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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,829 People

    I'm home now, and my heart broke a little more

    every mile. I broke down when I got ready for bed and remembered I'll be sleeping alone. And now, I'm crying because I just also realized I'll be waking up without him, too. There won't be any conversation while he's ready to go, no seeing him off, no kiss goodbye before he...
    prettylittleritzy prettylittleritzy 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How do you get threw basic?

    I feel lost without my boyfriend :( what are things to do?
    kayla022 kayla022 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    I decided to tell my mom today

    and she could not have reacted better! She is really supportive of the whole situation and told me "it isn't going to be easy but we can get through this"
    maggs51 maggs51 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Stephen has been at navy bootcamp

    since the 18th and I still haven't received a letter. I got his package with all his clothes in it and it broke my heart to see his phone in there. It's just such a concrete reminder that I won't get to talk to him for so long. I miss him so much and hope that the letters start...
    rachelmdavis rachelmdavis 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so stressed out. My guy is starting his 6th

    week of basic today which means a phone call. Don't get me wrong, I'm excited to hear from him but it's tense with his mom right now. His first phone call was 15mins and he used 10 of it on me and 3 on his mom. I told him that time that he had to call her, cause he wasn't going...
    Stutterdoll Stutterdoll 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a question for anyone

    who can answer it, but does anyone know how leave after AIT works? Do they get it before the report to their duty station or after? I've heard a bunch of different answers and I'm not sure what to plan for. We're supposed to get married when he gets leave but I'm scared he won't...
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    Went to my boyfriends Marching ceremony today!

    I was so proud and happy for him that he is finally going to his dream school. I haven't seen him all summer, except for one weekend. This the longest we have been apart and it's both our first years in university. Today was hard because I only got to see him for 20 minutes and...
    alymess alymess 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I want to marry him, i love him.

    You're so young! Thankyou, i had absolutely no idea.
    fluff2018 fluff2018 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    He completed red phase,

    and I got an hour long phone call. Best day I've had in a long time.
    christinamoen97 christinamoen97 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Okay so my boyfriend came back from basic about

    a month ago and everything's going not so great. When were together he seems perfect, but when we aren't he's distant and just basically the polar opposite. He's a momma's boy now and I barely see him. Idk what to do! I'm fine when I see him but if I don't it's terrible.
    swimmer1115 swimmer1115 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    here's a little quote

    for all the girlfriends Herr c:. "a military life is not know until it is lived. You maybe think you know but you don't until you actually live it. Sometimes its easy and great. other times its depressing and lonely. but only a certain number of ladies can endure what we endure...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So my boyfriend is in his phase two training.

    He came home for the bank holiday weekend and I'm missing him so much now that he's gone. I can't wait to see him again when I travel down to London on the 11th.
    JessicaLouise22 JessicaLouise22 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    even if its barely going to be a week I miss

    him to much...all I want is to talk to him... hear his voice. I was fine until my friend left..now I'm in tears... I miss him so much I need at least a text.. that's all I wish for..and for of all I'm late on that time of the month..
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I got another letter today.

    I've been trying to write everyday but with the mail schedule it's sometimes hard to get them out on time. And he asked me to write one or two letters a day because they help him so much. most of this letter and the letters before are about how much he misses me and everything...
    TaylorT1216 TaylorT1216 18-21, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    It's the end of family day

    and I got the last call. I can't stop crying.
    tiffahnguyen tiffahnguyen 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know if I'm allowed to post in this one

    anymore or if it really applies to me... The last day I was at fort sill visiting him he proposed to me 🙈 and now we're engaged! My friends and his family had hid it from me all weekend and I had no idea it was going to happen!
    katelynR katelynR 18-21, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    So my boyfriend is at AIT now

    and I know he has his phone but he won't talk to me. If I snapchat him, he'll look at him and not send one back or he'll look at my story. He won't even text me but he'll get on Twitter and Snapchat. I don't know what to do. He hasn't even told me that he misses me since he's...
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    Hi fellow military girlfriends!

    I'm sure all of you know the struggle of finding the money to visit your soldiers. I'm currently opening a web store to try and combat this problem for myself. If any of you could help spread the word by following @ProjectPeaches on Twitter and retweeting, that would be...
    cali7598 cali7598 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    After he comes back from basics in October,

    he has exactly one year til he deploys to Africa for 15 months...
    tiffahnguyen tiffahnguyen 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 32 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I hate that I couldn't go,

    but inabilities love the phone privilege he gets.
    tiffahnguyen tiffahnguyen 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    So it's been a while

    since I've been on here but he graduated basic the other day and I got to talk to him for a little bit! He's at AIT now and I'm wondering if anyone knows how often they get their phones? I know absolutely nothing about AIT and any information would be wonderful!
    marebear98 marebear98 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    AnaValencia AnaValencia 16-17, F 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    So what would of been him coming home in 7 days

    after waiting over 3 months has now been taken away. Yes it's for a good cause but still can't hide the disappointment. I just want my marine home :(
    jadehay90 jadehay90 22-25, F