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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,164 People

    I hate not being able to talk to him.

    .. Havent talked all day and he is usually back by 10:30.. But hasn't even texted me I'm scared something is wrong and it's driving me crazy
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I got to talk to my fiance tonight I'm

    so so happy he gets to keep his phone I'm so glad I get to talk to him now.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I've seen a lot of post saying you girls will

    be seen your men soon for their Basic Training Grad. & I'm so excited for you all :) it's such a great experience!
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    christinamoen97 christinamoen97 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Hey guys! Question. What kind of things did you

    write in letters while your guy was in basic, how long were your letters, and how often did you write? I've been writing almost everyday about 2 pages give or take, and just telling him about what's been going on. I don't want to be overbearing or overwhelming or anything.
    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    It seems like nothing goes right

    when he's not here. I'm constantly stressed, overwhelmed, and so emotional. It makes it harder not knowing when he is coming home. He just left for Korea a couple weeks ago and won't be back for " a year " but who knows when that year is really going to be up. I just want him...
    karrilynn karrilynn 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm really hoping that I'll be able see the

    love of my life after Airborne/before RASP, even if it's just for 2 days. ****, I'll take 4 hours even. Just wanna see him.
    ArmyGirlfriend1028 ArmyGirlfriend1028 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    If you ladies want to learn anything the marine

    Corp watch the movie full metal jacket it's in the 1980's early 90's it's kinda what they do to them in MCT !
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Well fiancees getting TAD AGAIN !

    -.- he's gotta move to a whole nother base! I really don't think they need to downsize the marines they need to be recruiting more people !
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Did any of you feel really anxious in the days

    leading up to seeing your man again for the first time? My anxiety has been worse than usual about seeing him next Thursday. Any suggestions on how to prepare and relax a little ??
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    He didnt write back the letters

    because he he had nothing to say.
    dmariaL dmariaL 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    siting at the airport wail my mom works

    so sleepy nap time and missing my fiance like crazy.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7, 2015

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    dmw93 dmw93 22-25, F 9 Responses May 13, 2015

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I finally got all the medical clearance

    paper work done, finished changing names and insurance and today I'm calling about places to live at our new base. I also turned in my two weeks notice at my job.. It's so real and I'm starting to get really upset about leaving everything. I know it's worth it but my whole life...
    Tiffanyj52 Tiffanyj52 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Welp my baby's finally back in Japan,

    I know he's ABSOLUTELY tired so I rather let him sleep then call me. I can wait, his sleep is so much more important than me !
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So blessed to get to talk to him now,

    but hanging up the phone is the most difficult thing to do. He says there's a possibility that he might get stationed somewhere that's only 4 hours away from where I go to school! I'll be praying!!
    brooketb3 brooketb3 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    24 days until I get to see the love of my life

    graduate boot camp! Any fun graduation ideas? I can't decide! It's actually going to end up being a graduation, birthday, and Valentines day present... He missed all 3!
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend is at A school

    and I'm sending him a package for Valentine's Day and I'm still not sure what to get him, any ideas?
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just 9 days till I am going to be at my baby's

    BMT graduation. I seriously can't wait!! Finally going to have a real conversation after 7 weeks of not being able too! Hang in there girls. We are all so close and in the end it'll all be so worth it. This group has been so support. I am beyond grateful!
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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