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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,737 People

    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    For girls who have already started

    or gone through their deployments... Tyler is having to move back to the barracks after leave. Not really sure why... But the night before he ships out I'm assuming I'm going to get a hotel room now. Will he be able to stay with me the night before? Or are things super busy and...
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    soo I haven't touched the marriage topic with

    my bf in detail but he called me Mrs. clarke yesterday! ^-^ I felt soo happy but idk if I should have a conversation with him if that's what he's thinking ?
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really miss my soldier!

    I am going to have a medical procedure done tomorrow and wish he could be there with me!
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He hasn't been able to write much lately

    because he's been so busy :/ it went from two letters a well to maybe one, I know I can't get too upset because it's not something he can control but it still sucks :( I worry a lot, I talked to his mom and grandma and they said they hadn't heard from him in a week either
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Has anyone ever visited their soldier at Fort

    Bragg, NC? I'm trying to figure out what hotel to stay at haha
    londonbridg londonbridg 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Feels soo good to see a picture of him on his

    Btry's facebook page. Now if I could just hear his voice again...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    If you send letters to your boyfriend in basic

    training, but its not the right address will they forward them to his correct drill instructor or just throw the letters away? After I got my boyfriends first letter I've been writing to that address but, on the next letter he sent the address was different and I had sent all my...
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    So happy to see pictures of my recruit posted

    on Facebook today. It was so good to actually see his face. Now if I could just get a letter!
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    my boyfriend is about to be in the next step of

    his training for the Marines in a month. And I was wondering, for the girls with boyfriends in the Marines where did they go to be station? me and my boyfriend plan on moving in with each other after I finish college? Can anyone help try and get an idea on where?
    Breezy1434 Breezy1434 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My man is officially gone now

    and on his way to Fort Benning. It was so hard watching him go but at the same time I'm really happy and excited for him and I know this is what he really wants. I miss him so much already but I know it will go by fast. 105 days (;
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is being stationed in Turkey

    for a year after tech school. I wanted to get us matching necklaces to remind us of each other but I'm debating what to put on them. Either "one day closer" or one could say "forever" and the other "always". Any thoughts or opinions?
    KLuce15 KLuce15 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    Does everyone in the military at least get

    deployed once? Or is it only certain people?
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I got to fort Stewart on Friday July 31st

    and a long drive indeed! I happy to report almost all the boxes are unpacked and love all my neighbors :) all are helpful and nice! Now for the downside we were told my husbands unit may deploy in one month for six months....and all I can think is dang already.
    brenarmywf brenarmywf 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    He comes home in two days!

    Finally! The sad part, and I feel selfish even having the thought, is that his dad will be in town until Monday morning so he can't come see me this weekend and we won't be talking as much and our night night calls won't be the same. His dad flew out here from IL just to watch...
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So ladies, I have a question.

    How do you feel about your man wanting to hang out with friends they meet where they're stationed or on their bases? Today I had a conversation with my bf and he mentioned that he wouldn't mind if I had guy friends and hung out with them. But I honestly don't like the thought of...
    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    So I've been mailing my boyfriend letters to

    his name that everyone goes by. However I just received his first letter saying to address it to his legal asian name. What will happen to the previous letters that I've labeled incorrectly? If my boyfriend tells the DS would he still be able to get it?
    tiffion tiffion 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    So in a letter I wrote him I told him about

    this group and he wrote me back saying "I can't believe you joined a support group lol it's not like I'm deployed." I can't tell if he was mad or not! It seemed a little harsh but I have no clue.
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I honestly love my boyfriend he means

    so much to me, I'd literally take a bullet for him. But this whole thing of not being able to see him for for a long time sucks. No im not thinking about breaking up with him, I could never. Everyone says "time will fly then soon you can be with him" he's 18 and I'm 16 we've...
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need some advice, ladies!

    I have a friend I hang out with a lot, and he's a dude so there's been a few rumors going around about that. Should I tell my boyfriend about it or wait till he comes home? I don't want to keep my boyfriend in the dark, especially since I haven't done anything wrong, but I also...
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    If you send letters to your boyfriend in basic

    training, but its not the right address will they forward them to his correct drill instructor or just throw the letters away? After I got my boyfriends first letter I've been writing to that address but, on the next letter he sent the address was different and I had sent all my...
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    So I joined this thing a few weeks

    before my BF left to bootcamp. I am happy to say that in 10 days I will be seeing him after these long 3 months apart :)
    SusanEst4 SusanEst4 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    So I need opinions. I am 19 years old

    and my boyfriend is 20 in the army. We keep talking about getting married. I know he is the love of my life but I am also in school. I just don't know how it would work with both. I want to be with him but getting married means taking on so much. Anyone who was married around...
    ecote42 ecote42 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm missing him so much!

    I'll be with him next weekend but it breaks my heart knowing that he had to start over at a new duty station again... He's alone and homesick. I know he'll get better soon! I just wish he had his friends... I never thought I'd say that being that he was ALWAYS with them, and...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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