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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,825 People

    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    He's going to propose

    when hes back, I am so nervous and worried at the same time. I want to marry him but I know once i do I will have to live in Germany with him!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    He won't think I don't care about him

    if I don't text him for a day or something, right? I mean, I'm busy too. And I just don't wanna smother him or seem annoying. I didn't text him at all today. Not did he text me.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    gwendolyn45 gwendolyn45 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    amr614 amr614 18-21, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    So, he just texted me letting me know

    that he leaves in February :( super bummed because trainings have him being gone for both of our birthdays. Trying to stay strong for him :(
    Kittykat1120 Kittykat1120 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    You never know how strong you can be

    until you have no choice . We all have been through so much , but still find the strength to stay strong & hold on for our men ! We wake up to a empty side of the bed , we check our phone hoping for a five minute phone call or a 3 word text message , we check the mailbox every...
    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Omgomgomgomg he's coming home in November

    instead of December. Won't be home for Christmas. But I'd rather something over nothing at all. Kakcisnfickwvhfhjvhdtwteffhysg. Excited!
    BurgosGirl BurgosGirl 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    miaisabella7 miaisabella7 18-21, F 9 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Faith can move mountains </3.

    "Have faith" has been my soldier and I's saying from the moment we started talking. On my weakest days, I hear his voice saying this. He's my rock; even if he's a few states away and I can't talk to him like I want to. I love that man.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    It's nights like this

    where I just want him home with me. Gotta stay strong though. I got this.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Received an email saying he finally got the two

    boxes I sent him..he was so excited!! It was cute...he said it made his day! I was worried what this distance would do to our relationship..but it is actually making it stronger...4 more months!
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    my first college softball game is Thursday,

    and my recruit's family is coming to support me. Even if I don't end up being with him, I know his family will always be here for me.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriend is having a hard time

    and bad days. I can tell in his voice that he hates it so much and sounds depressed. I wish I could make his day better. I have no idea what to say to him or to tell him to make his day better. Any suggestions?
    Caylina Caylina 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    He is my absolute favorite reason to loose

    sleep!! Loved getting random texts back from him all through the night!!! I fall harder and harder for him everytime tho I don't know how much harder I will fall
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    44 days seem like a life time away.

    I've had a car crash this week and the one person i wanted there to comfort me, is 600 miles away in Germany. This is when its hard, when things are going wrong or you're upset, the time goes quick when your having fun. I rang him up crying saying I wanted him here with me, I...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    It's been a while since I was last here.

    A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my English, I'm a little bit rusty. So at this same date last year, I was engaged and preparing for my new life after college. I was planning...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 1 Response 33 mins ago

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    Good news: I finally got

    that letter I was waiting for! Two of them actually! Bad news: in his most recent letter he said he still hasn't gotten one from me yet! I sent the first one over a week ago I don't understand why he wouldn't have gotten any? Does it take longer to send a letter than to...
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I will be in his arms the day

    after tomorrow! These two months were so hard, but I became stronger than I thought I could and we made it through! Now all that's left is one big amazing hug and kiss to make up for the time apart. I'm so thankful for all you ladies helping me along the way! I'm so excited!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 min ago

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    Hello! I'm completely new to all of this; the

    military and connecting with other people who also know what it's like being a military girlfriend. My boyfriend has just recently left for basic training and will be gone for 5 months, it's strange to suddenly have no contact with him. I revived his first letter and broke downs...
    MadisonMeris MadisonMeris 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    i hate how unpredictable this life style is,

    i want to know when i can definitely see him :( so i can actually get excited!
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He's quite stubborn, he's very hardheaded,

    he loves to argue with people, he enjoys a good conflict, he leaves his sweaty socks in our bed sheets, he leaves his dishes on the counter, he only picks up half the grocery list, he gets caught up in the tv and doesn't hear me, he's very sarcastic, he's unpredictable, he's...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    Tell my love about how hot it was today

    where I live and he tells me it's hotter where he's training. Always gotta make me feel better
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    He's upset with me because I didn't text him

    when he asked me to....um hello I was busy! Ironic right? Lol
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I don't know what to feel right now.

    I'm in-between sad and happy. Just when I was 1 day and a wake up away from seeing my boyfriend. He gets his orders and everything has changed. Cons: -Instead of coming home Thursday he is now going to Airborne school for 3 weeks in Fort Benning, GA. -Instead of going to...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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