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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,735 People

    Does everyone in the military at least get

    deployed once? Or is it only certain people?
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    5 weeks into BCT... It's getting harder

    and harder everyday. it's been 1 week since I've heard from him. When does it get easier? Everything reminds me of him. I love him so much. I can't sleep without wearing his shirt. 2 months until I can see him :(:
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For girls who have already started

    or gone through their deployments... Tyler is having to move back to the barracks after leave. Not really sure why... But the night before he ships out I'm assuming I'm going to get a hotel room now. Will he be able to stay with me the night before? Or are things super busy and...
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    So I need opinions. I am 19 years old

    and my boyfriend is 20 in the army. We keep talking about getting married. I know he is the love of my life but I am also in school. I just don't know how it would work with both. I want to be with him but getting married means taking on so much. Anyone who was married around...
    ecote42 ecote42 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    I really miss my soldier!

    I am going to have a medical procedure done tomorrow and wish he could be there with me!
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    He hasn't been able to write much lately

    because he's been so busy :/ it went from two letters a well to maybe one, I know I can't get too upset because it's not something he can control but it still sucks :( I worry a lot, I talked to his mom and grandma and they said they hadn't heard from him in a week either
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    For people with their boyfriend in the Air

    Force, could they write while they were in beast week? Or could they just receive letters?
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I'm missing him so much!

    I'll be with him next weekend but it breaks my heart knowing that he had to start over at a new duty station again... He's alone and homesick. I know he'll get better soon! I just wish he had his friends... I never thought I'd say that being that he was ALWAYS with them, and...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    It's officially August

    and we have 30 together. We have been spending every moment we can together and I love it but I know it's going to make this harder on both of us.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    my boyfriend has been scared

    that when he returns home that I'm gonna have another boyfriend. today we were laying in bed talking about it and I told him that even If we were to date other people (which will not happen) that we would always end up with each other, because we both love each other so much...
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    It's our anniversary

    and the first one we've been apart. I really miss my man. He's been gone almost a month and even though sometimes I wish he didn't have to go I'm glad he did. Since he's left I've realized how strong I am. I know that I am capable of amazing things with or without him. For...
    itsmo99 itsmo99 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    soo I haven't touched the marriage topic with

    my bf in detail but he called me Mrs. clarke yesterday! ^-^ I felt soo happy but idk if I should have a conversation with him if that's what he's thinking ?
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    So ladies, I have a question.

    How do you feel about your man wanting to hang out with friends they meet where they're stationed or on their bases? Today I had a conversation with my bf and he mentioned that he wouldn't mind if I had guy friends and hung out with them. But I honestly don't like the thought of...
    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    School started back up this year.

    It's my senior year and it feels so empty without him even though we went to different schools. (He graduated with the class of 2015). It feels like I don't even have a boyfriend even though he's just at basic training and I do get letters every week. In one of his letters he...
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I honestly love my boyfriend he means

    so much to me, I'd literally take a bullet for him. But this whole thing of not being able to see him for for a long time sucks. No im not thinking about breaking up with him, I could never. Everyone says "time will fly then soon you can be with him" he's 18 and I'm 16 we've...
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    My boyfriend is being stationed in Turkey

    for a year after tech school. I wanted to get us matching necklaces to remind us of each other but I'm debating what to put on them. Either "one day closer" or one could say "forever" and the other "always". Any thoughts or opinions?
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    So happy to see pictures of my recruit posted

    on Facebook today. It was so good to actually see his face. Now if I could just get a letter!
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    www.gofundme.com/ytczvg8 hello everyone please

    help me surprise my sailor for Christmas. right now he's on deployment. please anything will help. thank you and God bless
    Vianca1992 Vianca1992 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Jesse just told me they are going to be in the

    field next week and that they have to work today and tomorrow. His phone has been dying really quickly on him and it makes me sad when I can't talk to him but at least my best friend is coming back from Out of the country early so I hopefully get to see her today or tomorrow...
    smarchy17 smarchy17 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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