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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,813 People

    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    I am a long time military girlfriend.

    Most military couples don't stay in this stage for as long as we have. We have been together for 5 years. We met in college, and have been together through every big military moment so far. He is now a pilot/officer in the AF, and we live in two different states. Our...
    JoRigs JoRigs 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So exhausted today! Between being a full time

    nursing student and maintaining our long distance relationship with a full 6 hit time difference, things can get hectic but both are so worth it in the end! Any other college or nursing students?
    mw318 mw318 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    fluff2018 fluff2018 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I am so pissed. I wrote all these letters

    and actually took my time and put so much thought into them. I absolutely HATE writing. My boyfriends stupid drill sergeants threw my letters away! Like wtf!!!!! I'm so pissed and upset. They're so ducking selfish. Stay out of his personal ****. I'm gonna make a copy of the...
    Megannr21 Megannr21 18-21, F 12 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Just got a phone call from him!

    !! It made my night!!! :))))))))
    fluff2018 fluff2018 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    So I just found out what a proxy marriage is

    today. We were told that if we could do that after my birthday, I could get a command sponsorship to go to Germany with him. It's exciting planning everything out but also tiring.
    LovelyThing2k12 LovelyThing2k12 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    every girl here should watch a video on YouTube

    called "girlfriends matter" it made me smile if you havent watched it yet go do it!
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    tomorrow my boyfriend goes on terminal leave!

    ! I am so excited! he is so close to being out of the military!!! (:
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    I miss my marine! and he just left yesterday

    today is my first day with him and I broke down so many times even at school. I know I might be young but I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and we will get engaged as soon as he comes back from boot camp.. and I honestly don't know when that is and I'm also already...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    First day of class, felt

    so wired with out him. but for sure my professors so far are bad a** one more to go, sadly it seems I won't be able to go see him for his graduation.
    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    After I got myself out of a 5 day rut,

    The days started to just fly by! Keeping myself busy is the best way to avoid "mailbox stalking" and overthinking! 😊
    maggs51 maggs51 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    I've never thought I'd be happier to know my

    man has been home and safe since March. Today reading something it made me so thankful. His last deployment to Afghanistan was hard on me. I worried about his safety every day. Getting the I love you and miss you text while I was at work meant everything, it meant he was safe...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Got another letter today!

    ! It made my heart feel warm and fuzzy💗
    fluff2018 fluff2018 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hey girls! I need some advice!

    My boyfriends recruiter gave me his address so that I can write to him but I've heard that isn't always a good idea because they can get moved around? So it's better to wait for the form letter that will give you the actual address. I just really want to send them already. If I...
    dalicervantes dalicervantes 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My boyfriend just sent me a letter telling me

    he has started receiving mine. but in this letter he apologized for our situation and that he will make it worth it. It upset me that he apologized. He isn't the kind of guy to ever say sorry for anything. I don't know maybe it's just me.
    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I always miss my sailor in the morning,

    cause I know what it's like to wake up beside him and it's one of the best feelings
    noellegabriella noellegabriella 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm at the point of breaking down again

    and again. I feel so lost without him 😔. Hardest thing
    kayla022 kayla022 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My friend join the army.

    She's out Thursday.. She told me her and her bf broke up. My other friends bf is still in basic and broke up with her. Am I next :( so worried
    kayla022 kayla022 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Not sure if anyone seriously cares

    but I have a lot to say lol. I've been here with my boyfriend for about two weeks and a lot has changed between us. We hit a bump with his dogs a few days after I got here but we worked through it and it's no longer an issue. In a way, I kinda like them now. I'll never be an...
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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