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I Am a Loser

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3,189 People

    I Would Be Considered A Loser,...

    I would be considered a loser, but i really don't care.  If that's what i am, then i'm proud of it.  It's better than being popular and not having true friends.
    denialsworld denialsworld 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2007

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    I just got a new job they hired me

    as a boss so I guess that's going well for me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 7, 2014

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    I'm a 32 years old guy from Indonesia.

    Graduated about 13 years ago from U.S, and then "back for good" to my home country, supposedly working for a family business. Many people honestly tell me (or view me) as a very talented, even multi-talented person. But unfortunately/sadly, somehow I just lack several few...
    nikiwonoto nikiwonoto 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    it's all my fault, i would have never predicted

    my life would lead me to this dark time i'm enduring. where i see old friends, and past classmates of mine already taking off in their careers. i'm still in my bubble, where it stinks and it's depressing being lonely, unemployed, and also losing hair on top of that at a young...
    joe0ner joe0ner 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    Everyone I come across tells me how good

    looking I am and how wonderful a person I am, even strangers. Yet I can't bear looking at myself In the mirror. I hate that I can make everyone around me happy, but I can't cope with myself
    Rudanthonick Rudanthonick 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2014

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 20 Responses May 10, 2011

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    I understand, I feel the same way.

    I feel like no matter what I do, I will never be allowed to succeed or win. I feel like my entire life was set up for failure from the very beginning. Any time I am good enough to be the best at something, something ridiculous happens to take it away from me. Here is one story...
    realbeerad realbeerad 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    hi my name is kelvin.

    am 16 and God!! am such a loser!!????
    kelvink kelvink 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I feel worthless. No one likes me

    and I don't know what to do anymore. I wish someone loved me
    arionna21 arionna21 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    Everybody Is A Loser

    everybody is a loser..not one person on this earth can escape death..the big Game Over...so when that person runs off with your special someone or when you get kicked in the head by the bully on the playground or when you notice that you don't look like those fashion models in...
    spindabottle spindabottle 36-40 5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    English isn't my 1st language,

    so forgive my grammar and other things. I am an Indian in his late twenties. I am in India. I just thought I need to mention that because that is part of context. I wasn't always like this. I used to be good, real good. In school, I was so famous. Everyone liked me. I was like...
    deadrat deadrat 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    How am I at this age

    and am still no different than I was years ago. I'm still a nobody! I feel so ashamed. I bet people know too and think it's hilarious
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Im Sad And Sorry

    Ever since i was born i have been a loser, when i was born my doctor tried to push me back in rather than celebrate my enrty into the world When i was at school i was beat up daily by the other kids, and mad fun of by the girls Now im in my 30s im still a virgin and still live...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    No one even asks if I'm okay.

    .. Nobody notices me at all. I can't make friends. The only time noticed is when I hold the door open for people, and they say thank you
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 24, 2014

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    I tried to approach someone

    and started talking and she just looked at me and laughed in my face. after the year I have had trying to date and get to know people I should have known better not to even try but I did anyone and all it got me was to be belittled and laughed at. so therefore my lesson has been...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M 8 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 10 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship

    I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only couples reply and none are suitable or at least could help me to pay the bills. I kept sending resume though, my spirit is falling. Am I so stupid or...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    I think i'm a real loser.

    I can't do anything well. When i do exercise, i can't really finish it. I always get too tired to do it. I don't have friends but one. Also i'm studying abroad now. So i think it's because i can't get along with the others unlike my roommate she is good at everything i don't...
    mangoteen mangoteen 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    I'm 24. Got no job, no money,

    no car, and I live off my uninsured family. Still afraid of alot of people, though I try not to let it show. My 22 year old brother is more responsible than me and has worked more jobs than I have. (I have had 0 and have not very many places to volunteer.) I guess listening to...
    themagicsback themagicsback 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    Lik the highlight of my year has been pumpkin

    spice back on the Starbucks menu
    SairaE SairaE 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    I feel like a defect,

    like I wasn't meant to be born.. like my life was an accident. I mean, I sound so wimpy and typical. Another young fool who's lost and empty. But it's more. I feel so broken and so much like nothing. I feel like if I died, I'd be easily forgotten and misplaced. I feel that if I...
    SunGun SunGun 16-17 1 Response Jan 13

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    I fail so many classes.

    I don't even try to save my grades and when I do it's like trying to put out a wildfire using a small glass of water. I see no future for myself. Once upon a time I dreamed of being a successful businesswoman or doctor and that dream is slowly fading away. My dads expectations...
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    i feel like sucha piece of **** right now

    even though i stabbed my eye and did my best to lose it now i just feel pathetic
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I'm supposed to hang out with this guy I like

    tomorrow. I think he likes me too, since he asked for my number and asked me to hang out. The problem is, if we go to his house I feel like his family will 20 Question me again, like they did last time. Some of you know, I recently dropped out of college, and if they ask me how...
    Somethinglikethat4 Somethinglikethat4 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I'm so pathetic that ppl online don't

    even like me so u know I'm a real freak at that point god has made me unlikable. Don't ask why I don't know I just have to blindly accept his gift to me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I'm 30 years old now,

    I live in a 3rd world country and, I'm a loser because I studied a major that is useless, I work in a call center where I have to treat people like gods, I can't find a better job, I'm extremely depressed, I don't have any money because I have a part-time job, so, the salary is...
    MinekoChan MinekoChan 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 50 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    http://www.experienceproject.

    com/stories/Need-Someone-To-Talk-To/5292781
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Dec 25, 2014

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I am poor and pathetic

    as the come. I am nothing but a big fat looooooooser!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    I am a total loser!! I got no motivation.

    ..no encouragement...not gud in studies..not gud in anything...not worth for living..no one would even care if I died..maybe that's my solution...i a jerk...got no frnds..no girlfriend..I always keep wishing I could die!! I am depressed...I am in love bt the other girl isn't...
    mohit999 mohit999 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Please respond to me

    as im in a desperate need of help.. although i have no hopes of getting a reply but still, trying again just one more time.well.....im seriously glad to find people as ****** up as i am. here z my story. im 26, been suffering from chronic hypertension for more than 10 years. and...
    imsolucky imsolucky 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    probably:) who knows.

    .it's better to consider yourself a loser initially than to become one because of stupid self-confidence...
    AmarieOfTheVanyar AmarieOfTheVanyar 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2014

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 8 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    I'm such a loser, that

    even guys on ep won't talk to me...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 27 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I am 38 years old. I have made countless stupid

    decisions in my life. All of my relationships result in utter failure in part due to decisions I make. I just wish that all of this would stop. I hate my life! I know that there is something much better for me in the next life!
    tommottas tommottas 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    Drop Satan in a trash can

    as close the lid discussed.
    thanks124 thanks124 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    I just like a loser .

    I'm nothing. do you ever just feel like what I feel? its difficult to understand . i dont know why I cant make my self proud of me . i feel uncomfortable everywhere i stand. home didnt make me comfort. i have family, their ego make me unhappy. i want to write all of my feeling...
    onikaa onikaa 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I havent had friends- any friends,

    not even ****** ones- since 2012. I stay at home all day on the weekends. I never have any plans. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to college, yet i dont have any friends and i never leave the house unless im forced to go to school. I have no talents and i just sit in my room...
    eacclix75 eacclix75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I feel like I've entered a losers anonymous

    meeting. Hi, my name is Friability, and I'm a loser.Come on. Admit your horrible loserdom. Embrace it! You'll feel free, no longer having to pretend to be the somebody you're not. We can be nobodies together.
    Friability Friability 18-21 7 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    Hey there. Here's why I think I'm a loser.

    Short: I'm 20. Have never been in a relationship. I just started college and I feel I don't belong here. Longer version: Yep, you read that right. Have never been in a relationship, not even a purely physical one. Thing is I'm a less than average looking healthy female. All...
    chiks01 chiks01 18-21, F 2 Responses