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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,410 People

    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Today my boyfriend of nearly 2 years received

    the news that he's going into the army in September. I would never stop anyone from doing this opportunity and I'm so proud of him. But deep down i'm nervous, scared of losing him and I just genuinely feel like I've a lost a part of me. I can't deal with being alone, and not...
    abigailhopex abigailhopex 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I don't know what to do!

    !! My Man is gone and they are telling me I may have breast cancer or something similar to it. They can't tell because of how the lump is formed but I'm terrified! my Mom got it at 18 My Aunt first got it at 14 and had had it 4 times since and she just turned 30 and My grandma...
    Carliza0425 Carliza0425 16-17 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    my boyfriend left on April 7th

    for a 6 month deployment in Germany. ever since he left I feel like it's hard to hold everything together. like he was my glue. I try to distract my self but its hard because I'm constantly worrying about him.
    maggienasi maggienasi 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My bf graduated!!! I'm

    so proud of him. But they're making him go on. Plane back home :( he can't ride back with us. Man this sucks but I'm glad he's done
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    I've been holding it together pretty well

    since he left for basic but I feel like I'm going to break soon.
    renmarie renmarie 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    WHY DOES EVERYTHING HAVE TO GO SO WRONG WHILE

    HE'S GONE?! First, we get into a custody battle with my older sister over my nephew and now my little sister's school bus was in an accident and they're all hurt. I hate life so much right now! I need my backbone.. I wish he was here..
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    It's so hard to believe

    that just a few months ago we had over 200 days till we would see each other again. Now here we are in double digits with just a few weeks. I'm eagerly waiting his return but it definitely is not coming quickly enough for me. I'm super excited and I get alittle more nervous...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    is it worth all the pain

    or should I just end it?
    maggienasi maggienasi 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Finally, after two weeks of waiting,

    I got the letters he sent! Bubby graduates tomorrow and then comes back to TX this weekend! πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Away on holiday (out of the country)

    but can't fully enjoy myself because I just want him here with me :(
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    so i plan to go visit my boyfriend in Missouri

    in a month. i have questions for you guys: 1. ok so when my boyfriend was here in December, i got in a lot of trouble by my parents because of him. nothing major but for example, i wouldn't come back home and not tell them where i was (even though they knew i was with him). my...
    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    He's gone at MCT and I have no form of

    communication with him. I had a good day today and for the first time haven't cried and I miss him. My biggest fear is that the pain is what's keeping him in my mind and I know it's irrational because he is legit always in my mind. I don't doubt our relationship in just afraid...
    careuhambur careuhambur 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    my boyfriend looks so different,

    I'm in love!! he looks so confident , I can't wait to hold him next week
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    He's leaving for a year tomorrow.

    I can't keep myself together
    MPsWoman MPsWoman 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    villasenorsarmygirl villasenorsarmygirl 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I am terrified of airplanes

    and flying, I am going on a place soon alone to go visit my boyfriend and I am ******** my pants. How can i get over this fear? You ladies have all travelled before im guessing alone, what do you do to distract yourselves?
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    my boyfriend is waiting to see

    if he can come home on recruiters assistance. I need to feel him holding me again soon or I'm going to break down. I have a bad feeling he won't be able to come home.
    electrabuzz electrabuzz 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Sending out positive vibes today!

    Have a great day ladies! We can do this.
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    It's official! In 3 weeks he can start having

    visitors and go off base!! Let the countdown start all over again:)
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    "I love you more" and blowing kisses through

    the phone! That's our love story.
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    idk why im feeling like this.

    .maybe bcoz i know he's leaving again for a month long training and we still didn't skype alot still...
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    well I've been holding this back

    for a while, but I was diagnosed with involuntary bulimia last week. my boyfriend is constantly worrying about me.. I don't want to tell him cause I don't want him to feel helpless and broken. but I don't want him upset cause I hid it from him? I really need to vent, and not...
    krypto1221 krypto1221 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses