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I Am a Low Maintenance Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 181 People

    No Matter What

    ... even if we don't get to talk that often ... even if you don't always send gifts, gestures ... even if you're all busy and sometimes forget me. i will still be here for you guys!  i won't always ask for your attention.  actually, you can leave me here and you can...
    SweetAppleBlossom SweetAppleBlossom 26-30, F 14 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Least Requirments

    I don't require much from friends.I don't mind if someone calls me at odd hours. I can go with anyone at any time to any place. Some of my friends take me for granted because of such attitude of mine. Whenever they are planning something , they call me last and give me least...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M Nov 18, 2013

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    On Me

    I don't ever ask for anything other than friendship. My friends never have to worry that I will be a burden. At the same time, I always try to be there for them whenever in need and never make them feel like they are a burden themselves.
    Myrsha Myrsha 26-30, F Dec 13, 2010

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    A Few Quick Words to My Friends

    I will always repsond if a comment or message is left for me. I alway try to be uplifting but not push it when a friend is in need. I try not to be bothersome will excessive messages. I try not to impose to much drama, if any, to most. I am always here, for my people, if...
    RachelR RachelR 26-30, F 20 Responses Aug 13, 2009

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    Self Sustaining Guy

    IM A VERY SUPPORTIVE GUY, I LOVE AND VALUE ALL FRIENDSHIPS NO MATTER WHO OR WHAT YOU ARE. I DONT JUDGE OR ASK FOR ANYTHING BUT TRUE FRIENDSHIP, AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR A FRIEND
    GREGBLANK1 GREGBLANK1 31-35 2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

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    It's Okay

    You don't have to buy me a present on my birthday. Just remember it's my birthday and say "happy birthday"!Don't feel like the better relationship we have, the more we have to go out to the rink or something. I'm cool with kicking it at your house.
    dugaauru dugaauru 13-15, F Apr 14, 2012

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    Just Talk To Me

    I don't need or want to go out most of the time.  I don't need or want "stuff" from people.  Those things are nice...but not needful.Just talk to me and I'm content.
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 5 Responses May 27, 2011

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    But a Good Freind

     i am always their to listen.and will be there when you need me.i am not clingy.nor do i need to be praised.all i ask for is to have someone their when i need them.and i promise,you will not regret having me as a friend.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 13, 2009

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    No Need To Worry

    I ask nor expect anything from you but your respect. I don't require much attention. But don't ignore me. I will do for you without asking anything in return. I hope the same goes for you. Please don't use me in any way. Cause if you do, I just might walk away.
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Extremely

    I stay out of trouble, don't cause drama, don't call my friends up in the middle of the night drunk and lost somewhere asking for help. They can ignore me for months and ask me to hang out and I'll be fine with it. I'm easygoing, and mainly a loner, so I pretty much get by no...
    JonFurniss JonFurniss 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    Friendship

    I try to be a low maintenance friend. Always available for those close to me. Not always looking for something in return. Some people are just out for themselves. If they do something for you, they think you "owe" them something. I try not to be one of those people.
    lostinthewoods56 lostinthewoods56 22-25, M Apr 21, 2012

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    I Have My Momentsy

    Yes, I admit that sometimes I have moments of clinginess but other than that I'm pretty good on my own.  The clingy side only comes out if I haven't seen someone in a long time or if we're having a really good time, because I don't want it to end.
    axelval axelval 18-21, T Dec 16, 2008

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    I have always been low maintenance but I do color my hair. I'm in sales but I never get my nails done and it doesn't hurt me. I'm learning to become more minimalistic and only...
    mamoose1970 mamoose1970 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    Yes please. Friends should give and receive maintenance spankings
    BenCnyc BenCnyc 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well one can certainly tell it is the weekend and by that token a Sunday morning! I absoloutely hate this part of the weekend. I know some of you are probably wondering why I...
    involveme involveme 22-25, M 4 Responses May 3

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    For anyone who practice domestic discipline you know how bad maintenance spankings are. My husband does them once a week or every two weeks. He usually uses a switch or paddle for...
    Jillian525 Jillian525 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    Spanked in a different country and time zone - well this week I can bring you an interesting spin on my traditional weekly maintenance spanking. I'm posting to y, ou live from the...
    involveme involveme 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Once a month we have maintenance day where dad spanks us all!
    ARM94 ARM94 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    With only two days space from a 3 year relationship ending, I see things so much more clearly than I allowed myself while we were dating and engaged! Almost like infra red... I...
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Yesterday I made a new friend. My uncle's girlfriend. I didn't realize we'd talk at all but she's actually funny and nice to talk to. I hope the friendship lasts. Speaking of true...
    CyanideY CyanideY 70+, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    im not into makeup. my mum and my friends tell me to do my eyebrows, apply some lipstick. now i am starting to apply a bit, just to add some color to my face. but nothing heavy.
    omgkris56 omgkris56 22-25, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I will sum it up mostly since it's very long, but here it is: I was introduced to her when I visited my dad's family, she was the girl that lived up the road. I can't remember...
    Saravegan2 Saravegan2 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I woke up this morning and realized that I don't have many friends or a girlfriend, because I have low self esteem and self confidence, I have always known there was something...
    JodyValero JodyValero 18-21, M 1 Response May 12

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    Recently, I just ended my friendship with my best friend. During this period of time, it really was a difficult and painful experience. I couldn't believe that we actually ended...
    Megumi07 Megumi07 16-17, F Apr 28

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    I am a 33 yr old female with a PhD and have been constantly lightheaded for months. My symptoms last all day/every day and include feeling faint, tremors/skakiness, shortness of...
    healthproject healthproject 31-35, F Apr 29

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    I have Aspergers which means I can be shy, with very low self esteem & lack confidence, I feel ugly and unwanted. I'm here because I'd like to meet genuine people & make friends...
    Scarletjaki Scarletjaki 36-40, F 5 Responses May 2

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    He and I may have been friends for only 3 years now but we've been through a lot. Last year he was separated from me because people who had control over my life believed that he...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F May 7

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    I played truth or dare with husband'sj friend. He dared to see my fruit bowls and then wanted to eat them. It was a win-win for both of us.
    sunnyup sunnyup 46-50, F 1 Response 45 mins ago

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    A friend is someone who has 20% battery life on one's phone (which can run low very quick) who will talk to you later right after it is charged up. A best friend is someone who has...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 1 Response May 11

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    I tend to catch myself thinking about my ex best friend a lot and it always seems to upset me. It somewhat feels like I went through a tough breakup. A mass amount of places, foods...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F May 15

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    I feel the lowest of low right now . Please help.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 7

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    is when you are low and need need something. I had surgery yesterday and I've found out who my true friends were. I've deleted some of my life.
    unknownpoetx unknownpoetx 26-30, M 2 Responses May 13

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    Its happening again. At the moment my self esteem, as I've realised over the years is faltering and recently flatlinning. These days its just barely beyond functioning. I've lived...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm located in lower Michigan looking for friends into the same intrest I have. please see my profile and add if interested.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 10 hrs ago

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    Is impossible to meet a guy in my level!!! Other the guy is extremely dirty, or they act like children around good looking girls. Or have super annoying habits; eating with zero...
    EmjayMJ EmjayMJ 31-35, M Apr 23

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    I need to make changes in my life. A friend of mine took me out today. She'd won tickets to meet some local celebrities and have lunch with them. I work all the time and didn't...
    Caspianstorm Caspianstorm 36-40, M Apr 30

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    My mother passed on several years ago from cancer. Toward the end she was very weak and would not eat, except for me. Each day I would prepare a health shake for her which she...
    funkelly funkelly 51-55, M 1 Response May 3

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    Strangers in the neighborhood harass me at a distance, all me things (adults do) and try to make me die. My self esteem gets so low and lung is oxygen problem and any attempts I...
    AnnonymousNum3 AnnonymousNum3 22-25, F May 10

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    I've grown past and through my trust issues with men. It took a huge loss for me to realize that not every boy that approaches me wants to use me, and that I am likeable and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13

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    I wear low rise jeans that are two size or one size to big for me and it feels so good
    Buttcrackgirly Buttcrackgirly 16-17, F 1 Response May 8

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    I hate this. I have rarely had back pain or issues. When I have, it's been connected to an incident like lifting a heavy object improperly or trying to breakdown part of our...
    llevame llevame 41-45, F a week ago

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    Me and my boyfriend were making out and I was biting his lower lip but I bit so hard that I made his lip bleed hehe oops
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    I battle depression for years, last year i tried to kill my self, now i am on antidepressants for mounts and they are helping me a lot, my suicide thoughts are gone. But i still...