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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,634 People

    He's might come to see me this weekend.

    I don't really know because I never really know and he doesn't do well with sticking to plans. The last time he said he was coming his family held him up and he ended up not being able to. I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I just want to see him. I miss him so much. God...
    Theartsmusic Theartsmusic 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    You may remember that I posted earlier about my

    boyfriend who was initially shocked when he discovered that I actually do number two. He was the one whose mom had told him that in girls, number two comes out more like deer pellets in the forest, not so smelly, and kinda neat. Well, anyway, now that he had gotten over the...
    AmyFass AmyFass 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My marine boyfriend just asked me to marry him

    a week ago and I said yes. He leaves back for his base tomorrow. The original plan was to visit him at base so I could get a ring but he got a phone call yesterday saying that he deploys Friday for who knows how long and since I'm not his wife yet I won't get notified if...
    heyitsfelisha heyitsfelisha 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Has any of your boyfriends ever came back

    completely shut out after a two month long training? I don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be supportive but he just doesn't want to talk
    piscil piscil 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    As I was stuck on what to write him,

    my phone blew up with texts from him and all of the words just came to me. I overthink and filter too many things when really, he just needs to know I'm thinking of him and I care about him. A 9 month hiccup.. that is all this will be in the end.
    Elixabeth Elixabeth 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Does anyone have a Glide Account

    and knows the ins and outs of how the app works and what certain things mean? Question: When logging in to glide and clicking on a friend , once in the conversation it says at the very top under their name (example) Lisa 5 hours ago. Does that mean Lisa was on Glide 5 hours ago...
    SemperFiJWII SemperFiJWII 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 27 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I'm still in awe of how amazing he is

    and how much he genuinely cares for me. I was stuck in a tornado warning area at the back of a Target tonight and he stayed on the phone with me the whole time. Even though he really didn't have the time to be talking to me, he never hung up because he wanted to be sure I was...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I'm patiently waiting

    for that first letter from my air force man . What week did some of you girls receive the first letter? I don't have the address so he has to send me the first letter.
    shakursqueen shakursqueen 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    We had a big fight tonight

    and I'm so afraid that it's going to break us. it's 3 am and I just can't sleep. My heart is aching.
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I'm in such denial that my marine won't be home

    for our first anniversary tomorrow :( i don't get bummed out easily when he can't come home but I'm actually really upset. regardless I'm so happy for the girls who have their man home!! have an amazing holiday!!
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Missing my airman. 3 more days

    and he finally gets his phone back!
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    The past week has been awful

    for my and my boyfriend and I. He's being so distant and pushing me away. I talked to him about it and all he had to say is he's not trying to push me away. He also said "I knew the distance was going to be hard but I didn't think it was going to be this hard" so the past few...
    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    12 days until I can kiss my Airman💕💕 I am

    so glad to finally be out of the teens! These 12 days need to fly on by☺️
    NaomiRaee NaomiRaee 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    19 more days. Only 19

    before family day! I am FINALLY in the teens. Thought they'd never come.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Every time I get a letter I do a little happy

    dance :) he really likes boot camp so far and that makes me so happy
    katelynR katelynR 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Don't forget you're human ladies,

    it's okay to have a meltdown, just don't unpack and live there. Cry it out and then refocus on where you are headed.
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    My boyfriend recently keeps talking about

    reenlisting and I didn't want him to because of the overwhelming fear I have that something could happen to him. I never said anything to him. Silently, I would hope he'd change his mind while acting like his cheerleader on the outside. I had this idea that he's safer out in the...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel so alone without him here.

    None of my friends or family understand what I am going through. Everyone just expects me to tough it out and put on a brave face. So that's exactly what I do. When I'm around my friends and family and even working, I put on a brave face. But as soon as I step into my bedroom I...
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi ladies! I need some advice.

    My boyfriend left on Tuesday for basic, however I've already started writing letters. I realize it's gonna be at least two weeks till I hear from him with a mailing address. My question is, when I finally get the address, how should I mail the letters I already wrote to him? I...
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Well scratch those excitement feelings I had

    about an hour ago. I got to germany 30mins ago and he's not here. Why?? Cuz he went out clubbing last night and woke up late smfh. I texted him in Amsterdam and he said he was gonna take a nap and come get me meaning he had just gotten in at 7am. I knew he wasn't gonna make it...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    Leaving Fort Benning today & honestly these

    last 2 days with my solider have been amazing! This time apart has brought us so much closer :) He's at Fort Gordon now for his AIT and that's so much closer to where I'm at. I'm so happy with my life now <3 !
    MGodette MGodette 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Haven't really posted anything anymore

    since my bf is home but I hate how days keep going by so fast he's leaving again in two weeks :( We're definitely enjoying every day we spend together
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend just left

    for basic training in fort Benning on Tuesday. After seeing him everyday for 3 years I don't know how to cope. When should I expect my first letter or phone call?
    corkey101 corkey101 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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