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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    screwyiusandi screwyiusandi 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I Am The Biggest Looser And Frustrate Guy...but Still I Have A Story

    I am a big looser since I born ..no girl..no friends as I does not feel comfortable with them...Poor luck everywhere...small earning job..poor communication..no confidence...very arrogant person...very stubborn person.. .very low will power..The problem which I have people think...
    ineedpt ineedpt 26-30 7 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 16 Responses May 10, 2011

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    petitelady28 petitelady28 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    My dream day would be to just not be made fun

    of. Just for 1 day. That would be the best day. And the day when I die ofc.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 6

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    I hate that I left ep,

    to wait for someone to message me, without checking every 5 min, and they never messaged me. I feel so loved right now.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I just got a new job they hired me

    as a boss so I guess that's going well for me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M Jul 7

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    I'm hating myself more

    and more everyday. I give up on everything. Sports, relationships, pretty much anything you can quit at. I have no real friends other than my brother. I'm nice to everyone but I really don't get the favor returned. God, I'm not suicidal but if a car were to hit me I'd be more...
    TravTru TravTru 18-21, M Aug 11

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    I Would Be Considered A Loser,...

    I would be considered a loser, but i really don't care.  If that's what i am, then i'm proud of it.  It's better than being popular and not having true friends.
    denialsworld denialsworld 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2007

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    No one even asks if I'm okay.

    .. Nobody notices me at all. I can't make friends. The only time noticed is when I hold the door open for people, and they say thank you
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 24

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    Sometimes I feel Useless,

    Worthless, All alone. I don't deserve to be cared for or even loved. Im the person that can be replaced because something better always comes along eventually.
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 22

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 17 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I feel guilty talking to guys

    that are in relationships... It's not like I would break them up (I'm too ugly) but it's just the fact that if I had a bf I wouldn't want him to be talking to other girls online...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I havent had friends- any friends,

    not even ****** ones- since 2012. I stay at home all day on the weekends. I never have any plans. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to college, yet i dont have any friends and i never leave the house unless im forced to go to school. I have no talents and i just sit in my room...
    eacclix75 eacclix75 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I live off my family,

    im fat, I have no job, I dont do anything with my life, and I never had a girlfriend. Not to mention my mental state is all screwed up. Am I a loser? The answer is YES! One day I will end all of this and be in peace where there's no one to judge me, no one to make me feel like...
    DifferentOutsider DifferentOutsider 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im Sad And Sorry

    Ever since i was born i have been a loser, when i was born my doctor tried to push me back in rather than celebrate my enrty into the world When i was at school i was beat up daily by the other kids, and mad fun of by the girls Now im in my 30s im still a virgin and still live...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    I was getting better

    and becoming happy with what I had gained in friends and in education but now it seems to be falling apart. I have met some great people on here and it has been great but now I am beginning to think that it was all out of pity. Oh well maybe something real will come along...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M Aug 12

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    Everyone I come across tells me how good

    looking I am and how wonderful a person I am, even strangers. Yet I can't bear looking at myself In the mirror. I hate that I can make everyone around me happy, but I can't cope with myself
    Rudanthonick Rudanthonick 22-25, M Oct 9

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    it's all my fault, i would have never predicted

    my life would lead me to this dark time i'm enduring. where i see old friends, and past classmates of mine already taking off in their careers. i'm still in my bubble, where it stinks and it's depressing being lonely, unemployed, and also losing hair on top of that at a young...
    joe0ner joe0ner 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    Thou Shalt Not Trust

    Trust is like a mountain. We conquer it slowly and with time and a little effort. A person like me, of unstable personality and, believing in the majority, crazy, it's rare to have the people's complete trust. In my presence, it is apparent, but I later find out that is not so...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97 16-17, F 10 Responses May 2

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    I'm such a loser, that

    even guys on ep won't talk to me...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 29 Responses Sep 21

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    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 7 Responses Sep 1

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    I love this pic so much!

    I'm the walking dead girl, except I'll be alone forever...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I miss you :'( I wish you would talk to me

    again... But you don't care anymore, so maybe I should stop caring too.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I don't mean to be annoying.

    I'm sorry if I am. I might as well not talk to anyone... It will make things a lot better.
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    No One Likes Me.

    Everyone has something awful to say, and something awful to laugh about. I don't mean laugh in a good way. It is funny how everyone in my school is truly flawed. They do drugs, sleep around, and fail their classes. Yet, they are the ones who receive all the praise. No one hates...
    JubeJube1231 JubeJube1231 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 26-30, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    I'm 30 years old now,

    I live in a 3rd world country and, I'm a loser because I studied a major that is useless, I work in a call center where I have to treat people like gods, I can't find a better job, I'm extremely depressed, I don't have any money because I have a part-time job, so, the salary is...
    MinekoChan MinekoChan 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was getting better

    and becoming happy with what I had gained in friends and in education but now it seems to be falling apart. I have met some great people on here and it has been great but now I am beginning to think that it was all out of pity. Oh well maybe something real will come along...
    lostguy19892014 lostguy19892014 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 41-45, M 48 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    lollipop969 lollipop969 18-21, M 3 Responses May 30, 2013

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    yeah know they say its not about your look

    or what you have its about your self and who you are. well my self suck , i dont have much friends almost every one i know dont want my company and people just dont like me and i know why , i am a fully straight person and by straight i mean i dont fool around i dont cheat on a...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm so pathetic that ppl online don't

    even like me so u know I'm a real freak at that point god has made me unlikable. Don't ask why I don't know I just have to blindly accept his gift to me
    dphillabaum dphillabaum 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Ive been a loser since my birth.

    My mother made me think i am unworthy. Funny way all what she said as she bullied me years long came true. She said that noone will love me, i will have it bad. And to my surprise it came true. I never had friends in life. Only as i was a kid. But kids are kids and this is not...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have 2 things to say in this experience,

    firstly, I feel like I'm only used for amusement when people talk to me. And I'm never their first option. Like I'm the Old Barbie, and everyone wants the new one. Im only played with when the new one is lost... That's probably a bad metaphor. And I forget what the second thing...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Ugh I'm such a screw up.

    .. Why can't I just talk to a cute guy without making me seem like an idiot :'(
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm supposed to hang out with this guy I like

    tomorrow. I think he likes me too, since he asked for my number and asked me to hang out. The problem is, if we go to his house I feel like his family will 20 Question me again, like they did last time. Some of you know, I recently dropped out of college, and if they ask me how...
    Cece4 Cece4 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I am a loser. But I'm a loser

    that enjoys band, tennis, FCCLA, FFA, one act play, and many other things. I may be a loser but I'm a fun weird loser who loves all the stuff that keeps her busy. I'm the kind of loser everyone likes to hang out with. I'm the type of loser that has no life. But loves school...
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Why am I a loser? Because I'm worthless

    and a failure. Why should anyone care about me? I don't deserve any kind of respect much less love ...
    meezkite meezkite 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 22

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    School starts in a week

    and a half. And I'm so scared !!!! 10 months of being bullied.... I don't want to go :'(
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I'm surprised my best friend

    even wants to be friends with me.
    Btimez3 Btimez3 13-15, M 4 Responses Jun 12

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    Looks, charm, wit, beauty,

    brains, figure, and appeal...I don't have all of them, I am boring to talk to mostly because I'm shy or scared. I'm a ditz, clumsy as **** and showered with bad luck. I always feel like people around me dislike me...I want to help them with stuff but this mentality stops me from...
    CyanEyes CyanEyes 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Am A Loser

    I have never been happy with myself and am generally frustrated with my life, and just need an outlet at the moment hence just want to share my story. I have never been a social person, and that's not through not trying. I don't have any friends or ever had any, through school...
    t12city t12city 26-30, M 6 Responses May 5, 2011

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