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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,640 People

    Finally in the single digits!

    9 days until I fly out to Texas to see my Airman!
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Its so hard writing letters everyday

    but knowing they'll just be sitting in an envelope until I get an address. All I want is to know he's okay. No one around me realizes how difficult this process it. I try to put on a brave face but it's just so hard when your best friend is on the other side of the country.
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    48 more days until I'm in his arms again💕

    I've been going through some rough stuff lately but seeing the number get smaller has made it better
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 22 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Do you ever feel lonely?

    Not the kind of lonely where you miss your SO, but this strange disconnect from other people who don't understand military life. All I want is to be with my airman and I'm having trouble focusing at work and enjoying it like I have every summer (I work at a outdoor ed summer...
    raquelita88 raquelita88 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    mine was telling me since he got based in the

    US there's a possibility to deploy but he will go home first..so yesterday on our skype he finally said atleast the month he can come home..but it also means deployment is next..what should i feel? happy or sad??
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 9 hrs ago

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    I haven't posted on here in awhile

    but I need all the support I can get right now. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We met at college and have been literally attached at the hip. Until he went into the army and got stationed across the country. We were a little shaky but we were managing. He had...
    mw318 mw318 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    He said it...the D word- DEPLOYMENT.

    He's been telling me for months now that it was coming but it wasn't a definite, just a rumor or a big possibility. He's already wearing his deployment uniform as of July 1st but today was my first time seeing him wearing it in person. He said it's confirmed as of today that he...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Is anyone else's boyfriend

    or girlfriend at Fort Jackson??
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    is it weird that I'm 18

    and my boyfriend is 18 and we are talking about when he gets done with boot camp then the job training to get married I fell like we are moving to fast we have been dating for a year I feel like we are but I want to spend the rest of my life with him???
    Breezy1434 Breezy1434 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really need some advice.

    So lately things with my boyfriend have not been the best. Things are tense, I think because we haven't seen eachother in 3 months and we're not used to that. We are both being short because we just have nothing to say. At first I thought it was him but now I see that it's my...
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I miss him so much tonight.

    It's been a while since I've cried but I am tonight. I wish I was in his arms, where I'm able to fall asleep in peace and not wake up through the night. I miss his hugs, being with him, and the butterflies I get when we're driving and he kisses my hand at a stoplight. I wish...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    So we found out he's going to be stationed

    for the next few years at the base we hoped for!!! The best thing about it, he's going to be exactly 1 hour from the college I'm going to!
    Semperfi1025 Semperfi1025 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My fiancé' is coming home in less

    than a week now. And his best friend is also one of my friends.. He's been all upset with me lately because I'm going to get a little more time with my fiancé than he will when he comes home because we're getting married about halfway through his leave which is only 8 days and...
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    just done skype with him.

    .at first i got upset he didn't show up or msg me yesterday then tonight he did..he said we'll skype later but he is just watching "terminator" so i said he should finish it first..so the time he's calling me on skype im on a shower and the time im calling him he said he'll call...
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    meghan1635 meghan1635 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 19 hrs ago

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    I take my soldier to the airport in a couple of

    hours and I can't help but cry and he's sad too I just can't breathe through it ..
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Is it bad that I'm worried he's going to

    or already has met someone else? I don't know why I'm so worried about that, it's totally irrational, he's at BASIC for the love of God. Ugh. I hate being so insecure especially about that :/
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So how did you all deal with your S/O being

    gone doing boot camp? I know they say it helps to stay busy. I have a job but I'm taking a semester off from school so I know that's going to leave a lot of time on my hands. I just want to hear what helped you girls cope with it and get some ideas :)
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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