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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,723 People

    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    Today is Tuesday (Eastern time zone)

    so I'm officially at the 10 day countdown mark!!! Or I guess the countdown app has it at like 9 days, 20-something hours but I'm so excited! Sorry, I usually don't make bragging posts but I feel accomplished for so far surviving this separation :)
    meghan1635 meghan1635 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hopefully buying a plane ticket

    and a hotel room this weekend!!! Hard to believe basic is halfway over and in a little over a month I'll be able to see my babe again!
    brennx33 brennx33 16-17, F 1 Response 55 mins ago

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    Seriously missing him

    and he's only been gone one whole day. Miss him smile, his smell, his jokes, his voice and especially his arms. This is tougher than I imagined I want to friggen walk to fort benning and give him the biggest hug :(
    Armymeeg1 Armymeeg1 18-21 4 mins ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancΓ©'s and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    What are some great songs

    that make you feel better through the separation? I have a whole playlist already, but I'd like to add more to it! Missing him like crazy tonight. I got so used to him being home that it's like I almost forgot what it's like to be apart! But I have a go-to playlist to help me...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    it's getting closer and closer to time

    for my boyfriend to leave and I'm trying to stay strong for him but the thought of him leaving makes me want to cry. But I'm very excited to say that I get to go on vacation with him before he leaves.
    CassidyEldridge CassidyEldridge 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I woke up crying & in terrible pain.

    I called him cause he's the first person I thought of... I really just need him here. I haven't seen him in a while....
    WaitingForSailorSims WaitingForSailorSims 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    My boyfriend is at fort benning Georgia

    and I got a letter stating... " The following items are considered as contraband? Please do not send? Any type of food Civilian reading material (except for religious text, i.e. Holy Bible, the Koran, ?) including internet jokes and newspaper clippings Firearms, knives, razors...
    swimmonkey swimmonkey 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    had to say goodbye to him a week ago ); i miss

    him so much... i've already written him lots of letters, can't wait to hear back from him!
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 9 Responses May 13

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    So I have never watched the show,

    but it Army Wives a good show or do people find it unrealistic? What are peoples opinions on it?
    SillyAnna15 SillyAnna15 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Everything is finally starting to piece

    together. After all the stress I've been under, it's nice to finally see the light. I just dropped my classes from nursing school. I now have an appointment to tour a cosmetology school. My family still isn't very happy with my decision, but I'm happy. The only support I've...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I made a video of my soldier in AIT,

    basic and him coming home <3 http://youtu.be/9WcnY2ONVbU
    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    got a call that he arrived a couple days ago

    and he told me he loved me (: seriously made my day
    meowitsiris meowitsiris 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    So I am kinda new at the whole military

    girlfriend thing. My boyfriend just got out of AIT and is now stationed at Fort Stewart, Georgia. He keeps talking about me going down there to go to school, but I just don't know what to do. I would love to be down there with him and be able to see him, but if he gets deployed...
    ecote42 ecote42 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Does anyone ever feel like they're being

    overbearing when they try to talk to their significant other? I'm a first time military girlfriend, and this is the first time that I've been away from my boyfriend for more than a few days. When he was here we never really talked on the phone very much because we were always...
    leelan21 leelan21 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a Navy girlfriend

    but I love the show Army Wives 😍
    WaitingForSailorSims WaitingForSailorSims 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    My boyfriend left to boot camp 5 weeks ago.

    They're no words to explain the mixed emotions I have everyday. Life isn't the same without him. But today I received the most lovey dovey letter that made me fall for him all over again. It really showed me he's doing this for our future, to make sure we are going to be...
    shelli1a shelli1a 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    this week has been so bad

    for me.. on Monday my bf told me he needed to think and he said he feels like we have lost our connection , but to me last week we were soo good ! ft every night and talking but since he went out this weekend he's changed and idk why... he asked me questions like - what do we...
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 12 Responses May 7

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I've been back from Germany about 3wks now

    and in that time we haven't really had a chance to talk. We haven't skyped so I haven't seen his face since then. I work a pretty time consuming job so we only get to talk on my lunch break for an hour and with the time difference that's when he's just getting off of work. That...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    One thing I love about my husband (still

    getting used to the term lol) being in the military is that I get to travel to see him! I have visited him at every base he has been at and soon that will include overseas. 36 days and I get to visit him and see what his life is like over there and meet his friends that will be...
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 7 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Sometimes, it sucks not having any friends

    when he's gone. The girl I thought was my best friend started changing when she found out my boyfriend is a sailor. Sadly, she's a tag chaser and isn't ashamed of it. She says things like"I will only marry a navy seal and if I can't get one of those, I'll settle for any other...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    chavacc11 chavacc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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