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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,493 People

    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    We're falling off ...

    I've been so patient with him but I feel like I'm the only one putting efforts in this relationship.
    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Today was a good day safe baby

    and spent the afternoon cleaning and doing laundry with my man. No episode today and I randomly became emotional he held me rubbed my belly and didn't stop hugging me until I stopped cry. To many this isn't anything to me it's a big step him being able to handle my random...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    What are ways that my sailor

    and I can participate in pre-marital counseling while he is active duty? Does anyone know of any specific counsellors or organizations that they can suggest?
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    30days till my sailors birthday

    but I'll finally see him 41days from now. It's summer vacation and usually I want time to slow down and the days to last longer at this point. But I reeeeeally don't even care its summer! I've come to realize that I don't look forward to summer anymore. All I look forward to is...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm watching the Atlanta v.

    Cleveland game and I just know my soldier is dying to find out how it's going to end. haha. I'm a fan of the Hawks and he's a LeBron fan. (he doesn't care about the rest of the team). I really hope we win so that I can junk talk him all day Sunday lol.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    From reading the last couple posts sound like

    some of you girls have had a rough couple days! I just wanna say keep your head up, things will get better I promise !! I'm always here to talk, even if you just need someone to listen, I know how much better I feel after a good rant !! My guy has seemed off the last couple of...
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Aaaaaaannnnnndddddddd his leave got approved!

    !!!!! 🎈🎈🎆✨ happiest girl in the world right now!
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Well, he did it. He actually left me.

    I'd like to thank everyone on this app for your kind and helpful advice... You ladies are all amazingly sweet and I wish you all the best! I hope you never have to go through this because my god it hurts. I really have no reason to be on this app anymore, so I'm just going to...
    kenzie11904 kenzie11904 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend leaves tomorrow.

    .. His leave never seems long enough...but I always like listening to music that helps me get through his leaving....anyone no any good songs that help you deal?
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 1 Response 41 mins ago

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    3 months down. 2 more to go

    until I get to see my man. The time is flying by.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    First time since we started talking

    that I'm going to bed without having heard from him... I know this is nothing compared with some of you on here.. Just want my love by my side. Other couples don't realise how lucky they are..
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My S/O just received his orders.

    He’ll be leaving on course Tomorrow :/ Instead of leaving in July… Do any of you Ladies have Ideas for Care Packages?
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    My boyfriend has been deployed now

    for 4.5 months. Most days, I am totally fine. I stay busy and keep my mind off of it, even though our relationship is restricted to a narrow time we can talk every day. At least it's every day. But tomorrow is a really really big day for me, and I have been sad all day...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Last night was awful.

    It was my 21 birthday and I was out with my friends and my boyfriend ruined it. He told me he had bad news but he would tell me the next day but of course I wanted to know since he mentioned it. I was expecting it to have to do with the army but he told me he may have a little...
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So I realized why when he goes out

    or does anything it bothers me. It's not the fact that I'm jealous and insecure. But I HATE that we live separate lives. I hate that our lives don't come together everyday like normal couples. I hate knowing that it's not going to be like that soon. And I hate that he can do it...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    my bf comes home next month

    and we're both from the same town and most of his friends are going to want to hang out with him but he only has 2 weeks here and I'm trying to fit in 3 days of vacation near the beach and away from everyone else ?? this is going to be hard
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    One month till family day !

    ! I'm so excited :D
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I graduated school on Tuesday

    as a member of the National Honors Society ! I wish my sailor could have been there but I will see him soon!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Does anyone still have any suggestions

    for problems sleeping? We have had 2 good days no episodes actually he's being extra sweet and comforting. But, last night he just couldn't sleep and kept waking me up and it sucked having to work today with lack of sleep. Any suggestions are appreciated especially after hearing...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I"t's been too long and I'm lost without

    you What am I gonna do? Said I been needin' you, wantin' you Wonderin' if you're the same and who's been with you Is your heart still mine? I wanna cry sometimes I miss you. Now I'm sittin' here Thinkin' 'bout you And the days we used to share It's drivin' me crazy I don't know...
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    In 2 weeks I'll see my boyfriend during his

    graduation weekend from basic! So excited but also kinda nervous cause I'm not sure how different he will be. Any words of wisdom are much appreciated :)
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    My Airman graduates from basic on Thursday!

    Then I'm going to go see him in July! I'm so excited.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    I get one more weekend with my boyfriend then

    he goes back! His leave is never long enough. I don't no how to feel about all of this. I don't no how to take it? Any advice on how to deal?
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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