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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,429 People

    I miss my best friend the love of my life I

    miss falling asleep on Skype with him every night I know the field is not that bad and I am thankful that I get to get a text from him every day but I am so lonly without skypeing him every night without being able to talk about every little thing on my mind I miss him
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I got another letter!

    He told me my letters keep him sane and to keep writing, so now he's going to get a novel :) My life has been a little crazy lately and it's just nice to know I have his support. I might not have him physically with me right now, but knowing I have him there for me mentally...
    renmarie renmarie 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    My heart aches for my soldier today.

    . I keep telling myself only 3 more months. Just 3 and then I can see him for a few days. At least it's better than 5. :)
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I am new to being a military girlfriend,

    and I would love some ideas on how you ladies get through it on tough days. He is an infantry training and he had some kind of field training so I haven't got a letter in over a week, and today I am stuck in the house because it is raining all day. These used to be our favorite...
    jessie0119 jessie0119 18-21, F 29 mins ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    charbuggy21 charbuggy21 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancรฉ's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I got 2 letters today

    and in both of them he sounded like he was doubting my love for him. Asking me if any other guy has caught my eye or if I've talked to anyone else. Which the answer to both is no. I tell him I love him everytime I close a letter and I tell him how I feel about him all the time...
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm in a 100% committed relationship with my

    solider, as are the rest of you ladies.. It is just extremely annoying how rude and disrespectful some people can be for military relationships. I'm not just talking about the random guys I come across while out, some family and friends are worse than strangers. I've removed my...
    renmarie renmarie 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    maggienasi maggienasi 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    54 days till I visit my sailor

    for his birthday!
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Thank you ladies for all the advice!

    I put together the best care package for my airman! He's always been pretty spoiled:) I can't wait to see what he thinks of it!
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Eeeeeeppppp!!! The days are dwindling down.

    We are so much closer to his return and the two of us being back together. I'm def having a hard time focusing at work but who could blame me.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Days like today I miss him.

    The starter on my car went out and forgetting he was gone, I went to call him to come help me.. I caught myself and didn't since he's 2500 miles away and really can't help me.. Aha my car not starting reminds me when his car broke down going over a bridge when we were coming...
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Just got off the phone with my sailor.

    He is leaving to sea for a month. I know it is not a lot at all because we already went thru boot camp and A school but I got off the phone and now I'm crying! I love this man so freaking much!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    So he got his job. It is special ops/personal

    recovery instrument/ flight control systems. Any one know anything about this job?
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    My soldiers having a bad day today.

    What are some cute ideas I can have waiting for when she gets home?? (We are married and are living together on post)
    Armygf14 Armygf14 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm officially in single digits!

    In 9 days I'll be on my way to Fort Sill, Oklahoma!
    villasenorsarmygirl villasenorsarmygirl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Really missing my soldier today.

    . I only got an hour and a half of sleep. Not sure how I'm going to be able to stay awake in all my classes.. The day just started and I can't wait for it to be over so hopefully it'll fly by!!
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    My sailor said he couldn't sleep last night

    because he was worried I wouldn't answer his phone call this morning. But I did! :) Glad I got to speak to him. 3 n a half more weeks!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Alright yall! I need some care package help!

    What size of box is ideal? I've seen some cute decorated ones online. Problem is that the boxes at the post office seem smaller. What size is just right to fit everything in and decorate.
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    So I am making my first care package to send to

    my boyfriend at tech school and I'm having way too much fun with it! What do you ladies usually put in care packages? I am sending lots of study snacks, a few helpful school supplies, and a card. BMT being over is the best!
    raquelita88 raquelita88 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Well ladies, my time

    as a military girlfriend is over for now. After a long hard month, my boyfriends depression has gotten to the point where being there is not longer doable, he misses home too bad, and feels like right now isn't the best time for him to be enlisted. So, Friday he started the...
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So this summer I am going to an army summer camp

    for 5 days. My mom is glad that I'm doing it. She says I'll understand what my boyfriend is going through better. I honestly just want to go so I won't be sitting at the house depressed. Would you take the opportunity if you could?
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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