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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,779 People

    i had a long phone call with my airman last

    night even though he was getting ready for an inspection, i was so tired from work and babysitting my niece that i fell asleep whilst on the phone to him! i woke up at 4am feeling sad because i didnt get to tell him i love him, if im finding his basic so hard i dont know how i...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I have my beautiful solider texting me right

    now. Going to bed a happy girlie tonight <3
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been a hard week.

    We have literally fought every day. I know it's my fault as much as his but it's taking it's toll on me. I love this man with my whole heart but I think things there are super stressful and things here are the same. I haven't felt this overwhelmed since my senior year finals in...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend is in basic at Ft.

    Jackson. I've written him like crazy, but he called his mom and said he hadn't gotten a letter from me in over 3 weeks. And today was the last day to send or receive letters. I'm so worried he hasn't gotten any of the letters I've written him. I just want more than anything to...
    bebejane14 bebejane14 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend John got a call yesterday,

    thank The Lord. He is only getting a couple hours of sleep a night. He goes to sleep at 12 and wakes up at 3:30.... He isn't allowed a down time. When he finally got his first down time they had him writing off... I've been writing everyday. I don't think he will even have time...
    kymp06 kymp06 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    for some stupid reason im watching dear john,

    this is not good right now! what an idiot i am, and obviously ive pretty much cried the whole way through :(
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Ugh! I'm such idiot. My beautiful soldier rung

    me and I couldn't help but burst into tears so I just hung up so he couldn't hear me cry. What is wrong with me?
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    So I was talking to my boyfriend today who's at

    bootcamp and I asked him if he still loves me like when he did before he left, and he said he's not sure. Because he just feels empty and doesn't even miss his family sometimes, he said he's always around guys that make him mad and doesn't really remember how love even feels. Is...
    ilovemysoldier18 ilovemysoldier18 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    One of those nights..

    I just need him here. I just need to hear his voice.
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I've been going through a rough time physically

    with my health lately. Even tho he is at training he finds away to text me to see how I am doing and of I've gone to the dr. We want to make sure all things are good. This could affect out future with a few things and we don't want that. Fingers crossed things are ok! But I love...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Smh I just found out

    that my monster in law will be at the graduation. I'm sorry to say it like that but I stay clear of her. Part of me understands the pain she's gone through and the reason why she behaves the way in which she does but as far as I'm concerned I have my own mother and I don't need...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    19 days till I'll be in his arms!

    !! Its finally in the teens!!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    just a picture to hopefully make you ladies feel

    even more proud to be a military girlfriend! xx
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So thankful to have such amazing friend

    and man in my life. Two of my best friends say with me at the er for nearly 7 hours, ugh yes 7 hours. I am doing ok. I will be fine. But i can honestly say he is the most amazing man ever!!!! The whole time I was there he was texting me checking on me to find out what is wrong...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Is there such thing as too much mail?

    I've been writing him a letter a day but I'm not sure if he could be given a hard time if gets them all at once or something like that.
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    There are days where I hate being in this

    relationship in a way because I am just missing him so much and it’s so painful, but never for a second do I regret being here nor do I ever wish I weren’t. I put myself through a lot of pain for the love of my life, and the reality is that I would endure 100x more pain for...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I got my second letter today!

    It was so sweet and perfect, and exactly what I needed!!! I miss him so much, it feels like it's been much longer than it actually has since he left. Staying strong for us though!
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I'm so nervous about going down to SC

    for family day & graduation. Last night I was quiet & distant at work, everyone felt it; today I woke up at 7:30 and randomly started cleaning up around the house; atm I feel sad, idk why. I keep getting those little knots in my stomach too & I have to keep telling myself to...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So exciting news today!

    ! While talking to him about what happened to me last night since he was constantly checking on me. I found out when he gets back from training!!!! I'm so excited about that now to try and get my stuff taken care of and get my bc removed!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm new to the military life style.

    I don't really know how to deal with things. My boyfriend just got stationed in San Diego. He's been there about a month but I live in Mississippi still. I found him on a dating website. When I asked him about it he said he was drunk and lonely and made an account one night but...
    brittanyelanda brittanyelanda 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Happy One Year Anniversary to the love of my

    life and the man of my dreams. I am truly blessed to have you in my life. I know this year has not been an easy one but everything we've been through has been so worth it in the end. I promise to always stand by you no matter what and although this military life is crazy, I...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    I miss him so much...

    the days are going so slow and I just want to talk to him more than anything.
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    Finally, finally got my first phone call!

    Definitely had some tears afterwards, but soo happy I got to talk to him for a whole 25 minutes :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Anyone have thoughts on how to deal with

    thoughts of your guy getting deployed? Mine is NationalGuard so it's less likely but it can still happen obviously :( I cry every time I think about it
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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