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I Am a Military Girlfriend

this is a group for military girlfriends, the ones who dont have the rings, and are denided in to groups because of that. 4,917 People

    Found This Online! It Is So True! (you Know You're A Military Gf When...)

    You know you are a Military Girlfriend/Wife when..1. You don't mind a phone call waking you up at 4 a.m.2. You tell people that ask that he's 'only' been gone a month.3. The smallest contact (short email or 2 minute phone call) from your man makes your entire week!4. You cry over...
    rowergurl rowergurl 18-21, F 31 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    In a military relationship,

    getting married or engaged at a young age is normal. Because to us we probably don't have forever, but we have right now. So we take it, and appreciate it. That's why we decided to grow up faster and be the spouse of someone in the military. We chose to put things aside for our...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    Begin the countdowns.

    24 till you're in touching distance. 40 till we share the same last name.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Oct 7

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    Just have to go to sleep

    and when I wake up I will be getting ready for my flight to watch my bf graduate! So excited! :) so happy this day has finally come! Hope all you ladies are having a wonderful night!
    Junygirl Junygirl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I needed you & you weren't

    even there. That is all.
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Went to Whole Foods to go grocery shopping

    and found the best card for my boyfriend. Never, never, never give up and on the inside it's blank. I can't wait to send it! It's perfect for boot camp.
    henryashley henryashley 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    34 more days until I see my best friend/love of

    my life! It's the first time in the 4 years that we've been together that we've been apart so it's been very hard. But I know this will only make us stronger & all this is for us to have a better future! I just need to stay positive.
    atadas12 atadas12 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When girls talk about having to go ONE WHOLE

    WEEK without seeing their husband or boyfriend, I'm just like "please shut your mouth." Girls that aren't milsos just have no clue at all.
    juliemargaret juliemargaret 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Dear girls who can drive five minutes to their

    significant other and not spend over 500 dollars on a fight to maybe see him for a Few hours on the weekend: Understand how truly blessed you are. Sincerely all military girlfriends, fiancé's and wives who are not anywhere close to who their hearts desire.
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I've realized that these irrational

    and bipolar emotions are all apart of being a military significant other. One minute you love him & you're happy, the next you're asking yourself what the hell am I doing then he says something that reminds you why you're doing this & why it's all worth it. But a few moments...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 27

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    Not everyone is fit to be a girlfriend of a

    Military Man, whether he be at boot camp, AIT, deployment, or training. But you must choose to let them go in the beginning or be by their side from the beginning to the end. The truth is no one is ready to take on this life, but for those that stick by them til the end it is...
    mrsgallegos mrsgallegos 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm Proud of Y'all...

    Well, obviously I'm not a girlfriend (being a guy and all that) but I'd just like to say to all of you that as a veteran, I'm proud of you all for your love and commitment to our men in uniform. As one who was once deployed for two tours in a very nasty little war, I salute both...
    kapital kapital 61-65 23 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Last night I was freaking out

    because i missed him so much! And now i really miss him :(
    Dilks531 Dilks531 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

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    I'd like to consider myself a pretty cool

    person, friendly and such and totes rational and most certainly have a thick skin. Im a sorority girl ive seen catfights out the ***. Most of the "attacks" on here I'm able to laugh off and see the bigger picture but seriously tho what's with all the attacks lately? For all the...
    BelleBun93 BelleBun93 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    2 soldiers close to my boyfriend's base got hit

    and run yesterday, and one of them died.. he was around 54. Today I was at the gym and on the news they said the parliament building was attacked and another soldier was shot and killed.. he was 24. My condolences go out to their families... This whole Isis terrorist ideologie...
    Juli4 Juli4 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok so I need to get my feelings out

    and that's what I'm gonna do. Babe~ I love you so much!! There isn't a day that goes by that you aren't my first though in the morning and my last thought before I fall to sleep. I stand behind you every step of the way. You are my everything. I honestly don't know what I...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    My amazing military champagne glasses I

    received today :') I'm so in love with them.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Baby is HOME!!!! 😁😁😁 oh my gosh

    after 9 long months , my baby came home to me. I'm having the time of my life and wouldn't change a piece of it. He's my world, my everything. Everything we do excites me. The first night he came home I was in the shower & I came out, he was on the bed. My whole heart dropped...
    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 9

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    I loved you before the uniform

    and I'll love you after. before the dog tags and combat boots. before the sleepless nights and unwanted tears. We've been through it all. To be where we are today are worth those homecoming kisses because true love conquers all.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Thank you again to everyone

    who supported me when I was attacked for my post. I hope you all know how awesome you are! It really upsets me to see any of you talked down to, because you all amaze me with your strength and sacrifice. You're all truly the best and I adore you!
    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    While being in a military relationship can be

    really rough sometimes how many girls can say the guy they've been dating for two years still give them butterflies just with a text? Hang in there ladiea! (:
    NicoleBrand NicoleBrand 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So I was trying to find a way to calm myself

    today and I discovered Incense is calming to me. I was freaking out today, today being my Fiancé's last day of reception. And I laid in bed after lighting some incense and I feel a lot better. I decided to start reading a book and my head became clear... Hope this works until...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have decided to come off EP mainly due to

    whereabouts i live as it could put me and my man at high risk with past trouble that had happen over here and secondly because most of your men are in the US army and mine is the British army as i feel that i cannot relate to most of you because of how they both run differently...
    FeeOhNa FeeOhNa 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Ladies I am doing alittle better,

    things are straightening back out and I am slowly coming back to you. I am gonna say this now that at times things I will say may sound harsh but I'm no longer gonna sugar coat anything. Not to be rude or offend anyone but that is how I feel it needs to be. As well as I will not...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F Sep 26

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    Sorry I haven't been there

    for you ladies like I normally am. I've had a lot happen this week, between getting a hold of my man and starting a new job as well as taking care of my kids my time has been alittle more limited. Please bear with me those all these changes become my new norm
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I said yes!!!! Omg I still can't believe I just

    got engaged to my airman yesterday! I love him so much he did a great job! It still hasn't kicked in that this happened :D
    Kails13 Kails13 22-25 16 Responses Oct 10

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    With my faith in God I think I have been shown

    that I shouldn't give up on me and him. "Do not be afraid" JPII
    poreoticz poreoticz 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl

    "Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    AFWife318 AFWife318 18-21, F 26 Responses Nov 17, 2011

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead we wake up to an empty side of the bed, we check our phones every seconds hoping for that 5 minute phone call or three word text, we break down and cry when we miss him, we force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than...
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Nite Babe

    I wake up every morning and check my phone looking for a text message or hoping I didn't miss a random call. There's normally nothing. I go through my day working in a daycare practically on my own with nine screaming kids but I try to stay positive about it. The whole day I keep...
    mireya7 mireya7 18-21, F 36 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    as its seems to be posted below i strongly

    encourage you girls to post as little info as possible about your men or women on social media, i have recently removed any pictures i have of my boyfriend in uniform from my Facebook and any post or comments identifying him as a soldier i suggest we all take keeping our...
    Armygirl2012 Armygirl2012 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I really miss him. It really is a hopeless

    feeling to not be able to talk to the only person who can make it better. I hope I can here from him really soon! I just hope he know how proud I am of him and how much I love him. (which he should because I write him every day and tell him that repeatedly haha) Well I hope he...
    ilovemysoldier96 ilovemysoldier96 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I can already tell that next week is going to

    be a great week. I just got called for an interview on Monday (at my husbands duty station), and my hubby FINALLY comes home next Wednesday after his orders being changed multiple times. For those of you who don't know my story, I moved in to our apartment at our first duty...
    Lovepvtscott Lovepvtscott 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Nobodysdaughter10 Nobodysdaughter10 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I just want to text him,

    but then I realize he won't get it. 57 days till I'm with my best friend again.
    nls91613 nls91613 22-25, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Guys I dream about him like 4/5 times a week.

    Sometimes it's a little upsetting, other times it's normal. The thing about it is that I feel like I'm fine. I don't worry although I do miss him and the thought of him makes me happy. Idk why my brain is doing this to me, I really need to figure myself out :(
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F 18 mins ago

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    For all the girls worried about their men

    changing during bootcamp, they don't! Mine didn't, he was the same goofy loving man he was before he left. If anything he's more sentimental and caring.
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    I am not a Military Girlfriend; I'm a girl in

    the military. This is a message to all of you military girlfriends. I'm deployed right now, I go days and months without being able to get to a phone, just being in the field. Not able to write or email or anything. When we're deployed it's like time stops, and everyone back...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 8

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    Since my boyfriend has been waiting to get

    paperwork filed to leave, he's been taking his phone to text me. Weird enough, I woke up an hour earlier than I usually do and then he randomly texted me! I wish I knew what it was like where he was at. We were texting and then it just stopped. I really hope he is just doing...
    Courtmk Courtmk 18-21, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    You know you're a military girlfriend

    when you want to punch every happy couple in the face that walks past you.
    lynnnic0le lynnnic0le 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    Days are weird. They don’t always make sense.

    One filled with inconsolable sobbing, followed by the next with unexplainable happiness. It sucks. It’s hard. It’s a constant whirlwind of emotions, many which you never knew existed. Every time you think things are about to even out, you wake up in tears; you roll over and...
    ProudArmyFiance13 ProudArmyFiance13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    He gets to come home

    for almost a month! A MONTH! That means our wedding doesn't have to be rescheduled. That means we can spend thanks giving here! That means he will be home and with me for a month!!!! Ahhh I'm so happy :)
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 9 Responses Sep 28

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    Honestly, I'm so glad

    that I found this site and found all these girls who understand how I feel and how much it sucks. It's kinda of sad because none of my friends get me and how sad I am.. So I'm so thankful for the girls I've met. It's really helped me soo much.
    atadas12 atadas12 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    ... My soldier just snuck a text to me a few

    hours ago saying he wanted to come home:(...
    MySoldierMyLove MySoldierMyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know you're in love with a military man

    when..... You make friends with strangers online because they're the only ones who can relate.
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I JUST GOT A PHONE CALL!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He told me he loves me for the first time!!!!! I said it back!!!!! Oh my gosh I'm crying and shaking and so incredibly happy. This was his first contact and all my doubts just went away. I love him so much.
    PropertyOfASoldier PropertyOfASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    give me the strength to carry on

    when all is dark & hope is gone ?
    goose25 goose25 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    My Life as a Military Girlfriend

    I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be. I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card, I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers, and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition for news. I understand...
    NoPeace NoPeace 16-18, F 93 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    My relationship has been

    so perfect lately. :') can't believe in a month I'll be with my love counting down the final days before marriage. It's so close! I'm so excited!!!
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I've gone through a lot this week.

    Along with some really big life changes. I decided yesterday it was time to just be happy. I'm happy because my man has decided to support me in everything. I'm happy because I found a man who loves me unconditionally. I'm happy because I have him and I don't need anyone else...
    amcgarity amcgarity 22-25 8 Responses Oct 3

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