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    I couldn't move on my experience last year 2014

    about my college entrance exams in some state universities. I took exams in PNU,RTU & PUP but none of those I passed... I failed the expectations of my parents. I made them disappoint. PUP is my dream school but I could not take schooling... Maybe the main reason is I'm quite...
    jonnvee jonnvee 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I guess I am a loser

    and useless.....
    savannaD14 savannaD14 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 26

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    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    So last year when I was in grade 10 a grade 8

    girl was flirting with me through out the whole summer and she would always come over to my cottage so one day I went over to her cottage and she gave me some beer so I drank it and then she gave me another one so I drank it then she said u wanna bang so I said hell yeah so she...
    Desperateloser Desperateloser 13-15, M Feb 28

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    I just got a new job they hired me

    as a boss so I guess that's going well for me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 7, 2014

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I'm such a loser, that

    even guys on ep won't talk to me...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 27 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Casualdeviant02 Casualdeviant02 18-21, T 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    I havent had friends- any friends,

    not even ****** ones- since 2012. I stay at home all day on the weekends. I never have any plans. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to college, yet i dont have any friends and i never leave the house unless im forced to go to school. I have no talents and i just sit in my room...
    eacclix75 eacclix75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15, 2014

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    I am a total loser!! I got no motivation.

    ..no encouragement...not gud in studies..not gud in anything...not worth for living..no one would even care if I died..maybe that's my solution...i a jerk...got no frnds..no girlfriend..I always keep wishing I could die!! I am depressed...I am in love bt the other girl isn't...
    mohit999 mohit999 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 8 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    English isn't my 1st language,

    so forgive my grammar and other things. I am an Indian in his late twenties. I am in India. I just thought I need to mention that because that is part of context. I wasn't always like this. I used to be good, real good. In school, I was so famous. Everyone liked me. I was like...
    deadrat deadrat 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I don't watch movies,

    I don't know famous actors/actresses/celebrities ... I'm literally that one person who knows nobody, never watched that tv show, read that popular book, never cared about athletes (I do enjoy playing the sports) never watched a sport game, got no hype for olympics or world cup...
    BlackSilence BlackSilence 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I'm surprised my best friend

    even wants to be friends with me.
    Btimez3 Btimez3 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    I'm a wanna be nerd try hard fail ****** up

    unlucky and isolated super senior who was held back one year in Kindergarten. I am poor, awkward, and talk with a dark voice devoid of any feelings. I am the shadow on the wall, the smudge on the ground, and the chewed up gum of the bathroom that girls pass by without a glance...
    Tucker66 Tucker66 16-17 1 Response Mar 18

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    Ha. I know it shouldn't bother me

    but it does. Everyone who wanted me actually just wanted my mom... Kinda makes me feel unwanted. Those people turned around and ****** her. I'm sorry but you can't crush on me and want my mom. Either way it doesn't matter. I have a boyfriend. I shouldn't be bothered by it.
    PandaBarry PandaBarry 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I am a retard. That's the only way I can

    explain it. I suck about 100 times more than anyone when I do anything. I started basketball, couldn't catch the ******* ball. I play videogames, can't even finish the first few levels. I've got good looks, but I can't get close to any girls. I'm a retard. please don't say I...
    goldenapple600 goldenapple600 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 27

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    So here is the truth.

    I'm 24 years old, I've never been kissed by a girl, never had a car, I'm a virgin, and I lie about my job all time to make myself look better to people. I'm a college graduate who works full time in retail and gets paid 10.80 an hour.
    jonbz17 jonbz17 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 6

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 52 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    lollipop969 lollipop969 18-21, M 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    As always. Now I am afraid

    that my future will be poor, sick, and useless.
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    I feel so inferior to others.

    I cant be dominant. i'm not really shy, it's just that I cant stand up for myself. I somehow let other people take advantage over me. i don't know how to win arguments cause I cant explain well for myself. I cant even keep up or continue a conversation after responding. I keep...
    Octaviair Octaviair 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I just messed something big up.

    Really bad. Oh my god. Hes hates me so much now no!!!????????????????????
    Autumn15243 Autumn15243 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Hey there. Here's why I think I'm a loser.

    Short: I'm 20. Have never been in a relationship. I just started college and I feel I don't belong here. Longer version: Yep, you read that right. Have never been in a relationship, not even a purely physical one. Thing is I'm a less than average looking healthy female. All...
    chiks01 chiks01 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 20 Responses May 10, 2011

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    I am a loser, I am a great loser

    and I am the biggest loser of this planet. Nothing happened in my life what I wanted. Still I hope that something better will happen. But nothing. I am alone. But I want to be friend with others. I want to lead a happy life. People of my age live life happily, but I am confined...
    Mou7 Mou7 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship

    I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only couples reply and none are suitable or at least could help me to pay the bills. I kept sending resume though, my spirit is falling. Am I so stupid or...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    DeGustibus DeGustibus 26-30, M Feb 22

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2014

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    I'm 19 and have never kissed a girl

    because I stutter and I'm too shy in any case to talk. Loser does not begin to describe me.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Loser.Dork.Nerd.Weird.

    Call me what you want but really I'm just a Luke ( my name). Confident in all the wrong ways but the most positively pessimistic person you will meet. I bash down on myself for all the things wrong I have done in my life but never give myself credit foe the great things I've...
    Lugelogistics93 Lugelogistics93 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 2, 2014

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    hello everyone I am a boy of 17.

    I have short height not even average.. which always compels me to feel like a loser in society..plz help need your opinion to get over it.
    divyam18 divyam18 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    http://www.experienceproject.

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    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Dec 25, 2014

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf 13-15, M 6 Responses Feb 13

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    I fail so many classes.

    I don't even try to save my grades and when I do it's like trying to put out a wildfire using a small glass of water. I see no future for myself. Once upon a time I dreamed of being a successful businesswoman or doctor and that dream is slowly fading away. My dads expectations...
    UNLOVED97 UNLOVED97 16-17, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Today was my day off.

    And I slept through most of it.
    Jakewilli Jakewilli 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I just like a loser .

    I'm nothing. do you ever just feel like what I feel? its difficult to understand . i dont know why I cant make my self proud of me . i feel uncomfortable everywhere i stand. home didnt make me comfort. i have family, their ego make me unhappy. i want to write all of my feeling...
    barbish barbish 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I feel like a defect,

    like I wasn't meant to be born.. like my life was an accident. I mean, I sound so wimpy and typical. Another young fool who's lost and empty. But it's more. I feel so broken and so much like nothing. I feel like if I died, I'd be easily forgotten and misplaced. I feel that if I...
    SunGun SunGun 16-17 1 Response Jan 13

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