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I Am a Lover Not a Fighter

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    Always the Lover Never the Fighter

    I have never been in a fight before I believe if  you can just  respect each other  even if you dont agree and  step away cool down then try to talk things out  everything will  be just fine violence never  really  solves anything it just...
    whitelighter212009 whitelighter212009 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    i've worked at bars and events where once you add drinks some people think they are he-man or wonder woman and at the end of thew night i've spent to much time mopping up blood throwing away broken glass and furniture so what the **** is the point to fighting it never solves...
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Go With the Flow

    This group's name says it all about my current state of mind. I don't have a problem speaking my mind about things, but it makes much more sense to me to talk things out in a way that prevents raised voices and angry words.  I'll use my ex-boyfriend as an example since...
    anadolu anadolu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Will Love When I Can

    But I will NOT backdown anymore. I will stand up for myself and my friends. I will love myself before others, and I WILL SUCCEED.
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    Don't Fight

    I'm a lover not a fighter but doesn't a lover fight for love? should I resign thoughts that aren't sane Then what should I shall then become? I'm a man of decency, I love the thought of love and everything in between that leads to love and more or less the fact it can exist try...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 20, 2011

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    Me Too

    i feel exactly the same as little lady. but also for me, a lot of people expect me to be fighter because i have been swimming since i was little and i'm pretty muscular. i hate it when people make jokes about me being able to beat people up because i never would. i don't even...
    snowboard4life snowboard4life 16-18, F Dec 9, 2007

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    I Will, Though

    Though I prefer not to fight, I will. Should they need it, I willingly defend my friends.  I don't hesitate to tell bullies to lay off...whether I know the victim or not.  When teasing crosses the line from "all in fun" to "deliberately malicious" I step in.I choose my moments...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Just Found Out

    GA_googleCreateDomiframe('google_ads_div_Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250' ,'Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250'); You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M May 6, 2009

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    Give Everyone Love

    I would much rather hug the person than bet them up. I have known (and still know) many people who have hurt my feelings or made me mad. But I find it easier to forgive and love than to be bitter and mean. I think, if they want to hate you, let them, but you don't need to be on...
    LHCrisman LHCrisman 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    True

    The group name says it all; I am a lover not a fighter. I would sooo rather love someone that fight; I have tons of love and hugs to give.
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F Jun 18, 2008

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    i was asked to fight a fellow high school

    student lol noo thank you
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10

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    Really Starting To Realize This

    My other story in this group is about a quiz I took that said I was a lover.  I have just started realizing the truth of this cliche statement though.  If you've been keeping up with my stories, you know that my girlfriend and my ex-affair-person (I don't know what this...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Oct 1, 2010

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    I Hate Fighting

    I just don't understand why people feel the need to fight. The same goes for war, I don't understand that either. I feel that fighting can only make problems worse whether it's between two people or two countries. Personally, I haven't had a fight since elementary school; since...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F Feb 20, 2011

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    You Can Get Bruised In Both So I Choose Love

     Even though my heart may be bruised, taking a chance on love seems much more satisfying than taking a chance on winning a fight.  Any day!  Any way!  Sharing love is wonderful.  Sharing fists is stupid.  I was told by a Karate instructor that the...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Forced Into What I Despise

    Together for 18 years, married for 13, and now seperated since May 1st, 2011 on our way to a divorce that she "needs". I will admit that I was not the best husband, and that there were times when I was right down lousy, not showing her the love she deserved and ignoring the...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    I Love People I Don't Want To Fight.

    It used to be the other way round, I used to be fighter, Kickboxer, bouncer football hooligan, didn't have time to love but since I became a christian I have completely turned my life around, I would defend myself but no longer am who I used to be life is so much easier...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I will always try to calm the situation down

    so it will not escalate... However if you endanger my friends or family things will change. In extremely protective
    kdx45 kdx45 22-25, M Jun 22

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    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Omg

    ok so i am kinda a fighter only when it comes down to it but peace and love is my goal.. like if a person comes up to me and starts talking **** i am so going to kick some *** but other than that i am like dude love can be done
    sneeky sneeky 16-18, F Dec 2, 2007

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    Confrontation? I'll Pass.

    I hate fighting. I try to avoid it at all costs. i could never cope with being yelled at, I just break down. I am not weak, it is just not worth it to me to get all heated. I think of it as a talent to be able to work through situations without fighting.
    LittleLady LittleLady 19-21, F Dec 3, 2007

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    I'm a Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I've always been a lover... Never a fighter... I could never fight anything.. Unless I had to then I would... But I'm a loved threw and threw.. Always have been always will be..
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Sep 4, 2008

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    Yeah =/

    I'm too nice for my own good. I can't argue, fight or stand up for myself. I don't think I'm cowardly, but I just don't like confrontations. I don't like egging on my 'opponent' to make it worse. I prefer being silent, letting them calm down and sorting things out responsibly...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    i want a lover like my dream girl i love u very much but who is she i d'nt know if u so response me............
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    My favorites are Street Fighter Alpha 3 (great gameplay, pretty good roster and great soundtrack); Street Fighter 2/Turbo whatever (classic) and Street Fighter 3 Second Impact best...
    DX2000 DX2000 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Is this you? If you look for things in a lover, you fail to see the lover. These are the things I find, when I am not looking - they are so much more precious that way! A...
    yulico yulico 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    Personally from past relationships, the relationship ends as lovers but we are still great friends. I always go into a relationship with a great friendship because a relationship...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    He is the light of my life. He makes my life worth living. We've never met , but I'm sure it will happen one day because we both want it. We are not just lovers. We are good...
    ascentofawoman67 ascentofawoman67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Any nature lovers out there should read Colin Tudge. He's written a book about trees and another about birds (and others I haven't read). His passion is obvious and he writes...
    tickleme345 tickleme345 36-40, M Jun 25

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    Hi! I'm a chinese-indonesian girl. I'm looking for a lesbian lover. Been single since 1.5 years ago lol. Looking for someone who is attractive, funny and want to share my life with...
    lauracassie92 lauracassie92 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I would love for him to be my best friend first and then slowly overtime we fall madly in love. He would be my homie, my bestie, my lover. Our relationship would be far from boring...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    How can I not be a lover of art when I live in Paris, one of the places with the most art museums! I like to create art myself. I get inspired by a lot of things!
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    ♫I'm a cheap backseat lover well let's get it on then ♫
    anon13434 anon13434 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I am an animal's lover. My girlfriend is a real beast.
    lefft lefft 31-35, M a week ago

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    Okay, maybe I kinda over exaggerated about everything in my Long distance relationship. We'll my "boyfriend" posted a picture on Instagram and it said he took the photo at some...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    An age different couple married 20 years knows the meaning of how to be lovers and BEST friends at the same time....I love that 6
    dextermlap dextermlap 46-50, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Your just a scumbag hacker. .. Report her
    thatpartisfinished70 thatpartisfinished70 46-50, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Sometimes you have to give up the fight because that person doesn't want us to fight for them anymore! x
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    There is a deep connection between loving and fighting. I will describe something, then ask you to name it: Two people come together on a large, flat, pale surface. There is a...
    BoxBoyRP BoxBoyRP 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I hate fighting so much! There's nothing great about it unless you are fighting for the one you love, but I'd rather talk things out and hope for the best.
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hate fighting never been in a fight but I will fight for what I love. I plan to join the Marine Corps and I love my family that's in the Middle East and if I have to join the...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    In other words, what gets me off is getting you off! Whatever it takes, I'm willing to put in the time necessary to make sure that it happens
    Raddaddy Raddaddy 41-45, M 16 hrs ago

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    I am in love with a 26 year old man who has MS. I support him in every way and take good care of things around his house as he gets tired easy. He has told me that if I want...
    Drm35670 Drm35670 41-45, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Yes. That way we grow together and compliment each other, as well as each being a strong and independent individual who is positive optimistic acceptive of changes
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I started dating a boy I know from the 4-H fair and my sister and her husband and my mom and dad knows him but thing is my mom said he has to call me first and I just wish he would...
    jamie1013 jamie1013 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I worked as an engineer before, and the position that I had, required me to sit on my butt 9 hours a day, developing new designs for race car parts, utilizing CAD software. Now don...
    need4speed28 need4speed28 18-21, M 54 mins ago

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    I was born and raised in the city so I have always been around the hustle and bustle of busy streets. It's pretty funny to see that although I have never been around nature as much...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 11 mins ago

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    Did my first cage fight!! Won by desicion all three rounds. Was as fun as I expected, life is good right now. I've been in a couple street fights when I was a kid, and been in...
    leptar leptar 18-21, M Jun 25

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