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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,825 People

    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I will be in his arms the day

    after tomorrow! These two months were so hard, but I became stronger than I thought I could and we made it through! Now all that's left is one big amazing hug and kiss to make up for the time apart. I'm so thankful for all you ladies helping me along the way! I'm so excited!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    It's nights like this

    where I just want him home with me. Gotta stay strong though. I got this.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been a while since I was last here.

    A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my English, I'm a little bit rusty. So at this same date last year, I was engaged and preparing for my new life after college. I was planning...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    When in army basic training will they get to

    start calling? If they get to at all
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    44 days seem like a life time away.

    I've had a car crash this week and the one person i wanted there to comfort me, is 600 miles away in Germany. This is when its hard, when things are going wrong or you're upset, the time goes quick when your having fun. I rang him up crying saying I wanted him here with me, I...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    so sometimes i wonder how hes manages to deal

    with me. i have good moments mostly but then i have my moments when im insecure and think hes gonna leave me and then i have crap happen and hes all i Oh Iwant but i stay strong because im head over heels in love with him. i constantly think of him and when i do luke bryan crash...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    You never know how strong you can be

    until you have no choice . We all have been through so much , but still find the strength to stay strong & hold on for our men ! We wake up to a empty side of the bed , we check our phone hoping for a five minute phone call or a 3 word text message , we check the mailbox every...
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Well time to start a countdown again.

    3 weeks of Airborne school. Just when I was a wake up away. But this is the Army life. We are military girlfriend's therefore we cannot get upset because we accepted to be apart of the unexpected rollercoaster that comes with standing by our men. But we are in it because it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So bad day started turning good thanks to two

    of my best friend and my honey!! My best friends reassured me that the friend that totally disrespected me is normally like that anyway when things don't go their way. My honey text me and made me smile and listened to me when I was upset. Things like that make me fall even now...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    So I try really hard to stay positive

    and post nothing but positive. However right now I wish he was home. Today is a bad day and it has nothing to do with him. But I just want to being in his arms as he is the one who will calm me down the most
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I keep seeing posts about how unpredictable

    this military life is, and how nothing is set in stone. So, does that mean even graduation from boot camp could be changed? He told be for sure November 6, but now I'm scared it's going to change or something!
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I don't believe in destiny.

    At least I didn't before I met him. So this is the story (all about how my life got flipped turned upside down... no? okay, let's be serious here): I live about 1h away from Montreal. He is from Vancouver. We live at the two opposite ends of the country. He was in Basic...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to feel right now.

    I'm in-between sad and happy. Just when I was 1 day and a wake up away from seeing my boyfriend. He gets his orders and everything has changed. Cons: -Instead of coming home Thursday he is now going to Airborne school for 3 weeks in Fort Benning, GA. -Instead of going to...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    10 days since I've sent my letter.

    Hopefully this mail backup gets fixed & I get a letter soon!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Tell my love about how hot it was today

    where I live and he tells me it's hotter where he's training. Always gotta make me feel better
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    69 days until my man comes home.

    74 days until I'm married to my love <3 93 days until we go to Tennessee and spend Christmas there. I can't wait <3
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Juuuuust 13 daaaaaaaays!

    !!! come on Yary!! U can do it! U love him and he loves u! Can't wait to have him in my arms and kissing him and tell him how much I love our love! and tell him how proud I am for him for his success! Juuust 13 days!!! Comeee on tiiiiiimeee fly this time! just this time <3
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    How do I stop taking things

    so personal?! Opens my snapchats: doesn't snap me back. Hasn't said "I love you" in 3 days...the list goes on. It's not my normal Sean. I know he's busy and has a lot going on. But I am the type of person who takes everything personal, even though I know it's not. How do I stop...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Waiting for a text message is worse

    than waiting for a letter.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    Smfh I'm so mad I can't

    even speak proper English right now!!! Everyday is something. Don't tell me bout breakup cuz me doh wa hear. Let him go entertain woman that is his business. No gyal could come tell me bout my man no sir that must be the people man. That is the US military man not mine...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    ive been doing so well

    until this week, i feel lost and like its hit me more now because theres a chance i could see him this weekend if he passes his tests but by the sounds of it, hes not doing too well which then means i have to wait another month to see him, if i ever do, this life is so...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Omgomgomgomg he's coming home in November

    instead of December. Won't be home for Christmas. But I'd rather something over nothing at all. Kakcisnfickwvhfhjvhdtwteffhysg. Excited!
    BurgosGirl BurgosGirl 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    He's upset with me because I didn't text him

    when he asked me to....um hello I was busy! Ironic right? Lol
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    GIIIIIIIIIIIIRLS JUST LISTEEEEN THIS

    SOOOOOOOONG!!! OOOMMGG!!! <3 <3
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    December just seems so close,

    yet so far away. I want my boyfriend home.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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