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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,683 People

    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    So me and my boyfriend are taking a break from

    dating because he's going into the military, but we're not dating other people and we're waiting for eachother. Today he left for basic training and I'm struggling because I really miss him and it's so weird not talking to him and I still have like 3 more months to go...he doesn...
    istilllovehimandiwishhewashere istilllovehimandiwishhewashere 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Dear you, We are just alike.

    We wait on our phone every night. We cry when certain songs come on. We have him as our wallpaper and have a playlist of our songs. We tear up seeing something about the military but when his branch is featured your heart starts pounding. When he is wounded you panic for him but...
    HisProudMarineGirlfriend HisProudMarineGirlfriend 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    I haven't actually slept at night

    for weeks.. Since he left all I can do is think of him at night and I'm so tired but I can't fall asleep. Any advice on how to sleep if you guys went through this?
    ilovemysoldier18 ilovemysoldier18 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Why do people who don't have a boyfriend in the

    military or aren't even associated with ANYONE in the military think it's okay to come into our posts and give us ****? Like back off. Nobody asked for your opinion and you leaving negative and disgusting comments is so useless. Y'all are annoying.
    kxcrooks kxcrooks 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Do you ever look back at a really good point in

    your life and wish you'd cherished it more? I miss him so freaking much.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It doesn't get easier.

    It doesn't. People say that but it's not true. What actually happens is you get stronger. You get more capable of handling the crappy situation in your life. His absence never feels better. It never subsides. But you become someone so impenetrable to pain that it feels like it...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 4

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    Over a month ago my bf sent me the "I love you

    babe but we need to talk" text and me being me kinda freaked out and I haven't been on here because we were going though a really really rough patch and almost broke up because of the stress and everything going on and I was just upset and depressed but he came home this past...
    navygirlfriend102 navygirlfriend102 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    What?! A phone call and a first letter today!

    ! Ahh my whole week has been made! I loved his letter though I seriously herd his voice through the whole thing, it made this just a bit easier :)
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    finally heard from my boyfriend at boot.

    last few words of his letter "I'm going to sleep now. at least our new "hotel" squad bay has AC. one good thing about this hell **** hole. I hate this place. goodnight." along with other disturbing stories of how much he's in pain and how tired he is. wasn't very pleasant to...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    4 days and he's home!

    !!! 4 more days, I can make it!!!!
    Abbieanderson Abbieanderson 16-17, F 1 Response May 29

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I did it. Stayed so faithful to a man

    who is so worth it for 11 weeks. Three phone calls 20 letters. Ten weeks This is how big my smile is. Haven't been this happen since he proposed!
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 6 Responses Jul 9

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    2 days. 2 more days. I've made it 10 months

    without him. It has been one of the hardest things I've ever done. I can't wait to go pick him up from the airport and see his face when he sees his son. I send him pictures all the time of all the silly things he is missing out on. But I know that its not the same as seeing him...
    Maddiegray Maddiegray 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    I felt like I should post this

    since I've read a few stories where girls are saying they haven't talked to their deployed man or soon to be deployed man is getting distant. In most cases it is true but there are some that are the exact opposite. I asked my cousin who had been in the military since 1994 if it...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just texted my boyfriend.

    I didn't expect to get a text back but he did and we "spoke" for a little while I told him that I set us up for a double date with my aunt and her new boyfriend He at first said no, but after I told him he'll have a good time, he agreed. We're so use to going to benefits and...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Just got off the phone from a 2 hour

    conversation with my boyfriend. I talked him into coming home earlier then he scheduled I can't wait
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    received my first personal letter today!

    ! "words can't describe how much I love and miss you and just want to be with you. I think about you everyday, stay strong I'll see you soon. " those words I've been waiting to hear since he left :') he makes everything worth it.
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    One week down, only about 20

    or so left! I must say, it could not come sooner! Keeping my fingers crossed that I get a letter very soon!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I got another call today!

    ! It was 18 seconds long just telling me not to give out the information he is sending in the mail or something. It made my day though and I cannot wait to get his letters :)
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I finally got a text from my soldier at basic

    today! He just said "I hope everything is good!!(: I love you!" But that's all I need to hear❤️
    ilovemysoldier18 ilovemysoldier18 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Just over 24hrs until he's home!

    I can't wait to see my SO. Its been 4 weeks and I can't wait to just hold him!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    I received another letter from my boyfriend

    yesterday! He's been saying how he's gotten my letters and even the birthday card I sent him! And all the pictures I've sent he's hung up in his locker 😊💕 says he brags about me all the time too to his buddies in his platoon. It made me feel so good to hear that. I love my...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I could really use some advice from some other

    milso's. Things with my solider and I have been a real roller coaster. One day were amazing everything's great. The next day he goes to the field and things get complicated. We've been together a while. We've been through a lot. Every time he goes into the field it gets...
    Hmsurf24 Hmsurf24 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    how do I send brownies to my SO without them

    getting smooshed and they stay fresh??
    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm still on cloud 9 from seeing my man.

    I miss him terribly but that's normal. Just kinda sucks that same day I saw him I ended up catching whatever cold my daughter got. Very sick since that night and I just wish I had him next to me holding me and taking care of me. But with his deployment fast approaching I know...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    He's home on Wednesday!

    He arrives home from Germany at 6 am and he's picking me up from work and taking me out for a lovely meal, I can't describe how excited I am to see him and spend 3 whole weeks with him!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    He's home! My soldier is finally home!

    !! I get to see him in less than 8 hours and I am so excited!!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    Does anyone else get

    so frustrated when girls say "I just don't know how you do it" Or how about when everyone seems to knock you down while your barely getting through the day alone without him... My favorite has to be the "ooh you better watch out, I had a friend once who dated a soldier and...
    MissKay6 MissKay6 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend texted me last night saying he got

    hurt. He said he's been temporarily blinded, he can only see shaded figures and light but that's it. -.- I kept my feelings to myself and I told him to be careful, but tonight if he calls me, I'm going to ask him to come home. In all honesty he doesn't even need to be there...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    While I may not be new to the military life,

    Im new to being the girlfriend of a soldier. I've known my significant other since I wsas ten, over fifteen years ago, but just started dating him in march. From the beginning of our relationship we have spent most time apart. He got a new duty station in CO a couple of weeks...
    wishuponastar88 wishuponastar88 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    **** I might as well just give up on him & date

    the mailman the way I stalk this guy you'd swear him & I had something going on. Tuhhhhh
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    So I'm kind of in a difficult spot.

    ..my bf and I moved in together about a month ago and although we don't always see eye to eye it's been pretty great, until today. Before we moved I told him not to move so close to my parents house so that he wouldn't have to drive such a long distance to work, he insisted that...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Happy Valentines Day to all the wonder Military

    Girlfriends/Fiancés/Wives who don't have the chance to celebrate with their men today. Have a wonderful day! And to those who get to see their men today you have a beautiful day also ❤️💕
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    My soldier is based in Germany,

    He wants to get married and get a house in the camp over there. I really want to marry him but not yet and I don't want to move to Germany, I know its selfish of me but I have a life over here in the Uk and a job and car, i'd be leaving everything behind, i wouldnt be able to...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response 2 days ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    Guys if I were to send pictures should I get

    them professionally printed or just print them from my computer?
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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