I Am A Married Woman In Love With Another Man

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    You believed in me. Then you went away.

    You opened my heart, then left it open and vulnerable. You just left me, like I was nothing. I see you everyday, and you seem to have no problem going about your business, while I'm still trying to figure out what happened. You put me in a box, far in the recesses of your...
    daphneflower daphneflower
    36-40, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I have gotten myself into a mess!

    Have been having a affair for a few months now. When it started I thought it would be like having a "good buddy" someone I could talk with and maybe meet sometimes. It has gotten more than that . We both have discovered that we have feelings for each other. As in love . I...
    Bella0206 Bella0206
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 13, 2014

    I have been Married for 10 years

    and recently discovered that I do not love my husband. I met someone he is married too for the past 20 yrs. he is a lot older than I am. I find myself thinking about him all the time and he does the same thing. we talk a lot through text or phone. He is not happy with his...
    Doriye Doriye
    36-40, F
    Mar 9, 2014

    I am 22. I got married at the age of 18,

    my husband and I don't have children. Well anyway my marriage wasn't all that great we began to disrespect eachother and things were just bad... anyway I started working at the place I am right now a year ago and I met someone.. he is so amazing.. we started talking a lot and I...
    LindaJohnson10 LindaJohnson10
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    I'm A Married Woman In Love With Another Man

    it all started as a FWB (Friends with benefits) relationship as I'm unhappy with my marriage. (see other posts) well after our 2nd meeting something inside me knew that it was more. He also felt it. We resisted and well after my 2 week trip away we realized that we fell in...
    pink613 pink613
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    Short Lasted Love

    Well, I know how all of you ladies feel. My husband is not the kindest people. He's not physical abusive but he can really play a good mind game that makes you really look at yourself at times and wonder why do I stay but I guess Im afraid and I dont want to mess up my family. I...
    Rayne38 Rayne38
    1 Response Aug 20, 2012

    I am torn and conflicted on my life recently.

    I am married to a wonderful man who loves me and who I love in return. We had a perfect fairytale relationship for years that everyone envied. Then he cheated on me. There was nothing physical between this woman and him but there was an emotional connection and they exchanged...
    talkin2themoon talkin2themoon
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    I never knew what love was

    until I fell in it with him, did I ever really love my husband? I love him now yes but was I ever in love with him? I dont think I was and it couldn't hold a candle to what I feel for him.
    katharine8891 katharine8891
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    I am married for last 10 years.

    We are happy, we are good friends. But since we got married, my love was never his first priority, or some people are made to be worked up. We did not have children for 8 years. My husband has very less interest in sex, so over the time I also developed a disinterest, though...
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    I married a wonderful man 2 years ago.

    We have been together for 5. At the beginning of our relationship I had been seeing a married man but stopped. I was never able to forget the other man, but figured time would help. It has not. I have communicated with him via text and emails off and on for 2 years, but have not...
    Queenbee1960 Queenbee1960
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    What The Hell Am I Doing?

    I've been with my husband for 17 years. Although there have been some good times, the majority of our life together is hell on earth. He is very verbally abusive and I should have left years go. I don't love him - hell I don't even like him! About a month ago I was on...
    mmsnew mmsnew
    2 Responses May 27, 2013

    Not Sure What To Do, If Anything

    I could write more details if I'm sure I am being anonymous, which I may do in another area, since there are aspects to this that I don't feel comfortable sharing without anonymity.  I have been married for about 9 years and we have a 12 year old son together.  I was...
    angelsea angelsea
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2009
    daphneflower daphneflower
    36-40, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    I have been married for 5 years,

    together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went back for one reason or another. I wasn't seriously planning on a future with him in college, but after graduation I found myself...
    zkjk1112 zkjk1112
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2014

    I'm In Love With Our Best Man

    I can't explain how it happened but it did. Our best man has touched my soul and I'm questioning my marriage. I think I settled when I got married. But this man, who is still single, has shown me what real happiness is. He has changed my life, makes me want to be a better person...
    pisces1983 pisces1983
    5 Responses Jul 25, 2013

    In Love With Past Lover

    So several years back I lived in Michigan and during my stay I met a man I felt was my "love at first site". As we spent every moment we could together, many of our mutual friends were quite angered, maybe with a little jealousy as well. Everybody that saw us together could...
    flipfloppin flipfloppin
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2012


    So I got married, Had a baby and thought i was inlove, I learned over the years by being married and 3 kids later - I hate my life, Im stuck and cannot become unstuck because of fear finance, disgrace many reasons only married people will understand. I started to lead a double...
    Bangbaby16 Bangbaby16
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2012

    Paid!! Seeking Unhappy Married Couples!!

    * Have you Grown Apart from your Spouse, but still Live Together? * Have you hit a rough patch in your marriage, and trying to decide whether to work things out, or move on? * If you are an outgoing and opinionated married couple that have a long-standing argument or issue that...
    TFMCasting TFMCasting
    31-35, F
    Oct 22, 2013

    Okay, so the latest on this man.

    Nobody understands unless you were right there or knew the history (see my other stories).So last weekend I was around him. My son asked me to get him another cookie - haha- then he calls out at me to get him chips. So this man was standing near me my man of my dreams friend...
    wackywoman wackywoman
    1 Response Mar 17, 2014

    I'M A Married Woman In Love With Another Man

    I'm 33 and have been in 2 marriages both in which I married for stability. I was 19 in my first and 27 in my second. The first he was military and cheated numerous of times and now the second is also military. I knew I wasn't in love but didnt want to be a single parent. My...
    Kiki1128 Kiki1128
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

    I've been with my husband

    for 8 years... and officially married for only 1yr. He joined the military 1 yr before we got married and he's been away in another state for the past 3 years. We have 1 son about 2 years old. And i hate to say it but i started a fling with someone at work that I thought was a...
    callme77 callme77
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    My husband has been abusive

    for 21 yrs. We've been married for 18. He has a friend that expressed a interest in me 2 yrs ago and I've been seeing him ever since. He is so sweet and nothing like my husband. I want to leave but I am terrified he will find me. How can I get out without my husband tracking me...
    ginahunt3 ginahunt3
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    I'm In Love With Our Best Man

    I can't explain how it happened but it did. Our best man has touched my soul and I'm questioning my marriage. I think I settled when I got married. But this man, who is still single, has shown me what real happiness is. He has changed my life, makes me want to be a better person...
    pisces1983 pisces1983
    1 Response Jul 25, 2013

    I'm 33 years old and my husband is 55 years old.

    We've been married for 9 years. We don't have any kids. I meet this guy ( 35 yrs old ) at my workplace we have a mutual understanding, I should say a good connection. He is living with his girlfriend at his girlfriend's house. He said he don't like his girlfriend anymore...
    Emmaj2015 Emmaj2015
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    Just Ended A Newly Started Affair

    It all started from his admiration of attraction to me. Secretly asking for my phone number but I gave him an email address instead and we had communicated well through email and we had exchanges intimately until he finally got my number. We dated thrice but we just kissed we...
    oneesan14 oneesan14
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2012

    In Love With High School Crush

    I'm a 51 yr old woman, married for 33 years to the same man and have 3 grown children. Its the classic I love him but not in love. A year ago at a class reunion I ended up reconnecting with someone I had been with in high school. It was instant attraction for both of us, then...
    cyia9140 cyia9140
    56-60, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2013


    I have been married to my husband for 15 years this year. We do not have any children, as I have been able to successfully carry a child full term. My husband is good to me. I almost wish that weren't the case, then I might be able to leave him. This all started almost three...
    painfullymarried painfullymarried
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2013

    I'm having some marital problems

    and for the last year I don't know if my husband and I are just in a temporary crisis or whether we'll get through it. We split up for a little while a year ago and I started a relationship with another man who was also separated. We were together physically a few times but I...
    shoogabonbons shoogabonbons
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2015
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