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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,847 People

    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    How long does it usually take to receive your

    first letter in the mail? In his last text message he sent, he said he would write to me that night which was friday. I am just so anxious and I can't wait to get it!
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to thank all you ladies (and some guys!

    ) for being so wonderful to me this past week. It's been a roller coaster of emotions. I'm not sure where "my soldier" and I stand, but for now, I'm deleting him from my life. We're not being fair to each other. I could handle it, but military life isn't for every girl. Stay...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Ill admit im selfish,

    but it literally puts a pit in my stomach when other girls get letters. I know he needs his friends support, but I wish I didnt take it this way.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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     In this post and with this pic I just

    want give all of u ladies soooooo muuuch thanks for all the support that u gave me heeere! U girls are AMAZING!! I met really good friends and well u girls raised me ^.^ when I was down! :S made me smile :) when I was sad :(! and the most important opened u hearts to me!! :3...
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I think we hit our biggest disagreement we are

    gonna face for a while. It's one thing to have the same wants but it's a totally different one when you are trying to figure out the best timing for it and how to make the whole thing work while he has to deploy. I feel like his wants are sorta more important than mine and that...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Doctors appointment is 40 minutes

    and I'm freaking out!!!! I wish he was here today!!!! He would be able to calm me down!!!! Wish my luck that all things are ok!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    So my boyfriend left

    for OSUT on September 15 at Ft Benning.. And i am just dying to get a letter or a call or anything from him, I've been completely miserable without being able to talk to him. Hoping for a letter soon!!!
    Gini19k Gini19k 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    So my boyfriend's best friend leaves

    for basic today, it was nice to know that I can tell him sort of what to expect on this day. I'm glad that I could help him calm down, he's at the armory and was so nervous. He asked what my boyfriend wrote in my letter and told me not to tell him if it was bad (Good thing it...
    Courtmk Courtmk 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    I have to brag about my Airman!

    He's an e3! He ranked early and sews on e4 on 10/15! Then in May he tests for e5! I'm so proud of him and all of his accomplishments. He's working and studying so hard! All of its paying off! I'm so happy for him! I love him soooo much ❤️
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well now that we've been talking off

    and on since lunch time I can sleep easily tonight! Doctors tomorrow and I'm super nervous!!! Fingers crossed for good news which will help us in our decision for the future!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I want to take a minute

    and thank those of you who realize what y'all signed up for when becoming a military girlfriend. Realizing it isn't a "glamorous" lifestyle and there are plenty of times where we go days and weeks and longer without talking to our loved ones. Knowing that we need to stay strong...
    MarinesGirl94 MarinesGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Well ladies, I'm back!

    I just had the greatest 2 weeks with my boyfriend! Thank y'all for the love and kind words. I was so sad seeing him leave yesterday but I'm so thankful for the time we had together.
    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Found this little anecdote online earlier

    and I just thought I'd share it.... I want to write 'I miss you' on a rock and throw it at your face so you know how much it hurts to miss you... It made me laugh, and I hope it does the same for some of you! :)
    beckie1206 beckie1206 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 5 Responses Sep 14

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 10 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is getting deployed on Wednesday.

    Both of our first time not being able to talk or see each other for 7 months. It seems sooooo long! Trying to talk to him as much as I can before he leaves, but my sister and mom don't understand it. They get mad at me because I am always on the phone with him, but when I'm not...
    Caylina Caylina 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    What is your favorite memory

    or something he (or she) does that makes your heart melt?
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 10 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    My Soldier is AMAZING <3He is truly

    something else, even though he is exhausted at the end of the day, after running every where he goes and jumping off of towers in his first week at Airborne School. He calls me regardless to check up on me, and talks to me til he is practically asleep on the phone but I dont...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 1 Response 7 mins ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Junygirl Junygirl 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Anyone know if they get to call

    after red phase is over and white phase begins? And do they always call on Sunday's or could it be any day? I feel like red phase will be over Friday so I'm trying to decide if I should talk to my training instructors about if I can leave the classroom if I get a phone call on a...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I <3 PFC Whittaker

    ❤️❤️💏👫💍💎
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Yay! Finally got my reply!

    A very long, and much happier one :) I'm so so in love with this man and even just reading a letter puts a huge smile on my face. And of course brings tears :) It puts me in a much better mood knowing just my letters made him feel ten times better. Starting this day off on a...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    well all i can say is the military is the most

    unpredictable lifestyle ever! this time last week i thought i had to wait another five weeks to see my airman but now he has home leave this weekend! im traveling to london with his dad and step mum to pick him up then were stopping in a hotel and driving home saturday morning...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Got a second letter today from him :) it was

    mailed to his dads house. I miss him so much. Sometimes so much that I physically hurt. I'm trying best to stay strong. I love how positive his letters are right now.
    Courtmk Courtmk 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Ugh it's killing me to see people

    that have sons or boyfriends in my boyfriends company getting their reply letters, and I still haven't gotten one. I'm really, really in need of a happy letter right about now from my man. Definitely having a rough night. Trying to stay strong. Missing him so much and am so...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    my SO started Air Assault School today,

    which mean very little to no contact for the next 11 days. I know people have it worse than me, by not being able to talk to their SO or only communicating by letters. I'm just so used to being able to text him and see how his da is going, but now I cant. I'm sorry if I seem...
    MeriahW MeriahW 18-21, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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