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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,164 People

    haven't recieved any letters yet

    and I'm getting worrird
    tiffylexi tiffylexi 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm so blessed to have had the opportunity to

    have talked to my man these past two days.. Even though it was only 30 minutes and now it's back to letters, it's a blessing. Being able to hear his voice and making our usually jokes made it all better(: He honestly treats me like his queen even though he's miles away. Stay...
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I am... a slew of feelings

    and emotions right now, and honestly I just need help and someone to talk to. How do you ladies cope with the loneliness on top of everything going on in daily life? I'm feeling miserable and alone, and even though I get to skype him, text and call him because he's in A school...
    areianna areianna 16-17, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 22-25, F 9 Responses May 13, 2015

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    I was not expecting anything

    for Valentine's Day, considering my boyfriend is in bootcamp. But somehow he was able to send me gifts! I love that man so much
    Klynn22 Klynn22 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    How do you guys deal with feeling like you have

    no control of your relationship? I've noticed that a lot of my anxiety is caused by me feeling like I have no control and all the unknown. If anyone has advice for me I'd greatly appreciate it.
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's driving home for the weekend!

    I'm so excited to see him. I've spent the past 2 hours texting with my friend trying to figure out what to wear when I see him tomorrow! He'll be here about 4 in the morning and I'll se him around 11 after my classes are all finished. I'm so anxious!
    ouiee ouiee 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    AIT is going to let him have his phone 24/7

    thank God! I was dying without him. (-: super excited to hear his voice everyday!
    EmilyyyyVillanueva EmilyyyyVillanueva 16-17, F 19 hrs ago

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    is it normal that my man is not msging me

    that much since he graduated basic he only sends me a msg in the morning and then I don't hear from him the rest of the day I'm getting worried that he is Losing interest in me what do I do I need serious advice I'm freaking out
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Happy birthday to a friend I wouldn't have

    found without this group!
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Is there anyone that lives in Southern

    California? I'd like to meet up with someone that understands what I'm going through. Message me if you do
    Kiayamj Kiayamj 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7, 2015

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    Will hopefully get a phone call from my

    boyfriend on Valentine's Day! So excited! As he's in basic training he's only allowed his phone at allocated times though which sucks! I also have to work on Valentine's Day so I'm hoping my boss lets me take the call! Has anyone else been at work when their partners have called...
    atashysoasis14 atashysoasis14 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Ladies who feel that their honey isn't

    interested or isn't responding or whatever it maybe.. These men went through hell to finish BCT. It wasn't easy at all. They are literally physically scarred from the work they put in.. If you dont send letters every other day.. Or stand by their side they will realize a lot...
    EmilyyyyVillanueva EmilyyyyVillanueva 16-17, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Dear John is on ! <3 I seriously love this

    movie even though it makes me cry like a big baby and miss my fiance more !
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Question, how are they able to send gifts from

    bootcamp? I'm just in shock that I got a gift for Valentine's day in the mail. I feel so lucky/happy!
    Klynn22 Klynn22 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    watching dear john on my iTunes love this movie

    so much but it makes me cry it reminds me of my relationship.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    So I'm not a girlfriend anymore,

    but I met most of my milso friends on this forum, I hope you don't mind that I still use it haha Anyways, I woke up this morning and found this on his snapchat!! We won't be together for Valentines, but he's coming home in just under two weeks, so it's okay. Looks like he...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 22 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Ladies with their men overseas on in training-

    what're ya'll gonna do this Valentines Day? This is the first one I'll spend without my man actually with me, so I'm curious about you guy!
    christinamoen97 christinamoen97 18-21, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Meckert14 Meckert14 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    michellegm05 michellegm05 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I got to talk to my boyfriend today.

    .. It was the best and it reminded me of the reasons why I fought for us for so long, it's crazy how boot camp can change a person to being more mature and grown up(: He even has everything planned out for our future together as long as all his goals.. Can't wait tell tomorrow...
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 day ago

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