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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    I swear I can be having the best day ever then

    a love song comes on.... Then that's when I go to thinking lol 😩😩.
    navygf94 navygf94 18-21, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Love

    I think I'm beginning to figure this all out. I have my awful days. Those days where you want to do nothing but sit in your bed and cry. Where you feel like you miss him so much all you want to do is sleep until he returns again. And the days where I'm so insecure about myself...
    clacey clacey 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I got 3 letters, this time he didn't tell me

    about what was going on, he just kept telling me how much he loves me, asked about our baby a lot :), and called me his fiance. I couldn't be happier :)
    Vianca1992 Vianca1992 22-25, F 2 Responses 40 mins ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Navymilso Navymilso 18-21, F Aug 4

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    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Acceptance

    I haven't talked to him in over a week. This is the first deployment I've ever had to go through with him. Before I met him, I knew nothing about the military & didn't really care. The last person to be in the military in my family was my grandpa, back in like the 50s. I have...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I'm so thankful for you all.

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F Aug 12

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    12 hours and 8 minutes till graduation!

    Gah I'm so excited to see my sailor!!
    TheGirlWhoWaits TheGirlWhoWaits 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    It'ssssss LETTER DAY!

    !!!!!!!! I hope you all receive a letter from your SO today:) <333 Fingers crossed*
    Navygfwaiting Navygfwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    OMG just got a letter from him!

    !! <333 I feel SO much better and I'm so happy. This gave me the reassurance I needed. Thank you Lord!!
    Navymilso Navymilso 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Sooo we just have to get through today

    and then TOMORROW we can stalk the mailman!!! WOOHOO :)
    Navygfwaiting Navygfwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 12

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    Connecting with families

    and friends from his division feels amazing. I'm glad I found these groups. Girls if you haven't all ready do a quick search on Facebook of his PIR date, you'll surprised at what you find. I even got to order his division shirt before they went off sale!
    kayparker1 kayparker1 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    SamShamp SamShamp 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Here is a link for those of you

    who are curious about what to expect during the PIR ceremony :) Enjoy! http://www.livestream.com/usnavyrtc/video?clipId=pla_1eaefc0a-072b-4116-a3ad-fbd8320dca73
    Navygfwaiting Navygfwaiting 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    My sailor graduated today,

    He goes off to Hawaii in two weeks. Words cant explain how proud I am.
    jessicalouisexo jessicalouisexo 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    When my boyfriend graduates from A school

    (Gunner's Mate) how long before he gets deployed? And can I go with him when he gets deployed?
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I'm going to be really sad

    if I don't get a letter today. Especially since I didn't get one last week either. I know he's busy and don't have much time to write, but there's always that fear that he didn't simply just because he didn't want to. What if I don't ever get another letter? :( Thank GOD there's...
    Navymilso Navymilso 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My sailor graduates A-School this Friday

    and I will see him in 6 days.
    CNoms21 CNoms21 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I am no longer a Navy girlfriend.

    As of yesterday I am a Navy wife :D keeping it under the radar from our families and had to share with people who I knew would genuinely understand and be happy for me :)
    SailorLove92 SailorLove92 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    Today is great. I got my hoodie with his name

    on it in the mail, a letter, and I got to see a picture of him! He looks so different with his glasses and NWU's but god is it great to see his face!
    kayparker1 kayparker1 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl . . .

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 85 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Girls hang in there! I know how hard some days

    are; but push through it! I thought it would take forever for the day I get to see my sailor and I thought it would never get easier. And some days are easier than others. but at long as you try and keep busy; and write your sailors as much as you can. it will come faster than...
    aly17ah aly17ah 16-17, F Aug 12

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    The Wonderful World Of The Emotional Rollercoaster

    Anyone who had a loved one in any branch of the military knows this ride all too well, and sadly for us, it isn't a ride we can get off easily. Just when you have one foot out of the rollercoaster car, the ride takes off again. I am (of course) no exception to this wonderfully...
    MissNavyGirl92 MissNavyGirl92 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Girls, please don't give up on your guy.

    It will get easier, I promise. He needs you now more than ever. If you truly love him and believe he is the one for you, it will be worth it in the end. If you haven't heard from him, don't worry. That doesn't mean anything. Just keep hanging in there <3
    Navymilso Navymilso 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Vianca1992 Vianca1992 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    You loved me when I was loving the wrong guy.

    You made me laugh when my cousin died and I had no sense of humor. And you took a risk and decided to start your game by adding your number in my phone. We would call each other "uncondish" because you made fun of me when I sang that one Katy Perry song. You took me by surprise...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I see that it's letter day today

    but since my boyfriend just arrived to bootcamp yesterday I'm not expecting anything 😥
    tsmith25 tsmith25 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    As Valentine's Day Approaches...

    I have always thought Valentine's Day was stupid, but it makes me miss Mikey, of course. I was talking to some of my friends about what they are doing etc.. I was just thinking how lucky we are, their men will probably never write them a love letter. Our civilian girlfriends will...
    jenmac715 jenmac715 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    angelhaynes angelhaynes 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    angelhaynes angelhaynes 16-17, F 21 hrs ago

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    No matter what the circumstances,

    no matter how lonely the days get or how slowly time drags, just remember: Your sailor/ soldier/ marine/ etc. loves you more than you can imagine. These times are tests of faithfulness and loyalty. We see other couples together and instantly miss our man even more. But guess...
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I finally got my first letter sent to my house

    instead of his! It's so exciting getting one and being able to hear his voice as I read it. He keeps a journal every night that he sends me so I can put all four together and read them that way and I love it. He keeps saying how much he wants me at his graduation and it makes me...
    brianne2015 brianne2015 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm not a girlfriend anymore!

    ! ❤😊😊😊 My sailor popped the question today. He completely surprised me on my vacation. He made our initials in the sand and got down on one knee. I'm so happy and very proud to say that I'm a navy fiancée! ☺ Im super excited and I will try to post later when I can...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    One day, he looked at me

    and said, "Baby, I'm sorry for the Navy thing. I hate to put you through this." I looked him in the eyes and said, "I'm sorry for going to medical school to be a cardiologist." He said, "What do you mean? That's been your dream. I can't hate you for that." I said, "and I can...
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Seven more days until I get onto a plane to go

    see my Sailor graduate. Then off to A School he goes...
    ProudNavyMAGirlfriend ProudNavyMAGirlfriend 16-17, F 18 hrs ago

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    Who needs Prince Charming

    when you can have a sailor? <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    This Ones For Us (:

    For all of you who wake up in the morning, lay there for a few moments, trying to swallow the sick feeling in the pit of your stomach as you wonder where your sailor is, or how he's doing...this is for you.For all of you who start a countdown the minute he leaves, and continue to...
    lyssalovesit lyssalovesit 22-25, F 65 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It's kind of sad how bad interracial couples

    are frowned upon. You may not see it in your personal life, but it's definitely out there. Random rant because I remember being awfully judged when I dated someone of color.
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    My sailor will be here in less

    than 20 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! To say I am freaking out is a total understatement lol...his family wanted first dibs so Friday was moved to Sunday but it doesn't matter anymore but the reunion is basically here. I'm going to cry and he hasn't even arrived...
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    When he called Saturday he said he was gonna

    get to mail stuff. Trying not to get my hopes up, but I'm realllyyyyy anxious. Mail man needs to hurry.
    melycakes melycakes 16-17, F 5 mins ago

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    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 14 hrs ago

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    Letter day girls hope you all get one,

    if you don't then write him/her one!!!!
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Non military couples just don't

    even know how incredibly lucky they are to get to see their other half everyday. Or every week. Or even every month.
    Navymilso Navymilso 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes, I Wonder...

    There are times I wake up in tears.I can never remember the nightmare that caused them- bits, pieces, but never enough to piece together what occurred entirely. Then I begin to think, and my mind wanders instantly to him. I remember exactly the way he looked in his uniform, the...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    One week down, 7 more to go!

    I'm hanging in there. :)
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Today is the day! Hopping on a plane to Great

    Lakes, IL to surprise my boyfriend after his graduation ceremony 💙 I can't wait! Stay strong to the rest of you ladies. Your day will be here soon enough and you won't even be thinking of how much you miss your SO. You'll just be thinking of how much you want to kiss them!
    Gabby161 Gabby161 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Those Moments..

    So tonight I'm laying here after writing my boyfriend a letter, and it's one of those nights.. One of those nights where it just feels like you want to go buy a plane ticket and be with him, just be near him, even if it's only for a little while. You miss everything about him...
    smileeforsamm smileeforsamm 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Booked my nails and hair :) This is really

    happening!!!!!! Tomorrow my boyfriend arrives to his final port and will meet his relief. He has finally finished. There are no words to describe the pride I feel for his amazing work--I can't wait to celebrate his homecoming!!!!!
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 22-25 Aug 11

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    When you feel every bit of your heart hurting

    when you see everyone else with theirs spouses but you can't have yours :'(
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Just wanted to send a quick update-my boyfriend

    came home Sunday!!!! Life has truly been perfect. He has been at my place since he got home and we have just had the best time reconnecting and being us. It's amazing to feel so complete again. Will send more later. Xoxo
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 22-25 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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