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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,162 People

    I'm confused... So my guy got injured

    and has to prolong boot camp, well this week was his old graduation day and he got Liberty leave with his old platoon and his parents went down. His mom said he will call me tomorrow and I'm scared and nervous.. Like it's been three months and idk what I'll do or say and it's...
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 22-25, F 9 Responses May 13, 2015

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I am now officially the fiance of a United

    states army national guard soldier I'm so so proud of him and everything he has accomplished in his life
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I hate not being able to talk to him.

    .. Havent talked all day and he is usually back by 10:30.. But hasn't even texted me I'm scared something is wrong and it's driving me crazy
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My soldier keeps sending me presents

    while he's away at bootcamp! He's the best!!
    aBeautyQueenandHerSoldier aBeautyQueenandHerSoldier 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    surprise surprise.. army changing their mind

    AGAIN. guess he's not staying in the country after all.
    hmadden hmadden 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I thought things were cool

    when he came back from the field a week ago. Since then we've gotten in multiple fights and only Skyped once last week and got in a huge fight. We're both going through some discrimination at work- he's dealing with racist leadership in his unit and I'm dealing with my director...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Today was a great day!

    !! After a few weeks of not seeing each other and having out plans canceled thank to the Air Force, I saw him!!!! Best feeling ever. I was so excited I was out of my car and next to his before he even got out. But I found out a lot and there's a chance he won't be able to...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Is it selfish to want to steal my soldier away

    from his family for a couple ours to "take a nap" if yall know what I mean?
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    just applied for a job

    and got and interview I hope they call back they talked about orientation...hopefully it's something that keeps me busy till I see my love again.
    deshhh14 deshhh14 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Can someone explain the "turning blue" ceremony

    to me? I don't know what it is lol.
    jessielynn1719 jessielynn1719 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I seriously feel like he's going to break up

    with me. He came back from a lockdown tired and I wanted to cuddle and he didn't. I got upset and walked away, then later I was still mad at told him how I felt. He had to run off after and go help his friend prepare for the certification thing, before he left I asked if we were...
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    ..and im feeling down right now.

    .is this normal?he's deployed somewhere in the middle east not hearing for a anything for a couple of days and then he'll message me just once )):
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    After a hell of a year last year of dealing

    with the whole Military experience and having to turn down an internship I really truly wanted but it wasn't paid. I must say it is really nice to know that I just got two calls at the same time from two different cities looking forward on seeing me for an internship. I...
    Tpineda Tpineda 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    The Army has the worst timing

    and very little consideration for their soldiers who don't have family or loved ones near base. It's. So. Frustrating. For example, my boyfriend should technically be on his pass right now and driving the 9 hours to see me for his 4 day. Instead they decide today is the best...
    RikkiDF RikkiDF 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    His leave was approved to come home

    for Presidents' Day weekend! (AKA VALENTINES DAY) I'm so happy I get to spend the most romantic day of the year with my man whom I only get to see a few times a year
    jellybelly1217 jellybelly1217 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    So some time in October my fiance

    and I are getting married !!! Yay! Can't way honestly there's so much bullshit that goes down in my household it's to the point where he's regretting not taking me back to Japan w/ him but hey I have a life here I can't just quit my job and up and movie in two days! I'll wait...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I got to talk to my boyfriend today.

    .. It was the best and it reminded me of the reasons why I fought for us for so long, it's crazy how boot camp can change a person to being more mature and grown up(: He even has everything planned out for our future together as long as all his goals.. Can't wait tell tomorrow...
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 20 mins ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    Quick question... My boyfriend is in Pre-RASP

    right now for the army. Is he allowed to receive packages? I was wanting to send him a care package for Valentines Day
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    Today I was suppose to get on a plane

    and see my new marine.../: so upset but hopefully he will heal quick and maybe I'll get a quick call from him tomorrow(:
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Abbyx925 Abbyx925 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    yup now I'm a blubbering idiot I feel

    so horrible I have never felt this bad in my life.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Ladies with their men overseas on in training-

    what're ya'll gonna do this Valentines Day? This is the first one I'll spend without my man actually with me, so I'm curious about you guy!
    christinamoen97 christinamoen97 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 mins ago

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    I feel so horrible that I couldn't be at his

    graduation I feel like crying I feel so bad.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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