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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,161 People

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I'm going down to go see him on Tuesday.

    .This visit will either make us or break us... I really hope it doesn't break us..
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Talking to him today was amazing :) He thinks

    he might be able to call tomorrow!! I hope so! I love knowing it's him on the other end of the phone. Nothing makes my world happier!
    brooketb3 brooketb3 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    He says he loves me and

    that he believes our love will make us come back together when we see each other but in so scared to see him, I really don't want to mess this up, he's my best friend.. I couldn't imagine loosing my bestfriend, he also says I stress him out but I honestly don't know how, when I...
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Sucks to have a boyfriend

    that doesn't care lmao
    michellegm05 michellegm05 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    Really tired of not really being able to talk

    to him, or having anyone to talk to. I'm being a baby about it but it sucks when you've got no one at home to spend time with. I work, go to school and go home and just sit and wait for him to get done with whatever he is doing, which normally isn't until night. Maybe I'm just...
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't believe that in just 17 days I will be

    going to my boyfriends bootcamp graduation :) this time really has gone by fast thinking back on it!
    Klynn22 Klynn22 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I haven't heard from my man in 2 weeks.

    No letters or anything. I know it's normal during BMT. Especially when they are at BEAST week. But I am still a little worried. I can't help but think "what if I get there and he doesn't want to be with me anymore". I don't know what I'd do. I just wish I could hear or see the...
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Does anyone have any ideas

    for a valentine care package that doesn't involve candys? My man is I to fitness so I'm thinking of making a protein care package. Also I wanna include a gift that he can use and would like any ideas?
    dee0717 dee0717 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Feeling a little bit of hatred.

    .. I don't understand how he went to I'm never going to leave to be a marine to "guess what I'm going to boot camp soon" really quick... He didn't even tell me when any of this happened it was just a I'm leaving... And he's already at his MOS... It's hitting me so hard rn.. I...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    So I just wanted to ask

    if anyone of you has experience this. Since my boyfriend moved to another state because of the military he has been a little distant. Or at least that's what I think. He takes for ever to reply to my texts even though I know he has seen it and it's or other social media but will...
    michellegm05 michellegm05 18-21, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I GOT A LETTER!!!!!! Yesterday I got my first

    letter from my soldier! ever day I went to the mailbox to see if he had sent me one! finally I got it! I found out when his graduation date is and his address! now all I need to know is if he gets stationed close to home! thank you ladies for all of your support!
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    So, he's deporting.. going to Kuwait.

    I'm stuck. Shaking, crying and alone. Idk what to do. How can I stick around and support him when I can barely support myself
    D3vacj D3vacj 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    dmw93 dmw93 22-25, F 9 Responses May 13, 2015

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I'm legit sick and tired of everyone

    who hasn't been in a military relationship say " oh I understand what you're going through I've done the long distance before!" WHEN REALLY it's not the same!!! You get to talk and skype that person EVERYDAY ! When us milso' don't get to talk to him or her everyday. Especially...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    Does anyone have advice on how to handle lack

    of communication when they come back from overseas. My boyfriend has been distant for the whole week. We talked on the phone twice this week. I am moving in next Tuesday with him and worried of why he has been distant.
    eguerrette eguerrette 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's hard not getting to talk to him

    as we use to I know that it's going to be like that because he's working but It's tough not being able to not call him like 24/7 😂 because he is awesome that's what we use to do all the time. Our relationship is complicated and what I mean by that I just feel it was meant to...
    Trinityhester318 Trinityhester318 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    My partner left a week ago

    for the army and honestly it's been really hard adjusting to him not being around. Although today I received a phone call from him which was truly amazing and it was nice to discover that he misses me just as much as I miss him!
    atashysoasis14 atashysoasis14 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I'm seriously managing to keep it together,

    and proud of myself, but I know I'll lose it when he leaves. This is my baby and I love him soy mucho! I know a lot can happen in 9 months but I know that we will make it. I love you for everything that you do for me, saying see you later was the hardest thing ever but I know I...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    This is the shirt I got from Etsy!

    It's from GlitterDazzleShine. They do a lot of monograming & other custom shirts as well. The company shipped it really fast & I'm so happy with it. The front has a little tag that says "US Army Girlfriend" & the back has my mans last name (Izykowski)
    cadenn cadenn 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I need advice! Yesterday I called my soldier's

    parents asking if they got a letter for the company my soldiers in, stating when graduation for basic will be held. I got one, and they told me they haven't gotten anything or heard from him since the day we dropped him off. My question is do I tell them when graduation is, or...
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    just sent a letter out

    for my baby I hope he likes my congratulations card since I'm not able to go see him graduate
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I hate the unknown.. So not knowing

    when I will ever get to see my man is really getting to me/:
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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