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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,404 People

    As a woman it's hard

    for me to say, sometimes I need to learn how to bite my tongue.. Nagging gets you no where, and yes I nag my soldier. (: I don't walk on egg shells around him, after all he's still my boyfriend. <3 (nagging included)
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well me and my boyfriend aren't doing

    so well.. All we do is fight.. Last night he even told me he's probably going to Russia in a couple months to fight.. It feels like our relationship getting worse and worse. Really don't know what to do anymore.:(
    bayjoy95 bayjoy95 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Has anyone's boyfriend ever questioned

    everything? like they were unsure about everything. and they weren't sure about the relationship because they didn't want to "put you through this" ?
    Marimarr Marimarr 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Oh? Really?

    What's that, civilian girlfriend? Your civilian boyfriend is seriously injured?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend? You got robbed last night because someone came in your house?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend...
    angelaamor22 angelaamor22 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Skyping for the first time was amazing last

    night. It's insane how we can actually see them and in a way be face to face. It was amazing I felt like I could go through the laptop and touch his face, I love him sooo much and this shows me nothing has changed and we will never change. I am so greatful for Skype right now...
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 21 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Wow I haven't been on here in forever!

    Me and Kenny haven't been doing too well. We're arguing more and more as his day to leave for boot camp comes. Has this happened to anyone? How did you guys stop arguing and started loving each other again?
    Teeyloor Teeyloor 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So Tired Of Hearing "You Are So Strong"

    Honestly. I'm not. It's not strength that gets us through these hard times. There's no work out you can do that makes the distance easier. I'm just a young woman that loves her boyfriend. You know who's the strong one? Him. The one who put his life on hold to serve something...
    SubmarinersLovebird SubmarinersLovebird 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 29 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    So bae got hurt at work :( 10 bags of 80 pound

    concrete fell on top of him. He has a broken leg, cracked rib, and sprained wrist. But he is still trying to work like are you kidding me. They just released you from the hospital and your trying to go back to work to finish your shift. I keep trying to tell him that he needs to...
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ugh, Some Military Wives....

    Please know that I am not intending for this to be a rant about all military wives, I just recently had a bad experience and wish to share my frustration to get it off my chest. Most military wives I have encountered have been very respectful and open to talking with girlfriends...
    AXiLove AXiLove 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Personally, it doesn't get easier.

    It gets harder. The longer you wait, the longer it hurts. I've learned to deal with it, learned how to live my life with constant pain. Although it's not easy, it's definitely worth it. He's worth it, just one day at a time. Not everyone can do it and the fact that I've made it...
    jazminm21 jazminm21 18-21, F Mar 25

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    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for a year now and he's in boot camp. We want to get engaged when he comes home but I am forced to have to deal with my family's negativity. My father is a veteran and he knows what's going to happen . Although my mother & my brother believe it's a bad idea because I'm only 18...
    chanel0408 chanel0408 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Is it just me or does everyone asking

    if I've heard from him or how I'm holding up or how badly do I miss him, somehow make it all worse? Friends are starting to talk about plans they have for Valentines Day and then quickly back off the subject and apologize.. I don't care about Valentines Day.. People in normal...
    Itsallnewtome Itsallnewtome 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Today was out three months.

    January 14th was the day we got together. He left February 11th for basic. It may not seem like we've been together for that long, so we couldn't be that serious. But I'm in love with him. I could spend forever with him. And that's what I want. I miss him like crazy. I can't...
    lexixlack lexixlack 18-21, F Apr 14

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    I had an anxiety attack over the idea of being

    apart from him and not having any control over it. He doesn't want to wait anymore & neither do i. The worst part of the attack is that nothing can fix it, we're going to have to wait almost 2 years at the least until we can actually spend time together and I'm freaking out. I...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey guys, I'm a bit nervous about this

    but I need someone to talk to. I'm a 17 year old girl who has been dating her boyfriend for 6months ATM, my boyfriend started talking about joining the army but I didn't take him seriously :'( today he had his interview which he said went really well. He will be going off to...
    angelskyanderson angelskyanderson 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    It has been quite some time

    since I have been on here. A lot of new faces, that's for sure. I am a Army wife and living in Hawaii now. Even though I'm married and living with my husband, it still gets lonely at times being so far from home, family, and friends. I have my new beauty product line now that I...
    MMAfighter1313 MMAfighter1313 22-25, F Jan 16

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    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    Happy Valentines Day to all the wonder Military

    Girlfriends/Fiancés/Wives who don't have the chance to celebrate with their men today. Have a wonderful day! And to those who get to see their men today you have a beautiful day also ❤️💕
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Why do people who don't have a boyfriend in the

    military or aren't even associated with ANYONE in the military think it's okay to come into our posts and give us ****? Like back off. Nobody asked for your opinion and you leaving negative and disgusting comments is so useless. Y'all are annoying.
    kxcrooks kxcrooks 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Today me and my boyfriend were talking

    and he told me he wanted to join the USA army when he turned 18 (which is in a few months) I can't help but feel really worried and scared for him but also our future together, any military girlfriends out there that have any advice I would love to here it.
    esperanza53 esperanza53 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Anyone been with their military man

    before they joined the military who witnessed their boyfriend go through the process of signing up for the army that can message me? I have some questions !!
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    2,453 miles away. My boyfriend will be

    that far for 5 months. Its going to stuck but I know we will make it through. Ahh.. I need to find something to occupy my time with. He just reached basic today, April 22, 2014. So he won't be back till close to my birthday. I'll be seeing him for his graduation in about 2...
    MSanford14 MSanford14 16-17, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    It's hard to tell who's real

    and who's fake nowadays on this experience. Or maybe some people just really don't know how to spell. I don't know but some of these "ladies" sound ridiculous; they really just don't even make sense.
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'm always hearing that military relationships

    are destined to fail. My response is always the same to these people. I love my marine and he loves me. But our commitment to each other is the thing that I cherish the most. A partnership is not just about the emotions and feelings of love. A partnership is about commitment...
    MarinesGirl27 MarinesGirl27 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Feb 6

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    He had an 8 hour pass

    since he passed from BCT to AIT. I got a phone call at 615 on Saturday night, bought a ticket, hopped on a plane that took off at 730. I got to fort Benning at 1 am. I got to pick him up at 8 am and dropped him back off at 330pm. I was back in Houston by 815. Best decision I...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I met my non-boyfriend last july.

    He is from texas and he was staying in an air force base in italy (i'm italian). We saw eachother till october and the he left for south korea on halloween. That's why is my non-boyfriend cause we only hang out for 3 months. Now is gonna come back in italy to visit me in august...
    Italiangirlfriend88 Italiangirlfriend88 22-25, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My sailor has been at A School

    for only 3 days. I'm starting to feel so many different emotions. Mostly sad. The distance is getting to me. We can barely talk because he's so busy during the day then when he has liberty I'm at work. I really need to get used to this whole military stuff.
    TayBunting TayBunting 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    He doesn't want to break up.

    He doesn't want anyone but me. We're getting married in August he better not lol. He's so stressed, I wish I could be there to help him through this.
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I use to be and it was

    so hard having a long distance relationship because I'm the type to want a lot of attention from my partner.
    ariannexo ariannexo 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Just think ladies....

    .the armed forces may have him, but you have his heart. We're the lucky ones here. :)
    Abbieanderson Abbieanderson 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    Dear you, We are just alike.

    We wait on our phone every night. We cry when certain songs come on. We have him as our wallpaper and have a playlist of our songs. We tear up seeing something about the military but when his branch is featured your heart starts pounding. When he is wounded you panic for him but...
    HisProudMarineGirlfriend HisProudMarineGirlfriend 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 37 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 24 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    My boyfriend is currently deployed we've been

    together 6 months before he was whisked away I've found keeping myself just and talking with people who are going through what I am comforting. My boyfriend recently told me because I asked if he has talked with an ex since he's been deployed he was honest and told me yes and...
    constancelake constancelake 31-35, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is in basic training.

    We talked about getting married after he graduated from AIT. The talking and planning was all going good until we discussed about setting a date. He seemed to hesitate and sounded nervous when he mentioned a date that would be good. It completely made me feel he wasn't ready. I...
    Kklink Kklink 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Anyone else have girls all over their man

    because he's a soldier? Well we are MILSOs ;) and our men are too good to look at girls when they have a great woman by their side. <3 -girls will be angry, kill them with kindness ^_^
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend sent me this,

    so we're gonna try and test it out. I thought it'd also be helpful for some of you out there... It's kinda long lol ....... All relationships take work. But a long-distance relationship is even more difficult and it can sometimes seem impossible to keep love alive when...
    Abbyj13 Abbyj13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Today is really hard all I want to do is cry

    but I try to stay strong for my baby and because I know my family does not know what I'm going through and I am spending the day with them.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F a week ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 15 Responses May 28, 2013

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    That amazing moment when I get to tell him a

    bedtime story and he actually falls fast asleep <3
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Is it bad breaking down to your military man

    and telling him that you miss him?? I don't want to show him I'm weak but I could use some comfort.. I need advice please
    bayjoy95 bayjoy95 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am writing this simply

    because I miss my man so much and I need to release some of it somehow. I seriously just miss absolutely everything about him. I am so so ready for him to just come home already! When I am with him I feel more like myself. The missing him always gets worse at night too...
    mege15 mege15 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    When I have ever explained my story to my

    friends, they always respond with , "Aww, that's so romantic" or, "That's like a movie or something." As nice as this is to say, it's just not the case many ways if you truly understand what it's like to to be a military girlfriend. That said I would trade being with my guy...
    p3nnsgirl27 p3nnsgirl27 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    We've been fighting all day.

    The first real fight we've had since he left for basic in January. It's not even a big issue, he's completely overreacting. He says the distance is getting to him and he can't give me the attention I want or deserve. Now he's saying he needs a break till after graduation because...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I miss him so much today is kind of a rough day

    because he should be home but he isn't and its hard when you expect them to be home but get told they aren't coming home when they were told they would be able to I know that it doesn't get easier to me it actually gets harder doing everything with out him I raise my kid as if...
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F Apr 14

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    One more kiss. One more touch.

    One more 'I love you'. And yet it never feels like enough.
    Stefanisgirl Stefanisgirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I've noticed a lot of ladies on here are

    stressing and worrying about the distance between themselves and their military men. First, I like to say that it is natural to feel the way you do, but it helps absolutely no one to constantly complain about it. We need to be just as strong as they are. We need to be their...
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    2 days. 2 more days. I've made it 10 months

    without him. It has been one of the hardest things I've ever done. I can't wait to go pick him up from the airport and see his face when he sees his son. I send him pictures all the time of all the silly things he is missing out on. But I know that its not the same as seeing him...
    Maddiegray Maddiegray 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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