I Am A Military Girlfriend Looking For Frinds Who Understand

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    HELP!!!!! so my boyfriend is coming home soon

    from basic training and I was wondering if you guys could help me with his present? I got this idea from another milso here and well could you take a picture (doesn't natter how the picture is selfie, with other people etc.) saying Evelyn loves you from (your state) and send it...
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have had a lot of issues

    over the past year and it was hard to pinpoint exactly why, through great communication yesterday he was able to open up to me and said there are times where everything can be 100% wonderful in our relationship and I (meaning me) could do nothing wrong but something in his brain...
    kat115nk kat115nk
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    Hey guys! i just joined the experience project

    because my boyfriend just got deployed two days ago to the middle east for six months. I just want to be able to talk to any of you guys going through the same or similar things. and i want any of you to feel free to talk to me as well. Hopefully joining this site will be good...
    Livingit69 Livingit69
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2016

    Hoping to be a military wife by next summer :))

    at least according to the hubby lol
    Mac2109 Mac2109
    26-30, F
    Jan 28, 2014

    Idk what happend. I was doing

    so good yesterday. I don't even wanna get out of bed now. I miss her so much. I'm all alone. I have no friends or family where I'm at. (Day 5)
    armygf227 armygf227
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2015

    Technically, right now I'm no longer a

    girlfriend... My marine and I fell in love very quickly and very intensely and knew it was it for both of us from the beginning.... Neither of us had ever felt such an amazing connection and we were always on the exact same page-he even talked about our wedding some day and how...
    Slk23 Slk23
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 25, 2015

    milsos, if any of you have IG follow

    @loveinabox.care for a chance to win a free cuatomed candle or a carepackage
    loveyoulizz loveyoulizz
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    My boyfriend left for deployment this morning

    and I'm definitely having a hard time dealing with it. he's gonna be gone for 6 months I know it is long. but it feels like forever its the longest that we have ever been away from each other and I can't stop crying.. does it ever get easier . we've been together for almost 2...
    sophiamarie23 sophiamarie23
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    Got my first letters today finally.

    So proud and so in love <3333
    AnaValencia AnaValencia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    Hi girls! I am currently going crazy right now.

    My boyfriend's deployment is extended and we were supposed to get married. I have spoken to my boss, told her i'm quitting my job because I need to move to another country so we can get married on his station. But after all those things I did to resign, he suddenly messages me...
    Pearlqueen00 Pearlqueen00
    Mar 1, 2016

    Hello, I am new at this .

    .dating a Sailor and it's been a rough few months. Would be great to chat to anyone having the same experience. How to get through the hard times when you cry yourself to sleep..?
    Venusaphrodite7 Venusaphrodite7
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    I just got another letter from my soldier

    but she said she's still hasn't gotten one letter from me or her family. Only an card that we sent went she first left. This broke my heart because I've been sender her 2 letters everyday since she left. I even sent her money in one. I've been writing the address on there...
    armygf227 armygf227
    22-25, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    Morning milsos, I'm glad my last post was

    helpful to some. remember to smile and just keep going what else do we have? happy friday
    loveyoulizz loveyoulizz
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015

    Hi Guys, so I am new to this whole military

    girlfriend life. I am just so glad to find a group of people who are supporting each other like this. I just wanted to say thank you all for being here.
    aroe13 aroe13
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    I saw an old "friend" of mine today

    and just straight up told me I need to suck it up cause I could have it worse.. it made me feel bad about missing him
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    Today was the last day

    that I will be able to hang out with my man until Christmas besides his graduation. I tried to stay strong but I ended up breaking down in front of him. He leaves from basic in 3 days but now I'm counting the days until graduation. Only 108, I hope they go by fast.
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14
    22-25, F
    Jul 31, 2015

    idk what im feeling right now.

    .he's done with training and im expecting that he will talk about his leave next but till now he can't answer me when...i feel so lost and depressed and feeling weak..thinking if this is really worth waiting for )):
    ber9904 ber9904
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2015

    http://youtu.be/GAstxqgkzZc Ladies watch this

    video its called "Military Love" it'll make ya'lls day knowing that we really are being appreciated and men do notice all the struggles we go through as military girlfriends , finances or wives ..Also he's pretty funny.
    abbyrodriguez abbyrodriguez
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    So does anyone else understand the feeling of

    your man getting aggravated before he leaves causing stress. I hate seeing him so upset it puts a strain on our time we have together.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    I'm having a bad day today.

    My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. He leaves to basic in about two weeks and we talked last night and he told me he wants to be single. Leave into basic single and do this on his own. He said he still wants us but that he prefers to leave on his own so he can...
    xoalc xoalc
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    It hurts having my man away Honestly,

    I'm slightly nervous that the marine corps might change him. But I'm just counting down the days until I am able to see him again. Almost two months...
    MarineCorpsVixen MarineCorpsVixen
    18-21, F
    Aug 4, 2014

    I am a military brat,

    I have had the military in my life always. Now i am currently dating a Jo deployed in the Army. Him deployed is not as hard as we figured it would be cause we meet with him deployed. The part I am struggling with is we were just notified that when he comes home to the states...
    LadyHarley LadyHarley
    26-30, F
    Nov 6, 2015

    I read somewhere that I am not allowed to send

    him letters where I sprayed my perfume on it
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2015

    So my best friend told me I shouldn't be with

    my boyfriend because it's long distance and it never works.. I appreciate her honest opinion, but I chose this because my boyfriend makes me extremely happy. Yea it's hard and we don't talk as much with him being deployed which is what she sees because I struggle a little. But...
    misstaytayy misstaytayy
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Each Day That Goes By Can Be Either Easier

    or Harder... I Have Gotten 3 letters From Him already & It's super exciting! I Really Would Like To Meet More Girls Who Are Sharing Same Thoughts As Me So We Can Get Through This All Together!! (:
    wondersofthelife wondersofthelife
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    Hello ladies, I've been reading a couple of

    posts and alot of you girls are going thru deployments, most of you are new to this and some of you are beginning bootcamp or AIT. First off none of you are alone. It feels that way when you look around you and you see couples enjoying a weekend while you are waiting on a phone...
    loveyoulizz loveyoulizz
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    My boyfriend is leaving

    for his first deployment soon. We've technically have only been together for a month but have acted like a couple for about 5(that's a little bit of a long story haha) I would love to talk to someone who's relationship is about to go through their first deployment or who can...
    FHart3 FHart3
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    I am so incredibly happy I just happened to

    stumble upon this website while looking for ways to cope with my long distance military relationship... no one in my personal life, friends or family support my relationship and it has been hard having to hold everything in... I have been on here for only about a day or 2 and...
    Alli4772 Alli4772
    18-21, F
    Aug 21, 2015

    I am a navy girlfriend with a lot of obstacles

    to face but love my soon to be sailor
    Aramos29 Aramos29
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    can anyone tell me what I can

    and can't send my marine in boot camp? because I want to send him a few pictures maybe some of his favorite granola bars. things like that I have no information cause of course I am "just the girlfriend"
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Today has been one of those hard days

    where all I want is a hug from my baby. I had a super loaded and stressful day at school, and I got in a car accident right after school. Now I'm home alone and things at home haven't been going well either. He always knew what to tell me, how to instantly make me feel better. I...
    AnaValencia AnaValencia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    My boyfriend of two years leaves

    for basic training tomorrow. He is my best friend and my boyfriend. I have never felt pain like this before. My whole physical body aches. I've literally been sick over the fact that he's leaving. I'm not handling it well. I really need some support and some reassurance that I...
    livtiv28 livtiv28
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Sep 14, 2015

    I was hoping some of you could give me info.

    Have any of you dated a man in the military only on line. I don't want to be the other woman.
    Dw1076 Dw1076
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    I met my boyfriend, who is in the Army,

    online and we dated for a year and it was an amazing year! He would talk about having kids and us getting married and then we went to Aruba and when we got back to the states he broke up with me because he wasn't sure that he wanted this relationship and that it was hard. He...
    Kat95 Kat95
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2016

    And So It Begins...

    I have been dating my bf since Mar 2013. He was honest with me from the very beginning that he is a Lt. in the military and that he will be deployed in 2014 to Afghanistan. He didn't want to start a relationship if I was not ready for the roller coaster of events and the unknown...
    cathyxoxo cathyxoxo
    41-45, F
    Jul 27, 2013

    morning ladies happy friday.

    i hope my posts dont annoy you. i know that when you are going thru a deployment and such some things may aggravate you. but i like to stay positive and happy. well just wanted to know if any of you are in CA i would love to hang out and cheer up any milso who can use a friend...
    loveyoulizz loveyoulizz
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2015

    My boyfriend just went into the Merchant Marine

    Academy last week. I keep reading articles saying that mostly all relationships that aren't in the academy itself end within the first. I'm so scared to loose him because he's been my best friend since the 6th grade and my boyfriend since 9th grade. I want to be with him because...
    aliyacharles aliyacharles
    18-21, F
    Jul 9, 2014

    Is it crazy for me to think my boyfriend might

    come back from boot camp and think I'm not good enough? He's never mentioned anything like this before but I've heard they come back completely changed. Honestly I'm not the best girlfriend I have mood swings and I try I really do it just seems as if I can't get things right...
    Sierratimms29 Sierratimms29
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    Okay ladies.. I need to vent a bit.

    My soldier tells me how some guys in his platoon would go out and just have sex with any girl who was willing, and they tell him all the time that he needs to do the same.... Some are very obnoxious when he says no he'd never do that to me, and others don't pressure him at all...
    SimplyAvalos SimplyAvalos
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    Anybody else have a boyfriend in TRACEN Cape

    May? I can't wait to hear from my angel... How long til I get a letter?
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2016

    my SIT and I have been together 4 months monday,

    he leaves very soon...I feel like I know almost nothing about him except that I would drop everything and follow him if I could. I'm more proud of my future soldier than he will ever know, he stole my heart from the first night we met. I guess what I'm trying to say is...we don...
    HisJenna HisJenna
    22-25, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    My man is officially gone now

    and on his way to Fort Benning. It was so hard watching him go but at the same time I'm really happy and excited for him and I know this is what he really wants. I miss him so much already but I know it will go by fast. 105 days (;
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    Okay so It's hard not having friends

    who can relate to your relationship or nearly close to it. I feel like ever since I've been with my boyfriend I've lost all my friends. He's my Bestfriend. But at times it's difficult..... At one point My ex bestfriend would complain to me about how she hated that her boyfriend...
    SimplyAvalos SimplyAvalos
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 15, 2016

    Hey, my name is Azareel

    and I've been a Sailor's girlfriend for a year now. A friend and I decided to made a Facebook Group called Navy Sweethearts to help you all through this weird, but fun journey. Please feel free to join us.
    Azareel9 Azareel9
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    After 6 years boyfriend finally getting out of

    military.He has 3 more years lefts yay!!!
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 1, 2016

    nobody that I socialize with understand the

    pain I am going through they all tell me to stop crying cause he will be back...but don't understand the pain I'm going through rn... I don't know when he will be back only know it will be around December 5-10 which my countdown rn is 110 days left as of today I need serious...
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2015
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