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I Am A Married Woman But Having An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 218 People

    Broken Vixen

    I was sort of a vixen in high school. Blond hair, blue eyes and pretty well put together--and I knew it. Early on, I had the normal teenage infatuation at 14 and he eventually broke my heart at 16. But it was there that I turned a corner. I don't think I wanted a fixed broken...
    fence0sitting fence0sitting 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    Confused.Torn. Hurt

    In may of this year i purchased a brand new car from a dealership which is right down the.street from me. My husband and i go in and get this car. And i cant help but notice one of the.sales men noticing me., im not going to lie it made me feel good. Well now i have been talking...
    sadsamantha311 sadsamantha311 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    I Am Married But Having An Affair

    Its weird I dont see it as an affair, it most definately is and im not trying to say its not or justify it in any way but heres how the story goes... I have been with my now husband since I was 13 on and off, I can remember seeing him and thinking one day you will be mine (and...
    envyme101 envyme101 18-21 3 Responses Jun 13, 2012

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    Back To Reality, After A Beautiful Weekend.....

    Here I am, at my desk on Monday. Needing to work, wanting to write. This is the first time I've had the chance to return here in weeks. I am finding that navigating this site is a little overwhelming and confusing, seems it could be organized better, but I am easily confused and...
    Veeva Veeva 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2012

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    Ehefrau Geht Fremd!!! German Story

    Mein Name ist Josef, ich bin 45 und ich bin seit 15 Jahren mit meiner Frau Brigitte verheiratet. Wir haben einen Sohn mit 6 Jahren und eine Tochter mit 4 und wohnen in einem Haus am Rande einer kleinen Stadt. Brigitte ist 37, 170 groß und eine jener Frauen die mit zunehmendem...
    justusat justusat 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    Need Advice

    I wrote that I was havng an afair after being married for 15 years. I do not know the rules of this and how to go about it. We obvously are connected to each other for reasons sex, maybe good conversation. We spent the morning togehter the other day. I have not heard from him...
    akd77 akd77 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    No Longer Married....but Still May Have An Affair!

    Although I am no longer married; yet I still may have an affair. So at this time I will be leaving this group. It has been helpful to have a place to VOICE my worries, concerns, and feelings with this group. I truly sense a place of belonging each and every time I blog my...
    chie5189 chie5189 36-40 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I have been in an affair

    since since September of 2007....Your assumptions that  I am a soul sucking seductresses or a desperate woman-child that needs his love or; I shall die could not be farther from the truth. I am that woman you talked to at the coffee shop one morning as we compared the taste of...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I am having an affair with a married man from

    work, often AT work. Stupid on so many levels-I am well aware of the moral and marriage affecting issues plus very honest with myself about all consequences if it falls through. But so thrilling! And I am the happiest I have ever been. I love the freedom and choice and...
    TrixxieBell TrixxieBell 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    Its with my pastor. We are Jehovah witnesses.

    He is a very strong man full of self control It's not a full blown affair. We've not kissed on the lips but have Hugged passionately, and out of control. We talk for hours on the phone. He tells me he has never opened up to anyone since his wife went a little insane and...
    Titziana Titziana 46-50 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I'm In Love With My Bestfriend But I'm Marriage To A Cheater..smt

    Hello, I've been married for about 4 1/2 yrs now and we have one son that is 11 months. During my marriage I have dealt with a decade of troubles in my time frame of 4 1/2 yrs. My husband has cheated on me 7 times before the final affair which makes 8 times in total. I have...
    HazelBrown HazelBrown 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    My Experience.

    I'm on here to talk about my experience. I'm not here to be judged ( I get enough of that) or hated on, so leave negative comments to yourself. I've only been married for 11 months, and live in a sexless marriage already. I am also ignored. Here's the background. I've been...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    Ok ...So What Now?

    What do I do when I think I am starting to have feelings for my lover? How can I just keep it cool? I cant be with him and I know that. How do I put things back into perspective? He makes me happy. He drives me crazy. I my heart I want to feel like this all the time. So I...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Careless...

    Well I have really screwed up with my "friend" I sent him a text by accident that was meant for my son while Giving him trouble. But with the recent chain of events made me look like a psycho. I have sent him an apology and explained that I really am not crazy and was not meant...
    akd77 akd77 31-35, F Jan 8, 2013

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    My Wife Dates Others

    Whether it is right or wrong, I admit that allowing her to date other men is arousing to me.....some of her "dates" are planned....a couple with friends of hers from her past....one is a PhD and she has enjoyed a weekend or two with him...coming home simply exhausted from their...
    longknife73 longknife73 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    This Is What I've Been Missing In My Life!!

    I'm not afraid to say what's on my mind, because he listens carefully to understand what I'm really saying! Although we are like-minded, he accepts my point of view as valid, even when it differs from his own. I'm not afraid to show him my weaknesses, because he loves me, and...
    FraidNot FraidNot 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Confused ....

    So I have been seeing this man for about 3 months now. I still am not divorced but will hopefully be soon. My marriage is over! Things were going really well with me and this man for quite some time. We really enjoy being togehter when the time allows, and we always seem to...
    akd77 akd77 31-35, F Jan 3, 2013

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    Amazing Sex With A Black Man

    My first few experiences being with a black man.....a bucket list of sorts....accomplished, but will keep returning for more! I will start by saying I am a thick, curvy woman in a sexually unsatisfied marriage, who has had some changes in my life the last year. I have lost...
    Ojitoslatinos Ojitoslatinos 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2012

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    Passive Aggressive Bullshit!

    My husband knows that I am sleeping with someone else. He is mostly ok with it. Anyway, a couple of weeks ago picked up on the fact that I had a packet of unopened condoms in the car. Fast forward to yesterday. I had been for my weekly theraphy session and knew that on the way...
    UtopianOutlook UtopianOutlook 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Is It Wrong?????

    I got married when I was 20 and Its been four years I got married to the person I love. Everything was ok in the beginning but after some months the true colors of my husband came out. He changed, he would get angry for silly matters, he would slap me sometimes.. after marriage...
    cryst24 cryst24 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Married One Year, Together For 6.5

    It all started about 3 years ago. I was in an on again-off again relationship (which was on at the time) with a man who I loved but was not in love with. We were very much opposite, but both of us could not really tolerate anyone else, haha. Anyway, I was working at a school and...
    tiddlywink222 tiddlywink222 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    I Am Married But I Want To Have Sex With A Fireman

    I have been married for 3 years and I am almost 24. For the past 2 years I have been flirting and have really bad sexual graphic conversations with a married 45 year old fireman. My husband has found out twice, and just recently told me if he found out again, he would leave. I...
    LaceyH LaceyH 22-25 4 Responses Sep 17, 2012

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    Hurting..no One To Talk To..

    I have been married for 4 years. My husband is a good guy, has always taken good care of me, but we have no sexual relationship for a majority of our marriage bc he takes a medication that is made him have no sexual desire (he has no medical insurance so no getting anything to...
    MisshimM1428 MisshimM1428 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    I Always Thought I Would Never Go There

    When I was 26 years old I met this woman through work, she was 37 years old married attractive woman without children. first dinner we had together she was dressed up with a short dress, high heels, make up ...etc, she looked really attractive, Our dinner took longer than...
    herlover999 herlover999 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Three Months Later, Here I Am.....

    My husband and I haven't had anything for years. Been married 7 but nothing for at least the last 4. I was resigned to this is how it was going to be forever. I felt ugly, insecure because he would say things to blame and belittle me. I don't want to be married anymore but he won...
    lost2727 lost2727 36-40 Jun 29, 2013

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    I'm Lost On The Long & Winding Road..

    It has been such a long and exhausting journey...   Started out as a secretly blissful emotional and physical discovery and reawakening,  and has been painfully going downhill ever since...   I have never cheated on anyone before this, ever..... but -  his wife, then him...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    My Personal Story

    i have been w/the same man for 29 years married 28, we have four children together i love my husband he is a great provider he has worked so long but we have a non passional relationship, he wants to be in control all the time, i want to do some courses for myself to maybe get a...
    cheech107 cheech107 46-50 7 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Lies Or A True Connection?

    Together with my husband for 19 years, many ups and downs over the years. 15 years ago i met a married guy through work, he made it clear he was interested in me and whilst there was definately sexual chemistry and friendship there for me i made it clear i was married and not...
    edwina38 edwina38 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    Still Love My Husband, But A Different Kind Of Love.

    I married my high school sweatheart. We married when I was 20 and had our first child when I was 21, our second at 22 and our third at 27. We have been married now for 33 years. Like most couple we have had our ups and down, but we loved each other and had a great relationship...
    susie504 susie504 51-55 1 Response Sep 1, 2012

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    Married To A Great Man But Met My Soulmate.

    I have been married for 15 years and we have 4 wonderful kids. My marriage has always been solid and strong. My first marriage failed because he was disrespectfuland didn't really like women. My husband now is just the opposite and has always treated me well. I married him for...
    btmomto4 btmomto4 36-40 14 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    My Choice

    I've had a couple affairs (more than one night) and lots of intimate encounters (one night only) throughout my entire marriage. I got married just out of college to my best friend, we connected then and are still tight today. Sometime during our second year of marriage while out...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 11 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    So Confused !!

    I am married over 10 years, have kids but I am bored in my marraige. I met a man who excites me, who I feel like I have known forever and its been not even a month. My husband is a good guy, wonderful father, I just dont know if I am in love with him. I care for him deeply and...
    confused2013 confused2013 31-35, F 13 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    5 Months Ago I Met This Beautiful Woman Who Happened To Be Married.

    Hi met this beautiful woman who I new is married. It started slowly, but after 5 months I fell in love with this woman. We did everything together, parks, breakfast, and lunches. There were 3 times she was in the hospital and I was there. Her husband is a long haul truck driver...
    gross17671 gross17671 56-60 Jun 9, 2013

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    Too Good To Leave, Too Bad To Stay

    Some years ago I read a line in a book called “Spiritual Fitness” that has stayed with me very lucidly ” Everything we do in this life is an attempt to heal ourselves”. We may not always go about this the right way, like break sacred marriage vows. But even an affair is a...
    Ihabi Ihabi 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I Am Happy! Imagine That

    I don't necessarily feel good about the space I am in or share with my lover BUT I have never felt so free, so beautiful, or feminine in my life. I don't even recall feeling like this with my husband. It's a different feeling. One, that is both liberating and scary at the same...
    007love 007love 31-35, F 5 Responses May 30, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    I had a brief affair with a guy who ended the relationship some 3 months ago now, claiming it was too intense for him and he had cold feet and therefore just wanted to remain friends. I have been devastated and struggled to get on with daily life. I feel really in love with him...
    edwina38 edwina38 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    I had an affair with a mw for two years. She told me she just wanted me, and the sex for both was incredible. It replaced both of our sexless marriages. - and you wouldn't...
    TheOtherGuy35 TheOtherGuy35 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm not exactly sleeping with him but I want to I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and want more He says...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I have a close female friend who happens to be married. Honestly, I'm not ashamed to admit that I have a crush on her. No, it's more lust than a simple crush. She knows how I feel...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Aug 17

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    Any bored lonely horny married ladies wanna have some fun
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Sleeping-With-My-Boss/4758822
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F Aug 25

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    ep has all kind of experiences that might be happening in our own lives . yes i am dating my boss and loving it . its so much freedom in office and you get the perks which others...
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    no you're not you're just to into yourself
    xlovelybutterflyx xlovelybutterflyx 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm a young woman stuck in a situation that has completely blown my mind. I never intended to have an affair at any point in my life but the affair i am currently having has become...
    YourMissingPiece YourMissingPiece 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I'm a young woman stuck in a situation that has completely blown my mind. I never intended to have an affair at any point in my life but the affair i am currently having has become...
    YourMissingPiece YourMissingPiece 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 18

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    I really have no idea where to start... I am new on EP but I really have found no where else to turn to. I have told a few of my friends and they all tell me basically the same...
    newyork2687 newyork2687 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    Hello Everyone, My first post here, and the first time I've ever expressed this to anyone. I've been going crazy inside for years now and feel like I'm going to explode if I don...
    theunfree theunfree 41-45, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    For over the last year I have been involved with an old friend who is married. We are having an affair, at least we were. A month ago his wife discovered his affair and he decided...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    i need some help and don't really know what to do ... I've been the other woman for 8 years now on and off.. the last 3 years have been totally on.. when our relationship started...
    gmouse81 gmouse81 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 17