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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,512 People

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Sooooo after a long 14 months my love is

    finally coming home tomorrow!!!! <333
    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    This weekend was my older sister's wedding

    and it was AMAZING - they are so so happy and it was an off-the-charts celebration. Only thing was, of course, my bf wasn't able to be there since he's in tech school with the Air Force. He was so sad he couldn't be there and it just broke my heart. I had a great time but I also...
    raquelita88 raquelita88 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Were having a break. It was my choice,

    I don't know what I want right now. I needed him to give me space, not talk to me or ring me trying to persuade me, I need to know what its like to live without him. So I told him not to contact me for a bit, and ill message him when I've cleared my head. Is that mean? am i...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Now that time is getting closer to the day he

    leaves, I'm freaking out! I don't know what to expect or how to feel. I want to be as supportive as I can because I know this is what he wants, but it's hard when I hate the fact he has to leave. I hope hope hope I get the strength to pull it together for him.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    My marine keeps talking about proposing

    when hen gets home from his MOS in 10 months. It's become a daily conversation topic for us and the future. He was telling me the benefits of getting married now and living together and talking of children in the future. He sounds so excited and I can't wait for him to be home...
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I am new to this but have been feeling

    so alone since my boyfriend left for basic training a couple days ago. I'm so terrified that he will end things while in basic so as to not be distracted from his training because of his worrying about me and what I'm doing. We love each other and I'm 100% ready to be loyal and...
    meghan1635 meghan1635 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Well deployment is over,

    my soldier is on his way back, the bad news won't be able to see him until July. At least we are on the same country. :)
    val8788 val8788 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Just booked a flight to see my solider over 4th

    of July weekend at his base in Arizona! We're 2,000 miles away and it's been 7 months since the last time we've seen eachother. I can't wait for the single kiss that makes all the months of waiting totally worth it. And!! He told me he has a surprise for me when I come down...
    weekendroyalty weekendroyalty 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Having been extremely sick

    and dealing with a lot of personal stuff I need to take some time away. I need to deal with my stuff and get myself healthy again.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    Hey ladies :) I know I haven't been on here in

    forever lol so much has happened I got accepted to my dream college which I plan on going to in fall :) I'm double majoring in Early childhood education and dance. My bf and I are doing great he's become so much more mature and family oriented which is wonderful. I'm so happy we...
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    We've made it through nearly 10 months apart

    with me going across the country for school and flying back before he left for boot camp (USMC) for a few days. and then after 13 weeks of boot camp I finally got to see him graduate and he was home for 23 days, then MCT I got a phone call from him for our anniversary and then...
    doha5644 doha5644 18-21 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got a letter today

    and he sent me one of his service pictures. I smiled for about 20 minutes. Can't believe he's graduating in a couple days.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    So I got the news that my boyfriend has a very

    big possibility of being assigned to honor guard at his duty station. If you're religious, could you please help me pray that he gets it? I know things happen for a reason but we are REALLY hoping he gets it. Thank you for all the love and support.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Short term goal met- 50lbs down,

    30 more to go!! When your husband is all buff looking like GI Joe it's only right that I follow his lead lol. I gotta make sure not to overdo it cuz my husband likes his women curvy. He's all for me slimming down once my boobs don't get smaller lmao. Pretty sure that's not gonna...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend just texted me

    and I seriously was so surprised cause he's in BMT for the Air Force!! But my heart just jumped with joy and I'm crying tears of happiness to have even gotten just a "love you" text from him!! seriously made me sooooo very super happy!!!! My whole entire summer has been made...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Not sure what's worse,

    the buildup before he leaves or him actually leaving :/
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend leaves for basic training in about

    a month and I'm terrified. We've been together a little over a year & I've assured him that I'd stick with him throughout the whole process & I'm confident that I can, I just didn't know how difficult it would be when the time came & I'm having a really hard time dealing.
    brielise brielise 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    This too shall pass!!

    Been sick for a week and just got diagnosed Saturday with bronchitis. Just what I needed
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    And darling I will be loving you till we're 70.

    .. and baby my heart could still love as hard at 23! I'm thinking bout how, people fall in love in mysterious wayssssss. Maybe just the touch of a hand. But me, I fall in love with you every single day.... I cannot for the life of me escape this song! lol. I've been trying to not...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Right now my boyfriend is in the DEP program,

    he leaves for bootcamp in a little over 8 weeks. He says that if I get pregnant he can get kicked out but that just seems weird to me! Does anyone else know anything about this ?
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    So I posted a few days ago about being

    completely lost and sick and just scared. Made the decision two days ago to go on a break/break up type thing. I don't know what's happened I honestly feel like I'm going insane. I just woke up one day and questioned our relationship, the distance, the love. I think it's because...
    doha5644 doha5644 18-21 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Every since he went to the military,

    we barely talk. We made it through the basic traing phase which wasn't too bad. Now he's in AIT and can talk to me but we barely talk because he's busy doing something else. I'm afraid we will grow apart or that he will find someone else. We've talked about marriage even say...
    Dreamergirl07 Dreamergirl07 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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