So technically I'm just a fiancée, but I really need advice from those who have dealth with it before.
He has finished the sitting in a dark cell listening to loud Mexican music and being beaten and drenched in ice water stage...
So he was able to contact me today, he says his wrist, ankles and the tops of his feet are bruised and hurt badly.
Tomorrow I think is the de-brief of sorts.
Anyway my main concern is what to do when he returns. I'm not worried about huge changes but I'm a bit worried he won't want to see me for awhile afterwards. We don't live together right now (we are waiting for our respective leases to end)
Should I give him time? Not text him until he texts me?
I said I'd give him massages and cook for him. What more should I do? Or more importantly what should I not to?