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I Am a Love Addict

Are you still in love even after it's over? Are you afraid you'll always be alone? Do you feel unworthy of love and have been behaving like a stalker? If yes, you are a love addict. 600 People

    I Make Myself Sick. - I don't know how to stop getting involved with men i have no business getting involved with, breaking people's hearts because i am too terrified to get too...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    March 31. Finances. Taking financial responsibility for ourselves is part of recovery. Some of us may find ourselves in hard financial times for a variety of reasons. Our...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 31

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    We Will Persevere - far far away =( Distance may cause many tears And it may also bring fear But if our love is clear It will never disappear Whether we are far or near...
    KaylaPetrova92 KaylaPetrova92 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2013

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    "People accept the love they think they deserve" People are so self critical. There are so many times in life I've been confused about others relationships. I've asked myself or...
    mzwhat mzwhat 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    April 5. Detaching in Love. Detachment is a key to recovery from codependency. It strengthens our healthy relationships - the ones that we want to grow and flourish. It benefits...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 5

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    April 14. Perfectionism. Recovery from codependency is an individual process that necessitates making mistakes, struggling through problems, and facing tough issues. Expecting...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    I need love like the air that I breathe in. I can't stay without love. I need to love and be loved. I have fallen in love many times and was heartbroken but I always managed to get...
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    April 2. Facing Our Darker Side. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. —Step Four of Al-Anon By the time we get to the Fourth of the Twelve Steps, we are...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 2

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    I like to hurt people , killing them, the sound of their screams yummy<3 Lol and when one of them beg for his life oh man it makes me lmao xD
    Zoce Zoce 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    Love Addict - I am addicted to falling in love. I love the emotional high that comes with finding someone who is attracted to me and likes who i am or who I seem to be. The feeling...
    wareagle1974 wareagle1974 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2012

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    April 12. Letting Go of Fear. Picture yourself swimming floating - peacefully down a gentle stream. All you need to do is breathe, relax, and go with the flow. Suddenly, you...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    April 7. Those Old Time Feelings. "I still have bad days. But that's okay. I used to have bad years." —Anonymous Sometimes, the old feelings creep back in. We may feel fearful...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 7

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    March 27. After-Burn. How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I need it. To feel it. Believe it. Understand that I'm worth it.
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    seriously !!! i lovvvve love XD , i love romantic movies , i love hearing my friends telling me about their love stories ,, how they met ,, what happened next , with all it's part...
    tinathefreak tinathefreak 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    April 13. Enjoyment. One of the prohibitions many of us learned in childhood is the unspoken rule — don't have fun and enjoy life. This rule creates martyrs — people who will...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    March 6. Peace. Anxiety is often our first reaction to conflict, problems, or even our own fears. In those moments, detaching and getting peaceful may seem disloyal or apathetic...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    March 25. Letting Go of Worry. What if we knew for certain that everything we're worried about today will work out fine? What if . . . we had a guarantee that the problem...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 25

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    April 1. Going Easy. Go easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness - go in peace. Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 1

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    March 28. Balance. Seek balance. Balance emotions with reason. Combine detachment with doing our part. Balance giving with receiving. Alternate work with play, business with...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 28

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    April 10. Using Others to Stop Our Pain. Our happiness is not a present someone else holds in his or her hands. Our well-being is not held by another to be given or withheld at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    "Hold On" Colbie Caillat ☁️💞 I'm feeling further, feeling further from you every day You're in the stars, in the stars, yeah, you're worlds away I'm moving on, moving on...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    I have a huge problem. I'm addicted to love and my OM. When we aren't in contact I go into major withdrawal. Painful. I'm a disaster. Its not friggin normal. Yes I'm madly in...
    mysecretworld mysecretworld 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 17

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    April 15. Communication. Part of owning our power is learning to communicate clearly, directly, and assertively. We don't have to beat around the bush in our conversations to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Did'nt Know I Did'nt Know - I am a love addict.I did'nt know this is what I am until recently.I have been working on the co-dependency side of me for A LONG time.I recently...
    ladycroft39 ladycroft39 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Are All Love Addicts As Scared Of Rejection As I Am? - One of the traits of love addiction is a holy terror of being rejected or abandoned. So we stick to one person for a bit...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    March 20. Releasing. Let fears slip away. Release any negative, limiting, or self-defeating beliefs buried in your subconscious too. These beliefs may be about life, love, or...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 20

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    March 23. Flack from Setting Boundaries. We need to know how far we'll go, and how far we'll allow others to go with us. Once we understand this, we can go anywhere. —Beyond...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 23

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    March 19. Staying Out of the Middle. "I don't want to get in the middle, but . . ." is a sign that we may have just stepped into the middle. We do not have to get caught in the...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 19

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    April 11. Financial Goals. Taking responsibility for our financial affairs will improve our self-esteem and lessen anxiety. Each of us, today, has a present set of financial...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    April 4. Negotiating Conflicts. Recovery is about more than walking away. Sometimes it means learning to stay and deal. It's about building and maintaining relationships that work...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Clouds4208'S List Of 41 Relationship Red Flags To Avoid - So with my long relationship history and from stories I have heard, I have gathered up a list of Red Flags to be wary of...
    clouds4208 clouds4208 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Lost In Love Addiction. - As I am in my late twenties, nearing 30, I look back at my life. All I know and have known is this need to be loved and accepted. Endlessly searching for...
    OoiTsumi OoiTsumi 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2011

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    My Love Story - I am a love addict. I've probably been a love addict since my childhood. Since I've been working the LAA program, I've had the opportunity to look back at my past...
    Rubeng Rubeng 26-30 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Loving him was like trying to change your mind once you are already flying through the free fall......Memorizing him was as easy as remembering every word of your favorite song.
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Imprisoned By My Own Thoughts - I am a love addict. There is always someone I am obsessed with. At any given time in my life, if you come up to me and ask me who I’m obsessed...
    Maydove Maydove 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Feb. 28. Letting Go of Denial. We are slow to believe that which, if believed, would hurt our feelings. —Ovid Most of us in recovery have engaged in denial from time to time...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Feb 28

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    Well me and my boyfriend are doing a lot better but today he called me and my phone was off because I fell asleep I wish I would haw charged my phone maybe we could be hanging out...
    Danielle1995195 Danielle1995195 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Confessions of a Love Addict - I have a very serious problem with love and sex. I am a love addict. I am addicted to the attention and love of others. I cannot live this way...
    addictoflove addictoflove 31-35 8 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    March 29. Getting Needs Met. Picture yourself walking through a meadow. There is a path opening before you. As you walk, you feel hungry. Look to your left. There's a fruit tree...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 29

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    March 24. Appreciating Ourselves. We are the greatest things that will ever happen to us. Believe it. It makes life much easier. —Codependent No More It is time to stop this...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 24

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    And she tried to find the words .. Mixing them together like a powerful potion .. To her words were things of beauty , She was trying to spell magic . How could she ever explain...
    birdblu birdblu 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 12

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    April 6. Patience. How sick and tired we may become of people telling us to be patient or to learn patience. How frustrating it can be to want to finally have something, or to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 6

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    The Huntress - Night owl soaring lonely and perching on each new yellow bird Where are you going to lie tonight? Love costs more than your willing to spare Your soul belongs...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Two Weeks Sober - I started SLAA meetings knowing I was about to fly across country to meet a woman I'd fallen in love with online.  It was scary because I love to tell...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 4 Responses May 11, 2010

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    March 30. Experiment. Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 30

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    March 26. Gifts, Not Burdens. "Children are gifts, if we accept them." —Kathleen Turner Crilly Children are gifts. Our children, if we have children, are a gift to us. We, as...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 26

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    March 2. Feelings on the Job. "I'm furious about my job. Another man got a promotion that I believe I deserve. I'm so mad I feel like quitting. Now my wife says I should deal with...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 2

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    March 18. Safety. One of the long-term effects of living in a dysfunctional family - as children or adults - is that we don't feel safe. Much of what we call codependency happens...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 18

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    Feb. 13. Trusting Ourselves. What a great gift we've been given - ourselves. To listen to ourselves, to trust instinct and intuition, is to pay tribute to that gift. What a...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    March 22. Letting Go of Being a Victim. It's okay to have a good day. Really. It's okay to be doing okay and to feel like our life is manageable and on track. Many of us have...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 22

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