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I Am a Lover Not a Fighter

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    Omg

    ok so i am kinda a fighter only when it comes down to it but peace and love is my goal.. like if a person comes up to me and starts talking **** i am so going to kick some *** but other than that i am like dude love can be done
    sneeky sneeky 16-17, F Dec 2, 2007

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    Forced Into What I Despise

    Together for 18 years, married for 13, and now seperated since May 1st, 2011 on our way to a divorce that she "needs". I will admit that I was not the best husband, and that there were times when I was right down lousy, not showing her the love she deserved and ignoring the...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    i was asked to fight a fellow high school

    student lol noo thank you
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10, 2014

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    Don't Fight

    I'm a lover not a fighter but doesn't a lover fight for love? should I resign thoughts that aren't sane Then what should I shall then become? I'm a man of decency, I love the thought of love and everything in between that leads to love and more or less the fact it can exist try...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 20, 2011

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    I Love People I Don't Want To Fight.

    It used to be the other way round, I used to be fighter, Kickboxer, bouncer football hooligan, didn't have time to love but since I became a christian I have completely turned my life around, I would defend myself but no longer am who I used to be life is so much easier...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Just Found Out

    GA_googleCreateDomiframe('google_ads_div_Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250' ,'Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250'); You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M May 6, 2009

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    I will always try to calm the situation down

    so it will not escalate... However if you endanger my friends or family things will change. In extremely protective
    kdx45 kdx45 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Yeah =/

    I'm too nice for my own good. I can't argue, fight or stand up for myself. I don't think I'm cowardly, but I just don't like confrontations. I don't like egging on my 'opponent' to make it worse. I prefer being silent, letting them calm down and sorting things out responsibly...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Really Starting To Realize This

    My other story in this group is about a quiz I took that said I was a lover.  I have just started realizing the truth of this cliche statement though.  If you've been keeping up with my stories, you know that my girlfriend and my ex-affair-person (I don't know what this...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Oct 1, 2010

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    Go With the Flow

    This group's name says it all about my current state of mind. I don't have a problem speaking my mind about things, but it makes much more sense to me to talk things out in a way that prevents raised voices and angry words.  I'll use my ex-boyfriend as an example since...
    anadolu anadolu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    True

    The group name says it all; I am a lover not a fighter. I would sooo rather love someone that fight; I have tons of love and hugs to give.
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F Jun 18, 2008

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    I'm a Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I've always been a lover... Never a fighter... I could never fight anything.. Unless I had to then I would... But I'm a loved threw and threw.. Always have been always will be..
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Sep 4, 2008

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    I Will Love When I Can

    But I will NOT backdown anymore. I will stand up for myself and my friends. I will love myself before others, and I WILL SUCCEED.
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    i've worked at bars and events where once you add drinks some people think they are he-man or wonder woman and at the end of thew night i've spent to much time mopping up blood throwing away broken glass and furniture so what the **** is the point to fighting it never solves...
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Confrontation? I'll Pass.

    I hate fighting. I try to avoid it at all costs. i could never cope with being yelled at, I just break down. I am not weak, it is just not worth it to me to get all heated. I think of it as a talent to be able to work through situations without fighting.
    LittleLady LittleLady 18-21, F Dec 3, 2007

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    I Hate Fighting

    I just don't understand why people feel the need to fight. The same goes for war, I don't understand that either. I feel that fighting can only make problems worse whether it's between two people or two countries. Personally, I haven't had a fight since elementary school; since...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F Feb 20, 2011

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    I Will, Though

    Though I prefer not to fight, I will. Should they need it, I willingly defend my friends.  I don't hesitate to tell bullies to lay off...whether I know the victim or not.  When teasing crosses the line from "all in fun" to "deliberately malicious" I step in.I choose my moments...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Give Everyone Love

    I would much rather hug the person than bet them up. I have known (and still know) many people who have hurt my feelings or made me mad. But I find it easier to forgive and love than to be bitter and mean. I think, if they want to hate you, let them, but you don't need to be on...
    LHCrisman LHCrisman 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Me Too

    i feel exactly the same as little lady. but also for me, a lot of people expect me to be fighter because i have been swimming since i was little and i'm pretty muscular. i hate it when people make jokes about me being able to beat people up because i never would. i don't even...
    snowboard4life snowboard4life 16-17, F Dec 9, 2007

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    Always the Lover Never the Fighter

    I have never been in a fight before I believe if  you can just  respect each other  even if you dont agree and  step away cool down then try to talk things out  everything will  be just fine violence never  really  solves anything it just...
    whitelighter212009 whitelighter212009 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Spitbak Spitbak 41-45, M Mar 7

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    A fighter wakes up in the morning gets ready and looks in that mirrow with a smile even if its fake because life is hard and it will beat you down and keep you there if you let it...
    dean70 dean70 16-17, M Mar 1

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    DaveFF0178 DaveFF0178 41-45, M Mar 14

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    I see stories on here telling about couples falling in love. That in itself is always a great thing. What I want to know is how many of those consider your lover your best friend...
    srfchopper srfchopper 56-60, M Mar 14

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    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not sure which way to take the meaning of this group! I cross dress quite a bit but, my wife is in the dark about what I do. I do love my wife and we make love when I'm me...
    Cassandrajoan Cassandrajoan 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    I have a lover who was also my best friend. Introducing love into our friendship really changed the dynamics. My boyfriend claims that I'm still one of his best friends (overlook...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    So, I've never had a real life boyfriend before, maybe because I'm not pretty enough or smart enough idk. I've had crushes, I talk to boys, I've had guys interested in me, it's all...
    slowme97 slowme97 16-17, F Mar 4

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    im looking for a future husband or a boyfiend...i am a lesbian lover before..
    loulady loulady 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    every time i see this experience posted on my home screen, that song by John Mellencamp I Need A Lover (that wont drive me crazy) pops in my head.
    ThePastIsDead ThePastIsDead 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    I return to a former lover after 20 years anybody else do this
    claude219 claude219 56-60, M Mar 8

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    my lord, yes...a best friend and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    This is I think very rare but I am truly a woman's Armpit lover...... I like any kinds of armpit whether clean, hairy or sweaty, I love to take the smell of any kinds of women's...
    suckme0609 suckme0609 36-40, M Mar 9

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    i want a lover who is also my best friend but all the time i found people who just want sex n horny ... i want polite people but wat i get are rude people .... i am sad no one love...
    HalleluiaIauwe777777777777 HalleluiaIauwe777777777777 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    Yes I really really do! So badly. Somebody who knows me with the drop of a hat. Who can read me INSTANTLY. Somebody I can share and talk about anything with. But also somebody that...
    23kk23 23kk23 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    Nowadays, Its difficult to find a Lover who become your bestfriend. Specially when you are in dating site, There are fake and scammer people. If not, they're asking your nude...
    gnehs28 gnehs28 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 11

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    When you're young and just discovering your sexuality it's mostly about the thrill. As you mature you fall in love, but your first love is often not your best or even truly a...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    Here is a little story of my Fantasy Lover ! mmmm
    PSULLY63 PSULLY63 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Am A Animal Lover I Love Pitbulls I Hate Animal Cruelty
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    And a nature lover, k cups kill guys #drinkresponsibly http://www.npr.org/blogs/thesalt/2015/01/28/379395819/coffee-horror-parody-pokes-at-environmental-absurdity-of-k-cups
    JamieMostra JamieMostra 26-30, T 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want a lover who can be here for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    You don't want to make love warfare but you'll do what you've got to do! Sticking up for yourself and those you love is policy. Then, it'll be true love conquers all!
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    Fight For Life. Fight For Love. Never would I want to fight but doesn't mean I would not. Being depressed or the mental issues I have had have always been a fight so to truly find...
    Lugelogistics93 Lugelogistics93 18-21, M Mar 5

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    TheOtherPsycho TheOtherPsycho 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 11