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I Am a Lover Not a Fighter

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    I'm a Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I've always been a lover... Never a fighter... I could never fight anything.. Unless I had to then I would... But I'm a loved threw and threw.. Always have been always will be..
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Sep 4, 2008

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    i was asked to fight a fellow high school

    student lol noo thank you
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10

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    Go With the Flow

    This group's name says it all about my current state of mind. I don't have a problem speaking my mind about things, but it makes much more sense to me to talk things out in a way that prevents raised voices and angry words.  I'll use my ex-boyfriend as an example since...
    anadolu anadolu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Love People I Don't Want To Fight.

    It used to be the other way round, I used to be fighter, Kickboxer, bouncer football hooligan, didn't have time to love but since I became a christian I have completely turned my life around, I would defend myself but no longer am who I used to be life is so much easier...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I Will Love When I Can

    But I will NOT backdown anymore. I will stand up for myself and my friends. I will love myself before others, and I WILL SUCCEED.
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    You Can Get Bruised In Both So I Choose Love

     Even though my heart may be bruised, taking a chance on love seems much more satisfying than taking a chance on winning a fight.  Any day!  Any way!  Sharing love is wonderful.  Sharing fists is stupid.  I was told by a Karate instructor that the...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    I will always try to calm the situation down

    so it will not escalate... However if you endanger my friends or family things will change. In extremely protective
    kdx45 kdx45 22-25, M Jun 22

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    Just Found Out

    GA_googleCreateDomiframe('google_ads_div_Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250' ,'Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250'); You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M May 6, 2009

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    Really Starting To Realize This

    My other story in this group is about a quiz I took that said I was a lover.  I have just started realizing the truth of this cliche statement though.  If you've been keeping up with my stories, you know that my girlfriend and my ex-affair-person (I don't know what this...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Oct 1, 2010

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    True

    The group name says it all; I am a lover not a fighter. I would sooo rather love someone that fight; I have tons of love and hugs to give.
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F Jun 18, 2008

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    Confrontation? I'll Pass.

    I hate fighting. I try to avoid it at all costs. i could never cope with being yelled at, I just break down. I am not weak, it is just not worth it to me to get all heated. I think of it as a talent to be able to work through situations without fighting.
    LittleLady LittleLady 19-21, F Dec 3, 2007

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    Always the Lover Never the Fighter

    I have never been in a fight before I believe if  you can just  respect each other  even if you dont agree and  step away cool down then try to talk things out  everything will  be just fine violence never  really  solves anything it just...
    whitelighter212009 whitelighter212009 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Omg

    ok so i am kinda a fighter only when it comes down to it but peace and love is my goal.. like if a person comes up to me and starts talking **** i am so going to kick some *** but other than that i am like dude love can be done
    sneeky sneeky 16-18, F Dec 2, 2007

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    Give Everyone Love

    I would much rather hug the person than bet them up. I have known (and still know) many people who have hurt my feelings or made me mad. But I find it easier to forgive and love than to be bitter and mean. I think, if they want to hate you, let them, but you don't need to be on...
    LHCrisman LHCrisman 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Don't Fight

    I'm a lover not a fighter but doesn't a lover fight for love? should I resign thoughts that aren't sane Then what should I shall then become? I'm a man of decency, I love the thought of love and everything in between that leads to love and more or less the fact it can exist try...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 20, 2011

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    Yeah =/

    I'm too nice for my own good. I can't argue, fight or stand up for myself. I don't think I'm cowardly, but I just don't like confrontations. I don't like egging on my 'opponent' to make it worse. I prefer being silent, letting them calm down and sorting things out responsibly...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M Apr 10

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    i've worked at bars and events where once you add drinks some people think they are he-man or wonder woman and at the end of thew night i've spent to much time mopping up blood throwing away broken glass and furniture so what the **** is the point to fighting it never solves...
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    I Will, Though

    Though I prefer not to fight, I will. Should they need it, I willingly defend my friends.  I don't hesitate to tell bullies to lay off...whether I know the victim or not.  When teasing crosses the line from "all in fun" to "deliberately malicious" I step in.I choose my moments...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    I Hate Fighting

    I just don't understand why people feel the need to fight. The same goes for war, I don't understand that either. I feel that fighting can only make problems worse whether it's between two people or two countries. Personally, I haven't had a fight since elementary school; since...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F Feb 20, 2011

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    Forced Into What I Despise

    Together for 18 years, married for 13, and now seperated since May 1st, 2011 on our way to a divorce that she "needs". I will admit that I was not the best husband, and that there were times when I was right down lousy, not showing her the love she deserved and ignoring the...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Me Too

    i feel exactly the same as little lady. but also for me, a lot of people expect me to be fighter because i have been swimming since i was little and i'm pretty muscular. i hate it when people make jokes about me being able to beat people up because i never would. i don't even...
    snowboard4life snowboard4life 16-18, F Dec 9, 2007

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    I’m a fighter and nun can change that I grew up in the ghetto there is nun in this world I don’t know abt everything I know I learn It on my own I never had the opportunity to...
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    Stevie Nicks Imaginary Lover Imaginary lovers never turn you down when all the others turn you away they're around it's my private pleasure midnight fantasy someone to share my...
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    If you are reading this story then i assume that you are also the victim of this matter (more victims compared to the victims of politician's promises :)). I accept "LOVE is great...
    Dhanasri94 Dhanasri94 18-21, F Sep 22

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    A TRIBUTE TO ENCHANTINGDREAM Most my friends will know I am not one to advertise sexual stuffs freely for others to see. But ever since I met my girlfriend here EchantingDream...
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    I am lover...true lover...
    gautamkeshu1989 gautamkeshu1989 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I miss having someone who I could feel safe and open with. Someone who my gestures and affections are not always seen as sexual. When I was in my late 20's I found the love of my...
    HONAW HONAW 41-45, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am craving a lover. Someone who will not only make love to me but who is also a amazing friend in the process. Someone who is caring and a shoulder I can lean on. I want to be...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Oh beautiful dark bitter lover, who wakes me in the morning light, you kiss my lips and stir my soul. Without you my day has no glow.
    Wheels64 Wheels64 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 1

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    I lover older women? LOL I do love older women!Anyway, Jessica Lange omg there's just something about her that totally does it for me :) 
    RaceCarrington RaceCarrington 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Would love a lover who is into swinging because I am thinking of getting into it
    Adriano38 Adriano38 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    From what I've seen growing up, and being a product of high school sweethearts, I believe that's it's very important to have a lover that's a best friend.
    MrBigg0599 MrBigg0599 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I'm a Lesbian. I want looking for a Lesbian Lover anywhere. If you want know about me. message for me. :D
    laura9011111 laura9011111 22-25, F Sep 8

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    I want a best friend who is a boy. Maybe not a lover but a best friend who is a boy. Who will understand me, care for me for who I am, thinks I'm beautiful, and listens to all my...
    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend. But for some reason I want more.. This other guy. But it feels wrong to leave someone who is so good to me for someone I just met.
    Isaiah4310 Isaiah4310 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    I think that's so cool to have a lover that's ur bestfriend
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 13

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    I have read different inspirational stories about dogs who did heroic works for their masters. Just like with the story entitled "A Man’s Best friend, A Man’s Hero" from...
    erllynllaneta erllynllaneta 22-25, F Sep 18

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    I am very happy with my Bestfriend who is also my lover . We have no secrets and I find myself smiling non stop when I'm texting or talking to him . Things couldn't be more happier...
    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 21

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    I long for a loving, caring woman in my life. One that would be respectful of my feelings & generosity towards her. I want a lover to be honest w/ me & enjoy our time together as...
    mo0se809 mo0se809 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Lover, Here is a few things you need to know about me. First, I have a very bad tamper. Genetic links plus environmental spoiled. How's that sound. Second, I'm inexperience, which...
    RainSword RainSword 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    About a week and a half ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Before we were together we had been good friends for about six years so we were mostly just testing the waters to see if...
    928fan 928fan 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    OMG having a best friend as a lover looks like sooo much fun. Never been in a relationship but one of my friends has a best friend as her bf. The are so adorable and they are...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Animal lover all my life!!! Raised an orphan fawn on a baby bottle. Raised calves on bottles as a child. Ridden horses all my life. Raised orphan bunnies to adulthood and released...
    wantafriend70 wantafriend70 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    i am a huge animal lover,i feel sorry for them because they dont have an advance mind like humanbeings and that they cant think on a complicated level like us plus most are very...
    lizmcfee lizmcfee 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    “If saying my brain is firework, coffee will be the fire. Once you light it up, spark is everywhere.” - Marcgrapher Good morning Coffee Lovers;) have a beautiful day;))))
    Serenita Serenita 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to meet a woman who will accept me for who I am. I want to be able to cherish someone who accepts me, pushes past our differences and is commuted to improving our...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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