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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,491 People

    Help!!!! So I have been with him

    for a little over two years now and he is currently stationed in Korea. We just fought about the idea of him going to a stupid rave "Ultra" in Korea and I told him no and I don't like the idea of him going. Especially with me not around. All they do at raves is do drugs get...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancΓ©'s and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Marked 8 months together today

    but we're on a break :/
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Good night, or good morning depending

    where you are :) saw this earlier and really liked it, just thought I'd share .
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    So I got an envelope in the mail from my

    boyfriend today, which I thought was odd since he's been out of basic for over a month now! Anyway I opened it and saw his name tape and a letter. Pretty much cried before I even got to the letter lol... He wrote and said the name tape was my graduation present. But the rest of...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Aaaaaaannnnnndddddddd his leave got approved!

    !!!!! πŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽ†βœ¨ happiest girl in the world right now!
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Today was a good day safe baby

    and spent the afternoon cleaning and doing laundry with my man. No episode today and I randomly became emotional he held me rubbed my belly and didn't stop hugging me until I stopped cry. To many this isn't anything to me it's a big step him being able to handle my random...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    So my bf gets a four day pass this memorial

    weekend but has to stay on base. I get to go visit but what the heck is there to do on base πŸ˜† excited I get to seem and so much happier he is in AIT now!
    brenlarmygf brenlarmygf 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    What are ways that my sailor

    and I can participate in pre-marital counseling while he is active duty? Does anyone know of any specific counsellors or organizations that they can suggest?
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    3 months down. 2 more to go

    until I get to see my man. The time is flying by.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend is an Army reservist now,

    he was active duty & was in Afghanistan. Yes, i am very happy he came home alive & in one piece!
    MeghanL MeghanL 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    First time since we started talking

    that I'm going to bed without having heard from him... I know this is nothing compared with some of you on here.. Just want my love by my side. Other couples don't realise how lucky they are..
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    The love letters I've been getting are

    absolutely the SWEETEST. I know we're going to be just fine as long as we stick together and build the Empire that we have both been dreaming of.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    So I realized why when he goes out

    or does anything it bothers me. It's not the fact that I'm jealous and insecure. But I HATE that we live separate lives. I hate that our lives don't come together everyday like normal couples. I hate knowing that it's not going to be like that soon. And I hate that he can do it...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone! So my boy got sworn in today at

    meps! He gets shipped out to bootcamp November 16th! I am going to miss all the holidays with him, but I guess that is something I will have to get use to anyways... Regardless, I am so proud of him and am going to make the next 6 months I have with him the best!
    killlarose killlarose 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Received another letter from my love!

    ! I miss him so much :(
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    From reading the last couple posts sound like

    some of you girls have had a rough couple days! I just wanna say keep your head up, things will get better I promise !! I'm always here to talk, even if you just need someone to listen, I know how much better I feel after a good rant !! My guy has seemed off the last couple of...
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So I'm about 5 weeks pregnant

    and having to deal with my boyfriend can sometimes get overwhelming. He snapped at me because he was stressed out and I was an emotional spaz. I'm so scared PTSD is ruining our relationship. He snapped at his own mother because there was way too many people at a birthday party...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been deployed now

    for 4.5 months. Most days, I am totally fine. I stay busy and keep my mind off of it, even though our relationship is restricted to a narrow time we can talk every day. At least it's every day. But tomorrow is a really really big day for me, and I have been sad all day...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I'm watching the Atlanta v.

    Cleveland game and I just know my soldier is dying to find out how it's going to end. haha. I'm a fan of the Hawks and he's a LeBron fan. (he doesn't care about the rest of the team). I really hope we win so that I can junk talk him all day Sunday lol.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    30days till my sailors birthday

    but I'll finally see him 41days from now. It's summer vacation and usually I want time to slow down and the days to last longer at this point. But I reeeeeally don't even care its summer! I've come to realize that I don't look forward to summer anymore. All I look forward to is...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    my bf comes home next month

    and we're both from the same town and most of his friends are going to want to hang out with him but he only has 2 weeks here and I'm trying to fit in 3 days of vacation near the beach and away from everyone else ?? this is going to be hard
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I was just wondering

    if any of you guys soldiers are in BT at Fort Benning right now.. Just out of curiosity lol
    MGodette MGodette 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I graduated school on Tuesday

    as a member of the National Honors Society ! I wish my sailor could have been there but I will see him soon!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Does anyone still have any suggestions

    for problems sleeping? We have had 2 good days no episodes actually he's being extra sweet and comforting. But, last night he just couldn't sleep and kept waking me up and it sucked having to work today with lack of sleep. Any suggestions are appreciated especially after hearing...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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