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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,668 People

    Why do people who don't have a boyfriend in the

    military or aren't even associated with ANYONE in the military think it's okay to come into our posts and give us ****? Like back off. Nobody asked for your opinion and you leaving negative and disgusting comments is so useless. Y'all are annoying.
    kxcrooks kxcrooks 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    ITS MY 21st BIRTHDAY!

    !!! I had another amazing wake up call from my boyfriend today. Best birthday by far!!!!! Hopefully I get to see him soon (50 days)
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why do I feel like he's being selfish sometimes?

    Why can't he care as much as I do? I don't understand sometimes!
    Cjones23 Cjones23 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Happy Valentines Day to all the wonder Military

    Girlfriends/Fiancés/Wives who don't have the chance to celebrate with their men today. Have a wonderful day! And to those who get to see their men today you have a beautiful day also ❤️💕
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    This is not a rant or being mean

    but let's be politically correct on the experience we put our stories in..... Soldier= Army Sailor - navy Marine-no duh Airman-Air Force the other names and such go where they may but I just wanted to make this clear... No meanness intended just putting it out there... If you...
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    I did it. Stayed so faithful to a man

    who is so worth it for 11 weeks. Three phone calls 20 letters. Ten weeks This is how big my smile is. Haven't been this happen since he proposed!
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Such a long time ago,

    we were just a couple of kids. But we really loved each other, didn't we?
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My Soldier is home a week today.

    He's home for 3 weeks and words can't describe how happy i am to finally see him after 4 weeks! he goes again for 4 weeks but its okay because i'm going to stay with him over there for a long weekend halfway through so it breaks it up a bit.
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm really not in a good mood my body is sore,

    my ankles hurt and feet are swollen and I also feel like crying. It doesn't help that my bae is deployed over seas :( it's just not a good day
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am starting to notice

    that the hardest part of him being gone is going to sleep! I am so used to turning over and seeing him there. I stay up so late and think about so much. I really hope this goes by fast!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    My boyfriend sent me this,

    so we're gonna try and test it out. I thought it'd also be helpful for some of you out there... It's kinda long lol ....... All relationships take work. But a long-distance relationship is even more difficult and it can sometimes seem impossible to keep love alive when...
    Abbyj13 Abbyj13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    This is really hard. No one can deny it.

    Life hits you really hard really fast, and you end up having a decision to make. Stay or go. Love him or leave him. It's scary as hell, and no one could ever blame you for choosing the latter. But here's how I see it and what I've experienced. Love is a fickle b*tch, but you...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    So I've gotten three letters

    so far and I get super excited when I get them. I'm missing him a lot but I cannot wait too see him in 51 days. I'm ready to get this last year of high school over with so him and I can start our lives together. This summer needs to be over with already! :)
    brimae17 brimae17 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    If all goes as planned

    and his leave gets accepted its 35 days until I get to have him back for a little while. I'm over-joyed to be able to send this time with him. I can't wait until he's back in the states and we can focus on our relationship and learning more about each other and our family's. I'm...
    AirforceGirl9 AirforceGirl9 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Got a letter from my soldier today (that he

    sent 4 days ago) saying he was upset he hadn't gotten any mail yet. But I sent my first letter Friday to him and so did his family and friends so I hope he gets those today and smiles (:
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Two more days and I'm off to California to

    spend an amazing weekend with the love of my life! I'm on emotion overload right now and hoping everything goes super smooth!
    jesso01 jesso01 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I am a recently new military girlfriend.

    My boyfriend was sent on deployment in September 2013 and has come back in June 2014. He's done his long time so hopefully wont be going back for as long as that again! He's currently living in Germany and comes home to the UK every 3-8 weeks for about 2 or 3 weeks at a time...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It's crazy I'm the one

    that pushes him away but the damn boy doesn't budge. I hate missing him :(
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I love my baby :) so I had class last night

    after work I got out around 10 pm. My friend said that she would give me a ride home because she had to go that way anyway. So she tells me that we have to look for someone before we leave so we ridding around the parking lot looking for this person. Then she pulls up next to...
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Oh? Really?

    What's that, civilian girlfriend? Your civilian boyfriend is seriously injured?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend? You got robbed last night because someone came in your house?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend...
    angelaamor22 angelaamor22 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    I am not sure how you guys can do this.

    My military boyfriend leaves for basic training tomorrow and I am freaking out. Five months without him is unimaginable. I know I just need to stay busy but it's seems impossible to live normally without him. Please help with advice! I am in so much need.
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I cant actually believe I'm saying this.

    . but there is only 7 more days until my boy is home!!!! SEVEN!!!!! I'm totally shocked from how quick its come around and how fast this whole mad roller coaster has gone! I'm now getting overly excited and nervous! but I am soooooo happy its all coming to an end! 3 months of...
    chantellexo chantellexo 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Question for all the military girlfriends out

    there: So this is something that have been thinking about. So I'm going down the end of August for his family weekend with his mom, aunt, and sister. We're hoping to get a little alone time together so that the two of us can catch up.... But with his family, who knows if they'd...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    It doesn't get easier.

    It doesn't. People say that but it's not true. What actually happens is you get stronger. You get more capable of handling the crappy situation in your life. His absence never feels better. It never subsides. But you become someone so impenetrable to pain that it feels like it...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    okay so I need help. Our 1 year was July 4th,

    and he left the first so we didn't do gifts or anything. But now I want to get him something but I have no idea what. He already has so much. I saw this really cute idea on pinterest of getting all blue foods and blue colored packages, and decorating the box which says "im blue...
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Got the BEST news from my hubby.

    ..This deployment will be over REALLY soon!!!! in 11 days I will be booking my flight to head back to our duty station and attending his first homecoming ceremony! I am BEYOND EXCITED!! once I have that plane ticket book I probably wont be able to contain myself for the next few...
    purplelily13 purplelily13 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend is officially in basic training

    as of today, I am starting to accept it more but it still is really hard to wrap my mind around that my other half is gone for so long! He called me to say he made it safely but it was literally a 5 second phone call and it almost made it harder to accept because he sounded like...
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 21 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Today marks 7 months my boyfriend

    and I have been together I believe he'll be away until next week, so I sent him a heart felt email about how I felt about our relationship and how happy he makes me. I can't wait until all this is over with and we can move onto the next stage of our lives.
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So… I haven't posted in a while… But my

    boyfriend was in basic training for the Air Force and he got really sick so he was in Med Hold for two and a half months. He was then sent home, didn't tell anyone he was coming, and showed up at his brother's college graduation party. His whole family was there and I was there...
    lexixlack lexixlack 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    With deployment looming it was a pleasant

    surprise to get a text from my man telling me to go see him. I panicked cause I had my kids but pulled it off and was able to see him. Sadly it was only for a short time but it was absolutely worth it. We had a few things we needed to talk about and go to talk about those. He...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Dear you, We are just alike.

    We wait on our phone every night. We cry when certain songs come on. We have him as our wallpaper and have a playlist of our songs. We tear up seeing something about the military but when his branch is featured your heart starts pounding. When he is wounded you panic for him but...
    HisProudMarineGirlfriend HisProudMarineGirlfriend 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    My SO and I got married this weekend

    when I went to see him graduate from basic! I didn't want to post anything yet about it cause there was drama back home w my family. But now that everyone knows I'm so excited to share it w y'all! I'm sooo happy and can't wait till he's done w AIT in 6 weeks so we can finally...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Okay honestly, time is flying like crazy.

    He comes home in a month tomorrow. (from basic) I'm so excited. I wanna get him a present everything like a little congratulatory gift for him graduating high school and bootcamp. Just because he left four days after graduation, I didn't really have enough time to plan. I was...
    PrincessMonica PrincessMonica 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Letter #7 came today (yes I'm keeping count how

    many I get because I try to make sure he has the same amount if not a few more :) haha) He had a few more funny stories to tell and is finally moving out of red phase and into white face which is allowing him a little bit more privileges. He also finally got my first letter I...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    4 days and he's home!

    !!! 4 more days, I can make it!!!!
    Abbieanderson Abbieanderson 16-17, F 1 Response May 29

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    Anddd he's in the field

    for a week. Better than the two weeks it was supposed to be and the two months in the spring. Hope the week flies by😁
    ofmiceandmegs ofmiceandmegs 18-21, F 2 days ago

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