I Am a Loner Most of the Time

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    I used to be more of a loner

    than I am now. Just didn't feel like dealing with people. But now I have kids & a boyfriend. Kind of hard to be a loner at the moment.LOL But I'm still a "closet loner.";)
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    Feb 4, 2014

    I just don't seem to get along with people my

    age. I normally blame my shyness but I mostly just use it as an excuse it feels like. What's so annoying is I want to talk to people I just can't. I'm just use to not talking to people cause I'm awkward and shy. Guess I'll always be kind of a loner.
    BreaFaey BreaFaey
    16-17, F
    Sep 23, 2014

    I Am A Loner By Choice And Love It

    I like being alone weather its at home or traveling, it gives me free time to do whatever i want to do for that day. I just like being alone a lot and its pretty nice. When i am with people i cant really dig deep into my thoughts its really distracting. Sure i like being with my...
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    1 Response Sep 7, 2011

    I spend most of my time doing my thing I'm not

    really the person to change to fit into This world
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree
    16-17, F
    Oct 9, 2014


    I just need you. You and only you. I miss you :(
    Ajlmau Ajlmau
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013
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    1 Response Oct 1, 2014

    Yeah I don't have any friends.

    :( I get along with people well but....none of them want to be my friend. But anyway I'm sure Nd I hope things will change.
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 1, 2014

    Very Good Read I Found On The Internet

    I would be far less of a loner if the conversations in my head weren’t far more entertaining than the conversations I have with other people.” That was my rebuttal in high school to a well-meaning teacher who shared her concern with me about my solitary nature. I often found...
    cneel cneel
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2013

    There are times when it suits me to be

    that way. But not right now. :(
    deleted deleted
    Oct 1, 2014

    It's sad to be stuck inside

    for an extra 6 hours at home....... Like I already had enough of 8 hours inside in school with people that only drive me nuts.........I don't need no more So......how about a Friday night walk while listening to music.....sounds like a good plan for the night :)
    deleted deleted
    Jan 30, 2015

    Time Not So Well Spent.

    College is so lonely. Its more lonely than high school. Far more lonely. I still have friends that go to my school but it doesn't make much of a difference because I never see them anyway. I always go eat inbetween classes at the student union by myself. After I eat I usually go...
    trickkytwin trickkytwin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2013

    Because I am a photographer,

    75% of my job is editing... Which I do in my attic office. It is wonderful. My favorite activities are usually "lonely" ones. Yoga, editing, TV shows (I watched/listened to every single Doctor Who episode ever made). My husband loves to do these things with me, so do my dogs...
    rainallthedays rainallthedays
    31-35, F
    Sep 4, 2014

    I love trying to make people happy

    and if anyone ever needs to talk I am always here
    KoltonKnoch KoltonKnoch
    16-17, M
    Sep 13, 2015

    I tend to keep to myself a lot

    and I think part of it is out of habit.
    almaera almaera
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2014

    I'm a Loner that doesn't like being alone.

    y'know what I saying like I'm usually pushed out of the circle and sometimes I like being alone and then sometimes I'm like damn I'm one lonely ************.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    Tiptoe Through the Crowd

    I have always kept to myself. I am usuallly careful what I say to someone, because I have found that people have not liked to hear how I really feel. Many people I've met talk about nonesense, are socially conventional, and I am bored by their conversation. When I was younger...
    elsiepea elsiepea
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2009

    Well it's Saturday, I'm bored

    as ****. Life's fantastic.
    jayhaus5509 jayhaus5509
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 12, 2014

    Mostly By Choice!!

    im a loner mostly by choice, but just sometimes i wish that i could find that someone that could just understand me, you know, just like that one person that could just be my best friend, and understand that i like a lot of alone time, but also be there for me, and understand...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2013

    I'm Going To Close Myself

    i can't keep pretending i'm happy. i'm definetely not a shy person, but i will become one. from now on i will always keep quiet, i will avoid the more i can talking to someone in fact, i do not deserve to happy, so i won't i'm not a mental, but i know that's for real nobody...
    Rafael623 Rafael623
    18-21, M
    Jul 9, 2013

    I'm more comfortable in being alone,

    doing things alone.. I dont mind if i go out alone or staying at home alone.. As long as i am happy by myself its not a big deal for me.. I spent most of the time alone...
    deraapasha deraapasha
    26-30, F
    Aug 29, 2014


    to all reading this i recently discovered a few things about myself that i knew were there but ignored them anyway. but there's no space left in me to dump all these feelings and i fear that if i dont let em out im gonna explode. i feel like a misfit and a loner most of the time...
    mrphillip mrphillip
    1 Response Jul 7, 2012

    The more time I spend by myself,

    the lonelier I get. The lonelier I get, the more reserved and closed-off I get. Do you see the problem here?
    almaera almaera
    18-21, F
    Apr 24, 2014

    I'm usually lone by myself.

    At least, I try to, but some of my school mates like to hang and chat with me. My friends think I'm a boring triangle and need to become an irregular shape like a scalene, which is basically a type of triangle...but that's just the way I am...a loner...like Nico Di Angelo (Percy...
    WaterVsFire WaterVsFire
    Dec 19, 2014

    Well i have realised

    that im alone. No one to talk to when im depressed, stressed or sad. Its just me, myself and i forever. So its now time to accept this fact. I am a loner forever
    BlueFloraKae BlueFloraKae
    22-25, F
    Feb 18, 2014

    The Joys Of Soitude

    As a child and teenager I absolutely hated being a loner. I mean, sure I was the one who had friends in every click. Hung out when I wanted to and then after a couple of hours, quickly escape unnoticed to some quiet place in order to read or doodle. In my late teens into my early...
    deleted deleted
    May 23, 2013

    Alone And Pround Of It.

    It's pretty hard to realize the fact that you have literally no friends. It's not fun when your parents say " were going away so you can invite anyone you want " and i think to myself " ....Like what ? ". I don't like to complain or think about it cause i do have people in my...
    thequeenofpain thequeenofpain
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2012


    I'm not trying to be cool, or mysterious, or stand out from the crowd. I just don't like people in general.
    SophieJordan SophieJordan
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2013

    By Choice.....

    Most of the people who "knew me" in school would be surprised to learn that I really don't like most people that much.  I was Miss Class in one school and a cheerleader twice.  Both things pointed to my loving a crowd. Nothing could be further from the...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
    56-60, F
    14 Responses Jul 23, 2009
    MaggieBlack MaggieBlack
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2014

    Its Not An Illness!!

    a friend as me out to hang out with a bunch of co workers whom i haven't known very well yet, i refuse and said you know i cant handle to much crowd. she said to me just come so that my anti social attitude can be cured..how dreadful it is for me to hear coming from a friend such...
    marshy17 marshy17
    22-25, F
    May 29, 2012

    Friday Night Loneliness

    Well, I'm 18 and about to graduate next month and I got cybered 10th grade. I haven't hung out with a friend since September of 10th grade. I'm so disconnected with the world it's as if I've made myself disappear. My Dad is a trucker so he's never around. It's me and my horse and...
    fastandfuriouschick fastandfuriouschick
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2012

    Because I Can

    Here I sit in a darkened room with a light that does not insult my eyes. Looking at my one eyed friend who only stares back expressionless. Listening to some tunes I have not had access to for some time, They keep singing about love that once was and they miss it to such a degree...
    Nitehowl Nitehowl
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

    I'm A Loner Sometimes

    Sometimes I am all lonely because I have no friends and a bf really. I am quiet, shy, and always into myself in my room because that just the way I am. I sometimes will talk to my immediate family but in the outside world not so much . I get very nervous around people because I'm...
    KayCSwag KayCSwag
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2012

    Hey guys. I know I haven't been on this website

    for at least like a year it seems. Or at least I haven't logged on and posted anything. Anyways, so lately I've been kind of struggling at college, not so much grade-wise but I guess like social wise and stuff. I don't seem to fit in, not that I ever really have fit in anywhere...
    ReplacedAxe ReplacedAxe
    18-21, M
    Jan 13
    briannarena briannarena
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 10, 2014

    It's sad that this is the case

    but I'm alone most of the time. I'm hoping to make friends but till I do I just continue as I do now. I'm over being lied to and being the fall back plan. I've removed the ppl who have walked all over me from my life so that's pretty much everyone. I'm ok with being physically...
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    1 Response Oct 1, 2014

    It's not that I chose to be like this

    but I hate big crowds of people and I usually just be by myself. I really don't mind I'm kinda used to it, but I still interact with most people as well.
    UnknownnQueenn UnknownnQueenn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2014
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