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I Am a Loser

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    Damned If You Do...

    I've always been a troublemaker at work. I rebel easily against authority figures, so orders and such are quite irrelevant to me. Until such time as they come back to bite me in the ***, that is. Then I get depressed, chastise myself and say "why the heck did U do that?"...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

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    Reasons why I'm a loser : 1-My entire family

    is really successful (they're all doctors) and I'm the only one who's studying something very lame in college , I didn't even take physics,chemistry,Bio,geology in school because I'm too stupid , instead I took something stupid and got average grades in it. 2-My only talent is...
    anythingsara anythingsara 18-21, F Jan 9

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    Biggest Loser Ever

    I don't really like to assume that people want to hear what I have to say, and I'm pretty sure I don't have it as bad as most of you but here it goes. I feel like the biggest loser on the planet. I've pretty much been a loser all my life. When I was really little, I was smart...
    blargblah blargblah 18-21, M 6 Responses Jul 8, 2010

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    I Am Nothing

    I hate myself in so many ways Tide waves of depression fill my nights and days Sick to my stomach, like I just ate glass Spitting up pieces of shame and misery from my past The enemy within me is more threatening than the one from outside So many desires not to live, but more...
    darkreality68 darkreality68 41-45 5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    I'm such a big failure in life.

    At 46, I still live with my deceased sister's family. I don't have a job because I don't have skills anymore. Even my writing and speaking skills I lost I guess because of schizophrenia, that I've recovered from already but am still taking medicines. I graduated in a very...
    churchworker churchworker 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Creep

    When you were here before Couldn't look you in the eye You're just like an angel Your skin makes me cry You float like a feather In a beautiful world And I wish I was special You're so ******* special But I'm a creep I'm a weirdo What the hell am I doing here? I don't belong...
    shadow1013 shadow1013 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    (Originally posted on May 1,

    2013) 16 And Never Been In A Relationship I'm so lame, it's not even funny. I'm going to be one of those 50 year olds who hasn't even Had a bf. I am too shy around guys, and none like me so... Yeah.
    NeonPurple NeonPurple 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I Am A Loser

    im in my late thirties i live with my mother.have a lame job.i hardly ever go out i barely have any friends, they all moved on and done thier thing.i have not got a girl, i dont think girls like me, when i was younger i had no luck with them so thats it i suppose. just hate it...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    I Am The Biggest Looser And Frustrate Guy...but Still I Have A Story

    I am a big looser since I born ..no girl..no friends as I does not feel comfortable with them...Poor luck everywhere...small earning job..poor communication..no confidence...very arrogant person...very stubborn person.. .very low will power..The problem which I have people think...
    ineedpt ineedpt 26-30 7 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    I'm A Really Loser In Both Career And Relationship

    I'm 24 years old and still unemployed even I have graduated for a year now. I tried to apply for job but somehow there are only couples reply and none are suitable or at least could help me to pay the bills. I kept sending resume though, my spirit is falling. Am I so stupid or...
    linhqxt linhqxt 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    I'm such a loser i can't do anything i'm good

    at nothing i don't know what is my life for :(
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Tired Of It...but I Refuse To Give Up.

    It was November. A Saturday....as I walked around with my tuxedo shirt and clip on bow-tie serving crab cakes, I had a moment to reflect on all my bad choices. I realized I was sad. Very sad... So the next day I quit my job of two years and started school. I had to move in...
    CreativeLoser CreativeLoser 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 23, 2010

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    Ltennis Ltennis 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I M A True Loser

    I've pretty much always known that I was a loser. Right now, I am 36 years old and a virgin and unemployed. The last time I had any friends was in Elementary school. I also live in my parents basement so I am the stereotypical loser with no friends. I was working as an...
    socialdis socialdis 36-40, M 44 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Everybody Is A Loser

    everybody is a loser..not one person on this earth can escape death..the big Game Over...so when that person runs off with your special someone or when you get kicked in the head by the bully on the playground or when you notice that you don't look like those fashion models in...
    spindabottle spindabottle 36-40 5 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Had Enough Of This

    im a 16 old boy studying in high school they all hates me idk why they keep away of me and when i try to talk they walk away or makes joke's on me . every day i get beeted up by bulliers on school i tryed every thing and nothing worked i feel so lonley so weard. my school grades...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I Don't Need Reminders.

    I cried myself to sleep last night, just about my current life situation.  I was literally hysterical, I just burst into tears and fell to the floor.  It was bad. Today, I got up and just decided to suck it up and continue living my life of seclusion as best I can, and...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 23 Responses Jun 19, 2009

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    Want This World To Be Happy Place

    hello friends , i am medical practioner by profession i want to share some medical fact and mystery to be happy always 1) we all are destined to be happy and prosperous, but y most of them are not happy? ans- actually we all search a happiness in something which is of some...
    chokien chokien 22-25 Oct 3, 2013

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    Him, Her But Not Me

    been ages since ive been on this but today has been bad. it was final period today at high school when one of my friends approached the girl i have liked for two years (yea im at the age where the word love is some serious taboo) and he asked her out. she said yes. i was planning...
    roundaboutkid roundaboutkid 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2, 2013

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    I am over it, I'm sick of being this loser.

    Nobody loves me, my family don't even answer my calls. My friends are sick of me, I'm jobless AGAIN, and I might be homeless soon AGAIN... FUUUUUUUUUCKKKKKKKKK!!!
    imalonelyboy imalonelyboy 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Im a loser because i just cant win in life,

    either i do everything right & still lose or i assume that things wont go my way ( which they usually dont ) and make un wise choices & lose so either if i do good or bad the result is always the same, there is no such thing as winning in my life, i never won & never will.
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Thou Shalt Not Trust

    Trust is like a mountain. We conquer it slowly and with time and a little effort. A person like me, of unstable personality and, believing in the majority, crazy, it's rare to have the people's complete trust. In my presence, it is apparent, but I later find out that is not so...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    I'm More Of A Loser Than You.

    Me and my "friends" hang out at a curb.
    treejay666 treejay666 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I am 45 years old. I am a white male with

    Asperger's Syndrome autism. My employment record is spotty and less than stable. I am a military veteran with a Bachelor's Degree. I can't find any decent job, much less a crappy one. I was let go 2 months ago from a server job at an Asian restaurant because I got physically...
    flemmi225 flemmi225 41-45, M Jan 16

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    I Feel Like A Loser

    The title says it all. I am in my early 20s and I've never had a social life. I've never had a friend. Never went to a party. Never did anything crazy when I was in High School or college. Never went to a club. Never got drunk. Never fell in love. I have no good memories of youth...
    saberdied saberdied 18-21, M 4 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Am A Loser

    I have never been happy with myself and am generally frustrated with my life, and just need an outlet at the moment hence just want to share my story. I have never been a social person, and that's not through not trying. I don't have any friends or ever had any, through school...
    t12city t12city 26-30, M 6 Responses May 5, 2011

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    I believe that I am living a life without a

    clear purpose or a goal in my mind. Put plainly, I have no goals. At times I just live. But, at some point in time it really gets to you especially when you have to make a choice career wise. I made many bad career choices in my life & ended up being in a course for which I...
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 2 Responses Mar 23

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    A Term Coined By The Upper Middle Class

    Anyone who calls anyone a "loser" is clearly showing that they have too little IQ and too much self righteousness. "loser" goes back a long way. I think the term first appeared around the 1920's as a general social desciption and is predominantly used by...
    bitterdregs bitterdregs 46-50, F 8 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    I Would Be Considered A Loser,...

    I would be considered a loser, but i really don't care.  If that's what i am, then i'm proud of it.  It's better than being popular and not having true friends.
    denialsworld denialsworld 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 1, 2007

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    I'm a loser because I have had depression

    for 20 years. I haven't figured out how to enjoy life and feel better about myself. I'm also a loser because I have a college degree and I have no career and the job I have pays me little. I'm apparently too stupid to figure out how to make more money. I spend a lot of time...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    behindthemask behindthemask 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2007

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    In the Here and Now, I Am Not ...

    In the here and now, I am NOT a loser, but I can't help feeling like it more often than not. And I don't know why I feel that way- I have so many friends and they will tell me that they like what I do as an artist and musician, that I am a nice guy and a good person and that they...
    HairyDood HairyDood 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2007

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    No One Likes Me.

    Everyone has something awful to say, and something awful to laugh about. I don't mean laugh in a good way. It is funny how everyone in my school is truly flawed. They do drugs, sleep around, and fail their classes. Yet, they are the ones who receive all the praise. No one hates...
    JubeJube1231 JubeJube1231 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 12, 2011

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    I've been a loser now

    for a number of years. At least that's when it dawned on me, a few years ago. I live at home, struggling to finish school - whenever i start to do well i'll have 2 bad semesters in a row and then have to take classes all over again. i'm being paid shite where I work so I live...
    notawinner notawinner 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Good Things With Bad Purposes

    They say that one of the most important things in the world is family unity. (I personally don't agree, but I've been the black sheep of my family, so I'm a little biased, but that's a story for another time.) I remember that one of the 1st things that my (at the time, future...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 29, 2008

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    I Thought I Was A Loser...

    I thought I was a loser a few years back when I couldn't find a job and things were going wrong with my love life. Then a friend who I always thought had more going for him than I did started suffering from depression, and he told me how he had always wanted to be like...
    Rugbylover Rugbylover 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I was reading this self-help book

    and it was telling me to challenge my negative thought. When I think "I am a loser" I honestly cannot think of anything that proves I am not a loser.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yep

    I am a LoserHow can I even deny itIn every sense of the wordI have no jobI have no moneyI am quite stupidfat and uglymy skin is horriblemy son hates meI cannot in all good conscience call myself a Winner
    meteorite meteorite 36-40, F 19 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    Im Sad And Sorry

    Ever since i was born i have been a loser, when i was born my doctor tried to push me back in rather than celebrate my enrty into the world When i was at school i was beat up daily by the other kids, and mad fun of by the girls Now im in my 30s im still a virgin and still live...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 3, 2011

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    Breaking Point

    I've always been a loser but I've never realized it until a few years ago. Never was good with people, and until very late in life I thought the only way to make friends and please people was to do and be everything they wanted us to. I shaped my personality on that of those I...
    numisiro numisiro 36-40, M 20 Responses Jun 21, 2008

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    I recently got a new job.

    It took me almost a year to realize that everybody had been making fun of me. I missed out on a lot. This kind of triggered a lot of painful memories in high school and college. I realized that a lot of people who were nice to me were just doing it to look good or because they...
    JaneLife JaneLife 22-25, F Jan 31

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    Im a pretty big loser myself.

    It all started happening at once.I lost my girl when I found out she was sleeping with another guy. I was kicked out of my soccer team for reasons I don't know. I'm now failing all my classes and have a D in all my classes. But that isn't the worst thing. The worst thing is...
    peruano4lyfe peruano4lyfe 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    I hate my life. When I was 7 my mother was

    murdered, her body was found in a river somewhere. My father did not kill her but he has been in jail all m life. I was raised in a house with a alcoholic. My grandma and aunt are the only reason I was able to grow up and have a decent life. I graduated college but still can...
    scaredandlonely1 scaredandlonely1 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    I Really Am

    I do not have many friends, most likely because I do not want them I am afraid to get to close to anyone, they might judge me and hurt me. So since I push everyone away I don't really have any friends I am antisocial because of depression and anxiety so I am hermit and rarely...
    AnnaUndeadBallerina AnnaUndeadBallerina 18-21, F 17 Responses Sep 3, 2012

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    Everytime I meet a nice girl I end up ruining

    it cos I'm such a creep and a weirdo everytime I'm such a big pathetic waste of space I'm such a creep and a loser I hate myself course no girl can ever like me
    greatbritain1 greatbritain1 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    I Am A Loser

    I started this life with so much promise..... but that is all gone now.I am 32 a wife and mother and all of my successes are not mine. I am the womanbehind the man, the woman behind the kids but I have never acheived anything. I never graduated college, never got that great job...
    rox345 rox345 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    The Biggest Loser...

    ...was Jesus. Think about it. He hung out with the unwashed--fishermen, prostitutes, lepers and the blind. Dude was homeless. All that healing and teaching he did and in the end he was nailed to the cross for it, like a common criminal. And in front of his mother on top of it...
    beautytruth beautytruth 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 11, 2009

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    I am a loser. I have been

    since I was born, or shortly thereafter. My parents are/were losers and they raised us just that way. There was no love in the family between the siblings. We are all damaged. My role was the scape goat. I became so angry at the world. apart from that somehow or other, my...
    wottup wottup 51-55 2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    Im 26 years old and I live with my mom.

    Dont have a car or a job. At the time Im studying, Im going to finish in about a year, and Ill need a car to work because I have to make night shifts and there's no public transportation at that time where I live. I've tried finding a job, but the far I get is the interview part...
    Lostboy26 Lostboy26 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    Actually, I have not been happy

    since I broke up with my ex. I am a loser for five years after I finished my undergraduate studies. I was thin, beautiful and strong-minded. Now I lose my goal I do not know how to find myself back. I am fat and not confident at all. I really hate myself. Although I always said...
    fitwealth fitwealth 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28

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    I'm trying to look on the bright side

    but I just have to own that I feel like a loser. I just looked at the Instagram of a girl I went to HS with and seeing the way her life turned out makes me feel awful about the way mine is going. She has over 15k followers, is a photographer, is GORGEOUS, hangs with gorgeous...
    CA829 CA829 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    I feel like a total loser sometimes.

    I had a great Thursday watching the NCAA basketball tournament. My friend and I took both Thursday and Friday off and set up plans to go out Friday to watch day two of the games. Friday came and he said he had to work. I was totally crushed and didn't end up leaving the house. I...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Mar 24

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    I never had many friends.

    But now I don't have any. Several years ago I moved away from home because I had nothing left there to lose, and moved hundreds of miles away to live with someone i met online. she now hates me but we are stuck living together. she has a great life full of people that love and...
    worstloserever worstloserever 31-35, M Feb 16

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    A Loser In Life...

    I never used to be a loser but now I don't think there is one person on earth that would say any differently. I am single, have no friends, no social life, still live at home and although I have a job it isn't as good as I could do. I watch people my own age stride ahead in life...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 14 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Loser In 30's

    i have a degree but no one want to hire me. then i work as clerk. with salary 700/mth. all money gone to pay bills. im married to a poor guy. cant buy me anything. still living with my parent all my school friends have a professional job. why why why me
    itayadih itayadih 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    I am 23 years old have never kissed a girl

    or had a girlfriend. Obviously I've never had sex either. I am extremely socially awkward and beta and don't think I can overcome it. I've been going out to bars and clubs with friends since 2011 and have never kissed a girl there or hooked up with anyone. Some of my...
    CosmicBaby5555 CosmicBaby5555 22-25, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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