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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,197 People

    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Most days I hear from him,

    which I am very lucky for. But the days that I don't absolutely suck. I hate it so much
    savfleek savfleek 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I came home today to 4 letters!

    Ahhh so excited. It made my whole week. I guess they must hold their mail. He also hasn't gotten all of mine yet either. It feels so good to hear from him. :) ugh I'm such an emotional roller coaster lately! Lol
    marinegf13 marinegf13 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    why deployments make them

    so cold and distant?????????
    leslie11x leslie11x 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    well you girls probably won't hear from me.

    not really any point of me on here we arnt together at all anymore I've tried to talk to him about everything and he shuts down
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I love our cute conversations :) Can't wait to

    see him on Friday and Saturday <3
    ac9914 ac9914 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It has only been a few days

    since he left. I'm so very proud of him.
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Update : - Well my boyfriend got kicked out

    for fighting unfortunately , (BUMMER) :/ & is coming home soon so I want be on this site anymore sadly . But I wish all of you ladies the best of luck on this wonderful journey , and thanks for all your support . <3 xoxo.
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    So I finally tell him what I've been thinking

    and his reply was shut up about emotions you know im not that guy. He was that guy before deployment after all this I dont actually know if I can get through the last weeks argh why can't things be easy and go like it's meant to hmm
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    He dumped me a few days ago

    and everytime I think about it I start crying. I am so lost. I can't believe it.
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Man it's been forever

    since I posted on here. How's everyone been? Good I hope. Well the reason being why I haven't been posting is because my boyfriend and I were going through a lot of negativity and broke up but we some how found our way back and are working it out little by little day by day. Idc...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I love my little conversations with him at

    night. He always messages me before he goes to work so we get to have some great personal conversations. I'm so proud of him and what he's doing. He's also made me a better person. I can't wait till he is home and in my arms!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    So we finally got a chance to talk

    for a while. I asked him if he want us to be exclusive. He said yes but then said we should take things a bit slow since we are some months away from meeting (for the first time). Any advices about it?
    leslie11x leslie11x 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Hello from California just wanted to say

    goodnight to you lovely ladies. NO matter what your situation is and how impossible it seems one day when it's all over you will look back at it and laugh. Trust me I've been thru most of all situations and I have stood where everyone has I know you've heard it many times be...
    luvyoulizz luvyoulizz 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Oops I made him a little jealous today!

    I went to my friends sons bday party at her house and I typically never drink but I had a Jack and coke and shared with my friend. I sent the pic to my man asking if he cared if I hung out with Jack, his response "not fair"
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 19 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    well im not sure where me

    and the solider i was talking to stand...im.so confused and with limited communication its tough to figure it oit.. i really dont wanna lose him... so confused ??
    camoprincess19 camoprincess19 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My boys best friend and mother have

    both said this week how much he cares about me and it makes me feel so happy and special. I love him so much!!!
    savfleek savfleek 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    184 days down today..

    . less than 20 until he's back home, I have to see the end of this through! count down is on! everyone going through deployment the time seems so long but keep busy and keep smiling and it will go faster than you think :)
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Me and my fiancé are getting married in a

    courthouse in April. I've been looking for short wedding dresses or just pretty little white dresses and I was thinking of wearing a little veil. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to make it super special! We are planning on having a more formal wedding...
    CayleighQ CayleighQ 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Kyle surprised me with a spa day!

    He scheduled me a hot stone massage and lunch at the Spa... I cried! I miss him!! Thank God for our men!
    AHK2015 AHK2015 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Does any one else feel like they aren't apart

    of their soldiers "new life"? Despite their efforts? It's just the distance and busy busy schedules.. I hope things get better after AIT....
    Armygf14 Armygf14 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so blessed to have

    such a wonderful boyfriend we skyped for a good amount of time today and talked about the future and he always makes time to Skype or message me everyday I just love him soooo much! <3
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 16 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I just want to call him!

    ! I haven't talked to him in 3 weeks!! I know it doesn't seem like much but this is hard!! :(
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11, 2014

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    Today is our 2yr anniversary of us being

    together. ..and I'm alone. Last year for our 1yr I spent that alone too since he was at basic. I was just thinking to myself that we will never be together for our anniversary until about our 4th or 5th yr. Last year gone, this year he's in germany, next year too and quite...