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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,823 People

    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Just checked my mailbox

    and had 4 letters!! So happy :))
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Got awesome news from my man today!

    !!!! Can't wait!!!!! Don't worry ladies you will know in due time I promise!!!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    This is the worst feeling ever!

    !! All day I had a bad feeling, it made me sick to my stomach even. I knew he would call yesterday. I had to work all freaking day yesterday. I carried my phone everywhere with the volume on high. I even had my employees listen for my phone. It gets top the end of the night and I...
    DrewDrewBeesGirl DrewDrewBeesGirl 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Hello! I'm completely new to all of this; the

    military and connecting with other people who also know what it's like being a military girlfriend. My boyfriend has just recently left for basic training and will be gone for 5 months, it's strange to suddenly have no contact with him. I revived his first letter and broke downs...
    MadisonMeris MadisonMeris 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Good news: I finally got

    that letter I was waiting for! Two of them actually! Bad news: in his most recent letter he said he still hasn't gotten one from me yet! I sent the first one over a week ago I don't understand why he wouldn't have gotten any? Does it take longer to send a letter than to...
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Having one of those nights.

    I just miss him so much. 10 more days. I'm trying to stay positive but it's just so hard. I just need to focus on 10. It's only 10.
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    1 week since I sent my letter,

    hopefully he will be getting it soon!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    If I don't have a letter

    when I get home... I might cry. Haha
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Anyone know how long it takes

    for them to get our letters? Trying to get an idea of when I can maybe be expecting my reply :)
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I got his address this morning!

    11 hours have past and I still don't know what to write...I'm just staring at a blank piece of paper.
    Theluckyone95 Theluckyone95 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    A perfect weekend with him!

    I am the luckiest girl to be with such an amazing guy! The bed feels so huge and cold without him in it now.
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I got another letter today,

    a very upsetting one. He just kept talking about how he thinks I'm going to leave him since I'm moving to a new state for my job. In my letters I sent him I reassured him over and over how in love with him I am and that I would never leave him, but he obviously hasn't gotten...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Going to try and make this a good week!

    Hopefully I get a letter. On Friday will mark the two week mark since he's been in basic so I really hope I get a letter by the end of this week or sometime next week.
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    On a rollercoaster ride it seems.

    But things are beginning to look up. He surprised me last night by saying that the plans for christmas are back on because he made it happen. And to top it all off, he's bringing his dad with him which means so much to me. His dad is his whole world and I'll be able to meet him...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Filling out this paperwork

    for my overseas screening to (hopefully) be able to join my soldier over in germany. Its like I'm reading Greek lol idk what parts I fill out, my doctor fills out or my soldier fills out. *sigh* On a serious note, if you guys can pray for a milso sister that this gets approved...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I haven't had a letter in almost a month.

    Mainly because my soldier is in AIT now and I can talk to him every day :) I kinda miss going to the mailbox and getting a rush of butterflies when I see his handwriting. Is that normal? Haha
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Do you ever just want to talk to your soldier

    about all your problems because you know he's the only one who will listen and help you? My soldier is one of my best friends. I can tell him anything. But I feel like I'll bombard him with too much. He's already got so much on his mind and so much going on with having just...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    He won't think I don't care about him

    if I don't text him for a day or something, right? I mean, I'm busy too. And I just don't wanna smother him or seem annoying. I didn't text him at all today. Not did he text me.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    My awesome boyfriend is deployed to Qatar

    for 5 more months he texted me last night and said happy 1 month deployment anniversary it was so cute, thoughtful, and funny. I am trying to figure out how to get him to stop worrying so much about whats going on at home anyone have any advice.
    cfrancisco cfrancisco 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    You know he's serious

    when it's Yankees buy their championship serious!!! Love this man
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    question! if you send multiple letters in one

    envelope, how many stamps will you need?
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    This is the answer I get

    when it comes to my bday!! How perfect is he???
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Its just three days away,

    yet I'm having a bad night:(. I've held so much emotions in and now its just all coming out. God I just wish he could hold me right now :'(
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I'm so excited to see him this weekend,

    but I can't help but think I will totally break down when I get alone time with him. He's the one person I will cry infront of and who gets me...but he hates when I cry. I am so nervous. Is it bad if I break down infront of him?
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    I just wanted to share.

    ..that my sailor and I are halfway there! Only 105 more days to go, I'm so excited! :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Reading other experiences on EP about other

    military girlfriends I realise how I'm lucky I am. I hear from my boyfriend every single night, I get presents in the post, letters, skype calls and if I'm lucky I get a text throughout the day. It just feels like he hasn't went away. I don't know how yous girl do it, go without...
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I still have another 6 weeks to wait

    until my boyfriend is home from Germany. Honestly this is going so slow. I feel so lost with out him. I cant just go round the corner to his house, and see him when i want.
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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