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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,833 People

    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Question for those who have had their

    boyfriends return from deployment (and you met them on base when they did...) My boyfriend is coming home very soon-- we have a date at least but no idea of a time. Will they notify us of a time they arrive when it gets close? Or will we just sit on base and wait all day for...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I love it that my bestfriend is also with a

    Soldier. We understand each other so well. I can't thank god enough for her. ❤️😩
    XEsmeraldaGXX XEsmeraldaGXX 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    So last night, my fiance was telling me

    that tons of people are leaving Germany and the divorce rates are steadily increasing. He said that the reason for this is because the men do not want to spend time with their wives when they do catch a day off. That's so sad to me. How could you not want to spend time with the...
    LovelyThing2k12 LovelyThing2k12 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    One month closer to my man!

    ! We can do it ladies :)
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    sydp95 sydp95 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    My boyfriend won't be getting leave

    after tech school so he'll leave October 9th for Turkey and won't be back until December of next year... I don't know how I'm going to go that long without seeing him. This hurts so much
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend leaves for boot camp Sept.

    29th to Ft. Benning. Anyone else?
    tdggirl20 tdggirl20 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    "Give me the greatness

    if heart to see, the difference between duty and his love for me. Give me the understanding so I may know. when duty calls him he must go give me a task to do each day Te fill the time when he's away when he is in a foreign land keep him safe if your loving hand and lord when...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    All of this distance between us,

    has made me sooo happy, when we talk we appreciate the time and don't waste a minute of it. I get to do my thing and love it while he does what he loves. we aren't giving up what we love to make it easier on the other. I love my relationship and all the challenges that come with...
    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    And he's gone. It was

    so hard to be sad when he smiled so hard before he boarded the plane. See you in 8 weeks love.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    londonbridg londonbridg 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    36 days until basic family day

    and graduation! So excited but so nervous. His whole family is coming and then me. His mom and sister are really possessive over him and I'm scared they're gonna grab all his attention and I'm just gonna be there. Which is the worst cause that's the last time I'll be able to...
    maddib0214 maddib0214 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I hate texting. It's

    so hard to read his moods over texts. I hate the process of going from having him here next to me and being able to read his expression to not knowing what he's thinking.
    JessicaLouise22 JessicaLouise22 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Sitting at the airport with him now.

    I'm so happy but so sad.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    The husband is going to Rome tonight with his

    battles for labor day weekend. I'm so damn jealous! lol Italy is such a romantic country and hes going with his battles and I'm stuck over here at home in NYC, booooo!! He doesn't even sound excited to go ugh, jealous! The good news is in 16 days I'll be heading to Germany to...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Is it weird that I'm upset over the fact

    that my boyfriend misses his best friend way more than he ever missed me?
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Thank goodness I saved all his voicemails.

    its nice to hear his voice and remember what he sounds like when i dont hear from him in a while
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I got to talk to him

    for literally 40 seconds! He called to give his address. He was in a hurry so he was rushing me and I don't think I got it right, and he was kind of yelling at me the whole time, but it was so nice to get that call. This is a lot harder than I thought it would be. I miss him so...
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Okay so I'm not exactly a girlfriend anymore

    but There's still a situation. We were friends before and between and now we're kinda friends but I'm not sure how to feel . We were working our "relationship" 15miles apart and treating it like long distance(which it kinda is when you don't drive) and now he lives STATES away...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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