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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,295 People

    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Watching Dear John for my anniversary

    while my Jonathan is at boot camp. Not sure if this was good idea or bad lol
    MyJonathan MyJonathan 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    the anxiety about this is the worst.

    . not sure what to expect or what's going to happen. I hate this
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Hoping thing work out on Wednesday

    and my man will have the time to be able to talk with me before I go to the doctors. I'm alittle nervous about my appointment and wish he could be with me at it but we both understand that deployment is keeping him from doing so. But at least I know he's standing be side me for...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I just wanted to thank anyone

    who reached out to me yesterday, it meant the world to me.
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    Today it has been ONE whole Month

    since my knucklehead boyfriend left for boot camp!! I'm so excited cause i know March is going to go by just as fast as it came, then at the end of April im on the way to Parris Island to be reunited with the love of my life! So excited just thinking about it!! :D
    VictoriaCantu VictoriaCantu 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    dating where older men can date younger women. The trend of older men younger women dating of getting popular day by day and the website will prove helpful in bringing men and women together to help build a successful and loving relationship. For many people, loneliness can be...
    norahmarlin norahmarlin 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Trying so hard to keep myself busy

    and trying not to dwell on the fact that he's gone, but the fact that he's coming home to me soon. ❤️⚓️
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Message me please. Having a hard time it's

    really sinking in that he won't be back until April :( I just want to call him
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    I absolutely love this group!

    :) you guys have continued to help me through this journey thank you sisters :)
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Were seriously on the brink of break up,

    its so one sided, he's not trying to make this work! he's just giving up and I dont know what i can do anymore!!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 6 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    My boyfriend hasn't sworn in yet,

    but he's doing so on Wednesday, so technically I'm a military girlfriend to be, so to speak. Back in November my boyfriend made the decision to join the army reserves, much to my horror. I realize/recognize that we're both extremely young and absolutely nothing is set in stone...
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It seems surreal that my man

    and I are over halfway through deployment. It still seems like we just started this little journey through our relationship and yes it's been going by quickly. We've had a few ups and downs, definitely more ups than downs but through it all we have stood by each other's side and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    16 DAYS till I'm reunited with the love of my

    life! It's only for the weekend but I've never been more excited for anything in my life! Also I'm am really nervous to see him! Anyone else feel this way?
    marinegf13 marinegf13 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Head mash time, woke up from a text

    and hes acrually talking about his feelings now! And we're considering seeing each other Saturday for one night and see what happens god this is soo hard I wish it was straight forward and simple, were going to speak tomorrow and then decide fingers crossed even if it's for...
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Saying prayers of peace

    and strength over all you ladies tonight. He'll be home sooner than you know it <3 stay strong everyone!!
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    So this is it girl, one deployment over

    and now we are over! Thank you for all the support you have given me, I guess sometimes it's not meant to be
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm surprising Andrew with a congratulations

    party for swearing in today and signing his contract on Wednesday. I'm getting a cake and cooking for my family and his. any ideas on a gift to get him?
    ashleemote ashleemote 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    moving from chicago to north carolina to

    finally be with my marine is going to be a huge transition for me. I cant wait to start this new chapter of our lives together this summer :)
    Nmxx7 Nmxx7 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Only 46 more days, then I'm driving 11 hours to

    go surprise him 😍 seems so close yet so far away. I can't wait to be back with him again
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    How has it only been one week.

    .. I'm going crazy without him. I didn't know I could it was even possible to miss someone this much
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Does anyone know how I can get my sailor's

    address for basic?? He would have sent his form letter to his mom but his mom won't answer me to give it to me. I want to start writing him but I don't know his exact address.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So my husband has been discussing our 1st

    wedding anniversary alot lately and he's made mention that he knows exactly what he's going to get me and he needs to budget for it now and he needs to get feedback from one of my friends (he won't tell me which one) on if I'll like it etc. It seems like whatever I'm getting is...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Seen this today...here's

    why we do it ladies! Only we understand, everyone else would too if they felt the way we do for our military men!
    UKSgirl10 UKSgirl10 16-17, F 14 hrs ago