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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,426 People

    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I wish these dreams would stop.

    I always convince myself he's here just to wake up and be heartbroken. God I miss him.
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Every time I text my bf,

    he gets short with me. I understand he's in a new places but I don't like to be the only one writing paragraphs when he just sends back one word texts. It makes me think he doesn't want to talk to me. Being 3 states away from someone sucks. Any advice to help my situation?
    Psmurfff Psmurfff 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    he's been distant lately.

    when he first got to his duty station, we would talk everyday and now i feel like i'm not that important anymore since he's met new people. i don't say much abt it to him because i don't want to sound clingy/selfish. i'm just really confused abt our relationship. yes, talking to...
    MAELLEA MAELLEA 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Got letters today but not what I've been waiting

    for :( I have to wait a whole another week to know what the consequences are of my mistake *sigh :( I've been trying to stay positive cuz it was an honest mistake ! But I feel like dirt knowing there's a chance I won't be a "military gf" anymore. It's so frustrating that I can...
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone. I'm just having a really tough

    night and week. My boyfriend of 5 years has been at tech school for about three weeks now and it still is pretty hard. I miss his so much! He is always busy with school so he doesn't get to turn his phone on until around 5 and then he will go get dinner and by the time he gets...
    meg622 meg622 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I got 3 letters today

    and some pictures! My man loos soooo GOOD
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Thursdays are #letterdays

    for me.!! The only bright side of my day. :)
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    just wanted to let everyone know my fiance

    passes his Battle station today! I'm so proud of him!!
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I finally realized that I need to start

    trusting him that he will tell me when he doesn't want to be with me or that he found someone else or that he doesn't love me or care for me anymore instead of assuming or worrying that he's cheating or doesn't love me anymore. I need to stop being scared of getting hurt. If it...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Can't sleep (and I have work in the morning) my

    heart aches :( I want him home with me...
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    In two weeks I will be on my way to see my

    soldier! It cant get here fast enough I have two long busy weeks ahead of me.
    cheergirl539 cheergirl539 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My man is coming home

    for 48hrs next week, and I won't get to see him :'( im so upset rn
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm lucky that he is only 2 1/2 hours away from

    me till July. But that doesn't make being apart any easier. Still getting used to this lifestyle.
    madlew madlew 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I have 3 days tell I fly out of here

    and 5 days tell I get to see my Sailor!I miss my baby ,,Can't wait to hold him
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    i keep seeing girls posting on here about how

    he is acting different, y'all are not talking as much, thinks he doesn't love her anymore, doesn't know what she will do without him, etc.... I never had anyone tell me this before hand so i am going to tell y'all being a military girlfriend is the easy part it is after y'all...
    Unknown012 Unknown012 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got two letters from my Airman today.

    Happiest girl on the planet.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Eeeeeeppppp!!! The days are dwindling down.

    We are so much closer to his return and the two of us being back together. I'm def having a hard time focusing at work but who could blame me.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Yay I got another letter!

    ! It turned my crappy day into a much better one :) 💕
    chrissysteph chrissysteph 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Today has been hard for some reason.

    ..I haven't talked to him in a while i miss his voice...I almost blew up on my teacher for no reason...almost cried afterwords. Im getting better now but I dont know whats happening i guess i just miss him real bad today:/
    kristenlemley kristenlemley 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Honestly, I'm kind of scared

    that he's gunna find a girl out there when he goes to mos school ..
    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My sailor said he couldn't sleep last night

    because he was worried I wouldn't answer his phone call this morning. But I did! :) Glad I got to speak to him. 3 n a half more weeks!
    KSecrest KSecrest 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    I am finally back on here

    after taking a long needed back from all social media I got to see my man in march but now he is back working and we have baby number three on the way the twins are now one and are doing good health wise.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    chrissysteph chrissysteph 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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