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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,018 People

    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    This time apart isn't

    as long as before. It's only 4 weeks this time, but his stay has been extended buy another 5 days which isn't too bad. I can wait another week, I think i'll survive ha! Just so excited to spend all Christmas and new year with him, it will be so amazing!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    His graduation is on Wednesday.

    And it's Monday. I get happy when I talk about it, but when I'm alone and thinking about it, like now, I'm just really scared. I'm scared that he'll be different and not want to be with me anymore. At the same time I feel ridiculous. Because I know that he loves me. I'm just so...
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I need advice!! Because I'm female,

    I can't stop thinking about what I should wear to my boyfriend's graduation from bootcamp. It's at Camp Pendleton on the 5th of December so it might be a little chilly. I'll also be with his parents, so I don't want to be dressed too "sexual". I just have no clue what is usually...
    amoulton93 amoulton93 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's seriously the cutest ever.

    I love & miss him so much. Only 36 more days! :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    rubyreb rubyreb 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My best friend just came home from basic this

    past Friday and told me he talked to my boyfriend the day before he left. My boyfriend has remained guide for his platoon since the second they got to MCRD San Diego. I was told if my boyfriend keeps up his motivation and dedication that he's already shown, then he will no doubt...
    epatrick epatrick 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    lxdtt4 lxdtt4 16-17, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    My brother said that he's only allowed one

    letter. I'm wondering if there was some sort of miscommunication when they were explaining that to him so I'm wondering if I should write him or wait until he gets home?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    So today my SIT go his 30 minute phone call.

    It was just like when he was here... He was the same guy I loved so much and just hearing his voice put tears in my eyes. We laughed, and I even got to say hello to one of his buddies.. He made me blush by telling me that my love talked about me constantly and always had to be...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Ugh after a hard weekend I'm finally with him

    <3 he's home back on base AWESOME! taking care of my baby tho
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    That Moment When You're Otp & He Tries To Show

    Out In Front Of His Friends ..<3
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    Just got back from my girlfriends family day

    and graduation from basic training. Best two days of my life! Remember ladies, they are definitely worth the wait!! Stay strong! (:
    Armygf14 Armygf14 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Omg! TOMORROW is the day my soldier comes home!

    ! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    thunderberk thunderberk 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I hope everyone is enjoying their weekend.

    From the posts I've seen, it everyone is and I am sorry to hear that. Plans tonight anyone? I'm going to party around Manhattan with some friends. :) it's def going to help me take my mind off of all the madness!
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 10

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    I leave in 10 days to go see him

    for a day!!! so close
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Some nights I just have a really hard time

    dealing with him being away. This is just hard and it's breaking me inside. It doesn't help nursing school is damaging me in ways of lack of sleep and emotional flares. I just want his touch back. His love. He's shows his love better than in texts or calls. Every time I say I...
    itsjess13 itsjess13 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Eeek just finished his Christmas box ready to

    send tomorrow, ive been so excited about it and it makes me realise it wont be long until the new year and he'll be home I hope time flies :)
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Can it be tomorrow afternoon already?

    ?? I'm super excited to go to my sons class and write the letters to my man and all his buddy's over on deployment with him. This is seriously something special and I can not wait to hear the reaction that we get from it
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    24 more days till I get go see the love of my

    life for Christmas break! and 3 days till Thanksgiving, which he's allowed to have his phone the whole day. Excited?
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    My boyfriend is in ITB,

    he's been gone only a month (he'll be gone for 6) and already I can feel us drifting apart. Every time he has liberty and calls me on the weekends we talk for maybe 15 minutes straight, then run out of things to talk about. I don't know what it is.. It's getting me worried. We...
    uribegre uribegre 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    "I'm here to remind you of the mess you left

    when you went away. It's not fair to deny me of the cross I bear that you gave to me."