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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,837 People

    So my soldier spent this entire weekend partying

    which is fine. Went clubbing, drinking and even got into a fight at the club surprisingly I was cool about it and didn't get mad sure go out have a good time not a problem. He comes home drunk tonight and video chats and me tells me that he just came from one of his battles...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Does it get easier after basic training?

    This feels like the worst with minimal communication :(
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'm sad that I haven't spoken to my boyfriend

    since Thursday because someone broke the rules and so they got their phones taken away. He told me to write him a letter in the meantime and I'm proud to say I just finished my first one ! :D I hope it doesn't take too long to get to him.
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    Of course he disappears on me

    once again. We haven't had an actual conversation since Thursday and I'm beginning to become really frustrated by it. But I know he can get really busy, I need to chill and think positively. I guess you can say I just got so used to having him to myself these past 2 weekends...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Ugh can't sleep!!! My head hurts

    and my mind is consumed of thoughts of him!! All I want is a " love im ok and home" text. Then I wouldn't worry about him!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Sending out my second letter tomorrow!

    Super thankful I got a letter, but not looking forward to that long wait again!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    So I got a unexpected 7 minute phone call ,

    and a quick text ! I'm so appreciative that I got that . Just hearing his voice made all my problems disappear . Gahh I love that man :)
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 8 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    We came to a mutual agreement to break up.

    He lost his feelings for me. Boot camp changes you. Military changes you. He's so used to being alone and by himself, that this was uncontrollable. He said it's not fair for me to wait for him. He wants me in his life, though. When he gets back in December, we'll see about...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 6 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    You can separate two lovers by distance

    but you can never break the bridge that connects their hearts, no matter where they are in the world.
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Is it normal to be super anxious

    and stress before their graduation? I have been feeling so nervous all day and I'm having a real hard time dealing with it. I just feel like crying. And on top of that I have so much make up work from missing school. I just feel so overwhelmed.
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    Trying to look on the bright side

    and hope that something just came up and he will still be home soon. I know for sure I will hear from him Tuesday as I have a doctors appointment that is important to the both of us. It's basically to check and make sure all things are good in my girly parts and that id still be...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    OMG!!!! Just 10 Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaays!

    !!!! (^.^)/ Can't Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaait!!!!!! :D :3!!!
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    WTH? My fiance just asked me

    if my best friend and I check each other's vaginas out (I was talking to him about certain issues my friend and I had in common). I asked if this was a joke and he told me he thinks that we look at each others vaginas and then he basically told me to drop the subject. Idk what...
    alittlequirky alittlequirky 22-25, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've not had as hard a time this whole time

    we've been together as I am right now. I know I need to be strong and support him but honestly for the first time I really can't. After all I've been through during his training all I was looking forward to was seeing him when he came back. He confirmed with me when he should...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Feels like it's like pulling teeth trying to

    keep the conversation going anymore :( did anyone else go through this after basic? Short answers .. Etc.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 5 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Does anyone else find

    that writing a letter is much more intimate than just texting?
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I want to take a minute

    and thank those of you who realize what y'all signed up for when becoming a military girlfriend. Realizing it isn't a "glamorous" lifestyle and there are plenty of times where we go days and weeks and longer without talking to our loved ones. Knowing that we need to stay strong...
    MarinesGirl94 MarinesGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel like this is super weird,

    but im keeping my letter in my planner so its always with me...maybe if I get more ill start a boot camp box.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    Hoping to get a phone call today.

    I need to hear his voice so bad. My nerves have been shot since I woke up this morning and I've been shaking. I need this phone call!
    Annabayer19 Annabayer19 16-17, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 5 Responses Sep 14

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    No longer an army fiance.

    Found out at the beginning of the relationship he was with other girls. I don't care if it was over 2 years ago. He still cheated. He's done this multiple times at the first 8 months I've been with him. Well that's what I know of. He could've done it after too but idk. The thing...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My marine is going to North Carolina in April.

    He plans to try for special forces which would extend his contract five years. After that he wants to go reserve while gradually getting back into civilian life back home in the midwest. I will be marrying him and moving to be with him. North Carolina is a 20 hour drive from...
    usmcgf0715 usmcgf0715 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    The distance apart has only brought us closer

    and makes us both realize how much we love one another. Never give up ladies! It gets better!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Were now in the 30's,

    only 38 days left! Just over a month, it has gone so slow this time around, I don't know if its because i'm wanting him here with me more than before or what. I know hes only home a week but its something! and after he goes back for 3 weeks i do have him for 4 weeks to myself...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Four days and a wake up!

    I am so excited I can't breath!!! :D
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    praying for all of my fellow Milso's seems like

    some of yall are just hitting a bump in the road. love&respect all of you.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Is it bad that I'm letting a mistake he made

    months ago effect our relationship now? I still think about it every day and it tears me apart inside. But, I know it was a mistake and he's changed. That was high school and now he's a man, a soldier. And I know he loves me more than anything and he's terrified of losing me. It...
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Does anyone have any experience with Ft.

    Leonard Wood as far as basic and AIT? Any advice or story would be greatly appreciated! My soldier is there now and I wanted to learn more about it. (Aside from studying the website, which I've done extensively)
    MadisonMeris MadisonMeris 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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