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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 5,836 People

    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    My boyfriend's parents just got a letter in the

    mail saying my boyfriend's graduation is actually a week earlier than it wa originally told to us.. So while I haven't gotten any letters since last Thursday this news helps brighten my day. Only 28 more until I will see him and feel him in my arms again.
    TaylorT1216 TaylorT1216 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    My fiance is the best.

    I was stressing really bad about my economics test tomorrow and he called me and went through my entire review packet with me and explained the things I didn't understand. I swear he should've stayed and gone to college with me. He's too smart to not be in college. However, I...
    LovelyThing2k12 LovelyThing2k12 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    BOOKED MY TICKET TO GERMANY!

    ! I'll be there for 3wks. Booked our "Birthmas" trip (Birthday + christmas since my soldier's bday is on christmas eve) 8 days, 3 countries- Dublin, Paris and London then back to germany. Christmas in Paris, New Years in germany. 4mths since I've seen that face. Not since the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2014

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    "Give me the greatness

    if heart to see, the difference between duty and his love for me. Give me the understanding so I may know. when duty calls him he must go give me a task to do each day Te fill the time when he's away when he is in a foreign land keep him safe if your loving hand and lord when...
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    selenaknichel selenaknichel 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    Off to London next friday to meet up with my

    soldier and we're spending the weekend together! Can't wait to see him and be in his arms!
    JessicaLouise22 JessicaLouise22 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-17, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    Quick question ladies!

    My boyfriends graduating BCT in a week, but I haven't received any mail in about a week and a half. Did anyone else experience this with their boyfriend? Feedback would be very appreciated, getting kind of nervous/anxious
    zeekays zeekays 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can finally say this!

    !!! After 7 months apart and numerous texts back and forth and 1 Skype date, my man is home!!!!! I should be seeing him this weekend and I can't wait to wrap my arms around him. I can officially say we survived deployment number 2 and we are so much strong because of it.
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 16 Responses May 12

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    Sooooo been reading a lot on here about

    soldiers not contacting their girls and it hurting feelings. Just wanted to address how I see it. I went through a man who went through bootcamp, stationing in another country, and two deployments and I never felt like he contacted me enough. Now my soldier contacts me as much...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    How do you keep from breaking the **** down?

    Sorry for the cursing I just had to let it out.
    armygf227 armygf227 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I haven't been on here in

    such a long time but two weeks until I get to be with my bestfriend! Lately, I've been feeling like he's fallen more and more in love with me. It's weird, absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder. We've had a few little issues mainly because of me but it's so great that...
    ddg96 ddg96 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Any girls that have a man going

    for special forces in the army or already in special forces please message me!! I need some important questions answered. thank you!
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    swimmonkey swimmonkey 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Soooo idk if any of you know my story

    but I'm going to put it out there. This is my second military relationship. The first lasted about two years and he was a marine. He stopped talking to me two days before he left for bootcamp. Never got a letter the three months he was gone then one day got a text "I'm home" I...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    It's been a crazy few weeks.

    He came back and worked then we had our wedding a week ago and have spent the past week on our honeymoon. God must be on our side because everything went so smooth with the military. A few of you asked for pictures and I only have one but I love it. Wish you were all there...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25, F 10 Responses Nov 24, 2014

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    The day my boyfriend left

    for boot camp I joined this site. I've been on here for a month now, so not very long. I have meet some really great girls since I've joined this page. Whether they are girlfriends, fiancés, or wives they have been very supportive and always there to give advice or just to...
    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 28 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I am a military GIRLFRIEND.

    I know well that I am on the bottom of the chain. However, I committed myself to a military man, knowing exactly what I was getting myself into. It sucks sometimes to rely on immediate family for answers. I am not a dependent and hold a military I.D. card. I'm just the...
    ashleywarren96 ashleywarren96 18-21, F 11 Responses May 7

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    I would really like to have someone to talk to,

    someone who understands what I'm going through.
    JessicaLouise22 JessicaLouise22 18-21, F 8 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Thank goodness I saved all his voicemails.

    its nice to hear his voice and remember what he sounds like when i dont hear from him in a while
    asoldiersgirl2012 asoldiersgirl2012 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm a little to excited

    that there is only 101 days left.. and I'll be even more excited when it reaches "90" days.. it might seem like a long way to go but I feel like as soon as it passes the 100 day mark days will fly by
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    hello! so my boyfriend left

    for Army basics yesterday and I was wondering what the graduation process is like ? ( getting a little ahead of myself I know :P) He mentioned something before leaving about how he wanted me to come with his mom. from what I've heard from other people is that they graduate and...
    kelseymacaroni kelseymacaroni 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 15 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Emm333 Emm333 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 7

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    The husband is going to Rome tonight with his

    battles for labor day weekend. I'm so damn jealous! lol Italy is such a romantic country and hes going with his battles and I'm stuck over here at home in NYC, booooo!! He doesn't even sound excited to go ugh, jealous! The good news is in 16 days I'll be heading to Germany to...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    a few more days until I finally receive a

    letter from him /. I miss him so much
    etrigo etrigo 16-17, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Ladies I'm glad to have my vet home

    but I know the feelings all to well and if yall need some help, feel free to message me .... Stay proud , loyal , supportive and most of all understanding... Be informed about the help around to cope with the difficult times😄
    melph melph 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Off to the post office to send him a box of

    goodies for the week. This might be one of my favorite parts of being a military girlfriend :)
    mw318 mw318 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    is it possible that they can be deploy without

    leave first??..idk what to think anymore..im so stressed lately and feeling so down )):
    ber9904 ber9904 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is it weird that I'm upset over the fact

    that my boyfriend misses his best friend way more than he ever missed me?
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Did anyone on here get married to their man

    young? Like 18-20? Im only 17 and I'm still in high school, but I know if me an my Marine stay together (it's been 2 years already) I'll be getting married and moving with him very young. I know I still have a while to go and I would do anything to be closer to him but it's...
    semperfigirlfriendxo semperfigirlfriendxo 16-17, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Had the most amazing surprise last night ever!

    I was at home watching TV and I got a text from my boyfriend saying come outside your house and he was there!!!! Ahh!! He's home 2 days early and he didn't even tell me, I looked like **** but I was so happy to see him! Aw I love him so much
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    My boyfriend leaves for boot camp Sept.

    29th to Ft. Benning. Anyone else?
    tdggirl20 tdggirl20 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I got to talk to him

    for literally 40 seconds! He called to give his address. He was in a hurry so he was rushing me and I don't think I got it right, and he was kind of yelling at me the whole time, but it was so nice to get that call. This is a lot harder than I thought it would be. I miss him so...
    danceislyfe16 danceislyfe16 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 35 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    OH MY GOD. SO. I was all excited yesterday to

    skype my marine last night because he hadn't skyped in forever. awhile ago our group of friends had a falling out and we hadn't talked to eachother in months specifically his bet friend Branden. he told me Branden would be Bringing over my Valentine's Day gift which as...
    elliecrow elliecrow 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 14