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I Am a Lover Not a Fighter

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    Just Found Out

    GA_googleCreateDomiframe('google_ads_div_Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250' ,'Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250'); You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M May 6, 2009

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    Give Everyone Love

    I would much rather hug the person than bet them up. I have known (and still know) many people who have hurt my feelings or made me mad. But I find it easier to forgive and love than to be bitter and mean. I think, if they want to hate you, let them, but you don't need to be on...
    LHCrisman LHCrisman 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Forced Into What I Despise

    Together for 18 years, married for 13, and now seperated since May 1st, 2011 on our way to a divorce that she "needs". I will admit that I was not the best husband, and that there were times when I was right down lousy, not showing her the love she deserved and ignoring the...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    I will always try to calm the situation down

    so it will not escalate... However if you endanger my friends or family things will change. In extremely protective
    kdx45 kdx45 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Go With the Flow

    This group's name says it all about my current state of mind. I don't have a problem speaking my mind about things, but it makes much more sense to me to talk things out in a way that prevents raised voices and angry words.  I'll use my ex-boyfriend as an example since...
    anadolu anadolu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    Confrontation? I'll Pass.

    I hate fighting. I try to avoid it at all costs. i could never cope with being yelled at, I just break down. I am not weak, it is just not worth it to me to get all heated. I think of it as a talent to be able to work through situations without fighting.
    LittleLady LittleLady 18-21, F Dec 3, 2007

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    I Will, Though

    Though I prefer not to fight, I will. Should they need it, I willingly defend my friends.  I don't hesitate to tell bullies to lay off...whether I know the victim or not.  When teasing crosses the line from "all in fun" to "deliberately malicious" I step in.I choose my moments...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Always the Lover Never the Fighter

    I have never been in a fight before I believe if  you can just  respect each other  even if you dont agree and  step away cool down then try to talk things out  everything will  be just fine violence never  really  solves anything it just...
    whitelighter212009 whitelighter212009 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Omg

    ok so i am kinda a fighter only when it comes down to it but peace and love is my goal.. like if a person comes up to me and starts talking **** i am so going to kick some *** but other than that i am like dude love can be done
    sneeky sneeky 16-17, F Dec 2, 2007

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    i was asked to fight a fellow high school

    student lol noo thank you
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10, 2014

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    I Will Love When I Can

    But I will NOT backdown anymore. I will stand up for myself and my friends. I will love myself before others, and I WILL SUCCEED.
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    Me Too

    i feel exactly the same as little lady. but also for me, a lot of people expect me to be fighter because i have been swimming since i was little and i'm pretty muscular. i hate it when people make jokes about me being able to beat people up because i never would. i don't even...
    snowboard4life snowboard4life 16-17, F Dec 9, 2007

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    Really Starting To Realize This

    My other story in this group is about a quiz I took that said I was a lover.  I have just started realizing the truth of this cliche statement though.  If you've been keeping up with my stories, you know that my girlfriend and my ex-affair-person (I don't know what this...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Oct 1, 2010

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    Don't Fight

    I'm a lover not a fighter but doesn't a lover fight for love? should I resign thoughts that aren't sane Then what should I shall then become? I'm a man of decency, I love the thought of love and everything in between that leads to love and more or less the fact it can exist try...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 20, 2011

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    True

    The group name says it all; I am a lover not a fighter. I would sooo rather love someone that fight; I have tons of love and hugs to give.
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F Jun 18, 2008

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    I Hate Fighting

    I just don't understand why people feel the need to fight. The same goes for war, I don't understand that either. I feel that fighting can only make problems worse whether it's between two people or two countries. Personally, I haven't had a fight since elementary school; since...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F Feb 20, 2011

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    I Love People I Don't Want To Fight.

    It used to be the other way round, I used to be fighter, Kickboxer, bouncer football hooligan, didn't have time to love but since I became a christian I have completely turned my life around, I would defend myself but no longer am who I used to be life is so much easier...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    I'm a Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I've always been a lover... Never a fighter... I could never fight anything.. Unless I had to then I would... But I'm a loved threw and threw.. Always have been always will be..
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Sep 4, 2008

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    i've worked at bars and events where once you add drinks some people think they are he-man or wonder woman and at the end of thew night i've spent to much time mopping up blood throwing away broken glass and furniture so what the **** is the point to fighting it never solves...
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Yeah =/

    I'm too nice for my own good. I can't argue, fight or stand up for myself. I don't think I'm cowardly, but I just don't like confrontations. I don't like egging on my 'opponent' to make it worse. I prefer being silent, letting them calm down and sorting things out responsibly...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    hosedsailorboy hosedsailorboy 41-45, M 1 Response May 6

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    You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you know you're right. No one wants to hear that they're wrong, so you try your best to compromise. You have...
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    ResidentGoddessAstraea ResidentGoddessAstraea 18-21 May 2

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    She was my lover and my bestfriend. So when she decided to broke up with me, it almost kill me. I just wish that I'll wake up one day and I wont love her anymore.
    midnightthoughtsofyou midnightthoughtsofyou 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    I am a lesbian who came out quite recently and is looking for a lover.
    Lepotica Lepotica 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    Hi my name is Richard I've been in animal lover all my life I've had dogs all my life and And one cat but it's not just the animals I live with that I care about I care for animals...
    Daddyslovingarms Daddyslovingarms 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 30

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    I never expected this to happen like this. So about a year ago, I met this friend (I'll call her M) via my friend T, who i had known since freshman year of high school and...
    SynysterGates510 SynysterGates510 22-25, M May 7

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    Had someone that was my best friend. She is still here but life has changed us. She has never backed me or been on the same page with me. Now I feel alone everyday. Not looking for...
    sandyleejr sandyleejr 41-45, M 10 Responses May 9

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    I want to do everything with my lover... out to eat, movies, and even pedicures:) I love my man so much and he's the only person other than God that I can really open up to!
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I am looking for a younger (20s) woman as an online lover.
    MasterofDesire MasterofDesire 56-60, M May 15

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    I divorced my lover cos she cheated and denied it even when i caught her. i decided to love and give my heart to anyone who deserve it.cos love is all that matters
    Goodluck1964 Goodluck1964 46-50, M May 15

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    Even though I grant that true coffee love is having it 'bare-black and raw', I must confess I need my sugar. I also know it should be brown sugar, but I wonder this... If I had no...
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response May 16

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    With only two days space from a 3 year relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses May 16

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    I m from spain but traveling in india i am a navel lover! I am lookiny for indian people how like them.!
    elpablo1986 elpablo1986 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    He may not be my lover now..and maybe never will be again..but he was once. And I still adore him...more than I should. Honestly, if he wanted me, I'd go back to him.
    mystiere13 mystiere13 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    She is my baby❤️❤️❤️ Her name is Gipsy and I lover her! 😍💘 Still can't believe she is all grown up... She turned 9 months old a week ago... And I still remember...
    UNDecodable UNDecodable 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am no longer someone who fights for unnecessary reasons but never give me a reason to fight because you'll regret it
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 2

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    this. this is what I am. I've been bullied, and never bothered to fight back. the bullies called me a coward, but I didn't care. why should I give in to their hate? but when my...
    outlawprince outlawprince 22-25, M 2 Responses May 3

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    If I love you, I'll always be there for you. I don't care if we don't talk, if you claim to hate me. I still love you. I will fight to the end to make sure that you are okay and to...
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    I dislike violence and any form of strong aggression, yet I can't say that I have been passive when it's come to reaching a goal... For example ( a simple, but important one), my...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F May 15

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    I went and did this quiz cause I didn't know what everyone else was talking about lol
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses May 17

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