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I Am a Messy Person

Messy Room, Messy House, Messy Self, Messy Life. 417 People

    Messy Mayhem

    I wish I had a lovely lived in place, not too perfect, (messies are too smart to spend their entire essence creating rooms of museum quality) I wonder what others are doing to "overcome" this personal problem? Please post a comment explaining what works for you, even if it is...
    rachelzed2004 rachelzed2004 36-40 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    I Wish I Could Be A Cleaner Person

    I cleaned the house about 3 days ago, and it is a mess today.  It's not fun waking up to maggots crawling on the floor.  So here I am cleaning up the place again and I just can't understand why I can't keep a clean home?  This is close to ruining my marriage! I...
    delilah34 delilah34 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    Just Have Such A Messy House Car And Purse

    Being so unorganized and messy is driving me insane!!
    need2clean need2clean 31-35, F Oct 13, 2013

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    Next semester I'm trying to be more organize.

    I'm the type of person to always forget important things 🙊 blah.
    Timona Timona 18-21, F May 24

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    my house is in a constant mess (not dirty) i

    drop everything at my back including clothes, plates, cups,glasses, shoes, handbags basically everything. Although i have a dishwasher my kitchen always has dirty dishes lying around. my bedroom gets everything dumped in it both on the bed and the floor as does my hall. I...
    jacquimacf jacquimacf 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    Messy Rooms

    My girlfriend didn't want me in her room because it was too dirty..... Then I showed her my room :)
    JaredJennings JaredJennings 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    I Am Extremely Disorganized, Messy, Lazy And Frustrated!

    Hi, I am not a hoarder, I have absolutely no problem throwing things away. Unfortunately, I think I am just lazy :( I am a hard worker at my job, have good relationships, but for some reason cannot seem to keep a clean house. I will get it cleaned, love it, but when I get home...
    ens1313 ens1313 22-25 11 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    Unfortunately For My Husband

    I annoy the hell out of my husband with my messy ways! He's always fallin over something I have left lying around or cleaning up after me - OOPS! I do always mean to be tidy but then I get on EP and forget, or turn the TV on and start watching something, I guess I'm just easily...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    Hopeless

    Shoes, clothes, magazines, books, socks, purses, stuffed animals, pillows, half used bottles of body lotion, make-up, pieces of paper I've scribbled on, water bottles, hairbrushes, to-do-lists I never live by, pens, pencils, hair pins, ear rings, my bright pink towel, my bath...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Oct 19, 2011

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    Unfortunately

    I'm working on it, though.  Not necessarily succesfully, but I'm working on it.
    SilverLily SilverLily 22-25, F Oct 25, 2009

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    Born Messy

    Somebody got a look inside my car today.  My god I still trying to get over the embarrasment! My art supplies were spllled all over the front seat.  Beads, pipe cleaners fliers oh my!  The back seat was filled to the room with boxes of stuff. I have been this way...
    messinprogress messinprogress 36-40 1 Response Sep 21, 2008

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    Frustrated With a Messy Person

    I have been married to a wonderful, beautiful woman for twenty five years. She is a a good Christian woman, a good wife, a great parent and a loving,  caring person. The problem is she is a messy person and an incredible collector of junk.  It gives me great...
    minot minot 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    It's not that I hate cleaning my room.

    .. It's that I HATE cleaning my room...
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 18-21, M Feb 1

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    A Horrible Mess In A Beautiful House

    My potentially beautiful little cottage home is a terrible mess.  I live in California and. if there ever is a huge earthquake here, I would not die from things falling on me.  I would die tripping over all the junk on the floor beside my bed and hitting my head on the wall...
    arroyavemia arroyavemia 56-60 Mar 12, 2011

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    I Am a Very, Very Messy Person

    Over the course of the last 6 years I have worked full time (4 as an educational aide, 2 as a Special Education teacher) and gone to school full time. I first earned an Associate degree, then a Bachelors degree in Elementary Education (and Special Education), and now a Master's...
    allgr8dogs allgr8dogs 51-55 1 Response Jul 21, 2009

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    But there is a method to my mesyness,

    i always know where everything is, whether its a charger, a dvd/disc, or my cat :) besides its ot really that messy.and most things are in drawers lol
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 17

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    Not Clean Not Dirty

    i am not a dirty person but im also not clean.. i am messy and i dont do well cleaning up after myself.. but i dont make big messes.. I try to help everyone as much as i can.. So wheni do make a mess i at least try to clean it up.. i dont know where im going with this so thats...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Jan 27, 2013

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    Not Dirty

    i'm not a dirty person, just quite messy. i tend to not pick up after myself when i get something out, and laundry just gets in the way. i also keep way to much stuff. i think i'll be able to use everything someday. so not only am i messy but cluttery. thank god, my fiance is the...
    scooper scooper 26-30, F Dec 11, 2008

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    Mess And More Mess

    I just broke up with a neat freak. It was hard I wonder if my messynesss is some kind of coping mechanism? or is a reflection of my selfworth and how do you fix it i do want to be clean happy and eventually married
    newlife78 newlife78 31-35, F Sep 26, 2012

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    Forever Messy...

    Is there a story to my being messy? I kind of never learnt to clean or tidy up... my mother never had the time to teach me when I was a kid, though she did yell at me when I would create mess. I learn to clean from my friend's older sister, and in fact I would clean the house...
    Dana909 Dana909 36-40, F Oct 6, 2012

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    Im Messy!!

    i dont know why im messy, i just am!!! mess just seems to build up around me!!! i have always been this way, right from when i was a kid, but i plan to change, cos in a few years time when i move out into my own place, im going to need to be a bit more tidy, or else my flat...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2010

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    In Denial, But Then...

    Oh dear. I was so in denial about how messy I was until I tried to tidy up yesterday...its going to take a skip to get rid of this lot of rubbish!! I'm also messy in mind...I don't think I shall ever be organised. I have random thoughts floating about everywhere and no way of...
    specialben specialben 18-21 Aug 6, 2009

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    What A Dump!

    There are three flights of stairs totaling eighteen steps leading from the sidewalk to the front door of my house. Upon entering, there is a living room to the right and a dining room to the left. You are unable to walk into either room without moving boxes or furniture. The...
    MessyMiz MessyMiz 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    If It Ain't On The Floor It's Lost!

    A classic example: I just realized my camera is flat. I keep the charger in a box with all it's other bits and things for my phone. I tipped the box out on the spare bed and it will stay there! I like to think of it as an organized mess. I know exactly where everything is (When...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2010

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    I Have Too Many Books And Papers

    I was talking to a friend and was reminded about messy anonymous--I had forgotten that I signed up for this series of online groupsI have been trying to get rid of things every since 1979 but until about a year plus ago I was not making much progress but I got jammed up but...
    catxa302 catxa302 26-30 Mar 20, 2012

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    I Wish I Were Neat

      I do not understand why I am such a messy person.  My kids do not understand what keeping a house clean means because the home they live in never has been picked up and neat.  I hate this about myself.  It branches out into every aspect of my life. ...
    pleaseclean pleaseclean 26-30 3 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    Problematic Mess

    i have always had a problem with being tidy, but since having my child, and my partner started back to work it has become very problematic. before when my partner didnt work he did most housework and there was no problem. now he has started back to work, he believes i should be...
    twinkle001 twinkle001 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    Too Much

    I too am very messy. Not dirty, but messy. haha. It drives my husband insane. But I have school & two kids. Not to mention, I grew up in a small house with only 6 room house. (2 bed 1 bath) and now live in a 11 room house. (5 bed 2 bath) And the rooms are all much bigger than...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    So I just started watching anime again recently and I wanted to watch some real-life problem related anime and I found one called Welcome To The N.H.K. The anime is about a person...
    ShesGottaBeTheOne ShesGottaBeTheOne 18-21, M Jul 19

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    Messy hair don't care. 💁
    insouciant insouciant 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Writing is a hobby of mine and any author knows that its messy business. An author can find inspiration in anything. Say they go out for coffee and see someone with blue hair and...
    ElizaKate ElizaKate 16-17, F Jul 14

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    Trailer not house. Was already messy. Need a batallion of maids. Or. Wait. Kids may read this. Must be age thoughtful. Lmao.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    It's not by choice, I just live with 3 super messy family members :/
    getbehindmesatan getbehindmesatan 18-21, F Jul 22

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    I am getting fed up of always clearing up after others. MY girlfriend and her daughter are the messiest and scruffiest people I have ever known. I spend hours cleaning up the house...
    unidentifieduser2014 unidentifieduser2014 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sometimes this is my downfall.....I have a very heated temper when it comes to standing up for what I'm passionate about. I can be quite a handful at times....because of this I've...
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 2

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    I am more than one person. It sounds weird when I say that out loud. I don't know how it started, and I don't know how to stop it. There me and there's the mad man who pesters me...
    LePaw LePaw 16-17, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    People suffer from personal injuries every single day. Whether it is at home or in the grocery store, you can be a victim any day. However, in order to get compensated for your...
    neinsteinassociates neinsteinassociates 26-30, M Jul 7

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    It's interesting that the Japanese tv dramas always like the stories about people with double sides of personality. It's like, the same person, but in one period of time is being...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F Jul 12

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    I meet many people either in person or online and the one thing I like to do is get to know them. The most amazing thing about meeting people is the process of getting to know them...
    1petitegreeneyes 1petitegreeneyes 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Personal injury attorneys help people that have sustained injuries from others. In a lot of cases, the lawyers must work on battling vehicle owners or insurance companies. When you...
    neinsteinassociates neinsteinassociates 26-30, M Jul 17

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    My personality type: ISFJ (Introversion, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) ISFJ Strengths Very supportive. ISFJs are always willing to help other people, sharing their knowledge and...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    And not just an averagely good person. I am a damn good person. I have done more for people than most people would ever do for them. I have gone through great lengths to make...
    akrysrose akrysrose 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Loving the wrong person We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us, but if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right...
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I would really like to get a better understanding on this. I can only read so much before I want to talk to those that have experience on the subject. I've been in a relationship...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M a week ago

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    I don't think I'm a bad human being, I just think that the things I do can be pretty unforgivable sometimes. Maybe it's my teenage years, or my lack of experience or lack of...
    Cue0811 Cue0811 18-21 5 days ago

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    Since I'm the only person in this category thus far, I suppose I'll explain what this means for me. For as long as I can remember, I have subconsciously assigned personalities to...
    Visola Visola 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I find life full of surprises but I find it funny in the idea of how people can come on here and vent and every reader falls on their pity party they are having within themselves...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    So I did the personality test (http://www.16personalities.com) too like many people have and I was suprised by how well certain aspects fit me 0.o I always felt like not many...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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