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I Am a Loner

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    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    by choice.i am really quiet

    and dont enjoy the company of other people.i am also aloof.i am happy that everyone has stopped talking to me.
    waitformesenpai waitformesenpai 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Because I don't tolerate bs

    and drama well. I don't party like that, I keep to myself and rather be that way. My boyfriend love it and I just can't help who I am. I'm not a follower I'm my own person and I find other ways to have fun other than drinking and smoking
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F Aug 11

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 11

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    I love and hate being alone.

    Sometimes it's so peaceful and I wish it could be like this always. But other times when I'm alone no one hears my screams and no one sees me cry. People always ask me why I'm alone and quiet but it's because I chose who I talk to very precisely. If I have narrowed you out of...
    GarasaurausRex GarasaurausRex 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    i feel like an alien.

    i don't feel like i connect well with others. i don't feel like others connect with me. i don't feel like other people see the world i see. and i'd rather sit alone with my vision, than let it go to join the mass.
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I Enjoy My Time Alone

    I don't feel like I have to be someone else. I don't have to talk. I don't have to pay attention to what someone else is saying. I can wear my pj's all day. I don't have to answer silly questions or laugh at corny jokes. When I am alone I no longer feel lonely. I feel relieved.
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    touchtorelax touchtorelax 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 27

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    waitformesenpai waitformesenpai 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    was born one, slowly becoming more

    and more outgoing and probably selectively social right now, but still love my old "aloof" days
    omss omss 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I've always been a loner.

    I think that's just the way I am and no amount of trying to be different will ever change the real me. I've tried to be outgoing and socialize but I'm not being true to myself. I have a few friends, I love them and I respect them. They also know that I like my own space and do...
    AnAngelSmile AnAngelSmile 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 10

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    Disclaimer: This is all opinion.

    Take it with a grain of salt. _____________________________ I spend lots of time in the forests alone, or just anywhere. I find it hard to change.. I like people, but I'm always alone. It's odd, a choice. I used to think being a loner was cool. But I wasn't one at that time...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25, M 4 Responses May 13

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    So while my roomates are out being little

    social extrovert butterflies ( rolling my eyes ) I have the whole place to myself, and I just cooked me up a fat, awesome Brazilian burger that I'm going to enjoy with a 72 inch flat screen TV all to myself and chop it up with some of you awesome EP people! This is the life...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    It's so hard to relate to people,

    I wish I had friends..😔
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 15

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    Loner For Life, Proud And With No Regrets

    Right now I am in the middle of a vacation from my job, 26 straight days off with pay.  What is the best part of this, besides free money of course? The fact that I can spend many days hibernating at home, not having to lay eyes on any human being. Yes, I am a loner, it may...
    deepintheheart deepintheheart 41-45, M 20 Responses Aug 12, 2011

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    It's who I am. No matter how many times I try

    to be outgoing and make a lot of friends. Deep down I enjoy being around very few people if not just myself. I have ALWAYS been a loner and it's helped me be successful in school and be myself. I've never been one to follow a crowd or try and be someone I am not.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 9

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    Last night, I jumped in my car,

    and just drove around. I went to a random apartment complex, and having to drive slow over the little speed bump things, I was able to take a glance inside people's apt windows that they had open. Some people were cooking, some were watching tv, and one lady was mopping the crap...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 8 Responses May 13

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    ayiraartistf ayiraartistf 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 12

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    according to the other kids,

    i'm the weird baka that no one likes. i like that. i'm that quiet kid that gets yelled at for day dreaming like there's no tomorrow. i'm a thief. i steal your feels. once i got called the son of Hades for a fan fiction i did. thanks, by the way. i am the proud son of Hades! i...
    DemonsFreak DemonsFreak 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting to Be Alone...is There?

    I am a very introverted person and simply don't like to have too much company. Sure there are people I talk to, some of them I consider to be friends, but after all I'm rather alone. I can feel rather drained if too many people are around me. i spend most of my free time to...
    ittooktoolong ittooktoolong 22-25, F 31 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    waitformesenpai waitformesenpai 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've gone to school everyday

    for 12 years.. And I've been no one.. Just a loner.. Just someone that's broken. Unable to be put back together with glue or tape. I feel useless because no one loves me.. I come home and everyone ignores me and treats me like ****... I've never felt real love.. No ones really...
    JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 6

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    I have no friends or

    even family everybody hates me for no reason I hate my life sometimes I just wanna give up on life.
    Jme103 Jme103 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Today i went walking,

    didn't care where my feet lead me. Was having a bad day. Wind up in some neighborhood with cute little houses. Sat on the sidewalk, and just watched these leaves fall from this tree. It was beautiful, they just kept falling. It's cloudy outside, had my iPod going. I was...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2014

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    It's strange, I've moved to another country

    recently and I'm really having trouble meeting new friends. I've signed up for internations and other such sites and I've been to several events, however I can't seen to force myself to open up to people. It's like I start off good, get a conversation going, but as soon as I...
    MulanLabe MulanLabe 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    i maybe a loner but not lonely just love to

    spend quality time with myself...sound weird but that's who I AM.
    alx99 alx99 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 9

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    So I'm so not a comedian in class I had no idea

    I told a pretty funny joke. Teacher asked what is alcohol and I answered a bottle of fun. Everyone started laughing and I had no idea why. It took a minute to realize I did something funny.
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    I'm just starting to realize

    that I'm a loner. I want to just pick up and leave, move out and live all alone in a small little apartment with my dog. Of course I want to be married one day, but the chances of finding someone I can actually respect and trust feels rather small. I just want to live in my head...
    fantasyxo fantasyxo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I seriously couldn't sleep last night,

    a lot of stuff on my mind, so I've been up all night and morning. All 7 of my roommates are home this morning which is unusual, so I get up and get dressed and leave. I can only deal with my roommates all at once in doses and if I had stayed there, I would had over dosed. So I...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    because I'm already worthless to everyone

    so I'm just by myself all the time
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 8 Responses Aug 6

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    “As a child I felt myself to be alone,

    and I am still, because I know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know.” ― C.G. Jung, The famous Swiss psychiatrist, I have my answer, I am in good company! As an introvert I love living inside my...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    I enjoy sitting in my room

    and writing, reading, or listening to music by myself. My mother constantly worries about me because she thinks I am depressed or I don't love my family, but I really just like to be alone. Plus, I am not good at socializing I freak out when I have to talk to someone new. Even...
    MARAVELOUS MARAVELOUS 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I barely have any friends.

    .. I have 10 friends... It is kinda sad... But I'm always happy
    Lala188 Lala188 18-21, F 7 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Not much to say... I was considered someone

    'normal' time ago. But things got messed up, parents didn't care, friends weren't there and i got betrayed several times...It hurted back in the days, till i became what i am today.Today, loneliness is my friend, I feel more relaxed and in peace alone than in a group being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2014

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    nrogel nrogel 22-25, M Jul 27

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    If i register myself

    as an organ donor will somebody come for my heart? :)
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 17 Responses Jul 1

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    Being a loner is no bad ,

    everything is okay if you just to be silent , but thanks to loner , because , i did not hurt someone who talk to me or joke with me
    RArchangle RArchangle 16-17, M Aug 11

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    Being Alone In Peace Is Seventh Heaven!

    I have always been a private person, but also a caretaking type and the kind of friend who likes a close relationship and not much of the going-out-in-groups stuff. I know a lot of people but don't think of myself as having a lot of friends because I am not in touch with people...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 20 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    Period. I really am. Some people may not

    understand, and I guess they mean well with all the advice to go out more - but to me, they are just like birds attempting to advise a fish to leave that cold water and try flying for once. We are simply too different... I've always enjoyed doing things on my own. And I really...
    AndSto AndSto 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 26

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    its soooo much fun i dont have to deal with

    drama and other stuff that doesnt help me get my college degree faster
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 3

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    DarknessIsLight99 DarknessIsLight99 13-15, F Aug 13

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    you might as well say I'm a Lonerr

    as well because ppl only want to hit you up when it's best convient for them. you call and ask for advice and they wind up talking about themselves I just give up on people especially these fake *** friends and rather keep to myself. any problems I have I will talk to God and...
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I feel more comfortable to spend most the time

    alone, I like people but it gets tiring after awhile. :/
    SunsetOvercast SunsetOvercast 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    I don't go to church,

    or drink, or get high, and I'm not straight edge. Everyone I know is involved in at least one of those. I don't fit in anywhere. Can't I just find people to hang out with that don't feel the need to pray or take mind altering substances or play crappy edge rock?
    insomniacmayhem insomniacmayhem 26-30, M Aug 1

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