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I Am a Loner

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    i maybe a loner but not lonely just love to

    spend quality time with myself...sound weird but that's who I AM.
    alx99 alx99 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 9

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    It's strange, I've moved to another country

    recently and I'm really having trouble meeting new friends. I've signed up for internations and other such sites and I've been to several events, however I can't seen to force myself to open up to people. It's like I start off good, get a conversation going, but as soon as I...
    MulanLabe MulanLabe 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    These last few months has made me EXTRA proud

    to be a loner, and the farther I can get away from everyone the better I'll be. I have NEVER in my young life witness so many WEAK PEOPLE! People scared to open their mouths, always wants to be depressed. Rather be a follower than a leader. Don't know how to stand up to...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    nrogel nrogel 22-25, M Jul 27

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    Not much to say... I was considered someone

    'normal' time ago. But things got messed up, parents didn't care, friends weren't there and i got betrayed several times...It hurted back in the days, till i became what i am today.Today, loneliness is my friend, I feel more relaxed and in peace alone than in a group being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2014

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    I seriously couldn't sleep last night,

    a lot of stuff on my mind, so I've been up all night and morning. All 7 of my roommates are home this morning which is unusual, so I get up and get dressed and leave. I can only deal with my roommates all at once in doses and if I had stayed there, I would had over dosed. So I...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    Reason #787 while I'm a loner.

    I'm really tired of having to constantly second guess everyone's true intentions, like damn how hard is it to just keep ish real! Seriously, I'm better off by myself. I don't have the time nor the energy to play around and get exhausted in someone else's world. That mess is...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I don't go to church,

    or drink, or get high, and I'm not straight edge. Everyone I know is involved in at least one of those. I don't fit in anywhere. Can't I just find people to hang out with that don't feel the need to pray or take mind altering substances or play crappy edge rock?
    insomniacmayhem insomniacmayhem 26-30, M Aug 1

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    Workingclassman Workingclassman 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 24

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    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    Being a loner is no bad ,

    everything is okay if you just to be silent , but thanks to loner , because , i did not hurt someone who talk to me or joke with me
    RArchangle RArchangle 16-17, M Aug 11

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    I keep to myself. I go to work,

    I go home. The introvert works in too, as I tend to lose energy from being around people, and recharge by being on my own. I look forward to being home, typically playing GTA on ps3. Every now and then I'll get a craving for going to the bar, finding the quiet ones or the loners...
    musikid48 musikid48 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    DarknessIsLightq DarknessIsLightq 13-15, F Aug 14

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    “As a child I felt myself to be alone,

    and I am still, because I know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know.” ― C.G. Jung, The famous Swiss psychiatrist, I have my answer, I am in good company! As an introvert I love living inside my...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 7 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    Disclaimer: This is all opinion.

    Take it with a grain of salt. _____________________________ I spend lots of time in the forests alone, or just anywhere. I find it hard to change.. I like people, but I'm always alone. It's odd, a choice. I used to think being a loner was cool. But I wasn't one at that time...
    ecofox ecofox 22-25, M 4 Responses May 13

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    touchtorelax touchtorelax 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I feel so out of place,

    everywhere I go. I'm always that person left out or just there. It's like I don't belong. Today I went to go watch avengers with my friends and it was 5 of us. 2 of my friends sat together, and the other 2 sat together, and me? I was in the middle like alone. Like I enjoyed the...
    PreparedForHell PreparedForHell 18-21, M 5 Responses May 4

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    Last night, I jumped in my car,

    and just drove around. I went to a random apartment complex, and having to drive slow over the little speed bump things, I was able to take a glance inside people's apt windows that they had open. Some people were cooking, some were watching tv, and one lady was mopping the crap...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 8 Responses May 13

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 11

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    because I'm already worthless to everyone

    so I'm just by myself all the time
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 8 Responses Aug 6

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    I love and hate being alone.

    Sometimes it's so peaceful and I wish it could be like this always. But other times when I'm alone no one hears my screams and no one sees me cry. People always ask me why I'm alone and quiet but it's because I chose who I talk to very precisely. If I have narrowed you out of...
    GarasaurausRex GarasaurausRex 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I barely have any friends.

    .. I have 10 friends... It is kinda sad... But I'm always happy
    Lala188 Lala188 18-21, F 7 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Period. I really am. Some people may not

    understand, and I guess they mean well with all the advice to go out more - but to me, they are just like birds attempting to advise a fish to leave that cold water and try flying for once. We are simply too different... I've always enjoyed doing things on my own. And I really...
    AndSto AndSto 26-30, M 5 Responses Jun 26

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    It's so hard to relate to people,

    I wish I had friends..😔
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 15

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    was born one, slowly becoming more

    and more outgoing and probably selectively social right now, but still love my old "aloof" days
    omss omss 18-21, M Aug 12

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    If i register myself

    as an organ donor will somebody come for my heart? :)
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 17 Responses Jul 1

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    So I'm so not a comedian in class I had no idea

    I told a pretty funny joke. Teacher asked what is alcohol and I answered a bottle of fun. Everyone started laughing and I had no idea why. It took a minute to realize I did something funny.
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 1, 2014

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    ayiraartistf ayiraartistf 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Aug 12

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    I have very little or no friends in real life

    circles. Most are just acquaintances. I am a loner. I Walk alone, eat alone, have fun times alone. And this situation is beyond my control. It has come to be a natural occurrence. I seem to have this invincible wall around me. It seems I built it gradually, brick by brick, over...
    Significant Significant 26-30, F 13 Responses Apr 12

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    i like to be alone,inside my room playing

    guitar,drawing or reading books that i like to read....and not talking to someone else just i love to be alone
    redre22 redre22 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I Enjoy My Time Alone

    I don't feel like I have to be someone else. I don't have to talk. I don't have to pay attention to what someone else is saying. I can wear my pj's all day. I don't have to answer silly questions or laugh at corny jokes. When I am alone I no longer feel lonely. I feel relieved.
    nicoleal20 nicoleal20 46-50, F 14 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    i feel like an alien.

    i don't feel like i connect well with others. i don't feel like others connect with me. i don't feel like other people see the world i see. and i'd rather sit alone with my vision, than let it go to join the mass.
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I've gone to school everyday

    for 12 years.. And I've been no one.. Just a loner.. Just someone that's broken. Unable to be put back together with glue or tape. I feel useless because no one loves me.. I come home and everyone ignores me and treats me like ****... I've never felt real love.. No ones really...
    JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 6

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    its soooo much fun i dont have to deal with

    drama and other stuff that doesnt help me get my college degree faster
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 3

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    So while my roomates are out being little

    social extrovert butterflies ( rolling my eyes ) I have the whole place to myself, and I just cooked me up a fat, awesome Brazilian burger that I'm going to enjoy with a 72 inch flat screen TV all to myself and chop it up with some of you awesome EP people! This is the life...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    At least, my grandpa must think so!

    He gave me one walkie-talkie. There was never anybody on the other end.
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    according to the other kids,

    i'm the weird baka that no one likes. i like that. i'm that quiet kid that gets yelled at for day dreaming like there's no tomorrow. i'm a thief. i steal your feels. once i got called the son of Hades for a fan fiction i did. thanks, by the way. i am the proud son of Hades! i...
    DemonsFreak DemonsFreak 13-15, M Aug 25

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    There's Nothing Wrong With Wanting to Be Alone...is There?

    I am a very introverted person and simply don't like to have too much company. Sure there are people I talk to, some of them I consider to be friends, but after all I'm rather alone. I can feel rather drained if too many people are around me. i spend most of my free time to...
    ittooktoolong ittooktoolong 22-25, F 31 Responses Jul 9, 2007

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    Loner For Life, Proud And With No Regrets

    Right now I am in the middle of a vacation from my job, 26 straight days off with pay.  What is the best part of this, besides free money of course? The fact that I can spend many days hibernating at home, not having to lay eyes on any human being. Yes, I am a loner, it may...
    deepintheheart deepintheheart 41-45, M 20 Responses Aug 12, 2011

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    I never was perfect to live around people,

    I embarrass myself & my friends most of the time, no one can leave me in peace... But not only that, I have a feeling that I'm also becoming dangerous & dark... I need to keep my position from everyone
    WolfsterTheWere WolfsterTheWere 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Does anyone want to talk?

    I'm free...pretty much all the time don't care about race or gender or if you're trans, gay, lesbian, or bi but I want to talk to someone preferably my age
    CallmeTJ CallmeTJ 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I've always been a loner.

    I think that's just the way I am and no amount of trying to be different will ever change the real me. I've tried to be outgoing and socialize but I'm not being true to myself. I have a few friends, I love them and I respect them. They also know that I like my own space and do...
    AnAngelSmile AnAngelSmile 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 10

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    I have no friends or

    even family everybody hates me for no reason I hate my life sometimes I just wanna give up on life.
    Jme103 Jme103 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 6 Responses Jul 27

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