I Am a Loser

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97
    18-21, F
    9 Responses May 2, 2014
    SomeGuyNamedBlue SomeGuyNamedBlue
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 17, 2016

    Yes i am a loser... Why every time it happen to

    me.Oh god again you.I don't get it why me.But remember one thing i am not leave it.I will go for it.And work hard on it.i give you a hard lesson for this ROBI.
    Najdia Najdia
    18-21, M
    Feb 6, 2016

    Have you ever been so borde

    that you would play card games with your grandmother
    gummybearkips gummybearkips
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    Since I was a child, I've been struggling to do

    things which are easy as pie for others... The really problematic part is that people around me have high expectations and think I am a strong person. It's so agonising to have paradoxes in every aspect of life.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 7, 2016


    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Sep 17, 2013
    Mateo76 Mateo76
    41-45, M
    Nov 5, 2015

    I am big loser, i can do nothing good,

    whatever i try i just can't figure out how to do it the right way, even though someone is there is telling me the best way possible. i had so many hobbies but now none. i am a failure in everything i try. i fell in love with a girl, got rejected, still in love with her even...
    noclue1 noclue1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 30, 2016

    I followed/stalked a guy around in the mall

    and finally got the guts to talk to him AND ******* MELTED! Braces, F*cking amazing a** smile, BOI DONT EVEN GET ME STARTED ON HIS VOICE! I never asked him his name so I call him Daniel.... AND I DIDNT EVEN ASK FOR HIS DAMN NUMBER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I MAY NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN
    XxDrPepsiiiixX XxDrPepsiiiixX
    70+, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2016

    Life tricks you. One moment things are better

    than you ever thought possible! Then everything goes downhill and things are shittier than ever. That's what's happening to me. I was so depressed and suicidal for a long time and then things got better for like a year. Now things are worse than they have ever been. I lost my...
    kberry95 kberry95
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2016

    If I were to imagine a world like a book,

    with a specific plot and specific characters, I feel like I would be one of the characters that only show up once or twice in the book and die at the end. I feel like an after thought most of the time, especially when around my friends, who have such eventful lives going on...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 21, 2016

    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Jul 8, 2010
    silentkillxc1 silentkillxc1
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 1, 2015

    I am good at nothing; I am not a good student;

    I can't play any instruments; I cannot do any sports well. Sometimes I feel that I'm a fool and I don't understand other people; I have no real friends; I can't see any real talent in me and there's nothing at which I'm skilled. I even can't play video games well... I don't know...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    I just want to say...

    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2015

    i think i am a loser

    and I don't have time for their judgement and their stupidity and you know they lay down with their ugly wives in front of their ugly children and look at their loser lives and then they look at me and they say, 'I can't process it' well, no, you never will stop trying, just...
    iamsal iamsal
    16-17, F
    Jan 1, 2016

    Am I the only person

    who is sad when everyone is welcoming new year
    Invisible20 Invisible20
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    I feel like I'm the one

    who isn't so lucky. like the one who doesn't do well for herself. the one who watches as everyone else succeeds while I struggle more and more.
    mentallyhigh mentallyhigh
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    I'm such a loser. I struggle to hold

    conversations with people, my jokes are mediocure, I'm a college dropout, I want women who will never in their right minds go after a guy like me, the list goes on and on. when I was 12 I knew I wanted to make films. not for fame but because I had vision. I saw things in my head...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    Yes, I RESPECT women

    and do not believe they are just objects. They should be VALUED the same as men in our society. But man, I'm a 25 year old virgin, who just has these strong sexual urges. Like, I'll look at an attractive female and just think of the things I would do to her in bed. I want to...
    jonbz17 jonbz17
    26-30, M
    Dec 2, 2015

    I am destined to be a loser.

    The harder I try, the less I achieve. When I look at me and compare myself to others, I just lose the little bit of hope I have. I ask myself: When you are doomed to be loser, why should you try?
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    I'm in my mid 30`s and I have nothing.

    I don't have a career, a husband, no kids, or even a boyfriend. My life sucks .
    Tigerpop Tigerpop
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    lollipop969 lollipop969
    18-21, M
    3 Responses May 30, 2013
    KuSeGanTian KuSeGanTian
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    deleted deleted
    18 Responses May 10, 2011

    I just wanted a guy friend

    that I can talk to about everything
    kati13marie kati13marie
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    22 Responses Jun 19, 2009
    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    I like every post I see

    because I know it makes people feel good about them selves. And also because Im not a judgemental c#~t
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 20, 2015

    I'm the loser type that everyone ignores,

    or don't even notice that I'm there Never picked me for anything Never can get anyone to notice me But aye... It's sometime's nice to be a loser :3
    Bonshaqui Bonshaqui
    16-17, F
    15 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro
    36-40, M
    20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

    I am a true loser in life.

    Everything about me and my life says I am a complete loser. No one wants me and no one cares. I may as well not exist anymore.
    UnwantedLoser UnwantedLoser
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2015

    I fail so many classes.

    I don't even try to save my grades and when I do it's like trying to put out a wildfire using a small glass of water. I see no future for myself. Once upon a time I dreamed of being a successful businesswoman or doctor and that dream is slowly fading away. My dads expectations...
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    I just want a friend I can do

    so many stuff with.
    Itiswonderful Itiswonderful
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2015


    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013
    26-30, M
    7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

    Maybe the truth is, there's a little bit of

    loser in all of us. Being happy isn't having everything in your life be perfect. Maybe it's about stringing together all the little things.”
    iamsal iamsal
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2016

    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane
    36-40, M
    14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

    I'm a loser but eh, I won't be this way forever

    I hope. I'm only 19. I think it's okay to be a little bit of a loser ;)
    churchdadatnight churchdadatnight
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    i feel like college is hard

    for me ??????????????????
    alexispeguero95 alexispeguero95
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    I don't care anymore,

    I've died already. It's done I'm not me I've never been me. If you or anyone care then too late. I'm gone. Forever. Leaves fall from trees Rain falls all down Life gone from my corpse
    SilverSapphireDragon SilverSapphireDragon
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    There is nothing wrong with being a Loser.

    I think the ones who loses are people who understand life. But for me, I am truly a loser. I have had so many oppurtunities to chase my dream, but i was scared of risks , didn't want to get out of my comfort zone. I have lost my first love because i was scared. I knew she liked...
    MangarMunko MangarMunko
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 2, 2015

    I am a true loser. I have not a single side to

    impress others. I have failed every class playing video games. Most of all , I failed my mother , I failed my family and i failed her. Now i'm 20 , jobless , no degree , no nothing , no friends because i don't trust none of them. I know some of you will leave this world...
    MangarMunko MangarMunko
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

    I really am.32 years old,

    leeching of my 56 year old mom and my 25 year old brother.I don't actually spend my either,I don't go out,I don't smoke/drink,I don't own a car...Never really were into those things.My parents split up when I was 16.Had major impact on me,failed school because of it,basically...
    GenuineLoser GenuineLoser
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2016
    Casualdeviant02 Casualdeviant02
    18-21, T
    4 Responses Mar 23, 2015

    I'm so introverted and socially awkward

    that I'll be living alone with no social life playing games all night and sleeping all day..
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    i do not have a lot of friends.

    i have so many interest in life like playing musical instruments, sports, arts, singing etc... but i dont excel any of those things... resulting me realizing as a loser. sigh
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 6, 2015

    So here is the truth.

    I'm 24 years old, I've never been kissed by a girl, never had a car, I'm a virgin, and I lie about my job all time to make myself look better to people. I'm a college graduate who works full time in retail and gets paid 10.80 an hour.
    jonbz17 jonbz17
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    I havnt made 1 friend in 3 almost 4 years

    and ive lost my old ones..
    AyatoMuffin AyatoMuffin
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    Screw this ******* life,

    just have decided to get out of this misery that another incident happened. I am doomed to be a fiasco.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 16, 2015

    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2014

    Feeling terrible. Everyday of my life.

    I have good intentions, but they backfire, resulting in scolding from people and hatred. Sometimes my dad would whack me and use vulgarities. He'd use use the word **** sometimes. There was one time he sent me out of the house for a while just because I'm Facebook friends with a...
    AngelEai AngelEai
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2015

    Sadly true man but ayeee

    who gives two sh*ts XD
    XxDrPepsiiiixX XxDrPepsiiiixX
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    I found neither faith,

    nor union with my lover/And now I belong neither there nor here.
    nice4mheart nice4mheart
    36-40, M
    Nov 28, 2015

    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis
    41-45, M
    57 Responses Nov 29, 2009
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