Post

I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,771 People

    My boyfriend just called me

    and I got to talk to him for one minute and he told me I get to go to his graduation!! I'm literally so happy! I was crying the whole time and could barely get the words out to tell him my info to get on the base. He told me to write everyday and that they're starting to get...
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never thought I'd find someone I truly care

    about. I love him so much. He means the world to me. He is the only man I want for the rest of my life. I can honestly say that he completely stole my heart. I don't know what I would so with out him in my life now. He brings a smile to my face with just a hello, and makes the...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How long does it take to get your first letter

    when they are in reception/basic training? He is in fort Benning and left Tuesday. Anyone else have a soldier that was in basic at fort Benning?
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm gonna cry like a baaaaaby!

    !! I want another letter!!!! >.< I miss hiiiiim so freakiiing much!!! :(
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When we started dating,

    he was already in the military. I knew it was going to be hard, but i was never prepared to be this lonely. Friends say it's "just like being single, but you can't hit on other guys" It's not. It's hard, it's waiting, wondering, worrying. I know i am not the only one living this...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Got a text today telling me he got an idea of

    where he will be stationed :) we are both really happy because it's where we wanted. I guess since the sergeants are so impressed with his progress and his attitude they gave him first choice. We were preparing ourselves for the worst and got the best. Feeling so blessed today...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My boyfriend just went into the military

    and he has been dreaming of this day since he was little. He has such a passion to save people and wants to get rid of as many bad people in the world as he can. I support him all the way, it's just hard for two years we have been stuck to the hip and planned so much but he had...
    morgan2054 morgan2054 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Thinking about my wonderful boyfriend

    and how I miss him so much tonight. This quote definitely fits how I feel perfectly. Only a few 106 more days!
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I remember the first fight we had.

    We were on a party bus in the middle of Manhattan during the winter & I had flipped out on him because one of his past flings thought it was funny to give me a nickname & make references about me on his FB. He literally stopped the bus and got off. I let him go, too. I always...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Anyone have days where they have something

    important they want to tell or show to their man because you're so used to that and then remember you're not able to talk to him? Having one of those days where I just want to mentally break down. Trying to stay strong for him and me :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So effiiinnngggg excited!

    I can't even wait!
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The weirdo I am, I drew out the next 17 months

    in a notebook and colored in the days where air assault school is, possible deployment is, his birthday, our anniversary, when he hopefully will be coming home, and when I can plan a possible visit where he is now. Putting it all into perspective out in front of me gives me...
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Does anyone else get super nervous

    when going to hang out with your soldiers family? I always gets super anxious when I see them!!
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My boyfriend has been in OSUT (army)

    for a month now, and he's still got about three months to go. I'm starting to get scared that he won't want me anymore when he comes home. What if he's not attracted to me or just falls out of love with me? I'm so afraid that I'm going to lose him. I'm head over heels in love...
    armygf916 armygf916 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    whys him being away this time

    so much harder than him being in Korea for a year? He's in the states and I feel like its so much harder on both of us more now than before.
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He gave me yet another reason to be more in

    love with him this morning!!!! We have been dealing with something together that can change our lives and he text me to check on my even tho he is gone at training. I asked him if and part of him wanted it to be and he said yes to it. So I asked him why and told him cause I do...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I guess I'm no longer a military girlfriend.

    ... This has been a rough evening for me. My boyfriend finally told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore and doesn't want to keep trying and pretending. It is absolutely heartbreaking!! I love him and I will miss him. But I know that no matter what I do he does not...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So my husband wants me to drive to Oklahoma

    AGAIN to come see him. I was just there two weeks ago but they have a four day weekend since it's Labor day and he really wants me to come. I want to come but he graduates on the 18th and that 7 hr drive can be a killer. So I would have to drive there this weekend and then go...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    38 days down, 21 to go!

    I can't wait to see him!! It feels so close!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its painful. Its hard.

    Its emotionally draining, and at times its really lonely. But I keep a smile on my face because I'm not going to be selfish, and I'm not going to only think of myself. I am thinking of him, and how proud I am of what he is doing. This is not pulling us apart, but making us...
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Just 3 more weeks!! & ill be on my way to see

    my baby(: im so nervous i have butterflies in my stomach haha
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tomorrow will mark two weeks

    since the last time I heard from my solider (via letter). His BMT graduation is in two weeks, so I keep telling myself he's using the time to study. But things here have been super stressful, and I just want that hug from him and the "you're doing great, keep it up!" that a...
    ohlaurax ohlaurax 26-30, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm so new to all this!

    My soldier just left for basic training yesterday! Missing him so much already. Looking for any advice or support to get through these next few months :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tomorrow I have an early art to drive 12 hours

    to see him. This is the last time before his deployment date... I don't know how I should feel!! I am so excited to see him but he's so stressed and hasn't contacted me in two days now. The next two weeks will be hard and saying goodbye for a few months is going to be harder...
    Hannahhlouiise Hannahhlouiise 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How many times do I have to say I ONLY ALLOW

    MILITARY GIRLFRIENDS/FIANCÉ/WIVES TO ADD ME INTO THEIR CIRCLE!! I'm tired of these creeps who add me. What don't people understand?! Don't add me into your circle, Don't comment on my posts, don't message me unless you're a MILSO!!!!!
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i dont know if the days are getting harder

    or easier, hes only been gone for five days, but the longer hes away the lonelier i get, the only person i have around me is my mum, i dont have friends that i see a lot and im so bored when i get home from work :( i havent got upset because im making myself stay strong for him...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just got my letteeeeeeer!

    !!!!!! omg I had a heart attac when i saw it in the mailbox!! Soooo happy he goot my letteeers!!! can't wait tooo seee hiiiim!! <3! :33!  
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel