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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,674 People

    I give you my heart, I promise from this day

    forward you shall not walk alone, may my heart be your shelter and my arms be your home. I promise to love you no matter what, to respect you and to be a friend and lover. <3
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Only five more days until I can see my soldier.

    He's been away now for 4 weeks and he comes home on wednesday for 3 weeks, so excited! I hope you all get to see your soldiers soon!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    It's weird how it's been exactly a month

    since he's been gone and instead of being happy it is going by so fast I'm really missing him today. I'm just stressed out because I'm moving away for my first year of college. It's only a couple hours away but it's overwhelming. I just wish he was here to tell me everything is...
    NicooleMaarie NicooleMaarie 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear you, We are just alike.

    We wait on our phone every night. We cry when certain songs come on. We have him as our wallpaper and have a playlist of our songs. We tear up seeing something about the military but when his branch is featured your heart starts pounding. When he is wounded you panic for him but...
    HisProudMarineGirlfriend HisProudMarineGirlfriend 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    Question for all the military girlfriends out

    there: So this is something that have been thinking about. So I'm going down the end of August for his family weekend with his mom, aunt, and sister. We're hoping to get a little alone time together so that the two of us can catch up.... But with his family, who knows if they'd...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why do people who don't have a boyfriend in the

    military or aren't even associated with ANYONE in the military think it's okay to come into our posts and give us ****? Like back off. Nobody asked for your opinion and you leaving negative and disgusting comments is so useless. Y'all are annoying.
    kxcrooks kxcrooks 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Oh? Really?

    What's that, civilian girlfriend? Your civilian boyfriend is seriously injured?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend? You got robbed last night because someone came in your house?My boyfriend has training for that.What's that, civilian girlfriend...
    angelaamor22 angelaamor22 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    2 days. 2 more days. I've made it 10 months

    without him. It has been one of the hardest things I've ever done. I can't wait to go pick him up from the airport and see his face when he sees his son. I send him pictures all the time of all the silly things he is missing out on. But I know that its not the same as seeing him...
    Maddiegray Maddiegray 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    Does anybody know anything about the DEERS

    process? My hubby and I just got married this past weekend before he started AIT and I wanted to know if I would be on his first duty station orders when he gets them? And also what all does he need to set up a DEERS appt at the base he is at for training? He told me just the...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I just wanna move to fort Leonard wood already

    and be with my soldier!!! <3 2 months left
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I love my baby :) so I had class last night

    after work I got out around 10 pm. My friend said that she would give me a ride home because she had to go that way anyway. So she tells me that we have to look for someone before we leave so we ridding around the parking lot looking for this person. Then she pulls up next to...
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    4 days and he's home!

    !!! 4 more days, I can make it!!!!
    Abbieanderson Abbieanderson 16-17, F 1 Response May 29

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    how do girlfriends find out

    if their SO is hurt over seas? I haven't heard anything in a week... where we've been talking twice a day every day. His family isn't close with me, in fact they want us to break up, so IDK if they would tell me what they know or if they do :(
    misslady88 misslady88 22-25, F 6 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My soldier tried to commit suicide.

    I really can't deal right now.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 7 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Saturday is our one year anniversary

    and it sucks that we can't celebrate it together. I keep thinking about the things we're missing out on since he's so far away. Valentines day, our birthdays, my promotion but then I think about all the years we'll have when we're finally able to be together to celebrate those...
    newbs02 newbs02 22-25, F 14 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    So these two months have gone by

    so fast and I finally got a call about where he's getting based at, it won't be to far from me so that makes me extremely happy! I can't wait for his next call this weekend! I'm so excited to go up for his graduation, the flight tickets are booked already and I can't wait! But I...
    Dayde911CG Dayde911CG 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Not anymore. My guy broke up with me.

    He doesn't like me as much as he did before. I won't be on here so bye. He and I are both devastated but were still close. It's not a mutual decision.
    xoxohayley xoxohayley 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    ITS MY 21st BIRTHDAY!

    !!! I had another amazing wake up call from my boyfriend today. Best birthday by far!!!!! Hopefully I get to see him soon (50 days)
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My SO and I got married this weekend

    when I went to see him graduate from basic! I didn't want to post anything yet about it cause there was drama back home w my family. But now that everyone knows I'm so excited to share it w y'all! I'm sooo happy and can't wait till he's done w AIT in 6 weeks so we can finally...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    We met and he left for basic 2 weeks later.

    I wrote to him every day he was gone. I traveled to his graduation with his family. He went to Tech school and I spent one amazing weekend with him. Then he was on leave for 20 days and I spent every minute with him. Now he's in Japan for two years. Is it hard to be apart...
    Poetbyheart Poetbyheart 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Today marks 7 months my boyfriend

    and I have been together I believe he'll be away until next week, so I sent him a heart felt email about how I felt about our relationship and how happy he makes me. I can't wait until all this is over with and we can move onto the next stage of our lives.
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a new military girlfriend

    and new onto this site as well not sure how it works but my marine is deployed and it sucked not spending his birthday together we actually haven't spent any holidays together yet 😔 we been dating for 4 months now but we've known eachother for 9 months now I knew it was gonna...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    So Tired Of Hearing "You Are So Strong"

    Honestly. I'm not. It's not strength that gets us through these hard times. There's no work out you can do that makes the distance easier. I'm just a young woman that loves her boyfriend. You know who's the strong one? Him. The one who put his life on hold to serve something...
    SubmarinersLovebird SubmarinersLovebird 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    My boyfriend is officially in basic training

    as of today, I am starting to accept it more but it still is really hard to wrap my mind around that my other half is gone for so long! He called me to say he made it safely but it was literally a 5 second phone call and it almost made it harder to accept because he sounded like...
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Such a long time ago,

    we were just a couple of kids. But we really loved each other, didn't we?
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    If all goes as planned

    and his leave gets accepted its 35 days until I get to have him back for a little while. I'm over-joyed to be able to send this time with him. I can't wait until he's back in the states and we can focus on our relationship and learning more about each other and our family's. I'm...
    AirforceGirl9 AirforceGirl9 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Madeesun Madeesun 16-17, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I am starting to notice

    that the hardest part of him being gone is going to sleep! I am so used to turning over and seeing him there. I stay up so late and think about so much. I really hope this goes by fast!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend sent me this,

    so we're gonna try and test it out. I thought it'd also be helpful for some of you out there... It's kinda long lol ....... All relationships take work. But a long-distance relationship is even more difficult and it can sometimes seem impossible to keep love alive when...
    Abbyj13 Abbyj13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    It has been quite some time

    since I have been on here. A lot of new faces, that's for sure. I am a Army wife and living in Hawaii now. Even though I'm married and living with my husband, it still gets lonely at times being so far from home, family, and friends. I have my new beauty product line now that I...
    MMAfighter1313 MMAfighter1313 22-25, F Jan 16

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Does anyone know if you can put perfume on

    letters? My boyfriend suggested it to help him feel like he's "right next to me", but I'm afraid they won't give it to him because of policy or rules. Also is lipstick okay? To kiss on the letters? Don't want to mail it and he never receives it. Also he's in basic boot camp, not...
    MsKittyChan MsKittyChan 18-21, F 8 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure how I'm feeling right now,

    my boyfriend just called me and this was the first time he has called me since he left but all he asked me was what his moms phone number is. I didn't even get a chance to say I love you because he hung up so fast. I mean I will take what I can get to hear his voice but up just...
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I did it. Stayed so faithful to a man

    who is so worth it for 11 weeks. Three phone calls 20 letters. Ten weeks This is how big my smile is. Haven't been this happen since he proposed!
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Happy Valentines Day to all the wonder Military

    Girlfriends/Fiancés/Wives who don't have the chance to celebrate with their men today. Have a wonderful day! And to those who get to see their men today you have a beautiful day also ❤️💕
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Why do I feel like he's being selfish sometimes?

    Why can't he care as much as I do? I don't understand sometimes!
    Cjones23 Cjones23 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It doesn't get easier.

    It doesn't. People say that but it's not true. What actually happens is you get stronger. You get more capable of handling the crappy situation in your life. His absence never feels better. It never subsides. But you become someone so impenetrable to pain that it feels like it...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    Got a letter from my soldier today (that he

    sent 4 days ago) saying he was upset he hadn't gotten any mail yet. But I sent my first letter Friday to him and so did his family and friends so I hope he gets those today and smiles (:
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm am beyond irritated today.

    I got written up for some bull crap at work that I had no control over. I really miss my baby and wish he was here. Ugh deployment suck! Then to top it all off I think I might be pregnant ! 😳
    wifey2be wifey2be 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 21 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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