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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,637 People

    This week has been horrible.

    For once I'm in a good place with everything. But it feels like I'm not allowed to be. I've felt so torn down this week and that a time that should be happy and exciting is starting to be quite the opposite. Im starting to question the intentions of a few people in my life and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Hi ladies! I need some advice.

    My boyfriend left on Tuesday for basic, however I've already started writing letters. I realize it's gonna be at least two weeks till I hear from him with a mailing address. My question is, when I finally get the address, how should I mail the letters I already wrote to him? I...
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Any body else watch the fireworks wishing more

    than anything for him to be there with you?
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    I know to most this might seem

    so stupid but having a successful 2 days with 0 episodes both times in BBQs and he was a little quiet at first but all my friends tried to make him feel welcomed and he eventually opened up and for the first time since he's been back I didn't feel like I had to be by his side...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Dianecc11 Dianecc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    After two weeks of not hearing from my guy he

    finally face timed me! The happiness I felt at that moment is beyond words! The first thing he did was apologize for him being MIA but he had been out on a mission and studying for something called murder board. He'll be back the first week of August so that's another plus. The...
    MsCupcakes MsCupcakes 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I feel so alone without him here.

    None of my friends or family understand what I am going through. Everyone just expects me to tough it out and put on a brave face. So that's exactly what I do. When I'm around my friends and family and even working, I put on a brave face. But as soon as I step into my bedroom I...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Is it possible to be more in love

    than I already am??? Thought I'd be watching fireworks alone but he tango'd me and we watched the fireworks together. Couldn't stop laughing and smiling at each other. I miss him so much but I'm so happy. Ahh. That man. That man. 17 more days until I see him. :)
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 6 mins ago

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    Before he came for leave

    for 10 days in June our relationship was so bad and we we're constantly arguing and when he came home it was perfect but then it went back to fighting once he left. But the last week we have been so perfect and happy! It feels amazing and I forgot how amazing it feels to love...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Haven't really posted anything anymore

    since my bf is home but I hate how days keep going by so fast he's leaving again in two weeks :( We're definitely enjoying every day we spend together
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    After the bumpiest/most comfortable flight from

    New York I'm in Amsterdam waiting to board my flight to Germany to see my love for the next 10 days!!! Haven't seen my husband since April. I'm 50lbs lighter and I'm so damn excited to hug and kiss him and for him to see my hard work!!!! Sidenote- my husband warned me there...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You may remember that I posted earlier about my

    boyfriend who was initially shocked when he discovered that I actually do number two. He was the one whose mom had told him that in girls, number two comes out more like deer pellets in the forest, not so smelly, and kinda neat. Well, anyway, now that he had gotten over the...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Well scratch those excitement feelings I had

    about an hour ago. I got to germany 30mins ago and he's not here. Why?? Cuz he went out clubbing last night and woke up late smfh. I texted him in Amsterdam and he said he was gonna take a nap and come get me meaning he had just gotten in at 7am. I knew he wasn't gonna make it...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Has any of your boyfriends ever came back

    completely shut out after a two month long training? I don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be supportive but he just doesn't want to talk
    piscil piscil 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    As I was stuck on what to write him,

    my phone blew up with texts from him and all of the words just came to me. I overthink and filter too many things when really, he just needs to know I'm thinking of him and I care about him. A 9 month hiccup.. that is all this will be in the end.
    Elixabeth Elixabeth 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm missing my man a lot today.

    We have so much going on but right now he's visiting his family. I'm glad he gets to see them but part of me wishes he was home. I have a doctors appointment Wednesday that's super important for the both of us but he won't be there. I just hope he's having a good and safe trip.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Does anyone have a Glide Account

    and knows the ins and outs of how the app works and what certain things mean? Question: When logging in to glide and clicking on a friend , once in the conversation it says at the very top under their name (example) Lisa 5 hours ago. Does that mean Lisa was on Glide 5 hours ago...
    SemperFiJWII SemperFiJWII 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    The past week has been awful

    for my and my boyfriend and I. He's being so distant and pushing me away. I talked to him about it and all he had to say is he's not trying to push me away. He also said "I knew the distance was going to be hard but I didn't think it was going to be this hard" so the past few...
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm in such denial that my marine won't be home

    for our first anniversary tomorrow :( i don't get bummed out easily when he can't come home but I'm actually really upset. regardless I'm so happy for the girls who have their man home!! have an amazing holiday!!
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Missing my airman. 3 more days

    and he finally gets his phone back!
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Every time I get a letter I do a little happy

    dance :) he really likes boot camp so far and that makes me so happy
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Leaving Fort Benning today & honestly these

    last 2 days with my solider have been amazing! This time apart has brought us so much closer :) He's at Fort Gordon now for his AIT and that's so much closer to where I'm at. I'm so happy with my life now <3 !
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 2 days ago

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