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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,786 People

    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    I would say I've officially been a navy

    girlfriend for about 9 months now. It has been a bumpy road these past 9 months and even bumpier before that. I found myself asking if I should keep doing this because at times it just hurt way too much. But I continued to push on through because I knew waiting was so much...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Yesterday was great, went to a bonfire at dock

    water beach with my bf and his family :) Ohh...and I saw a picture in my bfs phone of an engagement ring !!! I wonder what that means :))))
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    This call could not have come at a more perfect

    time. Last night all I wanted was to hear his voice and today I got to :)) He says he's doing much better and things are easy for him now that he knows what he's doing. He told me that before that first call last week he was so stressed and hearing my voice made him so happy and...
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hello there September!

    This month my boyfriend comes home after being apart for 4 months, 16 days and a wake up! 😘😘😍😍❤❤❤
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    xxarxx xxarxx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    the only thing that makes me happy

    now is getting that text or that call, i never thought something so small could mean so much! i love my airman!
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    So september seems to be the month

    where a lot of you see your boyfriends/fiance's im happy for you all because i get to see mine this month too haha so lets all share the excitement!
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Only 3 full months are left

    and one week in December til basic is over. People might think I'm crazy, but like I told him before he left, I want to be with him more than I miss him. Best words to keep me strong <3
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Well in just a few days I'm going to be moving

    into my soldiers parents house. Things at my house have been so crazy and horrible and so I decided to move out. It's so hard to leave my dad. I didn't know it'd be so hard. I stay up all night and just cry and think about it. I mean even though I will be just a mile away from...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    So my monster errr mother in law just called me.

    Or should I say my bf's mother? Haha. Anyway she's venting to me about the relationship between her and her son. I mean I want to offer some consolidation but at the same time I don't want to get in between. I'm so torn because she's so heartbroken and idk what to do. She's...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    No mail this upcoming week at all

    but it's okay cause I get to go to Oklahoma for a week to go see himmmm!!!!! Ahhh my heart is exploding xD
    LovedByASoldier LovedByASoldier 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    In two days it'll be a month

    that I haven't seen my man. He graduates from basic in a month and two weeks. I can't wait to see him. This month is a really depressing month for me. The 18th is our 2 year anniversary and we aren't gonna get to spend it together. I can only hope for a phone call, just to hear...
    armygirlfriend2007 armygirlfriend2007 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Well I'm about to leave

    for SC soon. I've probably lost two "friends" because of this trip & I'll probably give my mother a heart attack when she finds out that I left. ( she's on vacation in the Caribbean and we don't have any contact). Well, all in all, I have the support of my brother and sisters...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    Finally here in Fort Jackson!

    ! Omggggg The only disappointment is that they don't have VH1 at the hotel :( Nonetheless I'm trying to remain calm I'm too nervous about tomorrow.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    So I started a letter to him to give him

    for when the deploys and now I think I need to start over. Things changed in a good way and I want to focus more on that. Like how amazing he was when I was in the er and how we both are ready to have a family together and all that cones with it. He's making me fall more and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I am so thankful basic is over

    and we can talk again, every day. He's still so far and I miss him like never before but it's a lot easier mentally than relying on letters.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    16 more days!!! crazy to think there's only 16

    days! The time has gone by pretty quick. Its so crazy and exciting to think I'll be in his arms sooon!!!! Sooo happy:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Posting my feelings and answering new military

    girlfriends questions makes me feel better, it keeps me busy, and gives me a sense of purpose.
    DrewDrewBeesGirl DrewDrewBeesGirl 22-25, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I just got another letter from my bae!

    !!!!! I'm so happy!! 29 days left!! :D
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I miss my sailor soooo much!

    He recently graduated boot camp and he should call me again sometime over the weekend (hopefully!!) He didn't come home after boot camp so he's going straight to Virginia after this week for his A school so I don't know when's the next time that I will see him :/ I just miss...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I moved into my dorm on Sunday,

    and I just started classes today. It's really tough because I don't know that many people here yet, and I have only had a few classes, so not many assignments. So I have a LOT of down time in my room, and that is when I miss him like crazy! I wrote him a super long letter, and...
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    My parents and most of my friends say I have

    put my life on hold just to wait for my boyfriend. They think that because I told a guy no to homecoming? I have two more years to be in homecoming. They are saying that because I'm dating him that I won't go to prom. No. I will go with one of female friends. Just because I don...
    kymp06 kymp06 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So, got a phone call yesterday!

    I will be seeing Him in 3 weeks! I can't believe it! But on the other side..i learned that he will be deployed in 6-8 months. I have no idea how to deal with this news...how did you guys deal with deployement? I am in denial mode right now, and i am refusing to believe it is...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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