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I Am a Loser

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    I'm really fed up with it.

    I've watched everyone in life pass me by. I'm 32 and in grad school because I chose a lousy stupid major, then was too lazy to make it work. I'm a ****-poor example of a big brother, and feel like a constant disappointment and embarrassment to my parents and family. I have no...
    TheRealMSol TheRealMSol 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I am a loser because I messed up my studies

    and got debts for them now... this is not attractive for my partner, i Am a loser because I can not admit my debts infront of him. I am a loser because I lost my family, they are all split up and nobody really care for another. I am a loser because I don't like this world and it...
    noimport noimport 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship

    I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only couples reply and none are suitable or at least could help me to pay the bills. I kept sending resume though, my spirit is falling. Am I so stupid or...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    At my 25 I have achieved NOTHING

    or almost nothing.. I am currently unemployed, live in a god-forsaken third world country.. I have been unemployed for the past one year and my last job was a pure nightmare, it worsened my anxiety, I'm STILL recovering.. Well, what else.. oh yes, I have never had a boyfriend or...
    sweetsnake sweetsnake 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 4

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    i do not have a lot of friends.

    i have so many interest in life like playing musical instruments, sports, arts, singing etc... but i dont excel any of those things... resulting me realizing as a loser. sigh
    letmedothat letmedothat 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I suck at school today,

    I even feel like all of my professor feels like im a hopeless loser and will eventually drop out from our university.. but here I am still sticking up even though I feel like a trash still striving for the better I hope I can fastforward time so I can graduate faster...
    phierrette phierrette 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 2

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    I am a loser, I am a great loser

    and I am the biggest loser of this planet. Nothing happened in my life what I wanted. Still I hope that something better will happen. But nothing. I am alone. But I want to be friend with others. I want to lead a happy life. People of my age live life happily, but I am confined...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    Casualdeviant02 Casualdeviant02 18-21, T 5 Responses Mar 23

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    i will always be a loser

    and im proud of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 17

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    I like every post I see

    because I know it makes people feel good about them selves. And also because Im not a judgemental c#~t
    JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl JustThatTypicalWhiteGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses May 20

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 55 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Ha. I know it shouldn't bother me

    but it does. Everyone who wanted me actually just wanted my mom... Kinda makes me feel unwanted. Those people turned around and ****** her. I'm sorry but you can't crush on me and want my mom. Either way it doesn't matter. I have a boyfriend. I shouldn't be bothered by it.
    Bobafettt Bobafettt 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I fail so many classes.

    I don't even try to save my grades and when I do it's like trying to put out a wildfire using a small glass of water. I see no future for myself. Once upon a time I dreamed of being a successful businesswoman or doctor and that dream is slowly fading away. My dads expectations...
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Kind of want to sleep,

    kind of want a bunch of pills, kind of want to have sex, kind of want to die. Idk.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I'm fat and I'm trying to lose weight

    but I can't and I feel like my family hates me
    sydney3245 sydney3245 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Drinking, listening to death metal,

    craving pills. Welcome to my domicile lol.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Loser? I feel like that word is still to good

    to describe me. I am a twenty six year old virgin who has never kissed a women or ever been on a date. I can't drive a car nobody ever had time to teach me so i never learned i live with my elderly mother and i am currently unemployed. I want to die but i'm to scared or to smart...
    TheMidNightCrow TheMidNightCrow 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I feel like I will kill myself at some point in

    my life, but it will be when I have nobody left, there will be no guilt left behind for others, I love these people, even though they may not love me. I'll make sure nobody's even heard my name in years. I think that's fair.
    Britt4ny Britt4ny 70+, F 5 Responses May 7

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    It's my last summer and I've done nothing

    but sit in my bed for 3 weeks. My friends from school constantly hang out without me and send my snapchats of them having fun. It's not like I'm mean or anything so I don't get why all of them treat me like such ****. I literally never do ANYTHING. And if I do go out somewhere...
    disposibleteen disposibleteen 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    So here is the truth.

    I'm 24 years old, I've never been kissed by a girl, never had a car, I'm a virgin, and I lie about my job all time to make myself look better to people. I'm a college graduate who works full time in retail and gets paid 10.80 an hour.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 6

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    I am an American Loser.

    I thought I was a winner in life. But I chased all the wrong things and ended up a total loser. I am going to take a long look at my life and turn it around. I have no talent and I could never admit it to myself. I see now and I'm going to change my life without feeling sorry...
    DearAble DearAble 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    lollipop969 lollipop969 18-21, M 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I am good at nothing; I am not a good student;

    I can't play any instruments; I cannot do any sports well. Sometimes I feel that I'm a fool and I don't understand other people; I have no real friends; I can't see any real talent in me and there's nothing at which I'm skilled. I even can't play video games well... I don't know...
    TheForgottenBloke TheForgottenBloke 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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    Everybody Is A Loser

    everybody is a loser..not one person on this earth can escape death..the big Game Over...so when that person runs off with your special someone or when you get kicked in the head by the bully on the playground or when you notice that you don't look like those fashion models in...
    spindabottle spindabottle 36-40 5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    But I had a good day,

    I apppreciate the kind people who helped me laugh and smile. I'm still lonely, but I don't feel as lonely
    poppapepe poppapepe 41-45, M a week ago

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    I suck at everything.

    I suck at making friends. Suck at sports. Suck at math. Suck at being pretty. I learned that school can never be a good place for me. I feel like a ghost, like nobody can see me, nobody cares about me. I'm tired of running around chasing people and ending up getting nothing...
    indierecord123 indierecord123 13-15, F 9 Responses May 13

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    i have 19 years old and I am

    such a loser! loser with girls,with college, with life projects. today i just failed in my drive license test. I fell like i don't fit in anywhere. my friemds are soo far away from me. i want to get better but i just can't
    igr27 igr27 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 25

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    AkariYama AkariYama 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 16 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I never wanted to accept that,

    but im a loser. Cos everyone avoids me no matter where. Real life or online, im noone. As i was younger i wanted to impress people, i opened my mouth and started to talk, i started conversations, i spoke to my co workers, but soon they left me. What does it mean? That meands im...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 19

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 20 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 7 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 18-21, F 10 Responses May 2, 2014

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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