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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,905 People

    Change is inevitable.

    Why hold on to what you have to let go of?
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Almost finished with all of my school work

    so I'm all caught up when I come back! 3 days till I leave for IL and 4 days till graduation! So many different emotions right now
    Junygirl Junygirl 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    It's been two weeks since I've heard from him.

    .😭😪💔 I just wanna hear from him. I just wanna letter.. even if it'd say "I love you and I miss you" and that's all. It'd make me feel better. 😔
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    proudtobehis96 proudtobehis96 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    So I'll go, sit on the floor wearing your

    clothes; All that I know is I don't know, how to be something you miss...
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I finally got to read my letterS - yes!

    At least ten letters in one envelope! - today! Could not be happier right now. AND found out his Christmas Exodus has been extended to two weeks!!! Aahhhh!! Oh my gosh. I cannot begin to describe how much I freaking love this boy. He's beyond incredible and utterly perfect for...
    proudtobehis96 proudtobehis96 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    The closer the days come the more reality is

    hitting me and I'm getting nervous but excited to see him. I can't believe 6 months has blown by so quick. This deployment had a lot of ups and downs but we pulled through. I love him so much!!! Once he comes home we'll be celebrating our one year <3
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Cutting out three pictures to send to my

    boyfriend :) one of me, one of us, and one of him, his mom, and brother! I can't wait for later on this week. I finally get to talk to him on the phone after almost three weeks of no contact. Hopefully, I'll get more mail from him this week <3 I miss him so much!
    ac9914 ac9914 18-21, F 47 mins ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    That awesome moment when your in the middle of

    doing something and all the sudden you get a text with his tone and his name!!! Best feeling ever!!!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 17 Responses Oct 10

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    My Fiancé leaves for reception tomorrow.

    .. Seeing him cry last night and hearing him open up the way he did made me want to die.. He's strong and we're strong and I know he'll do great... My mom cried today when he hugged her for the last time until Christmas.. Everyone already misses him so much.. He's the best and I...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 15 mins ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    I am not one to be irritated

    or get pissed very easily, it takes a lot to **** me off or irritate me. If there's one thing that annoys and irritates me the most, it is definitely those people who think they know what it's like being in a relationship with someone in the military. If you have never been in...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    In one of my letters to him I asked "how many

    of my letters have you received" he said 141 ! Lmao but that's including cards , letters from our son , and drawings . At least he knows that he's loved and missed ((: 7 days , 13 hours , 25 minutes and a wake up until I see my HubBear .
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 35 mins ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Shame on me for changing.

    No, shame on you for staying the same.
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I just want to text him.

    Every minute, of every hour, of every day. Because that's how much he's on my mind. Even when I'm mad at him.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So I went to work today

    and instead of getting out at 9:30 I got out at 11 because I had to close. After I left work I looked at my phone to 10 missed calls and 10 texts from my fiance :') he was so worried and thought something terrible happened. I've been with him for over 2 1/2 years and I've never...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Had the most amazing weekend with my airman!

    Seeing him graduate was such a proud moment and hugging him for the first time in months was absolutely perfect. Two months of nothing but letters and occasional phone calls was so completely worth three perfect days with him. Our love is stronger than ever and being together...
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My life is falling apart

    and not even because of his absence..growing up sucks.
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Well sad to say that this group no longer

    applies to me. My soldier and I decided to end things. Honestly I am not sad yes I wish things would have worked out with us. But we continue to be friends I feel we are both happier this way. Just figured I would let all you wonderful ladies know and thank you for the support...
    cheergirl539 cheergirl539 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 5 Responses Sep 14

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    Spoke too soon! I ain't stupid.

    Drunk. But not stupid.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    His cold front is freezing my patience over .

    .. Just a matter of time before I crack
    myairborneheart myairborneheart 22-25, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    What did you guys wear to graduation?

    Heels or no heels? Its a Marine graduation so should I wear red? Obviously I've never done this before lol thanks! 17 days! :D
    butterfly214 butterfly214 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I am a new military girlfriend.

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. He got stationed in Germany for 2 years and just left today. I'm feeling extremely sad and out of it. Any advice?
    mw318 mw318 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Huh. He actually cares.

    That's weird.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Finally got a call from him

    and he gets his phone for a couple hours! Could not be happier.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    50 days, I'm hoping to get a letter this week.

    I've sent all of my letters out and the waiting game feels to progress. I had dinner with his mom last night and it was amazing. She reassured me that everything was going to be okay between us and that she loves me.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    its been about 2 weeks

    since I've gotten my last letter. trying to stay positive and patient.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 8 Responses Oct 3

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    So today I decided to take the day

    for me. I choose not to be on as to deal with something I needed to. All I will say is that things have been rough knowing my love, my rock, my heart and should is getting deployed again. Not knowing when or if he has already kills me. All I need to know it he is safe but now I...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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