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I Am A Married Crossdresser

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,254 People

    I Have Taken My First Steps.. Finally !!!

    First off I want to thank all the friends and supporters that I have met in my realtively short time here at the experience project. Finally after some many attempts and desires to free myself, I took my first few steps out of the closet tonight. After spending alot of time...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 14 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Hair

    As I stated in other stories I stated crossdressing at an early age and my wife knew before we got married. I don't know why, midlife conflict maybe, but I let my hair grow for 10 years with just trims until it was below my shoulder blades or as my wife said my bra strap. I...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    2013 Crossdressing Review 2013 was an

    interesting year in crossdressing for me. My wife and I spent many hours as two women in public, but I wanted to feel a little more feminine, to experience being a woman while dealing with people in public. I wanted to face a wider variety of people, yet, I wanted to somewhat...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    She Has Known From The Beginning

    We got married out of high school and just before I went into the Air force at 19 yrs old. We had played around before we were married to include me wearing her panties and other clothing. I dressed off and on for years while in the Air Force she would play along with me...
    Kerryannecd Kerryannecd 56-60, T 13 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    Happily Married Cd

    My wife is the greatest! About 6 years ago I was doing my laundry and had some panties in with my clothes in the dryer. I fell asleep on the couch and that sweet lady decided to surprise me by folding my laundry. Busted! She woke me up nearly in a panic and asked me if there...
    angie60 angie60 61-65, M 21 Responses May 10, 2011

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    The Christmas Holidays always remind me of my

    childhood, and my childhood always had a bit of fantasy involving crossdressing. I remember my girl cousins would wear their pretty dresses and tights and shiny black shoes. I wanted so much to be a pretty girl and wear those things, but it was never to be. Yes I have been...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I Want To Escape, But I Can't...

    I, as this forum states, am a married cross-dressing male. I would like to add some adjectives such as happy, comfortable, adjusting, self-assured, and so on but the truth be told I feel like my need to cross-dress is putting too much strain on my life and I find myself crying...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 23 Responses May 10, 2012

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    She Supports Me... When we were looking at

    houses several years ago in anticipation of a move, one thing my wife noted in her appraisals of each house was the privacy element. She wanted to ensure I could comfortably go on the back porch or deck or even walk the back yard without being exposed to "prying eyes" as I was...
    janusatv janusatv 61-65, T 7 Responses Oct 3

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    The Ultimate Ts Fantasy

    "Ok, sign here", he said pricking my finger with the quill and handing it to me. I signed the contract, my blood a stark contrast on the parchment document. "Your wishes on earth,as stated, in exchange for your soul in the hereafter". He began to fade from view, I shouted after...
    Cassandra69 Cassandra69 22-25, T 7 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    If Only....

    I to am in a steady relationship, not married- that ended over my dressing. My gf tolerates my dressing ,even compliments my style on occasion , but prefers i don't wear stuff out, even when under my guy clothes... Her sister on the other hand ... Is amused by my dressing and...
    sd4expro sd4expro 46-50 4 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Girlfriends Part Two

    After Chad exploded his seed in my ***, I really didn't know what to do or how to act. A part of me was blushing as my wife Jan told me it was ok and I was a good girl. Chad gave me a kiss and smiled a little. We all made quick small talk and then men started to get dressed...
    debbiesucks debbiesucks 46-50, T 13 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Came Out, Story From Last Year

    I've been married for over 18 yrs now, 6 yrs ago after many yrs of my wife & I playing with toys I came out to her about my bisexuality. Since then I have been with 2 men and love it, but there has always been that love of silk,lace,and heels. I have always been good at hiding...
    EricaDress EricaDress 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    Wife's Comment

    My wife said something to me this afternoon, that has left me wondering if she is on the mark. Out of nowhere she says, "You want to to be a women don't you?. you want to put on makeup and things to feel girly." I, being caught off guard, just continued watching tv and gave no...
    CDX21 CDX21 22-25, M 16 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    It's Not Really A Big Deal...

    Contrary to popular opinion, having a cross-dressing, transvestite husband is not a big deal. Some days I’m perfectly fine with it (even excited.) Some days I’m completely ambivalent. Other days it annoys me like you wouldn’t believe. But regardless of how I feel about his...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Cdralph2010 Is Right. How To Save A Marriage.

    For me it was sort of a game my ex started but I liked it so much I could not stop and that lead to divorce. I love women, I do not want to be with men, I like being a guy but I also like dressing, for some reason it just calms me down and I am more relaxed. While I was divorced...
    Babylon55552000 Babylon55552000 51-55 8 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    yep i am a married cd,

    i have a very accepting wife, and over the years she has gotten more and more open to it, today i came home with two pair of panties (one bikini style & one thong) plus a very girly top, she looked at it and said: i wan't too see it on, i modelled first the one pair of panties...
    bodylower bodylower 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 18

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    Value Of A Supporting Wife

    After many years of hiding my cross dressing from my wife I finally plucked up the courage a few years ago to come out to her, and tell her of my alter ego. To my surprise she said she had thought for a number of years that I was interested in exploring my transgender side, and...
    lancashireguy lancashireguy 70+, T 9 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    Just One Of The Guy/girls

    I have loved the look and feel of pantyhose and silky panties since I was a young boy. Like alot of you I stole my mothers pantyhose to wear and she caught me with them in my room several times. I started buying and wearing my own pantyhose and panties after my first wife...
    Leggsman22 Leggsman22 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    The Third Gender

    The other day I heard the term “third gender” and kind of fell in love with it. I don’t’ know about you, but when I hear the word “transvestite,” I get an icky feeling. There’s a connotation of perversion associated with the word that seem incongruous with with the...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    My Wife Helps Me

    It has been a little over a month since I posted my story Married And My Wife Knows. There have been a few changes in her acceptance of my crossdressing. My wife has admitted that dresses and skirts are more comfortable than pants. Which we all know they are. On our last shopping...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 4 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Hello,my name is jacob

    but i like to go by zoey. I have spent the last seventeen years of my life alone because I am a girly-boy. Now I have the Internet and sites like this. i am now seeking help from someone who lives near me. i live in Virginia and am looking for some one I can meet, i love EP...
    zoey764 zoey764 18-21, T Jul 23

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    I wore panties for the first time in my life on

    my honeymoon, that led to brassieres and painted toenails with women jeans right behind. As confidence built so did wardrobe. We are a happy well dressed couple.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 2 Responses Oct 9

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    Stress

    I've been married almost a quarter century now.  I love my wife and do not want to hurt her in any way.  I've cross dressed since I was 12 years old off and on.  I think the longest I've gone without doing it is about six months, maybe.  My wife does not know at least if she...
    Ellefem Ellefem 46-50, T 57 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Personal Insecurities

    I used to get really annoyed (sometimes even pissed) when I would find my husband's **** stash or see the female avatars that he would use when he played his video games. (Which was weird, because in past relationships, it's never really bothered me.) I felt threatened. I would...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I Guess I Should Share My Story Too

    I am a female cross-dresser. Yep. I realize how crazy that sounds. But there's no other category I belong to. I'm actually just recently coming into the desire to be feminine. But I have a plethora of sides to me. And one of my sides prefer to wear men's boxers, fatigues, black...
    reslil reslil 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    I am posting this here

    because I am probably soon to be a separated cross-dresser. Or a divorced transgender individual or some other category. The point is, I have come to a fork in my life and despite my efforts I am going to have to go it alone. I have been using EP for awhile here as an one of...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 15 Responses Nov 20

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    I am looking to meet/chat with people with

    similar interests/experiences... Vince aka Vickie
    boytoy66 boytoy66 46-50, T 3 Responses Sep 3

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    My second chance with Seth,

    Part 2Seth dear, are you thirsty my wife asked. He started to get up asking her what she would like. She pulled him back down next to her. Oh Seth, you must learn that when in the company of our little sissy slave she must do everything. Don’t let Stefie fool you. She may pout...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Raising Kids While Dressing

    In my husband, I found the possibility of dreams come true and a life well lived. Since we fell in love, we've had stars in our eyes and plans for a future full of love and family. Buy a home. Start making babies. Be the kind of parents we wish we'd had. Live happily ever after...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    I may get wailed on this

    but so what. When I dress I do so in a manner women do, no corsets or garters, only panty hose or thigh highs. The only thing I wear that my wife doesn't is to always to wear a slip. If I where to walk around in a tight mini, dress up like a teenager, or maid she would be pissed...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 3 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Yesterday I cried yesterday,

    not a hard satisfying cry, but small sobs, the kind that struggle to come out against your will. I didn’t think that I would cry, it caught me by surprise, but not as much as the violent shaking that shook my body as I talked. I even wrapped my feet around the chair legs, and...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 10

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    OUT! As I have written in several stories I am

    a married but closeted CD who enjoys dressing only a few times during the year. A few weeks ago my wife and I were on a trip and our adult daughter called to ask about using my computer to scan a document. I said "sure" and gave her directions on starting the computer and then...
    DonnaSt DonnaSt 66-70, M 18 Responses Aug 23

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    From The Closet To Out, Finally!! Yea!

    I had been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman that just didnt want to accept this femme side of me even though, she new I secretly would wear her panties, bras, cammies, and other satin garments. We were both the same size and this made it so much easier as I would have...
    Nicole53 Nicole53 46-50, M 16 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    My wife has always known

    that I like to crossdress, but wants nothing to do with it. Today, I was at Wal-Mart buying jeans for myself when I saw this beautiful pink skirt on sale. I saw that they had it in my size, and the price was decent so I decided to buy it. I had other things to buy that day...
    transithose transithose 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 25

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    She blew at me the other night.

    Started calling me gay. You know, one of those 'I'm upset about lots of stuff, but am going to take it all out on you' rants. It upset me. :-(
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 3

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    I Love That Our Love Is

    I spend a lot of time writing about my process of discovery and adjustment. Putting it all into words helps me digest it all a little bit faster, and I hope that somehow, in the process of bringing my inside to my outside, I am helping someone along the way to see that they’re...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Yes I Am

    I am married and have been for 33 glorious years! I secretly cross dressed my whole life! 2 years ago roughly, I came out to my wife of my desires of wearing women's clothing! It was a brief statement that went like this. I want you to buy me a nighty! If she would have said no...
    Candicegirl Candicegirl 51-55, T 37 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    My Feelings....

    I feel sometimes like I am a complete flake or something for not knowing what to do or who I am. I know that I reach out here for some compassion and to find that I am not alone but somedays I feel so isolated and confused.Off and on throughout my entire life I have found myself...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 5 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    A Wife Of A Crossdresser...

    I am a wife of a crossdresser. I noticed some stories about telling your wife. I wanted to let you know that I have created a group to help with this challenge EP Link Please feel free to check it out. You can read our experiences and stories of others in the group. I would just...
    QueenSabrina QueenSabrina 36-40, F 21 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    I Get A Kick Out Of It---When my wife needs to

    borrow some of my clothing, creams or other things. We don't wear the same size clothes (I'm Taller), but she's borrowed my full & half slips on several occasions. She regularly gets into my knee hi drawer and in cool weather helps herself to my girlie socks. She uses my...
    janusatv janusatv 61-65, T 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    It'a been like forever

    since I have posted anything. That is because there has not been much to post. My Wife has become resistant to my cross dressing and with a minor and mt MIL in house I cannot push my wife to accept the fact that I enjoy wearing clothes designed for women. I am stuck in a...
    JamieRose JamieRose 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 3

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    Good To Finally Find Like Company

    It is so good to be able to read stories from so many other happily married crossdressers. For most of my life I have had personal issues with my desires because of what my family and what society says/thinks about it. Then when I began to look to the internet for support I only...
    Freja14 Freja14 31-35, T 5 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Girlfriends Part One

    The following story is not written by me, sadly, but a story I found on the net. Nearly every ****** I have I'm thinking of this and wishing I was Evelina. My name is Evelina (pronounced Eva leena). I am a married white male, 5'10, 180, and yes, I can be all man or almost all...
    debbiesucks debbiesucks 46-50, T 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I am not a hairy guy to start off,

    but my wife didn't like the stubble when I shaved my legs in the fall so once I did it I had to keep it smooth. The problem was I was a very good basketball player and got recruited into a number of winter leagues. Back then knee socks was normal so wearing long shorts hid most...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    How Dare You!!

    Lately I've been getting a disturbing amount of inappropriate private messages. I'm sure none of the ******** sending me these things will read this post, but I'm too annoyed to just keep my mouth shut!! While I am personally aggravated by being disrespected by inappropriate...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    First Time Makeover

    If you read my stories I have dressed with my wife before and right now it's not the best situation for that. But I still do it just in secret. Well tomorrow I have an appointment to get a makeover and take some pictures in las Vegas. It's the first time outside of the house and...
    DillonSmith DillonSmith 36-40, M 7 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Tights

    I Am A Married Crossdresser to hi have to crossdress when she is in bed so have get up anout 5.30 or when she is out so all off you that love to have your tights on and skirt on .go for it when you can .me i have my beautiul tights on and my amazing skirt on and siting out side...
    legs3 legs3 36-40, M 24 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    My Second Chance With Seth

    My wife called and said she was leaving work and would be home in a few minutes. She told me to get dressed completely and to make sure I looked better than ever. I’m not sure what that meant but replied as usual when she takes charge, “Yes, my Queen”. She laughed and...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 13 Responses May 22, 2013

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    An Open Invitation From My Husband (And I)...

    Since I have divuldged a lot of information in regards to who and what I am. I think I have answered a lot of the commonly asked qurestions… However, I would like for you girls and boys to ask us questions that we have not answered yet. So here are the rules. 1) The question...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Little By Little

    I have been married for a long time now and my wife knows that I like to dress sexy for her when we go on vacation the last time we went by our selfs she ask me if this is what I like and what can she do for me as long the kids don't find out, she is willing to let me dress...
    michellmartinez4 michellmartinez4 46-50 12 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Since I Told Her

    I'm just like most of us cross dressers started when I was young anyhow lets fast forwarded to now almost a year ago I told my wife how I love to wear women's clothes that ended my 20yrs of total purge of hell with a wonderful welcomeback of love and acceptance and understanding...
    notech64 notech64 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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