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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,367 People

    So excited! !!Was able to talk to my sailor

    today. My heart beating so fast
    lovestory30 lovestory30 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He called 2 times and I wasn't around to answer.

    .. finally got a hold of him and all he had time to say was "I don't have a lot of time. I Love you." Then he was gone... So mad at myself and upset all at the same time.
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    OMG. He sent me an edible arrangement

    for my birthday! I couldn't help but cry. I'm so so so so happy! and all I could think was how did you pull that off love? agh! He can still melt my heart even though he's thousands of miles away!
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I need some advice. I'm currently at university

    and so my friends and I sometimes go out to parties or to the bars (all of my other friends are single except for one). My boyfriend doesn't have an issue with it and knows I would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship. Numerous times I've had guys try and talk to me...
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    It's a bad day, wondering

    where my relationship is going and what our relationship is. I just want him here with me
    kellykelly95 kellykelly95 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    One thing that has really gotten under my skin

    recently is how many girls feel like they have a separation between them and their friends because of the military. I personally never felt that way. I felt alone at times when they were with their significant other, but actually had friends who's parents were military or they...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Honestly I would give anything to just be a

    military girlfriend and not have to go through the hell I am going through right now. At this point being a military girls friend is far easier on me than my "civilian" part of my life. Tho I do know that God gives his toughest battles to his strongest warriors!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Got a 50 minute phone call today

    so thankful! It's the first call since the address call!! He's now in white phase!so many emotions but I am so so proud of him! I love and miss him a ton! We are almost there 39 more days!
    brenlarmygf brenlarmygf 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    chrissysteph chrissysteph 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Nothing feels better

    than having his family there to love and support you. That phone call from her made all the difference today as he starts this journey.
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Ahhh! My man just called!

    He says that he wears his promise ring that I got him every single day even though people (not the drill sgts) tell him to take it off because he's not married. He also said that his buddies two him to shut up because he says he misses me that they're just jealous. I'll admit it...
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hey guys! I recently talked to my counselor

    about ways to cope with missing my boyfriend. She had some really good things to say. She told me when i am unable to talk to him or he is just too busy and can't talk, to connect with him some way like make a care package to send to him or write him a letter. This way you are...
    caitc33 caitc33 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Woke up with tears in my eyes.

    . Almost completely asleep and I could almost feel his arms around me.. Turned over and reality came crashing back
    villasenorsarmygirl villasenorsarmygirl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Tiffybear23 Tiffybear23 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Finally packed my whole house into one tiny

    suit case! Ready to see my airman!! All this waiting is about to pay off!:)
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Yay! He called back because a guy gave his

    minutes to my boyfriend. Got to talk to him for 10 minutes! Can't wait to have him back in my arms!
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Never cried as hard as I just did.

    He told me his heart already hurts from missing me. God I hope this gets easier. I pray for us both to gain the strength we need to make it through this time apart. Soon I hope to be back in his arms.
    asdghaley asdghaley 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Couldn't sleep so decided to start writing my

    first deployment letter for this 9 month deployment my boyfriends on. I love writing and receiving letters for him, it makes me so happy when they arrive!
    NavyGirlfriend94 NavyGirlfriend94 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Anybody else have the nights

    where you can't help but cry. I hate it. You have a good day and then night time comes and you starting thinking, it's the worst feeling going to bed with. I just want him back already! 3 months down, 5 to go :(
    daretodream17 daretodream17 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancรฉ's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    i guess things get harder

    before easier & just a little faith makes it all better.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    So after a 13 hr drive by soldier is finally

    home! The only bad side, is he's not at his dads for two days so I have to wait to actually spend proper time with him. He did come and see me last night quickly when he first got home. Ahh so excited for the next two weeks with him!
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    sigh. Today is my birthday

    and it really just feels like another day without him. Birthdays and Holidays must really be the worse while they're gone..
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 6 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    this is going to be such a good year

    for me and my Marine! im seeing him in April before he gets stationed in Cali, then in October we planned an 11 day cruise with his family and bestfriend! I've never been so excited to be on a boat for 11 days secluded from everything with no cell service. just me and my man :)
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007