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I Am A Married Crossdresser

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,318 People

    Good To Finally Find Like Company

    It is so good to be able to read stories from so many other happily married crossdressers. For most of my life I have had personal issues with my desires because of what my family and what society says/thinks about it. Then when I began to look to the internet for support I only...
    Freja14 Freja14 31-35, T 6 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Wanting To Chat With A Mature Man

    I have been cross dressing for a long time, since I was a teen. Most all this time it has been private, just me alone. Sometimes my wife would participate as part of foreplay, but that was the extent. Now I am a mature cross dresser and would love to chat on line with a...
    Mustanglisa54 Mustanglisa54 56-60, M 6 Responses Oct 10, 2013

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    Breasts

    I have been taking pueraria mirifica and after 2 months my breasts are tender and growing. What a wonderful sensation! Nipples are larger too.
    Ellenforu Ellenforu 56-60, T 3 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    Wife's Comment

    My wife said something to me this afternoon, that has left me wondering if she is on the mark. Out of nowhere she says, "You want to to be a women don't you?. you want to put on makeup and things to feel girly." I, being caught off guard, just continued watching tv and gave no...
    CDX21 CDX21 22-25, T 17 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    She blew at me the other night.

    Started calling me gay. You know, one of those 'I'm upset about lots of stuff, but am going to take it all out on you' rants. It upset me. :-(
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Hello,my name is jacob

    but i like to go by zoey. I have spent the last seventeen years of my life alone because I am a girly-boy. Now I have the Internet and sites like this. i am now seeking help from someone who lives near me. i live in Virginia and am looking for some one I can meet, i love EP...
    zoey764 zoey764 18-21, T Jul 23, 2014

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    Girlfriends Part Two

    After Chad exploded his seed in my ***, I really didn't know what to do or how to act. A part of me was blushing as my wife Jan told me it was ok and I was a good girl. Chad gave me a kiss and smiled a little. We all made quick small talk and then men started to get dressed...
    debbiesucks debbiesucks 46-50, T 13 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I Get A Kick Out Of It---When my wife needs to

    borrow some of my clothing, creams or other things. We don't wear the same size clothes (I'm Taller), but she's borrowed my full & half slips on several occasions. She regularly gets into my knee hi drawer and in cool weather helps herself to my girlie socks. She uses my...
    janusatv janusatv 61-65, T 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Volunteer Day This past Saturday was probably

    the most feminine day of my life. I was wearing my favorite brown plaid jumper with a black turtle neck, black patterned tights and black wedges. This particular jumper is a bit shorter than usual and ties in back . It feels so pretty. My hair and makeup came out very nice, and...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2014

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    It'a been like forever

    since I have posted anything. That is because there has not been much to post. My Wife has become resistant to my cross dressing and with a minor and mt MIL in house I cannot push my wife to accept the fact that I enjoy wearing clothes designed for women. I am stuck in a...
    JamieRose JamieRose 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    Came Out, Story From Last Year

    I've been married for over 18 yrs now, 6 yrs ago after many yrs of my wife & I playing with toys I came out to her about my bisexuality. Since then I have been with 2 men and love it, but there has always been that love of silk,lace,and heels. I have always been good at hiding...
    EricaDress EricaDress 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    Yesterday I cried yesterday,

    not a hard satisfying cry, but small sobs, the kind that struggle to come out against your will. I didn’t think that I would cry, it caught me by surprise, but not as much as the violent shaking that shook my body as I talked. I even wrapped my feet around the chair legs, and...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 10, 2014

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    Stress

    I've been married almost a quarter century now.  I love my wife and do not want to hurt her in any way.  I've cross dressed since I was 12 years old off and on.  I think the longest I've gone without doing it is about six months, maybe.  My wife does not know at least if she...
    Ellefem Ellefem 51-55, T 53 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    I Guess I Should Share My Story Too

    I am a female cross-dresser. Yep. I realize how crazy that sounds. But there's no other category I belong to. I'm actually just recently coming into the desire to be feminine. But I have a plethora of sides to me. And one of my sides prefer to wear men's boxers, fatigues, black...
    reslil reslil 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    I Want To Escape, But I Can't...

    I, as this forum states, am a married cross-dressing male. I would like to add some adjectives such as happy, comfortable, adjusting, self-assured, and so on but the truth be told I feel like my need to cross-dress is putting too much strain on my life and I find myself crying...
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 36-40, T 22 Responses May 10, 2012

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    My 4 year old daughter bursts in with a proud

    twirl "Daddy, do you like my pretty new dress that mummy bought me?" Somehow it feels like she is taunting me. Like 'ner ner, I've got a pretty new dress and you haven't' but she doesn't know, so it can't be. Oh I hate feeling like this, and I hate myself for feeling like this...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 5 Responses May 27

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    The Ultimate Ts Fantasy

    "Ok, sign here", he said pricking my finger with the quill and handing it to me. I signed the contract, my blood a stark contrast on the parchment document. "Your wishes on earth,as stated, in exchange for your soul in the hereafter". He began to fade from view, I shouted after...
    Cassandra69 Cassandra69 22-25, T 7 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Little By Little

    I have been married for a long time now and my wife knows that I like to dress sexy for her when we go on vacation the last time we went by our selfs she ask me if this is what I like and what can she do for me as long the kids don't find out, she is willing to let me dress...
    michellmartinez4 michellmartinez4 46-50 13 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Value Of A Supporting Wife

    After many years of hiding my cross dressing from my wife I finally plucked up the courage a few years ago to come out to her, and tell her of my alter ego. To my surprise she said she had thought for a number of years that I was interested in exploring my transgender side, and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 19, 2013

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    She Has Known From The Beginning

    We got married out of high school and just before I went into the Air force at 19 yrs old. We had played around before we were married to include me wearing her panties and other clothing. I dressed off and on for years while in the Air Force she would play along with me...
    Kerryannecd Kerryannecd 56-60, T 12 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    I am posting this here

    because I am probably soon to be a separated cross-dresser. Or a divorced transgender individual or some other category. The point is, I have come to a fork in my life and despite my efforts I am going to have to go it alone. I have been using EP for awhile here as an one of...
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 36-40, T 16 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    From The Closet To Out, Finally!! Yea!

    I had been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman that just didnt want to accept this femme side of me even though, she new I secretly would wear her panties, bras, cammies, and other satin garments. We were both the same size and this made it so much easier as I would have...
    Nicole53 Nicole53 46-50, M 15 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    I wore panties for the first time in my life on

    my honeymoon, that led to brassieres and painted toenails with women jeans right behind. As confidence built so did wardrobe. We are a happy well dressed couple.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 66-70, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2014

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    My wife has always known

    that I like to crossdress, but wants nothing to do with it. Today, I was at Wal-Mart buying jeans for myself when I saw this beautiful pink skirt on sale. I saw that they had it in my size, and the price was decent so I decided to buy it. I had other things to buy that day...
    transithose transithose 36-40, M 9 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    Just posted new pics.

    Let me know what you think
    JessicainNH JessicainNH 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    I Have Taken My First Steps.. Finally !!!

    First off I want to thank all the friends and supporters that I have met in my realtively short time here at the experience project. Finally after some many attempts and desires to free myself, I took my first few steps out of the closet tonight. After spending alot of time...
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 36-40, T 12 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Just One Of The Guy/girls

    I have loved the look and feel of pantyhose and silky panties since I was a young boy. Like alot of you I stole my mothers pantyhose to wear and she caught me with them in my room several times. I started buying and wearing my own pantyhose and panties after my first wife...
    Leggsman22 Leggsman22 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    Since I Told Her

    I'm just like most of us cross dressers started when I was young anyhow lets fast forwarded to now almost a year ago I told my wife how I love to wear women's clothes that ended my 20yrs of total purge of hell with a wonderful welcomeback of love and acceptance and understanding...
    notech64 notech64 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    2013 Crossdressing Review 2013 was an

    interesting year in crossdressing for me. My wife and I spent many hours as two women in public, but I wanted to feel a little more feminine, to experience being a woman while dealing with people in public. I wanted to face a wider variety of people, yet, I wanted to somewhat...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 7, 2014

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    OUT! As I have written in several stories I am

    a married but closeted CD who enjoys dressing only a few times during the year. A few weeks ago my wife and I were on a trip and our adult daughter called to ask about using my computer to scan a document. I said "sure" and gave her directions on starting the computer and then...
    DonnaSt DonnaSt 66-70, M 22 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Wife Knew Beforehand

    I told her about it before we got married because I knew I wasn't going to stop and it was only fair to her to opt out ahead of time. To my surprise and relief she was okay with it. Actually we went out the next day and brought a new dress for me and she had me model it when we...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 6 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Unfortunately, my wife doesn't know a thing

    about my passion for dressing like a woman. Many will say,” Tell her she'll understand and will probably condone and even help," well I can't and won’t tell her! I know she would not understand, would not condone it and would never help me in any way. As a matter of fact we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 18

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    Cdralph2010 Is Right. How To Save A Marriage.

    For me it was sort of a game my ex started but I liked it so much I could not stop and that lead to divorce. I love women, I do not want to be with men, I like being a guy but I also like dressing, for some reason it just calms me down and I am more relaxed. While I was divorced...
    Babylon55552000 Babylon55552000 51-55 8 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Happily Married Cd

    My wife is the greatest! About 6 years ago I was doing my laundry and had some panties in with my clothes in the dryer. I fell asleep on the couch and that sweet lady decided to surprise me by folding my laundry. Busted! She woke me up nearly in a panic and asked me if there...
    angie60 angie60 61-65, M 19 Responses May 10, 2011

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    My second chance with Seth,

    Part 2Seth dear, are you thirsty my wife asked. He started to get up asking her what she would like. She pulled him back down next to her. Oh Seth, you must learn that when in the company of our little sissy slave she must do everything. Don’t let Stefie fool you. She may pout...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    I am not a hairy guy to start off,

    but my wife didn't like the stubble when I shaved my legs in the fall so once I did it I had to keep it smooth. The problem was I was a very good basketball player and got recruited into a number of winter leagues. Back then knee socks was normal so wearing long shorts hid most...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    yep i am a married cd,

    i have a very accepting wife, and over the years she has gotten more and more open to it, today i came home with two pair of panties (one bikini style & one thong) plus a very girly top, she looked at it and said: i wan't too see it on, i modelled first the one pair of panties...
    bodylower bodylower 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    An Open Invitation From My Husband (And I)...

    Since I have divuldged a lot of information in regards to who and what I am. I think I have answered a lot of the commonly asked qurestions… However, I would like for you girls and boys to ask us questions that we have not answered yet. So here are the rules. 1) The question...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Hair

    As I stated in other stories I stated crossdressing at an early age and my wife knew before we got married. I don't know why, midlife conflict maybe, but I let my hair grow for 10 years with just trims until it was below my shoulder blades or as my wife said my bra strap. I...
    wendym99x wendym99x 61-65 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Caught but not questioned.

    .. I loaded a storage crate of my clothing into my truck and drove to our vacation home to meet the wife. The next morning, I went out to get breakfast for us, but before I left, put the crate from my truck into my work shop area. Got back with breakfast and she was in the...
    tempestcd tempestcd 51-55 4 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    My Second Chance With Seth

    My wife called and said she was leaving work and would be home in a few minutes. She told me to get dressed completely and to make sure I looked better than ever. I’m not sure what that meant but replied as usual when she takes charge, “Yes, my Queen”. She laughed and...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 17 Responses May 22, 2013

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    The Christmas Holidays always remind me of my

    childhood, and my childhood always had a bit of fantasy involving crossdressing. I remember my girl cousins would wear their pretty dresses and tights and shiny black shoes. I wanted so much to be a pretty girl and wear those things, but it was never to be. Yes I have been...
    1SarahAnn 1SarahAnn 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    It's Not Really A Big Deal...

    Contrary to popular opinion, having a cross-dressing, transvestite husband is not a big deal. Some days I’m perfectly fine with it (even excited.) Some days I’m completely ambivalent. Other days it annoys me like you wouldn’t believe. But regardless of how I feel about his...
    saltwatersky saltwatersky 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    She Supports Me... When we were looking at

    houses several years ago in anticipation of a move, one thing my wife noted in her appraisals of each house was the privacy element. She wanted to ensure I could comfortably go on the back porch or deck or even walk the back yard without being exposed to "prying eyes" as I was...
    janusatv janusatv 61-65, T 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Just posted new pics.

    Let me know what you think
    JessicainNH JessicainNH 46-50, M Jun 24

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    My Feelings....

    I feel sometimes like I am a complete flake or something for not knowing what to do or who I am. I know that I reach out here for some compassion and to find that I am not alone but somedays I feel so isolated and confused.Off and on throughout my entire life I have found myself...
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 <