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I Am a Lonely House Wife

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    I'm 35, have 3 kids, take care of my husbands

    parents and have been married for 4 years. I have pretty much become a shut in. My 2 older kids are 9 & 11 and are homeschooled, I also have a 3 year old hell raiser. His parents are both early and late 60's with a long list of health problems. Anyone wanna chat???
    Firefly8652 Firefly8652 31-35 1 Response Oct 21

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    Hi everyone. I'm new to this,

    never thought I'd be posting to a blog on this subject. I'm 45 and stopped working in late Fall 2013. I worked for 30 years, have 3 kids. Two are in college and don't live at home anymore. Only my youngest who is 8 years old now and my husband. I started my own small business...
    jardinbella jardinbella 41-45, F 5 Responses Feb 20

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    Girija Story

    hi nanu housewife ippudu nanu loneley gaa unnanu nato chat chayadaniki avaraina kavali i am 28 years old my name is girija
    girija girija 26-30 12 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Wannaasex

    honey i m waiting uuuuuuuuu plzzzzz join me
    wannaasex wannaasex 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 15, 2009

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    Starting To Think Of Me...... Now What?

    I really have no room to complain. I am married to a good man. He works hard and provides well for our family. I have a idealistic life is some ways. I wake up, get my only child off to school. She is 12 so she doesn't need much help. I then go to the gym and work out for 1...
    VADarlin VADarlin 41-45 5 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Married Young

      Hi, i am a 24 year old female. I have been married for 6 years and have been with my husband for 7 years. My husband is 35 years old. I got married a little after i turn 19. At first everything started to go great. we were getting along and then  right before i turned 21...
    morganhammons morganhammons 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2011

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    Lonely

    I have been married 21 years, after my husband cheated with a women he met on line things have never been the same. I'm trying to forgive and forget but its harder than one would think. My husband doesnt like to do anything, he sleeps untill 1 or 2 in the afternoon, then spends...
    km430 km430 41-45 15 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    First of all, I got married at an early age to

    a man who wanted to climb the ladder of success. He has done that over our 41 years of marriage. He has been gone more time than staying home. I sacrificed a lot so he could fulfill his dreams. Now, I am the lonely housewife, who is middle aged with no skills to get a job. I am...
    shenmtwoman05 shenmtwoman05 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I don't know that I will ever not be. I am an introvert and as such have spent much of my life being lonely. I never felt truly accepted by my family or my friends, in fact I...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 26

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    my husband wants a separation 2 decide if he wants 2 be married 2 me. I been emotional every day crying and sad. so I then became angry and lonely cause he doesn't spend time with...
    martino25 martino25 31-35, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I just miss my friends so much. I miss sharing my life with them and its so lonely at night and god it just hurts and I don't know how to move forward
    ShakespearewasWrong ShakespearewasWrong 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I really really want someone to talk to me and comfort me. Im feeling so sad and im angry at myself right now .. My family wouldn't understand me. They don't like me. I dont have...
    annapg annapg 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    me and my wife have started to try to conceive. we chose to do natural insemination. well turkey baster. I would prefer to do this the old fashion way instead of having foreign...
    briannajohson briannajohson 22-25, F 57 mins ago

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    I am married and lonely, but probably not for the reasons you'd think. My wife has DID and OCD. Not real sure why or where it came from except in the last couple years, they've...
    WtfAmIHearing WtfAmIHearing 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 9

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    I was married for 7 years. My wife and I are disconnected in our home due to lingering differences that we have not been able to reconcile. There is no communication, passion or...
    SlimGoodbody67 SlimGoodbody67 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 12

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    I have been married for almost 6 years. I know my wife loves me, but we never have sex. It's been 3 years since we've had really good she's-actually-into-it-sex, and only once in...
    DaisyMae54 DaisyMae54 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I don't know what to do. I am married and so lonely I feel like my heart is falling out of my chest. I have invested too much in work. Sometimes I think I should invest elsewhere...
    dadtwice dadtwice 36-40 5 Responses Dec 7

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    So, my wife is a drunk. She is on a week long bender. She's been to rehab, we see how effectual that was. I've fought with her, hid her keys because she will drive drunk to get...
    Luchs Luchs 41-45, M 71 Responses Dec 7

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    The feeling of emptiness and loneliness is the worst. My wife left with her mom so I took a nap when I woke up the house was still empty just me and my dog. It felt horrible, I...
    clnj clnj 26-30, M Dec 12

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    Feeling alone . He barely talks to me. I feel like I'm just here. He says he loves me but doesn't say it often or barely shows it. He doesn't touch me or tell me I'm pretty or...
    kashx kashx 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Being a maid for your wife doesn't always mean you will be dressed like a sissy. In fact, my wife recently asked me to look for a proper maid uniform online, in the event that her...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Nov 27

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    I look at the ceiling and think of where I'd like to go...wonder what happened to my life and the years...I live in a home with people who are nothing like me. They don't want or...
    sunnygrlamy sunnygrlamy 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    November 30. Detachment. One day, my son brought a gerbil home to live with us. We put it in a cage. Some time later, the gerbil escaped. For the next six months, the animal ran...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 30

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    Anxiety isn't something you simply ignore or overcome. It isn't the same as being nervous. It changes how you think. No matter how rational of a person you are, anxiety can make...
    Snicknedge Snicknedge 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    yell same here I am married but lonely and my wife wants to end our marriage. I don't know why. after 23 years.
    sweetie8888 sweetie8888 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    Finally at my age, I have to admit. Hell yea, I'm lonely. It's sad that I have come to realize that loneliness just may be my destiny. I look back over my life and see that even in...
    phillypaul phillypaul 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 6

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    I came home from college to this. Silent, slow separation. Cold, senseless life. Today we have a bit of food, it's what we can manage. Good enough. The house is a mess and the...
    Itekimasu Itekimasu 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    My husband works out of town most of the week and sometimes through the weekend. I did the math and he is home 12 days a month and 6 of those days I work, so we just have the...
    lena81 lena81 31-35 7 Responses Dec 6

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    I just saw my husband. Not clearly and he was in a car with my Inlaws. I haven't layed any kind of eyes on him for nearly 4 years. Obviously the last week of him being in the...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    My wife is considering having her sister stay with us for awhile since she's going through a hard time right now. That made me a little nervous at first, so I asked her if I would...
    deeken deeken 36-40 4 Responses Nov 24

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    I've been married for 17 years. For the last six years it seems as if my wife has totally devoted herself to her boss and his company. It seems as if he comes first no matter what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 29

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    It comes out of nowhere. Ive been feeling strong and rebuilding myself since August. But today I'm down. Angry at my wife for the continued behaviors, tired of being treated...
    deepbreathneeded deepbreathneeded 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 5

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    me and my wife both work, I work 4 nights Thurs - sun, my wife can work up to 6 days. when she works on a sat or Sunday she automatically thinks I will take care of the kids while...
    stonecold31625 stonecold31625 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 10

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    Yesterday my wife came home around 9:30 PM. I was already in my maid uniform, a short French Maid Dress matched with a pair of black high heels and silk pantyhose. When she came in...
    deeken deeken 36-40 3 Responses Dec 10

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    At the risk of be redundant I am going to write about this again. Mostly because I am kinda pissed off. I've lived in this same house, in a nice neighborhood, for going on 8 yrs...
    justjayne justjayne 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    killbillhell007 killbillhell007 18-21, F Nov 25

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    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 11

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    I wanted a love to have warmth, security and trust , loyalty, bond, intuition someone who has their act together he doesn't and never will its been over 20 years and long enough...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I am married to a narrsasist. For almost 20 years every minute of every day has revolved around him, his wants his needs,his desires. when he felt I was not fulfilling his...
    hurt1twomanytimes hurt1twomanytimes 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 14

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    I need to get this off my chest. My fiend and his wife have been married for 10 years. The have been together a lot longer. They got along great till they had there daughter...
    jf11mm jf11mm 46-50 2 Responses Dec 7

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