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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,825 People

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I am so pissed. I wrote all these letters

    and actually took my time and put so much thought into them. I absolutely HATE writing. My boyfriends stupid drill sergeants threw my letters away! Like wtf!!!!! I'm so pissed and upset. They're so ducking selfish. Stay out of his personal ****. I'm gonna make a copy of the...
    Megannr21 Megannr21 18-21, F 13 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I want to marry him, i love him.

    You're so young! Thankyou, i had absolutely no idea.
    fluff2018 fluff2018 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    uhhhh so can someone explain something to me?

    My man just told me that I have to color a border on the envelopes I send red... what does that even mean? haha
    christinamoen97 christinamoen97 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    okay girls I have a question,

    when did you stop writing your guys in basic? :)
    hct1531 hct1531 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    I got another letter today.

    I've been trying to write everyday but with the mail schedule it's sometimes hard to get them out on time. And he asked me to write one or two letters a day because they help him so much. most of this letter and the letters before are about how much he misses me and everything...
    TaylorT1216 TaylorT1216 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Does anyone know if it's ok to send a self

    addressed envelope in with one of my letters? My boyfriend is in boot camp at Parris Island and I know a lot of the things you cant send unless they ask for it, does that still apply to self addressed envelopes?
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Stephen has been at navy bootcamp

    since the 18th and I still haven't received a letter. I got his package with all his clothes in it and it broke my heart to see his phone in there. It's just such a concrete reminder that I won't get to talk to him for so long. I miss him so much and hope that the letters start...
    rachelmdavis rachelmdavis 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Tomorrows family day

    and I'm feel like complete poo. I couldn't go because of family obligations and college duties, but after receiving a letter from him saying that he'll be 'devastated' makes me so upset. Am I being selfish for picking grades and obligations over him?
    tiffahnguyen tiffahnguyen 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey girls! I need some advice!

    My boyfriends recruiter gave me his address so that I can write to him but I've heard that isn't always a good idea because they can get moved around? So it's better to wait for the form letter that will give you the actual address. I just really want to send them already. If I...
    dalicervantes dalicervantes 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a long time military girlfriend.

    Most military couples don't stay in this stage for as long as we have. We have been together for 5 years. We met in college, and have been together through every big military moment so far. He is now a pilot/officer in the AF, and we live in two different states. Our...
    JoRigs JoRigs 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I decided to tell my mom today

    and she could not have reacted better! She is really supportive of the whole situation and told me "it isn't going to be easy but we can get through this"
    maggs51 maggs51 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Finally got his address today!

    ! Time seems to be going quicker now
    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    please keep my boyfriend in your prayers

    tonight. This whole week he's been causing unwanted stress on himself. He's studying his CDCs and not spending enough time away from them. It's not healthy and he's been extremely unhappy. He doesn't really have a choice though. His supervisors are constantly looking over his...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Went to my boyfriends Marching ceremony today!

    I was so proud and happy for him that he is finally going to his dream school. I haven't seen him all summer, except for one weekend. This the longest we have been apart and it's both our first years in university. Today was hard because I only got to see him for 20 minutes and...
    alymess alymess 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    67 more days till my babe graduates seems short

    but seems forever away too lol
    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 5 mins ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    even if its barely going to be a week I miss

    him to much...all I want is to talk to him... hear his voice. I was fine until my friend left..now I'm in tears... I miss him so much I need at least a text.. that's all I wish for..and for of all I'm late on that time of the month..
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Today my sailor found out he'll probably won't

    be coming home before his first big deployment. He's been distant lately, which I know is because he is busy and is still dealing with the first deployment. Today I sent him a lengthy text, short version, while he's away, he doesn't need to worry about me forgetting him, being...
    wtfdaysi wtfdaysi 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate that I couldn't go,

    but inabilities love the phone privilege he gets.
    tiffahnguyen tiffahnguyen 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I'm so stressed out. My guy is starting his 6th

    week of basic today which means a phone call. Don't get me wrong, I'm excited to hear from him but it's tense with his mom right now. His first phone call was 15mins and he used 10 of it on me and 3 on his mom. I told him that time that he had to call her, cause he wasn't going...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Im waiting sooo anxiously to get an address

    for my boyfriend...and letters and maybe a call. Does anyone have experience with these things from BT in Fort Benning, GA?
    CaspieK CaspieK 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Is anyone allowed to go to family day

    and basic graduation in Fort Benning?
    CaspieK CaspieK 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Okay so my boyfriend came back from basic about

    a month ago and everything's going not so great. When were together he seems perfect, but when we aren't he's distant and just basically the polar opposite. He's a momma's boy now and I barely see him. Idk what to do! I'm fine when I see him but if I don't it's terrible.
    swimmer1115 swimmer1115 18-21, F 2 hrs ago