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I Am a Mother , Since I Was 16

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    No One Thought I Could Do It, I Proved Them Wrong

    I always felt unloved and unnoticed.  My family was not affectionate at all.  We didn't hug or kiss or even touch really and i rarely heard "I love you".  I now know that my parents are wonderful people and that they love me but they really didn't show it.  I needed it! I...
    fr0ggy fr0ggy 26-30, F 35 Responses Jun 17, 2009

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    Life As It Is

    my son will be 20 this year and i have to say he is the best thing ive done in life, so now that hes grown up i enrolled on a college course . i am married but no longer live with my husband as we where having problems but we are working on it. and the good think is he gets...
    misunderstoodgirl misunderstoodgirl 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2009

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    From A Single Teen Mom To College Student And Loving It!!

    I met my ex/ son's father when I was 15 at our freshman assembly on the 1st day of high school. He was not a freshman in fact he was a senior and 18. He was in the gym because he was in his weight lifting class. Anyways, I immediately told my friend I thought he was cute so I...
    SexyDiva19 SexyDiva19 18-21 6 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    Not Been Easy, But So Proud!!

    I met someone when i had just turned 16 and was pregnant a month later. I didnt really believe it at first as i was so young. I thought about abortion but i could not bring myself to do it. I continued with the pregnancy and was in my last year in school. I sat my exams at 7...
    heg83 heg83 26-30 1 Response Aug 5, 2011

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    I Rock Out To My Favorite Radio Station

    I noticed I am a lot younger than most parents in the neighborhood that have a 9 year old child like I do. Its a small isolated community though my son's school has only 20 students. It's kinda funny how the other parents look at me in the morning when i take my boy to the bus...
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    My Mother, simply put, is the meanest, angriest, most unpleasant person I know. She is a mentally ill psychotic, a tyrant, and a bully all rolled into one. My parents split up when...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    My mother was never physically abusive, but she certainly emotionally abused and neglected us. If I would write down everything that she did, then I would have one unbelievable...
    LostMittens LostMittens 31-35, F Jul 14

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    She was a wonderful mother. I will not lie and say she mistreated me,though she had every right to. My birth came as a result of her rape by a White man(she's Korean) and I was...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Its been 4 years & not one day since then do I not think of her or look at the picture of her. I was 13, just starting my 8th grade year when the woman I love the most was taking...
    causeitaintevereasy causeitaintevereasy 16-17, F Jun 30

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    I started reading every ones story and I was shocked at how much in common are stories are. I used to be so ashamed of my mother's illness and kept it a secret. As mom got older...
    pamq pamq 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I am my mother's only living child and the summer I turned 12 she needed a complete hysterectomy like yesterday. She had been putting it off for several years and couldn't wait...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 20

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    This is the second time I have dreamed that my mother died. My mother is alive. The first time I dreamed my mother die was maybe 10 years ago and it's been so long ago that I don't...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I have been going through a tough in the past couple years I'm also recovering from reconstructive surgery on my knee I'm not 100 percent and she used to helped me out she doesnt...
    Robyned Robyned 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Have you guys heard of the bralette, the kind that I have on it is a little see thru, and there is no under wire at all for shape, but I do sleep in it at times, it is very...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 10

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    It's been just three months since I lost her and I feel that the pain will never lessen. Especially since she won't be there for advice when I have children or be there to help me...
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I am a Mother... I am the proud, loving mother of my daughter who is now 16! I can't believe how fast the time goes! She is the most amazing, sweet, caring, super smart, beautiful...
    sandybeaches4me sandybeaches4me 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    The topic for this post should be endless. I'm being forced into motherhood to a baby I didn't give birth to. My 18 year old sister that lives in a women's home gave birth to a...
    lovecooled lovecooled 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    When I was 24 years old I married with my childhood friend. Getting married is not easy for us. Both parents didn't agreed with us. But in the end both parties agreed to make us...
    Redrose28 Redrose28 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am not even married yet to my fiancé but his mother is already driving a wedge between us. We both work very hard to make ends meet. We live in expensive area and have a small...
    jlathomas jlathomas 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Ok, so this happened to me in the past. A boy at school held my right arm and told his friend to hold my left arm and told his other friend '' To rape me and hold my private''. I...
    Rafeerahman Rafeerahman 13-15, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Ok, so this happened to me in the past. A boy at school held my right arm and told his friend to hold my left arm and told his other friend '' To rape me and hold my private''. I...
    Rafeerahman Rafeerahman 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    Its true... I am a mother... to the most amazing 5 yr old on the planet... does that sound a little biased...?? LOL he is beautiful, smart, talented and the absolute love of my...
    miramira32 miramira32 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It all started when I was working at Shoneys. I was talking to one of my co-workers, Cheri, who later became a good friend of mine. I can't remember what exactly was said but she...
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    2 years ago, when I was 18, I was raped by a male coworker. I was heavily intoxicated, half passed out on my couch, and I had just been dumped a few hours before that. He texted me...
    kishatatme kishatatme 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    My ex boyfriend proposed to me a couple weeks before Christmas. He was 20 and I was 19 at the time, and we'd been together for 2 and a half years. We broke up in March the next...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 23 hrs ago

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    Both parents have an extremely important part to play in our lives, raising us but also shaping us into people. Mothers and fathers can be responsible for our mental state and the...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Hate is a strong word. I would say I dislike her as a person, but probably love her in someway. I find the way she freaks at tv characters during shows or movies. Yelling at them...
    merrygentry merrygentry 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    "Mommy." My sleepy eight year old said. "What,baby boy?" I answered. "I love you, Mommy. I want to be with you always. Why can't I stay,Mommy?" He said. He had asked that same...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    UGH SHE TELLS ME THAT I'M ******* SELFISH REALLY?!?!?!? ARE YOU SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?!?!?HOW I'M I SELFISH; I AM LEGIT PERFECT CHILD, I NEVER GOT IN TROUBLE, HAVE PERFECT GRADES IN...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Better Not To Know-A few years ago I had the option to know my birth parents identities,in 2011, to be exact. I turned 21 that October,but not quite yet. My sister was 19. Mama,our...
    IsaacofCalgary IsaacofCalgary 22-25, M Jul 18

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    I think when I was about nine or ten years old, I realized my mother was doing drugs. When you're a little kid, that is definitely a big deal, and with everything being shoved down...
    OldAbandoned10 OldAbandoned10 22-25, F Jun 30

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    Hi all. I am new here and for the last 3 years my mil has been a nightmare! From day one she has been telling my fiancé ridiculous things about me. She tries to convince him that...
    areyna88 areyna88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I will not rant or moan and I no longer hate my mother as much as I use to,but I hope I NEVER see her again and haven't since the last time I went before a judge aged 10 and her...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Honestly, I don't remember a whole lot about my mother. I lived with my grandparents ever since I was a baby so I didn't spend a whole lot of time with my parents. I do remember...
    roseblossom90 roseblossom90 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My parents are divorced. I was still very little so I've always remembered my parents being separated. I loved my father very very much. (I'm speaking in past tense because he...
    Riarza Riarza 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I heard in the news about an abortion clinic being sued because the man was older than 21 and I think in this case he was the step dad. The girl was younger than 16. In my case , I...
    Feelingfunny Feelingfunny 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    With a mother like mine,who needs a man? Typical conversation with my mother, Me:"Mommy" Her: "Yes,son?" Me:"Mommy." Her: "What-eeee?" Me:"Don't sound so exasperated! Don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 30

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    I have always thought my mother is selfish. I am 23 years old and I am still being treated like an eighth grader who is still fighting for his independence. Most of the times, I...
    wirrywoo wirrywoo 22-25, M Jul 4

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    It's been almost one month since my mother died of pancreatic cancer. Cancer killed her slowly since she was diagnosed nearly 3 years ago. I'm not a religious person and I don't...
    orientador orientador 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    My experience is one that both came as a shock, and in some weird way, a confirmation of the fears I've always had regarding my parents and their conditional love of me. I've...
    Kaleesto Kaleesto 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello there! I'm writing almost as it's happening. I discovered the term NM, recently, and since then, I have been gathering information on how to act in order to 1st, stay sane...
    alinie alinie 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Hi everyone, I would really appreciate your advice or kind words! Here's a little background on my story: I'm 21 years old and I've lived on my own since I was 17. I'm going into...
    hylouie hylouie 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Since the day I met my gf I am very attracted to her mother. Her mother seems liked me more. She said she loves me for her daughter. My gf mother is really pretty. She has love and...
    shadowrecruit0027 shadowrecruit0027 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    This will be my most personal story. It's not just about me, but I figured I should put everything in one place. This will be long, so anyone who actually wants to take the time to...
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    have briefly read some of the stories around this topic and I feel only some have merit as some are clearly petty and a joke! However I will tell all why I hate this f#cking c#nt...
    sayitlikeitis101 sayitlikeitis101 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I really feel really alone lately. I have a mental disorder. BPD- Borderline Personality Disorder. I know this definitely stemmed from being sexually molested as a very little...
    PastelJewelpet PastelJewelpet 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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