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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,288 People

    I had a really good talk with my boyfriend

    earlier. I actually thought he was breaking up with me for a second, he kept saying sorry and then said he was sorry we got involved in the first place and I was like what O.O Anyway, he was like it just sucks so much for you being stuck at home while I'm away. And then he said...
    ysg93 ysg93 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    hey ladies hope your all well.

    ive been with my soldier for 2 1/2 years. i met him on the tail end of his first deployment and as soon as he got home i snatched him up. life has been wonderful since then. he just got a call today from his chief saying he is being transferred to another unit for a deployment...
    alwaysandforever2012 alwaysandforever2012 22-25, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    On Monday I watched my boyfriend swear into the

    Army. The next day he made his way from LAX to Texas then finally to Fort Sill Oklahoma where his basic training would begin.. I received a call at 2:30am.. He was able to tell me how much he loves me and would talk to me as soon as he could.. He told me it would only be 7-10...
    villasenorsarmygirl villasenorsarmygirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey, do any of y'all have experience with their

    significant other having combat related PTSD? My boyfriend and I have been together 14 months. Throughout these months, I have noticed his symptoms have gotten progressively worse. He is in part of special forces and has deployed three times in his 8 years in the military. He...
    tattooedandemployed tattooedandemployed 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I know we're all supposed to be supportive of

    our boyfriends...and I'm not saying that I'm not. Do you ever just hate it though? Being an army girlfriend who is just supposed to wait around? Its an unbelievably selfish question, I know. I guess I'm just having a moment. No one around me gets it either. Distance can go...
    VeganSoChic VeganSoChic 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    27 days left until my babe is home.

    I'm actually starting to get very excited now, this time in 4 weeks i will be in my boyfriends arm for the first time in 85 days! Just means ill have to shave my legs when hes back! hahaha!! I'm going to get so pampered, get my nails done, hair done, eyebrows done! So i look...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I JUST realized that 3 out of 4 of my

    relationships were with military men. I guess it's just my luck, or maybe it's meant to be…? :)
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Finally in the twenties!

    ! 29 days now until my soldier is home, 4 weeks on Friday! ahh, i'm so bloody excited.!! I love him and he drives me mad but 3 months apart is enough, just come home now!!!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Sent my love a very very important package (it

    has her wedding ring in it). It arrived on post on Thursday but they have been having snow days so she hasn't gotten any mail. I haven't told her it's coming (or there) and it's getting harder to keep this from her!!
    Armygf14 Armygf14 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    had the best talk with my marine tonight (:

    it's been one of those weeks where he's stressed as **** and you don't know what's going through their mind and you don't know what to do. I've felt helpless all week, feeling like I let him down and that its my job to always make sure he's happy so tonight when he told me "you...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Okay. It's my 21st birthday

    and all I want to do is cry. We're leaving and driving to a different time zone on the 27th. I think I'm only bothered because I don't really like my birthday to begin with, but this year it just seems a little extra awful. No one approved of us getting married and now everyone...
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Well I am in a relationship with a marine

    and he is really acting different than he used to. I'm not sure if it is because of becoming a marine or if he is just showing more of his true nature. Advice?
    colorguard47 colorguard47 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I just talked to my ex

    for the first time in like a month since he broke up with me and to my surprise it was easier than I imagined it. I miss him terribly.
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so in love that sometimes I feel like I'm

    going to explodeeee!!!! But instead of guts spilling out it'll be stars and butterflies and unicorns!!!! Aaahhhhh!!!!! Excuse my weirdness.
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I usually don't check the news,

    but today I decided to check the news about where my boyfriend is and I regret it whole heartedly. I am now extremely worried about if he is safe or not, and of course I checked it on a day that he didn't call me after he promised he would.
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    The song 'Long Distance Love' by J Boog!

    ! It's not about a military relationship, but it's the same concept!
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I got the worst news yesterday my bf won't be

    graduating next week :( he's not coming home yet. We don't know when he will this sucks
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    My boyfriend is miserable.

    He will drink and then start acting all pitiful and start saying horrible things. I tell him to talk to me and he says he doesn't want to be a burden to me. I tell him over and over that I just want to help and he's not a burden. This life is way too hard for him. I just wish he...
    kanglin17 kanglin17 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    and to make things worst I just got the

    invitation to his graduation in the mail (the information about day he was suppose to graduate and family day) im currently under the covers crying my eyes out
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    I MISS MY BOYFRIEND SO MUCH!

    That's it #armygirlfriendproblems
    VeganSoChic VeganSoChic 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Just spent extra money to change my flight back

    so I can stay longer with my husband. Then told, not asked my boss that I'll be gone for 8 workdays instead of 4. Screw it, I miss my soldier lol. It's all booked and I'm set, 12 more dayssssssss!!!!
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Just an update. I messaged my ex on fb last

    night and to my surprise he actually replied! I asked him how he was doing and he said "I am miserable, how about you?" As much as I love him and hate to see him hurt, now that he realizes that he is miserable without me, maybe he will get back to earth lol. I miss him so much.
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I just found out my boyfriend is getting

    deployed soon..........again well ugh round 2 here we go.
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    This should say I WAS a military gf.

    Thank you ladies and my milso community for all of the kind words of support and love. I do love my airman so much, but we both realize that she is not emotionally ready for a relationship like this. She took the mature path though, to own up to her emotional abuse/manipulation...
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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