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I Am a Loser

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    I am an American Loser.

    I thought I was a winner in life. But I chased all the wrong things and ended up a total loser. I am going to take a long look at my life and turn it around. I have no talent and I could never admit it to myself. I see now and I'm going to change my life without feeling sorry...
    DearAble DearAble 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I'm 19 and have never kissed a girl

    because I stutter and I'm too shy in any case to talk. Loser does not begin to describe me.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I am a loser because I messed up my studies

    and got debts for them now... this is not attractive for my partner, i Am a loser because I can not admit my debts infront of him. I am a loser because I lost my family, they are all split up and nobody really care for another. I am a loser because I don't like this world and it...
    noimport noimport 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    I havent had friends- any friends,

    not even ****** ones- since 2012. I stay at home all day on the weekends. I never have any plans. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to college, yet i dont have any friends and i never leave the house unless im forced to go to school. I have no talents and i just sit in my room...
    eacclix75 eacclix75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I suck at everything.

    I suck at making friends. Suck at sports. Suck at math. Suck at being pretty. I learned that school can never be a good place for me. I feel like a ghost, like nobody can see me, nobody cares about me. I'm tired of running around chasing people and ending up getting nothing...
    indierecord123 indierecord123 13-15, F 9 Responses May 13

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    I am a loser, I am a great loser

    and I am the biggest loser of this planet. Nothing happened in my life what I wanted. Still I hope that something better will happen. But nothing. I am alone. But I want to be friend with others. I want to lead a happy life. People of my age live life happily, but I am confined...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    Loser.Dork.Nerd.Weird.

    Call me what you want but really I'm just a Luke ( my name). Confident in all the wrong ways but the most positively pessimistic person you will meet. I bash down on myself for all the things wrong I have done in my life but never give myself credit foe the great things I've...
    Lugelogistics93 Lugelogistics93 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I'm really fed up with it.

    I've watched everyone in life pass me by. I'm 32 and in grad school because I chose a lousy stupid major, then was too lazy to make it work. I'm a ****-poor example of a big brother, and feel like a constant disappointment and embarrassment to my parents and family. I have no...
    TheRealMSol TheRealMSol 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    silentkillxc1 silentkillxc1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 1

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    Drinking, listening to death metal,

    craving pills. Welcome to my domicile lol.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 3 Responses May 6

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    At my 25 I have achieved NOTHING

    or almost nothing.. I am currently unemployed, live in a god-forsaken third world country.. I have been unemployed for the past one year and my last job was a pure nightmare, it worsened my anxiety, I'm STILL recovering.. Well, what else.. oh yes, I have never had a boyfriend or...
    sweetsnake sweetsnake 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today was my day off.

    And I slept through most of it.
    Jakewilli Jakewilli 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I guess I am a loser

    and useless.....
    savannaD14 savannaD14 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 26

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    I fail so many classes.

    I don't even try to save my grades and when I do it's like trying to put out a wildfire using a small glass of water. I see no future for myself. Once upon a time I dreamed of being a successful businesswoman or doctor and that dream is slowly fading away. My dads expectations...
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    i have 19 years old and I am

    such a loser! loser with girls,with college, with life projects. today i just failed in my drive license test. I fell like i don't fit in anywhere. my friemds are soo far away from me. i want to get better but i just can't
    igr27 igr27 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship

    I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only couples reply and none are suitable or at least could help me to pay the bills. I kept sending resume though, my spirit is falling. Am I so stupid or...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    Everybody Is A Loser

    everybody is a loser..not one person on this earth can escape death..the big Game Over...so when that person runs off with your special someone or when you get kicked in the head by the bully on the playground or when you notice that you don't look like those fashion models in...
    spindabottle spindabottle 36-40 5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I like every post I see

    because I know it makes people feel good about them selves. And also because Im not a judgemental c#~t
    JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses May 20

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 21 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I'm a wanna be nerd try hard fail ****** up

    unlucky and isolated super senior who was held back one year in Kindergarten. I am poor, awkward, and talk with a dark voice devoid of any feelings. I am the shadow on the wall, the smudge on the ground, and the chewed up gum of the bathroom that girls pass by without a glance...
    Tucker66 Tucker66 16-17 1 Response Mar 18

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    I just achieve the 3rd prize in the competition

    for good students. So sad and disappointed now
    LinhTran LinhTran 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 53 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Kind of want to sleep,

    kind of want a bunch of pills, kind of want to have sex, kind of want to die. Idk.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 4 Responses May 11

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    Ha. I know it shouldn't bother me

    but it does. Everyone who wanted me actually just wanted my mom... Kinda makes me feel unwanted. Those people turned around and ****** her. I'm sorry but you can't crush on me and want my mom. Either way it doesn't matter. I have a boyfriend. I shouldn't be bothered by it.
    Bobafettt Bobafettt 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I never wanted to accept that,

    but im a loser. Cos everyone avoids me no matter where. Real life or online, im noone. As i was younger i wanted to impress people, i opened my mouth and started to talk, i started conversations, i spoke to my co workers, but soon they left me. What does it mean? That meands im...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 19

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    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 16 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    lollipop969 lollipop969 18-21, M 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    Yup, I am. Or at least I think I am.

    I'm like Peter Parker who hasn't gotten bitten by a radioactive spider and becomes one of the coolest superheroes. I'm more of a just a guy who just sits his fat *** on a chair and uses the computer or plays video games. I usually think how much of a loser I am and how everyone...
    Xemplefied Xemplefied 26-30, M 3 Responses May 9

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    I'm 24. Got no job, no money,

    no car, and I live off my uninsured family. Still afraid of alot of people, though I try not to let it show. My 22 year old brother is more responsible than me and has worked more jobs than I have. (I have had 0 and have not very many places to volunteer.) I guess listening to...
    themagicsback themagicsback 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 18-21, F 10 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I have a crush on a guy

    and I'm too scared to admit it, I know he'll never like me back, so just talking to him and teasing him as he teases me makes me feel a little better, because I don't know if I'm ready to be in a relationship in junior high, I don't know if it'll cause drama that I don't want...
    indierecord123 indierecord123 13-15, F 3 Responses May 12

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    I just messed something big up.

    Really bad. Oh my god. Hes hates me so much now no!!!????????????????????
    Autumn15243 Autumn15243 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 2

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    i will always be a loser

    and im proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    JolenaMartins JolenaMartins 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    i do not have a lot of friends.

    i have so many interest in life like playing musical instruments, sports, arts, singing etc... but i dont excel any of those things... resulting me realizing as a loser. sigh
    letmedothat letmedothat 18-21, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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