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I Am a National Guard Girlfriend

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    Cute Idea For Boyfriend In Bct - It's been a little over 5 weeks since my boyfriend left for basic and the last letter I got was Monday he had drew a picture of God's hand holding...
    missbusy missbusy 22-25, F Aug 22, 2012

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    So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little more then eight months and he decided two months ago that he was going to join. Originally I was totally against it, but after...
    ZacksGirl51713 ZacksGirl51713 18-21 2 Responses Jan 25

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    Update - Back in December Aaron came home from AIT just in time for the holidays it was beautiful and amazing his sister and I picked him up from the airport. The missing piece of...
    missbusy missbusy 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2013

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    Soldier Is Coming Home - My soldier comes home in 15 days! hes been gone since june and this summer has been one of the hardest things ive gone through, i cant wait to see him come...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 31, 2012

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    1 Week - Today has been the worst day for me since he left its been 1 week since I talked to him. I feel so heart broken, lost. I frantically check the mail every morning even...
    missbusy missbusy 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Brand New National Guard Girlfriend - So my boyfriend of a few months was just sworn in today. We live in Mississippi so he's waiting for it to cool down before he goes to Basic in...
    littledipper9893 littledipper9893 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Halfway There - Ok so my wonderful amazing boyfriend left for basic on August 5th. It has been a little over a month and I miss him like crazy. The good thing is that he got to...
    sjjames94 sjjames94 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Wears Combat Boots. =) - I decided to check out some forums for guard wives and girlfriends to feel a bit more at ease with my situation...there's always...
    preq08 preq08 22-25 7 Responses May 23, 2010

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    My boyfriend of almost a year shipped out Wednesday, Feb 5 for Basic and AIT. It's been four days and I am already so lost without his presence! Everyone just keeps telling me to...
    lmeades lmeades 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    Anniversary - This Sunday is me and my soldiers 3 year anniversary!! I cant believe how fast the time flies when you are in love<3 I met my man at a smoothie shop. I was sick...
    AngelFace33 AngelFace33 18-21, F Oct 18, 2013

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    My Friend, And My Love. - I am not really officially a national guard girlfriend anymore, but Jared and I love each other more than anything in the world, we understand each other...
    alyssabraun alyssabraun 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2011

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    Hey everyone!! I would just like to encourage you guys to like my FB page. Me & the other admins love to hear from everyone & enjoy interacting with all our fans. We loove to hear...
    shyanne103 shyanne103 16-17, F Mar 13

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    I recently met this wonderful man names Trey. We've been talking for months when he finally popped the question, "will you be my girlfriend." Which of course I said yes. Anyways...
    mikaylalala mikaylalala 16-17, F Dec 27, 2013

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    A Little Nervous - My boyfriend will be leaving for basics January 9, 2012 and will be gone for a whole year doing AIT then Linguist. We have been together for almost 6 years and...
    summer104 summer104 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Ughh! - I am SO tired of hearing people say "well he's only in the National Guard." What difference does it make? He can still get deployed and be in just as much danger as the...
    lovedmc lovedmc 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    I'm so upset before I was all for it now I can't help but be sad he's my best friend the only person who takes me anywhere I need to go the only one who I can talk to. And he's...
    WaitingOnCarlos WaitingOnCarlos 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    The Army Has My Heart - My boyfriend/father of my child, is being sent to Iraq tomorrow. He's been in the National Guard for two years now and this is our first deployment. I'm...
    armyhasmyheart armyhasmyheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2008

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    Sooo Happy! - i forgot my phone at home today and after a very long day of work i came home with a text from him!!! he's home, but his mom's in the hospital now in the icu =[ she...
    lovinghim5 lovinghim5 18-21, F Jun 19, 2011

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    BCT Done, AIT To Go - Today is officially 4 years my boyfriend and I are dating. Last week he just graduated from Basic training and I finally got to see him. It was the greatest...
    cassiechan6 cassiechan6 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    This Really Sucks. - I am 19 and my boyfriend is 20. He has been in the National Guard for two years. We are expecting our first child together in May. He is going to not be here...
    SiDawn SiDawn 18-21 2 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Lack Of Support From My Friends - I'm going to vent a little bit. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 1/2 years and they have been the most amazing 2 1/2 years. Our...
    kris10marie629 kris10marie629 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    My First Letter! - So I received my first letter today from my soldier I swear I was like a kid in a candy store oh so excited and I found his infantry regiment Facebook page and...
    missbusy missbusy 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Just Joined The National Guard - Hi. My name is Victoria. I and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. He very recently was enlisted into the National Guard. He...
    vickysdesign vickysdesign 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2010

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    Leaving Tomorrow. -  My bf and I have been dating for 8 months basically. He did basic after his jr year, now AIT tomorrow. Anywho, We took a break for the past two months but...
    bringingUjoy bringingUjoy 18-21 15 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Has His First Drill Wknd - Tomorrow my bf leaves for his 1st drill wknd...He's very excited. I'm happy for him and can't wait to hear what he did while there when he...
    fireworks87 fireworks87 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2010

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    "sexually Deprived For Your Freedom" - I haven't written on this blog since the first time my boyfriend joined the guard. That was a little more than two years ago and it astounds...
    preq08 preq08 22-25 Aug 22, 2012

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    Finalllyyy!! - I finally got a phone call from my babe tonight!! My hands were shaking and my heart was racing. Havent heard his voice in a month and a half and my heart melted. He...
    AngelFace33 AngelFace33 18-21, F Oct 21, 2013

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    Afghanistence - The worst thing about deployments is not realizing just how difficult it is. Sure, you read up on it pre-deployment, you hear of stories from everyone and their...
    preq08 preq08 22-25 May 26, 2013

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    How Do You Do It? - me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half. one year ago he chose to join the national guard. i moved in with him and his parents until...
    carrie0719 carrie0719 18-21 2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

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    My Story - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. Sometimes it surprises me how beautiful our relationship is. We've had our arguments, but we're high school sweethearts...
    dmc13 dmc13 18-21 2 Responses Nov 26, 2011

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    Missing Him - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and he's leaving to go to basic and ati tomorrow. He's been in state reception for the past two weeks. Were both...
    sarsar202 sarsar202 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10, 2012

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    Broken - Ok so my boyfriend got sworn into the national guard at the beginning of june and he was told that he was gonna leave on august fifth. Well that is only a couple of days...
    sjjames94 sjjames94 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    He left this morning I was so sad I couldn't stop crying my heart felt like it shrunk in my stomach. Now that I just stayed home from school I became more understanding and telling...
    WaitingOnCarlos WaitingOnCarlos 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    So Scared - Hey guys so im going to vent for a minute so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 13 months, and we havent spent more then 3 days away from eachother. He joined the...
    Maddief8 Maddief8 16-17, F 6 Responses May 6, 2013

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    Acting Strange - MY BOYFRIEND N ME JUST GOT BACK TOGETHER..DO TO THINGS THAT HAPPENED LAST TIME IT LED TO A BREAK UP..BUT HE WAS SO SWEET AND NICE N CARING. JUYST UR OVER ALL...
    armymansgirl1219 armymansgirl1219 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 28, 2010

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    National Guard Girlfriend - I now have a whole new respect for the women who are dating, engaged or married to a man in the military.  There are some days when he's away that...
    cherry8914 cherry8914 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    5 days and I still did not get a call from him..... Is that normal?
    WaitingOnCarlos WaitingOnCarlos 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    Not About This Life - Hi, I'm Zephyr. This post is going to be a little TL;DR (too long; didn't read), but bear with me. Last November, my boyfriend joined the Guard. We didn't...
    GlobalNomad93 GlobalNomad93 22-25 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Staying Strong - Ok so this past week I got to see my boyfriend for the first time in 10 weeks. I went with mom to his basic training graduation. We wrote each other tons of...
    sjjames94 sjjames94 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    So we have been dating for about 4 1/2 years now. He went to Georgia for basic a week ago. It's been hard not hearing from for a week now, but I should be getting a call tomorrow...
    Duffyhun Duffyhun 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    My Story As Well <3 - Hi, im jennifer, i live in new york and here is my story. my boyfriend and i have known each other ever since we were 11 years old. we went to middle...
    sjenn93 sjenn93 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    Not To Brag But... - I SO PROUD TO BE A MILITARY GIRLFRIEND, IM JUST SO HAPPY AND OUR LOVE HAS GROWN STRONGER AND CLOSER :) Good luck & don't be scared!
    cassiechan6 cassiechan6 18-21, F Jun 11, 2013

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    My Kevin - i met the best thing thats ever happened to me september 5th 2012 we dated for 3 months and broke up in december then finally got back together march 14 2013 we're...
    bhocutt94 bhocutt94 18-21 2 Responses May 19, 2013

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    I have been dating my NG guy for a couple months. We met in a biology course we were both taking. He asked me out on a study date, quick lead to another and so on :) He is a really...
    lindsay232 lindsay232 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I Am A Army National Girlfriend - My boyfriend has been in the national guard since hes junior year of high school. Here comes the crazy part me and him have only been dating since...
    crazyb15 crazyb15 18-21, F 1 Response May 27, 2013

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    The Beginning - This summer I got my first real job. It was hard work but serving people made me happy and my co-workers were amazing. As time went on I started having feelings for...
    Goodnighttothesky Goodnighttothesky 16-17, F Dec 1, 2013

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    Things are looking up today! I found a girl on here whos boyfriend is at boot camp with mine. We have alot in common so I finally have someone to talk to. Good mood today (:
    hisbabygirl95 hisbabygirl95 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    What Does This All Mean? - Here's my story, me and my soldier boyfriend had a talk today.. He asked me what do I see in our relationship? I quickly called him cause it seems like...
    cassiechan6 cassiechan6 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    My Fiance Just Left For Basic! - So my new fiance left for basic at Ft. Benning a few days ago! So far I've been holding up much better than I anticipated! He was able to call me...
    am84756 am84756 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    Hey guys so I been doing so much better got my first letter and first phone call! But now Idk what to send him in his care package .. What are the restrictions?
    WaitingOnCarlos WaitingOnCarlos 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    My Bf Left This Morning For Bct/ait At Fort Leonard Wood, Mo - This morning, at 5:15am I dropped my bf off to ship out. Right now he is at a hotel in Indy and is going to Meps in...
    fireworks87 fireworks87 22-25, F 9 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Time To Brag About My Soldier. :) - So, to celebrate my one year anniversary with my boyfriend, he planned this huge surprise for me. All he told me was that I needed to fix my...
    cerin1130 cerin1130 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 24, 2013