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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,829 People

    So he's asleep on video chat again that's fine

    its 1130pm in germany now, he's had a long day. My birthday is this upcoming Monday and my husband sent me on a shopping spree today as one of my presents. Even from the other side of the world he spoils me. But the best present of all he's flying me to germany for his birthday...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Smfh I'm so mad I can't

    even speak proper English right now!!! Everyday is something. Don't tell me bout breakup cuz me doh wa hear. Let him go entertain woman that is his business. No gyal could come tell me bout my man no sir that must be the people man. That is the US military man not mine...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Has any of you ladies had your soldier go

    through basic training at Fort Lennard Wood? If so, can you give me an insight as to what to expect from it? Like for letters and phone calls and experiences? Thanks so much! Any information/stories would be wonderful!
    MadisonMeris MadisonMeris 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    GIIIIIIIIIIIIRLS JUST LISTEEEEN THIS

    SOOOOOOOONG!!! OOOMMGG!!! <3 <3
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Listening to my soldier talk about us getting a

    place together next year is so exciting. I can finally be with him and start a whole new life for myself. Eeekk excited is an understatement
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 33 mins ago

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    so connor failed his second inspection,

    which means hes not been reflighted and now has to do the last two weeks all over again which means hes going to be away for 12 weeks instead of 10 and i dont get to see him on saturday, to make things worse its our 5 month anniversary tomorrow and were not going to spend it...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I will never get tired of waking up to ''Good

    morning my princess'' I know its kinda cringey but it really makes me smile and shows that Im in my soldiers thoughts first thing when he wakes up, even though it is at like 5 am! 43 days and counting!!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    It's been the worst week of my life.

    On top of him being away, friend problems, and struggling in school, I'm moving out of my amazing house, the house that my boyfriend and I had our first kiss, and where we fell in love. It's so hard to know he's never going to be able to come home to that house.. AND, our move...
    halfmyheartisdeployed halfmyheartisdeployed 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    so sometimes i wonder how hes manages to deal

    with me. i have good moments mostly but then i have my moments when im insecure and think hes gonna leave me and then i have crap happen and hes all i Oh Iwant but i stay strong because im head over heels in love with him. i constantly think of him and when i do luke bryan crash...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F a week ago

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    MY RECRUIT GOT AN EXTENSION.

    he's going to be home for 20 days now instead of 10 after USMC bootcamp! this is one happy girlfriend can't stop crying
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So, seeing your boyfriend

    for the first time after 3 months makes it so worth it. I can't wait for the graduation tomorrow and then be able to take him home with me! I am so happy.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    Juuuuust 13 daaaaaaaays!

    !!! come on Yary!! U can do it! U love him and he loves u! Can't wait to have him in my arms and kissing him and tell him how much I love our love! and tell him how proud I am for him for his success! Juuust 13 days!!! Comeee on tiiiiiimeee fly this time! just this time <3
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    By this time tomorrow I'll be in his arms

    smiling like crazy. I cant believe it!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Blonde moment! Posted in the Navy instead of

    Army. Too many experiences and not enough of me paying attention. Jeez.
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    30 minute phone call

    and two letters today! <3 I love this boy
    amr614 amr614 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I got back a few days ago from visiting my

    boyfriend who was on leave before he goes over seas here within the next week. It was the best trip I've ever had! I could've just laid next to him and done nothing everyday of the trip, just to be by his side again was enough for me. I just wish the trip was longer :/ I hadn't...
    morgieporgie morgieporgie 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Another tough letter

    for me to read came today. Since he hasn't gotten my letters yet, he's worried I haven't sent any and that I don't want to be with him or don't care anymore.. This is so hard for me right now. It'll be a week tomorrow since I sent my first letters, I hope he gets them soon.. I...
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Well time to start a countdown again.

    3 weeks of Airborne school. Just when I was a wake up away. But this is the Army life. We are military girlfriend's therefore we cannot get upset because we accepted to be apart of the unexpected rollercoaster that comes with standing by our men. But we are in it because it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    So glad my cousin feels like it's his job to

    tell my sister stuff about my boyfriend! Ugh so angry!!!!! It is my job to talk to my family about him and honestly I don't think they need to know his past, the person that does is me!!! It's just really frustrating to hear that my cousin is telling things he heard from his...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So my head has been spinning

    and all I'm thinking is dang I need to thank him for putting up with everything I've been through lately. He's been beyond amazing and has found ways to make me smile daily. I don't know how I would have gotten through training while being sick had he not been so concerned. I'm...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Got a decal for my car

    that says "Army Girlfriend" :) That's not weird, right?
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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