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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,817 People

    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    My soldier told me I get to visit him at AIT!

    Dunno when yet, because he just started, but still! I'm so excited. This man has my heart so full. Just hope we figure a date out soon so I can take off work and get plane tickets and stuff :)
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 12 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Update: He got his package

    and loved it. However, before he got it, he has been very distant and have been battling with doubts and mixed emotions. I told him where I stand and he knows what I feel, so it's all on him. After he got the package he was fine, told me how much he loved me and appreciated me...
    ariyaple04 ariyaple04 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I hate to be this girl.

    But it's just really been driving me insane when my friends go on and on about not being able to see their boyfriend for a few weeks or even one week. And then when I mention something about mine, they are not supportive or helpful at all. It just upsets me that they don't know...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    today was my first time attending a wedding in

    so many years. my cousin married the soldier of her dreams & I can't wait to get married one day.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Tomorrow is Day 1 of Out Processing!

    !!!!! It has been 132 days since he left home. It has been 59 days since I last felt his embrace and looked into his deep brown eyes in person. There are 3 days and a wake up til my soldier graduates AIT and gets on a flight back home where I will be picking him up from the...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    WELLLLL!! my husband has been deployed a little

    over 6 months now and i am EXTREMELY happy to say that our first deployment is finally coming to an end. in just a few days i will be at his homecoming cheering as he walk thru those doors. I have been back at our duty station for about a week now just waiting on my love to get...
    purplelily13 purplelily13 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Every time I think of how my boyfriend

    and I became, it makes my entire body excite. I don't know how else to put it. I get this feeling and it just makes every single part of my body smile. (I know a body can't smile but i just get overly happy) We first met on a dating site (which we had both just created one a...
    piscil piscil 18-21, F 2 Responses 57 mins ago

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    Hello "White Phase" .

    I heard it comes with more privileges . More phone calls ? More time to write ? I'm just trying to find something to look forward too !!
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Remember.. everything is worth the wait!

    See him.. hug him.. kiss him.. and tell him how much u missed him! look his eyes and feel the love going through them and U feeling the most loved and happy girl in the world!...................................... Remember all is worth it ;) <3
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I haven't gotten a second letter in a week I

    don't know if that's normal or not. He just told me he would try to send like 2-3 a week so I'm just confused and sad :(
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 59 mins ago

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    I'm getting married December 1st!

    :) No more changing it!! He's coming down at the end of November and I can't wait! <3 and by February or March I'm going to be moving to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri with him :D
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Seriously feel even more blessed to have him in

    my life!! We were able to text each other last night and this morning and I couldn't think of a better way to wake. Knowing I am the woman he loves makes my heart flutter, especially when he says it. He is beyond perfect for me and I cannot wait till we are able to start our...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    amr614 amr614 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    No one ever said it was easy

    but it is definitely worth it (:
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Should I wear this to my sailors graduation?

    I am having such a difficult time picking what to wear!
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 30 mins ago

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    Should I send all my letters to him at

    once when I get his address or just like three at a time??. So far I've written 11 and still don't have his address.
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm going shopping tomorrow to find something

    for his graduation! I can't wait to see his handsome face :)
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier โค๏ธ

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    My boyfriend called me today

    for 15 minutes and I was so happy. After we hung up in put my phone down and told my sister about our conversation and how much I loved him. I go back to get my phone and I have 5 missed calls from him. He had an extra 10 minutes to talk so he tried calling me back and I missed...
    amr614 amr614 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancรฉ's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I want to prove to him

    that i'm here. I want to prove that we can make it. I want to prove that we can be as happy as we used to be. I just don't know what he wants. :(
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I remember asking myself how would I prove to

    my sailor I can do this? That I can handle a military relationship. I was fully aware when I said yes to him that he was going into the Navy. I knew I needed to show him I could be that support system. Thatโ€™s just it, you need to SHOW them. Your actions far outweigh your words...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Dear God why did you have to bless me with

    such an amazing guy? ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Whenever he calls his base "home" I feel a

    little ache in the chest :(
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    So glad I can see pictures of my soldier at

    basic training on their Facebook page :) Love seeing what he's up to there! I'm so thankful for my boyfriends mom since she always keeps me updated and gives me all the information for these kind of things. Glad I got myself a keeper with an amazing family :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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