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I Am a Loser

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    I am 23 years old have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend. Obviously I've never had sex either. I am extremely socially awkward and beta and don't think I can overcome it...
    CosmicBaby5555 CosmicBaby5555 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I Thought I Was A Loser... - I thought I was a loser a few years back when I couldn't find a job and things were going wrong with my love life. Then a friend who I always thought...
    Rugbylover Rugbylover 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Everytime I meet a nice girl I end up ruining it cos I'm such a creep and a weirdo everytime I'm such a big pathetic waste of space I'm such a creep and a loser I hate myself...
    greatbritain1 greatbritain1 16-17, M 21 hrs ago

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    Want This World To Be Happy Place - hello friends , i am medical practioner by profession i want to share some medical fact and mystery to be happy always 1) we all are destined...
    chokien chokien 22-25 Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm such a loser i can't do anything i'm good at nothing i don't know what is my life for :(
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    I'm More Of A Loser Than You. - Me and my "friends" hang out at a curb.
    treejay666 treejay666 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Tired Of It...but I Refuse To Give Up. - It was November. A Saturday....as I walked around with my tuxedo shirt and clip on bow-tie serving crab cakes, I had a moment to...
    CreativeLoser CreativeLoser 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Good Things With Bad Purposes - They say that one of the most important things in the world is family unity. (I personally don't agree, but I've been the black sheep of my family...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    A Term Coined By The Upper Middle Class - Anyone who calls anyone a "loser" is clearly showing that they have too little IQ and too much self righteousness. "loser...
    bitterdregs bitterdregs 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    I Feel Like A Loser - The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I...
    saberdied saberdied 18-21, M 4 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I M A True Loser - I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary...
    socialdis socialdis 36-40, M 44 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I hate my life. When I was 7 my mother was murdered, her body was found in a river somewhere. My father did not kill her but he has been in jail all m life. I was raised in a house...
    scaredandlonely1 scaredandlonely1 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I never had many friends. But now I don't have any. Several years ago I moved away from home because I had nothing left there to lose, and moved hundreds of miles away to live...
    worstloserever worstloserever 31-35, M Feb 16

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    (Originally posted on May 1, 2013) 16 And Never Been In A Relationship I'm so lame, it's not even funny. I'm going to be one of those 50 year olds who hasn't even Had a bf. I am...
    NeonPurple NeonPurple 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ... - In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    I'm A Loser, And I Finally Realized Something - I'm a person who'd easily describe themselves as a loser. There are many reasons why, and I've already discussed them in all my...
    AtomicCorn2 AtomicCorn2 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I Am A Loser - im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I've been a loser now for a number of years. At least that's when it dawned on me, a few years ago. I live at home, struggling to finish school - whenever i start to do well i'll...
    notawinner notawinner 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I Am Nothing - I hate myself in so many ways Tide waves of depression fill my nights and days Sick to my stomach, like I just ate glass Spitting up pieces of shame and misery from...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45 5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    I Am A Loser - I have never been happy with myself and am generally frustrated with my life, and just need an outlet at the moment hence just want to share my story. I have never...
    t12city t12city 26-30, M 6 Responses May 5, 2011

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    I Had Enough Of This - im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Actually, I have not been happy since I broke up with my ex. I am a loser for five years after I finished my undergraduate studies. I was thin, beautiful and strong-minded. Now I...
    fitwealth fitwealth 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28

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    Im a pretty big loser myself. It all started happening at once.I lost my girl when I found out she was sleeping with another guy. I was kicked out of my soccer team for reasons I...
    peruano4lyfe peruano4lyfe 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I lose at tennis to women older than me.
    Ltennis Ltennis 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Yep - I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good...
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    A Loser In Life... - I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 14 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I Don't Need Reminders. - I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Im Sad And Sorry - Ever since i was born i have been a loser, when i was born my doctor tried to push me back in rather than celebrate my enrty into the world When i was at school...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    I Really Am - I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Reasons why I'm a loser : 1-My entire family is really successful (they're all doctors) and I'm the only one who's studying something very lame in college , I didn't even take...
    anythingsara anythingsara 18-21, F Jan 9

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    I Am The Biggest Looser And Frustrate Guy...but Still I Have A Story - I am a big looser since I born ..no girl..no friends as I does not feel comfortable with them...Poor luck...
    ineedpt ineedpt 26-30 7 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life...
    CA829 CA829 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Most People Think That I Am Su... -
    behindthemask behindthemask 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2007

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    Him, Her But Not Me - been ages since ive been on this but today has been bad. it was final period today at high school when one of my friends approached the girl i have liked for...
    roundaboutkid roundaboutkid 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    Im a loser because i just cant win in life, either i do everything right & still lose or i assume that things wont go my way ( which they usually dont ) and make un wise choices...
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    I believe that I am living a life without a clear purpose or a goal in my mind. Put plainly, I have no goals. At times I just live. But, at some point in time it really gets to you...
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Loser In 30's - i have a degree but no one want to hire me. then i work as clerk. with salary 700/mth. all money gone to pay bills. im married to a poor guy. cant buy me anything...
    itayadih itayadih 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Creep - When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    No One Likes Me. - Everyone has something awful to say, and something awful to laugh about. I don't mean laugh in a good way. It is funny how everyone in my school is truly flawed...
    JubeJube1231 JubeJube1231 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    I Am A Loser - I started this life with so much promise..... but that is all gone now.I am 32 a wife and mother and all of my successes are not mine. I am the womanbehind the man...
    rox345 rox345 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    I Would Be Considered A Loser,... - I would be considered a loser, but i really don't care.  If that's what i am, then i'm proud of it.  It's better than being popular...
    denialsworld denialsworld 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2007

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    I'm The Biggest Loser In The World - I'm in early 20s, still unemployed after being graduated a while ago. What makes me consider myself as a loser? a) I'm not physically...
    luvalone luvalone 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I am over it, I'm sick of being this loser. Nobody loves me, my family don't even answer my calls. My friends are sick of me, I'm jobless AGAIN, and I might be homeless soon AGAIN...
    imalonelyboy imalonelyboy 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I am 45 years old. I am a white male with Asperger's Syndrome autism. My employment record is spotty and less than stable. I am a military veteran with a Bachelor's Degree. I...
    flemmi225 flemmi225 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    I recently got a new job. It took me almost a year to realize that everybody had been making fun of me. I missed out on a lot. This kind of triggered a lot of painful memories in...
    JaneLife JaneLife 22-25, F Jan 31

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship - I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Thou Shalt Not Trust - Trust is like a mountain. We conquer it slowly and with time and a little effort. A person like me, of unstable personality and, believing in the majority...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    I feel like a total loser sometimes. I had a great Thursday watching the NCAA basketball tournament. My friend and I took both Thursday and Friday off and set up plans to go out...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 24

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    The Biggest Loser... - ...was Jesus. Think about it. He hung out with the unwashed--fishermen, prostitutes, lepers and the blind. Dude was homeless. All that healing and teaching...
    beautytruth beautytruth 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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