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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,750 People

    My boyfriend has been in boot camp

    for about three weeks now. Still no letter. We found out the date of his graduation and now his mother is trying to guilt me into giving up my ticket so his little sister can go.
    Kadijo Kadijo 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I haven't posted in forever

    so here's an update. He's in school and probably about halfway through the 16 weeks it'll be. Emotionally I'm doing okay with him gone. Not so much with just stresses of a relationship. Planning a wedding I'm not sure is going to happen really gets to me some days but it's...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    30 days 10 hours and 24 minutes

    until i go see my bf!! aaaah I am super excited! I have a feeling this month will fly by!!
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    What is up with all these spammers on this page?

    I've been reporting all of them.
    kjw2893 kjw2893 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My soldier comes home tomorrow

    for a few days before he leaves for deployment! Want to do something special for him. Any suggestions? He comes back late at night.
    Caylina Caylina 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    so I dreamt with my boyfriend last night

    but the thing is that i woke up like 3 times and my dream just continued! i thought that was cool haha
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    My boyfriend wins. He wins

    because he'll be stressed, busy, have no service, annoyed out of his mind but throws it all aside for those he loves. He wins because he knows how to put others who need him first. He wins because no matter how hard things may get for him whatever it may be, life, work, stress...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Smh my mother is asking questions about the

    little boy. Our relationship is extremely close and I usually tell her everything but this one is so awkward! She knows for a fact that there's something there, I've even introduced them to each other. I guess it's just that I'm afraid of what the future may hold for him and I...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So does anyone know if White phase in basic

    training gives a lot more freedom for them to like call home and such?? I mean he can already call me but I just hope we can talk longer and he can write more!!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    You know you're a MilSO when.

    .... Comment below. :)
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Lol this reminds me so much of "the little boy".

    Well have a good day loves :)
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend is in his third week of OSUT

    and I've only gotten one letter so far. But today I found out that my brother got arrested for murder and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. My bf is the one person I want to talk to about this but I know my letters are supposed to be happy and motivating so I can't tell...
    armygf916 armygf916 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't get it. Hes been gone

    since the week after New Years, that's 8 months, 8 mths of being on my own and it wasn't easy but I survived. He came home for 2 weeks, he's been at his station in germany for a week now and I haven't slept since he left. I don't understand why I'm taking this so hard. Shouldn't...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    ~ 8/20/2014 It's been awhile,

    I'm sorry for that. I guess you can say I've been getting my life together? Settling everything out. Also I will be posting other stories on my other things that have changed. But for this one, I am a military girlfriend. I think you've heard that same line from me about 10...
    SimplySecure SimplySecure 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    So here is the realization

    that it took me an embarrassingly long time to formulate and really believe. Your soldier/airman/marine/seaman loves you. He wouldn’t have stuck around if he didn’t. So when he doesn’t text your or call you during the day or when he says he is, STOP TAKING IT PERSONALLY...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Today has been tough,

    every time I talk about him to any one I start crying and try to stop myself. Time needs to start moving.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Omg I kept having this feeling to check my

    phone at work & right when I did he called me!!!! THATS CRAZZYYYY I'm so happy right now. I've been strong & holding out these past weeks but hearing him again made me so damn helpless.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    16 days until I am in my soldiers

    and considering my week that sounds like a dream. I had my first car wreck yesterday everyone was okay but I just wish I could call my soldier and have him comfort me! I miss him so much! I hated having to tell him about my wreck in a letter but I couldn't lie to him and I know...
    Paigebrianne0 Paigebrianne0 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Well my soldiers graduation is in three months

    and I'll finally get to see him! However after that he has to go to more training bc he wants to be in the special forces! So all in all I have to wait 6 months before we will finally get to move to where ever he is stationed!! I'm counting down the days till then! I can't wait...
    ebynum ebynum 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I got so excited when he called me I started

    speaking in my native tongue. He was like wtf r u saying?!!! Lol
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    4 weeks down, 4 weeks to go!

    !! I can't wait to be in his arms again<3
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am having a REALLY hard time leaving

    for college in a couple days. This will be my first year and I'm going to miss my family so much. Also I'm just so worried because my family and home have kept me happy while my boyfriend has been gone. I still feel completely connected because everything is familar. I'm scared...
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    One month from today I'll be in his arms again!

    !!:) I'm so happy! It seems so far buy hopefully it will fly by:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    16 days until his graduation !

    ! Beyond excited :)
    Armygirltiger149 Armygirltiger149 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Those nights where you get only 5 hours

    or less of sleep because you just lay awake thinking of your solider and can't sleep at all. I miss him so much! I hope these next 3 months go by fast!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It has been 106 days

    since my soldier left home. It has been 34 days since I saw him last. There are 29 days til my soldier graduates and comes home for only 10-14 days. Then my soldier deploys to Germany for 2 years... I am an Army girlfriend... And only because I get limited time and...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    8/11/2012 -Remembering those days

    when we used to be able to sit in the same room at the same time and disagree about his ethnicity lol ( he's 75% Native American and 25% African American) but he still claims to this day he's the same skin tone as I am lol Man...I miss him...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I'm so excited. I move back into my dorm

    for my second year of college on Saturday and it's exciting because that means more things to keep me preoccupied and less time worrying about my soldier. I'm just scared that it'll be less time to talk to him because by the time he gets of of work it's 1am over here. I mean we...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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