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I Am a Low Maintenance Friend

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    I Have My Momentsy

    Yes, I admit that sometimes I have moments of clinginess but other than that I'm pretty good on my own.  The clingy side only comes out if I haven't seen someone in a long time or if we're having a really good time, because I don't want it to end.
    axelval axelval 18-21, T Dec 16, 2008

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    Self Sustaining Guy

    IM A VERY SUPPORTIVE GUY, I LOVE AND VALUE ALL FRIENDSHIPS NO MATTER WHO OR WHAT YOU ARE. I DONT JUDGE OR ASK FOR ANYTHING BUT TRUE FRIENDSHIP, AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR A FRIEND
    GREGBLANK1 GREGBLANK1 31-35 2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

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    It's Okay

    You don't have to buy me a present on my birthday. Just remember it's my birthday and say "happy birthday"!Don't feel like the better relationship we have, the more we have to go out to the rink or something. I'm cool with kicking it at your house.
    dugaauru dugaauru 13-15, F Apr 14, 2012

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    Least Requirments

    I don't require much from friends.I don't mind if someone calls me at odd hours. I can go with anyone at any time to any place. Some of my friends take me for granted because of such attitude of mine. Whenever they are planning something , they call me last and give me least...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M Nov 18, 2013

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    Just Talk To Me

    I don't need or want to go out most of the time.ย  I don't need or want "stuff" from people.ย  Those things are nice...but not needful.Just talk to me and I'm content.
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 5 Responses May 27, 2011

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    Extremely

    I stay out of trouble, don't cause drama, don't call my friends up in the middle of the night drunk and lost somewhere asking for help. They can ignore me for months and ask me to hang out and I'll be fine with it. I'm easygoing, and mainly a loner, so I pretty much get by no...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    But a Good Freind

     i am always their to listen.and will be there when you need me.i am not clingy.nor do i need to be praised.all i ask for is to have someone their when i need them.and i promise,you will not regret having me as a friend.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 13, 2009

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    Friendship

    I try to be a low maintenance friend. Always available for those close to me. Not always looking for something in return. Some people are just out for themselves. If they do something for you, they think you "owe" them something. I try not to be one of those people.
    lostinthewoods56 lostinthewoods56 22-25, M Apr 21, 2012

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    No Matter What

    ... even if we don't get to talk that often ... even if you don't always send gifts, gestures ... even if you're all busy and sometimes forget me. i will still be here for you guys!  i won't always ask for your attention.  actually, you can leave me here and you can...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    No Need To Worry

    I ask nor expect anything from you but your respect. I don't require much attention. But don't ignore me. I will do for you without asking anything in return. I hope the same goes for you. Please don't use me in any way. Cause if you do, I just might walk away.
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    On Me

    I don't ever ask for anything other than friendship. My friends never have to worry that I will be a burden. At the same time, I always try to be there for them whenever in need and never make them feel like they are a burden themselves.
    Myrsha Myrsha 26-30, F Dec 13, 2010

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    A Few Quick Words to My Friends

    I will always repsond if a comment or message is left for me. I alway try to be uplifting but not push it when a friend is in need. I try not to be bothersome will excessive messages. I try not to impose to much drama, if any, to most. I am always here, for my people, if...
    RachelR RachelR 26-30, F 20 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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