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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,307 People

    Just bought a plane ticket to go visit my boy

    friend in 20 days!!! I'm so excited I can barely handle it :D
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Writing is seriously a life saver.

    Even if you can't send anything yet. Write your heart out. I seriously just ramble on to my sailor as if I'm talking to him face to face and it makes everything a little easier
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    My boyfriend's family FINALLY answered me

    and told me they haven't received his form letter yet. They told me as soon as they get an address, they'll let me know. Praise God.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So most of you know me here my original

    username was asoldiersgirl2012 but my account got deactivated. anyway.... my boyfriend just got a call last week saying that in july he is being deployed....again. this wasnt supposed to happen. not so soon not after he was finally getting back into his life. our life. im being...
    loveoverdistance loveoverdistance 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I got a pleasant surprise this morning.

    As I was getting ready to meet with one of my best friends my man text me. He had just got back from work and I was who he text. I can't wait till he gets home now. And we are in double digits for our count down its crazy that it's getting so close
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I tried not to date military guys once.

    But I met an army guy who shows me his phone, listens to my heart if there's a problem, and share every pics on fb without hesitation. I have seen many guys who aren't faithful and loyal but he's different for sure. I just feel secure since I met him. I didn't feel this way with...
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I haven't seen him since 1st January

    and he's home in 21 days. To be honest its gone quick, a few of the weeks dragged but I have a feeling the last couple weeks are going to go so slow! He's still a bit off with my at the moment but lets just see how things go when he's home, He'll get back in the UK around 5-6am...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Well the next step towards our future is ready.

    Step one has been taken and now I just need my man home, end of deployment couldn't come fast enough
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    Aaah!!! My baby just called!

    !! Things are getting better :)
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    My boyfriend called me last night

    and we talked for like 2 hours !! Ahh it was so amazing, I woke up in a great mood because of it :) hehe hope everyone else is having a good week! I'll keep all you in my prayers <3 xo
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't know what it is about this week.

    Normally I'm Miss Positive and there's no doubt I can do this. I guess the distance is just really getting me this week.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    well he's officially in

    and leaving in June for Georgia **sighs**
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really miss my sailor.

    It gets so hard at night when I'm alone and I can't talk to him. 37 days down 20 more to go..
    xoxodeja xoxodeja 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    The people here are so amazing

    and supportive! I'm going to tell my friend about this support group so that she'll have someone that understands her exact situation.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    So my man has been texting me a little today

    because the weather in Fort Sill is kinda harsh today so he has his phone until tonight. I really needed this. I've been walking around all day with the biggest smile on my face!! He told me how his days get better when he thinks about me and just ajshkakans I'm just so happy...
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    I just heard from him

    and I'm so ecstatic wndhaianskdnsnan I'm so glad he finally contacted me!!
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So my guy is going to be deployed soon.

    The past few weeks he's been really mean, picking on me and fighting with me over nothing, he always apologizes afterwards. I've been going through a hard time trying to find a job, so I've been selling my vintage clothes and I'm actually pretty good at it. I'm making some money...
    slippersatin slippersatin 22-25, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I have noticed that when I get sad,

    I sit in the shower and cry while listening to music. Then I dry my tears wash up and get out and start talking to my friends and making plans. It always makes me feel a thousand times better to lo forward to the things that I have planned with others. What are some of the...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend of two years went to basic

    training yesterday at Fort Leonardwood to be a MP. Today was our first day not talking together in the four years that we have known each other.. I am torn and it hurts to not be able to text him good night and occasionally annoy him. I am a junior in high school and on our last...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Why am I wrong? Yes the navy is an amazing

    choice for our future. Yes we will be set for life. But at what cost? I have to live with the fact that most of our lives will be spent apart. What kind of life is that? If we're not happy then are we really living? I understand money is important but maybe there's another road...
    AnnaBrke1 AnnaBrke1 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    My husband is an airborne soldier

    and we found out last night that while I'll be in germany visiting that he has to go to Hungary (the country) for the night for a jump while I'm there. So on top of him working everyday, he also has to spend the night in another country so I'll be alone in his room for a while...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago