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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,029 People

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 11 Responses Sep 9

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Ladies please keep you eyes out on here,

    there is a girl who keeps coming and going and Im sure a few of you have had her add and message you. Her name is julieafwifey. She messages you playing the victim of her husbands cheating but tells you what she is doing to get back at him. Please if you get anything from her in...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    He's my absolute best friend,

    long before we even started dating. I'm having a hard time with us living so far away. I wish I could just up and move because that would make my life feel so much easier. But my schooling is here and I dont want to feel like a failure to my family. If Mulan taught me anything...
    armygirl20 armygirl20 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Aaarrrrggghhhh. So i got a call today from my

    man saying that he got hurt and is the medical hold and his graduation is probably going to be pushed back a week or two.....on the plus side it was awesome being able to talk to him...But i don't want to wait another week or two!!!! Bahhhh!
    erinkathleen89 erinkathleen89 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So I saw he was on Facebook yesterday,

    (he's about to graduate), and I sent him a message confronting him about pretending I don't exist. No response. He read it, I saw. A big middle finger to him!!!!!!
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    1 month untill Christmas then not long

    until he's home it's going soooo sloow!! sent his Christmas box the other day and going to send another on the cut of date so he won't be expecting it so hopefully surprise box will make him smile :) eeek cant wait now!
    0105APa 0105APa 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok so I need a vent moment.

    I'm just frustrated!! My best friend who's hubby just got out of the military promised me when I told her and asked her for help for my mans care package that she would help me as she has done them before. Well the time is here and I've specifically arraigned days with her and...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    He is so distant. His truck payment was due

    and he asked me to pay it last month and I haven't heard from him in almost two weeks so I asked his parents and they said pay it, he wouldn't be mad. I sent him a message with all of the confirmation info and all I got back was "I have access to a shop computer and I paid it...
    rubyreb rubyreb 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    After today I officially do NOT want to spend

    thanksgiving with him and his family, it's always the night right before something big is supposed to happen when he choses to bring up old stuff and act like an ***. So my agenda for tomorrow includes: - wake up - go to my parents house and help my mother cook - come home...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 14 mins ago

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    I am just so tired of waiting

    and being strong ! Oh man, he's so close to graduating and right after he's moving 9 hours away to do more training for half a year to a years time. I've been so down in the dumps because it feels like the closer I get to seeing Him the farther away he'll be. And its messing my...
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    He's finally home for good.

    And is now officially a civilian, I can't even express how happy I am and how proud he makes me. Time to start out love eventful life together
    Usmcsweetheart07 Usmcsweetheart07 18-21, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving

    whether you get to spend it with your significant others or not! And some great Black Friday shopping of course (;
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I swear all y'all are amazing!

    if it wasn't for you guys I might just have gone crazy!! Thank all y'all who I talk too.
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 22

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    I sent him an Adventskalender today cause I

    can't go see him next weekend...hope he'll like it cause he is really homesick these days. I feel so sorry for him to be so far away from his family so I try to support him as much as I can and try to be there for him. I also had this idea for a christmas present kinda for his...
    crispyxx crispyxx 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I got to spend the day with my boyfriend

    and I can't tell you how amazing it felt to have him back in my arms. I fell even more in love with him today and I can't wait to see him again tomorrow! :) Just to let the girls know who are still waiting, that first hug will make everything worth it.
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    mw318 mw318 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Yes my current bf is military.

    Some guys say when girls learn not to date with military guys though. I have also seen so many soldiers play around. But there were also honest and faithful guys too. A quite few guys though... How about your bf or fiancé or husband ?
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for a year and two months. Well he had a mandatory camp to attend as he was getting promoted to sergeant. During this camp, he was supposed to be medically discharged due to some bad back injuries. After a month of him waiting to hear about his release date, they decided to keep...
    maddiholt maddiholt 18-21, F 4 mins ago

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    time to start my healing process.

    i hope everyone has a blessed holiday.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    15 days till I'm in his arms again.

    I can't wait, it's heart breaking that I received his last letters today but these past 2 weeks will go by faster than we realize it. He also sent me a picture of him today, my heart skipped a beat. I'm sooo excited. ???
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    At about 2 am I woke up to Adrian texting me.

    He woke me up to just argue with me. To get me going. I wasn't in the mood to fight with him at that time of night. I told him I wasn't fighting with him and he said something really sweet. Some days he's a huge pain in my butt, but I am very thankful for him ❤️
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I saw my mailman's truck today

    and my heart started pounding with anticipation with memories of last year. A year ago I would've waited by the window waiting to see if he was here and praying he had a letter and waiting by the mailbox or interrupting his whole process. I can't believe it was only a year ago...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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