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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,497 People

    What are ways that my sailor

    and I can participate in pre-marital counseling while he is active duty? Does anyone know of any specific counsellors or organizations that they can suggest?
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    My sailor graduated from basic yesterday

    and we had a wonderful time this weekend.!! Of course the hardest part was saying goodbye but I know I'll be seeing him again.! I'm so proud of him!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Aaaaaaannnnnndddddddd his leave got approved!

    !!!!! ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽˆ๐ŸŽ†โœจ happiest girl in the world right now!
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    So I realized why when he goes out

    or does anything it bothers me. It's not the fact that I'm jealous and insecure. But I HATE that we live separate lives. I hate that our lives don't come together everyday like normal couples. I hate knowing that it's not going to be like that soon. And I hate that he can do it...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    In 2 weeks I'll see my boyfriend during his

    graduation weekend from basic! So excited but also kinda nervous cause I'm not sure how different he will be. Any words of wisdom are much appreciated :)
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    My boyfriend leaves tomorrow.

    .. His leave never seems long enough...but I always like listening to music that helps me get through his leaving....anyone no any good songs that help you deal?
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    summer was always like our time of year

    where we were together until like 3 am and woke up early to see each other the next day. First summer without him is really hitting me hard:( he's like the one person I saw all the time and lately I've just been working or sleeping.
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    We're falling off ...

    I've been so patient with him but I feel like I'm the only one putting efforts in this relationship.
    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My S/O just received his orders.

    Heโ€™ll be leaving on course Tomorrow :/ Instead of leaving in Julyโ€ฆ Do any of you Ladies have Ideas for Care Packages?
    FaithKensington FaithKensington 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    3 months down. 2 more to go

    until I get to see my man. The time is flying by.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    my bf comes home next month

    and we're both from the same town and most of his friends are going to want to hang out with him but he only has 2 weeks here and I'm trying to fit in 3 days of vacation near the beach and away from everyone else ?? this is going to be hard
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    From reading the last couple posts sound like

    some of you girls have had a rough couple days! I just wanna say keep your head up, things will get better I promise !! I'm always here to talk, even if you just need someone to listen, I know how much better I feel after a good rant !! My guy has seemed off the last couple of...
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Last night was awful.

    It was my 21 birthday and I was out with my friends and my boyfriend ruined it. He told me he had bad news but he would tell me the next day but of course I wanted to know since he mentioned it. I was expecting it to have to do with the army but he told me he may have a little...
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Does anyone still have any suggestions

    for problems sleeping? We have had 2 good days no episodes actually he's being extra sweet and comforting. But, last night he just couldn't sleep and kept waking me up and it sucked having to work today with lack of sleep. Any suggestions are appreciated especially after hearing...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    First time since we started talking

    that I'm going to bed without having heard from him... I know this is nothing compared with some of you on here.. Just want my love by my side. Other couples don't realise how lucky they are..
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Well....I saw Brent today

    for the last time in while....he just dropped me off at my house and his leave finishes up tomorrow...he goes back to Norfolk and I really don't no how to feel...just wanna curl up in a ball....but it's never good bye it's always I'll see you later
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    Today was a good day safe baby

    and spent the afternoon cleaning and doing laundry with my man. No episode today and I randomly became emotional he held me rubbed my belly and didn't stop hugging me until I stopped cry. To many this isn't anything to me it's a big step him being able to handle my random...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    GUYS my marine and I always signed our letters

    when he was in bootcamp with"one day closer" and he got me this for my birthday!! it mine and his birthstone with an EGA :')
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    215 days down only 39 to go

    until I finally see my amazing fiance for two weeks! This has been such an experience being apart, but it truly has brought us closer together. This has been the longest time we've spent apart but I know my fiance is definitely worth the wait! Cannot wait to make him mine...
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 5 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    The army is finally being nice to me

    for a change! Got to talk to Bae today and we'll be able to talk again tomorrow. I couldn't be happier. 8 more weeks to go! Thanks for all the support!
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Well, he did it. He actually left me.

    I'd like to thank everyone on this app for your kind and helpful advice... You ladies are all amazingly sweet and I wish you all the best! I hope you never have to go through this because my god it hurts. I really have no reason to be on this app anymore, so I'm just going to...
    kenzie11904 kenzie11904 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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