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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,093 People

    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Hi ladies! :) I was wondering

    if you guys could give me some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now, and it's been an extremely rocky. He has mentally and emotionally destroyed me more than I can put into words, but at the same time he loves me more than anything. He treats me like a...
    ArisDiCicco ArisDiCicco 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    He's got his phone for the whole day ,

    been texting him since 3am feels like the old days again <3
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Broski just called meeeeee!

    !!!! Omg he's doing great guys!
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    Anyone else super nervous

    and excited to see their bfs?? I'm like freaking out lol 3 more days :)
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How're the holidays going

    for you ladies? Anyone celebrate anything besides Christmas??
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ahhh 3 more days until I see my handsome

    amazing loving caring boyfriend I literally can't wait!!!!!! :'D
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 1 day ago

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    He comes home Sunday!

    ! Three more days!! Eyebrows waxed, hair colored, Brazilian wax, nails done, going to make cookies for him and a big welcome home sign 😊 I would wait forever, but 142 days is long enough ❀️ sooooo happy!!!
    BrookeAlyssa BrookeAlyssa 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriend is coming home this week

    and I'm pretty sure I have the flu. I'm so sad because I've been waiting 4 months for this and don't want to get him sick or ruin his leave time :( my head and throat hurt so bad I don't know what to do.
    autumn1116 autumn1116 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why he has to make things more complicated.

    We are not a couple, but we talk like we are, he doesn't want to get too involved until he gets back. What am I supposed to do then. Give my all and just sit and wait until he gets back? And maybe see if we are meant for each other. I just don't know what i should do, i feel...
    val8788 val8788 26-30, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    My handsome boyfriend will be home in 1 day

    and 15 hours!!! I am so excited!!! :)
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    well...silly me thinking

    that my complicated situation couldnt get anymore complicated, but indeed it has. all i know is that in 11 days ill be laying on a beach destressing!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    Aaah! 4 more days πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•!

    !!!! I'm so excited and nervous. Can't wait to see my baby!!!
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Well ladies it is over.

    We are going to the leasing office to break it and split ways in about a week or so. I feel kind of bad though...because I'm not even upset about it. Whatever :)
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My birthday is on Saturday,

    Kinda bummed he can't be here but I'm going to try and have fun though.
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    I feel like it's Christmas already!

    !!! My man called tonight and right away said "Did I ever tell you that you are beautiful?" OMG. My heart melted!! :) He loves me with no doubt but he isn't the kind to say "I love you" every time we talk so this was really sweet to hear :) Even though he is in the navy, he is...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    feels like forever until I see him again :( I

    henvy all you ladies who are getting your men hope for christmas so much!!
    jessicamarie72 jessicamarie72 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    Got a call today! and

    now we're texting. <3
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I haven't put anything on here in a while,

    but My boyfriend has been gone for four months now. I am finishing up my first semester of college, and he is coming home for CBL at the end of this week, and quite honestly, I'm really nervous. A lot of people have told me to expect him to be different, and that it's not...
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancΓ©'s and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    watching the military awards

    and feeling so proud and thankful of everyone out there doing an amazing job! time apart is hard but makes us realise there all out their doing a fantastic job and no matter how long there gone it will always be worth it when we're back in there arms at the end of it ??
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I woke up this morning crying.

    He leaves for deployment so soon and I don't even know if I'll get to see him before he goes. I see everyone's posts about seeing their bfs soon and it makes me so sad. I don't know how to go 9 or 10 months without him. On top of it all, I need to pick myself up and put myself...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend of a year went to Basic Training

    for the marines on 10/27. We had such a magical love. We spent every day we could together. We both worked so even if it was just for 5 minutes we would stop by each others house for a goodnight or good morning kiss. it was the little things that just made me fall in love. I...
    Stephlisette Stephlisette 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    jessicamarie72 jessicamarie72 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I personally feel like I don't have enough

    clothes and shoes for my trip but I'm packing and my suitcase is so full I can't close it....uhhhhhhh... but I LEAVE TMRW!!!! I don't get to germany till Saturday but I'll be on my way to see my soldier tmrw night. Eeeekkkkkkk so excited! !!!
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses