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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,023 People

    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    Yes my current bf is military.

    Some guys say when girls learn not to date with military guys though. I have also seen so many soldiers play around. But there were also honest and faithful guys too. A quite few guys though... How about your bf or fiancé or husband ?
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Waiting for my first letter.

    ..still have at least a week before I will get it...argh. Does anyone else sometimes feel silly sending letters everyday and not receiving anything back lol I know its obviously not his fault and I am not upset by any means...but sometimes...I do feel kind of silly haha
    erinkathleen89 erinkathleen89 22-25, F 8 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    He is so distant. His truck payment was due

    and he asked me to pay it last month and I haven't heard from him in almost two weeks so I asked his parents and they said pay it, he wouldn't be mad. I sent him a message with all of the confirmation info and all I got back was "I have access to a shop computer and I paid it...
    rubyreb rubyreb 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I swear all y'all are amazing!

    if it wasn't for you guys I might just have gone crazy!! Thank all y'all who I talk too.
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Well I need to do something to entertain myself

    away...figured why the hell not do this? http://youtu.be/L9p_RFp8T1Y
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    15 days till I'm in his arms again.

    I can't wait, it's heart breaking that I received his last letters today but these past 2 weeks will go by faster than we realize it. He also sent me a picture of him today, my heart skipped a beat. I'm sooo excited. ???
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This is for all the girls messaging me about

    advice during basic training. I wish so bad I had been on this site during basic. It would have helped me so much. Send him letters. Hundreds if you need, but stay positive. He's losing his mind in there and he needs your support very strong for the next year. This time for him...
    BrookeAlyssa BrookeAlyssa 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    We had our first proper argument last night.

    It was over something completely irrelevant and I was been hormonal and moody, he was tired so it kinda just started from nowhere. I did start it but in all fairness he made it worse than it should have been. I hate arguing and it makes me so upset and down, especially when hes...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    So happy my baby is home :) I can't wait till

    we are actually husband and wife.
    Nelly14 Nelly14 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    I miss him so much and hope everythang is is ok

    today makes a week that i havent heard anything from anyone. I love him and want him home but that wont be till Hallowee.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I saw my mailman's truck today

    and my heart started pounding with anticipation with memories of last year. A year ago I would've waited by the window waiting to see if he was here and praying he had a letter and waiting by the mailbox or interrupting his whole process. I can't believe it was only a year ago...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 9

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I am currently at the hotel on base getting

    ready to see my handsome soldier tomorrow morning!!! I am so excited there is no way I am getting any sleep... :)
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Ok so I need a vent moment.

    I'm just frustrated!! My best friend who's hubby just got out of the military promised me when I told her and asked her for help for my mans care package that she would help me as she has done them before. Well the time is here and I've specifically arraigned days with her and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I had a dream about him last night ): I haven't

    heard from him in 12 days too. I try to send him little messages everyday to let him know I'm still here, I know he reads them so not hearing from him is hard.
    rubyreb rubyreb 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Hearing from him makes me

    so happy :) 25 more days until I see him, which is like a drop in the bucket compared to how long it's been since he left, but the days are just dragging by. I think we are starting to find the right balance in communication (at least I hope we are). Weekdays when I'm busy...
    EmilyP94 EmilyP94 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So I saw he was on Facebook yesterday,

    (he's about to graduate), and I sent him a message confronting him about pretending I don't exist. No response. He read it, I saw. A big middle finger to him!!!!!!
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    1 month untill Christmas then not long

    until he's home it's going soooo sloow!! sent his Christmas box the other day and going to send another on the cut of date so he won't be expecting it so hopefully surprise box will make him smile :) eeek cant wait now!
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I sent him an Adventskalender today cause I

    can't go see him next weekend...hope he'll like it cause he is really homesick these days. I feel so sorry for him to be so far away from his family so I try to support him as much as I can and try to be there for him. I also had this idea for a christmas present kinda for his...
    crispyxx crispyxx 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Aaarrrrggghhhh. So i got a call today from my

    man saying that he got hurt and is the medical hold and his graduation is probably going to be pushed back a week or two.....on the plus side it was awesome being able to talk to him...But i don't want to wait another week or two!!!! Bahhhh!
    erinkathleen89 erinkathleen89 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Ladies please keep you eyes out on here,

    there is a girl who keeps coming and going and Im sure a few of you have had her add and message you. Her name is julieafwifey. She messages you playing the victim of her husbands cheating but tells you what she is doing to get back at him. Please if you get anything from her in...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Hey Ladies! Anyone have a Twitter?

    Follow me @TheArmyGF1217 :)
    Vianna1217 Vianna1217 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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