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I Am a Messy Person

Messy Room, Messy House, Messy Self, Messy Life. 440 People

    Problematic Mess

    i have always had a problem with being tidy, but since having my child, and my partner started back to work it has become very problematic. before when my partner didnt work he did most housework and there was no problem. now he has started back to work, he believes i should be...
    twinkle001 twinkle001 26-30 1 Response Apr 21, 2009

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    A Horrible Mess In A Beautiful House

    My potentially beautiful little cottage home is a terrible mess.  I live in California and. if there ever is a huge earthquake here, I would not die from things falling on me.  I would die tripping over all the junk on the floor beside my bed and hitting my head on the wall...
    arroyavemia arroyavemia 56-60 Mar 12, 2011

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    It's not that I hate cleaning my room.

    .. It's that I HATE cleaning my room...
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 18-21, M Feb 1, 2014

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    I bought a house because I did not like

    cleaning y room and was tired off listening to my mother. Stayed on same planet so I still listen to her. I have too many flat surfaces in this house, too many place to put thing down and not away; clothes, dishes, tools, shoes, in progress projects. Please leave my mess alone...
    Scott1954 Scott1954 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I Am Extremely Disorganized, Messy, Lazy And Frustrated!

    Hi, I am not a hoarder, I have absolutely no problem throwing things away. Unfortunately, I think I am just lazy :( I am a hard worker at my job, have good relationships, but for some reason cannot seem to keep a clean house. I will get it cleaned, love it, but when I get home...
    ens1313 ens1313 22-25 16 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    Messy Mayhem

    I wish I had a lovely lived in place, not too perfect, (messies are too smart to spend their entire essence creating rooms of museum quality) I wonder what others are doing to "overcome" this personal problem? Please post a comment explaining what works for you, even if it is...
    rachelzed2004 rachelzed2004 36-40 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    If It Ain't On The Floor It's Lost!

    A classic example: I just realized my camera is flat. I keep the charger in a box with all it's other bits and things for my phone. I tipped the box out on the spare bed and it will stay there! I like to think of it as an organized mess. I know exactly where everything is (When...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2010

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    I actually like tidiness

    and things looking right. In fact I'm perfectionistic over a certain thing I do. But somehow I still end up with a mess. Especially with crafts. My hands are just too big and I'm just too messy. Things don't go where I want and how I want them. Ever since I was a kid I've...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 May 13

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    Unfortunately

    I'm working on it, though.  Not necessarily succesfully, but I'm working on it.
    SilverLily SilverLily 22-25, F Oct 25, 2009

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    Not Dirty

    i'm not a dirty person, just quite messy. i tend to not pick up after myself when i get something out, and laundry just gets in the way. i also keep way to much stuff. i think i'll be able to use everything someday. so not only am i messy but cluttery. thank god, my fiance is the...
    scooper scooper 26-30, F Dec 11, 2008

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    Too Much

    I too am very messy. Not dirty, but messy. haha. It drives my husband insane. But I have school & two kids. Not to mention, I grew up in a small house with only 6 room house. (2 bed 1 bath) and now live in a 11 room house. (5 bed 2 bath) And the rooms are all much bigger than...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2008

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    I try to do crafts...

    it ends up all over my hands and absolutely everywhere. Ended up wasting half of the craft kit over my hands and on the craft which I will have to throw away. I just am incredibly unskilled and messy. I envy those who on YouTube videos are so clean and the craft does as they...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response May 13

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    Forever Messy...

    Is there a story to my being messy? I kind of never learnt to clean or tidy up... my mother never had the time to teach me when I was a kid, though she did yell at me when I would create mess. I learn to clean from my friend's older sister, and in fact I would clean the house...
    Dana909 Dana909 36-40, F Oct 6, 2012

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    seasand77 seasand77 26-30, M May 11

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    I Wish I Could Be A Cleaner Person

    I cleaned the house about 3 days ago, and it is a mess today.  It's not fun waking up to maggots crawling on the floor.  So here I am cleaning up the place again and I just can't understand why I can't keep a clean home?  This is close to ruining my marriage! I...
    delilah34 delilah34 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    My attempt just now at whipple.

    Notice whipple all over fake fruit and over my hands (it's ten times worse on my right hand which isn't shown). Went all over and didn't do as I wanted. I really wanted this set and really wanted to give it a go...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response May 13

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    my house is in a constant mess (not dirty) i

    drop everything at my back including clothes, plates, cups,glasses, shoes, handbags basically everything. Although i have a dishwasher my kitchen always has dirty dishes lying around. my bedroom gets everything dumped in it both on the bed and the floor as does my hall. I...
    jacquimacf jacquimacf 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2014

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    Born Messy

    Somebody got a look inside my car today.  My god I still trying to get over the embarrasment! My art supplies were spllled all over the front seat.  Beads, pipe cleaners fliers oh my!  The back seat was filled to the room with boxes of stuff. I have been this way...
    messinprogress messinprogress 36-40 1 Response Sep 21, 2008

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    Im Messy!!

    i dont know why im messy, i just am!!! mess just seems to build up around me!!! i have always been this way, right from when i was a kid, but i plan to change, cos in a few years time when i move out into my own place, im going to need to be a bit more tidy, or else my flat...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2010

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    In terms of tidiness elsewhere I can tidy the

    best I can but somehow it ends to havoc again. My floor is a mess. I never know where to put things! Tidiness means boxes and searching if I want to find anything. I like tidiness but it ends up back to a huge mess again. I actually find tidiness annoying sometimes because it...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 May 13

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    I Wish I Were Neat

      I do not understand why I am such a messy person.  My kids do not understand what keeping a house clean means because the home they live in never has been picked up and neat.  I hate this about myself.  It branches out into every aspect of my life. ...
    pleaseclean pleaseclean 26-30 3 Responses Aug 10, 2009

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    Not Clean Not Dirty

    i am not a dirty person but im also not clean.. i am messy and i dont do well cleaning up after myself.. but i dont make big messes.. I try to help everyone as much as i can.. So wheni do make a mess i at least try to clean it up.. i dont know where im going with this so thats...
    HeartAndWings HeartAndWings 16-17, F Jan 27, 2013

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7, 2014

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    Messy Rooms

    My girlfriend didn't want me in her room because it was too dirty..... Then I showed her my room :)
    JaredJennings JaredJennings 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    What A Dump!

    There are three flights of stairs totaling eighteen steps leading from the sidewalk to the front door of my house. Upon entering, there is a living room to the right and a dining room to the left. You are unable to walk into either room without moving boxes or furniture. The...
    MessyMiz MessyMiz 61-65, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Mess And More Mess

    I just broke up with a neat freak. It was hard I wonder if my messynesss is some kind of coping mechanism? or is a reflection of my selfworth and how do you fix it i do want to be clean happy and eventually married
    newlife78 newlife78 31-35, F Sep 26, 2012

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    In Denial, But Then...

    Oh dear. I was so in denial about how messy I was until I tried to tidy up yesterday...its going to take a skip to get rid of this lot of rubbish!! I'm also messy in mind...I don't think I shall ever be organised. I have random thoughts floating about everywhere and no way of...
    specialben specialben 18-21 Aug 6, 2009

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    Next semester I'm trying to be more organize.

    I'm the type of person to always forget important things 🙊 blah.
    Timona Timona 18-21, F May 24, 2014

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    Frustrated With a Messy Person

    I have been married to a wonderful, beautiful woman for twenty five years. She is a a good Christian woman, a good wife, a great parent and a loving,  caring person. The problem is she is a messy person and an incredible collector of junk.  It gives me great...
    minot minot 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 2, 2009

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    I Am a Very, Very Messy Person

    Over the course of the last 6 years I have worked full time (4 as an educational aide, 2 as a Special Education teacher) and gone to school full time. I first earned an Associate degree, then a Bachelors degree in Elementary Education (and Special Education), and now a Master's...
    allgr8dogs allgr8dogs 51-55 1 Response Jul 21, 2009

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    Just Have Such A Messy House Car And Purse

    Being so unorganized and messy is driving me insane!!
    need2clean need2clean 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    I Have Too Many Books And Papers

    I was talking to a friend and was reminded about messy anonymous--I had forgotten that I signed up for this series of online groupsI have been trying to get rid of things every since 1979 but until about a year plus ago I was not making much progress but I got jammed up but...
    catxa302 catxa302 26-30 Mar 20, 2012

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    Unfortunately For My Husband

    I annoy the hell out of my husband with my messy ways! He's always fallin over something I have left lying around or cleaning up after me - OOPS! I do always mean to be tidy but then I get on EP and forget, or turn the TV on and start watching something, I guess I'm just easily...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 21, 2008

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    Hopeless

    Shoes, clothes, magazines, books, socks, purses, stuffed animals, pillows, half used bottles of body lotion, make-up, pieces of paper I've scribbled on, water bottles, hairbrushes, to-do-lists I never live by, pens, pencils, hair pins, ear rings, my bright pink towel, my bath...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Oct 19, 2011

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