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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,513 People

    I am beyond stressed

    and cried out. My mother and her rude comments are going to soon drive me to my grave. After a year apart, my boyfriend is finally visiting for 10 days and wants me to spend them with him. I brought up to my mom that we are planning on getting engaged in those 10 days and she...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    So I posted a few days ago about being

    completely lost and sick and just scared. Made the decision two days ago to go on a break/break up type thing. I don't know what's happened I honestly feel like I'm going insane. I just woke up one day and questioned our relationship, the distance, the love. I think it's because...
    doha5644 doha5644 18-21 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel sorry for anyone

    who gets on my bad side today... So not in the mood for idiots
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    I really want to buy some cute Air Force

    clothing & things! Does anyone know of a website I can go to that sells clothing with the Air Force logo & other things like accessories & is pretty affordable??
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    We are currently trying to plan a way to see

    each other in the next two weeks while he is in A school and I'm hoping everything works out but I am still mentally preparing myself for the possibility of not being able to see him until after he graduates..
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 day ago

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    Wearing my boyfriends shirt makes me feel like

    he's here cuddling with me! I've been sleeping in it ever since he left and it's so comforting! It's so nice to have some of his things, especially since he's gone! I miss you and I love you so much baby! <3 <3
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So after a tough few days.

    He still didn't give me the space I asked for. I have come to the conclusion I no longer want this, not the life but him. I don't know why or what has happened but ever since this trip my mind has been else where, and not with him. There's nothing I can do and i feel horrible...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Now that time is getting closer to the day he

    leaves, I'm freaking out! I don't know what to expect or how to feel. I want to be as supportive as I can because I know this is what he wants, but it's hard when I hate the fact he has to leave. I hope hope hope I get the strength to pull it together for him.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I am new to this but have been feeling

    so alone since my boyfriend left for basic training a couple days ago. I'm so terrified that he will end things while in basic so as to not be distracted from his training because of his worrying about me and what I'm doing. We love each other and I'm 100% ready to be loyal and...
    meghan1635 meghan1635 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Having what i said in my last post .

    . I want some advice if what im doing is right or crazy or w.e ? I feel like his head is not in the right place , we're so good for each other and he just dropped the relationship like nothing .. Because he thought things were different so called he lost feelings after 4 months...
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I went to my boyfriends house today to talk to

    his parents about Nathan and such! It was so nice to see them because they show me so much love and support while Nathan is away! They are such sweet and loving people! I'm definitely blessed to have them in my life! :)
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    Not sure what's worse,

    the buildup before he leaves or him actually leaving :/
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    MGodette MGodette 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    7 am I get a phone call from sailor.

    Naturally I was excited since he's been at sea for a week. He called, tearing up because he's going at sea again for another 30 days and he will be missing my birthday and our anniversary. Last time he left all I heard was about Isis and bombings. Naturally I was worried. Well...
    wtfdaysi wtfdaysi 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Short term goal met- 50lbs down,

    30 more to go!! When your husband is all buff looking like GI Joe it's only right that I follow his lead lol. I gotta make sure not to overdo it cuz my husband likes his women curvy. He's all for me slimming down once my boobs don't get smaller lmao. Pretty sure that's not gonna...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    My boyfriend just texted me

    and I seriously was so surprised cause he's in BMT for the Air Force!! But my heart just jumped with joy and I'm crying tears of happiness to have even gotten just a "love you" text from him!! seriously made me sooooo very super happy!!!! My whole entire summer has been made...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why do so many people look down upon young love?

    Like, why do they think love doesn't exist for teens? My grandparents knew that they loved each other as teens and have been together since. I know that I love my boyfriend. I don't think that I'm in love. I just know. It's nothing like that puppy love you have with your first...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 7 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I come to figure out

    that most men in the military don't know what they want. They're literally all over the place... But that doesn't mean we should leave them hanging , that we should stop supporting and motivating them. Yes, me and my ex aren't together anymore but i started this journey with him...
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really appreciate my sailor calling,

    texting, video chatting whenever he can even when he has a 30 min break. It shows me that I'm always on his mind. Don't give up ladies, it gets better.!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't complain about my life much

    but I'm so tired. I've been fighting a kidney infection for almost a month. No doctor can tell me why none of the antibiotics are working, and I can deal with pain but it gets exhausting after a while. Last night was the first night I was in our apartment alone and I just...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Ugh! I'm just feeling

    so down, sad, mad, annoyed. I haven't spent time with my boyfriend because we have been on opposite work schedules and I've also been focusing on school so we haven't had much time( and his leave for my college graduation wasn't granted so he didn't go). Well he asked for leave...
    piscil piscil 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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