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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,162 People

    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I feel so horrible that I couldn't be at his

    graduation I feel like crying I feel so bad.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    ..and im feeling down right now.

    .is this normal?he's deployed somewhere in the middle east not hearing for a anything for a couple of days and then he'll message me just once )):
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    surprise surprise.. army changing their mind

    AGAIN. guess he's not staying in the country after all.
    hmadden hmadden 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    Today was a great day!

    !! After a few weeks of not seeing each other and having out plans canceled thank to the Air Force, I saw him!!!! Best feeling ever. I was so excited I was out of my car and next to his before he even got out. But I found out a lot and there's a chance he won't be able to...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Today I was suppose to get on a plane

    and see my new marine.../: so upset but hopefully he will heal quick and maybe I'll get a quick call from him tomorrow(:
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I'm confused... So my guy got injured

    and has to prolong boot camp, well this week was his old graduation day and he got Liberty leave with his old platoon and his parents went down. His mom said he will call me tomorrow and I'm scared and nervous.. Like it's been three months and idk what I'll do or say and it's...
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I am now officially the fiance of a United

    states army national guard soldier I'm so so proud of him and everything he has accomplished in his life
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I hate not being able to talk to him.

    .. Havent talked all day and he is usually back by 10:30.. But hasn't even texted me I'm scared something is wrong and it's driving me crazy
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I seriously feel like he's going to break up

    with me. He came back from a lockdown tired and I wanted to cuddle and he didn't. I got upset and walked away, then later I was still mad at told him how I felt. He had to run off after and go help his friend prepare for the certification thing, before he left I asked if we were...
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    His leave was approved to come home

    for Presidents' Day weekend! (AKA VALENTINES DAY) I'm so happy I get to spend the most romantic day of the year with my man whom I only get to see a few times a year
    jellybelly1217 jellybelly1217 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Quick question... My boyfriend is in Pre-RASP

    right now for the army. Is he allowed to receive packages? I was wanting to send him a care package for Valentines Day
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    After a hell of a year last year of dealing

    with the whole Military experience and having to turn down an internship I really truly wanted but it wasn't paid. I must say it is really nice to know that I just got two calls at the same time from two different cities looking forward on seeing me for an internship. I...
    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7, 2015

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    I thought things were cool

    when he came back from the field a week ago. Since then we've gotten in multiple fights and only Skyped once last week and got in a huge fight. We're both going through some discrimination at work- he's dealing with racist leadership in his unit and I'm dealing with my director...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I really want to go see my bf over spring break

    but how do I come up with the money for a $980 plane ticket:(
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    Thankful this years valentines won't be rushed

    and I'll have my love home :) also love my early gift although can't wear it until Valentine's Day but never got told I can't show it off in our home and take pictures :)
    Amrs2TB Amrs2TB 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    At the airport to see my boyfriend!

    So excited, this is our first Valentine's Day together since last year he was at bootcamp!
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    The Army has the worst timing

    and very little consideration for their soldiers who don't have family or loved ones near base. It's. So. Frustrating. For example, my boyfriend should technically be on his pass right now and driving the 9 hours to see me for his 4 day. Instead they decide today is the best...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    June couldn't come fast enough.

    So ready to spend time with my baby. We've been planning things none stop. It's been 2years away from each other. i'm gonna make the most of it when he's back in my arms.
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Is it selfish to want to steal my soldier away

    from his family for a couple ours to "take a nap" if yall know what I mean?
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Just landed! Can't wait to see him!

    !! Might push everyone out of my way lol
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I've been waiting all day to here my news from

    my man. He met with his commander this morning. Today's meeting would somewhat decide his fate with the Air Force. I just want to know what we have to look to in the future. Ugh the suspense is killing me.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 19 mins ago

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    So some time in October my fiance

    and I are getting married !!! Yay! Can't way honestly there's so much bullshit that goes down in my household it's to the point where he's regretting not taking me back to Japan w/ him but hey I have a life here I can't just quit my job and up and movie in two days! I'll wait...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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