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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,499 People

    I am sad to say that this is gonna be my last

    post on here. I found out that my boyfriend who I met while he was in ga has a girlfriend back home in Texas. Long story, but I'm so hurt. Our whole relationship was a lie. He did me so wrong and I'm afraid I am pregnant with his child. I do not understand why he would get me...
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    First time since we started talking

    that I'm going to bed without having heard from him... I know this is nothing compared with some of you on here.. Just want my love by my side. Other couples don't realise how lucky they are..
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Does anyone still have any suggestions

    for problems sleeping? We have had 2 good days no episodes actually he's being extra sweet and comforting. But, last night he just couldn't sleep and kept waking me up and it sucked having to work today with lack of sleep. Any suggestions are appreciated especially after hearing...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    summer was always like our time of year

    where we were together until like 3 am and woke up early to see each other the next day. First summer without him is really hitting me hard:( he's like the one person I saw all the time and lately I've just been working or sleeping.
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    This too shall pass!!

    Been sick for a week and just got diagnosed Saturday with bronchitis. Just what I needed
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    My Airman graduates from basic on Thursday!

    Then I'm going to go see him in July! I'm so excited.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    My boyfriend leaves tomorrow.

    .. His leave never seems long enough...but I always like listening to music that helps me get through his leaving....anyone no any good songs that help you deal?
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I"t's been too long and I'm lost without

    you What am I gonna do? Said I been needin' you, wantin' you Wonderin' if you're the same and who's been with you Is your heart still mine? I wanna cry sometimes I miss you. Now I'm sittin' here Thinkin' 'bout you And the days we used to share It's drivin' me crazy I don't know...
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Last night was awful.

    It was my 21 birthday and I was out with my friends and my boyfriend ruined it. He told me he had bad news but he would tell me the next day but of course I wanted to know since he mentioned it. I was expecting it to have to do with the army but he told me he may have a little...
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    My sailor graduated from basic yesterday

    and we had a wonderful time this weekend.!! Of course the hardest part was saying goodbye but I know I'll be seeing him again.! I'm so proud of him!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    GUYS my marine and I always signed our letters

    when he was in bootcamp with"one day closer" and he got me this for my birthday!! it mine and his birthstone with an EGA :')
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Aaaaaaannnnnndddddddd his leave got approved!

    !!!!! ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ†โœจ happiest girl in the world right now!
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    What are ways that my sailor

    and I can participate in pre-marital counseling while he is active duty? Does anyone know of any specific counsellors or organizations that they can suggest?
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    From reading the last couple posts sound like

    some of you girls have had a rough couple days! I just wanna say keep your head up, things will get better I promise !! I'm always here to talk, even if you just need someone to listen, I know how much better I feel after a good rant !! My guy has seemed off the last couple of...
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Were having a break. It was my choice,

    I don't know what I want right now. I needed him to give me space, not talk to me or ring me trying to persuade me, I need to know what its like to live without him. So I told him not to contact me for a bit, and ill message him when I've cleared my head. Is that mean? am i...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 57 mins ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    The army is finally being nice to me

    for a change! Got to talk to Bae today and we'll be able to talk again tomorrow. I couldn't be happier. 8 more weeks to go! Thanks for all the support!
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Sooooo after a long 14 months my love is

    finally coming home tomorrow!!!! <333
    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    does anyone else just tear up

    when out of no where he comes to mind ?
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    so I'm new to this website.

    i keep googling things about the marine corps and how my boyfriend should be acting. this site keeps coming up so i joined. i guess I'm just trying to see if he's acting "normal" for coming out of boot camp. he left today for mct and idk when ill see him next bc his mos is in...
    LivMarie9 LivMarie9 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    It doesn't get easier,

    does it? I already feel lonely. He just left on course yesterday, he's coming back home in September. Hopefully I can manage, and of course cope.
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    215 days down only 39 to go

    until I finally see my amazing fiance for two weeks! This has been such an experience being apart, but it truly has brought us closer together. This has been the longest time we've spent apart but I know my fiance is definitely worth the wait! Cannot wait to make him mine...
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I'm watching the Atlanta v.

    Cleveland game and I just know my soldier is dying to find out how it's going to end. haha. I'm a fan of the Hawks and he's a LeBron fan. (he doesn't care about the rest of the team). I really hope we win so that I can junk talk him all day Sunday lol.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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