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I Am A Mother Before Anything

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    A Mommy First

    My son is the most important person in my life he comes first.
    UnforgettableEyes UnforgettableEyes 22-25, F Apr 14, 2011

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    no one or no thing will ever take their place.

    i can't stand when guys act jealous of them. that's when i am like **** you, you're gone!
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2015

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    Sometimes I Get So Busy, That I Forget The Little Things. And Then I Hear A Voice Saying "Watch Me Mama"!

    See me when my eyes light with pride, when I give you a gift I have made myself. See me when I look at you as you're reading me a book. See me try to understand when you take the time to explain things to me. See me melt when you use a funny voice to coax a grin out of me when I...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    If there is any accomplishment

    that I would like to be known for in my life is that I have done a good job as a mother. My children's interests and needs come first before anything else. I love my children and I will do anything to make their lives better even if it means making sacrifices.
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F Aug 25, 2014

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    I found this wonderful link

    for all mothers everywhere, and the children too! I haven't yet but I think I will print it out, frame it, and hang it above my desk to remind me that everything I do, or DON'T do, MATTERS to my children. 
    JustJeni JustJeni 46-50, F 7 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    My Kids=My World

    I have been fortunate enough to stay home with and for my children as they are growing up.... I am always here for them, in good times and bad, and am so very proud of the kind, caring individuals they are becoming.
    lifesinlimbo lifesinlimbo 51-55, F Oct 21, 2013

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    I Made A Difference After Years

    Thirty five days of Summer school break is at long last facing it's final draw.Five days more and back to school, and kids would be dragging their own stories on how the Summer has been to each.And this year has been the same with all the Summer breaks we've had. Heat and...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2012

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    I love my daughter more

    than anything, and I will do whatever it takes. Even if you kill me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 1, 2015

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    Corbyn Comes First.

    I am a mother before i am anything else. I take care of my son before i take care of myself. I will suffer being tired or hungry for him. I take care of him then do my homework once he is changed and fed and sleeping. I love being a mom. My son even comes before my bf/baby's...
    babymama16 babymama16 18-21, F Mar 1, 2012

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    Until You <3 {this Is Precious All Moms Should Read}

    I never pulled over to stare at horses, I was never willing to give someone else my last bite, I never planned on handling someone else's boogers, I never listened to a song 50 times in a row, I never found rocks on my dryer, I never had to power to heal a wound with my kiss...
    Ameliosgirl Ameliosgirl 18-21, F Jan 11, 2012

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    Hi, I was wondering if anyone women could take

    just five minutes out of their day to complete this survey. There are only 10 questions. It is about feminism, strong and brave women, heroines and role models. It is for an important assignment so it would be so much help if you could do this for me. Thank you so much! http...
    gracielynn1 gracielynn1 22-25, F Apr 4, 2015

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    I love my 3 year old daughter more

    than words can describe. She is my top priority and I live my life for her. I've learned that being a great mother means taking care of yourself so you can be there for your child. I try my best to get rest and divide responsibilities with my husband. Even though I want to be...
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    Sometimes I Get So Busy,

    That I Forget The Little Things. And Then I Hear A Voice Saying "Watch Me Mama"! See me when my eyes light with pride, when I give you a gift I have made myself. See me when I look at you as you're reading me a book. See me try to understand when you take the time to explain...
    SweeetKiester SweeetKiester 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    She Is First

    My daughter comes first always. I think people forget that i am a mother somtimes cause im young. But regardless of age i am a mother first everything else after that.
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17, 2011

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