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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,208 People

    My sweetie made me a bracelet

    and sent it to me with his letter :) <3
    foreverstrongforus foreverstrongforus 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    It's crazy to think that I haven't been in his

    arms in 50 days. Hallway to 100. I miss him like crazy but I'm okay. Sometimes though the sadness hits me square in the chest. But I'm keeping my sanity.
    s3iaf10614 s3iaf10614 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Whenever my man is home I can't stop loving on

    him! Always kissing and hugging on each other and holding hands or something!!! If we're sitting at the table eating he's got his hand on my leg or our feet are at least touching. I'd kill to have that right now! Gosh I love him so much
    savfleek savfleek 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Last week made me realize

    that we always have to be grateful for our men. Even though we don't get to talk to them as much as we would like to, they still make the effort to make sure we are okay and reassure us that we are not forgotten. I used to be so clingy and complain that he doesn't call/text me...
    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Kyle surprised me with a spa day!

    He scheduled me a hot stone massage and lunch at the Spa... I cried! I miss him!! Thank God for our men!
    AHK2015 AHK2015 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    For the last couple weeks I've been dreading

    having to wait until Christmas of this year to see my boyfriend again and he just told me that he probably won't even come home for Christmas this year. Hearing that just broke my heart into a million tiny pieces and it feels so impossible. Knowing that I may not see my...
    savfleek savfleek 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Guys.. This is my house rn.

    Anyone wanna help? I'll give you beef stew that's been in the crock pot all day as payment. 😂😂
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Having a hard time today,

    despite the fact that we skype, call and text I can't help but feel as if were still far. Don't get me wrong I'm very grateful I get to talk to my boyfriend but sometimes I just break down and cry for no reason, he'll get his duty station next week I'm praying it hopefully won't...
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Need ur prayers ladies I'm at work

    and I just want to cry I miss him so much. We haven't talked or anything for 4weeks. I hope he writes or calls soon. This is too much...
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    51 Days until I get to see my handsome soldier

    graduate :) <3 I wish it was right now though...
    foreverstrongforus foreverstrongforus 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I know it's selfish of me

    but I send her tons of letters and care package, but feel undervalued. We're very fortunate we get to skype every day from her base, but I feel selfish because I feel alone in this sometimes. I've never gotten a letter or any cute gesture like that in reciprocity. I'm not saying...
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    And i support my solider

    but man oh man are those men hard to be with!!
    Briannanana4 Briannanana4 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Annnnd I just took another blow.

    I got one hell of a wake up call. I get a phone call at 5:30AM (8:30AM for him) by my man telling me he has good news. He's been picked to go on a MEU in September. He's getting attached to a osprey squadron. He'll be going to Europe and traveling to diff countries in Sept...
    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Yup that's my man in a nutshell.

    He's fed got all the requirements. Tho there's so many good things about him. I love that man with all my heart. Can't wait till he's home. We are almost half way there!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My boyfriend is stressed

    and tired every day. I know he gets stressed, but this is the first time he's really been showing it emotionally. He's impossible to talk to. He gets mad over little things that shouldn't bother him. I can't do anything right. Part of me wants to not talk to him cause i know he...
    kanglin17 kanglin17 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Did anyone else get soo nervous

    before they saw them again? 6 months is a long time im nervous when I see him again things will of changed or it will be weird im so excited he'll be in the same country again though I don't think I'll sleep until I see him argh !!!
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Me and my fiancé are getting married in a

    courthouse in April. I've been looking for short wedding dresses or just pretty little white dresses and I was thinking of wearing a little veil. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to make it super special! We are planning on having a more formal wedding...
    CayleighQ CayleighQ 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    So my boyfriend got his phone back today,

    but he barely texted me and only called me for about 10 minutes. I mean I appreciated the 10 minutes I talked to him, but I could've talked to him so much longer! I've been waiting for his call. Finally, I got it, but it was more of two minutes of real conversation. I'm kinda...
    Baybae Baybae 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Snowed in and all alone,

    this sucks. I miss my soldier so much *sigh*
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend casually texts me

    that "there is an active shooter on post"... Im all worried and he's taking his sweet time to respond. And of course he's so vague and doesn't tell me anything. Ugh. Life is stressful as a military girlfriend
    kanglin17 kanglin17 18-21, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I'm feeling a little guilty.

    My Marine keeps talking about moving me out to him in NC and starting a life there with him. At first just moving outside of base as a girlfriend, but now talking more about marriage. He talks about how much money he has saved up and that he can support me until I can find a...
    KaleJay KaleJay 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    2 weeks left until he will be back!

    so hopefully not too long after that I'll see him, his phones broke so back to Skype which means we get to talk less but on the plus side only a few weeks to go and then he'll have a new one :) no word in a couple of days so will hopefully speak to him soon, wishing the days to...
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    nicolezimmerr nicolezimmerr 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I need some help/advice/support.

    ..or even your own experiences. My boyfriend is looking to join the army, it is the only career he has ever wanted to go into and he is not happy in his current job so is looking into it. I don't want to try talk him out of it because I know it will make him happy but I cant say...
    UKSgirl10 UKSgirl10 16-17, F 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I miss him a lot tonight its hard to stay

    strong I am working on geting everything packed for the move so when he gets back we will be in are new home.
    militarygirlfreind militarygirlfreind 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.