I Am A Loner And Probably Will Always Be A Loner

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    I am a loner and probably will be

    for the rest of my life. The reason why I made that statement because people don't understand me and my motives in life. They will try to claim that I am in this or that but I'm not in any category at all. I have been a loner ever since I was growing up in my household...
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    1 Response Feb 6, 2014
    XxSxarletxX XxSxarletxX
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2014
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Apr 14, 2016

    if anyone wants a friend

    or even just people to talk to i made a group of really good people all are welcome. all u need is message me and ill introduce u to the group
    luke40171 luke40171
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    I just don't fit in. I can't handle the gossip

    and bullshit. So a loner I shall stay!
    bbybleu bbybleu
    18-21, F
    May 1, 2015

    I am okay with that, seeing

    as how everyone I let someone get close to me something bad happens.
    SethTheKid SethTheKid
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 24, 2016

    I'm an unintentional loner.

    People just don't seem to like my company. Especially women. I am not tall, lost most my hair, not wealthy, and have some wrinkles. So the wife left me, my own daughter spends as little time with me as she can, and no one wants to be a friend. So I just exist to pay bills and...
    jondilari jondilari
    61-65, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    Really, thanks for your concern,

    but I'm happy this way. Probably happier than you, so if you could stop asking me to "socialize more" so I don't end up "being deppreseed" I would highly appreciate it.
    Airlangga Airlangga
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2015

    Everybody I meet on the internet suddenly stop

    talking to me and I never know why
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 24, 2016

    I have few friends and I always wish I had a

    better social circle, but the truth is I'd rather stay at home and read a book. I always scan the meetups site to find something of interest but I always end up thinking "maybe the next one." I made a really good friend when I went back to school for my masters but I didn't...
    Nliz Nliz
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    in my 27 years I've never been to the movies w

    a friend or anywhere else for that matter other than w this guy who lives in another state. I thought I he was a friend but he kind of let's me know that he's not w me all the way. I would call him and he would say something like I'm out living my life, like throwing it in my...
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    8 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    Some may disagree with me,

    but I'm a loner to the core. I only engage with people when I have to. Life has taught me not to trust people. I'm happy to be alone, no one to rely on me. It's true freedom.
    Derfthequantumpotato Derfthequantumpotato
    22-25, M
    Jun 1, 2015

    I tend to push everyone away.

    Which is why I DonT have any friends.
    coraimaal coraimaal
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 25, 2015

    I wish people in school would stop trying to

    talk to me when I don't reply to them.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    Jan 3, 2016

    in real life I am a total loser.

    some of the people scared of me but some of them are making fun of me and etc. But in internet I am not, all of my friends are on internet. From Wattpad mostly. But I think it will always be hard to make friends in real world.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    Sometimes I wonder if I'm going to be one of

    those people who wind up on CNN. Because there is very little I can stand, regarding people.
    Emeryael Emeryael
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2015
    rodneyking719 rodneyking719
    26-30, M
    Sep 21, 2015

    For with God nothing will be impossible (Luke

    1:37). There yet is hope for you in Christ. Whatever your problem may be, and however seemingly grave the situation miay be, it is nothing to the Age of Ages. There yet is hope for you in Christ. All other things are void of actual help. Some may help in soothing the problem...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Apr 3, 2016

    Becuase of my shyness I lost

    so many potential friends. 😞 They just walked away and I said nothing. I still thibk about them every so often, all of them.
    crazyguy562 crazyguy562
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2014

    I have no friends and Had no relationships

    because I have a hard time talking to people and they don't really like me all that much or know me.
    Aspergicbadger Aspergicbadger
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    That moment when EVERY SINGLE ONE of your

    classmates is teaming up and you just sit there ALONE thinking: I hate them all
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    2 Responses Apr 27, 2015
    Davidsb940 Davidsb940
    16-17, M
    4 Responses Feb 1, 2015

    My friends will all eventually leave me

    and I'll be alone again...but for some reason I find that cathartic
    10786y 10786y
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    Sometimes I'm just trying to figure out

    why I was put on this planet. I've been alone since I could remember. I was that quiet kid sitting on the bleachers by himself in elementary school, daydreaming about lord knows what. Middle school I got a little better but anxiety still had a strong grip on me. High school I...
    Verdemindstate Verdemindstate
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 6, 2015

    Even if Valentine is part of my name,

    I've never been blessed enough to have love, even on this day. I don't suppose it's surprising; I'm a friendly person but not necessarily boyfriend material. All I ask is to be able to share this day with someone special, but it appears that I'm, yet again, out of luck.
    metallic28 metallic28
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    I am a loner and I have been this

    for as long as I can remember I don't have friends and I don't know how to talk to people. So I'll probably be this way forever but I guess I'm ok with it.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    I watch anime. But I also like fashion.

    I can get along with people from all different social groups and yet I've never been able to have my own group of friends. Maybe I'm just to socially awkward.
    knittygurl23 knittygurl23
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    When life is rough, pray.

    -----:------:------:----- Pray, when life is great.
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Apr 1, 2016

    If you call to Him, He will answer you If you

    run to Him, He will run to you If you lift your hands, He will lift you up Draw near to Him, He is here for you Give Him your love, He's in love with you He will heal your heart, He will cleanse your hands If you rend your heart, He will heal your land. Come now praise His name...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Mar 31, 2016

    Isolation is the definition of my existence.

    Not exactly by choice, it's just what I do now. I push everyone away or separate myself in some fashion. I will reach out and then spit venom at whomever reaches back. I live my life in a fog, detached from nearly everything. I have changed completely and have no idea who I...
    Perfectdreamingskull Perfectdreamingskull
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 9, 2015

    I don't think I ever hate anyone

    before in my life. Weird right? Sure there are people who I dislike, or whom I find irritating but I don't think I have ever truly hated anyone before. Also,I find the opposite to be also true. I don't think I ever truly love anyone before either. Sure there people that I...
    RedAbyss RedAbyss
    26-30, F
    Feb 18, 2016
    emmiemae8 emmiemae8
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2014

    I may have a small amount of friends which

    for smaller when I moved schools but it does not make me social or not a loner. I am a loner in my own way.and I may stay this way forever.
    breakinghope breakinghope
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    The only explaination I have

    for this is I'm just not friendable. No one ever wants to be my friend even when I was younger. I mean I had friends, but when I tried to make new ones or try to play with someone else they were mean to me or just ignored me and denied me. Things like this were said to me "Play...
    wassup305 wassup305
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 26, 2015

    I believe something about me makes me realize

    that Im meant to be a loner. I accepted this not too long ago. I am a lost soul.
    noaht43 noaht43
    46-50, T
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    Ever get a sense that you don't belong anywhere?

    Even as a child. I am never truly THERE. I don't quite ever truly fit. Loneliness. But I'm okay with that. I'm me.
    airelle23 airelle23
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    "(I) love you to the moon

    and back," I said.
    Jessiemm Jessiemm
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    I really don't think I want to make any friends.

    I just want to keep to myself in my own little world. But it doesn't feel so little. It's so crazy, I've shut myself in and just the thought of going outside and talking to people scares me! My mom tried to get me and her friend's daughter to hang out together. It was cool, but...
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    Sep 10, 2015

    (I refer this to Christians going through

    TRIALS or/and TEMPTATIONS, lest a fellow wishes to wrongly counter the write-up) Dear Christians and whomever this may concern, God doesn't give us what we can handle but helps us handle what we are given, because, just as impure gold is passed through fire and made pure, we...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2016

    Everyone needs compassion,

    a love that's never failing, let mercy fall on us. Everyone needs forgiveness, the kindness of a Savior, the Hope of nations. Savior, He can move the mountains My God is mighty to save. He is mighty to save. Forever, author of Salvation He rose and conquered the grave. Jesus...
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Apr 3, 2016

    i dont know . i just feel very bored with my

    life . i need help but people cant help me . have you feel like what i feel .its difficult to explain . and hard to understand . why so difficult to be what i want ?
    barbish barbish
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2015

    "Okay, everyone pick a partner!

    " It just sucks eyeballs, dude. It really does
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    1 Response Apr 27, 2015

    20, almost 21 years that I am single.

    I don't even try anymore.
    L1aW L1aW
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 24, 2015

    It was always easier.

    I had some good friends when I was a little kid. They all moved away. Once I started 1st grade I just didn't fit in, was painfully shy and it was easier to just crawl in a hole. What hurts now is a couple people from those days have apologized for their "meanness". Damage done...
    Scott1954 Scott1954
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2015

    Looking how my life is right now,

    I think I will be alone...considering the fact that there are millions of people...it's sad, but you know...it's my fault
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    1 Response Jan 24, 2016

    @1st, lots of ppl were talking to me helping me

    along in here today n now they've all stopped
    jewwlie jewwlie
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    Being a loner is ok when it's going good,

    but it hits you hard when it's not...
    rodneyking719 rodneyking719
    26-30, M
    Sep 29, 2015

    For those of you who have lost your desire to

    pray, to sing,I'm asking God to put that melody back in your hearts tonight; cause you to lift your voice, even though you don't understand. Your Father in Heaven loves you, do not forsake Him...do not forget the benefits of the Lord. God bless you.
    Lincoln98 Lincoln98
    18-21, M
    Apr 1, 2016

    It is 7th month I'm in college,

    still no friends, it is always hell for me. I eat breakfast and lunch alone and everyone looking at me weird, i go to classes and sit alone, whenever i am interacting with people i end up looking like a weirdo, looking cold and arrogant. It used to be okay to be a loner for...
    UltraRetard UltraRetard
    22-25, M
    Feb 20, 2014
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