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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

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    To All The Girls Whose Men Are In Boot

    I want to show you why you can get through this. Why it is worth it. Just based on the reassurance to all the insecurities I had, which Mathew was able to tell me once he was in A School and had some time to loosen up and start really talking.   I know you're hurting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 42 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Girls hang in there! I know how hard some days

    are; but push through it! I thought it would take forever for the day I get to see my sailor and I thought it would never get easier. And some days are easier than others. but at long as you try and keep busy; and write your sailors as much as you can. it will come faster than...
    aly17ah aly17ah 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Non military couples just don't

    even know how incredibly lucky they are to get to see their other half everyday. Or every week. Or even every month.
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    Does anyone know when they find out

    where they'll be stationed after A school?
    ebonyllewis ebonyllewis 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I can't wait for his graduation!

    I miss him so much!!! <3
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Those Moments..

    So tonight I'm laying here after writing my boyfriend a letter, and it's one of those nights.. One of those nights where it just feels like you want to go buy a plane ticket and be with him, just be near him, even if it's only for a little while. You miss everything about him...
    smileeforsamm smileeforsamm 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    laureNicole28 laureNicole28 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Booked my nails and hair :) This is really

    happening!!!!!! Tomorrow my boyfriend arrives to his final port and will meet his relief. He has finally finished. There are no words to describe the pride I feel for his amazing work--I can't wait to celebrate his homecoming!!!!!
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 Aug 11, 2014

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    My sailor will be here in less

    than 20 minutes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! To say I am freaking out is a total understatement lol...his family wanted first dibs so Friday was moved to Sunday but it doesn't matter anymore but the reunion is basically here. I'm going to cry and he hasn't even arrived...
    waiting4mysailr waiting4mysailr 26-30 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    all I have been able to do today is cry.

    he hasn't even been gone a week. but he hasn't start a school yet and they aren't telling him when he will start. which means I don't know when he can come home and all I can do is think about him. why does it hurt this much
    Tinktinkrox Tinktinkrox 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Said goodbye to my boyfriend of three years

    yesterday as he went into basic training. It was so hard to see him go but I am so proud of him. Hope these 8 weeks go by fast😓
    jhendricks jhendricks 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F Jan 10

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    I am about to go see my sailor!

    only 1 day left! I am so excited to see him but also extremely nervous, he is picking me up from the airport.
    kristiw10 kristiw10 18-21, F Jan 26

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    Eighteen More Days UNTIL I'm able to hug my SR

    again:) I'm so excited and proud of him!! September 5 couldn't come any closer!!!! Hurry Hurry!!!
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 18, 2014

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    Acceptance

    I haven't talked to him in over a week. This is the first deployment I've ever had to go through with him. Before I met him, I knew nothing about the military & didn't really care. The last person to be in the military in my family was my grandpa, back in like the 50s. I have...
    ncon08 ncon08 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    my boyfriend is leaving in 17 days

    for his first deployment, I am absolutely miserable that we are going to be separated for 8 months, how do I mentally prepare myself ?!
    verronicat verronicat 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    finally heard from my boyfriend thank goodness

    i was worried sick and now i can calm down..
    laureNicole28 laureNicole28 22-25, F a week ago

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    So I found out my boyfriends next duty station.

    I live in Florida and his next station is Norfolk, Virginia. I mean I guess it could be worse but it feels like a giant weight on my chest. That's about 11 hrs from me and with me going to college it's gonna be hard. Love takes sacrifices. I just wish it could be easier...
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    I have five months with my guy

    before he is leaving to join the Navy. I'm already freaking about about starting college and how to live my life knowing he won't be there for most of the next five years. I just feel sad. I know I should juts focus on the now but it's hard.
    kendra904 kendra904 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I am so happy i got to talk to my sailor on the

    phone last night once he got to hawaii... staying positive
    jasmineh95 jasmineh95 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Sometimes, I Wonder...

    There are times I wake up in tears.I can never remember the nightmare that caused them- bits, pieces, but never enough to piece together what occurred entirely. Then I begin to think, and my mind wanders instantly to him. I remember exactly the way he looked in his uniform, the...
    nerdygirl92 nerdygirl92 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2011

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    Going to bed with a smile on my face.

    One day closer to seeing our loved ones!! Stay positive ladies! We can do it!;)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2014

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    I saw my sailor today one last time .

    ..Hes leave tomorrow morning for hawaii... It breaks my heart to see him go...
    jasmineh95 jasmineh95 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Had to say good bye to my boyfriend

    as he went back to basic training, it was the hardest day of my life! Every time he leaves I swear my heart gets broken a little more! 😭 miss him so much already, everything is making it so hard! And all I can do is put on a "mask" in public and act as if everything is...
    CanadianNavyGF CanadianNavyGF 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    So very thankful to have spent Christmas

    and New Years with him. Couldn't of asked for anything better. But the early morning goodbye really hurts a ton. Hard to see him leave again when all I could really use right now is for him to hold me and reassure me everything will be alright. It's really hard to be so far...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 2

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    SamShamp SamShamp 18-21, F Aug 16, 2014

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    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    I am no longer a Navy girlfriend.

    As of yesterday I am a Navy wife :D keeping it under the radar from our families and had to share with people who I knew would genuinely understand and be happy for me :)
    SailorLove92 SailorLove92 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY SAILOR TODAY!

    !!!!!!!!! So beyond happy!
    hayjays64 hayjays64 18-21, F Apr 17, 2014

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    My boyfriend is leaving

    for basic in 33 days and i don't know what to expect.. freaking out...
    Rajhasmith Rajhasmith 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    Todays the day i get to see my sailor living

    his dream of graduating Navy Boot camp. Im so excited to see him!! Only a few more hours!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F Sep 19, 2014

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    It's easy to walk away

    and date a civilian. But instead, we check our phones every second hoping for that five minute phone call or three word text message. We break down and cry when we miss him. We force that smile because the pride and love for our men is stronger than anything else. We cherish...
    Savanahjoy Savanahjoy 18-21, F Aug 4, 2014

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    I'm so thankful for you all.

    I'm glad I'm not alone in this journey <3
    cwaldhoff14 cwaldhoff14 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    Anyone that expects it to be like the movies no

    it's not .... It hurts way more so much more.
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 18-21, F Aug 12, 2014

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    my sailor graduates from basic on Friday,

    but I just found out he has to stay in Great Lakes for another month or so before he gets to go to A school, because they messed up some of his paperwork. has anyone been in a similar situation? I have no idea if he'll have more freedom or if he'll be able to have his phone or...
    navygirlfriend7 navygirlfriend7 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My bf is just about to go to A school

    and I stressed about deployments and how often they happen
    jennalynn123 jennalynn123 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    We are talking about marriage!

    I'm so excited within the next year we will be engaged and I'll be following him wherever he goes. I haven't told anyone yet, because ik they won't really understand. But I'm glad I have you ladies to share this exciting news with!:)
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2014

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    i miss my sailor havent heard from him in a

    little bit but i know that this life is hard but im willing to do it all for him...im sick with worry but hopefully i get an email soon...
    laureNicole28 laureNicole28 22-25, F Feb 4

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    I'm not a girlfriend anymore!

    ! ❤😊😊😊 My sailor popped the question today. He completely surprised me on my vacation. He made our initials in the sand and got down on one knee. I'm so happy and very proud to say that I'm a navy fiancée! ☺ Im super excited and I will try to post later when I can...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    He's been deployed 3 months 4 more to go ugh I

    miss him so much this really sucks:(
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 3

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    12 hours and 8 minutes till graduation!

    Gah I'm so excited to see my sailor!!
    TheGirlWhoWaits TheGirlWhoWaits 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    just found out last night

    that hes leave was approved. hes back in my arms tomorrow its been 5 months already.
    tiffanyznf tiffanyznf 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Hey guys, my boyfriend keeps telling me he

    wants to get married and we talk about it a lot but then when I ask him why he hasn't married me yet, he just says "I don't know" this has been going on for about a year now, and I don't know if I should keep getting my hopes up when we talk about it or not because I just don't...
    jackex17 jackex17 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    As Valentine's Day Approaches...

    I have always thought Valentine's Day was stupid, but it makes me miss Mikey, of course. I was talking to some of my friends about what they are doing etc.. I was just thinking how lucky we are, their men will probably never write them a love letter. Our civilian girlfriends will...
    jenmac715 jenmac715 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 5, 2011

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    I'm new to this. My boyfriend of a year (who I

    already know I will marry) is leaving for bootcamp in May. I am a freshman in college 4.5 hours away from home and I won't be able to be home when he leaves... I know that most of y'all have already been where I am right now and honestly, I guess I'm just looking for some type...
    sarahcatherin15 sarahcatherin15 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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