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I Am a Lesbian

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    Looking for friends/casual dating.

    Please be 16 or older for casual dating. friends can be any age
    DuskWinters DuskWinters 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Operation Tell Mama I’m Gay - Failed

    I know from the title alone it says I’m a complete loser already.. hahah but what the heck, I’m still telling this to get this off my chest! So yeah, I know a week ago, I’ve told my life changing plan to come out of the closet.. Well, was coming out of the closet as good as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Uncharted

    So, a little about me...I'm a 42 year old wife and mother of two wonderful boys. We live in a small town in upstate NY and both my husband and I work and have a decent home, family life and many of our friends and family would describe us as "Best friends" To those who know us...
    Indigolesbian70 Indigolesbian70 41-45, F 17 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    As me being a female,

    I get a lot of messages from guys, and most do think as their first impression of me as a straight female. (Unless they've read through my experiences, they'll ask lots of questions about my sexuality) I'm not the type to speak upon myself telling them I'm a lesbian very time a...
    Antonice Antonice 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    angelc4321 angelc4321 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    My dad is finally coming around

    after three years, and I couldn't be happier. He's spending time with my girlfriend and I. He's laughing at jokes I make about it. I'm so happy he's trying to move past his misunderstandings about the lgbt community.
    nichollrb nichollrb 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    i want a gay bestfriend.

    by gay i mean lesbian, and by bestfriend i mean girlfriend 😂
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    What Type of Lesbian Are You?

    STUDS   I. "touch me not" Butch/Stud   This is usually the type of dyke that has gender identity disorder (she thinks and wants to be a man).She takes on the very dominant role in relationships, the male role to be exact. She dresses like a man and acts...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F 85 Responses May 27, 2009

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    I liked girls every since I was little I felt

    more comfy with them and free I didn't have to figure them out like boys I always loved women I always watched lesbian **** kissed my friends touched feel etc I decided in 7th grade I was lesbian. Such a young age isn't it? I was/am full of knowledge my childhood ended early at...
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 23

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    Katie4321 Katie4321 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    i cant wait to find that special someone.

    i would do anything for her!even swim the oceans if i have to!lol joke there are sharks in there :p
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 7 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    anyone wanna chat and get to know each other?

    I'm 22, femme, tattooed, and into fitness :) looking for lesbian friends or possibly a girlfriend :)
    sydlittle sydlittle 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I can't talk to women,

    I can't even approach them or look at them for to long. I'm not actually interested in dating or a relationship. I've just gone through a break up and want to be alone. but I want to prove to myself that I can approach a woman, for when I'm ready to move on in the very very...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    notatrustfundbaby notatrustfundbaby 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Hey! So this is my story.

    I grew up in a very conservative Christian home. I am a Christian myself, a very strong one actually. I grew up hearing all about how bad gay is. My family is 100% against it, which sucks because I love my family so so very much. So I know I could never come out of the closet...
    heartforonlyher heartforonlyher 18-21, F 13 Responses May 8

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    Yesmisstress Yesmisstress 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Well today is my birthday

    and I got exactly what I wanted....some crazy hot and passionate birthday sex from my girlfriend. We have been dating for a month (officially) and after she took me out to dinner and a walk in the park we went back to my hotel and had AMAZING sex! Usually your first time with...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 27

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    Yesmisstress Yesmisstress 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    taylorbaby0117 taylorbaby0117 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 5

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    Lesbianmariax Lesbianmariax 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Yesmisstress Yesmisstress 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Lesbians or Letsbefriends?

    I'm good with either xD
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 47 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Any body else stuck studying

    for college finals like I am tonight... Hit me up!!!
    Justanotherlez Justanotherlez 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 35 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    Lesbianmariax Lesbianmariax 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Changes....

    I had my first experience with a woman when I was seventeen. It was a total sursprise to me that I would enjoy it so much. I had always looked at myself as straight and I had no obvious physical indicators to tell me that I might be a lesbian. I was seveteen when she and I met. I...
    jroth jroth 36-40, F 21 Responses Oct 9, 2006

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    I pretty much decided I'm going to propose to

    her before her next deployment. I was going to wait until she's back from it but I don't think I want to. :) <3 Wish time would speed up so she'd come home from this one, already!
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hey everyone! I'm 14.

    I'm looking for a girl who can make me laugh, be there for me, and listen to my depressing arse. But, anyone 14-16 interested message me.^^
    Areidarkwolf12 Areidarkwolf12 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    How to ask a girl out?

    Has to be private but romantic & cute at the same time? HELP!
    TheShipsGoingDown TheShipsGoingDown 13-15, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Coming out was the best thing I have ever done

    for myself. I have always been the one that worries about everyone else first then I deal with my problems later. Since I was younger I knew I was never really into men but at the time being a lesbian was really not acceptable and super abnormal. As I grew up I dated a handful...
    foreverbeautifultoni foreverbeautifultoni 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    ****, I think I'm falling

    for this girl who already has a bf. We slept together for a couple of times and we've been hanging out more frequently than before (we've known each other for 4 years). This is crazy. I know I need to get out of this fast before things start to get out of hand. We both did...
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a lesbian. I do not mind talking with guys

    on here, but you need to know that I have no romantic interest in men. Please keep that in mind when you send me a message.
    KittyBlue3 KittyBlue3 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 27

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    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Any Girls Out There?

    I'm looking for a girl to call mine <3 and to make her smile, and very happy. I don't care about dating long distance, just as long as I know that ill be able to hold you in my arms one day <3    I am respectful person towards myself and others, I have high self-esteem...
    Girlgamer66 Girlgamer66 16-17, F 15 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 11 Responses Nov 2

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    taylorbaby0117 taylorbaby0117 13-15, F a week ago

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    I'm frustrated. I work with this girl.

    She's gorgeous and funny. We get along really well I love being around her. I'm pretty sure she's not gay. We're friends and I'm fine with that. BUT it's a little frustrating some times. Like today when we were walking back to the car from this thing we were doing for work. She...
    wanion wanion 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Don't you get really excited

    when you see another gay person in a normal place?. Today I saw at my college campus this cute lesbian and I’m just like running back and forth from where she was like HEY LOOK AT ME I’M GAY TOO. LETS BE FRIENDS. Too bad my social anxiety stopped me from talking to her.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 12

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 9 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    I'm coming to terms with it still.

    I can't deny that I'm more attracted to women and turned on by the thought of going down on one. I just wish I could find someone willing to share a lesbian sexual experience with me.
    sydlittle sydlittle 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm proud of it I'm not going to hide in the

    closet to make homophobic people feel good about their heterosexuality I'm Free and this is my life and no other's worry about your own damn lifestyles and stay out of ours
    UniversalVisions UniversalVisions 26-30, F Oct 23

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 85 Responses Jan 8, 2009