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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    Recieved my first letters from my sailor.

    very happy to hear from him! I hope getting letters helps time fly the way everyone says it does.
    Zkrystal13 Zkrystal13 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    Currently waiting for his parents

    for lunch, stressing out now I don't have a way to go see him graduate nothing is looking promising, freaking out his mom and I don't always see eye to eye =[
    Molgirl Molgirl 18-21 16 hrs ago

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    well im a navy girlfriend

    and my boyfriend has been on deployment for 3 years and hes getting to come home in august to me and our son who turns 3 in august just having a hard time with these last couple months missing him so much does it get any easier cause none of my friends knows what its like
    sierraandkyle sierraandkyle 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    How do you know whether to keep fighting to

    make it work or let go? I've talked to him about the communication issues and it doesn't change a single thing. Haven't talked in over a week now.
    ussailorgf ussailorgf 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    To All The Girls Whose Men Are In Boot

    I want to show you why you can get through this. Why it is worth it. Just based on the reassurance to all the insecurities I had, which Mathew was able to tell me once he was in A School and had some time to loosen up and start really talking.   I know you're hurting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 42 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Todays the day i get to see my sailor living

    his dream of graduating Navy Boot camp. Im so excited to see him!! Only a few more hours!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    What kind of call card should I get

    for my sailor who is in boot camp?
    pandaminion pandaminion 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Got a phone call 10 days

    after he left (yesterday) and I missed it when I was at work and when I resized and heard how voicemails I cried for probably a hour my boss just sent me to lunch so I could calm down and regroup so I could finish the next 4 hrs. Has this happened to anyone else I feel so...
    Misscourtni Misscourtni 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been gone

    for exactly 3 weeks, he graduates may 1st. I've only got one phone call, I sent him a letter before he sent one to me because we got his address from the information letter he sent. I'm scared he's not missing me as much as I'm missing him.
    jassyjas214 jassyjas214 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Wonderful World Of The Emotional Rollercoaster

    Anyone who had a loved one in any branch of the military knows this ride all too well, and sadly for us, it isn't a ride we can get off easily. Just when you have one foot out of the rollercoaster car, the ride takes off again. I am (of course) no exception to this wonderfully...
    MissNavyGirl92 MissNavyGirl92 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Acceptance

    I haven't talked to him in over a week. This is the first deployment I've ever had to go through with him. Before I met him, I knew nothing about the military & didn't really care. The last person to be in the military in my family was my grandpa, back in like the 50s. I have...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I haven't been on in a while

    but I have some good news I've been meaning to share! I'm pregnant!!!
    rainemew1 rainemew1 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend goes off to basic in 3 months I

    could use some advice and support from those of you going through it.
    alyssa636 alyssa636 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Those Moments..

    So tonight I'm laying here after writing my boyfriend a letter, and it's one of those nights.. One of those nights where it just feels like you want to go buy a plane ticket and be with him, just be near him, even if it's only for a little while. You miss everything about him...
    smileeforsamm smileeforsamm 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    kourtmpope kourtmpope 22-25, F Mar 9

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    Booked my nails and hair :) This is really

    happening!!!!!! Tomorrow my boyfriend arrives to his final port and will meet his relief. He has finally finished. There are no words to describe the pride I feel for his amazing work--I can't wait to celebrate his homecoming!!!!!
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 Aug 11, 2014

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    I sometimes feel like my boyfriend doesn't have

    the same feelings towards me. I always worry he will loose feelings cause we are so far apart
    bglick bglick 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's driving me crazy not hearing from him

    and I have a fear that when his letters do get to me it's only going to be one short one while Iv been writing almost every day. Insecurities taking over I feel like he's not missing me and I'm sure he is it's got to be harder on him than me but it sounds like it's common to...
    Misscourtni Misscourtni 22-25 2 Responses a week ago

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    Today is the day! Hopping on a plane to Great

    Lakes, IL to surprise my boyfriend after his graduation ceremony πŸ’™ I can't wait! Stay strong to the rest of you ladies. Your day will be here soon enough and you won't even be thinking of how much you miss your SO. You'll just be thinking of how much you want to kiss them!
    Gabby161 Gabby161 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    As Valentine's Day Approaches...

    I have always thought Valentine's Day was stupid, but it makes me miss Mikey, of course. I was talking to some of my friends about what they are doing etc.. I was just thinking how lucky we are, their men will probably never write them a love letter. Our civilian girlfriends will...
    jenmac715 jenmac715 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    Dear Civilian Girl . . .

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 85 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    I have 16more days till I get to see my Navy

    man! I can not contain my joy! It is hard not being able to talk to your best friend everyday!
    Molgirl Molgirl 18-21 1 day ago

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    He called me yesterday

    and it was absolutely wonderful. 32 more days...
    MyDiver33 MyDiver33 18-21, F Mar 8

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    Girls hang in there! I know how hard some days

    are; but push through it! I thought it would take forever for the day I get to see my sailor and I thought it would never get easier. And some days are easier than others. but at long as you try and keep busy; and write your sailors as much as you can. it will come faster than...
    aly17ah aly17ah 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    I am no longer a Navy girlfriend.

    As of yesterday I am a Navy wife :D keeping it under the radar from our families and had to share with people who I knew would genuinely understand and be happy for me :)
    SailorLove92 SailorLove92 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    I just need to get some things off my chest.

    I'm feeling terrible. We spent the day together and it was wonderful....til I got the hint that he was leaving soon. I started crying really hard. I felt ashamed to tell him I was crying because I didn't want him to go. I have a hard time talking about deep emotions like sadness...
    MedicineCabinet MedicineCabinet 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 18, 2014

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    Just got my 2nd call.

    about 20 minutes long. but so glad i got to hear from him again! April 24th is not coming soon enough. cant wait to see my handsome bf graduate! ??
    Zkrystal13 Zkrystal13 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY SAILOR TODAY!

    !!!!!!!!! So beyond happy!
    hayjays64 hayjays64 18-21, F Apr 17, 2014

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    One day, he looked at me

    and said, "Baby, I'm sorry for the Navy thing. I hate to put you through this." I looked him in the eyes and said, "I'm sorry for going to medical school to be a cardiologist." He said, "What do you mean? That's been your dream. I can't hate you for that." I said, "and I can...
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    4 weeks down, 4 to go!

    !😊 I can't believe he's already halfway done!!
    madisonr17 madisonr17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Going to bed with a smile on my face.

    One day closer to seeing our loved ones!! Stay positive ladies! We can do it!;)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    Woo-hoo! Rooms at the hotel are being reserved.

    . Getting ready to go to my Sailor's graduation:) September 5th. Let's just hope my Best Friend get those days off at work *fingers crossed* CAN'T WAIT to see my Sailor's accomplishing one of his dreams:) Now I need to stop by the post office after work to send these letters<...
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Our bed time phone call,

    puts my heart in its happy place. Time for sweet dreams and a peaceful sleep. August won't be here soon enough!! Stay strong ladies and have a beautiful night!!
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F Mar 17

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    ashleysan93 ashleysan93 18-21, F Mar 17

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    Oh my goodness, I get to see him in two days!

    And he called me yesterday which was amazing! We got to talk for an hour and it was magical. I can't wait to see him for real. Ah I'm so excited
    ashleysan93 ashleysan93 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F Aug 4, 2014

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 12, 2014

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    My sailor will be here in less

    than 20 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! To say I am freaking out is a total understatement lol...his family wanted first dibs so Friday was moved to Sunday but it doesn't matter anymore but the reunion is basically here. I'm going to cry and he hasn't even arrived...
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    I know its different

    for everyone. But how many times did your sailors get to call you during Bootcamp? just wondering.
    Zkrystal13 Zkrystal13 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    it hurts so bad every time I get off the phone

    with him. I am forgetting what it feels like to be in his arms. I am forgetting what he taste like. I want him. Plain and simple. I want just him. I want him more then I want food or sleep. He is all I think about. some days I feel fine, but others I feel like complete poop.
    joeymc67 joeymc67 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Girls, please don't give up on your guy.

    It will get easier, I promise. He needs you now more than ever. If you truly love him and believe he is the one for you, it will be worth it in the end. If you haven't heard from him, don't worry. That doesn't mean anything. Just keep hanging in there <3
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Navy Girlfriends Prayer

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In Dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can't be here, Make it feel as though he's near...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 19 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Well this really sucks.

    .. My boyfriend leaves on a nine month deployment tomorrow morning, and promised that he was going to call me before he left, but he just fell asleep.
    15Meghan 15Meghan 16-17, F Mar 8

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    My boyfriend just left to basic training

    😞today !! I didn't know this was going to be so hard !! βš“οΈπŸ˜’
    kaztey kaztey 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    My boyfriend sent me my first letters

    and as I read them I was bawling. It was so reassuring to think he thinks of me every day and how much he misses me. These three past weeks were hell, but this made me feel much better
    jassyjas214 jassyjas214 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    ashleysan93 ashleysan93 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16