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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,032 People

    The wait was definitely worth it.

    I miss him so much already. He told me he loved me today and I said it back <3 can't wait to spend thanksgiving with him tomorrow
    ac9914 ac9914 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Wishing he was home for the holiday,

    but i am so thankful for the family who will be taking him in today, and thankful that I have him in my life.
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    A new survey has revealed

    that one 25% of women prefer to be with men 10+ years older than they are, while one third of men prefer to be with women 10+ years younger than them.The study, conducted by online younger women older men dating site www.agemeet.com , collected data from 53,233 users with the...
    Katycc11 Katycc11 26-30, F 25 mins ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 22

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    I am thankful for my soldier

    and all the other men and women who risks their lives for us! I am also thankful that I have the opportunity to be with my handsome boyfriend today! Have a great day everyone :)
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Talked To My Baby For An Hour Today ,

    <3 Oufff That Man , Just Makes Me Feel HIGH OFF LIFE .(: 25 Days Left .... -Cartwheels- WHOOP WHOOOOP . Hang In There Ladies (;
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for a year and two months. Well he had a mandatory camp to attend as he was getting promoted to sergeant. During this camp, he was supposed to be medically discharged due to some bad back injuries. After a month of him waiting to hear about his release date, they decided to keep...
    maddiholt maddiholt 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    Happy thanks giving ladies!

    !! I'm know I am thankful for quite a few things. I'm so thankful for my two beautiful kids who turned my world upside down for the better, for my father who has stood by my side since day one and helps me with my kids, for my friends here on ep and the ones I have off of here...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Happy Thanksgiving to all of you ladies!

    ! For those who are able to spend it with their man, enjoy it!! And for those of us who cannot spend the holidays with our men, let's be thankful we have them in our lives :) I know I am very thankful for my boyfriend. And thankful for all of those who have served, who are...
    AFgfTT03 AFgfTT03 31-35, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Today was everything!

    Worth every penny, worth the waiting, worth the doubting... I realized today that this man is everything. I love him with all my heart <3
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Happy Thanksgiving guys!

    I'm happy for the ladies who got to see their SO's on this holiday and for the ones that didn't, no worries, they'll be here soon. Who's cooking? We don't celebrate Thanksgiving at my house but feel free to mail me food. I love American food ^_^
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    In the UK we don't really celebrate thanksgiving

    but I hope everyone that does has a lovely day! I've also come to the conclusion the only good thing about my boyfriend been away for weeks at a time is that I don't have to shave my legs every day! ha pain in the bum!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So I'm planning a surprise graduation dinner

    for my boyfriend when he gets back from basic. He has no idea. I asked him to plan one he would know about but he said no because he felt like no one would come. Little does he know that all his friends want to come out just for him. I'm so proud of him and what's he's done so...
    HisRightBoobie HisRightBoobie 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Happy Thanksgiving ladies!

    I am very thankful for all of our men serving and protecting our freedom. I am also very thankful for the women as well! A huge thanks to my man. He's been There to support me and has been a shoulder to cry on. We don't get to see each other often and I miss him like crazy...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Since my man is from Colombia,

    his whole family speaks Spanish. I've taken 3 years of Spanish in high school but it's been so long since I've really spoke it. I can read and write pretty good, however I am terrified of speaking it and saying something wrong and it being something else...anyways I decided to...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    He's my absolute best friend,

    long before we even started dating. I'm having a hard time with us living so far away. I wish I could just up and move because that would make my life feel so much easier. But my schooling is here and I dont want to feel like a failure to my family. If Mulan taught me anything...
    armygirl20 armygirl20 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I didnt get a call today ( partly

    because I dont have a phone at the moment) I was getting discouraged because he hasnt told him family to say anything to me when he called them even tho he knows we talk. Today I logged on facebook...just 5 mins to late. I was so happy to hear from him, but it broke my heart...
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    I GOT A 5 MINUTE PHONE CALL TODAY.

    OH MY GOD! I felt horrible for crying but I couldn't help it. I was so excited to hear from him.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    What I told him for thanksgiving.

    One day we will have it together. I love you baby!!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    I know he will be able to make some phone calls,

    and will be spending thanksgiving off base with another family. Does anyone know if he will be given his phone, since he is off base, or he will have to borrow from the family he is with.
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    mw318 mw318 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Being in the medical field,

    it's hard. working tomorrow for thanksgiving. Working christmas. Working New Years. He won't be home because he doesn't have leave. Kinda bummed. I miss him. Hope you all have a good thanksgiving. If there is one thing that I'm grateful for, it's you all who keep me strong while...
    itsjess13 itsjess13 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Happy Thanksgiving! But does anyone know

    if the guys still in Basic are gonna be able to call home today?
    Brriiiii Brriiiii 16-17, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    After today I officially do NOT want to spend

    thanksgiving with him and his family, it's always the night right before something big is supposed to happen when he choses to bring up old stuff and act like an ***. So my agenda for tomorrow includes: - wake up - go to my parents house and help my mother cook - come home...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving

    whether you get to spend it with your significant others or not! And some great Black Friday shopping of course (;
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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