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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,736 People

    It's our anniversary

    and the first one we've been apart. I really miss my man. He's been gone almost a month and even though sometimes I wish he didn't have to go I'm glad he did. Since he's left I've realized how strong I am. I know that I am capable of amazing things with or without him. For...
    itsmo99 itsmo99 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    received my 1st letter today (: no amount of

    words can describe the feelings i have for this guy
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Feels soo good to see a picture of him on his

    Btry's facebook page. Now if I could just hear his voice again...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    So I need opinions. I am 19 years old

    and my boyfriend is 20 in the army. We keep talking about getting married. I know he is the love of my life but I am also in school. I just don't know how it would work with both. I want to be with him but getting married means taking on so much. Anyone who was married around...
    ecote42 ecote42 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Does everyone in the military at least get

    deployed once? Or is it only certain people?
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    For girls who have already started

    or gone through their deployments... Tyler is having to move back to the barracks after leave. Not really sure why... But the night before he ships out I'm assuming I'm going to get a hotel room now. Will he be able to stay with me the night before? Or are things super busy and...
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Has anyone ever visited their soldier at Fort

    Bragg, NC? I'm trying to figure out what hotel to stay at haha
    londonbridg londonbridg 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    soo I haven't touched the marriage topic with

    my bf in detail but he called me Mrs. clarke yesterday! ^-^ I felt soo happy but idk if I should have a conversation with him if that's what he's thinking ?
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend is being stationed in Turkey

    for a year after tech school. I wanted to get us matching necklaces to remind us of each other but I'm debating what to put on them. Either "one day closer" or one could say "forever" and the other "always". Any thoughts or opinions?
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Jesse just told me they are going to be in the

    field next week and that they have to work today and tomorrow. His phone has been dying really quickly on him and it makes me sad when I can't talk to him but at least my best friend is coming back from Out of the country early so I hopefully get to see her today or tomorrow...
    smarchy17 smarchy17 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    He hasn't been able to write much lately

    because he's been so busy :/ it went from two letters a well to maybe one, I know I can't get too upset because it's not something he can control but it still sucks :( I worry a lot, I talked to his mom and grandma and they said they hadn't heard from him in a week either
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    It's officially August

    and we have 30 together. We have been spending every moment we can together and I love it but I know it's going to make this harder on both of us.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    Anybody else hate when their military man goes

    out with the guys?? Grh im so mad. And he said he was drunk , haven't heard from him in awhile so im sure hes passed out. Wish he'd dedicate his weekends to me, but im trying to understand that he does have a life =( . wish he was spending it with ne though.
    lovelybutterfly123 lovelybutterfly123 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm missing him so much!

    I'll be with him next weekend but it breaks my heart knowing that he had to start over at a new duty station again... He's alone and homesick. I know he'll get better soon! I just wish he had his friends... I never thought I'd say that being that he was ALWAYS with them, and...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    tiffion tiffion 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    School started back up this year.

    It's my senior year and it feels so empty without him even though we went to different schools. (He graduated with the class of 2015). It feels like I don't even have a boyfriend even though he's just at basic training and I do get letters every week. In one of his letters he...
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So ladies, I have a question.

    How do you feel about your man wanting to hang out with friends they meet where they're stationed or on their bases? Today I had a conversation with my bf and he mentioned that he wouldn't mind if I had guy friends and hung out with them. But I honestly don't like the thought of...
    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Happy National Girlfriend Day to all you girls!

    !! I know we aren't the typical 'girlfriends' we go through a lot but it is so worth it! Know you are all loved and appreciated by your SO❤️💙
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    my boyfriend has been scared

    that when he returns home that I'm gonna have another boyfriend. today we were laying in bed talking about it and I told him that even If we were to date other people (which will not happen) that we would always end up with each other, because we both love each other so much...
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I honestly love my boyfriend he means

    so much to me, I'd literally take a bullet for him. But this whole thing of not being able to see him for for a long time sucks. No im not thinking about breaking up with him, I could never. Everyone says "time will fly then soon you can be with him" he's 18 and I'm 16 we've...
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    What was the last week you guys last sent a

    letter to your soldier during basic training?
    hct1531 hct1531 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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