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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,904 People

    Huh. He actually cares.

    That's weird.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    I wish I was informed beforehand how much this

    would screw with my heart and mind :/
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    How do you call yourself a friend

    if this is what you're about? I don't get it.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancรฉ's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 8 Responses Oct 3

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    I have a dilemma and need some advice.

    .. My fiancรฉ's parents are no longer together and both are married to other people. I am pretty close with his mom and step dad, but his step mom and I are becoming close also. Both have asked me to stay with them when I go for his basic training graduation... (Both live near...
    tanajo5 tanajo5 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Spoke too soon! I ain't stupid.

    Drunk. But not stupid.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    The closer the days come the more reality is

    hitting me and I'm getting nervous but excited to see him. I can't believe 6 months has blown by so quick. This deployment had a lot of ups and downs but we pulled through. I love him so much!!! Once he comes home we'll be celebrating our one year <3
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It's been two weeks since I've heard from him.

    .๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ช๐Ÿ’” I just wanna hear from him. I just wanna letter.. even if it'd say "I love you and I miss you" and that's all. It'd make me feel better. ๐Ÿ˜”
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 17 Responses Oct 10

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    Today through to tonight has been rough!

    !! The unsureness of what's going on? The longing to know if he is ok? Constantly thinking about him and knowing I can't know everything going on. I know I'm one of the stronger girls on here but I have my weak moments too. I should have listened to my girl amcgarity and walked a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My life is falling apart

    and not even because of his absence..growing up sucks.
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    So I went to work today

    and instead of getting out at 9:30 I got out at 11 because I had to close. After I left work I looked at my phone to 10 missed calls and 10 texts from my fiance :') he was so worried and thought something terrible happened. I've been with him for over 2 1/2 years and I've never...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Shame on me for changing.

    No, shame on you for staying the same.
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    First year since we've been together

    that we won't be having a pumpkin carving party. We always have so much fun and he always carves the best one! I carved my pumpkin today and I just felt not as into it this year. I just miss him so much and it's starting to hurt more as the holidays are getting closer. Some days...
    morgieporgie morgieporgie 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Ladies I am home!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ my trip was

    great but I must admit, there's no bed as comfortable as mine. Oh how I missed my bedroom and home cooked food. Anyway, we got to see each other for a LOT LESS time than expected but I appreciated it nonetheless because I got the opportunity to get a few things off my chest...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Change is inevitable.

    Why hold on to what you have to let go of?
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 5 Responses Sep 14

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I just want to text him.

    Every minute, of every hour, of every day. Because that's how much he's on my mind. Even when I'm mad at him.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 20 mins ago

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    alwaysshine alwaysshine 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    proudtobehis96 proudtobehis96 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Had the most amazing weekend with my airman!

    Seeing him graduate was such a proud moment and hugging him for the first time in months was absolutely perfect. Two months of nothing but letters and occasional phone calls was so completely worth three perfect days with him. Our love is stronger than ever and being together...
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I believe things get better in time.

    You have to stay strong and positive. Every day I am more thankful for the man that's in my life, my soldier, my other half. I know this experience is still new to me but I thank all y'all wonderful women who have talked to me on here to inform me with everything and being an...
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Finally got a call from him

    and he gets his phone for a couple hours! Could not be happier.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I am not one to be irritated

    or get pissed very easily, it takes a lot to **** me off or irritate me. If there's one thing that annoys and irritates me the most, it is definitely those people who think they know what it's like being in a relationship with someone in the military. If you have never been in...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    So I'll go, sit on the floor wearing your

    clothes; All that I know is I don't know, how to be something you miss...
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    He's been home for about 2 months now.

    And things have been great. He leaves again in August but until then we're just gonna make the best of it. Seeing him after basic was just amazing. Literally the best feeling ever. He was soo grown up and different but in a good way. This website truly helped me get through him...
    brimae17 brimae17 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Making some serious lifestyle changes in the

    next few weeks. Nervous and excited all at the same time.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    34 days left, can't come soon enough.

    (: So proud of the love of my life !
    WaitingOnASoldier2013 WaitingOnASoldier2013 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Amcgarity is a poopyhead

    for calling me lazy!!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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