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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,528 People

    So, my man is here until Friday.

    I'm so happy right now but very scared of when he leaves and what my emotions will be
    Sierra35761 Sierra35761 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I wrote my airman his first letter!

    Even though I heard I can't write him letters I'm still going to write to him and try my hardest to get him his letters! Nothing is going to come in between writing to my man! ;) But writing to him made me feel so good, I seriously could write to him forever! I have so much more...
    Tayyytor Tayyytor 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    It's sitting in that he won't be able to tell

    me happy birthday Friday. :( it's totally bumming me out. I know it's only 30 days, it could be longer but it stills sucks. I miss him so much....
    wtfdaysi wtfdaysi 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...I'm laying in bed still wide awake,

    5 hours after our FaceTime date. My soldier left for training not even 3 weeks ago and I still find myself not being able to sleep without thoughts of him running through my head. The days are getting easier now, but nights are obviously still hard. Just when I thought I couldn...
    acapitol acapitol 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    Patiently waiting for my first letter.

    I miss my airman so much!
    NaomiRaee NaomiRaee 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Got off the phone with my soldier a

    while ago thank god surgery went well we talked for about two hours omg I didn't want to hang up but he was tired and in pain :( I wish I could be there with him but hopefully his stitches heal fast so he can come home for 30 days I can't wait to see him!!!
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    The days leading up to seeing your man are

    always crazy! I need to finish packing, go grocery shopping, clean out my car lol,get a manicure, blah blah blah! The list never ends! Ah I can't wait:) I'm going to jump in his arms and never let go!
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    So he called and let me know

    that it's official. He will be in Japan for 2 years.... Idk how to feel, I had a little hope it would just be one year. But 2 years, like that's crazy. I won't see him for probably another year before he takes leave. I mean don't get me wrong I'm happy that he's able to work...
    HisRightBoobie HisRightBoobie 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I'm about to conduct an experiment,

    feel free to help me out. What is your definition of true love?
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    so mad I've been waiting to hear from him to

    get his phone and he finally got it and I have to find out through snapchat story to know. like he can't even snap me of text me saying anything ?! why do I come last all the time I know he's working. but come on it just makes me cry and I just texted him and no answer.
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Armygf14 Armygf14 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    I got bad news :( So my boyfriend called his

    parents and his mom texted me saying that he broke his wrist :'( He will be having surgery tomorrow at 6am the good news is that he will be coming home for 30 days to recover .. I hope everything goes well tomorrow I'll definitely keep him in my prayers.
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    The nights without my soldier are the hardest.

    ..laying awake wishing so badly that he was here next to me...I know that he'll come home soon, and it won't long. Staying positive is best, just every now and then letting a little off your chest helps. Grateful he's safe and mostly healthy (minus that pesky cold he has.) And...
    WaitingOnASoldier2013 WaitingOnASoldier2013 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My friends keep getting mad at me

    for not "sharing what I am feeling", but they don't understand what it's like dating someone who is in the military
    londonbridg londonbridg 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    elincc11 elincc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I haven't been on in a while.

    My boyfriend is here and he's close and he's planned a huge date night for this weekend. That being said, I want to offer encouragement to everyone who is struggling. When your SO comes home it is the best feeling in the world. No matter what you've gone through. The pain, the...
    BrennaJoy BrennaJoy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    How did you prepare yourself

    for when he leaves, does it get easier???
    cholrach cholrach 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    val8788 val8788 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    Update: My sailor just called me from the

    hospital and says that he's doing better but he's still in pain and can't move his neck. He was supposed to come home in 10 days and now I'm not sure about that. He said that they actually might extend his leave but would they really do that when his doctors are in Cali? Idk. I...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    my bf still hasn't gotten his phone fixed

    and I haven't heard from him in 2 days starting to feel forgotten
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    This whole day has been crazy!

    I barely got to talk to my sailor even tho he didn't work today because he was out with his brothers. It kinda made me mad because phone calls and text messages went unanswered so I just went you sleep. I wake up from a phone call from his mother asking me if he told me the...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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