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I Am a Masochist

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    Emotionally Drained

    It's tough. You've got to understand that. A history of abuse which stems from my own inciting. It's tough wanting something and then hating yourself for wanting it. I liken it to being on a diet. You want that piece of delicious, torturous cheesecake. You dig in, and for a...
    Amorialla Amorialla 18-21, F Aug 19, 2012

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    I Am A Masochist To Some Extent

    I like the physical pain within limits. Emotional pain I am completely against. I find the physical is a form of release for me. You tread in dangerous waters though in finding the right person to trust with this.
    sunbeam22 sunbeam22 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I Have A Job, Don't I?...

    I have a job, don't I?
    Whatever Whatever 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 4, 2007

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    Masochist

    I am a female masochist on my period and this is one of many story's... So there I was bored to death when online I found the perfect mistress so we arranged to be met. I went there straight away and we went to the cellar.in the cellar there was a bed but that was all I could see...
    Crazychick885288 Crazychick885288 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 4, 2013

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    The Punishment Bra

    As a student on a pretty strict budget, I am always looking for new ways to find pleasure through relatively inexpensive means. Being a masochist, I decided to google new methods of breast "torture". As I was scrolling through yet another lengthy page I discovered something...
    braunkar braunkar 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Am I An S Or An M

    So im confused and not sure. I've never had sex only tried to **********. And sometimes the pain feels so good (anything that does not leave scars/burns). But then the want to give the pain to someone else gets me confused. Also the thing about having a real sincere trustworthy...
    maruika maruika 18-21 1 Response Aug 11, 2013

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    Training Masochists

    First, pain is a sensory overload, but the source is pure raw energy. A metaphor for this is a multi-line telephone. You have 4 lines all engaged the the fifth person calls, that busy signal is pain. Add two more lines and you have more energy-information flowing in and at call...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    I Like It When It Hurts.

    Pain isn't a bad thing.  People think it's a bad thing, and it's not - not really.  Truth be told, intensity is what I crave.  Not pain specifically.  Pain is nothing if there's no intensity behind it.   But when there is, it's the most awesome...
    deleted deleted 26-30 16 Responses Nov 30, 2006

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    You Don't Deserve This

    My Master just left. When I text him and asked him if he was too busy to come over and beat and face **** me, he was here within 30 minutes. He uses a crop and a short whip, the crop feels great but the whip I find lacking usually. I asked him to get a cat 'o' nine tails , but he...
    beautifullytwisted beautifullytwisted 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    Trash Dumpster *****

    I have many childhood stories that I could share with you about how i found out who i am .. a submissive/masochist that is. My first memory would be with a neighborhood friend of mine. He was 2 years older than me. I was about 11 and he was around 13. Anyways, we got into a...
    MyssNikk MyssNikk 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 3, 2011

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    I wonder if I would ever be able to have a

    healthy relationship..I guess it's possible if you are a sadist male..but to be masochist ? any ideas..may a girl like me with this character ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 3

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    There is an element of masochism in the modern

    trend of body piercing and being covered in tattoos. This is especially true of those who have split tongues , implants etc.. Women rather than men tend to get very aroused by having such done to their bodies. Happy to discuss further in detail if you message me.
    peter13942 peter13942 70+, M 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am in my early twenties

    and live in the conservative South. I consider myself well- educated and ambitious. I also consider myself self-aware. For several years now I have realized my boredom with "vanilla" relationships and can only fantasize about the pain I crave. I've looked endlessly online...
    Paynedangel21 Paynedangel21 22-25 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I Need It.

    Its amazing what a few bites, scratches, cuts, and chokings could do to me in such a short time. I am a total submissive pup, and didn't even realize until hooking up with my girlfriend! Shes absolutely in love with it, being a sadomasochist herself, and is never surprised when I...
    WanderingAimlessly WanderingAimlessly 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    I'm Scared

    I am a masochist. Even when I was a kid, I knew how I felt about pain and humiliation---and I knew not to let other people see it in me. It didn’t scare me back then, it was just how things were…it was natural. But as I got older, I realized what I was, what I wanted, what...
    alyssa000 alyssa000 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    me and my boyfriend who have only dated

    for 7 months have been having sex for this long and when we first started it was nice love making sex nothing rough. as time went by we started trying new things at first he started slapping my butt, then he started pulling my hair and now every week or so I made it my goal to...
    kmram kmram 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24

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    Masochistic Child

    My youngest memory of masochism was when I was around 5. I would lay in bed at night pretending I was a captured girl on board a pirate ship. I imagined that i was locked in a tiny closet not being fed enough and being forced to eat and drink gross things. At this point, I...
    mabs0253 mabs0253 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    I Am Masochistic

    I am physically masochistic in the sense that i like actual pain and not sexually or mentally, i self harm often and for some reason take a lot of pleasure from it, And i wonder why everyone thinks im weird...
    KremKalashnikov KremKalashnikov 13-15, M Aug 6, 2013

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    Because I Love You

    It took a long time for me to share with her my needs and wants, and it took a lot longer for her to understand and then finally fulfil my need. The need is to experience real pain as part of our foreplay and teasing. When I have a bruise or welps I feel marked by her and proudly...
    lfweber lfweber 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Some time ago I posted "I Collect" in many

    experience groups. There was a link to a three page site ( www.icollectusedwomen.yolasite.com ) saying I collect women. Out of all these stories and groups and all these girls and women professing they want to be sex slaves or they want to runaway or they want to be used, I...
    ownerofmany ownerofmany 51-55, M Mar 1

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    I Can Think Of No Other Pleasure.

    I was ashamed and shocked at myself that I would want such things. Being raised in a Catholic family (still *try* to hold on to those beliefs) and by judgemental parents, I never thought that I would turn out this way. Maybe its because I was violently abused AND sexually abused...
    Idounn Idounn 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I am a masochist because: I like to have my

    *** spanked until it is so bruised that it is difficult for me to sit for a couple of days. I can ****** from ***** slapping. Give me enough hard slaps on my ***** especially my **** and the pain turns into pleasure until i am screaming my way to an ******. I love wearing...
    juanitam86 juanitam86 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Bad Feels So Good

    I am finally open about this. For so long I was in denial, but the truth is I love pain. I get off just thinking about spanking or getting spanked. If I accidentally hurt myself, I like it. It is a strange kind of feeling. My natural instincts tell me that pain is bad but my...
    Cutecolleen Cutecolleen 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    It's A Bit More Than Physical.

    I enjoy pain of all types, and with it the natural uncontrollable fear. I don't just want to feel pain, I don't just want you to slap me around or beat the **** out of me, I want to feel that I am less than you and that I have no power over you what so ever. I don't want to play...
    newki newki 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2010

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    My Pain For His Pleasure

    Im very submissive and even more passive and very shy and subconsious, but for me if i can just lie down somewhere why a man hurts me physically i get so much not sure if its pleasure or something else, maybe i want to hurt myself physically but i allow men to do it for me, (a...
    denise12345 denise12345 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 29, 2012

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    I Don't Care If You Think It Is Wrong

    This is who I am, and am not ashamed. A masochist needs the Sadist, and vice versa. The Sadist being the brush, and the masochist, His paint - Together they form an Art, so breathtaking, yet, sadly, often misunderstood.
    FuerDich FuerDich 31-35, F Oct 30, 2013

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    A Fantasy

    I don't know if I've awoken from sleep or if I've just blocked out the memories. All I know is this: I am terrified, I am restrained, and he stands over me. He doesn't have a weapon, but he doesn't need one. Hands tied together, he hauls me out of my bed and drags be from the...
    Amorialla Amorialla 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Newbee

    i am interested in meeting new people and being submissive.
    getnone1125 getnone1125 31-35, M Oct 10, 2013

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    So...recently I received a violation from

    experience project that made me feel as though there is something wrong with me after all for being the way I am. I admit 100 percent...there can be no denying it. I fully enjoy being inflicted with pain and humiliation. It's although my body is weird differently than the...
    DoeEyedOwl DoeEyedOwl 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I Am A Submissive Masochist.

    I'm from a small town, so I never really knew what this was. I always wanted to be the bad guy playing childhood games so I would get punished. Over the past couple years I've learned about masochism and from the first time I heard about it I knew it described me. I know a sadist...
    KisKat KisKat 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    The One Story I Have Never Told

    The best sex I have ever had was not memorable because of the person. But because of the things we did in that room on that night. We started by snorting an Oxy for each of us, and then we took a couple of hits from his bong. The room was dark, except for the small glow coming...
    meganloren meganloren 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I Fantasize My GF F*cKING Other Guys.

    I'm a bi male. And I love women (and love the sex with men). I get really intimate with my women and have long lasting relationships. However, I fantasize another guy f*king and making her c*um. It turns me on.. wtf?! I've had this with the past 3 girlfriends. I f*uckNg HATE the...
    AngleOfAttack AngleOfAttack 36-40, M Sep 23, 2013

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    Discoverance

    it was never apparent to me that i might be attracted to the idea of receiving pain or being uncomfortable or feeling vulnerable. it wasn't something i though of when i thought of sex. you never were shown the s&m **** magazines by your friends at the schools i went to. you...
    lostcancerian lostcancerian 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 1, 2007

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    ******

    There is nothing more intense for me than a pain driven ******. Sometimes it feels like I actually rise up out of my body.
    veralynn veralynn 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Submissive Wife Is Spanked Naked Outside The Bar (a Fantasy For Lexie- see the pictures in my profile)

    I'm standing in a circle with the other guys. We're just outside the bar, by the interstate. You had been flashing your *** and many pictures had been taken during the course of the evening. You invited a few of us for a private show outside, but many other men had been watching...
    mkha mkha 46-50, M 6 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    well ~ just ever so slightly masochistic ~

    needing a sexy girl to hit it and bite it and scratch it and cut it and burn it... ... ...
    vinvicau vinvicau 61-65, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm 75% sadistic and 25% masochist,

    though I thoroughly and greatly enjoy recieving pain issued in masculine fashion. I love inflicting pain (nothing damaging or permanent) on a masculine muscular male, but if a male (or group of males) can over power me, I can accept it like a man and take my punishment. There...
    MasterOfMuscle MasterOfMuscle 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I Love Being Scared

    Even as early as 8 years old I did self humiliating things to my self I was molested as a child for over a year after it stopped n the person got sent away. I had a imaginary man who would tell me to do self harm or humiliating things to myself for example pee on my self on...
    amanda95king amanda95king 18-21, F Oct 7, 2013

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    Wannabe Pet/Slave

    I don't have any fun stories about when I was younger and experimenting with pain, but I do want to and I hope they don't go too easy on me. I've been punched and kicked a bit, plus I've been scratched until bleeding, but it's always been in a sexual context and I want to try it...
    Peanuts75 Peanuts75 18-21, M Oct 18, 2013

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    Please Help, Could I Be?

    Please help me my mind has been in bits lately. I am not sure if I am a masochist...?? Let me start from where I think it started 5 years ago I met a guy who (even tho I am very pretty) would put me down. When I would turn up on his door step would say "well you could have...
    typicalangel typicalangel 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    I Am A Masochist

    When I was little (7-12) I had strange sexual fantasies about getting tied up, abused, raped. I would see images that seemed begin to my parents, like watching the princess in a Disney movie getting kidnapped, and it would arouse me. I used to go walking late at night alone...
    TwistedLullaby TwistedLullaby 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Pierced

    She wasn't my mistress or my lover; we never had sex and we had no ongoing relationship except getting high together. But she was obviously dominant and I fantasized about her a lot. It didn't matter that she was married, nor that she told me many times that she wasn't going to...
    marcodesade marcodesade 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2013

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    My Sick Fantasy Finally Fulfilled

    No one that knows me can ever read this... I don't want them to know I am as sick as I am. I promise you, I appear so normal... no one would ever know I have this side.... I'm just a hot girl you see and hit on - I've been called the girl next door. Compared to Jennifer Love...
    slavegirl311 slavegirl311 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 3, 2011

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    Another Flop

    Finally saw the potential good match again and it was just sad, now he's ignoring me which is ******* frustrating... Gone through another attempt at a normal relationship in the meanwhile.... What to do now? Give up looking for anything ... I'm literally just sleeping with who I...
    SilverStarsCrumble SilverStarsCrumble 18-21, F Nov 21, 2013

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    I knew there was a limited attraction to

    feeling pain. I hid it for years, but my ex-wife knew about it and enjoyed spanking and beating my *** with a belt. As we drifted apart, she made it clear my submissive nature needed to blossom more than with her boyfriends and her. She set up a weekend for me to meet a domme...
    donn2 donn2 61-65, M Apr 15

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    No Secret

    It's really no secret to my friends that I'm into bdsm, bondage and masochism. I had one relationship that was bondage oriented and another that was more on the sadomasochistic side.  Both were very enjoyable in that aspect. When it comes to pain, I have a low pain tolerance...
    MasochistMonday MasochistMonday 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    I Cant Help It

    There's like a million and one things that im kinda into and pain is one of them. Not all types but most, i get a real kick from being cut and hit and go crazy when im held back. This doesn't have to apply to to bed room but outside to. Im the person that would kick some butt in...
    DesignXrejected DesignXrejected 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I Like Being Whipped And Hit With Carpet Strips

    I am from Scotland My mum left my dad when i was 9 years old. He was a violent alcoholic. My dad used to beat the hell out of me when he was drunk He used to to get me out of bed at night and start hitting me. He would lift me up by ankle and smack my buttocks so hard I would...
    lukesex lukesex 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2013

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    I am always thinking about getting beat up real

    hard mostly by a lover(though i don't have one). And the visuals are really brutal and also gory and lead to death sometimes. I "get off" on these fantasies. It is very much sexual for me. Violence (on me) has been connected to my sexual desire. I don't know what to do?
    agha09 agha09 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 31

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    The Needle Experiment

    Lately, I have been trying out new things when it comes to giving myself painful and pleasurable experiences. So I decided to take a little trip to my local surgical supply store. While there, I purchased a box of 100 18 gauge syringe needles. The second I got home, I just had...
    braunkar braunkar 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    I'm Very Innocent Looking But Very Sick In My Masochistic Desires :)

    This is a very enlightening and very hot forum, I thought I'd share a bit of my experiences and interests. I've loved painful, humiliating sex for as long as I can remember. I've had memberships for many years to extreme websites, the contents of which would give the average...
    LittleGenius85 LittleGenius85 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 17, 2012

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    Never Thought I'd Go There

    I enjoy video and images of genital torture, and how often I work the edge of pain to pleasure when ************, don’t like the idea or images of mutilation or permanent injury, but binding, pinching, squeezing and smacking my genitals I've found very arousing when...
    1youngfool 1youngfool 56-60, M Oct 12, 2013

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    Introducing Myself

    Hi all! My name is Nikki or Nicole and I am a 25 year old college student .. I also bar tend at a local pub part time. I hate these first intros because of two annoying reasons.. one, it feels like a personal ad and two, you have the pressure to make that damned first impression...
    MyssNikk MyssNikk 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2011

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