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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,491 People

    my bf comes home next month

    and we're both from the same town and most of his friends are going to want to hang out with him but he only has 2 weeks here and I'm trying to fit in 3 days of vacation near the beach and away from everyone else ?? this is going to be hard
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    dmw93 dmw93 18-21, F 10 Responses May 13

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    I get one more weekend with my boyfriend then

    he goes back! His leave is never long enough. I don't no how to feel about all of this. I don't no how to take it? Any advice on how to deal?
    lilstewey lilstewey 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    So I got an envelope in the mail from my

    boyfriend today, which I thought was odd since he's been out of basic for over a month now! Anyway I opened it and saw his name tape and a letter. Pretty much cried before I even got to the letter lol... He wrote and said the name tape was my graduation present. But the rest of...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    My boyfriend is an Army reservist now,

    he was active duty & was in Afghanistan. Yes, i am very happy he came home alive & in one piece!
    MeghanL MeghanL 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Getting major butterflies thinking about how my

    boyfriend comes home in 1 week! :)
    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    So I'm about 5 weeks pregnant

    and having to deal with my boyfriend can sometimes get overwhelming. He snapped at me because he was stressed out and I was an emotional spaz. I'm so scared PTSD is ruining our relationship. He snapped at his own mother because there was way too many people at a birthday party...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Good night, or good morning depending

    where you are :) saw this earlier and really liked it, just thought I'd share .
    Anchoredheart1 Anchoredheart1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    3 months down. 2 more to go

    until I get to see my man. The time is flying by.
    niarafuller niarafuller 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    love going to my bf for advice :)

    although I may be wrong he knows how to make me understand!
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    So I realized why when he goes out

    or does anything it bothers me. It's not the fact that I'm jealous and insecure. But I HATE that we live separate lives. I hate that our lives don't come together everyday like normal couples. I hate knowing that it's not going to be like that soon. And I hate that he can do it...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Help!!!! So I have been with him

    for a little over two years now and he is currently stationed in Korea. We just fought about the idea of him going to a stupid rave "Ultra" in Korea and I told him no and I don't like the idea of him going. Especially with me not around. All they do at raves is do drugs get...
    heydotwhat heydotwhat 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I was just wondering

    if any of you guys soldiers are in BT at Fort Benning right now.. Just out of curiosity lol
    MGodette MGodette 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    so my bf & I aren't big fighters we only had 1

    major fight since we been together but although many people say don't trust him.. I will refuse to listen to them because my man may not always be there right when I need him but that's because he's out there fighting for this country. and that makes me one hell of a proud...
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Today was a good day safe baby

    and spent the afternoon cleaning and doing laundry with my man. No episode today and I randomly became emotional he held me rubbed my belly and didn't stop hugging me until I stopped cry. To many this isn't anything to me it's a big step him being able to handle my random...
    grisy grisy 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Military relationships consist of wanting to

    spend every second together before having to say good bye again. They consist of trusting a higher power to take care of their loved one while they are risking their life for our freedom. Regular relationships consist of getting tired of your loved one because they are always...
    kristina1025 kristina1025 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I graduated school on Tuesday

    as a member of the National Honors Society ! I wish my sailor could have been there but I will see him soon!
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    One month till family day !

    ! I'm so excited :D
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    missyyy18 missyyy18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Hey everyone! So my boy got sworn in today at

    meps! He gets shipped out to bootcamp November 16th! I am going to miss all the holidays with him, but I guess that is something I will have to get use to anyways... Regardless, I am so proud of him and am going to make the next 6 months I have with him the best!
    killlarose killlarose 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    So my bf gets a four day pass this memorial

    weekend but has to stay on base. I get to go visit but what the heck is there to do on base 😆 excited I get to seem and so much happier he is in AIT now!
    brenlarmygf brenlarmygf 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Received another letter from my love!

    ! I miss him so much :(
    nancyyyy nancyyyy 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 10 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    30days till my sailors birthday

    but I'll finally see him 41days from now. It's summer vacation and usually I want time to slow down and the days to last longer at this point. But I reeeeeally don't even care its summer! I've come to realize that I don't look forward to summer anymore. All I look forward to is...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 21 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    JusstJusstinee JusstJusstinee 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    he was supposed to come back today

    and I tried not to get excited but I did and now of course there not coming back today:/
    kristykaz121 kristykaz121 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Today's the day. The day he finally comes home.

    The one that I've waited for for 6 months. After today I'll leave with him. Nervous but excited :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 7 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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