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I Am A Lolita

Whatever your style Gothic, Sweet, Classical, Country, Kodona etc. This group is for you 337 People

    A few months back I posted about my family

    being really against lolita and not letting me wear the fashion. I am really thankful to those of you who sent me some great advice because tomorrow my parents have agreed to order me my first dress! I'm beyond excited and honestly needed to thank those of you who helped out...
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Where Are All The Lolita's And Brolita's

    I am not racist and I try not to judge anyone. How can I be? How can I belittle someone when I am a man wearing womens clothing? Sometimes that clothing is the extremely feminine Lolita style, which even real girls get singled out for wearing. So what power do I have over another...
    nnatalie nnatalie 51-55 9 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    I don't wear lolita much,

    but when I do I wear erololita, but in a more sweet lolita style.
    Kitty1998 Kitty1998 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Building A Lolita Wardrobe

    Lolita is defined by it's elegance - advice on building a wardrobe http://lolita-handbook.livejournal.com/2708.html A few days ago, I saw a cute little jumper dress in the store. I could not get it out of my mind yesterday. So, after work, had to see if they still had one in...
    Kbrolita Kbrolita 56-60 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    A Sweet Maiden

    I am Lolita I whisper to myself as they snicker at my dress my dress!! with my frills and lace i could be Alice in wonderland they whisper to there friends "look at what she wears" all i do is walk into the dreaded castle of wisdom with my head held high for i am more noble...
    justyoona justyoona 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Do Lolitas Consider Brolitas Good Or 'Good For A Laugh'

    Do Lolita's use the word Brolita as a term of endearment or ridicule? I'm a Lol.... Brolita and am wondering if the Lolita's truly have time for us guys or if they would rather we just left them alone. When I read stories written by Lolita's that often discuss the rudeness they...
    nnatalie nnatalie 51-55 2 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Epitomy Of Femininity

    I am a Lolita as well. You can probably tell from my profile photo. I love the innocence of the style. The frilly petticoats, the long sleeves with frills and bows, the frothy bloomers underneath,the bonnets ,lace, ribbon, pretty prints in the fabric,etc. It is the epitome of...
    nnatalie nnatalie 51-55 3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    I've finally got some funds to start my

    wardrobe. I'm starting off with Bodyline until I can afford "burando". I'm a lifestyle lolita who enjoys elegant activities. I mostly read and take delight in educating myself. For the longest time I have been interested by Victorian high class because I've never had anything as...
    burrowbunni burrowbunni 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    My Style

    I'm a 35 year old women who dress in Lolita - might be a middleage crise or something but at least I'm having fun. I have a 12 year old daugher who I sometimes can talk into run around as a lolita with me and they cutest niece ever, she is only 3 but we have a lot in common when...
    Faraklin Faraklin 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Can anyone help me? My mum

    and dad are extremely against me wearing lolita. I have been asking them now for around 9 months and they just keep refusing. They say 'people would laugh' etc 😞 has anyone got any advice? (By the way I'm 16)
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 20

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    Lolita Transformation

      Lolita Fashion has always been a secret obsession of mine. I absolutely adore Victorian fashion, ever since I first laid eyes on it I became entranced. Being a dirty, hiking, fishing, tomboy kind of girl I vowed Victorian styled dresses would be the only ones I...
    Pierduta Pierduta 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    The Lone Lolita

    I first found out about Lolita when I was 10 and only started wearing Lolita pieces when I was 12-13. For the past years, I've been searching for Lolitas in my area who would want to be my friend but to no avail. However, I did find a local Lolita Community on LJ. Unfortunately...
    SimplyMilkTea SimplyMilkTea 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Cool

    i think gothic stylee on people is awsome
    SamTraveler16 SamTraveler16 16-17, M Sep 24, 2013

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    Lolita- Brolita, All The Same Outside And Inside

    You may find it hard to believe , but most Lolita and Brolita are very much a like they share the same love of prettiness and caring for one another they like to see one another and feel great joy sharing the happiness they bring to those around them So please look at them...
    Chrysanthe Chrysanthe 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2013

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    I love sweet Lolita. But it's

    so hard to find outfits that fit me. I'm a big girl. I think I would look cute in it especially with my short height. Just gotta loose weight.
    NerdyCutie NerdyCutie 13-15, F Sep 2

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    Smile Lolitas

    This is an excert from the Gothic and Lolita Bible, volume 4. It always makes me smile and feel uplifted when I read it.   “I wonder what made you become Lolita? Is it because you wanted to wear beautiful clothes? Because you like lace and frills? Because...
    Pierduta Pierduta 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    I Miss Lolita

    My husband made me give up Lolita after I got us into debt. Problem is I can't stop thinking about it.. I even dream about it! So sad..
    NekoDolly NekoDolly 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I recently shared a story about feeling born

    into the wrong era. Classic lolita helps a lot with this. It's beautiful, expressive, comforting, and much more affordable than authentic Victorian clothing. I currently only have two dresses though, as I am not the wealthiest person. One is classic lolita and the other is kuro...
    Vicereine Vicereine 22-25, F Apr 28

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    I am an amateur sweet lolita!

    I've worn plenty of coords but I feel like I'm just getting started! I mostly wear sweet lolita, but I'm also working on a guro lolita outfit, which I'm really excited about. Ever since I was small I wanted to surround myself in cute things and look just like a princess. I...
    queeniepeach queeniepeach 16-17, F Jun 12

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    I'm a part-time lolita.

    I don't like to wear the clothes too much so I just wear them when I'm in the mood and I have nothing on my mind. I'm a sweet lolita, it's my favorite type as well! I started wearing lolita clothing and coords when I was around 14. At that time I had the clothes on 24/7 lol ^_...
    Aeviternity Aeviternity 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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