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I Am A Mother Without My Children

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    I am the mother of children with different fathers. Right away when people hear that, they think bad things. They judge incorrectly. I never actually thought I would be in this...
    Col308 Col308 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    Never liked them. And never want them. Maybe it's because of my parents. They accidentally taught me that without children, everything's better. More money, more freetime, less...
    zyakkui zyakkui 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I was born in a man's house and about a year later, I was sent to the village to my maternal grandmother. This is a story I grew up to hear. My grandmother was living in a very...
    stanlis stanlis 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    When I watch the movie “Mermaids” with Cher and Wynona Rider. I can see my own childhood any many ways in that film, it’s so uncanny. I never met nor knew my natural father...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 6

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    A lady loved by many but invisible to the world She was loved and cherished by both children, husband and family She couldn’t see In her utter misfortune of being plagued with...
    generationlover generationlover 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    as i re arranged the furniture in my living room today, i couldn't help but feel nostalgic. i have this wooden rocker. it's not the prettiest or the most fancy of chairs, but it...
    smokieBrie smokieBrie 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 2

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    I don't have any children. I turned 45 last monday. Do you think I'm too old to have them now? Is 45 too old?
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    trying to go to bed early because that piece of **** didnt let you sleep in in the morning and now it doesnt let you fall asleep great just gotta love children
    weidenkaetzchen weidenkaetzchen 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    My mother has only laid her hands on me maybe three times in my entire life. She worked all the time to support my siblings and I. I looked up to her. My oldest brother is 23, I'm...
    Psymonshadowblood Psymonshadowblood 18-21, F Oct 14

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    At a very young age, I remember being confronted by my drunk mother. She told me that she never liked me and how I turned out. That the only reason why I existed was because my dad...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    When I was a child, my mother taught me to be afraid of my father. She always told me he didn’t want to be bothered by me, and that I should leave him alone. That happens in a...
    greenacres33 greenacres33 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    A while ago, at my beginning on this site I wrote I don´t really hate her. This word will always be too heavy for me. And this is the best revenge I can make: I love. I don´t...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I am a mother of two twin boys who are now 13 years old. They are wonderful and intellectual sons. They play sports, just started dating some, and definitely loves the girls.
    maturewifeandmom maturewifeandmom 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm a wordy girl - I apologize in advance.... In my college English class my Prof asked us to write about the thing that scared us most in the world. I wrote about being afraid I...
    annaj5 annaj5 31-35 Sep 26

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    Me and my boyfriend of 9 years have been living with my boyfriends parents because of the economy and the fact that he has helped his family financially in the past, bringing down...
    Anonymous8712 Anonymous8712 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm that mother. And all that's keeping me from opening and downing every pill bottle in the house is the thought of my children having to live saying these words - "I lost my...
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    I am 25 and a single mother. I have 3 children. I have full custody of my youngest and joint with my other 2. I am in a horrible situation right now and in need to vent. I have...
    nikabelle nikabelle 22-25, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm so scared my husband will leave me to have children. He wants children, loves them, idolises them. I think kids are cute but I'm much rather enjoying seeing, learning and...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 22-25, F Oct 4

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    I am both a mother and grandmother. I am a mother of seven and a grandmother of three. Four of my children are on their own. I have two kids married and two out of state college...
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 26

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    So my fiance and I are getting married next August, at which point we will have been together nearly 5 years. Our relationship is very strong, we truly are perfect for each other...
    WifeToBe822 WifeToBe822 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    Everybody should have a medical dna test before bringing kids into this world. I don't want to spread more genetic disease into the world just because I wanted to reproduce and...
    OceanNymph OceanNymph 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 12

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    I had an argument with my mom in law. She is living with us and I have a problem with my husband and the fact that he does not communicate well with me. So my husband bought some...
    Bibisialuv Bibisialuv 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    It does feel better without but protection is important...
    sexwasgreat123 sexwasgreat123 46-50, F 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    As a sensitive, creative, artistic and brilliant child all I wanted was for my mother to love me. My mothers response to me when she first saw me as a baby was that I was "ugly and...
    lutqueet lutqueet 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    My mother likes to make strangers think she's perfect.. When I was growing up she would talk to people in sweet ways and say ' that's my girl' to appear to be a good person. To win...
    mrsdavid1975 mrsdavid1975 36-40, F Oct 14

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    I'm not sure if it's emotionally abusive, but it hurts either way. She had a lot of **** as a child, an alcoholic verbally abusive father, an emotionally distant often absent...
    PinkNailPolish PinkNailPolish 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    always wanted to be a mother. feel myself pregnant. feel my own baby grab my finger. The loud sweet cry that escape from their tiny lips. The sound of my children calling me mum...
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am the mother of four, all grown now and it is the most rewarding part of my life. I have been a mother nearly all of my adult life and I can't think of not ever being one. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 30

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    I am a mother of 4 children. 2 children wit my first husband and 2 with my second husband. My 16 year old daughter had been complaining of pain and swelling in her thumb for a...
    ratgirl73 ratgirl73 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I am a 27 and have been with my husband for 5 years but recently got married a few months ago. Our lives would be so much better if the monster in law would go into a nice...
    MonsterInLaw0847 MonsterInLaw0847 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    My mother has been passive aggressive my whole life yet I just realized it in my early 40's. My father died 3 years ago and that's when her PA really escalated. The first 6...
    alleb1990 alleb1990 41-45 3 Responses Oct 5

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    My marriage is in trouble. We are just over a month married. My husband is 51 and has been living with his mother in somewhat of a husband/wife situation for many years (since...
    W0eIsMe W0eIsMe 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I joined this forum just so that i can put my experience with my mother in law in writing. so here is the story. I met my husband in college. we were first friends and it turned...
    Aleksanrda Aleksanrda 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 7

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    I still remember the first time I put makeup on. I think I was like four or five years old, on vacation with my parents, and I saw my mother putting on some mascara before we went...
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F Oct 9

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    My husband and I are invisible to our dil. Married 20+ years with 2 daughters. Her parents live close as well (as we do). We definately get left overs. It could be worse (as I've...
    dogpoo dogpoo 61-65, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I hate kids. I am not sure if it's because of the upbringing with my mother but some people are not cut out to be parents. It ****** me off when people tell you "Oh, you will...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F Sep 28

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    I have three amazing children. . my daughter is the bravest person I know. she has scoliosis and endured wearing a body brace in the horrible heat of Florida and dealt with this in...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Let me quote my friend on here when she found this out, "When someone tells you that they are fcked up and to block them, believe them." On that note, if you're a mother, please...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    Hello, I feel as though I should apologise in advance of the really long rant I'm about to have..thank you so much if you read any, let alone to the end. My husband have been...
    RedCurlyHair RedCurlyHair 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 26

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    So, I've told my mother that I am planning on moving out next year and she was upset because she is the religious type of person who believes that the only reason a woman should...
    mayy95 mayy95 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    My mother is controlling to the point of insanity, she has decided that I have been texting far too late at night so she has set texting and calling restrictions between the hours...
    missbnewyork missbnewyork 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 30

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    I have been a step mother for six years now and really enjoy that so much. I am a step mom to three adorable kids by my second husband and his ex. They are boys ages 13 and 15...
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    "Well that baby grew into a boy who became her pride and joy. He loved her like no man could. And her heart finally felt peace, because she finally understood God's love... And as...
    DanniBelle1121 DanniBelle1121 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    The age old phrase "unconditional love"...Must it apply to the children of the parents? Because my mother is a hateful *****. Anything she sees , does or needs she will turn into...
    BlackBeach BlackBeach 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I'm not a single Mother. I hate to burst your bubble, but it's true. I have nothing but admiration for single Moms. You ladies do a fantastic job raising your children alone. You...
    romanticsoul55 romanticsoul55 51-55, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mother has this idea that you can live life without doing anything wrong, living like a saint, and still feel fulfilled. I don't like her, not just as a mother, but as a person...
    unknown5141 unknown5141 18-21, F Oct 10

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    I have a question for all you other mothers out there (and anyone else who want to chime in). I am a single mother of a ten year old. I have been single since before I had her...
    Unexlove Unexlove 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago