I Am A Lolita

Whatever your style Gothic, Sweet, Classical, Country, Kodona etc. This group is for you 385 People

    Where Are All The Lolita's And Brolita's

    I am not racist and I try not to judge anyone. How can I be? How can I belittle someone when I am a man wearing womens clothing? Sometimes that clothing is the extremely feminine Lolita style, which even real girls get singled out for wearing. So what power do I have over another...
    nnatalie nnatalie
    8 Responses Jul 10, 2013

    Smile Lolitas

    This is an excert from the Gothic and Lolita Bible, volume 4. It always makes me smile and feel uplifted when I read it.   “I wonder what made you become Lolita? Is it because you wanted to wear beautiful clothes? Because you like lace and frills? Because...
    Pierduta Pierduta
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 14, 2010

    A few months back I posted about my family

    being really against lolita and not letting me wear the fashion. I am really thankful to those of you who sent me some great advice because tomorrow my parents have agreed to order me my first dress! I'm beyond excited and honestly needed to thank those of you who helped out...
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2014

    Epitomy Of Femininity

    I am a Lolita as well. You can probably tell from my profile photo. I love the innocence of the style. The frilly petticoats, the long sleeves with frills and bows, the frothy bloomers underneath,the bonnets ,lace, ribbon, pretty prints in the fabric,etc. It is the epitome of...
    nnatalie nnatalie
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    I am close to becoming a lolita

    but i dont have alpt of support so if there are any other Lolitas with any advice or just to chat with me about it please message me
    rubymax rubymax
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 20

    I researched the style

    and I love it. I'm pretty young and I don't think I could pull it off. I'm kinda shy and there are no Lolitas in my area. Any suggestions would be nice. (Ps I'm kind of a sweet, classic, or shiro person.)
    deedadeedalee deedadeedalee
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2015

    I really want a lolita online friend I want to

    try the style its just soo cute . I wonder why most girls I know at school a tomboys or wannabe boys seriously they all mocked me for my high pitched voice and my cute bags
    Amacey Amacey
    18-21, F
    May 7, 2015
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    3 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    The Lone Lolita

    I first found out about Lolita when I was 10 and only started wearing Lolita pieces when I was 12-13. For the past years, I've been searching for Lolitas in my area who would want to be my friend but to no avail. However, I did find a local Lolita Community on LJ. Unfortunately...
    SimplyMilkTea SimplyMilkTea
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2013
    SweetHeartxxo SweetHeartxxo
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I've finally got some funds to start my

    wardrobe. I'm starting off with Bodyline until I can afford "burando". I'm a lifestyle lolita who enjoys elegant activities. I mostly read and take delight in educating myself. For the longest time I have been interested by Victorian high class because I've never had anything as...
    burrowbunni burrowbunni
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2014

    I am an amateur sweet lolita!

    I've worn plenty of coords but I feel like I'm just getting started! I mostly wear sweet lolita, but I'm also working on a guro lolita outfit, which I'm really excited about. Ever since I was small I wanted to surround myself in cute things and look just like a princess. I...
    queeniepeach queeniepeach
    18-21, F
    Jun 12, 2014

    Lolita Transformation

      Lolita Fashion has always been a secret obsession of mine. I absolutely adore Victorian fashion, ever since I first laid eyes on it I became entranced. Being a dirty, hiking, fishing, tomboy kind of girl I vowed Victorian styled dresses would be the only ones I...
    Pierduta Pierduta
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2010

    I love sweet Lolita. But it's

    so hard to find outfits that fit me. I'm a big girl. I think I would look cute in it especially with my short height. Just gotta loose weight.
    NerdyCutie NerdyCutie
    18-21, F
    Sep 2, 2014

    I am a true lolita trapped in a young boys body.

    Please help me mommies and sisters. NO DADDIES
    Str8boypantyme Str8boypantyme
    13-15, T
    1 Response Jan 8
    SweetHeartxxo SweetHeartxxo
    18-21, F
    Jun 30, 2015

    I'm not a Lolita, as I'm a man.

    That being said, I've always liked dresses and skirts on women. Some of the lolita fashion is so ultra feminine, and I love seeing a girl dressed up like that. The frilly lace, the gloves and all that make a man feel like he is in the presence of a real girly girl. I would love...
    TheRedTie TheRedTie
    31-35, M
    Jan 13

    I'm only 32 (tho I think HH was 35 at the start

    of the book) so not real old, but my only real sexual fantasy is having my own little Lolita. Any girls near Pittsburgh that would want to indulge me?
    Benny412 Benny412
    31-35, M
    Jun 22, 2015

    I'm a part-time lolita.

    I don't like to wear the clothes too much so I just wear them when I'm in the mood and I have nothing on my mind. I'm a sweet lolita, it's my favorite type as well! I started wearing lolita clothing and coords when I was around 14. At that time I had the clothes on 24/7 lol ^_...
    Aeviternity Aeviternity
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2013
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    Mar 25

    Do Lolitas Consider Brolitas Good Or 'Good For A Laugh'

    Do Lolita's use the word Brolita as a term of endearment or ridicule? I'm a Lol.... Brolita and am wondering if the Lolita's truly have time for us guys or if they would rather we just left them alone. When I read stories written by Lolita's that often discuss the rudeness they...
    nnatalie nnatalie
    2 Responses May 5, 2013

    I recently shared a story about feeling born

    into the wrong era. Classic lolita helps a lot with this. It's beautiful, expressive, comforting, and much more affordable than authentic Victorian clothing. I currently only have two dresses though, as I am not the wealthiest person. One is classic lolita and the other is kuro...
    Vicereine Vicereine
    70+, F
    Apr 28, 2014

    A Sweet Maiden

    I am Lolita I whisper to myself as they snicker at my dress my dress!! with my frills and lace i could be Alice in wonderland they whisper to there friends "look at what she wears" all i do is walk into the dreaded castle of wisdom with my head held high for i am more noble...
    justyoona justyoona
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2012
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    1 Response May 22, 2015

    Building A Lolita Wardrobe

    Lolita is defined by it's elegance - advice on building a wardrobe http://lolita-handbook.livejournal.com/2708.html A few days ago, I saw a cute little jumper dress in the store. I could not get it out of my mind yesterday. So, after work, had to see if they still had one in...
    Kbrolita Kbrolita
    1 Response Sep 6, 2013

    I Miss Lolita

    My husband made me give up Lolita after I got us into debt. Problem is I can't stop thinking about it.. I even dream about it! So sad..
    NekoDolly NekoDolly
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2013

    I don't wear lolita much,

    but when I do I wear erololita, but in a more sweet lolita style.
    Kitty1998 Kitty1998
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    I am a Lolita I go with men twice my age

    although I am in my twenties i go for older gentleman in their 50s
    lolitanymphette lolitanymphette
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 24, 2015

    Can anyone help me? My mum

    and dad are extremely against me wearing lolita. I have been asking them now for around 9 months and they just keep refusing. They say 'people would laugh' etc 😞 has anyone got any advice? (By the way I'm 16)
    HyperactiveLauren HyperactiveLauren
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 20, 2014

    I'm hoping to get into the fashion,

    but its so different from what I normally wear. I also want to avoid being an ita, so if there's any lolitas out there who would be willing to give advice to a new lolita, please message me :)
    drowninginsaltwater drowninginsaltwater
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2015

    I am a lolita, but not the typical kind.

    I dress like a childlike anime character, but not in a gothic or classical way. It's more about just looking kawaii for me.
    ohlorddoitsu ohlorddoitsu
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 22, 2015
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