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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,637 People

    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    The past week has been awful

    for my and my boyfriend and I. He's being so distant and pushing me away. I talked to him about it and all he had to say is he's not trying to push me away. He also said "I knew the distance was going to be hard but I didn't think it was going to be this hard" so the past few...
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm missing my man a lot today.

    We have so much going on but right now he's visiting his family. I'm glad he gets to see them but part of me wishes he was home. I have a doctors appointment Wednesday that's super important for the both of us but he won't be there. I just hope he's having a good and safe trip.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I live in Florida (not

    together) and we see each other probably two or three times a week sometimes more. He is in Texas right now for a few days for a family vacation and I ALREADY miss him like crazy. He goes to boot camp in September... How am I supposed to go 2 weeks without hearing from him at...
    AllyZamitalo AllyZamitalo 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Missing my love so much!

    I can't wait for Texas!! :) <3
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Before he came for leave

    for 10 days in June our relationship was so bad and we we're constantly arguing and when he came home it was perfect but then it went back to fighting once he left. But the last week we have been so perfect and happy! It feels amazing and I forgot how amazing it feels to love...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Every time I get a letter I do a little happy

    dance :) he really likes boot camp so far and that makes me so happy
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Does anyone have a Glide Account

    and knows the ins and outs of how the app works and what certain things mean? Question: When logging in to glide and clicking on a friend , once in the conversation it says at the very top under their name (example) Lisa 5 hours ago. Does that mean Lisa was on Glide 5 hours ago...
    SemperFiJWII SemperFiJWII 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I feel so alone without him here.

    None of my friends or family understand what I am going through. Everyone just expects me to tough it out and put on a brave face. So that's exactly what I do. When I'm around my friends and family and even working, I put on a brave face. But as soon as I step into my bedroom I...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    After two weeks of not hearing from my guy he

    finally face timed me! The happiness I felt at that moment is beyond words! The first thing he did was apologize for him being MIA but he had been out on a mission and studying for something called murder board. He'll be back the first week of August so that's another plus. The...
    MsCupcakes MsCupcakes 26-30, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    so we're back from out little vacation

    and he leave back to base in 2 days today was the first time I woke up with out him and I started crying my eyes out because it doesn't feel right if I can't wake up to him and he's not even fully gone yet... how am I going to say by on Monday ...It hurts so bad
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    You may remember that I posted earlier about my

    boyfriend who was initially shocked when he discovered that I actually do number two. He was the one whose mom had told him that in girls, number two comes out more like deer pellets in the forest, not so smelly, and kinda neat. Well, anyway, now that he had gotten over the...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Don't forget you're human ladies,

    it's okay to have a meltdown, just don't unpack and live there. Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed.
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Is it possible to be more in love

    than I already am??? Thought I'd be watching fireworks alone but he tango'd me and we watched the fireworks together. Couldn't stop laughing and smiling at each other. I miss him so much but I'm so happy. Ahh. That man. That man. 17 more days until I see him. :)
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Leaving Fort Benning today & honestly these

    last 2 days with my solider have been amazing! This time apart has brought us so much closer :) He's at Fort Gordon now for his AIT and that's so much closer to where I'm at. I'm so happy with my life now <3 !
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Has any of your boyfriends ever came back

    completely shut out after a two month long training? I don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be supportive but he just doesn't want to talk
    piscil piscil 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Missing my airman. 3 more days

    and he finally gets his phone back!
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I know to most this might seem

    so stupid but having a successful 2 days with 0 episodes both times in BBQs and he was a little quiet at first but all my friends tried to make him feel welcomed and he eventually opened up and for the first time since he's been back I didn't feel like I had to be by his side...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Any body else watch the fireworks wishing more

    than anything for him to be there with you?
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Should i give up and move on?

    It's been 9 days since the last time we saw each other and he asked me for space, it's been 3 days since the last time we txt. I don't know what to do anymore, i want to keep waiting but I don't want to get hurt again. There is someone trying to give me all i want, but my...
    val8788 val8788 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    After the bumpiest/most comfortable flight from

    New York I'm in Amsterdam waiting to board my flight to Germany to see my love for the next 10 days!!! Haven't seen my husband since April. I'm 50lbs lighter and I'm so damn excited to hug and kiss him and for him to see my hard work!!!! Sidenote- my husband warned me there...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The past few days have been hard

    and the next few will be the same. Last year I spent the Fourth of July with him and this year I watched fireworks from my window. Our anniversary is also coming up and it really sucks to not be able to hear his voice and tell him "happy anniversary". I still haven't gotten any...
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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