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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,429 People

    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    54 days till I visit my sailor

    for his birthday!
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 10 mins ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I have 3 days tell I fly out of here

    and 5 days tell I get to see my Sailor!I miss my baby ,,Can't wait to hold him
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In two weeks I will be on my way to see my

    soldier! It cant get here fast enough I have two long busy weeks ahead of me.
    cheergirl539 cheergirl539 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hey ladies! So my boyfriends next base is only

    8 hours driving distance from me!!! I am so excited since I am in the middle of a 15 month span of not seeing him because he is currently stationed over seas. His leave was denied twice but he eventually will be so much closer. Whats great is I have a friend whose bf is in the...
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    My sailor said he couldn't sleep last night

    because he was worried I wouldn't answer his phone call this morning. But I did! :) Glad I got to speak to him. 3 n a half more weeks!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Eeeeeeppppp!!! The days are dwindling down.

    We are so much closer to his return and the two of us being back together. I'm def having a hard time focusing at work but who could blame me.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Just wanted to share with you ladies one of my

    fav quotes "You can't just give up on someone because the situation isn't ideal. Great relationship aren't great because they have no problems. They're great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work."
    renmarie renmarie 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So he got his job. It is special ops/personal

    recovery instrument/ flight control systems. Any one know anything about this job?
    poreoticz poreoticz 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Honestly, I'm kind of scared

    that he's gunna find a girl out there when he goes to mos school ..
    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    My man is coming home

    for 48hrs next week, and I won't get to see him :'( im so upset rn
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I miss my best friend the love of my life I

    miss falling asleep on Skype with him every night I know the field is not that bad and I am thankful that I get to get a text from him every day but I am so lonly without skypeing him every night without being able to talk about every little thing on my mind I miss him
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi everyone. I'm just having a really tough

    night and week. My boyfriend of 5 years has been at tech school for about three weeks now and it still is pretty hard. I miss his so much! He is always busy with school so he doesn't get to turn his phone on until around 5 and then he will go get dinner and by the time he gets...
    meg622 meg622 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    just wanted to let everyone know my fiance

    passes his Battle station today! I'm so proud of him!!
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So I am making my first care package to send to

    my boyfriend at tech school and I'm having way too much fun with it! What do you ladies usually put in care packages? I am sending lots of study snacks, a few helpful school supplies, and a card. BMT being over is the best!
    raquelita88 raquelita88 26-30, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Well I have not been on in a long time

    because my soldier and I had ended things. Now I am excited to say that him and I are back together. Could not be more excited I am such a lucky women to have such a strong man back by my side
    cheergirl539 cheergirl539 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Can't sleep (and I have work in the morning) my

    heart aches :( I want him home with me...
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just because my boyfriend is busy training to

    serve his country and isn't here to go everywhere with me and take a million pictures together doesn't meant I'm single, and no I won't let you "hit that, it's not like he would know anyways". Because he would know, and he would kick your *** if you ever tried to touch me. It...
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I'm lucky that he is only 2 1/2 hours away from

    me till July. But that doesn't make being apart any easier. Still getting used to this lifestyle.
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Well ladies, my time

    as a military girlfriend is over for now. After a long hard month, my boyfriends depression has gotten to the point where being there is not longer doable, he misses home too bad, and feels like right now isn't the best time for him to be enlisted. So, Friday he started the...
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Do any of you ladies know

    if soldiers in BCT ever get to make phone calls during Blue Phase that aren't on Sunday?
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I got another letter!

    He told me my letters keep him sane and to keep writing, so now he's going to get a novel :) My life has been a little crazy lately and it's just nice to know I have his support. I might not have him physically with me right now, but knowing I have him there for me mentally...
    renmarie renmarie 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    My heart aches for my soldier today.

    . I keep telling myself only 3 more months. Just 3 and then I can see him for a few days. At least it's better than 5. :)
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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