I Am a Love Addict

Are you still in love even after it's over? Are you afraid you'll always be alone? Do you feel unworthy of love and have been behaving like a stalker? If yes, you are a love addict. 1,235 People

    So I was reading psychology blogs

    for borderline and I found this for love addiction.I scored YES on all 40 hahaha.Oh dear.Where do I get therapy for this. Check out the links , if you want to . http://loveaddicts.org/40questions.html http://www.loveaddictiontreatment.com/loveaddiction/ http://www.nhs.uk...
    aquabunny aquabunny
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2015

    Loving him was like trying to change your mind

    once you are already flying through the free fall......Memorizing him was as easy as remembering every word of your favorite song.
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2013

    It's like the most exquisite form of self

    destruction. An addiction that hurts to have and hurts to detox from.
    thenymphomanic thenymphomanic
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 3

    The Huntress

    Night owl soaring lonely and perching on each new yellow bird Where are you going to lie tonight? Love costs more than your willing to spare Your soul belongs to the universe but feathers and soft flesh you'll easily share.
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    I love, love! I am a relationship person

    and I want to be loved the way I love... I give my all in relationships. I have read one to many romance novels and I know that they are fake and not real but that's what I want to be swept off my feet have that knight and shining armour put all my pieces back together, start a...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    Two Weeks Sober

    I started SLAA meetings knowing I was about to fly across country to meet a woman I'd fallen in love with online.  It was scary because I love to tell stories, but if I told this story about how unsober I was going to be, what would happen?  Would they kidnap me and...
    wundayatta wundayatta
    56-60, M
    3 Responses May 11, 2010

    December 31. Affirming the Good.

    "Fun becomes fun, love becomes love, life becomes worth living. And we become grateful." —Beyond Codependency Wait, and expect good things - for yourself and your loved ones. When you wonder what is coming, tell yourself the best is coming, the very best life and love...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Dec 31, 2014

    Are All Love Addicts As Scared Of Rejection As I Am?

    One of the traits of love addiction is a holy terror of being rejected or abandoned. So we stick to one person for a bit, then get disillusioned by their negative points, and run away before they see our negative points...I want to be in a healthy loving relationship like...
    clouds4208 clouds4208
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

    I'm not totally sure

    if I am or not. I know that I idealize love. I know that I continuously crave daily hugs at the very least. or talk once a day. Two months ago, ended a relationship with a detached type and it has left me drained and confused. All I want to do now is find comfort. I'm trying to...
    Aj03 Aj03
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    I have a huge problem.

    I'm addicted to love and my OM. When we aren't in contact I go into major withdrawal. Painful. I'm a disaster. Its not friggin normal. Yes I'm madly in love but my behaviour and thoughts are irrational and obsessive Its destroying me from the inside out. suddenly today...
    mysecretworld mysecretworld
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    And she tried to find the words .

    . Mixing them together like a powerful potion .. To her words were things of beauty , She was trying to spell magic . How could she ever explain , just what she was trying to say .. So she closed her eyes and spoke in a thousand silent ways .
    birdblu birdblu
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    December 29. Moving On.

    "Learn the art of acceptance. It's a lot of grief." —Codependent No More Sometimes, as part of taking care of ourselves, it becomes time to end certain relationships. Sometimes, it comes time to change the parameters of a particular relationship. This is true in love, in...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Dec 28, 2014
    TheFiendQueen TheFiendQueen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 16

    So sad that the site

    where I met you is closing... All the memories we had will end together with EP. We had a wonderful year together before things got ugly. You made me realize that long distance relationship could work... You made me feel beautiful even if I did not feel that way... You cheered...
    brokensonnet08 brokensonnet08
    31-35, F
    Apr 3

    I Make Myself Sick.

    I don't know how to stop getting involved with men i have no business getting involved with, breaking people's hearts because i am too terrified to get too close...well let's see... i was married once for a few years, then left him for another guy, but he wasn't as great as I...
    clouds4208 clouds4208
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2013

    When love is an addiction,

    then the absence of the drug means withdrawal. I know this now; didn't have the words to describe it before. Today is a withdrawal day. I know the only way to heal completely is to stop communicating with him. And doing so would quite possibly rip my heart out. But I suppose...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 14, 2015

    I'm a single guy,on my own now

    for 6 years,really miss the intimacy of a true companion,ready to meet my soulmate,Just love cuddling,kissing,holding hands .
    Joey61345 Joey61345
    70+, M
    Nov 30, 2015

    Confessions of a Love Addict

    I have a very serious problem with love and sex. I am a love addict. I am addicted to the attention and love of others. I cannot live this way anymore.  I am married, yet I still pursue relationships, whether virtual or realistic to hang on to. My husband's love is...
    addictoflove addictoflove
    31-35
    7 Responses Sep 19, 2009

    Started reading a book about love addiction.

    .... Sounds a lot like me ... I don't know how I'll fix it, but I'm tired if my crazy obsessiveness about somebody
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    Feb 4

    THE SIGN OF A BEAUTIFUL PERSON IS THAT THEY

    ALWAYS SEE BEAUTY IN OTHERS.
    mario111 mario111
    41-45, M
    Jan 22, 2015

    I'm a serial monogamist.

    I hate being alone. I hate being single. I feel so empty and scared. Ever since I started dating around age 13, I've only gone three months being single. Even if I know a guy isn't good for me, I'll date him because that beats being alone. There's comfort in having a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 8, 2015

    "When your happiness starts to rely on any

    person, achievement or outcome (or a fragile combination of these) then you may start to realize that you’re emotionally dependent." This is why love addicts need to learn how to be emotionally independent in order to be free. You have to constantly tell yourself...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015

    Just want to share this with everyone

    who is going through recovery from Love Addiction. I'm currently working on 2 & 3. Love Addicts Anonymous: The Twelve Steps 1. We admitted we were powerless over love, romance, fantasies and relationships—that our lives had become unmanageable. 2. Came to believe that a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    yes cannot go one day without Baby Love.

    He is sooooooooooooooooooo addictive.
    GirlyCasey123 GirlyCasey123
    22-25, F
    Aug 12, 2015

    I just figured out today my problem is I am

    addicted to love and been in love with a love avoider for the past 6 years. I am looking to recover from this with help from this site and to meet people who are in the same boat as me.
    klware klware
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2015

    I've been on the journey

    for just under two years. Before that I didn't know 'what' the problem was. I discovered first that I'm codependent, then a psychologist mentioned love addiction and it fit like a glove. From the time I was a little girl, I was terrified of never finding love. I have been...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise
    51-55, F
    Jun 23, 2014

    I have always felt I have never had an

    addictive personality I mean cigarettes alcohol,drugs like real hard drugs- when it got boring I just said well I think I'll stop now. And I did. However, I think I may be addicted to love. The events surrounding lust and love induce endorphins. There is something about falling...
    brileytallis brileytallis
    26-30
    1 Response May 17, 2015

    I fall in love to quickly.

    I'm so ready to give love and affection and compassion. In the end it drives them away or I get used. I need to stop or go to a place where others are like me
    blacksoldier43 blacksoldier43
    26-30, M
    Jul 25, 2015

    Feb. 13. Trusting Ourselves.

    What a great gift we've been given - ourselves. To listen to ourselves, to trust instinct and intuition, is to pay tribute to that gift. What a disservice not to heed the leadings and leanings that so naturally arise from within. When will we learn that these leadings and...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2014

    As much as I love the idea of being a strong

    independent woman, sometimes I really hate being alone. It's feelings like this that make me want to go back to something bad I know that once I return, he'll welcome me back with open arms. He may smirk to himself, knowing all his past assumptions were confirmed: a scared...
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    Feb. 28. Letting Go of Denial.

    We are slow to believe that which, if believed, would hurt our feelings. —Ovid Most of us in recovery have engaged in denial from time to time. Some of us relied on this tool. We may have denied events or feelings from our past. We may have denied other people's problems...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Feb 28, 2014

    December 30. Laying the Foundation.

    The groundwork has been laid. Do you not see that? Don't you understand that all you have gone through was for a purpose? There was a reason, a good reason, for the waiting, the struggle, the pain, and finally the release. You have been prepared. The same way a builder must...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Dec 30, 2014

    Everybody's like he's no item; Please don't

    like em; He don't wife em; He one nights em;....... I never listened Courtesy of Jay-z and Jhene aiko -I'm trying to avoid those types but they seem to be everywhere
    littlemissdazed littlemissdazed
    22-25, F
    Oct 6, 2015
    OhGK OhGK
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

    Withdrawl From My Love ...Day 2

    im sitting here trying to stop the thoughts what if i wait, what is he doing, is he thinking of me , why isnt he texting me , he usually txts me goodnight at this time .... It is 2 full days i dont talk to my drug of choice the 5 years we know each other seem to have withered...
    kikixox kikixox
    26-30
    Jul 30, 2013

    I'm so anxious. I hope it's all I've been

    thinking that it will be. I've been dreaming of it for so long. A dark ominous cloud hangs over me and forces me to believe that this won't go well. I'm searching for the silver lining.
    bossvixen bossvixen
    31-35, F
    Jun 30, 2015

    Well I don't know where to begin

    so here it goes. I made a mistake all because I really like the feeling of attention and that feeling of falling in love. I have some huge trust issues though, so I like the feeling but I haven't put in my love into any of the relationships that revolved around my addiction. I...
    Anadiir Anadiir
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    Another of you added to my list.

    What does that mean for you? You'll be pulled and spun into a whirlwind of passion and emotions. No sooner than you give in and allow yourself to be swallowed whole, I'll become bored of you. I'll wait until I know that I'm all you can think of and then I'll simply move on...
    bossvixen bossvixen
    31-35, F
    Oct 17, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 23, 2015

    But it's good there ain't all

    that many of us too. Makes us more special ;)
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2015

    My goal: to be the person I want to be with in

    more ways then one... With this in mind I find myself getting anxiety from a place of self perfectionism, but then I take a step back and breath and remind myself that this isn't a path to self perfectionism rather it is a path to ultimate self love. It is cliche but it is so...
    OhGK OhGK
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 31, 2014

    March 18. Safety. One of the long-term effects

    of living in a dysfunctional family - as children or adults - is that we don't feel safe. Much of what we call codependency happens because we don't feel safe in relationships. This can cause us to control, obsess, or focus on the other person, while neglecting ourselves or...
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    Mar 18, 2014
    bigdavo85 bigdavo85
    31-35, M
    Jan 17

    Imprisoned By My Own Thoughts

    I am a love addict. There is always someone I am obsessed with. At any given time in my life, if you come up to me and ask me who I’m obsessed with, I will always have an answer. My whole life revolves around that person. Everything- my thoughts, my work schedule, my free...
    Maydove Maydove
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Aug 4, 2009

    Crop Circles. Take A Closer Look.

       I havn't noticed much being written about this phenomenon. I have heard slightly about them over the years but always with ideas of some body is playing a prank accompanying the awareness.  However in the past 1 - 5years, it appears that this occurrence has increased...
    lafsnack lafsnack
    51-55, M
    3 Responses May 14, 2011

    If you can answer yes to more

    than a few of the following questions, you are probably a love addict. Remember that love addiction comes in many forms, so even if you don’t answer yes to all of the questions you may still be a love addict. You are very needy when it comes to relationships. You fall in love...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 24

    Who isn't a love addict.

    I mean really. I am addicted to love and there's nothing you can do about it!
    hawkfan12 hawkfan12
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 16

    Circle’s complete. 365 days.

    Thank you all for reading my daily posts from Melody Beattie’s book, “The Language of Letting Go.” Wishing you and yours an amazing New Year filled with infinite good, love and light.
    zeeva70 zeeva70
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    I was doing so good! I was finally getting over

    him and getting used to not being with him anymore. He texts me yesterday and he's got my earring. I left it at his house. I don't really need or want it per se. I really want to see him. I'm going to stop by his house and look amazing. I'm going to try to kiss him deeply and...
    bossvixen bossvixen
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2014
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