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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,731 People

    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Hopefully buying a plane ticket

    and a hotel room this weekend!!! Hard to believe basic is halfway over and in a little over a month I'll be able to see my babe again!
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    We're so close to seeing each other again,

    but I'm still feeling like its so long until we do. I thought that it would get easier on me the closer it got to him coming home, but it's pretty much the same feelings of sadness and missing him.
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    new to the military GF thing can I write a

    bunch of letters and tie them with string together or send them in a small package to basic training or should I send them all separate I'm writing one everyday but I don't have the mailing address yet so they are piling up I just don't want my guy to have to run more or be...
    Armymeeg1 Armymeeg1 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Seriously missing him

    and he's only been gone one whole day. Miss him smile, his smell, his jokes, his voice and especially his arms. This is tougher than I imagined I want to friggen walk to fort benning and give him the biggest hug :(
    Armymeeg1 Armymeeg1 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Only have a week left till I see my soldier!

    The days feel like they are going slower and slower lol.
    swimmer1115 swimmer1115 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I woke up crying & in terrible pain.

    I called him cause he's the first person I thought of... I really just need him here. I haven't seen him in a while....
    WaitingForSailorSims WaitingForSailorSims 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    One thing I love about my husband (still

    getting used to the term lol) being in the military is that I get to travel to see him! I have visited him at every base he has been at and soon that will include overseas. 36 days and I get to visit him and see what his life is like over there and meet his friends that will be...
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Can you send your recruit pictures in bootcamp?

    People have been telling me you can and some have been telling me you can't?
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    My boyfriend is at fort benning Georgia

    and I got a letter stating... " The following items are considered as contraband? Please do not send? Any type of food Civilian reading material (except for religious text, i.e. Holy Bible, the Koran, ?) including internet jokes and newspaper clippings Firearms, knives, razors...
    swimmonkey swimmonkey 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    this week has been so bad

    for me.. on Monday my bf told me he needed to think and he said he feels like we have lost our connection , but to me last week we were soo good ! ft every night and talking but since he went out this weekend he's changed and idk why... he asked me questions like - what do we...
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My solider has been in AIT

    for almost a month now. I'm glad that I finally get to talk to him way more but some days it feels like I can barely get his attention for at least 5 min. I'm trying so hard not to get mad at him about it because it's not his fault but it's frustrating not being able to talk to...
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Well I was happy about an hour ago.

    But now I find myself constantly crying. I don't know what it is, but I'm so emotional right now. I just want to be in his arms again. I need some kind of motivation, or advice. It's hard to constantly be happy. Especially when no one you see on a daily basis acts even slightly...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    No longer a military gf.

    But thank everyone who helped me get through boot camp and A school. Every since he's been stationed, he became a totally different person now. And by different I mean cocky, arrogant, and self centered. He's not the same guy who wrote those letters during bootcamp. He acts like...
    KSecrest KSecrest 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I have one week and a couple days with my

    boyfriend left and all I can do Is cry. I don't think I'm gonna handle this well.
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    got a call that he arrived a couple days ago

    and he told me he loved me (: seriously made my day
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Came home today with

    so many letters!! They were the most romantic words that I've ever received from him in the whole five years we've been together. Oh my gosh, I'm one happy sailor's girl!
    emmy3991 emmy3991 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    What are some great songs

    that make you feel better through the separation? I have a whole playlist already, but I'd like to add more to it! Missing him like crazy tonight. I got so used to him being home that it's like I almost forgot what it's like to be apart! But I have a go-to playlist to help me...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I'm getting so close to seeing him

    and at this point I'm just getting antsy! I just want it to be here already! Only 20 more days :)
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Dropped my boyfriend off at the airport today

    won't be seeing him again till sometime next summer πŸ˜”
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes, it sucks not having any friends

    when he's gone. The girl I thought was my best friend started changing when she found out my boyfriend is a sailor. Sadly, she's a tag chaser and isn't ashamed of it. She says things like"I will only marry a navy seal and if I can't get one of those, I'll settle for any other...
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    This will be my last post on here.

    . We broke up. I gave my all, I bent over backwards for him and he still treated me terribly. His actions were so horrible even his parents aren't happy with him (they said I deserved better). I'm trying not to dwell on it, as he's shown me that he doesn't care, he's not...
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need someone to talk to.

    ..Hes not even gone and won't be till november or December and it still hurts so freaking bad. anybody...?
    oliviairene47 oliviairene47 18-21, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I made a video of my soldier in AIT,

    basic and him coming home <3 http://youtu.be/9WcnY2ONVbU
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My boyfriend graduates in a few weeks

    and I get to fly out to see him ! But I have NO IDEA what to get him as a gift I've been searching everywhere but it's mostly websites selling products (which are no help) &I just got this app and noticed how all of you help each other out and I think it's so nice , so I was...
    abbyrodriguez abbyrodriguez 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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