I Am a Loner By Nature

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 261 People

    Sometimes I feel like I need someone to talk to

    until I get someone and then I'm annoyed with them. I tend to ignore some of my closest friends because of it. I try to keep up with new friends but they end up fading away too. I guess I just need to conclude that I am a loner.
    Joey1215 Joey1215
    26-30, M
    Nov 20, 2014

    Its Always Been Easier For Me

    I've always been a loner, sometimes is both by choice or people not being able to put up with my ****. Over the past 2 years I've been dating this girl, and there's so many times she asked me to hang out with her and her friends to this I say why would I want to go to a bar...
    staypuft staypuft
    31-35, M
    Nov 8, 2009

    I've never made any last friendships-except

    for toxic friend, but he's not really a friend. I was a lonely little girl, I was an only child. I was bullied relentlessly. into adult life i wandered, still alone, married and was abused. Divorced seven years, still alone. I used to wonder why-I am not meant to be loved or...
    PenRe PenRe
    36-40
    Feb 3, 2014

    My Lonesome Self

    Socially delayed? I think not. Being a loner is a personal choice, one that I'm very comfortable with and would not change unless it made me unhappy. I'm not one for idle gossip or meaningless conversation and it's obvious my need for space and privacy puts people off - they can...
    tessa4ever tessa4ever
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2013

    Although Not On Purpose

    I'd love to be able to be around people. I love to hang around my friends, sometimes, but it makes me feel confined - the things you can and can't do because if I'm with my friends, I want them to be happy, so I go with what they want. When I'm alone, I don't have to do that...
    Starcrossed Starcrossed
    18-21, F
    Feb 17, 2008

    Everyone is out I think I'll stay in.

    Everyone is in I think I will go out
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto
    22-25, M
    Jan 18, 2014

    My Heart Is The Heart Of A Loner

    We share the world with others, that's a fact. Myself, I consider the moments that I spend alone as the sacred moments. I am a hobby writer, I easily spend long happy hours weaving tales and constructing stories or simply documenting my experiences of life and truth as I see it...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone
    56-60, F
    May 29, 2011

    I Was the Parallel Player

    In second grade I was labelled a parallel player. it means that I played along side the group but not with them. I just do so much better by myself. I'm more creative and free.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2008

    Don't Enjoy It That Much...

    I don't like being alone all the time, but I would rather be alone than in a massive group. I love being able to sit by myself and get my thoughts into order. It's just that I've spent so long surrounded by  people because of things constantly going on in the past, I just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 19, 2008

    Seclusion From The World.

    Everyday I arrive home from school and I seclude myself to the same room everyday. I stare at the same 4 walls as I did everyday for the last 17 years. It never gets old. I then play my music that only I seem to adore. The Weeknd, Ellie Goulding, Johnny Rain, or some other...
    AllLoveXOXO AllLoveXOXO
    18-21, M
    Oct 6, 2013

    3 Movies Watched Alone

    just this month, i watched 3 movies alone.. 1. 2 Guns--awesome, mark walhberg is just so awesome 2. Gravity (3D)--almost cried in the cinema that time when sandra was ready to die in that tiny spaceship 3. CLoudy with a chance of meatball (3D)--i still think flint lockwood is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    It's More Comfortable

    The majority of the time people, in general, just annoy me. I choose to be by my lonesome but there is always a peaceful atmosphere when others aren't there to drag negativity into the energy. I prefer to do things alone, like reading, listening to music, playing video games...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu
    26-30, F
    Dec 21, 2008
More Stories