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I Am A Mother Without My Children

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    Michael Angelo Longobardo was my soulmate...he loved to say he knew from the first time we spoke on the phone that I was the one. It took me a little longer to realize it tho. Mike...
    dmlongobardo23 dmlongobardo23 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Specifically people who hate literally all children. Not just disliking individual children. I hear them say things like "I hate kids" and if when I ask what they mean by that...
    SilverRainHalo SilverRainHalo 22-25 4 days ago

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    i watched you drink another beer. i listened to you yell, while i felt myself flinch. i watched you leave us, and take almost everything we owned. i listened as you, your new...
    ProudByChoice ProudByChoice 13-15, F 37 mins ago

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    My Mother, simply put, is the meanest, angriest, most unpleasant person I know. She is a mentally ill psychotic, a tyrant, and a bully all rolled into one. My parents split up when...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    Sometimes as a mother I feel so lost. I see other parents who have clearly got their s*hit together. I take my daughter to school and feel like I don't fit in. The mothers are...
    CandiIsMastersLittleSlave CandiIsMastersLittleSlave 22-25, F 10 Responses Jul 17

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    In my quest to bring my children home I remortgaged my home, hired a private investigator, and dedicated myself to it completely. In 2004 the private investigator got a lead. They...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    "Mommy." My sleepy eight year old said. "What,baby boy?" I answered. "I love you, Mommy. I want to be with you always. Why can't I stay,Mommy?" He said. He had asked that same...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    She was a wonderful mother. I will not lie and say she mistreated me,though she had every right to. My birth came as a result of her rape by a White man(she's Korean) and I was...
    DoonJi DoonJi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Maybe not "hate" but I STRONGLY DISLIKE her! But its getting there... Is that bad? She still has a long ways to go! :( The funny thing about it all is we used to really get along...
    Story0fMyLife Story0fMyLife 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    I will not rant or moan and I no longer hate my mother as much as I use to,but I hope I NEVER see her again and haven't since the last time I went before a judge aged 10 and her...
    Selah94 Selah94 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a teenager, and I don't think I have grown up too fast, rather going through appropriate milestones and learning what I should. But my family knows another family whose kids...
    ICanTotallySurvive ICanTotallySurvive 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I am the proud mother to four children in total. My husband and I had a stillborn daughter in 2004 whom we named Kerstin. After the loss of Kerstin we had a tough time getting...
    youngwidow80 youngwidow80 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    Both parents have an extremely important part to play in our lives, raising us but also shaping us into people. Mothers and fathers can be responsible for our mental state and the...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    When I was a kid I always wanted a family like the ones that I would watch on the television. My mother had 2 jobs during the time. My father well let's say........ Poppa was a...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Jul 17

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    Unintentionally Neglected My Oldest-I have been so caught up in bemoaning the lost of my son and daughter to their father I forgot to mention they aren't my only children. Way back...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    I can not stand the sight of my boyfriends mother. She's a very manipulative, judgmental, selfish, lying, narcissistic ***! She has a long history of drug and alcohol abuse. She's...
    SilentNynja SilentNynja 22-25, F Jul 15

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    Me and mom have this love hate relationship, it basically all started when I was young; she was a workaholic and my great-grandma for 19 years, has been my mom for me and my best...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    How Funny Is This....a site about having a Narcisstic mother with only 500 members! Are there so few Narcisstic mothers Really!! Or just so few adult children who recognize it and...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 5

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    When I was little, I used to say that I would have 20 kids when I grew up and drive them all around in a school bus. But now, I truly long to be and desire to be a mother. I can...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork 16-17, F Jul 18

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    It is not so that I hate my mother in law because she in my mother in law. No, no, no. I hate her because she is a bad person. At the begining I wanted to be a friend of hers, but...
    emikolic emikolic 26-30, F Jul 3

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    For 45 years I have been the emotional dumping ground for a mother who lacks the ability to love anyone. I have been groomed for this situation since birth. I have been an...
    antidote4toxicity antidote4toxicity 46-50, F Jul 12

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    My mother was never physically abusive, but she certainly emotionally abused and neglected us. If I would write down everything that she did, then I would have one unbelievable...
    LostMittens LostMittens 31-35, F Jul 14

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    I married late for my age, and probably wouldn't have married if my husband didn't pursue me. we married and in time we had 2 children. parenting needs skills I didn't posses and...
    TinyBell TinyBell 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I have two wonderful boys and two girls. I had my first son when I was 20 my second when I was 22, When I was 24 yrs old I had my first daughter and my last when I was 29. In my...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I have 3 children. My oldest is six and wants to play video games all the time. I personally love video games but since I became A mother I don't play them any more. I don't want...
    fantisizer fantisizer 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    27 year old twin sons I had at only 17 by a man 10 years older than me.21 year old son and almost 20 year old daughter I haven't seen in 13 years(Daddy kidnapped them). A lot of...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F Jun 28

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    My mother was both neglectful and a bully. For many years, she has been treated for depression, but I believe she is mentally ill with a more serious disorder. When I was eight...
    glitterdahlia glitterdahlia 41-45 1 Response Jun 29

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    People ask me all the time. "What's being a mom like?" Honestly, it's a lot like being responsible for tiny drunk people who constantly need your attention/ focus every four...
    kkktookmybabyaway kkktookmybabyaway 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    Hate is a strong word. But I can't think of another word that better describes my feelings towards this woman. She is emotionally abusive and has been physically abusive before...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I'm reading For One More Day by Mitch Albom. I really like his books. I am really just beginning this one. It's open in front of me and I'm on page six. This book explores the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I didn't think I would. Boy was I wrong. My childhood wasn't the easiest. She was not a good mother. When she got sick, I was the one that stepped up and helped her out. Yet, I was...
    AuntieShani AuntieShani 31-35, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    how I feel about my mother makes me afraid to ever have a child... I don't resent her for the things she's done to me because I know she is mentally unstable... but I still hate...
    MarZipansStory MarZipansStory 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    My MIL is not a bad person, but she says and does things that get to me. My husband and I are from two different cultures, with people from his culture being more direct and...
    luigisprincess luigisprincess 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Dorothy, James, Andrea, and Elizabeth - I am a mother of four children, and I'm almost twenty years old. I've had two sets of twins. My first pair, Dorothy and James, were born...
    ILovetheOcean20 ILovetheOcean20 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    My parents are divorced. I was still very little so I've always remembered my parents being separated. I loved my father very very much. (I'm speaking in past tense because he...
    Riarza Riarza 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    In 2008 my Mother in law lost h husband . I tried helping her through his illness and after his death and things were ok.I had never had bad feelings toward her in the past,as a...
    helpless69 helpless69 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Sitting at the table with my mother alone eating different meals. She says "I have some bad news" I said "like always" She said "this is a different kind of bad news" I...
    SaraSunshinePeaceLover SaraSunshinePeaceLover 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I feel like ..i was never meant to be a mother ...don't get me wrong I believe children are so beautiful and innocent and all I see is good in them! innocent and sweet ...I have 3...
    pinkfloydkitty pinkfloydkitty 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    She really creeps me out to be honest. There's something crazy to me about those people who go around doing weird, harmful, or wrong things and never hear any real criticisms about...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm mentioning the whole situation I was into in this story. Here is my story. I used to be a happy girl till the age 11, when I got to know my dad was dead. Mum said he got a...
    Astronggirl212 Astronggirl212 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    10 and a half years without my babies- In January 2003 I fled my abusive marriage after 13 years taking my 3 children(ages 14,10,and 8) from Finland to Ohio. My younger two had...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F Jul 7

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    Light and Lighter-I am Black with a chocolate complexion. I had identical twin sons with a Puerto Rican. He had black hair,olive skin,and green eyes. My boys came out with curly...
    BabylessMommy BabylessMommy 41-45, F Jun 29

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    She's incredibly intrusive on his business. I have been dating my boyfriend for close to two years, and she had been whining the entire time. Now, I understand that she's his only...
    mergern07 mergern07 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    i was always ambivalent and now it is far too late for me to reproduce. i love children, but was always worried that i would be a terrible mother. i am glad to simply be an aunt.
    Katertoten Katertoten 46-50, F Jun 30

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    My MIL is a tetraplegic. She was in a car accident and she damaged her c-6 and c-7 vertebrae. She is now wheel chair bound. I know starting a story about how I am unhappy living...
    Natesbabydoll Natesbabydoll 26-30, F Jul 3

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    I am living in a nightmare since 10 years. My befriend has 2 children, a boy and a girl, now 13 and 16. They made my life he'll in the past years and I learned to hate them. Those...
    poisonyvi poisonyvi 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 6

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    I remember when I was young I felt so isolated feeling so dumb And even unappreciated Going to school woking on weekends But at home treated like a fool And validated by few...
    Bach13 Bach13 26-30, M Jul 7