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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 6,161 People

    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7, 2015

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    I miss the little things- like getting up on

    Saturday mornings talking, cuddling, getting breakfast together. I miss driving around in the car playing DJ and having sing a longs while we run errands. I miss fights over the TV remote or picking a restaurant for dinner or competitions for who cooks dinner. He's so fun, he...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Guess who's engaged?!

    So overjoyed right now lol :D
    Heyitzcrystal Heyitzcrystal 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    I'm legit sick and tired of everyone

    who hasn't been in a military relationship say " oh I understand what you're going through I've done the long distance before!" WHEN REALLY it's not the same!!! You get to talk and skype that person EVERYDAY ! When us milso' don't get to talk to him or her everyday. Especially...
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I haven't heard from my man in 2 weeks.

    No letters or anything. I know it's normal during BMT. Especially when they are at BEAST week. But I am still a little worried. I can't help but think "what if I get there and he doesn't want to be with me anymore". I don't know what I'd do. I just wish I could hear or see the...
    makaylaanne makaylaanne 18-21, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I'm going down to go see him on Tuesday.

    .This visit will either make us or break us... I really hope it doesn't break us..
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Sucks to have a boyfriend

    that doesn't care lmao
    michellegm05 michellegm05 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    just sent a letter out

    for my baby I hope he likes my congratulations card since I'm not able to go see him graduate
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 18 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    My partner left a week ago

    for the army and honestly it's been really hard adjusting to him not being around. Although today I received a phone call from him which was truly amazing and it was nice to discover that he misses me just as much as I miss him!
    atashysoasis14 atashysoasis14 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    I seriously love baking

    for my fiancee <3
    BaybeehToess16 BaybeehToess16 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    It's hard not getting to talk to him

    as we use to I know that it's going to be like that because he's working but It's tough not being able to not call him like 24/7 😂 because he is awesome that's what we use to do all the time. Our relationship is complicated and what I mean by that I just feel it was meant to...
    Trinityhester318 Trinityhester318 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 31-35, F 16 Responses May 12, 2015

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    dmw93 dmw93 22-25, F 9 Responses May 13, 2015

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    I miss him so much he is

    so close to graduate on the 11th I feel so bad bc I can't go and I have not gotten any letters from him I really really miss him so so much I have been crying everyday.
    NationalGuardFiance2015 NationalGuardFiance2015 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I thought that when my BF gets his phone back

    that he'd be calling a lot. That's not the case. He's horrible at texting now. Yesterday he graduated basic (which I'm so proud of!) & I was going through a rough time with not being able to be there for his graduation, my friends suck, etc & he was at the bar with his friends...
    ArmyGirlfriend1028 ArmyGirlfriend1028 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    I can't believe that in just 17 days I will be

    going to my boyfriends bootcamp graduation :) this time really has gone by fast thinking back on it!
    Klynn22 Klynn22 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    I hate the unknown.. So not knowing

    when I will ever get to see my man is really getting to me/:
    AmandaM97 AmandaM97 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Leaving Great Lakes is

    so hard, we just said our goodbyes for now and I miss him so much already :(
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Really tired of not really being able to talk

    to him, or having anyone to talk to. I'm being a baby about it but it sucks when you've got no one at home to spend time with. I work, go to school and go home and just sit and wait for him to get done with whatever he is doing, which normally isn't until night. Maybe I'm just...
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Apparently somethings wrong

    and he's shutting me out. I don't know what to do and he won't let me help him. I'm trying not to get upset by it but I honestly feel like he's closing the door on me and it kind of hurts.
    ouiee ouiee 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Hello all! I just wanted to say first

    and foremost I am not a military girlfriend however, I am a substance abuse and clinical counseling student who would love to know what your experience has been as a military girlfriend. Please share as much or as a little and thanks to all military personnel for their service...
    tozourj15 tozourj15 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    deshhh14 deshhh14 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Finally got to skype :) He was pretty much alone

    and we talked for like 5 hours. It was sooo nice. Love it when they port.
    dmariaL dmariaL 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    We're engaged!!! Yesterday honestly felt like a

    dream after my bf (now fiancé :) lol) drove 9 hours to surprise me in public and then propose!! I can't even believe it happened and while he was proposing we were both shaking and crying lol. I am so thankful for this love that we share and could not be happier!!!
    Breathe38 Breathe38 18-21 10 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    Does anyone have advice on how to handle lack

    of communication when they come back from overseas. My boyfriend has been distant for the whole week. We talked on the phone twice this week. I am moving in next Tuesday with him and worried of why he has been distant.
    eguerrette eguerrette 22-25, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    He is the best. Such a gentleman:) we said "I

    love you" for the first time last night, in person. I'm on cloud 9
    Realwinner Realwinner 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Feeling a little bit of hatred.

    .. I don't understand how he went to I'm never going to leave to be a marine to "guess what I'm going to boot camp soon" really quick... He didn't even tell me when any of this happened it was just a I'm leaving... And he's already at his MOS... It's hitting me so hard rn.. I...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    So I checked the mail

    and .. I GOT LETTERS YALL!!!!
    Cwils004 Cwils004 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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