I Am a Navy Fiancee

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 238 People

    My fiancé just left to boot camp last week

    and I'm doing okay but I can't help but miss him so much. #startingtofeelbroken
    saritaa23 saritaa23
    22-25, F
    Nov 30, 2015

    There for when I say I'm open minded; I also

    have my limits :) More to more classy then nonetheless assy
    MistyDayHaze MistyDayHaze
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    My Sailor.my Hero

    Hey all you Navy girlfriends, fiances, wives, boyfriends, husbands, etc!!!!!! Come on over to My Sailor.My Hero on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/MySailor.MyHero We are a group for any and all Navy s/os and family members! We love sharing stories and pictures, answering...
    caitc91 caitc91
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2012

    The Beginning...

    I am new to this site, but my fiancee has been gone for exactly a week now and I'm kinda a disaster. I'm not even one to cry easily, but I think I've cried just about everyday since he's been gone. He is in boot camp in the Great Lakes right now and I'm going to college in August...
    FirstMate101 FirstMate101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2010

    In 2 weeks and 4 days I will be flying out to

    Norfolk to visit my Sailor :) So excited! Now I just have to work my butt off to pay off the flight! haha
    Madikwebb Madikwebb
    18-21, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    Fiance' In Iraq

    Me and my fiance have pretty much been highschool sweethearts, never really dated but always crushed on one another and were very close. He was my shoulder to cry on and I was his listener. When he left for bootcamp I realized how much I missed him and was head over heals in love...
    Denisealvarado Denisealvarado
    18-21, F
    Jun 30, 2009

    It Never Gets Easier...

    YOU JUST GET BETTER! I know how frustrating this life can be. My fiancé has been in the Navy for two years now and when he first joined I had no clue where to turn to. In an effort to connect with other military spouses, I created a page on facebook where I can meet other Navy...
    hheidilee hheidilee
    26-30, F
    May 8, 2013

    Engaged But Family Wants Me To Wait.

    So me and my Fiance have been together a year and engaged for 3 months. Right now he is in boot camp and his PIR is the beginning of December. So in order to have me on his orders and be able to have me live with him while in A-School which for him is 42 months and then he is...
    meggerz93 meggerz93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2013

    Fiancee Leaving For Navy Boot Camp In 24 Hours.

    Its going to be difficult to be away from her for so long.  I tell myself that I wont miss her because I think it will make me feel better. I try to convince myself that if I stay busy it will not be so bad. I know that this is just the beginning for us (we are planning on...
    tusk052585 tusk052585
    1 Response Feb 14, 2009

    Anyone's fiancé graduating at the end of June

    in Chicago? Mine leaves Monday for 2 months :(
    Navywife028 Navywife028
    22-25, F
    Apr 23, 2014

    Planning Visits

    My Sailor is currently starting his A School, and we're already planning on when to see each other. I feel like things are finally starting to turn in our favor. I want to visit him thanksgiving weekend, and thanksgiving happens to be on our year and a half anniversary, which is...
    SammyGiggles SammyGiggles
    22-25, F
    Oct 16, 2013

    I Finally Got His Information And Address

    YES!!! today i received my fiancées address and i am so happy that i can finally write him,, i dont think i could have waited any longer my patience were running out but today like im happy again. i miss him so much i miss waking up to him and doing everything with him 46 more...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 27, 2012

    New To This...

    Hey everyone! I am new to the military lifestyle and to this site.... I was hoping for any advice on deployments (mostly), and big things that will happen throughout the years. My fiance and I are currently living in different states... He in Virginia, and I in NC. We are lucky...
    mns07 mns07
    1 Response Mar 24, 2013

    Im Not Sure What To Do

    My fiancé and I had a date set to get married for next September ... Sadly some stuff came up with him and work so we are going to cancel the venue ... He wants to wait which I think is a good idea but then I don't ... he said that we need a better reason then just wanting to be...
    HisNavyGirl4ever HisNavyGirl4ever
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2013

    Please message me if your bf/fiancé is about

    to leave for basic and graduate sometime in June
    Navywife028 Navywife028
    22-25, F
    Apr 23, 2014

    Navy Fiancee Trying To Handle It

    In 6th grade I met mark and ever since life has thrown us I'm each others paths. Senior year of high school we realized how much we cared for each other but there was one issue... The navy. He had hoped to be stationed in virgina, where I would move to be close, but when his...
    corellirebecca corellirebecca
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2010

    The Longer The Waiting, The Sweeter The Kiss

    Hi, I am a Navy Fiance. My man has been in the Navy for about 5 years now. We have known each other for about 7 years, and have been dating for about 1 year. He was recently told he was automatically volunteered for a year long deployment. It was extremely sudden and quite...
    USNinlove USNinlove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2010

    Getting An Address

    My fiancé left for Navy bootcamp on August 13th. He got a 20 second call to me the night he got there saying that I would get a postcard in the mail with his address. I still haven't gotten it. Last Friday his belongings came in a box, but no address. His recruiter told his mom...
    gabriellaw96 gabriellaw96
    18-21, F
    Aug 21, 2013

    So Much to Do!

    I'm going to be marrying my sailor in March. He's already at his post but my daughter and I will follow in June after spring semester ends. If anyone has any helpful tips about the transition and what needs to be done, I would love to hear them. God Bless!
    Ainedo78 Ainedo78
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

    New Navy Fiancee

    Just recently my boyfriend proposed to me. Seeing as to how much I love him I said yes. You'd think my life would be filled with bliss and wedding planning now right? Wrong. He goes to boot camp November 23 of this year and will be gone for boot camp and A school, that will take...
    xxlilmissemtxx xxlilmissemtxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 15, 2009

    I am marrying my fiance on our 10 year dating

    anniversary this July. For the past year or so, he was been gung-ho about joining the Navy after our wedding and I have been completely against it. About a month or two ago, I changed my perspective. As much as the thought of being away from him for long periods of time and...
    Kerryn2508 Kerryn2508
    26-30, F
    Feb 16, 2015

    He Left

    I am a Navy Fiancee. My Fiancee Adam left on July 7 for Great Lakes and basic training. It was really hard for him to leave and since I ended up riding to drop him off at MEPS with his parents, I didn't have much of a chance to say good-bye. When we got back home, I could not...
    mrsmoose0205 mrsmoose0205
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009


    anyone else's loved ones graduation may 10th???
    seabeegirlfriend051610 seabeegirlfriend051610
    1 Response Mar 19, 2013

    Visited Him Alone For The First Time, Afraid To Repeat It...

    My sailor is a nuke, just started prototype (3rd and last phase of nuke school) in SC and it all got jumbled and fast forwarded so I ended up having to visit him last minute with no promise that he would have any time off except for the weekend. He has 12 hour days and knowing...
    hishoneybee hishoneybee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    Easter Sunday. Waiting. Waiting. Nothing!!!!

    So I get a letter from my fiance last wednesday. First time hearing from him in 2 and a half weeks. He puts in his letter: P.S I GET A PHONE CALL ON EASTER SUNDAY SO BE HOME!! Well I got out of work early and rushed to his parents house so I wouldn't miss his call. We waited all...
    seabeegirlfriend051610 seabeegirlfriend051610
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2013

    It's Hard to Love Some One So Far Away!

    well me and my fiance met at his house, not long before he was shipped off. we spent all our time together or we were on the phone... the night he left was the worst/greatest night of my life. it was the last time i was going to be able to fall asleep in his arms and...
    ShayMay ShayMay
    18-21, F
    Sep 24, 2009

    Long Distance Sweethearts

    So, My new fiancee(As of December 29,2012) and I have been together 3 years and 3 months. Throughout the entire relationship, We have been long-distance. Crazy, right? Yeah, I thought so too. We consider each other highschool sweethearts, and bestfriends. When he told me he was...
    NavyFiance18 NavyFiance18
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    My sailor has been in boot camp

    for a little over a week, and I am slowly trying to pick myself up. I'm so proud of him but my heart is aching without him. I'm down to 48 days and it feels like forever. Life is just not the same without my goober.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 30, 2015

    Love Never Fails [military Love]

    Hello ladies! I have made a support page on facebook for all girlfriends/fiances/wives that have a man in any military branch!! This is a page to go to for support, to brag about anything that might of happened or you just want to brag about your man :)Also a place to ask...
    headcheerleader570 headcheerleader570
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2012

    Just Hanging In There

    I'm a Navy fiancee'. I'm 18, just graduated high school, and am a college freshman. My sailor proposed July 12 and left July 22. I hear so many people tell me that I'm strong for doing this, but some days it's hard to believe them. As of the moment, my fiance's family doesn...
    ardenthorn ardenthorn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2009

    I get to see my sailor tomorrow!

    !! And we're getting married on Saturday:)) idk how i'm going to sleep tonight and then be awake by 330 and leave by 5 for a 7 1/2 to 8 Hour Drive. At least my parents will be in front of me and I will have my best friend with me and my dog of course
    Misscourtni Misscourtni
    Jul 15, 2015

    49 days. That's when my better half will leave

    to start basic. Every day I want to marry him and every second I want to be with him. I am in college so I know if he isn't stationed near me I won't be able to follow him. I am scared we will grow apart. I guess in 49 days we will find out.
    elane4 elane4
    22-25, F
    May 17, 2015


    So last friday I went to see my man graduate boot camp!!! It was amazing being able to be there for him!! He had liberty all weekend including monday. We were able to spend all but monday with him. Damn school made me have to come home so I couldn't have monday. But thats ok...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 17, 2012

    Missing My Fiancee

    I was engaged to the love of my life December 23, 2009 and he joined the Navy January 3, 2010. It was the happiest moment and yet the saddest moment of my life. So many different emotions running through my head. I was hurt, sad, mad, proud, lucky all at the same time...
    sammmarshman sammmarshman
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2010
    saritaa23 saritaa23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    Clashed Military Lives

    I have known my fiance for a long time and we just got together a year ago. But when he left for boot camp we kinda faded away. I ended up joining that Marines to get away from an abusive "boyfriend" as we can say... and I kinda forgot about him. But this Nov. he called...
    USNDarlin USNDarlin
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2009

    Real Life Romeo And Juliett Story...need Advice :(

    I met him in High School, and since then we were inseparable. Our parents did not know that we were together, because it was against my religion, and it was against his culture. His father and mother expected him to marry an Indian girl, and my parents expected me to marry a...
    RomeoAndJuliett RomeoAndJuliett
    2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

    Hello Everyone (my Story)

    Hey everyone,     I'm no stranger to ep...first found this website when my boyfriend(now fiancee) left for boot camp. This website pretty much single handily helped me through those two hard months lol....anyways after Cory graduated I stopped getting on here as...
    MissingCory MissingCory
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2010

    who else hates being away from their fiance?

    so far its been 56 days apart... that's not as many as some of you but its the longest we have been apart ever. it sucks. especially with a wedding to plan! how are u guys doing it?
    Tinktinkrox Tinktinkrox
    18-21, F
    Feb 27, 2016


    Lost Wednesday, December 7th, 2011 I'm 19 and engaged to a wonderful man in the U.S. Navy.I love him with all I have. We went to high school together for about 2 years but never really spoke. After high school we started talking and it wasn't long before we realized we were...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    Fiancee Of A Navy... How Can I Be So Sure About Us?

    Hi my fiance and I met here in bahrain..I work here as a Nurse since last year. He was introduced to me in the party by my navy friend. So we started dating and and get into a relationship. One month after in the relationship i was so surprised that he proposed to me. I love him...
    mystic503 mystic503
    1 Response Jul 23, 2013

    My Sailor.my Hero

    Come check out my facebook support page, My Sailor.My Hero!!! We do giveaways, play games and answer questions/advice! help us reach 2,500 followers for our next GIVEAWAY! (the last prize was a pandora style Navy bracelet, so stay tuned for our next one!) COME JOIN US! www...
    caitc91 caitc91
    18-21, F
    Oct 24, 2012

    This Is For The Girls Who Are Waiting

    Please come and check out an amazing support site on facebook!! There are so many girls on there who have been great dealing with all of this and are glad to share their stories there just as you are already here. :) Check it out!! We'll be waiting.http://www.facebook.com...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 9, 2012

    A Day Longer, A Day Stronger!

    Hello everyone! I am a Navy fiancé, soon to be Navy wife in October! I’ve been dealing with military life for the past two years now and I’ve found that it’s easier to deal with when you make friends with people going through the same things as you. I’ve created two...
    hheidilee hheidilee
    26-30, F
    May 30, 2013

    Military Girlfriends, Fiances, And Wifes Support Group!

    My fiance is in the Navy and I've started a support page on Facebook for all of us who have our other half in the military <3. Come check it out! http://www.facebook.com/#!/pages/Im-in-love-and-hes-in-the-Military/419145518132361
    panda87 panda87
    Aug 10, 2012

    Love At First Sight

    My Fiancee and i have not been together as long as most, we started dating shortly before he left for Boot Camp. In the amount of time we did have together we fell madly in love. He proposed to me on his leave after A school. I just droped him off at the airport today for his...
    7zun3c1key 7zun3c1key
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2010

    My fiancé left for basic on Tuesday.

    I have anxiety (particularly separation anxiety) and depression. I am seeing my long term therapist. I'm so sad and lonely. I'm used to sleeping beside him every night and telling him all about my day. I feel so selfish and so pathetic, but I'm at my wits end in my own mind. I...
    emilygibby emilygibby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    Miss Him So Much!

    My fiance and I have been together for 6 1/2 years, this is his 2nd deployment. It's horrible to be away. I haven't heard for him in about 2 weeks and everyday it feels like my heart drops a little more. I don't want to wait to see him any longer, but I know the more time that...
    missmaliss missmaliss
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2009

    My Experince So Far....

    I'm engaged to my soon to be Sailor (he graduates in a little over 2 weeks) and we are getting married this Dec :) I'm so excited to see him at PIR. I write him daily and send him pictures of our daughter (who keeps asking if Daddys coming home) :( melts my heart everytime! She...
    USNfiancee USNfiancee
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2010

    Valentine's Day Gift For My Sailor

    My boyfriend/fiancee is in the Navy (Bootcamp), and Valentine's Day is coming up, My first problem is I've never gotten anyone anything on Valentine's Day, so i dont know what i should get. Second question is, can they receive things in bootcamp?
    LucyBee LucyBee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2012

    24 Days Left

    I only have 24 more days till I get to see my hubby graduate basic :) anyone else in the same boat?
    cullennichole cullennichole
    22-25, F
    Jul 29, 2013


    So does anyone else feel like if you go a week without crying about something (with them far away in the navy) that something must be wrong with you? He was home for leave and left three weeks ago to the day and the last two weeks have been tears tears tears. Tears about not...
    hishoneybee hishoneybee
    18-21, F
    Jan 24, 2013

    Is It Just Hormones? Is It Just Me?Is It Him?

    Omg I have seriously cried more in the last 24 hours than I have in the last three months. No Im not prego, long story short I was on b.c then ran out because I didnt keep track of my prescription and went a month off, and am a week late with aunt flow arriving today. I swear I...
    hishoneybee hishoneybee
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2013

    The Navy Man That Changes My Life!!

    Hello husbands,wifes,girlfriends and boyfriends too navy peeps!!Well it all started on a dating site!! we will never live that down. me and my man met up and we knew on the first date it would be special.Now 4 months down the line we are engaged!! :P I know it is quick but we...
    julia999 julia999
    Feb 1, 2011

    He Got Into His Dress Blues And Proposed!

    My fiance just proposed to me on Christmas eve while he was on liberty just after his basic training! its the best feeling in the world. i love that one more connection we share to each other now. :) I'm not looking forward to him being gone all the time. we haven't set a date...
    tcjc tcjc
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 26, 2010

    The Love Of My Life Is In The Navy!!

    I was rasied up in a Military family, but never dreamed of dating a Sailor could have so much effect on me!! I always hung around military people. I couldnt thank God enough for having all these Men in my life. Me and my sailor has been together for awhile and Im so glad to have...
    Averi Averi
    Jun 10, 2012

    Leave Out The Leave

    For those of you who live cross country from your sailor, do you ever have those days near his leave to come back where your just completely against it. Sometimes I feel like its so painful and such a tease of what we used to have that I dont want leave to happen and for the...
    hishoneybee hishoneybee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2012
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