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I Am A Male Lesbian

A male lesbian is a physiologically heteosexual male who feels alienated by the social standards of gender roles. 238 People

    It Just Seems Right And Natural

    All my life I've had this deep feeling that I am really a girl and really don't belong or fit in the male half of the world, and ever since puberty I've felt irresistably drawn towards lesbian and bisexual women. Being a lesbian feels right, it feels like the role I should have...
    DeeLightfull DeeLightfull
    51-55, T
    Jun 12, 2012

    It's hard to say how other people might

    understand a name like that. When I first heard it I thought it was a joke. But as I read what can make a male a lesbian, it seemed that all the struggling with my sexuality over the years finally made sense. To be clear, my understanding of a male lesbian is not a TS male...
    Barefoot4Life Barefoot4Life
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2014

    I Am A Male Lesbian - I Always New I Was Different But Didn't Know What To Call It

    Hard to know where to start because it completely defines pretty much everything about me and subconsciously has driven a lot of my behavior. Easest way to start is some facts that led me to this conclusion:- At earliest age I was always attracted more to girl thiings - in...
    Rusty916 Rusty916
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Hmmm Guess Ill Try To Explain My Story Too

    Ok, here goes, I have always felt more affinity for woman than men, even as friends,men dont do much for me in any way and I am a man, the part that made no sense is this, I have discovered I would be a woman if I was born a woman but dont want a sex change and if were a woman I...
    justsomeman justsomeman
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2011

    Just like the title says,

    I am a lesbian with a male body. I have always known that I was this type of person from an early age even though there wasn't a name for it. There is no doubt in anybody's mind that I am a woman. I act like a woman, sound like a woman, move like a woman and smell like like a...
    Yougottabefuckinwithme Yougottabefuckinwithme
    1 Response Mar 20, 2014

    I Don't Know Why I Never Considered This Before

    A lot of my life seems to make so much more sense after taking the possibility of me being a "male lesbian" into consideration. I've never really been interested in "guy things", except for cars and computers, which a lot of girls, especially the ones I hang around, are into...
    pyrokinetiq pyrokinetiq
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    My Story

    Of my Granny's first seven grandchildren, I was the only boy. And we were and are a clannish family. Not like when Granny was alive, but still. In my growing up days, it was me, six girls and two boys younger than me. Granny raised me mostly and all six of the girls came around...
    stankadiddlehopper stankadiddlehopper
    51-55, M
    6 Responses Mar 23, 2012

    Male Lesbian Relationships

    So relieved to find that there are others like me. Everyone looks for a word to classify themselves, if only when conversing with others. I cannot be considered gay for while I love touching penis, I could not kiss a man, live with a man......nor a crossdresser - I look too male...
    biddlu biddlu
    61-65, M
    Feb 14, 2013

    I Very Much Fit This, Yet Also Do Not

    So, basically, I am fine with being a male and have many male pursuits and interests such as weightlifting + powerlifting + bodybuilding, martial arts, swordsmanship, and I like many "aggressive" types of music such as heavy metal and powerful pump up songs. But, I also love...
    TheWayofTheFist TheWayofTheFist
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 3, 2013

    Male Lesbian

    I often look at womans glam dresses and red-carpet hollywood models and just gush to be like them and have a gorgious female lover!
    Beenaround Beenaround
    56-60, M
    Mar 25, 2011

    Not Sure...

    For the longest time, I've considered myself a gay man. I like men, not for their personality, not for the way they act in relationships, but purely for the anatomy of it. I've been told by several of my friends that I have a lot of "lesbian" traits (whatever the hell that means...
    Unsure1994 Unsure1994
    22-25, M
    May 6, 2013

    Ill tell my story too then,

    though there is not much to it. I didnt realize I was a lesbian in soul till the end of the first half of my last year in high school. At first I thought I was just sexually attracted to girl making out, but soon I started picturing myself as a female with another one. Female...
    Gabriel13th Gabriel13th
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    What Is A LRM? My Story

    First off, may I thank all that have contributed thus far to this thread, reading the various comments inspired me to add my case for review and comment. I have struggled not know ‘what’ I am for many years, it has caused stress and confusion, only this last 6 months have I...
    copingbestican copingbestican
    56-60, M
    Aug 12, 2013

    having just recently found out there is a name

    for this and other people share this gender identity, I feel like I've finally figured myself out. One of those moments where suddenly all this stuff from all the way back to your earliest memories makes perfect sense. I know that many of my lgbtq friends have similar...
    Gdforserious Gdforserious
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    Androphobia? Machophobia? There's Got To Be A Word...

    Phobia is a suffix that commonly means fear, but can also mean a strong aversion to. Andro means male, but I don't dislike men in and of themselves, it's specifically the male culture. The whole "be a man!" thing, as if there is only one way to be. While I don't personally care...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe
    26-30, T
    1 Response Nov 26, 2013

    I Am A Male Lesbian - I Always knew I Was Different But Didn't Know What To Call It

    Hard to know where to start because it completely defines pretty much everything about me and subconsciously has driven a lot of my behavior. Easest way to start is some facts that led me to this conclusion: - At earliest age I was always attracted more to girl thiings - in...
    Rusty916 Rusty916
    41-45, M
    Apr 1, 2011

    All Things Feminine

    i love the FEMALE body. i love running my hand and tongue over every nook and crannie of a WOMAN's fair skin. i love bringing pleasure to a WOMAN, and enjoy the music of a loudly proclaimed ******. i love the way silky lingerie hugs the FEMALE form, the look of a silk blouse...
    redlace redlace
    61-65, M
    May 6, 2012

    This Is What

    i feel like i am more woman than man and am equally attracted to women and men but when in female form this would be me its great having sex this way no penetration just tantric
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    1 Response Apr 14, 2013

    Uncertainty. The one word

    that keeps ringing in my head. I'm sure that I am a person, that might not be accepted by everyone. There are suspicions of me being gay, and in a certain way i am... But not the way everyone thinks. I identified as a woman for as long as I can think. Feeling cheated somehow...
    Badadoodoodoo Badadoodoodoo
    1 Response Jul 2, 2015

    Getting On With It

    I suppose that like many others I went through many years of not understanding why I wasn't like other men. I am I suppose masculine in appearance but it stops there. My feelings, emotions, interests etc are for the most part what would be called feminine. I have never had many...
    shypaddy shypaddy
    1 Response Aug 9, 2013

    Bi-gender Or Merged Twins

    I posted this story a couple other places but I figured it worked here too enjoy. Ok so I am a Bi-gender male, and while over thinking which I do alot. I realized a better way to describe what we are, that doesn't make it sound like a mental disorder. We are twins, that for some...
    Bluephonebox Bluephonebox
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2013

    Yeah So Totally Wodnering Where We Belong.

    Growing up.... I spent most of my time, flirting with chicks, on their doorstep. and...talking to women. 90% of my friends were female. Almost everyone I'd actually talk to or at least feminine in nature. I think like a woman, i have gendered hobbies. I generally watch shows that...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2011

    Male Lesbian

    I had never heard this term until recently. On a road trip with one of my female friends, she make the comment that, "I was a "Male Lesbian," because of the type of songs on my iPod." (90% female singers, 8% classical/instrumental, and 2% male singer, because I prefer the sound...
    Bluephonebox Bluephonebox
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    I Do Not Really Understand

    I don't really understand what a "male lesbian" is. I thought a lesbian was a girl who liked a girl but I guess a male lesbian would have something to do with being transgender idk I guess if you were a male lesbian you would be straight
    Poppycat34 Poppycat34
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 27, 2013

    Female In My Mind's Eye

    This is essentially the same post as in "I am a Male Lipstick Lesbian". I don't particularly like these terms as it can seem a bit presuming to natural born women. I guess it is a sort of shorthand until a better term comes along! I'm biologically male but in my mind's eye I am...
    meganb1 meganb1
    36-40, T
    1 Response Feb 4, 2013

    Making Love Like A Woman

    I am in love with my wife, we make love in a very friendly and innovative way. She like men, and is very fond of gays. She is very much in love with me. I am not gay at all, not attracted to me. I am quite female in many ways, and when we make love I love to imagine I am a woman...
    privatedreamer99 privatedreamer99
    46-50, M
    Feb 4, 2013

    It Helps Seeing It As A Gift

    Guys have always come to me for advice about girls and I always seem to be helpful. This is because male lesbians like myself are part female and therefore we understand women in a way a men could never do. I say we're part female because our body is still that of a man and most...
    Marcogitano Marcogitano
    Aug 10, 2012

    I Have Always Been This Way

    Hello everyone. I just joined this group well actually the experience project all together and thrilled to find this group. It will be nice to share stories and comments with those like me. love, Jo
    joann4urplsur joann4urplsur
    56-60, T
    Aug 16, 2012

    My Husband

    This isn't about me, it's about my husband. I'm trying to understand him, but it's so difficult because he's so different. Firstly, let me say, he doesn't know I know about him. He thinks he keeps it hidden, but, well... I'm his ******* WIFE I know him better than he thinks I...
    SilkCherie SilkCherie
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2013
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