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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    hi loves. i miss you all.

    & i see so many new faces & names. so hi to you too. yes, its true... me & my sailor have been working on ourselves! & our relationship! so much more happiness & love in the air this time. though nothing is official yet. im always keeping a positive mind. we haven't seen each...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F Jan 24

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    I joined this site because I was hoping to

    connect with girls who have Navy girlfriends coz it's just so hard for my friends to understand how I feel every time he leaves. He's going on a 6-8 months deployment in March, but he just left today to do some sort of pre-deployment thing which means I won't be able to talk him...
    alohagirl23 alohagirl23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    He dumped me a few days ago

    and everytime I think about it I start crying. I am so lost. I can't believe it.
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Has anyone ever felt angry at their sailor

    for no reason? Tomorrows my birthday and today I've just felt angry.. Waiting all day to hear from him and still haven't.. he has his phone to text. I know he's probably busy or asleep, but sometimes I wonder how I can call this a relationship when I talk to him for maybe an...
    justkeepswimming1744 justkeepswimming1744 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    So my sailor is in Great Lakes right

    now at A school and it has been great because I'm only 2 hours away so I can see him on the weekends when liberty is dropped! But this past weekend he really wanted to see American Sniper. So of course we went... But with 3 more of his friends. I had to hold back all my tears...
    Haleyraelove96 Haleyraelove96 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I haven't really been counting down the days

    left until I see him but holy crap! I just realized it's less than 2 weeks away! I am so excited. I still can't believe that I get to spend Valentine's Day Weekend w/ him. I can't wait to paddle down the lake where Noah and Allie did from The Notebook and tour the plantations...
    aiahlove aiahlove 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Todays the day i get to see my sailor living

    his dream of graduating Navy Boot camp. Im so excited to see him!! Only a few more hours!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    Sometimes, I Wonder...

    There are times I wake up in tears.I can never remember the nightmare that caused them- bits, pieces, but never enough to piece together what occurred entirely. Then I begin to think, and my mind wanders instantly to him. I remember exactly the way he looked in his uniform, the...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    hi guys I am new on here.

    I am 23. I just moved to San Diego from Florida about a month ago to move in with my sailor. My birthday is in 2 days and he is out at sea for at least a week:( which I know seems like a short amount of time but they are preparing for their 9 month deployment. I really miss him...
    Blatchleysgirl92 Blatchleysgirl92 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This Ones For Us (:

    For all of you who wake up in the morning, lay there for a few moments, trying to swallow the sick feeling in the pit of your stomach as you wonder where your sailor is, or how he's doing...this is for you.For all of you who start a countdown the minute he leaves, and continue to...
    lyssalovesit lyssalovesit 22-25, F 65 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    I am no longer a Navy girlfriend.

    As of yesterday I am a Navy wife :D keeping it under the radar from our families and had to share with people who I knew would genuinely understand and be happy for me :)
    SailorLove92 SailorLove92 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    I'm so thankful for you all.

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    As Valentine's Day Approaches...

    I have always thought Valentine's Day was stupid, but it makes me miss Mikey, of course. I was talking to some of my friends about what they are doing etc.. I was just thinking how lucky we are, their men will probably never write them a love letter. Our civilian girlfriends will...
    jenmac715 jenmac715 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    To All The Girls Whose Men Are In Boot

    I want to show you why you can get through this. Why it is worth it. Just based on the reassurance to all the insecurities I had, which Mathew was able to tell me once he was in A School and had some time to loosen up and start really talking.   I know you're hurting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Just got home from san diego.

    I was literally crying on my way home saying goodbye to him cuz I knew he had to go back inside the ship and theres no freakin signal, instead of moving this early march he wants me to move in asap just so he can come home after work to a home and not go back to the freakin...
    rejinuuh rejinuuh 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So it has finally hit me

    that my boyfriend will be leaving me to go into the navy, last night we talked about it so I could understand it more. He told me that he is going to get his degree doing online school and see what job he gets after that so idk how long that means he will be doing this for... I...
    cholrach cholrach 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I need him tonight more

    than ever. MG grandma, who I'm extremely close too, just passed away.. I just want him to hold me, kiss my forehead, and tell me it's all going to be ok... This part of being with a sailor sucks big time...
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I keep telling myself to be strong

    because I need to for myself and for him as well. But I can't help but just cry when I think about how difficult it is to wake every morning hoping that I'll get to talk to him. It sucks so bad. And not knowing how he is makes it even worse.
    alohagirl23 alohagirl23 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    SamShamp SamShamp 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2014

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    My boyfriend just left

    for boot camp yesterday. He enlisted as Special Operations: Navy SEAL. It was ... bad but not at the same time. We've been dating for over four years now, and all four of those years we have been in a long distance relationship. Our relationship is very strong, and we are VERY...
    ANavyGirl21 ANavyGirl21 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The Wonderful World Of The Emotional Rollercoaster

    Anyone who had a loved one in any branch of the military knows this ride all too well, and sadly for us, it isn't a ride we can get off easily. Just when you have one foot out of the rollercoaster car, the ride takes off again. I am (of course) no exception to this wonderfully...
    MissNavyGirl92 MissNavyGirl92 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Navy Girlfriends Prayer

    As I lay me down to sleep. I pray the Lord my soul to keep. To help me clear my cluttered mind. To help me through these desperate times. To bring my love to me all night. In Dreams where everything feels so right. That even if he can't be here, Make it feel as though he's near...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 19 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    My boyfriend of almost 5 years left

    for bootcamp just a few days ago and I miss him so much it hurts. I've cried every day he is my best friend. I am just so afraid for our relationship all I can think about is that he is going to realize he won't need me. I keep re-reading text messages of him telling me he loves...
    kfyt1223 kfyt1223 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Acceptance

    I haven't talked to him in over a week. This is the first deployment I've ever had to go through with him. Before I met him, I knew nothing about the military & didn't really care. The last person to be in the military in my family was my grandpa, back in like the 50s. I have...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    My boyfriend leaves for boot camp next week.

    .I am not ready at all. I am so excited for him, but I am so nervous to see what life is going to be without him. I'm definitely going to need all of you here to share what I'm feeling..
    madisonr17 madisonr17 18-21, F 10 hrs ago

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F Aug 4, 2014

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    Three days ago he called me in the middle of

    the night to tell me how much he loves me. Yesterday was his birthday. Today he broke up with me. He said that feelings for someone from the past have resurfaced and he can't be in a relationship while he's "take care of it". I cannot believe this. I honestly thought he was the...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    I got three letters from my sailor friday.

    it's the first time I've heard from him since he left three weeks ago. I smiled for hours and I still re-read them dozens of times through the day. the things he said made me feel so good, and hearing how much he loves me and needs me makes me feel so important. he got to call...
    navygf25 navygf25 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Dear Civilian Girl . . .

    Dear civilian girl, You complain that your boyfriend has worked late all week and have barely seen him. -I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together. You complain because he doesn't call you enough. -My heart is thankful for the 15 second phone call I got last...
    phattsilyangel phattsilyangel 18-21, F 85 Responses Jan 23, 2010

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    does anyone ever feel like they have a really,

    really ****** day but that they don't want to tell their sailor? because you feel like it's not as bad, not as important as the grueling hard training they did that day? And you don't want to make it worse, to waste the couple hours you have to talk to them on something unhappy...
    justkeepswimming1744 justkeepswimming1744 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My sailor will be here in less

    than 20 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! To say I am freaking out is a total understatement lol...his family wanted first dibs so Friday was moved to Sunday but it doesn't matter anymore but the reunion is basically here. I'm going to cry and he hasn't even arrived...
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    We sent him off to A-School today.

    I cried, not because I'm sad, but because this brave man chose me to stay by his side. I'm so proud of him. <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    We are talking about marriage!

    I'm so excited within the next year we will be engaged and I'll be following him wherever he goes. I haven't told anyone yet, because ik they won't really understand. But I'm glad I have you ladies to share this exciting news with!:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    Counting down until April,

    I'm so excited to see and marry my sailor!
    Ashabella Ashabella 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Any Navy girlfriends out there from Illinois?

    I wish I could sit down and talk to someone about all of this. I've tried talking to my friends but they really don't understand.
    Haleyraelove96 Haleyraelove96 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    Found out today that I get to graduate early:)

    so that means I'll be able to go with Tyler in May when he moves to his next station! Now just to wait and see where that's going to be! These next 4 months are going to be amazing from visiting him on my birthday/valentines day to marrying him in April then moving in May:) I...
    CayleighQ CayleighQ 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Girls hang in there! I know how hard some days

    are; but push through it! I thought it would take forever for the day I get to see my sailor and I thought it would never get easier. And some days are easier than others. but at long as you try and keep busy; and write your sailors as much as you can. it will come faster than...
    aly17ah aly17ah 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Going to bed with a smile on my face.

    One day closer to seeing our loved ones!! Stay positive ladies! We can do it!;)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    Found out my sailor won't be coming home

    when we thought... It's all up in the air right now.. It sick because we had a plan, but I guess I need to get used to the Navy messing with those. Ugh, why does Pensacola, FL have to be so far from California? I miss my Michael?
    KristiMariee KristiMariee 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have 63 days left until my sailors pass out.

    I never want to let him go once I get hold of him. I'm not getting to see him on Valentine's Day, and he goes for his phase 2 training just before our anniversary. How on earth do you deal with never having your sailor around for special occasions?
    PippaB23 PippaB23 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    My boys "Box" came in the other day.

    It made me so giddy and happy even though I had already known it was coming. It was almost as if I had heard from him or something of the sort. Now I'm just waiting for that darned address so I can send him all of the letters I've already written him. XD Is there anyone out...
    ANavyGirl21 ANavyGirl21 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Girls, please don't give up on your guy.

    It will get easier, I promise. He needs you now more than ever. If you truly love him and believe he is the one for you, it will be worth it in the end. If you haven't heard from him, don't worry. That doesn't mean anything. Just keep hanging in there <3
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Woo-hoo! Rooms at the hotel are being reserved.

    . Getting ready to go to my Sailor's graduation:) September 5th. Let's just hope my Best Friend get those days off at work *fingers crossed* CAN'T WAIT to see my Sailor's accomplishing one of his dreams:) Now I need to stop by the post office after work to send these letters<...
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    I'm not a girlfriend anymore!

    ! โค๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š My sailor popped the question today. He completely surprised me on my vacation. He made our initials in the sand and got down on one knee. I'm so happy and very proud to say that I'm a navy fiancรฉe! โ˜บ Im super excited and I will try to post later when I can...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 18, 2014

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    213 days until my boyfriend leaves

    for basic. I'm scared so much but I'm not letting him know that. I've cried every night since he told me this is what he wants to do. Ik he's doing it so he can make a better future for us but I can't stand the thought of him being gone that long.
    Taylor91313 Taylor91313 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    12 hours and 8 minutes till graduation!

    Gah I'm so excited to see my sailor!!
    TheGirlWhoWaits TheGirlWhoWaits 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Even though I might be frustrated about the

    distance and not being able to see my sailor. I could not be more proud of him and I could not be more proud to be a Navy girlfriend!
    Haleyraelove96 Haleyraelove96 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Non military couples just don't

    even know how incredibly lucky they are to get to see their other half everyday. Or every week. Or even every month.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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