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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,629 People

    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Hi ladies! I need some advice.

    My boyfriend left on Tuesday for basic, however I've already started writing letters. I realize it's gonna be at least two weeks till I hear from him with a mailing address. My question is, when I finally get the address, how should I mail the letters I already wrote to him? I...
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    as my boyfriend is at boot camp my best friend

    decided she doesn't want anything to do with she blows me off because the weeks before he left she asked to hang over and over again as I hanged with her for 3 day on the week he was leaving she though it wasn't good enough so she decided she doesn't want anything to do with me...
    Breezy1434 Breezy1434 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    So today was amazing with my soldier,

    I can't wait to see him graduate from basic tomorrow! ❤️☺️
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I don't know what to do.

    He has only been gone for one day but I feel like it's already been 10 weeks. We have been together for 467 days. This is the first day that we have not at all communicated. The weird part is, I don't know if it's me not hearing from him, or if I am just upset because I have no...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Haven't really posted anything anymore

    since my bf is home but I hate how days keep going by so fast he's leaving again in two weeks :( We're definitely enjoying every day we spend together
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I live in Florida (not

    together) and we see each other probably two or three times a week sometimes more. He is in Texas right now for a few days for a family vacation and I ALREADY miss him like crazy. He goes to boot camp in September... How am I supposed to go 2 weeks without hearing from him at...
    AllyZamitalo AllyZamitalo 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    We had a big fight tonight

    and I'm so afraid that it's going to break us. it's 3 am and I just can't sleep. My heart is aching.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    Good news! I got a letter from my airman

    and he says he can get me a base pass! :D YAYYYYYY! I'm so excited I can't wait!!! :) Also I have a question... I bought a postcard for him when I was in Chicago but I didn't think about the size of the postcard and I got one that's too big for the envelopes I use for his...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Missing my airman. 3 more days

    and he finally gets his phone back!
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    How often do they normally get mail?

    ? Is it like an everyday mail thing or only once or twice a week? I'm trying to decide how often I should send letters when I am finally able to. And do you suggest sending a bunch of different days in 1 letter, should I send each day separately, or should I wait to write him...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    if u will be given a chance military

    girlfriends here to change the past, wud u still choose to love a military guy?
    xazygreece xazygreece 22-25, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is very new and he left on his first

    deployment just five days ago. I am working on writing my first letter to him tonight and I have so much that I want to tell him, so many things in the last five days that I want him to know about.. but at the same time I don't want to overwhelm him. I want him to feel like he's...
    Elixabeth Elixabeth 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm still in awe of how amazing he is

    and how much he genuinely cares for me. I was stuck in a tornado warning area at the back of a Target tonight and he stayed on the phone with me the whole time. Even though he really didn't have the time to be talking to me, he never hung up because he wanted to be sure I was...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    so he text me yesterday morning to tell me

    that he got moved back to days which means we get to see eachother more before he leaves! also found out he doesn't have to be in japan till the end of august! so I have 5 weeks with him! this makes me super happy!! I'm seeing him tomorrow, kinda hoping maybe tonight as well. he...
    dwtodd08 dwtodd08 22-25, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    You may remember that I posted earlier about my

    boyfriend who was initially shocked when he discovered that I actually do number two. He was the one whose mom had told him that in girls, number two comes out more like deer pellets in the forest, not so smelly, and kinda neat. Well, anyway, now that he had gotten over the...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm patiently waiting

    for that first letter from my air force man . What week did some of you girls receive the first letter? I don't have the address so he has to send me the first letter.
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Every time I get a letter I do a little happy

    dance :) he really likes boot camp so far and that makes me so happy
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    As I was stuck on what to write him,

    my phone blew up with texts from him and all of the words just came to me. I overthink and filter too many things when really, he just needs to know I'm thinking of him and I care about him. A 9 month hiccup.. that is all this will be in the end.
    Elixabeth Elixabeth 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    my man's back on land.

    I get to text him daily again. God I missed him. ????
    wtfdaysi wtfdaysi 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend recently keeps talking about

    reenlisting and I didn't want him to because of the overwhelming fear I have that something could happen to him. I never said anything to him. Silently, I would hope he'd change his mind while acting like his cheerleader on the outside. I had this idea that he's safer out in the...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He's might come to see me this weekend.

    I don't really know because I never really know and he doesn't do well with sticking to plans. The last time he said he was coming his family held him up and he ended up not being able to. I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I just want to see him. I miss him so much. God...
    Theartsmusic Theartsmusic 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    19 more days. Only 19

    before family day! I am FINALLY in the teens. Thought they'd never come.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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