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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,908 People

    I leave today to go see my soldier:)

    after 10 weeks we will spend 2 days together and won't see him until Christmas! there's no way I will be able to focus in school today!
    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Just under 12hrs left

    before I see him tonight! Good lord I'm nervous and excited. I've missed him SO much and now it's finally our time to be together. Can't wait to see what happens :)
    myairborneheart myairborneheart 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    so excited. I said goodbye to my boyfriend

    yesterday before he left to go to boot camp. I thought I wouldnt hear from him till he sends home his address. turns out he is still at the airport and sent me a few texts this afternoon. I almost started crying in walmart I was so happy
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    He just got dropped off at base.

    . We had a really emotional phone call before he got there and it hit me so hard... I just want him to be safe and careful... I miss him so much already... He's so adorable..
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    Dilks531 Dilks531 16-17, F 38 mins ago

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    So....he drew a picture of my downstairs lady

    parts today, on paint. He sends it to me and says "Look I got bored & drew a picture of you!" My reaction: -________-, you really need to get laid. hahahah
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 5 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Well, I've officially psyched myself out

    so much I actually started crying earlier this evening. I don't know why, but some stupid part of me believes he doesn't like me anymore in any way, and now I'm practically dying to talk to him so I can either get closure or have him tell me to stop tripping.
    PropertyOfASoldier PropertyOfASoldier 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I know it hasn't been a while

    since he left, but I really start missing him more than i thought i would. He won't be home until 2 weeks still. I admire all the military girlfriend/wife that have to deal with long distance relationship for a long period of time. The begining of our relationship was a long...
    SimpleGirl17 SimpleGirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Also, if we see anyone posting negative/rude

    ****, please help us get them out of our group! Let's all stand together and report and block these people. Let's get them out. I think that if all of us could do this when we see these rude people, we can make a difference and make this group a much happier place! Thank you in...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    15 days ❤️❤️❤️ then he's all mine

    for 10 days! Cannot wait! Though I still haven't decided what to get his mom and grandma! Can't show up to their house meeting them for the first time empty handed! Someone help! I need ideas! I have absolutely no idea what they like. My man says his grandma loves sweets but can...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    I should have been seeing my soldier a week on

    Friday, but because they have extended his stay in Germany its likely going to be another 3 weeks. I know this thing happens and its something I have to get used to by now and i am used to it, but it never fails to upset me when you've been waiting months to see them and when...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    love love love all of the new lovely ladies I

    am meeting & sharing experiences with! makes this journey a whole lot easier!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 14 mins ago

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    My soldier is spoiling me with presents!

    !! Yesterday he had flowers delivered to me, came home last night there's balloons and edible arrangements delivered. Came home today and there's the cutest pink and black box in front my door, I open the box and it's cupcakes and he bought me a laptop. I wanna hug him and kiss...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    I am so sick of the fakes

    and posers on here. Also the ones that think they know it all. Not to mention the ones that have a negative attitude about everything. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it all! Isn't that something we all learned before we even went to elementary school? I mean...
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I'm done being an option.

    I'm obviously not good enough for him. I'm worth more and don't deserve to be treated like that. I gave him my heart and he stomped on it. Don't want to text me back? You don't deserve my text messages. Don't snapchat me back? Keep snapchatting the other girls on your "best...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 2 Responses 56 mins ago

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    my boyfriend of two years just left

    for basic today. I know this is the best thing for him, and I fully support his decision to go, but it is hard knowing that I wont hear from him or see him very often.
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 11 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    At night is when my head gets going the most

    and it's one of the hardest parts of him being gone. He was always my reassurance and something I could fall back on when I needed help finding my way. I'll get you back soon enough. I can do this.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Ok I need to vent!!! I saw under another

    girls post some random chick post to her that she will be a single mom if she marries and has a kid with her man. I yes jumped that girls ***. But I need to sent things straight with that cause if offended me. There's a huge difference between the two. Being a military wife yes...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    It still shocks me that we've gone 143 days

    apart. And that we only have 68 days until we see each other again. Never thought I would be able to do it, but I guess love makes you do wondrous things sometimes. Less than a year & he'll be back in the states for good! We can definitely do this :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 8 Responses Oct 3

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    So this weekend my bf came home,

    and we had a party and we both got super smashed... and then I lost an important ring he gave me:( I don't remember much from that night but apparently I had a mental breakdown because I couldn't find it lol Anyways after he left he texted me saying one of his friends on base...
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 6 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Idk if it's different based on the branch

    or their position.. But do anyone know if my honey will get the holidays off? Like Christmas. He's in basic for The USMC but by time then he'll be graduated and into his job schooling..
    thunderberk thunderberk 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    PropertyOfASoldier PropertyOfASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I can't focus on anything

    and I really need too. I found out his graduation & family day out and I finish school the day before and I have tons of work to do. I feel so behind. Any ideas? My classes are online so it's hard to not get distracted.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    It is always a good day

    when I get mail from him! Today I got three letters and I am so happy to hear from him! I love him so much and I get to see him in a little over a month, he put a countdown in his letters and I thought it was the cutest thing ever. :)
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    It's so.. Quiet.. without him.

    I already miss the silly little cute things he did.. Like how he made PB&J sandwiches...or the way he'd bite my toes cuz he knows I hate my feet.. I'm sorry for blabbing on here.
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 33 mins ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    Ladies I am doing alittle better,

    things are straightening back out and I am slowly coming back to you. I am gonna say this now that at times things I will say may sound harsh but I'm no longer gonna sugar coat anything. Not to be rude or offend anyone but that is how I feel it needs to be. As well as I will not...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Sep 26

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Still can't wrap my head around the fact

    that my soldier will be gone for 24 months. Definitely frustrated -_-
    mw318 mw318 18-21, F 8 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    He can tweet, snapchat,

    and FB, but he can't text me back after 3 hours? I wish this didn't **** me off so bad...
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    So he has told me he loves me,

    but a part of me still doubts he does. He has said multiple times that he's never felt this way about anyone before, so he doesn't know how to put his feelings into words. But that also means he could think he loves me but doesn't fully. Which I'm totally fine with because I...
    PropertyOfASoldier PropertyOfASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 17 Responses Oct 10

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    I just got a ten-minute surprise phone call!

    :) gah. He's fabulously wonderful. :)
    PropertyOfASoldier PropertyOfASoldier 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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