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I Am a Loser

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    I was getting better

    and becoming happy with what I had gained in friends and in education but now it seems to be falling apart. I have met some great people on here and it has been great but now I am beginning to think that it was all out of pity. Oh well maybe something real will come along...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M Aug 12

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 36-40, M 47 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I was gonna go outside

    and go for a walk and stuff, but then I got emotionally invested in an RP conversation on Tumblr. This is life.
    proelia proelia 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Literally right now. All

    but 1 of my ep friends are gone... What's wrong with me :/
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    Thou Shalt Not Trust

    Trust is like a mountain. We conquer it slowly and with time and a little effort. A person like me, of unstable personality and, believing in the majority, crazy, it's rare to have the people's complete trust. In my presence, it is apparent, but I later find out that is not so...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    There's no hope for me ill be a loser

    for the rest of my life
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    School starts in a week

    and a half. And I'm so scared !!!! 10 months of being bullied.... I don't want to go :'(
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    Ugh I'm such a screw up.

    .. Why can't I just talk to a cute guy without making me seem like an idiot :'(
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm totally big loser!

    Never be wanted never be loved never be kissed .i know I'm not good enough but only thing I ask just a nice person like me back.did I ask to much? I'm 27 now ,should be give up already .its no point to trust anything good will happen in my life .why I still live? For what ?
    allnotmine allnotmine 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    So I have a great job I'm making a lot of money

    but no matter what girls hate me and that never goes well in my life it makes me depressed and takes the fun out of my life
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I Am A Loser

    I have never been happy with myself and am generally frustrated with my life, and just need an outlet at the moment hence just want to share my story. I have never been a social person, and that's not through not trying. I don't have any friends or ever had any, through school...
    t12city t12city 26-30, M 6 Responses May 5, 2011

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    Im Sad And Sorry

    Ever since i was born i have been a loser, when i was born my doctor tried to push me back in rather than celebrate my enrty into the world When i was at school i was beat up daily by the other kids, and mad fun of by the girls Now im in my 30s im still a virgin and still live...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 9 Responses May 2

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    Everybody Is A Loser

    everybody is a loser..not one person on this earth can escape death..the big Game Over...so when that person runs off with your special someone or when you get kicked in the head by the bully on the playground or when you notice that you don't look like those fashion models in...
    spindabottle spindabottle 36-40 5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I feel like I have no future at all.

    No one will ever hire an idiot like me
    monicarae1810 monicarae1810 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm a 45 year old loser

    that still lives with his mother. I not only hate my life right now, I hated it yesterday, the day before that, 40 years ago, and will hate it tomorrow and all the upcoming years following today. My parents split up and divorced when I was a young kid, around 5-6 years old...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Who wanta to be my loser sponser?

    Message me or heart this and ill message u
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I am definitely nobody

    who is cool, I'm my somebody who people would really want to be friends with when I used to text people I would usually get no reply I would get really angry and try to change things about myself to suit the other people ( never worked) but then I am just now coming to realize...
    holysnap holysnap 13-15, M Aug 19

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    I'm so pathetic that ppl online don't

    even like me so u know I'm a real freak at that point god has made me unlikable. Don't ask why I don't know I just have to blindly accept his gift to me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I hate that I left ep,

    to wait for someone to message me, without checking every 5 min, and they never messaged me. I feel so loved right now.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm hating myself more

    and more everyday. I give up on everything. Sports, relationships, pretty much anything you can quit at. I have no real friends other than my brother. I'm nice to everyone but I really don't get the favor returned. God, I'm not suicidal but if a car were to hit me I'd be more...
    TravTru TravTru 18-21, M Aug 11

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 15 Responses May 10, 2011

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    screwyiusandi screwyiusandi 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    saberdied saberdied 18-21, M 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Good Things With Bad Purposes

    They say that one of the most important things in the world is family unity. (I personally don't agree, but I've been the black sheep of my family, so I'm a little biased, but that's a story for another time.) I remember that one of the 1st things that my (at the time, future...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    I Would Be Considered A Loser,...

    I would be considered a loser, but i really don't care.  If that's what i am, then i'm proud of it.  It's better than being popular and not having true friends.
    denialsworld denialsworld 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2007

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    I was getting better

    and becoming happy with what I had gained in friends and in education but now it seems to be falling apart. I have met some great people on here and it has been great but now I am beginning to think that it was all out of pity. Oh well maybe something real will come along...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M Aug 12

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    I don't mean to be annoying.

    I'm sorry if I am. I might as well not talk to anyone... It will make things a lot better.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 7 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Weekend lies are done fat slob All the house

    camping is tracked fat slob sandi
    8610notes 8610notes 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I just got a new job they hired me

    as a boss so I guess that's going well for me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I Am The Biggest Looser And Frustrate Guy...but Still I Have A Story

    I am a big looser since I born ..no girl..no friends as I does not feel comfortable with them...Poor luck everywhere...small earning job..poor communication..no confidence...very arrogant person...very stubborn person.. .very low will power..The problem which I have people think...
    ineedpt ineedpt 26-30 7 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    petitelady28 petitelady28 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    No One Likes Me.

    Everyone has something awful to say, and something awful to laugh about. I don't mean laugh in a good way. It is funny how everyone in my school is truly flawed. They do drugs, sleep around, and fail their classes. Yet, they are the ones who receive all the praise. No one hates...
    JubeJube1231 JubeJube1231 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    Read my profile- profiler of a loser.

    Nobody wants to do with me, nobody care. People come and go and they hurt me. Now i decided to delete some "friends" who doesnt write and i add nobody anymore. I know they doesnt care though. Who cares about someone like me? Im a doormat who please people and they spit on me, so...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    I havent had friends- any friends,

    not even ****** ones- since 2012. I stay at home all day on the weekends. I never have any plans. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to college, yet i dont have any friends and i never leave the house unless im forced to go to school. I have no talents and i just sit in my room...
    eacclix75 eacclix75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Yep it's true y'all i am a loser

    but I don't give a **** because I hang around people that are my n.i.g.g.a.d and that like the same s.h.i.t as me I used to hang around popular people in like 7th and 8th but then I stop ******* with them and s.h.i.t
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M Jul 21

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    I'm 22 years old and I feel like I've been

    wasting the early part of my adult life. I graduated from high school in 2011 and began attending a community college during the fall of that year. I want there with the wrong attitude because community colleges have that bad reputation that there for idiots that flunked high...
    Loser92 Loser92 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I don't make a very good first impression,

    but if you hang around, my forty-third one is pretty cool.
    ThePinkP0werRanger ThePinkP0werRanger 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    Judge Me... I Am Not Afraid.

    I am writing this for me....to get out what is burning a hole inside......I am blonde, I have big boobs, I look like a **** star, I look clueless....people judge me, people make assumptions, people think I have an easy life. People do not know me , and most do not care to...
    ChemicalBarbie ChemicalBarbie 26-30, F 12 Responses Dec 30, 2010