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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,110 People

    They still won't tell him

    if he can come home for four days for Christmas. This is the part I really can't stand about the Army. What is going to change between now and Christmas? Just make the decision. Then he leaves for 9 months. So, awesome.
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    merry Christmas everyone I hope you all have

    both lovely days with and without your men, either way we have them in our lives even if they arnt here right now but they will be again soon, keep smiling :)
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Well this is a horrible night.

    Found out today that he has been sending the exact same sweet messages to a coworker of mine...he didn't know she was a coworker...I'm so fed up and I can't deal...
    lalahughes lalahughes 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So my Airman doesnt get to come home

    for Christmas, and my older sister was murdered on Saturday, Merry freaking Christmas to me.
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    Happy Holidays!! Guess what?

    Two days ago I learned that my soldier was cheating on me while overseas. He didn't waste any time as soon as he arrived. I believe he probably has been cheating when he was back home, too. Especially when I was away at graduate school. It's all good though. I'm not heartbroken...
    alittlequirky alittlequirky 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    merry Christmas ladies I hope you all enjoy

    your Christmas with family. some of us might not have our guys here with us today but remember they are doing something they love and choose to do and we need to keep supporting them. It is hard on them as well as it is hard on us remember that.
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    Finally got to see him!

    ! 150 days apart and I surprised him at his grad on friday :D Spending one more day with him and his family before going home for christmas. He won't be back until the 29th but I'm glad i got to see him before Christmas :) Cant believe we are finally done with this course <3
    blossom6318 blossom6318 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    "The best and most beautiful things in the

    world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Destineymk Destineymk 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    He called me multiple times today

    and with every call he sounded more and more sad :( He really misses his nieces and his family and wishes that he could be here with us all. He is planning on coming for the weekend in 2 weeks but he knows that his orders may change. It makes me feel even worse because I can't...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone, As Christmas soon approaches,

    I need your help. Ideas for a Perfect Christmas present for him. Thank you all, Faith
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Happy holidays, ladies!

    I don't know if you listen to Ed Sheeran or not, but if you don't you should check out this song. It's super cute and has sort of helped me out a bit.
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I miss my man and hope

    that tomorrow will go good and wish that he could be there with me.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    So for Christmas he got me new scrubs,

    a stethoscope clip and a pocket organizer....along with this...I love all my gifts :)
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    It's been just over 90 days

    since I saw her last. I'm really hoping time starts to move QUICKER.
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I'm posting this again

    as I have noticed a lot of ladies having a difficult time lately. Honestly this book is worth the read, I highly recommend it to all of you. You can get it online at Christian book website, or at any Christian store. Please if you are having a rough time please invest in it! It...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    Thought you ladies might like this.

    I found this poem online A Soldiers Christmas Twas the night before Christmas, he lived all alone, In a one bedroom house made of plaster & stone. I had come down the chimney with presents to give And to see just who in this home did live. I looked all about a strange...
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I miss him a lot tonite tomrow will be realy

    hard with out him being here but we know he is gone for a good reason we hope every one has a good Christmas.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    mixed emotions..mine will have his christmas

    leave but i will not be able to see him coz he will go to another state to take the chance filling his divorce.i know how much he wanted that divorce so im just supporting him,,but how i wish i was near him so he can dropped by,,but he's not..
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    "as Christmas grows closer the feeling of pain

    grows sharper, the pain of knowing that this Christmas I will be without my hero. for the military has borrowed the man I love, and is turning him into the hero I always knew him to be. with this my pain is chased away making me become proud and happy. soon not only will the...
    morganrose7 morganrose7 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Today is my birthday.

    Which means, only 3 days until I see my sailor :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Update: So he initiated a 'break up'

    that he still has yet to follow through. He acts just like we're still together. In his mind, we still are. To me, it's over. But I won't tell him that until he comes home to no furniture and all of my clothing gone. For now I will continue to carry on the charade of a loving gf...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)