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I Am A Married Crossdresser

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    I Am A Married Crossdressing ****...Submissive And Horny

    Sometime after I got married, I started visiting adult video store and theaters. Initially I go turned on watching videos of women sucking *****. Then I started getting excited about ***** being sucked and began imaging myself being the one doing the sucking. I never envisioned...
    chazcorral chazcorral 61-65, M 3 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Girlfriends Part One

    The following story is not written by me, sadly, but a story I found on the net. Nearly every ****** I have I'm thinking of this and wishing I was Evelina. My name is Evelina (pronounced Eva leena). I am a married white male, 5'10, 180, and yes, I can be all man or almost all...
    debbiesucks debbiesucks 46-50, T 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Since I Told Her

    I'm just like most of us cross dressers started when I was young anyhow lets fast forwarded to now almost a year ago I told my wife how I love to wear women's clothes that ended my 20yrs of total purge of hell with a wonderful welcomeback of love and acceptance and understanding...
    notech64 notech64 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    How Dare You!!

    Lately I've been getting a disturbing amount of inappropriate private messages. I'm sure none of the ******** sending me these things will read this post, but I'm too annoyed to just keep my mouth shut!! While I am personally aggravated by being disrespected by inappropriate...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    Raising Kids While Dressing

    In my husband, I found the possibility of dreams come true and a life well lived. Since we fell in love, we've had stars in our eyes and plans for a future full of love and family. Buy a home. Start making babies. Be the kind of parents we wish we'd had. Live happily ever after...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Happily Married Cd

    My wife is the greatest! About 6 years ago I was doing my laundry and had some panties in with my clothes in the dryer. I fell asleep on the couch and that sweet lady decided to surprise me by folding my laundry. Busted! She woke me up nearly in a panic and asked me if there...
    angie60 angie60 61-65, M 21 Responses May 10, 2011

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    Crotchless

    Last weekend I had a wonderful surprise from my loving wife. I had to work on the Saturday... an extra shift, and arose at the normal time. My wife got up with me... i darted in to have a shower, and when I returned she had my clothes all laid out.... Dress shirt, tie, vest...
    MsMarcy MsMarcy 41-45 5 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Hair

    As I stated in other stories I stated crossdressing at an early age and my wife knew before we got married. I don't know why, midlife conflict maybe, but I let my hair grow for 10 years with just trims until it was below my shoulder blades or as my wife said my bra strap. I...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    My Feelings....

    I feel sometimes like I am a complete flake or something for not knowing what to do or who I am. I know that I reach out here for some compassion and to find that I am not alone but somedays I feel so isolated and confused.Off and on throughout my entire life I have found myself...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 6 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    My Wife Helps Me

    It has been a little over a month since I posted my story Married And My Wife Knows. There have been a few changes in her acceptance of my crossdressing. My wife has admitted that dresses and skirts are more comfortable than pants. Which we all know they are. On our last shopping...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 4 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Stress

    I've been married almost a quarter century now.  I love my wife and do not want to hurt her in any way.  I've cross dressed since I was 12 years old off and on.  I think the longest I've gone without doing it is about six months, maybe.  My wife does not know at least if she...
    Ellefem Ellefem 46-50, T 58 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    The Third Gender

    The other day I heard the term “third gender” and kind of fell in love with it. I don’t’ know about you, but when I hear the word “transvestite,” I get an icky feeling. There’s a connotation of perversion associated with the word that seem incongruous with with the...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    He Wants To Go Out But I Am Afraid

    Last night we were talking about his dressing and if I really do like it. Of course, I said yes but I think he saw the answer in my eyes and got a huge smile on his face. I wasn't quite sure how to approach it, but just casually asked him if he ever thought about wanting to go...
    reslil reslil 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    Wanting To Chat With A Mature Man

    I have been cross dressing for a long time, since I was a teen. Most all this time it has been private, just me alone. Sometimes my wife would participate as part of foreplay, but that was the extent. Now I am a mature cross dresser and would love to chat on line with a...
    Mustanglisa54 Mustanglisa54 56-60, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    I Have Taken My First Steps.. Finally !!!

    First off I want to thank all the friends and supporters that I have met in my realtively short time here at the experience project. Finally after some many attempts and desires to free myself, I took my first few steps out of the closet tonight. After spending alot of time...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 15 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    My wife has always known

    that I like to crossdress, but wants nothing to do with it. Today, I was at Wal-Mart buying jeans for myself when I saw this beautiful pink skirt on sale. I saw that they had it in my size, and the price was decent so I decided to buy it. I had other things to buy that day...
    transithose transithose 36-40, M 10 Responses Mar 25

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    Volunteer Day This past Saturday was probably

    the most feminine day of my life. I was wearing my favorite brown plaid jumper with a black turtle neck, black patterned tights and black wedges. This particular jumper is a bit shorter than usual and ties in back . It feels so pretty. My hair and makeup came out very nice, and...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    yep i am a married cd,

    i have a very accepting wife, and over the years she has gotten more and more open to it, today i came home with two pair of panties (one bikini style & one thong) plus a very girly top, she looked at it and said: i wan't too see it on, i modelled first the one pair of panties...
    bodylower bodylower 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 18

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    Cdralph2010 Is Right. How To Save A Marriage.

    For me it was sort of a game my ex started but I liked it so much I could not stop and that lead to divorce. I love women, I do not want to be with men, I like being a guy but I also like dressing, for some reason it just calms me down and I am more relaxed. While I was divorced...
    Babylon55552000 Babylon55552000 51-55 8 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    My Second Chance With Seth

    My wife called and said she was leaving work and would be home in a few minutes. She told me to get dressed completely and to make sure I looked better than ever. I’m not sure what that meant but replied as usual when she takes charge, “Yes, my Queen”. She laughed and...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 16 Responses May 22, 2013

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    Glamour Shots! ;)

    My hubby, "Kira," let me do his makeup and take his portrait the other day. We sat in the middle of our bed, with a pile of makeup all around us. I crossed my legs over his, and made him look as much like a model as I could. He felt sexy and beautiful. I felt sexy and beautiful...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    An Open Invitation From My Husband (And I)...

    Since I have divuldged a lot of information in regards to who and what I am. I think I have answered a lot of the commonly asked qurestions… However, I would like for you girls and boys to ask us questions that we have not answered yet. So here are the rules. 1) The question...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    The Christmas Holidays always remind me of my

    childhood, and my childhood always had a bit of fantasy involving crossdressing. I remember my girl cousins would wear their pretty dresses and tights and shiny black shoes. I wanted so much to be a pretty girl and wear those things, but it was never to be. Yes I have been...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Personal Insecurities

    I used to get really annoyed (sometimes even pissed) when I would find my husband's **** stash or see the female avatars that he would use when he played his video games. (Which was weird, because in past relationships, it's never really bothered me.) I felt threatened. I would...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    It's Not Really A Big Deal...

    Contrary to popular opinion, having a cross-dressing, transvestite husband is not a big deal. Some days I’m perfectly fine with it (even excited.) Some days I’m completely ambivalent. Other days it annoys me like you wouldn’t believe. But regardless of how I feel about his...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    She Loved It

    I told my wife that I was crossdresser while we were still dating. We would go out me dressed as a woman, and wear matching dresses. She knew I loved my short dresses and high heels. She made sure that when we went out that I was perfect looking. I got very good at doing my...
    RunAroundSusan RunAroundSusan 22-25 1 Response Sep 14, 2013

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    She Has Known From The Beginning

    We got married out of high school and just before I went into the Air force at 19 yrs old. We had played around before we were married to include me wearing her panties and other clothing. I dressed off and on for years while in the Air Force she would play along with me...
    Kerryannecd Kerryannecd 56-60, T 13 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    I Want To Escape, But I Can't...

    I, as this forum states, am a married cross-dressing male. I would like to add some adjectives such as happy, comfortable, adjusting, self-assured, and so on but the truth be told I feel like my need to cross-dress is putting too much strain on my life and I find myself crying...
    jacqueline1972 jacqueline1972 36-40, T 21 Responses May 10, 2012

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    Tights

    I Am A Married Crossdresser to hi have to crossdress when she is in bed so have get up anout 5.30 or when she is out so all off you that love to have your tights on and skirt on .go for it when you can .me i have my beautiul tights on and my amazing skirt on and siting out side...
    legs3 legs3 36-40, M 22 Responses Aug 3, 2012

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    More Woaman Than You Can Handle, More Man Than Youll Ever Be

    I am one of the lucky one. By that i mean I am a lucky CD.I could walk through the Mall of America on the busiest shopping day of the year dressed as a woman and my wife would happily walk beside me and tell off anyone that said a word negativly.Why should anyone care that I like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 11, 2013

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    Wife Knew Beforehand

    I told her about it before we got married because I knew I wasn't going to stop and it was only fair to her to opt out ahead of time. To my surprise and relief she was okay with it. Actually we went out the next day and brought a new dress for me and she had me model it when we...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 6 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Lingerie Shopping Day

    My wife and I went lingerie shopping for me for the first time today. She has always been supportive, but I have been very slow to open up fully until recently. We arranged to go to two shops this morning. We discussed how open we were going to be with the clerks, and the...
    epjoni epjoni 56-60, T 7 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Yesterday I cried yesterday,

    not a hard satisfying cry, but small sobs, the kind that struggle to come out against your will. I didn’t think that I would cry, it caught me by surprise, but not as much as the violent shaking that shook my body as I talked. I even wrapped my feet around the chair legs, and...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I luv to dress when I can

    as my wife knows nothing really about it since she will not get it.
    kendra247cd kendra247cd 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My second chance with Seth,

    Part 2Seth dear, are you thirsty my wife asked. He started to get up asking her what she would like. She pulled him back down next to her. Oh Seth, you must learn that when in the company of our little sissy slave she must do everything. Don’t let Stefie fool you. She may pout...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Girlfriends Part Two

    After Chad exploded his seed in my ***, I really didn't know what to do or how to act. A part of me was blushing as my wife Jan told me it was ok and I was a good girl. Chad gave me a kiss and smiled a little. We all made quick small talk and then men started to get dressed...
    debbiesucks debbiesucks 46-50, T 13 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    2013 Crossdressing Review 2013 was an

    interesting year in crossdressing for me. My wife and I spent many hours as two women in public, but I wanted to feel a little more feminine, to experience being a woman while dealing with people in public. I wanted to face a wider variety of people, yet, I wanted to somewhat...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    Little By Little

    I have been married for a long time now and my wife knows that I like to dress sexy for her when we go on vacation the last time we went by our selfs she ask me if this is what I like and what can she do for me as long the kids don't find out, she is willing to let me dress...
    michellmartinez4 michellmartinez4 46-50 9 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I Love That Our Love Is

    I spend a lot of time writing about my process of discovery and adjustment. Putting it all into words helps me digest it all a little bit faster, and I hope that somehow, in the process of bringing my inside to my outside, I am helping someone along the way to see that they’re...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Lead Me To The Shops

    Monday 27th August 2012 After having visitors for what seems like weeks my wife and I finally had some time just for us. I decided to have a bath to relax and shave those neglected areas that plague not only women but also cross-dressers, although I am fair haired, I love...
    lynncrossdresser lynncrossdresser 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    A Wife Of A Crossdresser...

    I am a wife of a crossdresser. I noticed some stories about telling your wife. I wanted to let you know that I have created a group to help with this challenge EP Link Please feel free to check it out. You can read our experiences and stories of others in the group. I would just...
    QueenSabrina QueenSabrina 36-40, F 22 Responses Jan 13, 2011

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    Came Out, Story From Last Year

    I've been married for over 18 yrs now, 6 yrs ago after many yrs of my wife & I playing with toys I came out to her about my bisexuality. Since then I have been with 2 men and love it, but there has always been that love of silk,lace,and heels. I have always been good at hiding...
    EricaDress EricaDress 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    I Guess I Should Share My Story Too

    I am a female cross-dresser. Yep. I realize how crazy that sounds. But there's no other category I belong to. I'm actually just recently coming into the desire to be feminine. But I have a plethora of sides to me. And one of my sides prefer to wear men's boxers, fatigues, black...
    reslil reslil 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Value Of A Supporting Wife

    After many years of hiding my cross dressing from my wife I finally plucked up the courage a few years ago to come out to her, and tell her of my alter ego. To my surprise she said she had thought for a number of years that I was interested in exploring my transgender side, and...
    lancashireguy lancashireguy 70+, T 12 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    Yes I Am

    I am married and have been for 33 glorious years! I secretly cross dressed my whole life! 2 years ago roughly, I came out to my wife of my desires of wearing women's clothing! It was a brief statement that went like this. I want you to buy me a nighty! If she would have said no...
    Candicegirl Candicegirl 51-55, T 36 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    From The Closet To Out, Finally!! Yea!

    I had been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman that just didnt want to accept this femme side of me even though, she new I secretly would wear her panties, bras, cammies, and other satin garments. We were both the same size and this made it so much easier as I would have...
    Nicole53 Nicole53 46-50, M 16 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    Looking For Others Who Understand

    I married him almost 15 years ago and have known since months before the wedding. This works for us because I too crossdress, only then I didn't realize that's what it was. I honestly thought I was a lesbian in denial but for some reason, could have no problems loving and being...
    reslil reslil 36-40, F 12 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    My Weekend Starts Here

    My wife is away at her mothers for the weekend. I knew this day was comming for some time, so I was well prepared. I have been getting so excited this week that I couldn't concentrate on anything else. Work seemed to go on forever today. Every time I looked at the clock only a...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    What 's Under The Clothes..

    My first cross dressing experience was forced on me by my mother. I was three. As a punishment she would put my hair in pigtails and tease me about being a "whiny girly". She took pictures. Still has them. Doesn't think she did anything wrong... It stopped when I was five. When...
    Toynbee Toynbee 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    Just One Of The Guy/girls

    I have loved the look and feel of pantyhose and silky panties since I was a young boy. Like alot of you I stole my mothers pantyhose to wear and she caught me with them in my room several times. I started buying and wearing my own pantyhose and panties after my first wife...
    Leggsman22 Leggsman22 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    She Thought She Got Me Started Dressing-up

    I've been married for 36yrs. My wife knew 2yrs before we married. I had been crossdressing since i was around 8yrs old. I was 18 when i met her. About a month of going steady, she wanted me to wear some of her clothes. She did not know i was a crossdresser. Acouple of other...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 8 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    The Ultimate Ts Fantasy

    "Ok, sign here", he said pricking my finger with the quill and handing it to me. I signed the contract, my blood a stark contrast on the parchment document. "Your wishes on earth,as stated, in exchange for your soul in the hereafter". He began to fade from view, I shouted after...
    Cassandra69 Cassandra69 22-25, T 7 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    I am not a hairy guy to start off,

    but my wife didn't like the stubble when I shaved my legs in the fall so once I did it I had to keep it smooth. The problem was I was a very good basketball player and got recruited into a number of winter leagues. Back then knee socks was normal so wearing long shorts hid most...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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