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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,304 People

    The people here are so amazing

    and supportive! I'm going to tell my friend about this support group so that she'll have someone that understands her exact situation.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    moving from chicago to north carolina to

    finally be with my marine is going to be a huge transition for me. I cant wait to start this new chapter of our lives together this summer :)
    Nmxx7 Nmxx7 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Its been 2 weeks yesterday

    that he's been gone. I'm doing ok so far. Not getting to talk to him is killing me. I look at the videos he did for me on my phone. One of them is him tell me how much he loves me and is gonna miss me. I cry everytime I watch it. I miss him like crazy. I see all these happy...
    SlimsB SlimsB 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    So most of you know me here my original

    username was asoldiersgirl2012 but my account got deactivated. anyway.... my boyfriend just got a call last week saying that in july he is being deployed....again. this wasnt supposed to happen. not so soon not after he was finally getting back into his life. our life. im being...
    loveoverdistance loveoverdistance 22-25, M 23 hrs ago

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    Aaah!!! My baby just called!

    !! Things are getting better :)
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Seen this today...here's

    why we do it ladies! Only we understand, everyone else would too if they felt the way we do for our military men!
    UKSgirl10 UKSgirl10 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Super nervous about tomorrow morning!

    ! Prayers that my man and I can talk in the morning tho I wish he could be home with me. This is the first step in the east of our lives together.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Oddly enough my boyfriend & I experience the

    same pains and happiness. If he gets a backache/headache/stomachache, so do I. This became the norm & just got used to it until I randomly got hiccups which I haven't had in years and so did he on the exact same day! Crazy right!? Ha. He's been working 12-14 hour days & is...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm feeling so discouraged.

    I was supposed to be flying to Chicago to see my fiancé graduate but he injured his leg. They're calling for a 6-10 week recovery on top of the two weeks he had left. I've gotten two phone calls with possible life changing decisions and now I'm just in a state of limbo. I can't...
    AnnaBrke1 AnnaBrke1 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So my man has been texting me a little today

    because the weather in Fort Sill is kinda harsh today so he has his phone until tonight. I really needed this. I've been walking around all day with the biggest smile on my face!! He told me how his days get better when he thinks about me and just ajshkakans I'm just so happy...
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Message me please. Having a hard time it's

    really sinking in that he won't be back until April :( I just want to call him
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I haven't seen him since 1st January

    and he's home in 21 days. To be honest its gone quick, a few of the weeks dragged but I have a feeling the last couple weeks are going to go so slow! He's still a bit off with my at the moment but lets just see how things go when he's home, He'll get back in the UK around 5-6am...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 38 mins ago

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    How can I deal with my boyfriend being gone

    for months. This past week was really hard. Some helpful ideas please?
    Analyze2k10 Analyze2k10 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    My boyfriend's family FINALLY answered me

    and told me they haven't received his form letter yet. They told me as soon as they get an address, they'll let me know. Praise God.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I just heard from him

    and I'm so ecstatic wndhaianskdnsnan I'm so glad he finally contacted me!!
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    we find out where and

    when he's shipping out for BCT today.. going out of my mind.
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Just bought a plane ticket to go visit my boy

    friend in 20 days!!! I'm so excited I can barely handle it :D
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    the anxiety about this is the worst.

    . not sure what to expect or what's going to happen. I hate this
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Saying prayers of peace

    and strength over all you ladies tonight. He'll be home sooner than you know it <3 stay strong everyone!!
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    His mom bought me a plane ticket to go visit

    him in April for my birthday :')
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My boyfriend called me last night

    and we talked for like 2 hours !! Ahh it was so amazing, I woke up in a great mood because of it :) hehe hope everyone else is having a good week! I'll keep all you in my prayers <3 xo
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    well he's officially in

    and leaving in June for Georgia **sighs**
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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