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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,364 People

    today I just found out my marine will be

    deployed in two months near my birthday, it wasn't supposed to happen and has screwed up all of our plans
    shnny1 shnny1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Anyone live or lived in NC?

    ? I'm planning to move there next spring to be with my bf & am starting to search for apartments & jobs out there... just trying to see what's available as of now and what I'm getting myself into lol. I'm living in LA (born & raised here in the city, spoiled by the great...
    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I've seen some recent posts about the threats

    that ISIS has made against US Troops and specific soldiers. I want to encourage you ladies to turn to the Lord and pray for them specifically. To pray for safety and protection to all of our troops. It's frightening for sure, but it's not healthy to live in fear. Keep your heads...
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Hey ladies! I'm writing my English paper

    comparing military relationships to regular relationships. Do you guys have any really good points I should make?
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    It's only been a few days

    since he left for boot camp and I cannot stop thinking about him :( I hope to receive a letter from him soon! :) Patiently waiting
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend got denied leave

    for May, so I won't see him for our anniversarry. :( But on the bright side, he did apply for leave in June! Soo keeping my fingers crossed!!
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Hey ladies, don't know

    if you heard about this. I've read a lot about it, so I'm assuming it's true. Not what to believe but it freaks me out. Any of you know about this? http://www.cnn.com/2015/03/23/us/online-threat-isis-us-troops/
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Just received 3 letters from my Sailor!

    I cryed happy tears reading all of them Lord knows how much I miss him
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Waking up one day closer him!

    Let's have a good day today ladies!:)
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Am I seriously considering flying to Chicago to

    surprise my boyfriend at graduation? Call me crazy.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Today is one of those days that's just dragging

    by. ugh. Almost have month one out of the way. 4 months left to go.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    So yesterday after me

    and my boyfriend talked I told him it was okay for him to go to the Army. But in reality now I'm hurt and scared. I want him to be able to come back and hold me and etc. I'm not sure if anyone else gets this feeling or it's just me before their partner leaves for the service. My...
    andysleepswithsirens andysleepswithsirens 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    some days I irrationally hate the army like I

    just wish he could be here with me but no because "its the army"
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    It's hard when you have days

    where your so lonely and don't know what to do with your self , Missing my sailor, Only 32 more days tell we Reunite
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Yay I got a letter from him!

    ! three actually he wrote them all on the same day. it had been 2 weeks so it was so good to hear from him :)
    dannygirl656 dannygirl656 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Boot camp ends in 3 weeks!

    ! I am so excited and although Ive had my bad days time really has flown by
    rainemew1 rainemew1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I lay awake tonight thinking of you.

    . Here's to the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. *repeats every night*
    uribegre uribegre 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    just found out my marine is getting stationed

    in Cali!! so excited for him although he seems nervous:/ sending my prayers to everyone that is getting their first duty station and for all you girlfriends and wives out there(:
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    My soldier graduates this Tuesday!

    She will be home Wednesday morning and we will be moving in a few weeks! I can't believe we will finally get to be together!! I just wanted to say thank you to all of you ladies! You've all helped me so much!
    Armygf14 Armygf14 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    Look and seeing we are literally one more day

    closer to his return makes me excited. For me it's been a rough week tho, I've been extremely sick this whole week and been resting as much as possible which is hard when I have my kids and work. But I've been doing what I can. I'm just hoping his date doesn't change and that he...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I remember coming onto this site years ago,

    and met a lot of wonderful people. These pages used to be a lot more interactive.. What's going on? 😐
    mirandab3 mirandab3 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I wish all of you the best in the military

    journey! Know I am still praying for you and our forces.
    ASHanson ASHanson 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Any advice on jealous family members?

    My twin sister is mad that I'm spending all of my free time with my soldier this week before he leaves for 18 weeks. I don't feel bad for giving him all my time, he deserves it after all but it really hurts being bashed on Facebook.
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 1 Response