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I Am a Military Girlfriend

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    I got another letter today!

    I had to go get it from his mom because he still hasn't received the letters I sent him, so he's not able to send it to my address. His letter made me sad because he said he was depressed that I wasn't writing him. :( I hope he gets my letters soon!!
    tanajo5 tanajo5 18-21, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    MY SOLDIER COMES HOME TOMORROW!

    !!!! 10 weeks of basic training, 13 weeks at AIT and 3weeks at Airborne Training friggin ends TODAY!!! I have 24 days with my baby. 24 days before he leaves for Germany. 10 days before I marry him and I will follow him and move to Germany as well. 24 FREAKING DAYS!!!! I'm so...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    The days are getting longer,

    but the weeks are flying by if that makes sense. Giving it my all, trying to stay strong and positive, but I don't know what my breaking point is. Hoping I have the strength to believe in this.
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    You don't know. But im the girl

    who cries every morning. In hopes every night for his safe return home. I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed every morning so that he will be proud of her when he comes home. I'm the girl who lies in bed longing for him to be next to me. I'm the girl who sits quietly...
    sweetlikesuga sweetlikesuga 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Boyfriend just left for basic the 15th

    and I can't wait to hear from him. I really hope he can send a letter soon!
    Courtmk Courtmk 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I Will Wait

    We had a long distance relationship when we were in high school (many years ago now), so this deployment feels strangely familiar... Which simultaneously makes the situation both easier and harder. Long story short, we had a little time together before his deployment to the...
    HisPsycheTrue HisPsycheTrue 22-25, F 14 Responses May 28, 2013

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    MoniqueD MoniqueD 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    My boyfriend left for basic training last sunday

    and it broke my heart to watch him leave. We have been dating for over a year and he means the absolute world to me. He was able to call me three times this week and I am very thankful even though they were all very short calls. Today I was driving home from school and I had my...
    Ilovemysldier Ilovemysldier 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Does anyone know what the marine recruits can

    keep at boot camp? Are they allowed to keep the piece of paper with addresses on it? I'm worried that my boyfriend won't be able to write letters to my house because he doesn't remember my address.
    vytran499 vytran499 16-17, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Aaaand now he's not coming home in November.

    Let's shoot for my birthday in February.. Woot.
    BurgosGirl BurgosGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Yay for finding out their family weekend is in

    November! :) Is this a for sure thing or do they have to earn it? I think I'm going to get those days off just incase, and luckily I'm a flight attendant so I'll be able to just jump on the plane :) Getting closer to seeing my man!
    proudARMYso proudARMYso 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    So glad my cousin feels like it's his job to

    tell my sister stuff about my boyfriend! Ugh so angry!!!!! It is my job to talk to my family about him and honestly I don't think they need to know his past, the person that does is me!!! It's just really frustrating to hear that my cousin is telling things he heard from his...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Can't stop clock watching!

    ! Only 5 and a half more hours of work and I will be on my way to see my man!!!!
    beckie1206 beckie1206 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    My sailor has only been gone to basic

    since Monday but he already got a phone call today. He called his family... Should I feel mad or hurt? Cause I kind of do even if it's selfish:/
    miaisabella7 miaisabella7 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Listening to my soldier talk about us getting a

    place together next year is so exciting. I can finally be with him and start a whole new life for myself. Eeekk excited is an understatement
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    He's been asleep on video chat

    for about an hour. I cant hang up cuz even having him sleep next to me on the phone makes me feel close to him. I miss my husband so much </3
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    the internet in Qatar is irritating me

    because it won't let me video chat with my boyfriend and hear him at the same time anyone else have had this same problem.
    cfrancisco cfrancisco 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    No mail again. It's been like 5-7 days:( Is it

    maybe because he's changing phases?... Sigh
    thunderberk thunderberk 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    So I have some positive news!

    !!! My interview seems to go well today which really made me happy!!! And I found a way to deal with my issue with a cousin and well that will hopefully resolve itself. But on the most positive note..... Just need to get through tonight and I'll be back in the arms of my love...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 hrs ago

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    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Does anyone have experience with talking to

    your SO's mom; who always seems to be questioning your loyalty & integrity? And you get anxiety over having to deal with her? Help -_-
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I'm so happy I don't have to worry about my

    boyfriends feelings for me changing while he's away. I know he loves me and have no doubts at all. It's the best feeling to know someone cares about you so much and would do anything for you.
    Bethaaanylynn Bethaaanylynn 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Finaaaaaaaally!!! a letter

    after 12 daaaaays!!! lol so exciiiteed and proud of my man! he is almost done juuust 12 daaaaays!! :D
    Yary26 Yary26 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    So, seeing your boyfriend

    for the first time after 3 months makes it so worth it. I can't wait for the graduation tomorrow and then be able to take him home with me! I am so happy.
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    i am so frustrated! I was suppose to go see him

    next weekend, but mister forgot papers on his desk, and now he can't have his weekend for a whole month! To add to everything, he was suppose to have a week off from the 10th to the 19th (9 days, woohoo!) but no, he only gets 3 days... i'm still happy i'll get to see him, but it...
    sabwaitforit sabwaitforit 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    MilSO sisters (n): Women you've never met,

    but who understand you better than anyone else.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Sep 11

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    Ok so hopefully tomorrow I will be seeing my

    man!! But my daughter was not happy about something over last weekend and kicked me really hard and left this bruise!!! What do I do?? Try to cover it up?? Just deal and explain it to him??? I don't want him to think something horrible happened!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Going out with the girls tonight.

    Kinda wish it was with my baby though. Buuuut, I'll be able to go out on Friday nights with him again soon (if December is soon) :)
    tychristene tychristene 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I got back a few days ago from visiting my

    boyfriend who was on leave before he goes over seas here within the next week. It was the best trip I've ever had! I could've just laid next to him and done nothing everyday of the trip, just to be by his side again was enough for me. I just wish the trip was longer :/ I hadn't...
    morgieporgie morgieporgie 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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