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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,087 People

    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    My man has this one ex

    that I have an extreme dislike for because of how she hurt him. They were pretty serious, he loved her, but she cheated on him and broke his heart. The other day he asked me if it was okay for him to check up on her. Which I obviously got upset about. Why would he feel the need...
    Lavenderrrr Lavenderrrr 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    VictoriaSlaughter VictoriaSlaughter 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    One of my favorite parts of the day

    when I can't talk to him is when I dream about him. I feel really connected to my man in my dreams. The dreams he's in are a nice escape from reality, helping me to forget how long he's gone for this time.
    Baybae Baybae 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    His package finally arrived!

    !! It got there today!!! So excited for him to get it and open it and see what he got!!!! He's gonna be so excited about the peanut butter cookies! They're his favorite!!!
    alyannj93 alyannj93 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    3 more days and my boyfriend comes home!

    I can't wait to spend Christmas together :) These next 2 weeks is gonna go by fast, but I'll be cherishing each and every moment with him <3
    ac9914 ac9914 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Sep 25

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Ahhh 3 more days until I see my handsome

    amazing loving caring boyfriend I literally can't wait!!!!!! :'D
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 11 hrs ago

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    And the count down begins again.

    Next time I get him for a whole month and then we get married during that month! I'm feeling a strange combination of excited and sad right now trying not to cry in the airport. Yippeee...
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14

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    Every time I close my eyes I keep thinking about

    that first hug and kiss when we see each other. I've waited so long for this. 4 more days!!! But for now Justin Timberlake concert with the best friend!!!!
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    feels like forever until I see him again :( I

    henvy all you ladies who are getting your men hope for christmas so much!!
    jessicamarie72 jessicamarie72 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My soldier comes home from BCT in 3 days!

    !! It will be a Merry Christmas!!!
    Savirae Savirae 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    Aaah! 4 more days 💕💕💕!

    !!!! I'm so excited and nervous. Can't wait to see my baby!!!
    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    So my boyfriend is coming home this week

    and I'm pretty sure I have the flu. I'm so sad because I've been waiting 4 months for this and don't want to get him sick or ruin his leave time :( my head and throat hurt so bad I don't know what to do.
    autumn1116 autumn1116 18-21, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend of a year went to Basic Training

    for the marines on 10/27. We had such a magical love. We spent every day we could together. We both worked so even if it was just for 5 minutes we would stop by each others house for a goodnight or good morning kiss. it was the little things that just made me fall in love. I...
    Stephlisette Stephlisette 18-21, F 6 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31

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    well...silly me thinking

    that my complicated situation couldnt get anymore complicated, but indeed it has. all i know is that in 11 days ill be laying on a beach destressing!
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 14 mins ago

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    I'm definitely having the worst luck today.

    Training for my new job has been going sideways and this isn't good. I leave tomorrow for PI, after my final but I miss all the chances to make up training days. Idk what to do..... I mean on a good note, planning his surprise dinner has been great and I'm so excited to see his...
    HisRightBoobie HisRightBoobie 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I miss him and wish he was here going to the

    hospital today becuase my side keeps geting worse. I wish he was home. I miss him a lot
    xflordiagirlx xflordiagirlx 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 22 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 11 Responses Nov 24

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    I haven't put anything on here in a while,

    but My boyfriend has been gone for four months now. I am finishing up my first semester of college, and he is coming home for CBL at the end of this week, and quite honestly, I'm really nervous. A lot of people have told me to expect him to be different, and that it's not...
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I'm in a sticky situation.

    He has been in tech school for about 5 months and still has one more month to go. Because of his career choice, he said he will constantly be traveling which is something he enjoys. Tonight he called me and told me how we will probably not see each other much once he gets home...
    Logivali Logivali 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3

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    Got a call today! and

    now we're texting. <3
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 16 hrs ago

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    How're the holidays going

    for you ladies? Anyone celebrate anything besides Christmas??
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    He comes home Sunday!

    ! Three more days!! Eyebrows waxed, hair colored, Brazilian wax, nails done, going to make cookies for him and a big welcome home sign 😊 I would wait forever, but 142 days is long enough ❤️ sooooo happy!!!
    BrookeAlyssa BrookeAlyssa 18-21, F 56 mins ago

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    So iv just said goodbye to my soldier

    after spending a lovely two weeks with him, I won't see him now ontil march and I have got to say it was the hardest goodbye iv done yet, trying look in to his eyes and trying not to cry, I love him so much, I really don't know how I do this, it hurts so much :(
    jessicamarie72 jessicamarie72 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Every night my dreams get more

    and more surreal.. Dreaming about our first kiss and hug, is getting to me cause it hasn't happened yet! Ahh. Friday can't come any faster!
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really want to lose weight

    before he comes home. My days are so long with work and school I have a hard time fitting it in. But I'm going to try, starting today. I guess I need to join a diet group now haha.