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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,772 People

    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    And yet again he is more amazing!

    !! He texted me to check on me today! Can he get any more amazing? I don't know how he is even managing this with training but I'm glad he is!!! I love him!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    Just 3 more weeks!! & ill be on my way to see

    my baby(: im so nervous i have butterflies in my stomach haha
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I may not get letters in the mail yet,

    but I did get this today from myself :) Supporting my soldier as much as I possibly can!
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is in basic at Ft.

    Jackson. I've written him like crazy, but he called his mom and said he hadn't gotten a letter from me in over 3 weeks. And today was the last day to send or receive letters. I'm so worried he hasn't gotten any of the letters I've written him. I just want more than anything to...
    bebejane14 bebejane14 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    After two long months of little contact

    and pictures sent by his mother. I finally get to see my MM!!! I get to spend the whole day with him, and just be right back in his arms again. Let the countdown start!
    aliyacharles aliyacharles 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    One more week! I get to visit my airman at tech

    school for the weekend :) I'm so excited! We get to celebrate his birthday. It will be one of the last times I see him before he gets stationed overseas.
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    So effiiinnngggg excited!

    I can't even wait!
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    My BF is at Fort Jackson in South Carolina

    if someone have any questions please let me knooow ladies!!:D I would like to answer you with all I know! :D
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Tomorrow will mark two weeks

    since the last time I heard from my solider (via letter). His BMT graduation is in two weeks, so I keep telling myself he's using the time to study. But things here have been super stressful, and I just want that hug from him and the "you're doing great, keep it up!" that a...
    ohlaurax ohlaurax 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    When girls on here use similar usernames

    as mine. And I know it's mine cuz they wrote it the same exact way. I saw someone's similar to my old username TakenByASoldier and now LovingASoldier320. I mean if you're going to have a username similar as mine at least change the numbers so I won't tell that easily lmfao No...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Thinking about my wonderful boyfriend

    and how I miss him so much tonight. This quote definitely fits how I feel perfectly. Only a few 106 more days!
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    I just got my letteeeeeeer!

    !!!!!! omg I had a heart attac when i saw it in the mailbox!! Soooo happy he goot my letteeers!!! can't wait tooo seee hiiiim!! <3! :33!  
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    i had a long phone call with my airman last

    night even though he was getting ready for an inspection, i was so tired from work and babysitting my niece that i fell asleep whilst on the phone to him! i woke up at 4am feeling sad because i didnt get to tell him i love him, if im finding his basic so hard i dont know how i...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    38 days down, 21 to go!

    I can't wait to see him!! It feels so close!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    42 days down & 19 more days

    til I pick my soldier up from the airport 😍😍😍
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    So now my brother is thinking about joining the

    air guard in his home country. I'm sure it's that stupid ex gf of his that's getting to him. How can one person be so damn selfish? I told him if he joins there he'll be kicking rocks. He laughed nervously....he knows too!
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Tomorrow I have an early art to drive 12 hours

    to see him. This is the last time before his deployment date... I don't know how I should feel!! I am so excited to see him but he's so stressed and hasn't contacted me in two days now. The next two weeks will be hard and saying goodbye for a few months is going to be harder...
    Hannahhlouiise Hannahhlouiise 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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      Ill et it speak

    for itself.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have been dating the same guy off

    and on for about a year. I love him more than anything and we have been talking about marriage but, I guess my biggest concern is am I too young? He's 20 and I'm 18 but we have been moving really fast. I'd marry him tomorrow if he asked me too but I'm concerned I may regret it...
    cbeeck44 cbeeck44 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    He gave me yet another reason to be more in

    love with him this morning!!!! We have been dealing with something together that can change our lives and he text me to check on my even tho he is gone at training. I asked him if and part of him wanted it to be and he said yes to it. So I asked him why and told him cause I do...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Anyone have days where they have something

    important they want to tell or show to their man because you're so used to that and then remember you're not able to talk to him? Having one of those days where I just want to mentally break down. Trying to stay strong for him and me :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I have a question. My boyfriend is in the

    reserves so he's stationed within driving distance from his house. I want him to be able to go on a trip with my family and I when he gets home from tech school. He said he would have to get permission or let someone know where he was going? What does that mean? And how long...
    Logivali Logivali 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I never thought I'd find someone I truly care

    about. I love him so much. He means the world to me. He is the only man I want for the rest of my life. I can honestly say that he completely stole my heart. I don't know what I would so with out him in my life now. He brings a smile to my face with just a hello, and makes the...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    i dont know if the days are getting harder

    or easier, hes only been gone for five days, but the longer hes away the lonelier i get, the only person i have around me is my mum, i dont have friends that i see a lot and im so bored when i get home from work :( i havent got upset because im making myself stay strong for him...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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