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I Am A Military Girlfriend Looking For Frinds Who Understand

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    Hearing From My Cousin Whos At Bmt Made Me Think...

    today i texted my cousin's girlfriend wishing her a happy thanksgiving, and i didnt realize she was over in Oklahoma   visiting my cousin for his basic training gradation for the army. when i got a reply to what i sent, it said, " it's chris, happy thanksgiving to you...
    kristyrosee kristyrosee 16-17, F Nov 25, 2010

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    My marine is stationed overseas

    when we talk I feel like he doesn't love me eg the conversations are sometimes blunt and really straight to the point then I spend days stressing something is wrong then when we speak on the phone I ask him and hes like no don't be silly I love you blah blah.. am I wanting to...
    Tiaclare94 Tiaclare94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I am the girlfriend of a Marine

    who has just recently left for MCT. We've been together for almost 2 years now and he's my best friend. My senior prom is in late May or early June and he's not sure if he's going to be able to make it back in time to come. Of course he feels bad and says he will try to make it...
    MarinesPrincesss15 MarinesPrincesss15 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    Support Is Here!

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16, 2012

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    Support. :)

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 16, 2012

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    December 7th Is Right Around The Corner, And It's Hitting Me So Hard.. =

    so it kinda really sucks that he leaves in fifteen days.. i knew he had to go before we we started dating. i knew it would be hard, but i didn't know it would be this hard. i cry every day just thinking about it. i hate it. i have break downs in school. it's ...
    kristyrosee kristyrosee 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    well he left 4 days ago,

    i was doing okay until today, i think it finally hit me..im not sure how im gonna make it without him. Hes the rock when im weak and right now im weak and alone :( my family isnt being supportive and my friends have disappeared..car troubles didnt help today..thanks for letting...
    DayshaKevin93 DayshaKevin93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Not Sure How To Act

    Okay, so for awhile now I've been wondering whether my relationship with my Marine is like most military relationships or if there even is a "normal." I see a future with my guy but it seems like most couples are dead set on marriage and neither me or my guy have come even close...
    Lizrace Lizrace 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Found Out Today When He Gets Deployed ... Going A Little Crazy !

    Mine leaves in august, i found out today during my 4th period class, i have no idea how i'm going to handle it, i mean its hard enough him being stationed half way across the world but at least when he's is home he can talk to me every night, right now hes in Latvia (there...
    HisPrincessMySoldier HisPrincessMySoldier 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    July 30 Worst Day Of My Life

    On July 30 at 6:30 A.M. was the last time I've seen, hugged, and kissed my boyfriend before he left for basic training to Fort Jackson, SC. I had to rush to the car because I could feel the tears about to pour down my face. We both knew that this time was going to come but, we...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F Sep 18, 2012

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    A Question For All You Military Girlfriends Out There

    So, earlier my uncle was talking about how I'll never move out and get my own place. I said, "yes I am once we figure out what's going on with Fabrice" (my b/f whose in BCT) He said, " Yeah right, you guys aren't going to be together long enough for that." Which he pissed me off...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2012

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    I just left from visiting my boyfriend

    for 9 days and I can't stop crying. I'm just so much happier with him. I don't know how to alleviate this :-( I don't see him again for three months.
    JenanE JenanE 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Hoping to be a military wife by next summer :))

    at least according to the hubby lol
    Mac2109 Mac2109 22-25, F Jan 28

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    Deployment..

     So my fiance was telling the other day about how since the whole killing of Osama Bin Laden thing has struck up some issues and that his unit is on call for deployment right now.. :( Its scary to think about because I know it will be out of no where. theres still a chance of...
    illalwaysbehere illalwaysbehere 16-17, F May 11, 2011

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    Looking For Friends I Could Talk To

    Hello, my name is Kandas and I'm pretty much new to the whole being an Army Girlfriend thing. Its been a crazy emotional rollercoaster for me. One minute I'm laughing, smiling, and happy. The next minute I'm crying, depressed, and in a bad mood. It scares me that maybe I'm not...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 15 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    He's On A Simulation For Deployment And I Miss Him!

    I am still kind of new on here but realize my need and want for friends that understand and I can talk with more than ever. My boyfriend has been on a simulation all month and I barely get to talk to him, I just miss him so much! So many things have happened so fast and I just...
    Jaredsgirl37 Jaredsgirl37 18-21, F Mar 30, 2011

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    I sent my first letter tuesday this week

    and still havent gotten anything from my SO :( i know it can take up to 3 weeks for him to get him i just hope hes not waiting to write me until he gets one from me :( just feeling really down tonight :( i miss him so much, my chest hurts just seeing his pictures, watching the...
    DayshaKevin93 DayshaKevin93 18-21, F Feb 1

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    Need Advice

    So, I just got back last night from seeing my boyfriend for the first time in two months. The first day was going fine until he bought a new phone and of course he was busy on Facebook. Which upsetted me because its like you haven't seen me in two months can't you wait until...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F Oct 14, 2012

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    5 Months Left

    Hey Girls ! My bf is a infantry soldier and he went to basic training at ft. Benning and finished in March. He came home and got sick so i couldn't see him because i was still on my permit and he wasn't home long. So it was good to have him home and then he left to go to West...
    kseniyasamsonik kseniyasamsonik 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2012

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    I Made A Group. Woohooo !!

    I really enjoying this whole blogging thing. So I decided to make my own group :D " I am Faithfully Standing By My Soldier". Its for the Wives, Fiancees and the Girlfriends of course :). ANYTHING and EVERYTHING can and will be dicussed on this blog. Since I'm new to the whole MGF...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59 18-21, F Apr 17, 2012

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    North Carolina?

    Any other military girlfriends around? Looking for maybe some local girls who are dealing with their men being away. My marine is at Cherry Point.
    Taytay0709 Taytay0709 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2013

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    i cant wait to do couple pictures

    when my SO comes home in July!!!
    DayshaKevin93 DayshaKevin93 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Ayiih

    my cousin told me to write him a letter once i told her that i missed him (my boyfriend) so much.. so is that mean i can write a letter to him even i'm here now in the Philippines? but how? yeah i know how to write but lols haha! i dont know his address, i dont know where can i...
    lhoydee lhoydee 22-25, F Jun 4, 2012

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    Royally F*cked Up!!!

    Wow, I am such an idiot. Me and my SO was fighting and i got really upset and said sh*t I shouldn't have! Exact words "I will have your sh*t packed when you get home!!!" I knew that's not what i REALLY wanted even before I said it. iDK what to do now. He told me i really hurt him...
    inluvwithasoldier inluvwithasoldier 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2011

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    Terrified Thoughts

    Hi everyone, my name is Victoria. My boyfriend of a year has enlisted into the army and will most likely leave for basic in four short months. I'm scared of what can happen.II have no idea on how to cope with all of these feelings. I just need to talk to someone in my position...
    littlemshopeless littlemshopeless 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 19, 2013

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    So my marine just seriously asked me to move in

    with him.. That'd mean picking up and moving from Boston, MA to Jacksonville, NC. Obviously I want to, but no marriage and I'd have to find a new job. I didn't expect marriage right now, but I thought I'd move in with him when we get married. I don't know where I'm going with...
    FortysGirl FortysGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 5

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    Need People I Can Relate To...

    Hey :D As none of my friends have dated anyone in the military i find it hard to talk to my friends about this- their mainly just negative. So it would be nice to have other females to talk to about the ups and down. I dont necessarily want to talk to females who are always...
    MizPurdy MizPurdy 22-25, F Oct 16, 2012

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    I am going through allot right

    now my boyfriend got deployed and then I find out I'm pregnant so now I have to go through a pregnancy by myself plus plan a weeding without him
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    My Life For The Next Year Without Him

    well as of january 5th his deployment fully began.. everyday i sit and wonder where he is what hes doing and if he is ok. i find this is even harder when no one i know fully understands how i feel. alot of people tell me to give and let him go but there is not way i could ever...
    militarygirlfriend0102 militarygirlfriend0102 18-21 4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    So Called Support Group

    You know for this to be a support group i never recieve support no matter what my story is about or how much i need someonet to talk to I NEVER get the support i need whats up with that?
    inluvwithasoldier inluvwithasoldier 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2011

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    And So It Begins...

    I have been dating my bf since Mar 2013. He was honest with me from the very beginning that he is a Lt. in the military and that he will be deployed in 2014 to Afghanistan. He didn't want to start a relationship if I was not ready for the roller coaster of events and the unknown...
    cathyxoxo cathyxoxo 41-45, F Jul 27, 2013

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    Patiently Waiting

    hey ladies I am currently waitting for my deployed bf. We have been dating for a little over a year and this is his first deployment since we been together. I have all my friends and family and his to help me get thru it but it seems to me they still dont understand how I feel...
    lovingjose lovingjose 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

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    Need Someone To Talk To

    So my boyfriend left for basic training at fort benning in georgia a few weeks ago and he comes home november 2nd. I am having such a hard time, i cry almost every night. I love him with all my heart but i dont know how I'm gonna get through this especially since i have no one to...
    softballchick15 softballchick15 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2012

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    Pfc Marine Girlfriend

    I have had a hard time with my Marine being at SOI, not nearly as hard as when he was in bootcamp! I am really looking for other marine girlfriends/wives to talk to because my friends just dont understand what its like! I dont know about you ladies but it drives me crazy to hear...
    meldred93 meldred93 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    They Don't Understand

    My friends just don't understand why I do it, how can i keep holding on? all i hear is why why why. I never respond to that question because for more that i'll try to explain they will never understand. Noone knows how it is to be a Army girlfriend/fiancee/wife. I've been going...
    ArmySPCGirlfriend ArmySPCGirlfriend 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    This Morning.

    Jared and I have had our rough patches, but he's the only one who has stuck by me through all the stuff thats been going on in my life. Even my best friend who had been there since eigth grade gave up. But this morning, when he left for the armory, (he's leaving to go to...
    alyssabraun alyssabraun 18-21, F Sep 29, 2011

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    It's Hard!

    Reading all the stories form you lady's is actually making it harder on me /: )))))): it's so sad but its who we fell in love with. Unfortunately their career choice is what keeps us apart. My fioncee is getting deployed to Afghanistan :/ and I was looking for friends to talk...
    Eli13 Eli13 18-21, F Jun 15, 2012

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    Any Advice?

    Hey everyone.... The man I have been dating for 6 months left for Afghanistan 3 weeks ago. I'm technically not even his "girlfriend" because he said he didn't want to "tie me down" while he was away. We may have not been seeing one another very long, but I have absolutely fallen...
    GonnaProve2Him GonnaProve2Him 22-25, F Nov 8, 2012

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    Help! Not sure how much of this i can take!

    My family isnt supportive of my choice to be with my soldier because we only were dating 2 1/2 months before he left, he will be gone for 5 months but then will only be gone one weekend a month (unless deployed) They think im dumb for attatching myself to someone who was leaving...
    DayshaKevin93 DayshaKevin93 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Just Need People Who Understand...

    I am 22 yrs old and my boyfriend is a 20yr old in the Army. We met through mutual friends and started out just talking on FB and skyping once a week while he was deployed. I did not think anything would come of our new found friendship and I would just be a friend for him to have...
    ArmyWife1115 ArmyWife1115 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    ``i Want Us To Live Together``

    ``I miss you so much. I feel so miserable without you. I hate being here. I want to be home with you. I'm hoping you`d want to come with me wherever I`d get stationed. I want us to live together``.That`s what he exactly wrote in the letter. My chances of being with my soldier...
    dimplelovesherSOLDIER dimplelovesherSOLDIER 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2011

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