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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,921 People

    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Someone tell me if this is touching

    or too much to write to my bf in a letter bout how I'm feeling. Please! I feel like I won't be able to sleep with out some kinda venting. Hey babe, how are you today? Good I hope. Well I just wanted to say I'm glad we are still talking and your still apart of my life after a...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hey ladies! I need your advice/ opinions.

    I am going to see my soldier graduate next month! Yay! Anyways. Family day is on a Wednesday and graduation is Thursday. Advice time! Should I get a hotel for Tuesday and Wednesday night, or Wednesday and Thursday night? Pro's and Con's. I want a place to spend time with her...
    Armygf14 Armygf14 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    27 days!!!!! Can't wait to be in his arms

    and tell him I love him! Im so proud of all the military guys and gals too!! 😁
    WaitingOnASoldier2013 WaitingOnASoldier2013 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Ladies I am doing alittle better,

    things are straightening back out and I am slowly coming back to you. I am gonna say this now that at times things I will say may sound harsh but I'm no longer gonna sugar coat anything. Not to be rude or offend anyone but that is how I feel it needs to be. As well as I will not...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Sep 26

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    Always keeps me smiling ,

    even when I'm completely down.
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    So, yesterday, in the mall,

    I saw the exact color my FiancΓ© wanted for our wedding and I didn't cry.. Or frown.. I just smiled and said "it's not forever"... I'll be happy one sec or at least okay and then next, I'm going down hill again. Yes, it gets easier as days go on. I found out his company and...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's one of those nights again.

    I just wanna keep balling my eyes out and cry myself to sleep. It's only been a month since he's been in Afghanistan and I haven't been able to skype yet because he doesn't have a camera. It just sucks he isn't here especially when I need him the most. I'm trying so hard not to...
    morgieporgie morgieporgie 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I RECIEVED TWO LETTERS TODAY.

    I've been so excited all day that I can't sleep. Ladies, if you haven't gotten a letter yet just wait because the moment of opening up the mailbox and seeing his sloppy, silly handwriting will all be worth it the day it comes. I promise. :) I'm so in love with my solider. ?
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 53 mins ago

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    I was so happy when he called today!

    !! but we were literally on the phone for 1 minute, then he had to go :/ is that normal?
    Damondsgirl Damondsgirl 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Got A Phone Call On Oct 20 ,

    & Today Received 4 Letters In One . Ahh My Weekend Starting Off GREAT ! ???
    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Well, I wish I could say

    that I get to stay in this group but my wonderful, amazing boyfriend will be medically discharged from the air force due to his overactive eczema. He had it under control before he left, but the crappy detergent they used has made it flair up and they will not accept his...
    Nelsaroo Nelsaroo 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    I'm kinda upset my bf

    and I won't be together on our one year but hopefully I'll still be able to talk to him. I'm debating if texting him how grateful I am to have him is a good idea on that specific day? I'm not always big on expressing my feelings. 27 days left <3 can't wait. One day closer...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dilks531 Dilks531 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    id like to wish my favorite recruit a very

    happy birthday! its the first birthday in 3 years i won't be spending with him, but celebrating with his family tonight will make it easier!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    so we found out last night

    that my boyfriend is coming home at least a month after we thought he was.. maybe more. I had been looking forward to having him home for Valentine's Day since that's my favorite, and now he's gonna miss it! but hey, that's the army right?
    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Ok, so my time right

    now it is 3am and I just need to vent my heart out...im going to try and make this short lol. but Idk if some of you may remember but my husband was recently deployed. After 6 months he returned home safely and i was so happy to see him....well...that last all about 3 days -_...
    purplelily13 purplelily13 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why are plane tickets

    so expensive? 😩😩
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE?

    Last night was the last night that I will see my best friend until March. It was an amazing night, but everything kinda turned no so good. He has told me before that he has had 3 girls leave him while he was doing stuff for the Army, and now I feel like he's pushing me away the...
    Vero18 Vero18 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    Booking my hotel and flight to see my handsome

    boy in 4 weeks! I can't wait and I hope these next few weeks go by really fast haha
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Miss you so much babe!

    !! I love you!!! Love that we are together and that we bother want the same things. You are amazing.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm exhausted!!! This mom needs a break!

    ! My day off and I'm so busy at home
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    Hey ladies it's been a couple days

    since I've been active on here. All is well :) I've just been REALLY busy with school and cross country. Today we got first at regionals and go to state next week. And I see my man in 12 days! And he still has no idea I'm coming down:). I hope some of you are doing the...
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I keep having nightmares:(.

    . I'll wake in the middle of the night, sweating and gasping and then I realize he's not there with me.. And it makes things so much worse..I miss him so bad... I can't wait to get his address and everything. It'll make everything so much better..
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just might catch a fit a bust one.

    πŸ™ˆπŸ™‰πŸ™Š But no. Not when I bust my *** for him as much as I do. I miss my man lol
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    UGH! So he failed his swim test twice this week.

    From the last letter he sent (it was about a Tuesday) he told me he had until Friday to pass it. I'm the one who taught him how to swim before he left for bootcamp so I watched him learn so fast. I know he's not concentrating too. When he wants to get a lap over wit he forgets...
    HisRightBoobie HisRightBoobie 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My Solider came home!

    ! It was such a surprise because I knew it was far too early for him to be here. But here he is. He says he'll be deploying soon, but hasn't told me when.. I'm just trying to block that out of my mind and think about the fact HE'S HOME UNTIL WEDNESDAY!!! 😊
    lizcochran lizcochran 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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