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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,111 People

    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Getting ready to drive to the airport.

    Only a few hours until I can see my sailor!!! Ahhhh :) after 213 days I'm so unbelievably excited.
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I miss him a lot tonite tomrow will be realy

    hard with out him being here but we know he is gone for a good reason we hope every one has a good Christmas.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    eeeek he dosnt always say he loves me

    so when he does its amazing! one of the best christmas's ever as long as I've got him wether hes home or away I am the happiest ive been in a long time and I love that he loves his box and been wearing his christmas stuff today! not long left now over 5 months down and Im nearly...
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Thought you ladies might like this.

    I found this poem online A Soldiers Christmas Twas the night before Christmas, he lived all alone, In a one bedroom house made of plaster & stone. I had come down the chimney with presents to give And to see just who in this home did live. I looked all about a strange...
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Happy holidays, ladies!

    I don't know if you listen to Ed Sheeran or not, but if you don't you should check out this song. It's super cute and has sort of helped me out a bit.
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's been just over 90 days

    since I saw her last. I'm really hoping time starts to move QUICKER.
    rwright1 rwright1 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I just want all of you

    who are struggling to get through this experience to know that you are strong, even if you don't feel it. My boyfriend was deployed for 11 months and just came home in September. It was the most difficult experience of my life, and the reintegration was no cupcake either. But...
    evki evki 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He called me multiple times today

    and with every call he sounded more and more sad :( He really misses his nieces and his family and wishes that he could be here with us all. He is planning on coming for the weekend in 2 weeks but he knows that his orders may change. It makes me feel even worse because I can't...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    "as Christmas grows closer the feeling of pain

    grows sharper, the pain of knowing that this Christmas I will be without my hero. for the military has borrowed the man I love, and is turning him into the hero I always knew him to be. with this my pain is chased away making me become proud and happy. soon not only will the...
    morganrose7 morganrose7 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Destineymk Destineymk 16-17, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    i hope everyone had a great holiday,

    but my real vacation starts tomorrow and hopefully my toes will be in the sand forgetting about all of this heartbreak!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Well this is a horrible night.

    Found out today that he has been sending the exact same sweet messages to a coworker of mine...he didn't know she was a coworker...I'm so fed up and I can't deal...
    lalahughes lalahughes 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    merry Christmas ladies I hope you all enjoy

    your Christmas with family. some of us might not have our guys here with us today but remember they are doing something they love and choose to do and we need to keep supporting them. It is hard on them as well as it is hard on us remember that.
    theshu12 theshu12 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I miss him alot when he comes home he will come

    home to a new house due to the fact that we moved while he is deployed he knows where we moved he just hasn't seen the house I wish he was home but I got everything moved just now to set the house up tomrow. I love and miss him a lot.
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    I just want all of you

    who are struggling to get through this experience to know that you are strong, even if you don't feel it. My boyfriend was deployed for 11 months and just came home in September. It was the most difficult experience of my life, and the reintegration was no cupcake either. But...
    evki evki 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    3am walks over the London Bridge with my baby.

    It's cold but so worth it. Best vacation ever..
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    this is me and my boyfriend on Christmas.

    we were able to spend a perfect 6 days together over Christmas. 76 days until he is home for good. (or at least as far as we can see) <3
    portiafay portiafay 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    "The best and most beautiful things in the

    world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    Hey ladies! Haven't posted in awhile,

    I hope you all had amazing Christmases or anything else you may celebrate!
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I don't like wrestling

    but tonight its the tribute to the troops so its worth watching. Thank you troops! Much love from the bottom of my heart. Happy Holidays :-)
    mizzdimples mizzdimples 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    Happy Holidays!! Guess what?

    Two days ago I learned that my soldier was cheating on me while overseas. He didn't waste any time as soon as he arrived. I believe he probably has been cheating when he was back home, too. Especially when I was away at graduate school. It's all good though. I'm not heartbroken...
    alittlequirky alittlequirky 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    this is a picture of me

    and my marine on Christmas Eve! I hope everyone had an amazing holiday! if your loved ones werent home just know they wish nothing more than to be home with you and I hope it was a wonderful holiday regardless :) Sending love to all of you military wives/girlfriends and congrats...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I just spent the most amazing day with my

    Baby<3 I can't be more grateful that he's home for the holidays I just love him so much! I hope all of you ladies are having a great time with your military men as well!
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 22 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    Today is my birthday.

    Which means, only 3 days until I see my sailor :)
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    merry Christmas everyone I hope you all have

    both lovely days with and without your men, either way we have them in our lives even if they arnt here right now but they will be again soon, keep smiling :)
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    Sometimes he doesn't understand

    that I have it hard also.
    Destineymk Destineymk 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    mixed emotions..mine will have his christmas

    leave but i will not be able to see him coz he will go to another state to take the chance filling his divorce.i know how much he wanted that divorce so im just supporting him,,but how i wish i was near him so he can dropped by,,but he's not..