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I Am a Loner

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    It really is my fault ,

    I had friends girlfriends every now and then lol , but I decided to smoke pot and play video games and not give a **** about anyone well a year later I'm a loner (stoner) xD i say few words and always reply with " yep , no , not sure " I'm so awkward now from how I was last year...
    Mihkowakayios Mihkowakayios 13-15, M 6 Responses Aug 5

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    With every person I ever talk to,

    I create like a whole different persona to talk to then with. I am NEVER myself. Sometimes I feel like I have to match them. I don't know what to do and I can't keep doing it. How do I just be myself?
    superstar2271 superstar2271 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    me on 4th july... watching the fireworks.

    .. pathetically alone... and there like a couple behind me... *sigh im hopelessly single
    BSRivera01 BSRivera01 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    Why I'M Proud Of Being A Loner ...

    We're psychotics, serial killers, child molesters, disturbed neurotics .... at least according to society. People disrespect what they don't understand, and most people don't understand the loner's love for solitude. I'm proud of being a loner because I don't need other people to...
    LunaAle LunaAle 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    This is true. Have been

    for much of my life. I have had adult friends. But the definition changes. Some through work. Some I grew up with. Some I met as an adult. Unfortunately. I was once married to a woman who hated outside influences. So she isolated me from family and friends. By the time I'd...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Aug 3

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    I'm fine being isolated from everyone.

    There's been days where I sat in my room and only saw people when i left to eat. And I'm fine like that. My parents think i need friends but i really don't. Besides i cant make friends anyway because I cant be around people i don't know.
    ForgottenFantasy ForgottenFantasy 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    I barely have any friends.

    .. I have 10 friends... It is kinda sad... But I'm always happy
    Lala188 Lala188 16-17, F 6 Responses May 28

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    Why I Am a Loner--as Much As I Understand It

    Update, November 1, 2007: While all of what I wrote is true, a few things happened recently that have me rethinking it.  I have good reason to think there is a lot to like in some people, and maybe a little to like in just about everyone.  So I'm giving people another...
    freeeedom freeeedom 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 4, 2007

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    I spend everyday alone,

    my 'friends' always expect me to make the effort of talking to them, or coming to see them. but when i ask why they can't come see me, there is always an excuse 'i'm too busy' or 'i have no money' what and i do? So i now spend everyday alone by choice, i would rather be a...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    Man Of Stone, Walks Alone

    I should really stop doing this, because it doesn't really make me feel any better about anything going on in my life; but at the same time, I find myself addicted. I enjoy viewing people's photos on Facebook, or trolling through Photobucket for public albums. I see all these...
    TheDarkTower TheDarkTower 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 25, 2012

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    I am by choice. It makes me less vulnerable.

    Yes, it is not ideal. It is sad and often times lonely but it is less complicated. I don't like complications. I hate responsibilities and I hate expectations. If you are with someone, you can't really avoid responsibility, expectations and complications. So I decided to...
    darkskyeam darkskyeam 26-30, F 15 Responses May 20

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    all I have is my my balls

    and money ....
    Mihkowakayios Mihkowakayios 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Why is it like that when you are kind

    and good person,then also you experience bad karma.?? I am very lonely..and as i see it..i guess being a good guy..has made me do it,now my personality has become so dull that i cant even think what to do next. I am so lonely and unloved that it had,frustrated me to a height of...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I've been homeschooled my entire life.

    I participate in gymnastics, cheerleading, and modeling and yet...I have no friends and no one to talk to...
    Brooklyn211 Brooklyn211 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I've always been a loner.

    I don't know why, just am. I tend to keep to myself, don't open up to anyone. I also think a lot, just by myself.
    TheReflector TheReflector 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Being Alone In Peace Is Seventh Heaven!

    I have always been a private person, but also a caretaking type and the kind of friend who likes a close relationship and not much of the going-out-in-groups stuff. I know a lot of people but don't think of myself as having a lot of friends because I am not in touch with people...
    girlcapitol girlcapitol 51-55, F 20 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I stay indoors. A LOT.

    I'm kinda scared to go outside. There's PEOPLE out there.
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    ashleyoo ashleyoo 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    Finding Myself

    When I was in my early 20s, I had a period where I was confused about everything. Life, love, you name it, I was confused. So I packed a few things in my pickup and headed to the mountains. I lived in Utah at the time and knew of a great place. There was a mountain road that...
    stankadiddlehopper stankadiddlehopper 51-55, M 19 Responses Apr 10, 2012

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    “As a child I felt myself to be alone,

    and I am still, because I know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know.” ― C.G. Jung, The famous Swiss psychiatrist, I have my answer, I am in good company! As an introvert I love living inside my...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 6 Responses Feb 11

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    I'm one of those people

    who have no social life or any friends in real life. But, it doesn't really bother me anymore. I remember the phrase, "The less people in your life, the less drama." And that is so true.There's a particular song and music video that perfectly describes my life as a loner. It's...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 30

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    I bet my mom never thought her son would smoke

    weed , have more internet friends than IRL , drop out freshman year xD . But that's just de way t'is .
    MisledS0ul MisledS0ul 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    Lets just say, I would

    rather be a loner then in a park smoking & taking drugs. I don't exactly come across as an attractive or friendly-looking person to be honest either, that may be another reason too.
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I don't have a car at the moment

    so it's hard for me to get around where I live. I keep applying to jobs but have not had good luck with that and the ones I have gotten in the past didn't end too great either. I invite people to my house but they always seem "too busy" or they have a job. I took off time from...
    manicattackx manicattackx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting to Be Alone...is There?

    I am a very introverted person and simply don't like to have too much company. Sure there are people I talk to, some of them I consider to be friends, but after all I'm rather alone. I can feel rather drained if too many people are around me. i spend most of my free time to...
    ittooktoolong ittooktoolong 22-25, F 32 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    And I prefer to be lonely short term

    as I find it comfortable and I like the simplicity it brings to my life. Long term (years from now) I know voluntary loneliness is not a sustainable habit for going off on your own and building a career. I'm hoping I can make a smooth transition during these next few years in...
    Philonous Philonous 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a weird kind of loner.

    I've managed to create a persona at school, in which I am a totally indifferent, closed off loner, who speaks only when I know it will be both really funny and ambivalent about my true emotions. So, this has made me a weirdly attractive loner; a kind of strange oddity that...
    someoneandstuff someoneandstuff 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    ~A Lone Christian Warrior~

    I've always been a loner since I was a little child. I preferred to be by the tree at the Elementary school instead of playing with the kids. In middle school I would be to myself, sitting alone at lunch or hiding in the library. In high school, I find solace in the music blaring...
    SeraphimLupus SeraphimLupus 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    Wowzers, Ive come away camping on holiday,

    it's taken me a week to gnet my head back and ever since I arrived the people who own the pub/campsite have done their upmost to usurp me. Inc. commencing digging under the tent, after I had got back at 4pm. How can I be paranoid!?! Their child even taking a crystal ( expensive...
    Outbornmotor Outbornmotor 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    So I'm so not a comedian in class I had no idea

    I told a pretty funny joke. Teacher asked what is alcohol and I answered a bottle of fun. Everyone started laughing and I had no idea why. It took a minute to realize I did something funny.
    Nick1354 Nick1354 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 1

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    I Shouldn't Have To Pretend I'm Like Everyone Else

    I'm a loner.....thats just me.....it's the way i've always been. Since joining EP i've come to terms with it more and i'm not as embarressed to admit now that i keep myself to myself and have only one friend (who i don't see alot of). I've made friends with people on here who are...
    Evernight Evernight 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Some people just are

    and there is nothing wrong in the fact. Dont we all like our own company at times. It takes strength to be a 'loner' as you have to be happy with yourself in order to do it. The problem can arise when you are a loner for emotional reasons such as being hurt too much by...
    AX5625 AX5625 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I Enjoy My Time Alone

    I don't feel like I have to be someone else. I don't have to talk. I don't have to pay attention to what someone else is saying. I can wear my pj's all day. I don't have to answer silly questions or laugh at corny jokes. When I am alone I no longer feel lonely. I feel relieved.
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Because I don't need to be with other people to

    be happy, and I feel sorry for those who do.
    psyone psyone 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I told myself for over 5 years

    that no one liked me and that no one wanted to be friends with me.. and it became true I felt for so long that no one liked me and that no one wanted to be friends with me. I became angry, dismissive towards most people who i felt had better lives than me (like everyone) and i...
    kudi13 kudi13 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Like It

    My perfect life would be to live in a log cabin in the woods, on a lake. With a husband or without. IDC. For work, I would do something with telecommunications and just work from home. It would be legal to have my car windows completely blacked out all over so that no one could...
    looklife looklife 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    I have been a loner all 17 years of my life.

    I have plenty of friends, and some really good friends, but I've never dated, firstly because I never saw a point, and secondly I moved away from the one girl I really actually liked. So, I might have a while to enjoy being a loner.
    Horizonstorm Horizonstorm 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    None will miss me. That is sadly comforting.

    Knowing I can leave whenever I please and no one will hurt. It is also saddening as well. No one to care, to love, to look out for. What am I doing to myself...
    kelsey0616 kelsey0616 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I make even a wolfs life seem more fun

    and full of friends. Im always alone , most time time im wondering why there are so many humans on the planet . I use to try and make friends but not one wanted me . So since i was all alone , i just got use to it . Loner should be my name , it would fit very well . I...
    Imadesk Imadesk 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    If I'm bust like two days in a row I have to

    have a day to just do nothing and be alone! Sometimes I ditch my friend just to stay home...but I kind of like being by myself
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Though out my entire life,

    it was really hard for me to make friends. I just was to shy to make friends with anyone. Except this one girl that I have known since we were 3. She was shy too, so that worked out in some crazy way. But know I have some close friends, which is good. I've just ignored the...
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F Jul 11

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    This is also I'm a sociopath.

    .. Also a narcissist... My partners mom (who lives with us) wants her grandson to stay for 5 days starting tomorrow. I can't really say no. I've gotten her to change the dates 4 times already. I require the most untouched routines possible. Another body in the house throws me...
    SocioNarcc SocioNarcc 31-35, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I could have went out tonight

    but instead I decided to stay home and watch movies by myself. I think I'm more of a loner because most kids my age are immature and annoy the **** out of me within ten minutes. Even some of my closest friends get on my nerves sometimes... None of them really understand me :P
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I Was A Loner But Now I Have A Little Girl.

    She is my world. I love her so much.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Always Was

    I don't hang around with anyone except on certain occasions or just when I feel like being around other people. Most of the time, I don't feel like it. I do have friends, I think. Friends would be those people who have helped out when life was ****, right? Then, yeah, I have...
    ItWorkedInTheory ItWorkedInTheory 70+, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2013

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    Lone - Not Lonely.

    I can't remember if I posted a story in this group yet but I believe I have. In fact, it may have been one of the first stories I posted on EP after becoming a member and finally beginning to contribute. This morning, I'm surrounded by the beautiful silence that accompanies the...
    Intelligently Intelligently 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Loners,

    Why is it that people who have been rejected, chewed up and spit out, gutted by "friends", "family" and the world make the best and most loyal friends? I had a crappy childhood. Friends, they came and went. I'm an introvert and just could never keep up with social games, the...
    paintedblue paintedblue 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    A Female Loner

    I have never been entertained by idle chatter, or fluff. This has left me without many friends, maybe because I have been hurt so badly by other women. The way I think isn't common, I can see through phonyness and fakeness quite clearly; I guess that's why I don't do well in...
    missmixty missmixty 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2012

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    Best Vacation

    My favorite vacation is to drive away, find a cheap-but-decent motel with some shopping & restaurants nearby, and enjoy being alone.  Some of my friends can't understand this.  For example, last year I drove upstate to a small town.  I told my friends and co...
    Rusj Rusj 56-60 27 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I just want to make friends with kids my age

    who are cool with talk to, joke with, FaceTime and chat. I need people to talk to. message me?
    uhjord uhjord 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I'm a loner stoner and I ******* love being a

    loner stoner. No drama , just me and my self :)
    MisledS0ul MisledS0ul 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am almost 25 years old,

    and, although I can safely say I've been a loner my entire life, but I've been having trouble coming to grips with it the last year or so. I've never had many friends, but I find my extremely small group of friends shrinking ever smaller. I've been in a relationship, but it...
    Metroid89 Metroid89 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 23

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    Yes I am a Loner,but

    that doesn't mean I am lonely.nor that I am alone. I merely do not need nor desire a large circle of friends nor a busy social schedule. This is just who I am and I am very comfortable with it. I have had 2 very close friends in my life ,and ironically they were both very social...
    GreenBlueEyes GreenBlueEyes 41-45 1 Response Jul 6

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