I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,227 People

    Did anyone else feel really distant from their

    boyfriend when he was at ait school even tho you could talk to him.
    Klynn22 Klynn22
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 26

    This group has moved to Facebook ,

    join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 19

    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

    WTF?? EP is shutting down?

    So sad! I'm glad some girls messaged me telling me since I haven't been on here! I feel really sad because the 1st post I ever made was about how my man left Pendleton in CA & based across the country to NC a year+ ago... many sweet ladies cheered me up & eased my sadness. I...
    KaleJay KaleJay
    26-30, F
    Mar 27

    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

    This group has moved to Facebook; https://m.

    facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram; EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 7

    April 21 is fast approaching.

    This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    a week ago

    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    So I am a military gf we have been together

    for almost 3 years. my partner is just about to pass out of phase 1 training, I am so proud of him 😁 it's been hard as I am now 26 weeks pregnant, at college, already have a 3year old and have had to move, all while he has been away Lol but we have survived so far. I guess I...
    nict88 nict88
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 10

    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl
    18-21, F
    32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    April 21 is fast approaching.

    This group has moved to Facebook, join us for support, encouragement, and advice! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    a week ago

    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

    So since EP is closing,

    any milsos who would like to keep in touch can message me for contact info.
    tplum15 tplum15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 28

    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13
    22-25
    15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital
    61-65
    21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

    Well I haven't been here in a while.

    After we broke up he never responded until he saw that I was getting rid of his things. He finally was able to talk to me and he told me that the reason he didn't respond was because he felt bad because it had to wait for him. And he didn't know when he was going to see me again...
    michellegm05 michellegm05
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 26

    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38
    18-21
    10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

    This group is coming to a close

    and as you can see it is really quiet here - please join us on the new group! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 24
    Abbyx925 Abbyx925
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 1

    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002
    31-35, F
    16 Responses May 12, 2015

    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318
    18-21, F
    28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Nov 19, 2015
    dmw93 dmw93
    22-25, F
    8 Responses May 13, 2015

    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

    Hey ladies! If you haven't

    yet Please join our new support group on Facebook since EP will be on pause! :) https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 24

    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

    My boyfriend of 4 years got orders overseas.

    We have a baby together and he is leaving for 2 years this summer. We aren't going because we aren't married and because he will deploy from there and I don't want to be in a foreign country alone with 3 children. After many discussions and weighing the pros and con's we decided...
    Mishelly81 Mishelly81
    31-35, F
    Apr 19

    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

    I really feel like breaking down

    and crying this is getting hard on me ...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 2

    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    Manolo88 Manolo88
    18-21, F
    35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96
    18-21, F
    11 Responses May 7, 2015

    I am no longer a military girlfriend

    but I am currently talking to this wonderful guy in the Navy and I am in need of an advice. This post is quite long so please, please bear with me. So today I went out on a date with this guy. Let's just call him S. Anyway,S and I have been messaging each other for about a...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 8

    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    I'm so bummed this app is going under!

    It was really nice having a little support from people who know the struggle.
    shopaholic15 shopaholic15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 7

    Well my fiancé is freaking out thinking he

    can't wait the two years we have to be apart until I finish school. Any advice on how to convince him we can?
    halessnicole630 halessnicole630
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 30

    My boyfriend had his first chance to call me

    today after two weeks and I missed it because it was 7am and I of course was still asleep...i'm absolutely hearbroken...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 25

    I met my bf in high school

    and we did not date until he join the military.We had 2 weeks together than 2 years apart because he was going to be station in Japan .He did 1 deployment to afghan.He Was station in nc for a very short time and hated it and went back to Japan .Out of 6 years of being together...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 30

    Friendly reminder* to stay in contact with this

    group join our Facebook! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Apr 10

    I haven't written on here in months.

    but here's the catch up. me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for about 5 months now.i never thought I could find myself in a relationship after my last hardship. I didn't think I could ever deal with a long distance relationship. I didn't think I could deal with...
    Alexis1195 Alexis1195
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 30

    I am a military girlfriend my boyfriend just

    left yesterday for basic training and I have been on the internet trying to find support groups because I just needed people who understand what I'm going through. We have been together for almost 2 years and I love him dearly he is gone for 4 months I just don't know what to do...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13

    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace
    16-17, F
    92 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    The gals here are now on Facebook !

    Join us ! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16

    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

    My boyfriend graduated bootcamp this past

    Friday. Ladies I am one more living proof that love is stronger than everything. Love this family and I passed bmt and if you have any questions, message me or follow me on ig: freiremagaly
    Misabelf Misabelf
    18-21, F
    Apr 18

    so I haven't posted on here in a while

    because my boyfriend well ex boyfriend split up... WHILE STILL IN BASIC. He found out he got stationed in alaska and because that's "to far" he didn't want to be "emotionally attached " to anyone. he told me I could still come see him graduate.. but I don't know if I should...
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 7

    The only bright side to him being away is

    that I don't have to shave my legs.
    shopaholic15 shopaholic15
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 25

    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    I learned a new trick the other day.

    ..if you hold your breathe you don't cry as hard.
    shopaholic15 shopaholic15
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 2

    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    Reminder : this group has moved to Facebook.

    Link below, stay in contact with everyone! Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram: EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    Mar 28

    I sent out my very first care package!

    I spent a LOT of time (and money) making it perfect! I really hope he likes it! But when I told him that I sent it and that he should expect it in the mail by Sunday/Monday, he told me that he was sending me a present! I'm really excited! I can't wait to see... I don't usually...
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 24

    This group has moved to Facebook; https://m.

    facebook.com/groups/978517905517602/ Instagram; EPMILSOS
    mymilsobeginning mymilsobeginning
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 7

    since this site won't be here anymore.

    you can keep in touch by following me on instagram @ deshenai_14 I don't have facebook. also on twitter @wisdomhealth_
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 29

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Sep 9, 2014
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