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I Am a Lesbian

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    I'm frustrated. I am lonely.

    And I am pessimistic. And it really gets to me when I see movies... For example, when they show people (straight of gay) going to a party, being akward or feeling out of place, and suddenly someone comes along, says something and they are like "You wanna get out of here?" And...
    aloneforlong aloneforlong 22-25, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Anyone from SF or the surrounding Bay Area?

    I wanna go to the Lex before it closes
    Thatonegirljules Thatonegirljules 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    i remember when i was little i used to act like

    a boy all the time.and my grandma tried to understand me so she started buying me boy clothes haha but i told her i do like playing with toys that boys play like guns and knives but at the same time i still like wearing dresses.i totally got her confused lol
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Changes....

    I had my first experience with a woman when I was seventeen. It was a total sursprise to me that I would enjoy it so much. I had always looked at myself as straight and I had no obvious physical indicators to tell me that I might be a lesbian. I was seveteen when she and I met. I...
    jroth jroth 36-40, F 22 Responses Oct 9, 2006

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    Any Girls Out There?

    I'm looking for a girl to call mine <3 and to make her smile, and very happy. I don't care about dating long distance, just as long as I know that ill be able to hold you in my arms one day <3    I am respectful person towards myself and others, I have high self-esteem...
    Girlgamer66 Girlgamer66 16-17, F 15 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    Heyyyyy Ladies

    Just dropping in to say hey. Trying to add some more like minded ladies. New to the site so bare with me as i get more pics up and write out more stories. I do most of this from my phone as my laptop is broke. I just had foot surgery a few weeks ago and im still recovering from...
    blndtwr31 blndtwr31 31-35, F 34 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    Straight girls are so confusing

    once they like you, stay far away from me. I don't need you to explore my route lol I'm pissed. Go flirt with a bisexual, run along lol
    ceemayne ceemayne 22-25, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    You Are... You are the breeze

    that sweeps my hair And whispers in my ear... Reminding me yet again I'd do anything to have you here... You are the ghost that haunts my dreams Squeezing my heart in your fist... Waking me with longing Burning my weary eyes with obsessive wish... You are the emptiness that...
    summerbaby73 summerbaby73 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a lesbian but thing is with lesbians,

    some love skinny girls and some love curvy girls. But for me, I don't care what size a girl is, if I fall for her then I fall for her. That's how it goes.
    Blueeyedprincesses Blueeyedprincesses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    Jamaicanles Jamaicanles 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    maybe im a lesbian.maybe im not.

    lol just kidding im a lesbian .-.
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    the perfect proposal would be taking your

    girlfriend in the middle of the ocean and asking her "marry me or get off my boat" <3
    lushsummer lushsummer 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Honorary Lesbian

    I am a male, but; I was in a bar one night when the bartender called out. "raise your hand if you are a lesbian!" I raised my hand with several women. They looked at me, and someone asked "how can YOU be a lesbian?" I told her that I wouldn't consider going out with a man, and I...
    fredcs fredcs 46-50, M 9 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    i know my best friend like me,

    and really want me , although am not a shy person, when we r alone, i cannot do something, just stay there n watch tv. :), i shy to touch, although she give hints, but i donno how to start! because it is her 1st relation and it would be her 1st kiss. thats why! any help? how to...
    missuniversal missuniversal 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Being a lesbian sucks

    because your almost always in the friend zone..
    hayleecharms hayleecharms 13-15, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    zonga67 zonga67 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    YEP! Thats me(: I am very open about my sex life

    and all that lesbian stuff. I made a tumblr account devoted to my lesbian life so follow me on there please(: Im SirenofScarlet
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    So Here I Am - Part 3 - Life --as It Is Now ( To Be Read Aloud)

    My life had changed forever. My soul was liberated..free..I was forever in this tumultuous, swirling state of insatiable desire, boundless expectations, unbearable tension , paralyzing fear, and .... ecstasy again and again. I was in love ..... The next day , Laura and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Oct 23, 2012

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    Mmmm.... Anyone wanna chat ?

    ? So bored n so stressful :(
    Choteaz Choteaz 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Tbh everyone says though I don't look it,

    I act like the stereotypical lesbian, I'm in the army cadets and want to join the army when I'm older, and I act like a complete guy (so people say XD) but I also am quite petite A
    pxrfxctdxrk pxrfxctdxrk 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm going to up the ante here.

    I'm a lesbian with a cat :)
    Lana102 Lana102 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey, I'm wondering if anyone is looking

    for a girlfriend..? I'm 14 currently, 15 next month. And, I'm looking for a relationship, someone who can like me for who I am, as well as what I look like. And, please. No dirty chat ****. I'm sick of it. But, yeah. Just shoot me a message! Have a wonderful day!^^
    Areidarkwolf12 Areidarkwolf12 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey guys guess what! .

    . . . . . . . . I'm gay... . . . . So.... . . . . . . . . . . . . Yea... 😁✌️
    AlphaBloodMoon AlphaBloodMoon 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    What part of that do guys not understand!

    They must all think they are the one that is gonna convert me! Well guess what guys, I am in no way attracted to you. I love girls. So please don't message me or talk to me saying you just want to make friends! The only people I want to make friends with on here are the ones...
    cutelilem cutelilem 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    For me it was like this: All the time

    since childhood I couldn't understand why do girls talk about having crushes on guys and everybody asked me "what guys do you like" all the time but I coudn't be in love with guys. I tryed to find something to make me fall for guys but I called it just not for me and i simply...
    PaintDrop PaintDrop 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    I Love You! Catch Me Or Not I'll Still Jump!

    It's been a month since I last wrote my coming out story with my mom. But now, I'm going to write something different. Something, I'm not well versed of. I'm going to write something about Love. <3 Oooh lala! Haha First off, Ima tell you a little background about my tragic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I don't get it. I get hit on by men fairly

    often. Heck! Within weeks of separating from my husband, a guy I went to junior high with was coming on super strong...despite being a married pastor with two small children (I ended up having to block him on another social media site), and by the time my divorce was final I had...
    summerbaby73 summerbaby73 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    This femme lesbian at my school always

    complains about how she rarely gets approached by butch/stud lesbians, and I've noticed this is something a lot of femmes go through, so I just want to say my two cents on the topic. The reason some of you femmes might not get approached by a butch/stud (or even another femme...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    It's annoying that girls assume

    that I'm flirting with them when I'm just helping them. There's a difference between help and flirt.
    nickynickynoo nickynickynoo 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Please tell me that you all fell really hard

    for the first girl you dated after you came out to people and that I'm not going mad!
    djps djps 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 mins ago

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    I am new to this website

    and I see a lot of women are open to connecting with other lesbians. I am in my 20's and I am looking for possibly some friends I can chat with or connect with. If you know of any websites let me know. I would love to meet another fem that is maybe older than me to show me a...
    AdviceGoddess AdviceGoddess 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lesbians 101 By Shakira Sison

    The opposite of ignorance is enlightenment, and we fear what we don't know. Here are 101 things to know. Be informed. Lesbians are women who love women. We are not replacement men. We're not trying to be men, even if some of us dress like them. We're not trying to steal your...
    Kriss17 Kriss17 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Some men seem confused about what it is to be a

    lesbian. I think its time for some education. 1) being a lesbian doesn't mean we hate men. In fact, I enjoy the company of men in the same way that straight men enjoy the company of other men. 2) men are not lesbians. I don't care if you enjoy women the way we do. I get it...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Comming Out

    Hey all, this is my story about being able to admit to being a lesbian, and the strugle with the real truth that I had hid for many years. I have know that I was a lesbian since I was 14 or 15 (now 28) but I never wanted/could admit it to myself or others.  I tried to do...
    crazycoolcat28 crazycoolcat28 26-30, F 39 Responses Sep 9, 2006

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    Window Dressing: I Thought I Was Butch!

    OK, I am sharing this story because a few of my friends have shown interest so here goes: I knew I liked girls from a very early age. At 5 I swear I had it bad for my best friend in Houston but my heart was broken when we moved back to Georgia. When I turned 11, I met Angie who...
    choctawgrrrl choctawgrrrl 41-45, F 84 Responses Jan 8, 2009

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    Hey I'm looking for a girlfriend between the

    age of 13-16 xx No dirty chats xx I'm from the UK so if you are that would be wicked but from anywhere else is also fine xx Thanks xx Message me
    chloeXruth chloeXruth 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Homosexuality is only a sin

    if you don't make her come. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Why I Am Myself

    Well this is my first story :-/ It explains why I am who I am. When I was in kindergarten I liked this girl. I thought it was a kid crush and forgot about it. From about 6th grade on I dated a total of 3 boys until freshman year. By freshman year I dated one of them on and off. I...
    JustStarting1 JustStarting1 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5, 2013

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    My dad is finally coming around

    after three years, and I couldn't be happier. He's spending time with my girlfriend and I. He's laughing at jokes I make about it. I'm so happy he's trying to move past his misunderstandings about the lgbt community.
    nichollrb nichollrb 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    My Lesbian Story

    I was 7 years old, I was in 2nd grade, my mom just showed me how to make cookies from scratch. I said with a smile on my face, "Thank you Mommy for teaching me how to make cookies." She then replied with, "You know how to thank people honey?" And then I said, "How?" "You give...
    lesbiansister4ever lesbiansister4ever 18-21, F 53 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Pros of being a lesbian:

    both you and your girl would get into the lifeboats on the titanic. #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Well today is my birthday

    and I got exactly what I wanted....some crazy hot and passionate birthday sex from my girlfriend. We have been dating for a month (officially) and after she took me out to dinner and a walk in the park we went back to my hotel and had AMAZING sex! Usually your first time with...
    atheGAYlouise atheGAYlouise 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    The Life And Times Of Little Brother...

    When I was 14 years old, I told my Mother I was gay. She looked me in the eye and said, "do you really want to put your tongue in another woman's *****" I just looked at her, mortified.  I was not a precocious kid. I wasn't stupid, but had never thought of things like that. I...
    texastomboy texastomboy 36-40, F 46 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Guys hate lesbians because we pull more girls

    than they do. #Oops #teamlesbian
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 14

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    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 20 mins ago

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    My mother realized this far earlier

    than I, when at the tender age of five, I did nothing but talk about my freckle faced classmate with the golden braids... I realized it later than I should have, at 17 years of age if my memory serves me correctly. I don't recall having much sexual interest in anyone growing...
    Sohryuden Sohryuden 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm waiting for my girlfriend to come back from

    deployment and I am so excited for her to finally meet my family! She met my mom but hasn't met my 7 siblings nor my dad! :) I'm scared though... we have some skeletons in the closet, so to speak, with family secrets, and I'm so nervous to share those things with her. I want her...
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My Younger Sister's Getting Married

    so i'm 27 and have been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. we live in california, and had just started dating when the state supreme court over turned the ban on gay marriage. gay and lesbian couples flocked to get married. my girlfriend and i talked about getting...
    msriot msriot 26-30, F 54 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    I've known i liked girls

    since i was young, In high school i had my first girlfriend, I have had boyfriends in the past because i thought that the attraction to females was just a phase but i know now that it isn't a phase, I have no interest in sex with males and i only like males as friends and...
    TheNinjaLesbian TheNinjaLesbian 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Who Cares If I'm Gay..

    I have become the woman I want to see, no more lying to myself of who I should be. And though I know there's a long road ahead, I'll never look back on the facade that I shed. No more feeling guilty for feelings that stirred, When a woman walked past, and my "straight life...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine 31-35, F 41 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Let a woman in your life,

    and you invite eternal strive. Let them buy their wedding bands, for those anxious little hands.. I'd be equally as willing for a dentist to be drilling than to ever let a woman in my life. Alright so I'm not totally hostile but this thought occasionally creeps into my mind. I...
    aquagrl aquagrl 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Don't you get really excited

    when you see another gay person in a normal place?. Today I saw at my college campus this cute lesbian and I’m just like running back and forth from where she was like HEY LOOK AT ME I’M GAY TOO. LETS BE FRIENDS. Too bad my social anxiety stopped me from talking to her.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 5 Responses