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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,711 People

    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    It just hit me tonight

    that my boyfriend is leaving Tuesday morning... I was sitting next to him watching one of our favorite movies, and all if a sudden I just lost it... I try not to show those kinds of emotions with him very often. They make him feel guilty. However, tonight I couldn't hold back. I...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Everything is finally starting to piece

    together. After all the stress I've been under, it's nice to finally see the light. I just dropped my classes from nursing school. I now have an appointment to tour a cosmetology school. My family still isn't very happy with my decision, but I'm happy. The only support I've...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I've had the most amazing time with my boyfriend

    for our 1 year. It's so sad to think I'll be heading back home this time tomorrow morning. Being with him makes me want to wait for him because I know he's the one I want to spend my forever with. Last night he said something that just made me smile. "I'm the only one who gets...
    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend just got here on Thursday

    and is leaving on Monday to drive his car all the way to Washington which will take three days and we were supposed to make a road trip out of it with his brother and his brothers gf. I asked my mom and by the I could finish asking she said No. Mind you I'm 20 pretty much live...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    My amazing boyfriend just left

    for Army basic training about a week ago. I never thought I could miss a person this much. I'm waiting on a letter from him and I really just don't know how I can last another 3 months of this.
    cali7598 cali7598 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm so upset with my bf I'm okay with him

    drinking with his buddies but he does this EVERY weekend and it's just not a little he drinks to the point that he gets sloppy or blackout & today he wouldn't tell me where he was going and had me on speaker, he then after told me he's going to a party with the homies and last...
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    This time next weekend he'll be here in NYC

    with me. At home, in my new apt, in the same state, back on home soil for the first time in a year. I AM SO FRIGGIN EXCITED! For once I'm not dragging my *** over to europe and he's coming to me. I've made all the trips to see him all year, he's home for those 2wks and it'll be...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have not been dating very

    long. I am a full-time student in college and he is in the military. He just left for Fort Polk in Louisiana, and I remain in Tennessee. He was at the end of his deployment when we actually went to the same school from a time (he is a few years older than me which is why our...
    leelan21 leelan21 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Today is just a really great day.

    Feeling very blessed and thankful for all you sweet ladies on here❤️
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    The coolest thing happened yesterday.

    ... When my husband and I were still dating we went to a Tenth Avenue North concert. More so because I wanted to go than him, but it was a really good experience for the both of us. That was over two years ago and at the beginning of the summer he found out there was going to be...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    So I'm planning a trip to Virginia to see him

    in August before he deploys & I wanna make friends before I go. I'm from ohio. I'll be 17 in a couple weeks. Kind of want something to do while he is at work or busy.
    MackenzieByers MackenzieByers 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Disappointed with today:/ I was really hoping

    I'd get a phone call but it's close to 8 and still nothing :( days like this I can't help but get upset and I know he's busy and maybe they just didn't get their phones again, but the not knowing is the worst part. But I still got my hopes up anyways :/
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So Logan's basic training graduation is in 2

    weeks & I can't go unfortunately. His parents are going though and I was gonna have them give him a present from me for graduating. I wanted it to be something special not your everyday kinda present. I saw this idea online for military girlfriends and it's called "open when" it...
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    These were my babies.

    Honestly I can tell you that for me personally the pain of being away from my man is nothing compared to having lost these little miracles. I never knew what really pain was till I lost them. I'm grateful for my beautiful son and daughter from my previous relationship, and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    When did you guys all get your first letter?

    Tomorrow my boyfriend will be starting his 3rd week. Do we need to send them stamps in order for them to send us letters? Or are they provided with stamps? I'm just confused as to how they send their letters.
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I just got mail from my boyfriend who's in

    basic and he sent me a name tag... I'm kind of freaking out because I don't know if they're allowed to do that like if they have extra or something, idk. Should I send it back to him and is he going to get in trouble for it?
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    So we all have stronger days

    and some really tough ones, not saying we don't miss our soldiers everyday. Some day are just harder to deal with than others. I have held up a pretty strong and positive attitude since he has left but today I'm just not having it easy. Looking for someone to talk to and help me...
    SillyAnna15 SillyAnna15 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I miss my love so so

    so so much! I can't wait to hear from him again, he said he should get his phone back sometime after Sunday! :) I have so much to tell him already! I wonder what he's been doing? I love Nathan so very incredibly much! I'm so lucky to have him, I thank god everyday for him! :) Im...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Agh I still can't believe it.

    ..I leave in less than a week for Georgia..15 hours from my home! I am so excited and nervous for it all but can't wait for our new chapter in our lives! On a side note packing and moving really bites and that drive with my little fur baby oh my.
    brenarmywf brenarmywf 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    tessaccaa tessaccaa 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    My boyfriend left to boot camp 5 weeks ago.

    They're no words to explain the mixed emotions I have everyday. Life isn't the same without him. But today I received the most lovey dovey letter that made me fall for him all over again. It really showed me he's doing this for our future, to make sure we are going to be...
    shelli1a shelli1a 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am new to this app.

    .... my boyfriend of seven years just enlisted in the army and will be leaving in September.I need support because I am falling apart..... I am afraid and can't keep the tears back. I guess I just need advise from those doing it on their own.
    alesiaross alesiaross 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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