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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    To All The Girls Whose Men Are In Boot

    I want to show you why you can get through this. Why it is worth it. Just based on the reassurance to all the insecurities I had, which Mathew was able to tell me once he was in A School and had some time to loosen up and start really talking.   I know you're hurting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Going to bed with a smile on my face.

    One day closer to seeing our loved ones!! Stay positive ladies! We can do it!;)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My sailor graduates A-School this Friday

    and I will see him in 6 days.
    CNoms21 CNoms21 18-21, F Aug 16

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    One day, he looked at me

    and said, "Baby, I'm sorry for the Navy thing. I hate to put you through this." I looked him in the eyes and said, "I'm sorry for going to medical school to be a cardiologist." He said, "What do you mean? That's been your dream. I can't hate you for that." I said, "and I can...
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 18

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F Aug 4

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    It's 6:05am and I am in SO much pain.

    I went to the doctor because I thought I had strep and it came back negative. Ugh. I just want it to go away. I'm so damn irritated. I ALWAYS get strep throat or a sore throat and I'm always in pain and I just want them OUT. I can barely breath, eat, drink and I definitely can't...
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    i miss tracing your skin with my finger tips,

    i miss it so much. while sitting in your car late at night after long shifts at work. if there was ever a moment i could keep forever and re live over and over it'd be those ones πŸ’œ
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    Acceptance

    I haven't talked to him in over a week. This is the first deployment I've ever had to go through with him. Before I met him, I knew nothing about the military & didn't really care. The last person to be in the military in my family was my grandpa, back in like the 50s. I have...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Does anybody know what time of the day they

    usually get mail call? Kind of a silly question but I would like to know :) haha
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I miss him so much:(

    for some reason I feel like this is going to be the longest week of my life. I just want to see him already!! September 5th here I come:)
    CayleighQ CayleighQ 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    He's an official sailor!

    Hooyah!!! So proud of my boy! :)
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    About halfway through boot camp.

    😊 He really wants me at his graduation but my parents aren't too sure about it. :/
    melycakes melycakes 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I got to see my sailor graduate today.

    Got to spend a few hours with him. Tomorrow I will go see him at the airport and after he gets on his plane, I will go get on my plane and it will start all over again. So glad I got to be with him. :)
    ProudNavyMAGirlfriend ProudNavyMAGirlfriend 16-17, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    This girl is ready for snow

    and ready for her baby to come home!
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    I can't believe I have less then a month!

    I miss him so much, but got a letter and he says he's doing great and is loving boot camp. Also, I switched my math teachers and I can go to the Graduation! This week can't get any better :)
    FMP25 FMP25 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm starting to wonder

    if I care more about him than he does me. I'm scared that he's changed while being in bootcamp. I have so many fears right now. I see all these other girls getting tons of letters a week plus phone calls. He won't tell me that he loves me in his letters and I have told him I...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    So I found out I have mono.

    :( I have seriously never been in so much pain in my life! And it sucks even more because Kenneth is literally the only person that can make me feel better when I'm sick. I miss him so much.
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I'm not a girlfriend anymore!

    ! ❀😊😊😊 My sailor popped the question today. He completely surprised me on my vacation. He made our initials in the sand and got down on one knee. I'm so happy and very proud to say that I'm a navy fiancée! ☺ Im super excited and I will try to post later when I can...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    There's so many things I want to say to him.

    Next Friday can't come quick enough.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    The Wonderful World Of The Emotional Rollercoaster

    Anyone who had a loved one in any branch of the military knows this ride all too well, and sadly for us, it isn't a ride we can get off easily. Just when you have one foot out of the rollercoaster car, the ride takes off again. I am (of course) no exception to this wonderfully...
    MissNavyGirl92 MissNavyGirl92 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Woo-hoo! Rooms at the hotel are being reserved.

    . Getting ready to go to my Sailor's graduation:) September 5th. Let's just hope my Best Friend get those days off at work *fingers crossed* CAN'T WAIT to see my Sailor's accomplishing one of his dreams:) Now I need to stop by the post office after work to send these letters<...
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 12

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    It's graduation day!!

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
    Navygirlfriend99 Navygirlfriend99 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    kayparker1 kayparker1 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    How is the address to send letters to bootcamp

    supposed to be written out on the envelope?
    tsmith25 tsmith25 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Booked my nails and hair :) This is really

    happening!!!!!! Tomorrow my boyfriend arrives to his final port and will meet his relief. He has finally finished. There are no words to describe the pride I feel for his amazing work--I can't wait to celebrate his homecoming!!!!!
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 22-25 Aug 11

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    I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY SAILOR TODAY!

    !!!!!!!!! So beyond happy!
    hayjays64 hayjays64 18-21, F Apr 17

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    SamShamp SamShamp 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Watching graduation live right

    now to see my baby perform!!! (Even though he doesn't graduate until 09/12) :)
    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Today is the day! Hopping on a plane to Great

    Lakes, IL to surprise my boyfriend after his graduation ceremony πŸ’™ I can't wait! Stay strong to the rest of you ladies. Your day will be here soon enough and you won't even be thinking of how much you miss your SO. You'll just be thinking of how much you want to kiss them!
    Gabby161 Gabby161 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Who needs Prince Charming

    when you can have a sailor? <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    I hate being alone long enough with my thoughts

    to even think about it. Because I know I’m still not even close to being "over" it. I've been trying to avoid my feelings but the truth is I still hurt so bad...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    As Valentine's Day Approaches...

    I have always thought Valentine's Day was stupid, but it makes me miss Mikey, of course. I was talking to some of my friends about what they are doing etc.. I was just thinking how lucky we are, their men will probably never write them a love letter. Our civilian girlfriends will...
    jenmac715 jenmac715 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    I am no longer a Navy girlfriend.

    As of yesterday I am a Navy wife :D keeping it under the radar from our families and had to share with people who I knew would genuinely understand and be happy for me :)
    SailorLove92 SailorLove92 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 11

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    My sailor will be here in less

    than 20 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! To say I am freaking out is a total understatement lol...his family wanted first dibs so Friday was moved to Sunday but it doesn't matter anymore but the reunion is basically here. I'm going to cry and he hasn't even arrived...
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    My sailors Dad just called me

    and said that Kenneth called to let them know he was doing okay and that he had passed all of his tests so far! I'm so excited to know that he's doing okay!
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    12 hours and 8 minutes till graduation!

    Gah I'm so excited to see my sailor!!
    TheGirlWhoWaits TheGirlWhoWaits 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I've cried till I just can't cry anymore.

    I just want to feel okay again.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Fan girling over my boyfriend

    so hard!!! Got a picture of him performing for today's graduation!<3 So proud of him!
    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm so thankful for you all.

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F Aug 12

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    Hey girlies, well my sailors sister told me

    that they got "the box" but no address was there:/ does this happen often? Or is she trying to keep me from talking to him?:(
    ISnavygf ISnavygf 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I missed his call and feel

    so horrible. Anyone have advice or nice words? I could use it!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Got two more letters she mentions getting

    married when she gets home and all the little things that we have done :) makes the wait worth it
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm confused and hurt.

    Idk what to think. My bf officially became a sailor this evening and he didn't call me to tell me the big news. I'm sure there's an explanation, but it hurts to think he just didn't want to call me :(
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    T minus 12 hours until I pick him up on base!

    I'm so excited! For everyone else who is still waiting on their guy/gal. It will end!
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl . . .

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 85 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Navy Girlfriends Prayer

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In Dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can't be here, Make it feel as though he's near...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 19 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    Non military couples just don't

    even know how incredibly lucky they are to get to see their other half everyday. Or every week. Or even every month.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Those Moments..

    So tonight I'm laying here after writing my boyfriend a letter, and it's one of those nights.. One of those nights where it just feels like you want to go buy a plane ticket and be with him, just be near him, even if it's only for a little while. You miss everything about him...
    smileeforsamm smileeforsamm 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Sometimes, I Wonder...

    There are times I wake up in tears.I can never remember the nightmare that caused them- bits, pieces, but never enough to piece together what occurred entirely. Then I begin to think, and my mind wanders instantly to him. I remember exactly the way he looked in his uniform, the...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    This Ones For Us (:

    For all of you who wake up in the morning, lay there for a few moments, trying to swallow the sick feeling in the pit of your stomach as you wonder where your sailor is, or how he's doing...this is for you.For all of you who start a countdown the minute he leaves, and continue to...
    lyssalovesit lyssalovesit 22-25, F 65 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    Love

    I think I'm beginning to figure this all out. I have my awful days. Those days where you want to do nothing but sit in your bed and cry. Where you feel like you miss him so much all you want to do is sleep until he returns again. And the days where I'm so insecure about myself...
    clacey clacey 18-21, F 2 Responses