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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,733 People

    Hopefully buying a plane ticket

    and a hotel room this weekend!!! Hard to believe basic is halfway over and in a little over a month I'll be able to see my babe again!
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They donโ€™t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. Itโ€™s hard. Itโ€™s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 5 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Only have a week left till I see my soldier!

    The days feel like they are going slower and slower lol.
    swimmer1115 swimmer1115 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This will be my last post on here.

    . We broke up. I gave my all, I bent over backwards for him and he still treated me terribly. His actions were so horrible even his parents aren't happy with him (they said I deserved better). I'm trying not to dwell on it, as he's shown me that he doesn't care, he's not...
    ashv44 ashv44 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    received my 1st letter today (: no amount of

    words can describe the feelings i have for this guy
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Came home today with

    so many letters!! They were the most romantic words that I've ever received from him in the whole five years we've been together. Oh my gosh, I'm one happy sailor's girl!
    emmy3991 emmy3991 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Did anyone's boyfriend make a dramatic change

    in personality after bootcamp? I've been reading lots of stories where girlfriends are saying their boyfriend has become cocky and arrogant. Also that they become really distant from their girlfriends? Did anyone experience that after they saw their boyfriend after bootcamp? I'm...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 6 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Sometimes, it sucks not having any friends

    when he's gone. The girl I thought was my best friend started changing when she found out my boyfriend is a sailor. Sadly, she's a tag chaser and isn't ashamed of it. She says things like"I will only marry a navy seal and if I can't get one of those, I'll settle for any other...
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Seriously missing him

    and he's only been gone one whole day. Miss him smile, his smell, his jokes, his voice and especially his arms. This is tougher than I imagined I want to friggen walk to fort benning and give him the biggest hug :(
    Armymeeg1 Armymeeg1 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Can you send your recruit pictures in bootcamp?

    People have been telling me you can and some have been telling me you can't?
    mckennabuca mckennabuca 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    It's officially August

    and we have 30 together. We have been spending every moment we can together and I love it but I know it's going to make this harder on both of us.
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    my boyfriend has been scared

    that when he returns home that I'm gonna have another boyfriend. today we were laying in bed talking about it and I told him that even If we were to date other people (which will not happen) that we would always end up with each other, because we both love each other so much...
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    my boyfriend left to fort Jackson in July

    and I been writing ever since but its kinda getting harder .... feels lonely at night ... I miss him to death which should be common but I just hope he misses me too
    karenS319 karenS319 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    sometimes I wish he'd just stop talking about

    marriage. I mean I like talking about it, but I'm instantly sad after. When he was home, we talked about our future and we agreed we weren't ready for marriage... I mean I'm so ready to be with him, but he sounded unsure so we decided to wait... But now he keeps talking about it...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I'm getting so close to seeing him

    and at this point I'm just getting antsy! I just want it to be here already! Only 20 more days :)
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Today was the last day

    that I will be able to hang out with my man until Christmas besides his graduation. I tried to stay strong but I ended up breaking down in front of him. He leaves from basic in 3 days but now I'm counting the days until graduation. Only 108, I hope they go by fast.
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    So I am kinda new at the whole military

    girlfriend thing. My boyfriend just got out of AIT and is now stationed at Fort Stewart, Georgia. He keeps talking about me going down there to go to school, but I just don't know what to do. I would love to be down there with him and be able to see him, but if he gets deployed...
    ecote42 ecote42 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Feeling pretty down today.

    ... Disappointed cause I didn't do as well in my class as I would have hoped... Tyler comes home in 10 days which is great but classes start again the 17 so his last week I will have class... Not ideal. But we will make it work. I am so thankful he is so supportive of me and my...
    KJSMIT4496 KJSMIT4496 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    I love getting letters in the mail from Gabe,

    even if really doesn't say much. It makes me feel like things are slightly back to normal for that one moment in time. A few more weeks until he graduates and I get full contact with him again<3 I just need to keep pushing myself a little longer. in this end this is all going...
    shelli1a shelli1a 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Well I was happy about an hour ago.

    But now I find myself constantly crying. I don't know what it is, but I'm so emotional right now. I just want to be in his arms again. I need some kind of motivation, or advice. It's hard to constantly be happy. Especially when no one you see on a daily basis acts even slightly...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So he's only 7 hours away!

    He made it safely to the base! He called me last night before he went to bed' and we were just talking like we usually do about whatever. Then I had the craziest idea lol I told him I wanted to come see him this weekend since I'm off work! He got so excited! But then we thought...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    got a call that he arrived a couple days ago

    and he told me he loved me (: seriously made my day
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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