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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,941 People

    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 8 Responses Oct 3

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    My baby is finally home!

    This is him eating my homemade enchiladas that he absolutely loved, it was only my 2nd time making them lol. But i'm so glad he had a safe flight and is back home in my arms! I couldn't be any happier right now. To all my MILSO's I know it gets tough and the waiting gets tiring...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    It's so sad seeing arguments on this group now,

    I was so excited when I found this page with people who actually know what i'm going through and will be going through in the future, now I'm not so sure. No one's complaining about their boyfriends being away at boot camp, just venting and looking for advice. Just had to get...
    acorso acorso 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I went to the veteran resource center on campus

    today. A friend of mine works there and is a marine veteran. I met a few active duty, reservists, & veterans while spending some time in there. I was completely caught off guard after talking to a marine about my relationship (how it started, how we get through it, etc) & then...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Seeing him today was everything !

    I didn't realize how much I missed him until I saw his face and started to cry uncontrollably . I can NOT wait until his off post pass tomorrow after graduation ;) oh yeah .. This is the happiest I've seen our son in forever !!!!!!
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So on a lighter note,

    who's dressing up for Halloween !? and what are you dressing up as? :)
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Hey ladies, Although having your partner away

    for months is a scary situation, it also has some advantages. Don't use this time solely for moping (Sometimes it's okay to mope & be down). Use this time to evaluate your life and what you want to do with it. This distance can give you time to decide if this person is what you...
    tay789123 tay789123 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Finally everything turned out being perfect

    after those horrible 6months without knowing what exactly that is between him and me and the horrible feeling of him being so far away. It is still hard cause he is stationed 400km away so I gotta drive 4hours one way every second weekend...but whatever it takes to be in his...
    crispyxx crispyxx 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend just left

    for basic training for the Airforce about 2 weeks ago...it's so much harder than I thought. Our relationship is really new (it'll be 2 months in 2 weeks) but we've known each other for awhile. The first week was really, really hard. I cried a few times. Now that its going on...
    Brriiiii Brriiiii 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    I'm ******* done with this ****!

    !!!!! I'm basically not allowed my opinion!!! I've been everyone's biggest supporter and the one time I choose to speak my mind cause something has been bothering me I get told off. This isn't the first time but I'm done!!!!!'
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    I miss all you ladies!

    :) It's heart wrenching seeing all these relationships working out: and mine didn't. I admire you all!
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Wether your mans in boot camp

    or deployed every girl in this group has gone through it or is going through it. If your man is in boot camp, there will be girls saying they miss him and the girls who's men are deployed should be supportive cause you have all been there before. And the girls who's men are in...
    Mitzy24 Mitzy24 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Just said our final goodbyes !

    Can you say inmyfeelings.com :( .. He tried to explain to Aubrey ( our son ) that he'll be gone for a little while again . This time Aubrey replied with " nooowahhh , daddy mean , bad daddy" completely broke both our hearts ! I hope AIT flys by in half the time Basic did . We...
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    So my boyfriend left

    for basic about a week ago. I was a sobbing mess when I had to say goodbye, but since he's been gone I have yet to cry. I miss him being apart of my every day life, but I thought I would be a lot more upset with not talking to him everyday & being with him....is this normal?
    epatrick epatrick 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I honestly don't even see how i attacked anyone

    because I clearly stated in the beginning that I respect her opinion. Now I'm sorry if she took it the wrong way. I did not think she would go off on me like that. I was just simply saying that those girls who vent on here are only looking for support from the ones older and...
    aiahlove aiahlove 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's GRADUATION DAY !

    I'm so proud of him . Ladies you must remain calm & positive while your man is away at basic . I read a comment someone post on a girls experience that I must say I agree 100% . It said "people break up in basic because they weren't serious about the relationship in the first...
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I hope everyone's having a lovely day.

    I know am I, my boyfriends Journey home starts tonight!!!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    We're both exhausted,

    but YAAAAY date night! I haven't seen his face on Skype in over a month. I just wanna jump through the screen and kiss him!
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    152 days down. 59 to go,

    I wish December 28th would be here already! I wish I was packing up and boarding the plane, ahhh. I'm so excited!
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    So I Have One Question ,

    So My Boyfriend Is Doing The 14 Week Training Which Includes BCT & AIT . & His 14 Weeks Is Over When He Comes Home For Christmas I Was Wondering , When He Goes Back Will He Graduate ? :I
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Ladies I am doing alittle better,

    things are straightening back out and I am slowly coming back to you. I am gonna say this now that at times things I will say may sound harsh but I'm no longer gonna sugar coat anything. Not to be rude or offend anyone but that is how I feel it needs to be. As well as I will not...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Sep 26

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    This might come of as lame to others

    but I really want to take a picture like this with my man<3 so cute, my feet are gonna look so small, I'm so tiny compared to him haha
    Mitzy24 Mitzy24 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    a little snow won't stop me from re living my

    childhood & taking my recruits little sisters trick-or-treating tonight!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    We fell asleep on Skype together last night.

    I couldn't help but take a picture, he looks so handsome :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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