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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,765 People

    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    And just like that he's gone.

    .. Until 3 and a half months..trying to be positive but this is probably the hardest thing I've had to do
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Finally got to hear my soldiers voice today.

    :) It's been a long 16 days. I don't get to see him until tomorrow, but I'm feeling ok now. Thanks to everyone on this page for the support!!
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    I can't get over the fact

    that I more than likely won't be able to see him at basic training graduation. He can only have 10 adults and he has a big family who all want to come.. I understand family comes first but it just makes me so upset and I want to cry every time I think about. I'll be able to talk...
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend has been in OSUT (army)

    for a month now, and he's still got about three months to go. I'm starting to get scared that he won't want me anymore when he comes home. What if he's not attracted to me or just falls out of love with me? I'm so afraid that I'm going to lose him. I'm head over heels in love...
    armygf916 armygf916 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My brother's girlfriend of about 9 years broke

    up with him because he's about to enlist. They've been living in two separate countries for 5 years!!! So how is this ANY DIFFERENT? Smh & now she's all on fb complaining about love & ****. My brother told her straight up that he didn't know what to do but reassure her that he...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    So today when my bf came home,

    I had dinner waiting for him ( I was cooking and studying simultaneously), and all of a sudden his phone starts ringing... It's one of his 'past' flings, Im a little upset but I blow it off... After we ate he started playing with my tablet, which I don't mine, what's mine is...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 5 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    15 more days and I'll see my man!

    This summer has gone by really slow but thankfully it's almost over! Words cannot describe how happy I am that this experience of boot camp it's almost over for us, but I am thankful for this experience because it has definitely helped our relationship ❤ I can't wait to see...
    brimae17 brimae17 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I got my first letter yesterday,

    and I can't eve explain the feelings that came along with it. I was so happy, ad relieved at the same time. When I read it I started tearing up because of how emotional I was. I can't wait for another letter to come!
    ASoldiersSweetDarling ASoldiersSweetDarling 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    So i found out during july 4th my boyfriend

    ended up being engaged with his supposed ex. He told me it wasnt true and all and that it didnt mean nothing to be in an engagement with someone. And i was furious at him and havent talked to him for about 3 weeks. Now he wants to get back with me and how he wants me to be his...
    iheartlovesyou iheartlovesyou 18-21, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    How many times do I have to say I ONLY ALLOW

    MILITARY GIRLFRIENDS/FIANCÉ/WIVES TO ADD ME INTO THEIR CIRCLE!! I'm tired of these creeps who add me. What don't people understand?! Don't add me into your circle, Don't comment on my posts, don't message me unless you're a MILSO!!!!!
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I traveled to RAF Halton yesterday to take my

    boyfriend to his basic training for ten weeks, and even though im going back to halton on wednesday for his relatives day with his dad i know im only going to have ten minutes to say goodbye to him, i barely slept last night worrying about him thinking about how he might forget...
    chloeyhope chloeyhope 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I'm gonna cry like a baaaaaby!

    !! I want another letter!!!! >.< I miss hiiiiim so freakiiing much!!! :(
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I miss him...so much.

    .and just wish I could hug him..💜 The inconsistency is so hard..and I constantly worry... "Sigh" He is in Quatar in the Air Force and won't be home until January....
    Irishgirl456 Irishgirl456 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Got my first letter a couple days ago

    and I was beyond happy, I started crying as soon as I saw it in the mailbox! I was not expecting it at all and I was pleasantly surprised! This may sound cheesy, but it made me forget about all the nights alone and 4 weeks without him and it was the happiest I've ever been over...
    istilllovehimandiwishhewashere istilllovehimandiwishhewashere 16-17, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I guess I'm no longer a military girlfriend.

    ... This has been a rough evening for me. My boyfriend finally told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore and doesn't want to keep trying and pretending. It is absolutely heartbreaking!! I love him and I will miss him. But I know that no matter what I do he does not...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    1 more month!! I can't believe I've made it

    this far!! I can do this! Only 30 more days!
    isabasche isabasche 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I need some positive encouragement please

    people haha he left today for the first time ever and will be in fort Benning for 3 and a half months.
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Anyone with a boyfriend headed to fort Benning

    for basic training and infantry school?
    emuck emuck 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    After a nice conversation,

    I believe my boyfriend and I are on somewhat solid ground again. He's been offered a position in the White House, he would be gone 4 out of 7 days of the week. He was upset about accepting the position and us moving in together. He told me he doesn't want to leave me alone...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Got a text today telling me he got an idea of

    where he will be stationed :) we are both really happy because it's where we wanted. I guess since the sergeants are so impressed with his progress and his attitude they gave him first choice. We were preparing ourselves for the worst and got the best. Feeling so blessed today...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Thinking of writing him a letter

    while he is at training. He comes back at the end if September and hopefully I'll get to see him. But I want to give it to him before he leaves for deployment so he can read it when he is on his way or when he gets there. Basically want to tell him how I feel and everything that...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Anybody with a bf in boot camp at Fort Jackson

    South Carolina??? Somebody?? :/
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    So since my bf is away,

    I woke up to what I thought would be just another empty bed with nothing but my phone beside me....well I was wrong...I turned over and sat up and you know what I saw....???? A HUGE *** BUG CRAWLING ACROSS MY PILLOW!!! I quickly ran to get a shoe a killed it...and then I...
    StdntNurseJay StdntNurseJay 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    MeriahW MeriahW 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I remember the first fight we had.

    We were on a party bus in the middle of Manhattan during the winter & I had flipped out on him because one of his past flings thought it was funny to give me a nickname & make references about me on his FB. He literally stopped the bus and got off. I let him go, too. I always...
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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