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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    My boy friend of a year arrived at boot camp

    yesterday. I'm not used to being away from him and honestly I'm a little scared! He is my other half and missing him has already began.
    rainemew1 rainemew1 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    A wonderful, blissful weekend with my one

    and only is over.. The goodbye was hard, worse than any other. I cried, and he cried.. In our 2years of being together I have never seen him cry, as much as I kills me to leave him here, I feel so much stronger about our relationship.. These next 5 months will be nothing... I...
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    To All The Girls Whose Men Are In Boot

    I want to show you why you can get through this. Why it is worth it. Just based on the reassurance to all the insecurities I had, which Mathew was able to tell me once he was in A School and had some time to loosen up and start really talking.   I know you're hurting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses May 5, 2010

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    My boyfriend has been gone

    for some time and all he keeps mentioning in all our calls is that he wants me to move in, get married, and start a family. Im all for it, I love him but I'm scared. I want to move in with him but I know once I move out I'm not allowed to come back home. I have very strict...
    piscil piscil 18-21, F Feb 22

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    Non military couples just don't

    even know how incredibly lucky they are to get to see their other half everyday. Or every week. Or even every month.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    I can't believe I'm finally going to go see my

    love!! I've missed him like nobody's business. By Bay Area, hello Pensacola, Florida!!!
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm not a girlfriend anymore!

    ! ❤😊😊😊 My sailor popped the question today. He completely surprised me on my vacation. He made our initials in the sand and got down on one knee. I'm so happy and very proud to say that I'm a navy fiancée! ☺ Im super excited and I will try to post later when I can...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Fingers crossed and prayers

    that my husband comes home on Tuesday! It's been over 6 months since I seen him or since he got to hold our daughters
    cmp7876 cmp7876 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    My sailor left a week ago today,

    the days drag on and feel like forever. 67 days until I get too watch him graduate recruit school basic training. He called me last night for the first time and said he is feeling homesick, but he said I'm his motivation. I miss him so so much. he is so sweet and I speak on...
    chelsmaree chelsmaree 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm pregnant and he's getting stationed in

    Japan! We started dating while he was on shore duty so I didn't have to deal with underways and deployment yet. Its not easy for me to be far away from my bf but I figured I could handle it eventually. His shore duty ended in Nov 2014, he chose San Diego to be close to his...
    JadaLove909 JadaLove909 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    SamShamp SamShamp 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    We've been long distance

    for so long now but it's still hard when he goes underway for over a week and there is not even texting. I'm having really bad days and I just want to be with him.
    Steffi27 Steffi27 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Those Moments..

    So tonight I'm laying here after writing my boyfriend a letter, and it's one of those nights.. One of those nights where it just feels like you want to go buy a plane ticket and be with him, just be near him, even if it's only for a little while. You miss everything about him...
    smileeforsamm smileeforsamm 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Does anyone else have a sailor graduating April

    10th? Only 39 more days! Ahhh!
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    navygurl96 navygurl96 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    Yaaay! Tomorrow morning I'll finally be able to

    mail out all of my letters to him! There is a total of 9, since it has been 9 days. I hope he doesn't get singled out because of that or anything. I just can't wait to hear back from him and know he's doing okay. Gaaah ,and now time to play the waiting game once again until I...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    Just wanting to make sure,

    it's okay to send pictures in the letters to him in basic, right??
    madisonr17 madisonr17 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know where to begin.

    I'm overwhelmed and feel alone. He's leaving next week. I've known about this for months but it didn't hit me til today. I kept thinking March was still a long time away and that it wouldn't come as fast as it has...it did though. I actually even thought we still had a couple...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Is it excessive to write your bf at basic

    everyday? It's 8 weeks so that would total to 56 letters. Is that too much? Can he get in trouble?
    pandaminion pandaminion 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Sometimes, I Wonder...

    There are times I wake up in tears.I can never remember the nightmare that caused them- bits, pieces, but never enough to piece together what occurred entirely. Then I begin to think, and my mind wanders instantly to him. I remember exactly the way he looked in his uniform, the...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    I made a support page

    for navy women. if you'd like to meet new women go and like it. message me for details.
    navygurl96 navygurl96 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend left February 5

    for boot camp and I've been okay since yesterday. Yesterday was horrible and all I wanted was him to be here. People always take thier men for granted. But us women who have navy men love that 30 second im okay and I love you phone call. we cant text so we write letters. we dont...
    navygurl96 navygurl96 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl . . .

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 85 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    We sent him off to A-School today.

    I cried, not because I'm sad, but because this brave man chose me to stay by his side. I'm so proud of him. <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    I know this is bad...

    But this is my first deployment since first dating my boyfriend. He lives in guam at the moment, im in Cali, we are both from the same home town, so I love a few blocks down from his family. It's easy when he's in guam because we talk everyday on the phone or Skype and text as...
    bglick bglick 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Todays the day i get to see my sailor living

    his dream of graduating Navy Boot camp. Im so excited to see him!! Only a few more hours!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    I'm so thankful for you all.

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    We are talking about marriage!

    I'm so excited within the next year we will be engaged and I'll be following him wherever he goes. I haven't told anyone yet, because ik they won't really understand. But I'm glad I have you ladies to share this exciting news with!:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F Aug 4, 2014

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    12 hours and 8 minutes till graduation!

    Gah I'm so excited to see my sailor!!
    TheGirlWhoWaits TheGirlWhoWaits 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    ParadiseNavyGirl ParadiseNavyGirl 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Our last moments together

    before i had to say goodbye was so heartbreaking. I just hope time flys cause I already miss him.
    Zkrystal13 Zkrystal13 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Zkrystal13 Zkrystal13 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    My sailor proposed yesterday <3 And then I

    just had to drop him off at the airport. Goodbyes are so hard :'(
    LindseyMonet LindseyMonet 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Can some one tell me how long it usually takes

    to get the first letter from your sailor at boot camp? It's been 9 days since he left and I know that doesn't seem like long but I'm a wreck and I feel like each day gets harder and harder. I just want to know how he's adjusting and that he's okay
    rainemew1 rainemew1 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    One day, he looked at me

    and said, "Baby, I'm sorry for the Navy thing. I hate to put you through this." I looked him in the eyes and said, "I'm sorry for going to medical school to be a cardiologist." He said, "What do you mean? That's been your dream. I can't hate you for that." I said, "and I can...
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    Booked my nails and hair :) This is really

    happening!!!!!! Tomorrow my boyfriend arrives to his final port and will meet his relief. He has finally finished. There are no words to describe the pride I feel for his amazing work--I can't wait to celebrate his homecoming!!!!!
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 Aug 11, 2014

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    Girls, please don't give up on your guy.

    It will get easier, I promise. He needs you now more than ever. If you truly love him and believe he is the one for you, it will be worth it in the end. If you haven't heard from him, don't worry. That doesn't mean anything. Just keep hanging in there <3
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    pandaminion pandaminion 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY SAILOR TODAY!

    !!!!!!!!! So beyond happy!
    hayjays64 hayjays64 18-21, F Apr 17, 2014

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    Girls hang in there! I know how hard some days

    are; but push through it! I thought it would take forever for the day I get to see my sailor and I thought it would never get easier. And some days are easier than others. but at long as you try and keep busy; and write your sailors as much as you can. it will come faster than...
    aly17ah aly17ah 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Navy Girlfriends Prayer

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In Dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can't be here, Make it feel as though he's near...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 19 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    The Wonderful World Of The Emotional Rollercoaster

    Anyone who had a loved one in any branch of the military knows this ride all too well, and sadly for us, it isn't a ride we can get off easily. Just when you have one foot out of the rollercoaster car, the ride takes off again. I am (of course) no exception to this wonderfully...
    MissNavyGirl92 MissNavyGirl92 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    I hate it when people say it's too hard

    and that I should give up. They wonder how I trust that he isn't seeing other girls and that he is waiting for me too. I guess I just know, we have a trust that most people could never dream of having in a relationship. True; it is incredibly hard and there are moments that put...
    ussailorgf ussailorgf 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 18, 2014

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    I finally received letters from my sailor today!

    I can't even put into words how I feel right now. I cried the whole time while reading them and I'm still struggling to keep my composure now! He is so sweet and perfect, I can't believe how lucky I am. I'm beyond relieved to know that he is doing well and adjusting to the...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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