little it's been pretty well

    known in my house and with close family friends that I was gay. When I used to come home from school I used to tell my mom about all the pretty girls and all the girls that I liked. She never tried to tell me I was wrong or that I should like boys or anything like that, she...
    Lucieepie Lucieepie 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not here to perv

    or to be perved on. I like women but I don't necessarily feel the need to talk about my sexual past or to even be sexual with you in any way. Don't get me wrong, i love a good perv.. However if your focus is strictly sexual and you seem to think that getting to know me means...
    MaryflockingPoppins MaryflockingPoppins 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 32 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    like I always wanted to roll over in bed

    and to see the girl that I am in love with and to wake her up by kisses I wouldn't care if she had bad breath bc I will still kiss her. I believe I am making this sound that iam perfect but I'm not, just want to let out how I feel and what my desire
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 Jul 23

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 14

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    It's so weird how femmes expect us to come to

    them instead of them coming to us. we don't know if you like us or not you're just another girl who looks straight
    cantstop1234 cantstop1234 16-17 1 Response Jul 23

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 14

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    If you ask me what my sexuality is,

    you aren't going to get a straight answer. #teamlesbians
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I miss being with a woman.

    ..not just physically....I want the late night calls just to tell her I miss her...texting through the day so she knows im thinking of her...I guess its the romance I miss the most...the thrill of making her mine the reward in the end of her happiness...I want to get to know...
    misslead misslead 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    i love how you always sit next to me every

    chance you get. i love how you move closer to me because you say you don't feel close enough. i love how you lock your arm around mine and rub my arm gently. i love that you love to snuggle me. i love that you always make time for me. i love how you give me your attention. i...
    Josiee23 Josiee23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impre