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I Am a Lover Not a Fighter

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    Always the Lover Never the Fighter

    I have never been in a fight before I believe if  you can just  respect each other  even if you dont agree and  step away cool down then try to talk things out  everything will  be just fine violence never  really  solves anything it just...
    whitelighter212009 whitelighter212009 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    I Will Love When I Can

    But I will NOT backdown anymore. I will stand up for myself and my friends. I will love myself before others, and I WILL SUCCEED.
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    True

    The group name says it all; I am a lover not a fighter. I would sooo rather love someone that fight; I have tons of love and hugs to give.
    TiPoupon TiPoupon 18-21, F Jun 18, 2008

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    I Will, Though

    Though I prefer not to fight, I will. Should they need it, I willingly defend my friends.  I don't hesitate to tell bullies to lay off...whether I know the victim or not.  When teasing crosses the line from "all in fun" to "deliberately malicious" I step in.I choose my moments...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Just Found Out

    GA_googleCreateDomiframe('google_ads_div_Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250' ,'Blogthings_Personality_TopCenter_300x250'); You Are a Lover You think that there's no use in fighting, even if you...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M May 6, 2009

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    i was asked to fight a fellow high school

    student lol noo thank you
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10, 2014

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    Yeah =/

    I'm too nice for my own good. I can't argue, fight or stand up for myself. I don't think I'm cowardly, but I just don't like confrontations. I don't like egging on my 'opponent' to make it worse. I prefer being silent, letting them calm down and sorting things out responsibly...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Omg

    ok so i am kinda a fighter only when it comes down to it but peace and love is my goal.. like if a person comes up to me and starts talking **** i am so going to kick some *** but other than that i am like dude love can be done
    sneeky sneeky 16-18, F Dec 2, 2007

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    Really Starting To Realize This

    My other story in this group is about a quiz I took that said I was a lover.  I have just started realizing the truth of this cliche statement though.  If you've been keeping up with my stories, you know that my girlfriend and my ex-affair-person (I don't know what this...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M Oct 1, 2010

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    Forced Into What I Despise

    Together for 18 years, married for 13, and now seperated since May 1st, 2011 on our way to a divorce that she "needs". I will admit that I was not the best husband, and that there were times when I was right down lousy, not showing her the love she deserved and ignoring the...
    Falcran Falcran 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    I Love People I Don't Want To Fight.

    It used to be the other way round, I used to be fighter, Kickboxer, bouncer football hooligan, didn't have time to love but since I became a christian I have completely turned my life around, I would defend myself but no longer am who I used to be life is so much easier...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Me Too

    i feel exactly the same as little lady. but also for me, a lot of people expect me to be fighter because i have been swimming since i was little and i'm pretty muscular. i hate it when people make jokes about me being able to beat people up because i never would. i don't even...
    snowboard4life snowboard4life 16-18, F Dec 9, 2007

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    Give Everyone Love

    I would much rather hug the person than bet them up. I have known (and still know) many people who have hurt my feelings or made me mad. But I find it easier to forgive and love than to be bitter and mean. I think, if they want to hate you, let them, but you don't need to be on...
    LHCrisman LHCrisman 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    I will always try to calm the situation down

    so it will not escalate... However if you endanger my friends or family things will change. In extremely protective
    kdx45 kdx45 22-25, M Jun 22, 2014

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    Confrontation? I'll Pass.

    I hate fighting. I try to avoid it at all costs. i could never cope with being yelled at, I just break down. I am not weak, it is just not worth it to me to get all heated. I think of it as a talent to be able to work through situations without fighting.
    LittleLady LittleLady 19-21, F Dec 3, 2007

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    i've worked at bars and events where once you add drinks some people think they are he-man or wonder woman and at the end of thew night i've spent to much time mopping up blood throwing away broken glass and furniture so what the **** is the point to fighting it never solves...
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2011

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    Don't Fight

    I'm a lover not a fighter but doesn't a lover fight for love? should I resign thoughts that aren't sane Then what should I shall then become? I'm a man of decency, I love the thought of love and everything in between that leads to love and more or less the fact it can exist try...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 20, 2011

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    I'm a Lover!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     I've always been a lover... Never a fighter... I could never fight anything.. Unless I had to then I would... But I'm a loved threw and threw.. Always have been always will be..
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F Sep 4, 2008

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    Go With the Flow

    This group's name says it all about my current state of mind. I don't have a problem speaking my mind about things, but it makes much more sense to me to talk things out in a way that prevents raised voices and angry words.  I'll use my ex-boyfriend as an example since...
    anadolu anadolu 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 21, 2009

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    I Hate Fighting

    I just don't understand why people feel the need to fight. The same goes for war, I don't understand that either. I feel that fighting can only make problems worse whether it's between two people or two countries. Personally, I haven't had a fight since elementary school; since...
    Bloo Bloo 22-25, F Feb 20, 2011

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    So if you have been reading my profile, this will seem out of character, if you know me personally all the stuff on my account would seem out of character, but hey, conflict is the...
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    A fighter wakes up in the morning gets ready and looks in that mirrow with a smile even if its fake because life is hard and it will beat you down and keep you there if you let it...
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    (I want a Lover who is also my best friend) Is more about Sex then Love ( I want a best friend who is also my lover ) Is love in both parts of the relationship Pick the one you...
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    If I were to offer you a smile Would you smile back? If I should fail to greet you first Would you excuse the manners that I lack? If I were to reach out to you Would you take me...
    1gr8guy 1gr8guy 41-45, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want a hot female lover that also my friend. Either online, in person or both.
    horneybear79912 horneybear79912 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 6

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    A lover that's your best friend is 😩😻😻. I only can wish lol
    t3rriv t3rriv 16-17, F Feb 6

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    My lover was leaved me already , because she will go to another school...alone
    Zhenli Zhenli 13-15, M Feb 9

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    I am very fortunate that I live within 30 minutes (normally less) drive of both the coast and the countryside. I love both of these landscapes but been such a nature and animal...
    Turnturn Turnturn 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I asked my best friend to be my girlfriend and she freaked out. she said she would loose me if I became her lover. I dunno what to believe
    AnupJulius006 AnupJulius006 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    I am an animal lover competing to win a small business grant so that my company (Sitting for a Cause, we give 50% of our profits back to help homeless pets) can expand and save the...
    sittingforacause sittingforacause 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    I've always wanted a lover who is a best friend. That's where all the magic begins. I would like to meet a guy who has the same interests as me, and has a kind heart. Someone who...
    peachtree24 peachtree24 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 21

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    Yes ️iam music lover most praising song that very good to hear after we wake up then the opm song that I can relate my love life and also the non stop disco for my exercise...
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    It's not only difficult. It's impossible. I recently came to this conclusion. However I'm talking about men/ women besties combinations. Once I accepted a guy as close as my own...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    As a trucker how could I not be a coffee lover
    JustNickThanks JustNickThanks 26-30, M Feb 24

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    I have a lover who was also my best friend. Introducing love into our friendship really changed the dynamics. My boyfriend claims that I'm still one of his best friends (overlook...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So, I've never had a real life boyfriend before, maybe because I'm not pretty enough or smart enough idk. I've had crushes, I talk to boys, I've had guys interested in me, it's all...
    slowme97 slowme97 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Weird seeing your nomination a fist fight
    tim68 tim68 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    plzzz...i need someone who can give me a baby..hahah
    loulady loulady 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I would love him unconditionally and give him all of my heart, he would do the same in return. I will look after every part of him. His body mind spirit and his soul. As what I...
    Mindaqueen Mindaqueen 36-40, F 2 Responses 21 mins ago

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    I'd rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6.
    Terrain12 Terrain12 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    have you ever fought just to find out how a girl really feels about you?? over 7 months ago me and my girl were forced apart by her mom while this was going on my baby sister was...
    skykidx1 skykidx1 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 18