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I Am A Male Lesbian

A male lesbian is a physiologically heteosexual male who feels alienated by the social standards of gender roles. 228 People

    Male Lesbian

    I had never heard this term until recently. On a road trip with one of my female friends, she make the comment that, "I was a "Male Lesbian," because of the type of songs on my iPod." (90% female singers, 8% classical/instrumental, and 2% male singer, because I prefer the sound...
    Bluephonebox Bluephonebox 31-35, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    Not Sure...

    For the longest time, I've considered myself a gay man. I like men, not for their personality, not for the way they act in relationships, but purely for the anatomy of it. I've been told by several of my friends that I have a lot of "lesbian" traits (whatever the hell that means...
    Unsure1994 Unsure1994 18-21, M May 6, 2013

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    I Do Not Really Understand

    I don't really understand what a "male lesbian" is. I thought a lesbian was a girl who liked a girl but I guess a male lesbian would have something to do with being transgender idk I guess if you were a male lesbian you would be straight
    Poppycat34 Poppycat34 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    I Am A Male Lesbian - I Always knew I Was Different But Didn't Know What To Call It

    Hard to know where to start because it completely defines pretty much everything about me and subconsciously has driven a lot of my behavior. Easest way to start is some facts that led me to this conclusion: - At earliest age I was always attracted more to girl thiings - in...
    Rusty916 Rusty916 41-45, M Apr 1, 2011

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    Bi-gender Or Merged Twins

    I posted this story a couple other places but I figured it worked here too enjoy. Ok so I am a Bi-gender male, and while over thinking which I do alot. I realized a better way to describe what we are, that doesn't make it sound like a mental disorder. We are twins, that for some...
    Bluephonebox Bluephonebox 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 7, 2013

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    My Husband

    This isn't about me, it's about my husband. I'm trying to understand him, but it's so difficult because he's so different. Firstly, let me say, he doesn't know I know about him. He thinks he keeps it hidden, but, well... I'm his ******* WIFE I know him better than he thinks I...
    SilkCherie SilkCherie 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    I Am A Male Lesbian - I Always New I Was Different But Didn't Know What To Call It

    Hard to know where to start because it completely defines pretty much everything about me and subconsciously has driven a lot of my behavior. Easest way to start is some facts that led me to this conclusion:- At earliest age I was always attracted more to girl thiings - in...
    Rusty916 Rusty916 41-45, M 6 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Male Lesbian Transformation!

    It started when a dominant woman took me to bed refusing to pleasure my ****. I was taken between her legs and guided how to pleasure her with my mouth. Spending hours day by day under the sheets with my tongue tickling her ****, I grew intoxicatingly addicted pleasuring women...
    magic7 magic7 56-60, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Male Lesbian

    I often look at womans glam dresses and red-carpet hollywood models and just gush to be like them and have a gorgious female lover!
    Beenaround Beenaround 56-60, M Mar 25, 2011

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    It Just Seems Right And Natural

    All my life I've had this deep feeling that I am really a girl and really don't belong or fit in the male half of the world, and ever since puberty I've felt irresistably drawn towards lesbian and bisexual women. Being a lesbian feels right, it feels like the role I should have...
    DeeLightfull DeeLightfull 51-55, T Jun 12, 2012

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    I Am A Male Lesbian, Who Can I Date?

    So over some time I've come to the conclusion that I'm about 99% gay. I mean it too. I have and feel just about every thing I would associate with being gay exept for one problem... the sex. I love women ALOT and I wanna get married to a woman and all that but my actions...
    eglenn3 eglenn3 26-30, M Oct 25, 2012

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    Androphobia? Machophobia? There's Got To Be A Word...

    Phobia is a suffix that commonly means fear, but can also mean a strong aversion to. Andro means male, but I don't dislike men in and of themselves, it's specifically the male culture. The whole "be a man!" thing, as if there is only one way to be. While I don't personally care...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T Nov 26, 2013

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    I Very Much Fit This, Yet Also Do Not

    So, basically, I am fine with being a male and have many male pursuits and interests such as weightlifting + powerlifting + bodybuilding, martial arts, swordsmanship, and I like many "aggressive" types of music such as heavy metal and powerful pump up songs. But, I also love...
    TheWayofTheFist TheWayofTheFist 22-25, M 2 Responses May 3, 2013

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    Female In My Mind's Eye

    This is essentially the same post as in "I am a Male Lipstick Lesbian". I don't particularly like these terms as it can seem a bit presuming to natural born women. I guess it is a sort of shorthand until a better term comes along! I'm biologically male but in my mind's eye I am...
    meganb1 meganb1 36-40, T 1 Response Feb 4, 2013

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    What Is A Male Lesbian?

    Have you ever heard of a Male-Lesbian ?!?! It has nothing to do with either homo or transsexual.It is about hetero-males. Many would see the concept of male lesbian as a ridiculous idea, but the word SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) would not suit us type either, love-shy maybe...
    Rattydog Rattydog 41-45, M 11 Responses Feb 26, 2011

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    I Have Always Been This Way

    Hello everyone. I just joined this group well actually the experience project all together and thrilled to find this group. It will be nice to share stories and comments with those like me. love, Jo
    joann4urplsur joann4urplsur 56-60, T 1 Response Aug 16, 2012

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    Just like the title says,

    I am a lesbian with a male body. I have always known that I was this type of person from an early age even though there wasn't a name for it. There is no doubt in anybody's mind that I am a woman. I act like a woman, sound like a woman, move like a woman and smell like like a...
    Yougottabefuckinwithme Yougottabefuckinwithme 46-50 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Again Tonight I Get To Be Uber ****!

    She said "a super slutty outfit awaits and you're getting hotter looking as a chick than I thought "lol. I've lost good midsection size and weight thanks to the usual diet, exercise and um...some hormone play lol. Look pretty much all around guy by day but later....enough changes...
    Shyguycd Shyguycd 51-55 9 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    Yeah So Totally Wodnering Where We Belong.

    Growing up.... I spent most of my time, flirting with chicks, on their doorstep. and...talking to women. 90% of my friends were female. Almost everyone I'd actually talk to or at least feminine in nature. I think like a woman, i have gendered hobbies. I generally watch shows that...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 21, 2011

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    What Is A LRM? My Story

    First off, may I thank all that have contributed thus far to this thread, reading the various comments inspired me to add my case for review and comment. I have struggled not know ‘what’ I am for many years, it has caused stress and confusion, only this last 6 months have I...
    copingbestican copingbestican 51-55, M Aug 12, 2013

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    This Is What

    i feel like i am more woman than man and am equally attracted to women and men but when in female form this would be me its great having sex this way no penetration just tantric
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Apr 14, 2013

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    All Things Feminine

    i love the FEMALE body. i love running my hand and tongue over every nook and crannie of a WOMAN's fair skin. i love bringing pleasure to a WOMAN, and enjoy the music of a loudly proclaimed ******. i love the way silky lingerie hugs the FEMALE form, the look of a silk blouse...
    redlace redlace 61-65, M May 6, 2012

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    It's hard to say how other people might

    understand a name like that. When I first heard it I thought it was a joke. But as I read what can make a male a lesbian, it seemed that all the struggling with my sexuality over the years finally made sense. To be clear, my understanding of a male lesbian is not a TS male...
    Barefoot4Life Barefoot4Life 22-25, M Mar 25

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    Getting On With It

    I suppose that like many others I went through many years of not understanding why I wasn't like other men. I am I suppose masculine in appearance but it stops there. My feelings, emotions, interests etc are for the most part what would be called feminine. I have never had many...
    shypaddy shypaddy 51-55 2 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    My Story

    Of my Granny's first seven grandchildren, I was the only boy. And we were and are a clannish family. Not like when Granny was alive, but still. In my growing up days, it was me, six girls and two boys younger than me. Granny raised me mostly and all six of the girls came around...
    stankadiddlehopper stankadiddlehopper 51-55, M 6 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Male Lesbian Relationships

    So relieved to find that there are others like me. Everyone looks for a word to classify themselves, if only when conversing with others. I cannot be considered gay for while I love touching penis, I could not kiss a man, live with a man......nor a crossdresser - I look too male...
    biddlu biddlu 61-65, M Feb 14, 2013

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    Hmmm Guess Ill Try To Explain My Story Too

    Ok, here goes, I have always felt more affinity for woman than men, even as friends,men dont do much for me in any way and I am a man, the part that made no sense is this, I have discovered I would be a woman if I was born a woman but dont want a sex change and if were a woman I...
    justsomeman justsomeman 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    It Helps Seeing It As A Gift

    Guys have always come to me for advice about girls and I always seem to be helpful. This is because male lesbians like myself are part female and therefore we understand women in a way a men could never do. I say we're part female because our body is still that of a man and most...
    Marcogitano Marcogitano 26-30 Aug 10, 2012

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    Making Love Like A Woman

    I am in love with my wife, we make love in a very friendly and innovative way. She like men, and is very fond of gays. She is very much in love with me. I am not gay at all, not attracted to me. I am quite female in many ways, and when we make love I love to imagine I am a woman...
    privatedreamer99 privatedreamer99 46-50, M Feb 4, 2013

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    Xylesbian

    I called myself "male lesbian" for a while. Brought me no end of grief. The problem, I found, was the word "male". It's so easy, just because we're used to it, to conflate sex with gender and sexuality with society. Sex is biological. It's a chromosome, genitalia, hormonal...
    xylesbian xylesbian 22-25 Oct 15, 2013

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    I Is What I Is Lol

    We've been together past a year and sex just gets hotter! It's maybe nearing two plus years I've been playing with hormones and started developing a female form some time ago. I met her as appealingly mostly a guy outward so in clothes and she was turned on by me! She's not...
    Shyguycd Shyguycd 51-55 2 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why I Never Considered This Before

    A lot of my life seems to make so much more sense after taking the possibility of me being a "male lesbian" into consideration. I've never really been interested in "guy things", except for cars and computers, which a lot of girls, especially the ones I hang around, are into...
    pyrokinetiq pyrokinetiq 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    White American female, early 20's, nonreligious but from Protestant background, looking for gay/asexual male for MOC. My immediate family and a few friends are aware (and...
    AmericainBelle AmericainBelle 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I don't know. I see and read all kinds of garbage online about androgyny and I think it's a bunch of bull to be honest with you. In some ways it's a hell of a lot easier to say I'm...
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    i need lesbian friends ☺️
    mostafa01998 mostafa01998 16-17, M 18 hrs ago

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    I'm a 21 year old from the U.K. and would like to talk to others who are in similar situation as me. I have known since I was around 12/13 that I like women but never acted upon...
    Char16 Char16 18-21 4 hrs ago

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    I'm coming out to my dad as a male to female transgender tonight. Wish me luck
    TrueMasterSword TrueMasterSword 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    Regardless of age, thin, chubby. The male body can be beautiful and sometimes erotic. I also enjoy the female body too.
    Damatros Damatros 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    Oh my god I gag to sleep with a girl, preferably a lesbian 💗 a female who will show me the ropes and not judge me. I love the female form and sexually I connect better with...
    LocalM LocalM 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Looking. For a mistress to make me her sissy .... And possibly your lesbian lover .... Possible feminization if necessary
    subman1896 subman1896 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was sitting near the river side, perfectly evening breeze touched my naked skin on my face. It was a peaceful evening. In a moment I lost myself in a world of romance with nature...
    kattee12 kattee12 26-30, F Apr 8

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    I'm 100% lesbian. Sorry guys looking for ONLY lesbians friendship, lesbian advice, or just plain lesbian whatever else comes to mind. I wa
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    This happened about 5 months ago. I was sitting in the cafeteria together with my 6 officemate then one of us start a conversation. She's bragging how lesbian relationship is so...
    HoneyClover HoneyClover 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I feel so alone cause my parents don't like lesbian and gay they said to me it's a sin to be a lesbian and I think I will never tell to my parents that I'm lesbian
    mary8001 mary8001 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 29

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    I recently discovered that I am a lesbian I am always up for meeting others out there like me as if I told anyone at my school I was a lesbian then everyone would know. I would...
    gurlygurls gurlygurls 18-21, F Mar 30

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    I think I knew all my life that I was a lesbian but actually didn't notice it until I was about 15-16 years old. Even before then, I knew something was off about me. All...
    handwrittenlovenotes handwrittenlovenotes 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    What is a lesbian , I've been reading posts and stories about lesbians and they love women , the look , feel , touch , taste and smell of the female body , they love how a woman's...
    Nunlover Nunlover 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I dont enjoy sex with guys much. For the past couple months, I haven't even been in the mood for sex. I keep having lesbian fantasies in my head. I don't watch **** anymore but if...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    So here we go... I am a Christian. I am also in a beautiful relationship with a girl and have been for the past year and 3 months. This is the story of my journey and struggles. I...
    tshirthappy tshirthappy 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Hi everyone, I am not sure why I am here. I am really nervous because I think I am a lesbian, but I am not sure. I really like guys, but the other day I was at my friends house and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 28

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    Two of my good friends are in a happy relationship and they have been together for quite a while now. They make each other smile and laugh, they're always there for one another and...
    kbailey1 kbailey1 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Hi I'm lesbian if any lesbians want to talk to me add me
    cooldudegg cooldudegg 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I remember the first time I was attracted to girls. I was in 3rd grade and her name was Renee. But I was raised catholic so honestly, I never actually thought that a girl could...
    savemefromthesea savemefromthesea 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    it started at school...i told a cute lesbian that i bet she wouldnt sleep with a guy ....she proved me wrong and brought me home to her girlfriend ...i went from their sex toy to...
    rangermaster rangermaster 18-21, M Apr 4

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