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I Am a Messy Person

Messy Room, Messy House, Messy Self, Messy Life. 432 People

    Forever Messy...

    Is there a story to my being messy? I kind of never learnt to clean or tidy up... my mother never had the time to teach me when I was a kid, though she did yell at me when I would create mess. I learn to clean from my friend's older sister, and in fact I would clean the house...
    Dana909 Dana909 36-40, F Oct 6, 2012

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    In Denial, But Then...

    Oh dear. I was so in denial about how messy I was until I tried to tidy up yesterday...its going to take a skip to get rid of this lot of rubbish!! I'm also messy in mind...I don't think I shall ever be organised. I have random thoughts floating about everywhere and no way of...
    specialben specialben 18-21 Aug 6, 2009

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    Too Much

    I too am very messy. Not dirty, but messy. haha. It drives my husband insane. But I have school & two kids. Not to mention, I grew up in a small house with only 6 room house. (2 bed 1 bath) and now live in a 11 room house. (5 bed 2 bath) And the rooms are all much bigger than...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2008

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    Next semester I'm trying to be more organize.

    I'm the type of person to always forget important things 🙊 blah.
    Timona Timona 18-21, F May 24

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    I Have Too Many Books And Papers

    I was talking to a friend and was reminded about messy anonymous--I had forgotten that I signed up for this series of online groupsI have been trying to get rid of things every since 1979 but until about a year plus ago I was not making much progress but I got jammed up but...
    catxa302 catxa302 26-30 Mar 20, 2012

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    I Am Extremely Disorganized, Messy, Lazy And Frustrated!

    Hi, I am not a hoarder, I have absolutely no problem throwing things away. Unfortunately, I think I am just lazy :( I am a hard worker at my job, have good relationships, but for some reason cannot seem to keep a clean house. I will get it cleaned, love it, but when I get home...
    ens1313 ens1313 22-25 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    I Am a Very, Very Messy Person

    Over the course of the last 6 years I have worked full time (4 as an educational aide, 2 as a Special Education teacher) and gone to school full time. I first earned an Associate degree, then a Bachelors degree in Elementary Education (and Special Education), and now a Master's...
    allgr8dogs allgr8dogs 51-55 1 Response Jul 21, 2009

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    Born Messy

    Somebody got a look inside my car today.  My god I still trying to get over the embarrasment! My art supplies were spllled all over the front seat.  Beads, pipe cleaners fliers oh my!  The back seat was filled to the room with boxes of stuff. I have been this way...
    messinprogress messinprogress 36-40 1 Response Sep 21, 2008

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    Mess And More Mess

    I just broke up with a neat freak. It was hard I wonder if my messynesss is some kind of coping mechanism? or is a reflection of my selfworth and how do you fix it i do want to be clean happy and eventually married
    newlife78 newlife78 31-35, F Sep 26, 2012

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    Not Clean Not Dirty

    i am not a dirty person but im also not clean.. i am messy and i dont do well cleaning up after myself.. but i dont make big messes.. I try to help everyone as much as i can.. So wheni do make a mess i at least try to clean it up.. i dont know where im going with this so thats...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Jan 27, 2013

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    It's not that I hate cleaning my room.

    .. It's that I HATE cleaning my room...
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 18-21, M Feb 1

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    my house is in a constant mess (not dirty) i

    drop everything at my back including clothes, plates, cups,glasses, shoes, handbags basically everything. Although i have a dishwasher my kitchen always has dirty dishes lying around. my bedroom gets everything dumped in it both on the bed and the floor as does my hall. I...
    jacquimacf jacquimacf 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Im Messy!!

    i dont know why im messy, i just am!!! mess just seems to build up around me!!! i have always been this way, right from when i was a kid, but i plan to change, cos in a few years time when i move out into my own place, im going to need to be a bit more tidy, or else my flat...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2010

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    Problematic Mess

    i have always had a problem with being tidy, but since having my child, and my partner started back to work it has become very problematic. before when my partner didnt work he did most housework and there was no problem. now he has started back to work, he believes i should be...
    twinkle001 twinkle001 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    If It Ain't On The Floor It's Lost!

    A classic example: I just realized my camera is flat. I keep the charger in a box with all it's other bits and things for my phone. I tipped the box out on the spare bed and it will stay there! I like to think of it as an organized mess. I know exactly where everything is (When...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2010

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    Unfortunately

    I'm working on it, though.  Not necessarily succesfully, but I'm working on it.
    SilverLily SilverLily 22-25, F Oct 25, 2009

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    But it is controlled messyness.

    I always know where everything i need os when i need it, that is unless someone decides to clean it up and put everything away. Then that just fu*ks up my system -.-
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 11

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    I Wish I Could Be A Cleaner Person

    I cleaned the house about 3 days ago, and it is a mess today.  It's not fun waking up to maggots crawling on the floor.  So here I am cleaning up the place again and I just can't understand why I can't keep a clean home?  This is close to ruining my marriage! I...
    delilah34 delilah34 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    Frustrated With a Messy Person

    I have been married to a wonderful, beautiful woman for twenty five years. She is a a good Christian woman, a good wife, a great parent and a loving,  caring person. The problem is she is a messy person and an incredible collector of junk.  It gives me great...
    minot minot 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    Messy Rooms

    My girlfriend didn't want me in her room because it was too dirty..... Then I showed her my room :)
    JaredJennings JaredJennings 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Hopeless

    Shoes, clothes, magazines, books, socks, purses, stuffed animals, pillows, half used bottles of body lotion, make-up, pieces of paper I've scribbled on, water bottles, hairbrushes, to-do-lists I never live by, pens, pencils, hair pins, ear rings, my bright pink towel, my bath...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Oct 19, 2011

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    Messy Mayhem

    I wish I had a lovely lived in place, not too perfect, (messies are too smart to spend their entire essence creating rooms of museum quality) I wonder what others are doing to "overcome" this personal problem? Please post a comment explaining what works for you, even if it is...
    rachelzed2004 rachelzed2004 36-40 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    Not Dirty

    i'm not a dirty person, just quite messy. i tend to not pick up after myself when i get something out, and laundry just gets in the way. i also keep way to much stuff. i think i'll be able to use everything someday. so not only am i messy but cluttery. thank god, my fiance is the...
    scooper scooper 26-30, F Dec 11, 2008

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    A Horrible Mess In A Beautiful House

    My potentially beautiful little cottage home is a terrible mess.  I live in California and. if there ever is a huge earthquake here, I would not die from things falling on me.  I would die tripping over all the junk on the floor beside my bed and hitting my head on the wall...
    arroyavemia arroyavemia 56-60 Mar 12, 2011

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Just Have Such A Messy House Car And Purse

    Being so unorganized and messy is driving me insane!!
    need2clean need2clean 31-35, F Oct 13, 2013

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    Unfortunately For My Husband

    I annoy the hell out of my husband with my messy ways! He's always fallin over something I have left lying around or cleaning up after me - OOPS! I do always mean to be tidy but then I get on EP and forget, or turn the TV on and start watching something, I guess I'm just easily...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    What A Dump!

    There are three flights of stairs totaling eighteen steps leading from the sidewalk to the front door of my house. Upon entering, there is a living room to the right and a dining room to the left. You are unable to walk into either room without moving boxes or furniture. The...
    MessyMiz MessyMiz 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    I Wish I Were Neat

      I do not understand why I am such a messy person.  My kids do not understand what keeping a house clean means because the home they live in never has been picked up and neat.  I hate this about myself.  It branches out into every aspect of my life. ...
    pleaseclean pleaseclean 26-30 3 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hey everyone. I just wanted to post this because I got a lot of comfort reading everyone elses experiences on the messy roommate topic. I am writing this also for myself as one...
    grilldchz grilldchz 22-25 4 days ago

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    My hair is always messy in the morning especially now that I have short hair. My hair is curly so it has a mind of it's own!! I miss my long hair because when it was messy I could...
    ashricard ashricard 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    but it really bothers all of us! Has anyone here managed to turn a messy home into a tidier cleaner one? Can you share your ideas / experiences?
    magicriver magicriver 36-40 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Haha, my boobs always get in the way and I'm constantly dripping stuff down my front when I eat soup and stuff like that. The worst had to be when I was at a business lunch and I...
    Beccabux Beccabux 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    Sitting in messy pants :) if anyone has any stories you can just message them to me
    girl12345678910 girl12345678910 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    My dog :P He is reaaaaaaally messy! He keeps leaving dog bone all over the room! And books! And clothes! And other stuff! Ok, maybe that last part was me, but still!!!
    Firtreegirl Firtreegirl 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I believe everything happens for a reason; both the good and the bad. I have a pretty simple home life: my parents are still married, everyone in my house has a job, we have all...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I feel odd about the title of such, as I don't relate to the term "disorder", but I would call it more of a fragmented personality? Idk all of my aspects of what makes me who I am...
    Jaideiris Jaideiris 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    And I am not going to change it. One is the cold-hearted killer one that wants to destroy everything. One is all rainbow and sunshine and wants to help everyone. One is the...
    DarknessFalls101 DarknessFalls101 13-15, F 21 hrs ago

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    After a discovery that my former roomate/co worker had placed a hidden camera in my bedroom for 2 months and was recording me 'I am not the person I use to be'. I soon...
    adoremii adoremii 22-25, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I suffer with a personality disorder and am currently in a psychiatric unit getting help. I feel like no one understands or wants to and every day I just feel lonely. It's really...
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Why ! Why ! Why ! Is there any curious person like me ?
    nicky85 nicky85 26-30, F 18 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I believe I am a sensitive person, I notice things get to me so much more easily than they do for most people, if I see someone starving for example or someone being bullied at I...
    heavensbluerose heavensbluerose 22-25, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I'm an open person:P (But obviously not stuff like my address and all that shiz..if you ask that be prepared for a sarcastic answer :3)
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    I used to be a extremely sensitive person until one day when I realized I was being played the whole time. Now in relationships I find nearly impossible to "open up" or share my...
    ESaur ESaur 13-15, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm worried that I have some sort of failure gene or part of my brain that wants me to fail as a person. I have done nothing worthwhile these last 7 years. Who let's their life...
    Handyman25 Handyman25 22-25, M 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    People try to bring you up all the time and make you laugh and its just a waste of time, im always just gonna a sad person
    tggggg tggggg 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Lillafyq Lillafyq 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I never really thought of myself as terrible, but I'm realizing more and more that people really don't like my attitude or the way I am. I'm told not to talk back or make crude...
    DomoNagron DomoNagron 22-25, F Aug 6

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    The Persona series has influenced me a great deal, and I mean seriously a great deal. I played Persona 3 Portable back when I was in high school (I'm almost done with university...
    baconette baconette 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Time to share my story of Multiple Personality Disorder(MPD). I know, in my case, this is more commonly known as a Teenage Identity Crisis, but I'd like to refer it as MPD. So...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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