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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,307 People

    Why am I wrong? Yes the navy is an amazing

    choice for our future. Yes we will be set for life. But at what cost? I have to live with the fact that most of our lives will be spent apart. What kind of life is that? If we're not happy then are we really living? I understand money is important but maybe there's another road...
    AnnaBrke1 AnnaBrke1 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Every time I look at the weather in Chicago,

    I die a little bit inside for my baby. It's literally 6 degrees.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 4 mins ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    well he's officially in

    and leaving in June for Georgia **sighs**
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I have noticed that when I get sad,

    I sit in the shower and cry while listening to music. Then I dry my tears wash up and get out and start talking to my friends and making plans. It always makes me feel a thousand times better to lo forward to the things that I have planned with others. What are some of the...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    My boyfriend's family FINALLY answered me

    and told me they haven't received his form letter yet. They told me as soon as they get an address, they'll let me know. Praise God.
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    The people here are so amazing

    and supportive! I'm going to tell my friend about this support group so that she'll have someone that understands her exact situation.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    this time next week I'll be with my baby.

    . I cant wait! I'll cherish every minute :)
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 17 mins ago

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    Writing is seriously a life saver.

    Even if you can't send anything yet. Write your heart out. I seriously just ramble on to my sailor as if I'm talking to him face to face and it makes everything a little easier
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 58 mins ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My boyfriend called me last night

    and we talked for like 2 hours !! Ahh it was so amazing, I woke up in a great mood because of it :) hehe hope everyone else is having a good week! I'll keep all you in my prayers <3 xo
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How can I deal with my boyfriend being gone

    for months. This past week was really hard. Some helpful ideas please?
    Analyze2k10 Analyze2k10 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I tried not to date military guys once.

    But I met an army guy who shows me his phone, listens to my heart if there's a problem, and share every pics on fb without hesitation. I have seen many guys who aren't faithful and loyal but he's different for sure. I just feel secure since I met him. I didn't feel this way with...
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I haven't seen him since 1st January

    and he's home in 21 days. To be honest its gone quick, a few of the weeks dragged but I have a feeling the last couple weeks are going to go so slow! He's still a bit off with my at the moment but lets just see how things go when he's home, He'll get back in the UK around 5-6am...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I got a pleasant surprise this morning.

    As I was getting ready to meet with one of my best friends my man text me. He had just got back from work and I was who he text. I can't wait till he gets home now. And we are in double digits for our count down its crazy that it's getting so close
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Just bought a plane ticket to go visit my boy

    friend in 20 days!!! I'm so excited I can barely handle it :D
    cmehler14 cmehler14 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I don't know what it is about this week.

    Normally I'm Miss Positive and there's no doubt I can do this. I guess the distance is just really getting me this week.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    My boyfriend of two years went to basic

    training yesterday at Fort Leonardwood to be a MP. Today was our first day not talking together in the four years that we have known each other.. I am torn and it hurts to not be able to text him good night and occasionally annoy him. I am a junior in high school and on our last...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just heard from him

    and I'm so ecstatic wndhaianskdnsnan I'm so glad he finally contacted me!!
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    So my man has been texting me a little today

    because the weather in Fort Sill is kinda harsh today so he has his phone until tonight. I really needed this. I've been walking around all day with the biggest smile on my face!! He told me how his days get better when he thinks about me and just ajshkakans I'm just so happy...
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    His mom bought me a plane ticket to go visit

    him in April for my birthday :')
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Aaah!!! My baby just called!

    !! Things are getting better :)
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So my guy is going to be deployed soon.

    The past few weeks he's been really mean, picking on me and fighting with me over nothing, he always apologizes afterwards. I've been going through a hard time trying to find a job, so I've been selling my vintage clothes and I'm actually pretty good at it. I'm making some money...
    slippersatin slippersatin 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014