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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,751 People

    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Good night everyone..

    One more day closer to seeing our babies.
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    A month from today I'll be in California to see

    my boyfriend. I don't think I have ever been so proud and excited in my life. I know it's just the beginning of a loong road but he's worth it. (:
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Those nights where you get only 5 hours

    or less of sleep because you just lay awake thinking of your solider and can't sleep at all. I miss him so much! I hope these next 3 months go by fast!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Well my boyfriend gets to go to all these fun

    places while he's working for the Air National Guard (Hawaii, New Zealand, Greenland, and Iceland), so I figured it was my turn! I booked an all inclusive groupon to St. Maarten, and leave next week! I can't wait to scuba dive, swim with the dolphins, and get a message! Make...
    ohlaurax ohlaurax 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    16 days until I am in my soldiers

    and considering my week that sounds like a dream. I had my first car wreck yesterday everyone was okay but I just wish I could call my soldier and have him comfort me! I miss him so much! I hated having to tell him about my wreck in a letter but I couldn't lie to him and I know...
    Paigebrianne0 Paigebrianne0 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Today has been tough,

    every time I talk about him to any one I start crying and try to stop myself. Time needs to start moving.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 30 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    16 days until his graduation !

    ! Beyond excited :)
    Armygirltiger149 Armygirltiger149 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Military vs Civilian Relationships: It has

    been 81 days since my boyfriend has left home. He is 2,500 miles away. In 72 days I received less than 3 phone calls each 10minutes of talking on the phone, and 25 letters. I wrote 65 letters, every day while he was at Boot Camp til the day before I was in his arms once again...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Been holding back tears all day.

    Was suppose to see him today so we'd be able to say goodbye to each other only to have that changed yet again. And every time i start to think of him I want to cry. This begins a long journey that I know will have a happy ending. Just want my love to come home safely!!!
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    30 days 10 hours and 24 minutes

    until i go see my bf!! aaaah I am super excited! I have a feeling this month will fly by!!
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    4 weeks down, 4 weeks to go!

    !! I can't wait to be in his arms again<3
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I am having a REALLY hard time leaving

    for college in a couple days. This will be my first year and I'm going to miss my family so much. Also I'm just so worried because my family and home have kept me happy while my boyfriend has been gone. I still feel completely connected because everything is familar. I'm scared...
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend of 1 year

    and almost 5 months is being deployed for the first time in September. I am constantly wanting to talk to him as his deployment gets closer because I know we won't be able to talk much when he is overseas. Several times recently he get frustrated because I'm clingy. i have...
    Leximarie12 Leximarie12 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Got this in the mail today.

    He said since he couldnt buy me flowers for our year and a half that this is as close as he could get. I think this is equally as great as a dozen real flowers. I love this sweet boy! 13 more weeks!
    GRose18 GRose18 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    So does anyone know if White phase in basic

    training gives a lot more freedom for them to like call home and such?? I mean he can already call me but I just hope we can talk longer and he can write more!!
    camusser camusser 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just came home from my trip to Chicago!

    It was a great experience to spend time with his family and also to see his graduation. But seeing him and spending a couple hours with him was by far the best thing that has happened during the trip. (Well duh that's why I went! Lol) When he first walked out of the building for...
    afeli15 afeli15 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I need advice. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend

    in a week. I know that doesn't seem like a long time for most people, but since we started dating this is the longest time we've been without communication. I know he can't call, but I just want to hear from others how you deal with long periods of time with no contact. This is...
    lougirl88 lougirl88 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok so this has nothing to do with my man

    or the military in general but I have to speak my mind. First off to all of you who have provide kind encouraging words to me while I go through things with my man I thank you from the bottom if my heart. You are all amazing and we all need that support. Second, I have noticed a...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Lol this reminds me so much of "the little boy".

    Well have a good day loves :)
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 1 Response Jul 27

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    I don't get it. Hes been gone

    since the week after New Years, that's 8 months, 8 mths of being on my own and it wasn't easy but I survived. He came home for 2 weeks, he's been at his station in germany for a week now and I haven't slept since he left. I don't understand why I'm taking this so hard. Shouldn't...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is in his third week of OSUT

    and I've only gotten one letter so far. But today I found out that my brother got arrested for murder and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. My bf is the one person I want to talk to about this but I know my letters are supposed to be happy and motivating so I can't tell...
    armygf916 armygf916 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I an NO longer a Marine Corp GF.

    It's a sad situation, but as I had said.. He had been shutting me out. I was in a VERY SERIOUS CAR ACCIDENT. It left me in a wheelchair. By the grace of God, it's temporary, he ended the relationship. Within 2 weeks of my accident.. I wasn't released from hospital yet!!! Proud...
    flutterby0913 flutterby0913 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been in boot camp

    for about three weeks now. Still no letter. We found out the date of his graduation and now his mother is trying to guilt me into giving up my ticket so his little sister can go.
    Kadijo Kadijo 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    ZKarina ZKarina 18-21, F 4 Responses May 29

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Military Girlfriend

    I stumbled upon a poem today that really seemed to hit home. I just wanted to share it you all as I know most of you can relate. You don't know. But im the girl who cries every morning.  In hopes every night for his safe return home.  I'm the girl who drags herself out of bed...
    PaigeMarie PaigeMarie 18-21, F 22 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Vous Etes Belle http://www.

    missguidedus.com/catalog/product/view/id/123679/s/borislava-floral-open-back-playsuit/category/528/ What about this for family day? I'm also going to wear a maxi length kimono over it & so thigh high gladiator sandals
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am so proud to be dating a soldier ❤️

    Ladies, i just want to say I'm proud of all of you for standing by your men. Now being military girlfriends we ALL know this is probably one of the hardest things to do but if you can be woman enough to stand by a man through all his hardships I respect you like no other. It man...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    So my better half is in Nellis AFB

    which is great! It's only a 45 min flight from California! Although it's expensive it's all worth it. We have an amazing time, who wouldn't it's Vegas! When's he's there I try and visit his family once a week just to hang out. Does anyone else feel like they have to do this or...
    Hannahhlouiise Hannahhlouiise 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    It bothers me when people think

    that just because you're with someone in the military it won't "work out" because you're going to cheat. Who says that? Like really?! That really gets me mad.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    What is up with all these spammers on this page?

    I've been reporting all of them.
    kjw2893 kjw2893 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I read a post on here today stating

    that today is national military spouse appreciation day. I want to take the time to recognize the girlfriends and maybe boyfriends of our service members. While a spouse has a hard job, a girlfriend's job is just as hard and important. After all, a girlfriend is just a military...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I am having a hard time with negative thought.

    My man recently left for Georgia two weeks ago and it is really hard for me. We were together all the time and now it feels like I lost someone…I have a lot of questions and concerns and I was just gonna see if someone could help ease some of them. I have read a lot of sights...
    ebynum ebynum 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So my better half is in Nellis AFB

    which is great! It's only a 45 min flight from California! Although it's expensive it's all worth it. We have an amazing time, who wouldn't it's Vegas! When's he's there I try and visit his family once a week just to hang out. Does anyone else feel like they have to do this or...
    Hannahhlouiise Hannahhlouiise 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Tomorrow will be one week

    since I've seen my SO, and although I've been doing really well, there is just this massive empty space.. I feel like I'm so lost.. So incomplete.. Especially at night when I'm so used to having him next to me. I just look forward to getting my first letter from him. How long...
    BreatheBeauty BreatheBeauty 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 25 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    "Distance is not for the fearful it's

    for the BOLD, for those willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those who know a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 18-21, F Jan 24

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Distance does to love,

    what wind does to fire. Extinguishes the weak, and fuels the strong. 💕 Stay strong ladies.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    One month from today I'll be in his arms again!

    !!:) I'm so happy! It seems so far buy hopefully it will fly by:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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