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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,158 People

    So my boyfriend finds out next week

    where he'll be stationed and I've been doing fine with him gone and everything, but today i broke down, I just started crying, I have been trying to stay strong for him, of course I won't give up on us im just nervous If he gets stationed in Japan it will be 15 hours ahead of my...
    Brendaa24 Brendaa24 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Really tired of not really being able to talk

    to him, or having anyone to talk to. I'm being a baby about it but it sucks when you've got no one at home to spend time with. I work, go to school and go home and just sit and wait for him to get done with whatever he is doing, which normally isn't until night. Maybe I'm just...
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I haven't heard from my man in 2 weeks.

    No letters or anything. I know it's normal during BMT. Especially when they are at BEAST week. But I am still a little worried. I can't help but think "what if I get there and he doesn't want to be with me anymore". I don't know what I'd do. I just wish I could hear or see the...
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I can't stop crying/; I was suppose to go see

    my injured man but the tickets jumped way high which means it be difficult to pay for both this and his graduation... I feel like I'm failing him plus I doubt he's gotten any letter from me since he had gotten into MRP/: I don't want him thinking I don't care!!/:
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He is the best. Such a gentleman:) we said "I

    love you" for the first time last night, in person. I'm on cloud 9
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've been dying to hear his voice ;( haven't

    heard anything from him for 3 weeks now. I sent my letters January 16th. I know it takes awhile but I can't help but worry you know?
    Sabrinaaamariee Sabrinaaamariee 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I miss the little things- like getting up on

    Saturday mornings talking, cuddling, getting breakfast together. I miss driving around in the car playing DJ and having sing a longs while we run errands. I miss fights over the TV remote or picking a restaurant for dinner or competitions for who cooks dinner. He's so fun, he...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    If I could just ask for some prayers

    and well wishes. Things have been hard on me the last two weeks and I am really struggling to find some happiness and peace in all of the craziness of Military life. I know I am not the only one who feels this way sometimes. Any advice would be great.
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I'm legit sick and tired of everyone

    who hasn't been in a military relationship say " oh I understand what you're going through I've done the long distance before!" WHEN REALLY it's not the same!!! You get to talk and skype that person EVERYDAY ! When us milso' don't get to talk to him or her everyday. Especially...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Talking to him today was amazing :) He thinks

    he might be able to call tomorrow!! I hope so! I love knowing it's him on the other end of the phone. Nothing makes my world happier!
    brooketb3 brooketb3 18-21, F 13 mins ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Look at the photos attached.

    Prepare for fury
    Sabrinaaamariee Sabrinaaamariee 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I miss him so much he is

    so close to graduate on the 11th I feel so bad bc I can't go and I have not gotten any letters from him I really really miss him so so much I have been crying everyday.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I finally got my first letter from him!

    I ran home and cried while I tore into it, haha. I'm so happy to hear he's handling it and I miss him so, so much. I can't wait to see him again... Each day is one day closer to that!
    wafflesrforever wafflesrforever 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    deshhh14 deshhh14 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    just sent a letter out

    for my baby I hope he likes my congratulations card since I'm not able to go see him graduate
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    Tomorrow is the day I get to hug him

    for the first time in 2 months<3
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Does anyone have any ideas

    for a valentine care package that doesn't involve candys? My man is I to fitness so I'm thinking of making a protein care package. Also I wanna include a gift that he can use and would like any ideas?
    dee0717 dee0717 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    I got a phone call today.

    It was sad. Turns out my boys getting sent home on medical discharge. It hurts my heart that he can't do what he wanted to do & I know he's extremely upset about it too. He'll be back within the month. I just hope I can love on him & support him enough. This is going to be so...
    cadenn cadenn 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't believe that in just 17 days I will be

    going to my boyfriends bootcamp graduation :) this time really has gone by fast thinking back on it!
    Klynn22 Klynn22 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Does anyone have advice on how to handle lack

    of communication when they come back from overseas. My boyfriend has been distant for the whole week. We talked on the phone twice this week. I am moving in next Tuesday with him and worried of why he has been distant.
    eguerrette eguerrette 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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